LippieVent

Short and sweet episode

Excuse the low vibrations. Get it off my chest: No more people giving up and i need to know when the rules change during dating. OMJ(On My Journey) tonight its all about the money. me trying to figure out how to serve my purpose and profit from it. I've already worked the dead end 9 to 5s. I'm at the age where I want to hustle differently for my money. My goal is not to be rich but i am after wealth, independence, and just doing it my way.

Nothing irritates a woman soul the way "that time of the month" does. Mines is no different; hate this imaginary emotional monster. But thats not the only thing i had to get of my chest, Valentines day is coming. And pleaseee with everything going on and to celebrate black history month, lets keep the positive vibes going. On your journey you need to keep the vibrations high, thats how you find your purpose. You have to believe this path your taking is for a better you. The type of you, maybe you didn't know existed. or the kind of you whose purpose in this lifetime is to save/serve another in some kind of way. Least that's what i got from it.

I had a lot to get off my chest but my tone of voice and the word "Hard" really got under my skin. Episode 2 is really where I'm at in life. Starting over, rebranding, revamping, and whatever other word use for TRYING IT AGAIN. It sucks but, it's worth it to try again. Even if that means scrapping the first idea and coming up with twenty more. It's ok we're Starting Over

I'm back Suga But with a different formula. I'm still getting shit off my chest, giving it to you how i see it. I'm back with more topics to make you think outside of the box. And im back to bring you along my journey of becoming a life coach and an author. This time around we are not going to focus on being celibate, but we will talk about it. I thank you for listening to me and pray you get take something from it, even if its a laugh. Click the link to see whats going on with me. https://linktr.ee/LippieR

I'm back and my blue balls are gone.  On this episode i admit some things and come to terms with the truth.  I give my opinion on the state of our communities and the deaths happening, why certain conversations dont need to happen, and why cant I have the person I want.  And even after 411 days of living a sober life, I lived alittle, and still happily single.  I've come to terms with my past and I'm ready to live life.  My original mission has been altered but the marathon continues.  I'm focused on my business, being a better mom, and nothing negative.  Thank you for listening and love you down suga. ***I do not own the copy rights to the music.****. But this song by Kaash Paige Frank Ocean fits. Follow my page https://www.facebook.com/LippieRose and email your thoughts at awholelotoflip@gmail.com https://linktr.ee/LippieR

I did it, a full year under my belt and I'm proud of myself. It's hard to admit you have a problem when you're focused on everyone but you. But when you give yourself that same tender loving care you served others, you can heal. A brief look into how it started, how I went, how its going, and what I want.***I do not own the copy rights to the music.****. But this song by Kaash Paige Frank Ocean fits. Follow my page https://www.facebook.com/LippieRose and email your thoughts at melody@awholelotoflip.com

Instead of asking why someone likes, what they like, people assume they know. Assumptions that come from old myths and standards. That does not have any real value or weight. The only way to really know the reason behind someone's desires is to ask. I confess my attraction for women is different lol. But genuine.

Get ya sh!t off: sexually constipated while being mentally frustrated is a bad combination.  People keep asking are what you waiting for. But at this point, I'm not even sure what the hold up is. On my journey:  I want to know how soon do you introduce your girlfriend/spouse to your family.  Because I've decided I do not want to meet anyone relatives till its wedding time. Email me Melody@awholelotoflip.com to enter my Digital No heart left behind raffle. Tell me your ideal relationship/situationship for a chance to win a Toy box. ***I do not own the copy rights to the music.****. But this song by Kaash Paige Frank Ocean fits.

I have a confession and its probably the last one of this kind. Cause I am over it lol. Tune in. Email me Melody@awholelotoflip.com to enter my Digital No heart left behind raffle. Tell me your ideal relationship/situationship for a chance to win a Toy box.

Long week but I'm back. Get it off your chest: 2021 vibes don't be afraid to move. I'm trying to understand where people loyalty lies and why sex has lost its appeal. On my journey I wonder if I'm taking to long or moving at the right pace. In my opinion it's not time for me.

Get it off my chest: Brief update on this journey.  10 months in, I have learned so much about myself.   It's important to know what you want, offer and can tolerate from someone.  It's even better when the past does not cloud your judgment.   Even though I do not like it here, I have grown to appreciate the value of waiting for something good. Confession time:  The last time i was with a guy............ ***I do not own the copy rights to the music.****. But this song by Kaash Paige Frank Ocean fits. Follow me on awhole_lotoflip on Instagram, Twitter celibacy_muse or send me your thoughts at mymuse02020@gmail.com.

