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Sooooooo, a lot of people want to know somethings... and I am here to tell you something.

It has been a LONG TIME! I wanted to come back to making my podcast and chatting with y'all but I wa honestly holding myself back from doing so because I was waiting for everything to be perfect... Y'all know how that goes..

This has been a hot topic all over social media. It's obvious, everyone has their own opinion on it. 'Men should lead a woman in relationships, thats their job, they're the provide and protectors...' These are just some things I hear, but here is my perspective on it.

Chemistry can be defined in many ways, depending on what you're looking for in life & relationships. Everyones definition is meant to cater towards what they want in life... But I have learned that you need more than just one aspect of chemistry to make things work..

Growth is beautiful.. The more I grow, the more I value the privacy I have and innerstand the positions I play in peoples lives. Don't over stay your welcome in peoples lives, let me tell you.. You may end up learning a huge lesson. Some people your only there to plant, others to water, and some to harvest... but not all three

You ever told your friends/family/SO something and it comes back to bite you..? You get those "I told you so's" or that un-asked for opinion on what THEY would've done in the situation.. OR, they cannot let go of what YOU went through, so they try to keep you stuck when you already moved past it?? Yeah... me too. That's why I no longer talk to many people about what it is I am going through.. I just journal it.

The growth is real. And when I tell you, these karmic situations are EXCEPTIONALLY REAL! With the men I dealt with in my life..they give some of the same traits. And these patterns do not go unnoticed. But as I continue to gain more experience... I lessen the amount of time I deal with these situations.

It has been a while.. I have been in a major transition period in my life and learning about the divine feminine and evolving into it at this time is DIFFERENT! I am blessed for all experiences but I am just learning the divine feminine is hard to be in without the security of the small things. Lets just talk about it.

Thank you all so much for hanging in here with me. I know it has been a while but Im still alive

Everyone wants love.. And everyone has been hearing about manifesting it into your reality. But most of what you've been taught on how to manifest it, is wrong.. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

There is so much to be learned through embracing the Divine Feminine, for both men and women. The power it brings is inexplicable. Within the Divine Feminine you have to find balance... and that is a struggle for most..

I know some of y'all have been judged based on your past. Past decisions, past actions... But do not be ashamed! Don't allow people to bring you down because they can't face their own traumas from their past... --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

We are all here to have a human experience. You would be surprised at what the work you do can do for you. But also when it comes to listening to your friends issues... Did you ever stop to think they just wanted you to listen, and NOT give your 2 cents

I get tired of hearing the questions and comments about being happy and it cannot be because of myself.. Let me set the record straight. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

Love can be strong.. But it can be annoying. Have you ever lived with your partner? Do you want to live with them..? Listen to this first. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

I am so grateful to have you all here. This episode took a turn, for the BETTER. You never know what is going to come up, or the how you may switch paths; but this episode does that oh so well. I had to be OPEN MINDED to it though.. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

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SHOP MY CLOTHING! https://ilikeitrawshop.com/ Let's talk about the fact that society teaches us to fabricate everything about ourselves. You got to break out of this.. No more fabricating conversations, how you act, how you talk... NONE OF THAT! NO MORE FABRICATION!

Lets talk veganism. Is it good long term...? I was vegan for a year and some change... This is my experience. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

This topic my be a trigger for some.. But you have to we willing to listen. I'm giving you the krabby patty formula. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

It is difficult.. Seeing as though, love is the only thing that is real in this world.. Letting go of true, reciprocated love is even more challenging. We are all learning as we go... It's just hard to tell if you're making the right decision sometimes.. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

We all go through things. We all cope with things differently. But the way I coped with things was unhealthy, and I know that. I still tend to face these challenges today.. And here, I just want to be honest and open about it. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

Ladies... I am gone keep it real... You let niggas play you.. But hear me out.. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

First, Happy Women's Month! Let talk about women. Let's talk about women's equality. Let's talk about what needs to change. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

It's heartbreaking, the fact that the some of the most difficult lessons you learn come from family first. Your own family will attempt to deter you from your true calling.. Do you take what they say to heart, or do you fuck that shit and do what you're supposed to do? I hope you pick the second choice. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

There are so many things that matter to me. Friendship being one, because it is the foundation to everything else that follows. And considering how the US operates, I don't see why marriage is considered what you do when you love someone.. They want to see who you're tied to, so they can get a bigger bag! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

Look, I don't know a lot about history, and I am going to keep it 100! I am not here to front like I am expert on any of this. They do not teach you about BLACK HISTORY in SCHOOL! Let me tell you, I barely passed history as it was... But I can tell you the fact history is attempting to repeat itself and changes need to be made if we want a different outcome. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

