Welcome to the show for men that is here to offer a bit of direction for those men who are motivated to improve themselves but may need a little guidance. While society attempts to constantly mold us into the version it feels most comfortable with, I believe that through trials and self study we can become the version of man we were meant to be. We should do more than just inherit our manhood.
I like people who educate their minds while also maintaining a certain level of wild, capable insanity. Rod is that type of dude! Follow him on Instagram @deadgunnerpoetry and prepare yourself to buy him first book release in the near future. If you don't, he will find you!
This is me taking a few moments to thank any and all of my past guests. I am a better version of myself because of each and every one of you.
My guest for this episode is Barry Randall. He is first and foremost a friend. He is also a husband and father, a police officer, surfer, rugby player and the guy behind Operation Soul Surf, which is our main topic for this chat. Enjoy!
My guest for this episode is a mother and a warrior poet. Amy Sexauer is the author of a book of poetry called Poppies. Beyond prose is a leader and woman of grit. She is one of the most impactful guests I've ever had on the podcast.
Sean Daugherty joins me on this episode to talk about life and the journey he's taken through it. I loved chatting with Sean and I hope you enjoy listening to him.
My guest today is kick ass! Ryan Hendrickson is the type of guy who has figured out the truth. That sometimes life isn't fair, but it doesn't owe you a damn thing, so you better start figuring it out. Enjoy!
I love having on guests who have done extraordinary things in life. Even more than that I enjoy stripping away the titles and letting you get to know who they are as a person. My guest for this one is Billy Clark, an awesome guy with a phenomenal approach to life.
The third episode in the four-part series on famous speeches. War is a disgusting thing that should, at no time, be celebrated. Not just because it is horrible for those humans lost and/or affected. But also because it benefits those amongst us who exist only for what greed can give them.
The second episode in the January speech series is based around "Letter From a Birmingham Jail" by Martin Luther King Jr, who was one of the greatest Americans to have lived and led.
For the month of January I want to dive into some speeches I believe are truly important in American history. Up first, George Washington.
Dr. Alice Atalanta joins me for the first episode of 2022 to talk about her amazing work in the world of Special Operations, as well as her charity work, love for horses and boxing. Alice is a true bad ass!
I am often asked about the books I'm reading, as well as how I set up my reading list, so here you go.
I'm not sure on many things in this world, but I am positive that leadership is a choice.
Should men fight? How to tell your parents you're joining the military? Is Reading List 2022 ready? Is flying a cool career? I answer things like this.
I am really excited that my guest today, Major Chris Davis, agreed to be a part of a discussion on Theodore Roosevelt. By day Chris is a Marine Corps officer & lawyer. In his free time though he's an avid reader, which is what connected us. A former president, rancher, Rough Rider, outdoorsman and winner of a Nobel Peace Prize. He even survived being shot while giving a speech. He is almost a myth, almost. Luckily Chris is helping explain how Roosevelt did more than just inherit his manhood.
One of the best things about having this podcast is getting to know my guests. I'm a better man after getting to know Tyler Heisey, who joins me for episode 164. Tyler served, honorably for seven years in the US Marine Corps. What impresses me most is that he's navigated & battled through his time in (and just as important) out of uniform. He is now giving back to others through his character, as well as through his personal coaching, through https://www.backazimuthsolutions.com
My guest today is a man who spent a few decades serving his home country of Australia. Troy Knight was one of the original Combat Controllers in the Australian Air Force Special Forces. While he may be the bearer of many accolades he is a humble man who continues to serve others through advocating for mental health. Also, my friend is a soon-to-be published author! Be ready for HAVOC-06 to drop early in 2022! https://www.troyknight.com.au
Matt Beaudreau is many things, including a podcast host, educator, keynote speaker, and entrepreneur. But most importantly, he is a good man who is leading young men from the front. This one made me better, as a man, leader and follower.
Someday this reading will be explained beyond just its simple message.
My guest today is someone I am a big fan of. Phil Sussman has had an interesting journey to where he is at the moment, but the best part is he's still moving forward. After giving him a listen, please go find him on the various social media platforms he's on, or at his website. https://liveamericanyogi.com
“A good teacher is like a candle—it consumes itself to light the way for others.” -Mustafa Kemal Ataturk
My guest today is many things, but first and foremost, he's a good man. Sergeant Major Matt Parrish has been honorably serving in the US Army as a member of Special Forces, for just under two decades now. Our conversation dives deep into leadership, accountability, podcasting, and the human side of service. It also ends with a pep talk that still has me wanting to strap on a helmet and step between the hedges!