Get your sh!t off: The dating game, being celibate, and trying to understand why people want to settle for bad situations...... have me dumbfounded. On my journey: Never say never.  2020, I am grateful for the lessons l learned, the people I lost, and the adventures gained.  Being sexless was not a waste but a struggle I learned to love.  Before you can invite someone into your world; clean that sh&t up.   In this pandemic, I found my passion without sex clouding my judgment.  I stepped out on faith and did everything the past decade stopped me from.  May not have been the best year but it was one full of nesseccary lessons.    ***I do not own the copy rights to the music.****. But this song by Kaash Paige Frank Ocean fits.

The crush with no face, full of arrogant energy, and controls the tempo..........The ruler in the BDSM world

In 2020 some people have overlooked these timeless beauties. But my W.c.W goes to the women 50 and over. They have a certain sex appeal most younger women have not mastered yet.

But I'm coming back stronger in 2021. 9 freaking months and I've learned so much; I'm ready for more. Got my sh!t off for the last time before I unwind on my journey. I'm manifesting better things for 2021. See you then ***I do not own the copy rights to the music.****. But this song by Kaash Paige Frank Ocean fits. lotoflip.tumblr.com email me at mymuse02020@gmail.com

So sorry for the wait, Technical difficulties but my W.c. W is here. They are called many different things but they remind me of wet dreams behind the screen.

Get your sh!t off: Sensitive assholes, pre-judging, and continuing to break down these unnecessary walls........ has been on my mind. Keep in mind, you can not see the future if your past is blocking your present. On my journey: Pu&&y cost, rather it's with money, emotions, and time. It's the oldest profession to date but the one we judge the most. I've been in my business bag and I understand why some people choose to pay. ***I do not own the copy rights to the music.****. But this song by Kaash Paige Frank Ocean fits. lotoflip.tumblr.com

Dedicated to the Divas in the sky. My crush this week goes to the flight attendants. ***I Do Not own the Copyrights.*** But Juss Right by Raheem Devaughn fits.

Get it off your chest: Took a break from my journey to get some sh!t off my chest. It's ok to do a Temperature check when you are interested in a woman. It's ok to be wrong and even better when you correct yourself. Now I know it's taboo but, it's ok to pay for sex(Adults only and if you can afford it). And it's perfectly ok to come from a horrible background, and blossom into a beautiful adult. After a much-needed nature break focused this week on doing. ***I do not own the copy rights to the music.****. But this song by Kaash Paige Frank Ocean fits. lotoflip.tumblr.com

They are so misunderstood but magically talented. I call them the Pillow Princess Keeper, Master of Pleasure, and when they get in their bag I call them Daddy D&ck. ***I Do Not own the Copyrights.*** But Juss Right by Raheem Devaughn fits.

Get ya Sh!t: The importance of respecting one's opinion, Agreeing to disagree is important for any conversation. Some of the way 90s view on love and life makes me sad. And Don't judge my box. On my journey: let's talk about it before we prejudge. My opinion on a few things most people tend to talk negative about. Like the word daddy, is it offensive or misunderstood. Straps and the ugly POV on them. Old vs younger women and the different sexual demands. And If mental stimulation were a person, they'd be touch me nots. ***I do not own the copy rights to the music.****. But this song by Kaash Paige Frank Ocean fits. lotoflip.tumblr.com

No matter what you call her; BBW, Diva, Covered and classy, Thick, Plus size, Fine, Fatbulous, Muffin......... the list could go on. And they would still be drop dead gorgeous. ***I Do Not own the Copyrights.*** But Juss Right by Raheem Devaughn fits.

Get yo sh!t off: Back from an emotional break with plenty of time to think. Before I get into my journey give a brief update. Being single has to be better than being a revolving door. Also altering your body for someone else's approval is a popular thing; but not necessary. On my journey: Too many big girls question their self worth for a date. We have always been a popular secret, but in 2020 it is time to let it go. Stop thinking big girls are the only ones with low self-esteem. Everyone has them and skinny DO not mean pretty. As a fat ambassador, I have built my confidence to an untouchable level. Sometimes you have to be your biggest fan before you add on to the team. In this episode, I preach confidence, it is key. ***I do not own the copy rights to the music.****. But this song by Kaash Paige Frank Ocean fits. lotoflip.tumblr.com

My Buffy the body, mommy makeovers, body builders, a$$ and abs, weight warriors, flab u less, lean queen, and personal trainer crew. To the women on a health journey or a weight transformation or the tone&tight..... you are amazing and beautiful ***I Do Not own the Copyrights.*** But Juss Right by Raheem Devaughn fits.

This week I had more sh!t to get off my chest than anything. Dating in 2020 is based more on materialistic value than love. We didn't have the same chick, and friendship with your ex; or not. On my journey is on pause. Every year I mourn the death of my grandmother. This year I'm determined to celebrate. Need a brief intermission to reset my mind. November 3rd I'll be back and better. ***I do not own the copy rights to the music.****. But this song by Kaash Paige Frank Ocean fits.