Knowing that there are many that support what you do, makes you feel good. Knowing that you're following your true path makes you feel great. When you combine the two, you can feel invincible.. Support is the declaration of love. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

Life is full of a lot of twists and turns. And yes, I was pregnant... WAS. And for the anti abortion activists, you can kiss my ass and hit the X on the episode if you feel you're going to be too butt hurt to have an open mind and respect other peoples decisions. Anywho, here is my experience. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

Y'all when I tell you that these experiences are essential.. This man is the best I have EVER HAD! Ladies...Men, if y'all are missing out you better go get your shit together and get you some. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

We all went through a lot during 2021. Especially considering the times now and everyone being stressed because of the situations going on. You have to detach from this... live your life and be happy.. Over come the adversities. Let me tell you the ones that I have overcame. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

I know others have encountered that some of the people close to you don't support you. Even though you support them and what they create... Trust those questionable feelings do come up.. But trust me when I tell you, don't let it discourage you. You WILL come across the RIGHT ONE who will help you get to the next level... And you wont have to ask. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

Nothing gets more under my skin than someone who doesn't know what something is, you explain it to them and they seem to mock you afterwards... Like come on now, what was the point of you putting on the facade as if you had interest. There is nothing wrong with asking questions but when you start to do all the extra with it.... --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

***TRIGGER WARNING*** ***THIS EPISODE IS NOT FOR THE LIGHT HEARTED*** I cannot stress enough that it all starts with the parents!! I know we have all been teased and I know you all can recall the feelings it brings up when you think about it. We must do better... YOU MUST DO BETTER! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

There is a lot to uncover in this episode. But the fact that I already talked about men needing to be alone, this episode will reiterate that. Women's judgment on each other need to stop.. and what really causes failed relationships.. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

I swear this stuff has become numb to me. Realizing it's the fact that for so many, this is why they have some many un-opened doors.. Experience can show you somethings.. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

No NIGGA!! My name is NOT baby girl. It's Mikala, and if you would've ASKED me, I may have gave you the opportunity to know. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

Y'al let me tell you about my experience.. Stop under estimating what a dancer has to do and go through.. Listen up. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

Let me be honest with y'all. Some people have such a simple minded thought process. And there are those that refuse to learn and do their research... Well here is some knowledge for that a$$.. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

Crazy how the people we so call friends and family are typically the ones that will do us bold.. Backstabbers...backstabbers!!!! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

People go through stuff. What is really sad about a lot of these situations, is the fact that people don't feel like they can talk about what they went through. There's a multitude of reasons that people may feel like this, but for me my family wanting me to KEEP MY MOUTH SHUT about what happened to ME, was the reason. But I am done. Done protecting those that don't protect me. I have alway's been there for those who needed me and those I FELT needed me. Being an empath is like that, but it's time to put myself first... --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

Y'all I been through it. Multiple dry spells in my previous relationship. Like DAWGGG what the fuck!! I thought something was wrong with me!! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

Salute to all the single fathers out here! I feel like you all do not get nearly enough credit for being a single parent. People act like doing your daddy duties is something different from that of a woman.  Honestly, a father's job maybe just a bit more difficult..  What do you think? --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

If you haven't listened to the previous episode, you need to! This falls in line perfectly.. Old people are too damn nosey and judgmental!  Your age doesn't garner you the right to run that big ass fucking lip! Chill out before you get cussed out for real.. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

I know this issue with old people cannot be getting ONLY under MY skin. Why do older people believe that being an ELDER or ELDERLY garners them automatic respect... Then they feel like they can talk to how ever they please. I think you all know by now, I do not roll that way. You're dang on right, I am not afraid to let these OLD people know either.. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

People have such a surface level definition of masculinity and femininity. Understand that this goes past appearance... Also, the definition of balance.. what is that? --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

Now PLEASE DO NOT LISTEN IF YOU ARE GOING TO BE TRIGGERED! People will try and sway you with many things in both church and religion. I had a lot of questions when I was growing up in regards to all this, and once I went within I found them. We are all entitled to our opinions and sharing our experiences... here are mine.. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

Have you been enduring turbulence within relationships and wonder why they are happening? Have you ever thought to turn and look within for the question you are looking for an answer to? Are you going to accept what is happening to you? Let's chat.. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

So, I do not know about you, but personally... It's not my cup of tea. They do so much to control the population and the mind... let's chat. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

Things happen to everyone. Different lessons come from different experiences. Being homeless was one of the situations that catapulted my spiritual awakening.. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app