What we need are human stories, which leads to human connection.
One of my favorite dudes, Aaron Love, stops by for round two! We're talking about leadership in the Type A worlds we tend to operate in. And cereal, because it's one of life's true joys.
Someone recently told me they couldn't come up with anything interesting to do as a hobby. I figured why not bring up a few ideas.
I'm not begging you to begin reading, if it's something you don't already do, but I'm definitely asking you to do so in a begging tone.
Is your personal drive coming from somewhere positive or negative?
I figured I'd mixed things up from the often serious episodes. Here's a story from a ridiculous time in my life.
You asked me questions, including if I liked tiramisu. I've answered.
At the point where the court meets a tunnel at the US Open in New York, rests a bronze plaque. It simply states, "Pressure is a Privilege".
If you're in a leadership position, you are responsible for setting the tone.
This is a bit of a dive into the section on leadership, from the document I wrote, labeled, "One Airman's Perspective". Enjoy!
My guest for this episode is someone who I am proud to bring on the podcast. Why? Because I believe not only is he a good man, an incredible speaker and a tremendous podcast host, he is also someone who guarantees you the listener gets an unreal amount of value from his words. Please check out his podcast, ACTA NON VERBA and also his book, The Gift of Adversity.
If you've been watching the news then you're aware of how awful things are in Afghanistan at the moment. You may also be aware of the incredible work individuals-from all backgrounds-are doing to help others survive. One of these people is Worth Parker, who is part of Task Force Dunkirk. I hope you enjoy this episode and I also hope you take the time to see what incredible work so many are doing behind the scenes, as well as those brave men and women on the ground.
Have you ever heard someone say, "Your job isn't to be creative, it's to do what I tell you to do". Yep, I'm sure we've all heard a weak version of a leader say this...
My guest for this episode is Frank Lara, a Gunnery Sergeant in the United States Marine Corps. He grew up in a small town in Texas, then joined to serve as an infantryman. Just as important is his dedication to his family and also to serving his community. During his 15 years he's had the opportunity to serve in multiple units and roles, including his current one as a recruiter. I believe you can learn a lot from his service, his work ethic and without question his positive outlook.
The Book of Five Rings is a simple read, written nearly 400 years ago by the greatest samurai of all time, Miyamoto Musashi. I've pulled five quotes (one from each scroll) to discuss. If you like this and want to buy the book, here is the link to the version I used. The Book of Five Rings
If you want to learn to control your emotions, you need to understand them.
The final part of the three part series talks about the thing we never want to deal with as a coach or a player; losing.
This is part two of a three part series on coaching. Not the X's and O's but the subtleties and nuances of coaching athletics. This on tin particular was a lot of fun for me to do because I think this topic is overlooked quite a bit by newer coaches.
After a few requests for a deep dive into my thoughts on coaching sports, I've decided to wade on in. This is the first of three parts. The focus is on understanding your roster. The next part will be on the differences in role players and star players. The final will focus on losing seasons and/or a big loss.
JC Glick is someone I believe offers you the listener quite a bit. Why? Because I learned a ton in just one hour that I know I can apply in my personal approach to life. JC retired from the US Army as a Lt Colonel, both in infantry units, as well as time serving as an officer in the highly respected Rangers. He is now a partner & leadership & cultural advisor for Prodromos Leadership.
One of the best lessons ever taught to me (by a past podcast guest) was to remain humble, hungry and curious.
Dealing with bosses, in any profession, can be tough. But first, you need to be able to examine who your boss is and determine what type they may be.
The title for this one will suffice as the description.
I came across this book recently, Sober Man's Thoughts, by my guest, William Bolyard and knew that I needed to reach out to him to be a guest. His writing style is awesome, but just as awesome was getting to shoot the shit with him. Enjoy a conversation between two dudes who enjoy books, drinks, dysfunction and so much more.
One of the things I've noticed as a trend is veterans talking about transitioning out of service and into the university scene. My guest today, Dr. Luke McClees, is the Director for the Office of Military Affairs and Services at Saint Leo University. The work he does for his fellow veterans (he served in the USMC) is truly important. It also helps that Luke is a good man and someone who enjoys serving others.