**Tupac said the blacker the berry, the sweeter it's juice.** He was right y'all. I don't care what the world calls them. Today we will refer to them as Black Diamonds, Rulers of Melanin, Chestnut beauty, Cocoa brown, Midnight Queen, and my precious Ebony. ***I Do Not own the Copyrights.*** But my Black Diamonds Juss Right by Raheem Devaughn fits.

*Draining week, sorry in advance for the tone. Get ya Sh$t off: Do not invite your self to my table. Compromise or not, and comparing/subtracting in the healing process. On my journey experiencing a spell of bitterpuss. Most women are suffering from it and don't know. You might have it if you are harboring I'll, resentful, negative feelings from past relationships. I know you call it warning signs for the future. But perhaps that wall you built up is a bitter blocker keeping people out. Least I did. Hard topic to admit but that's a part of the healing process. I give opinion on the cause&effect, symptoms, resistance, and possibly a solution ***I do not own the copy rights to the music.****. But this song by Kaash Paige Frank Ocean fits.

Exotic Dancers, Strippers, Burlesque queen, Dom entertainers, bump-and-grinder, ecdysiast, peeler, striptease artist etc. Whatever you want to call them, I freaking adore them. ****i do not own the copyrights of this music.****. But if they only knew

Get ya sh!t off: Assuming a-holes. Another month down and BS that came with it. On my journey: Discussing my attraction to women and why being bi does not work for me. The choice to love who you desire to be with no matter what. I thought about why the bisexual male is frowned upon, even with 2020s ‘do anything' motto. And I take a trip on a cloud on what my ideal situation would be like. Fun facts(disclaimer, tad rocky but hopefully you get the point). People who are bisexual want you to know; you don't know squat about them. I managed to deep dive into a few. ***I do not own the copy rights to the music.****. But this song by Kaash Paige Frank Ocean fits.

Crush of the week goes to..........The uniform and the studs who wear them

Get ya sh!t off: When do you unleash your freak move, Lies people tell, trying not to cuss, and asking for to much. On my journey: the different ship options to think about when dating and being celibate. Figuring out what I want and need to be ok. If more than one partner is for me. And my ultimate goal is marriage but I'm enjoying the healing process. Fun facts about the polyamory word. * ****I do not own the copy rights to the music.****. But this song by Kaash Paige Frank Ocean fits.

I adore them. Studs, Doms, AG's, tomboys and some people say they wanna be men. I don't care what you label them, I absolutely love them. The way they smell, dress, act, and have big d$ck energy...... even if they have to suit up.

Get ya sh$t off: Your standards are not mines, replacing traditions, I like what I like. On my journey: Being sexless while dating is a blessing and a curse. The tone of the dating scene is sexually motivated. I'm learning to let go of my old feelings to embrace new ones. I'm learning to compromise on what I need in a relationship. And I'm learning what kind of relationship i want to indulge in. I may have to let go some of the things I want for what my heart needs. I end it with my idea of the perfect girl. No fun fact but I hope you enjoy. * ****I do not own the copy rights to the music.****. But this song by Kaash Paige Frank Ocean fits.

Bald head &big butts

What to do after you've reached a huge milestone???? Who the hell knows. But I've had one hell of a week figuring it out. Get ya sh!t off- Bittersweet, No house calls, Eat what you like. On my journey- The morning after and I'm still going strong. Still taking it one day at a time in this dry world. I talk about the temptation being thrown my way. My anger levels are out of control but I'm not breaking. New vs old and more. Fun fact

Celibacy has me thinking on different lifestyles I've lived. From being a swinger to learning the gay community. Developing my love language and Thumper time clock. Breaking myths about the gay community . So many assumptions. ****I do not own the copy rights to the music.****. But this song by Kaash Paige Frank Ocean is the shit. and not enough facts.

You have to be proud of the little steps you take to make life better. People may not understand why/why you're going through. Maybe it's hard for them to understand How you got there. And that's ok, they didn't have to go through the bs to heal either. BUT you did, I did and we may have fallen but I got my fat ass up and kept pushing. Never say never, anything is possible. I freaking did it, 6 months down.

PArt 2 of my swinging phase. Get ya sh&t off: it's the approach* pu$$y is not free* penetrate me On my journey I explain the business side and what ruined it for me. Celibacy has shown me the brick walls I have in place. In my mind, I was protecting me. Not realizing the friendships I was pushing away. And my 6 month mile stone. Fun facts~Swinging edition, the definition, rules, and what a swinger look like.

Get ya sh$t off: My weekly celibate rant. On my journey: How my curiosity and being a big girl shaped my opinion on sex. My introduction to the swinger lifestyle, dipped in chocolate ****I do not own the copy rights to the music.****. But this song by Kaash Paige Frank Ocean is the shit. Fun facts: Masturbated lately? Backdoor action, and wet dreams turned silent orgasms.

Let's admit that sex is a powerful thing. On this episode I talk about the hold sex has hold over my life choices. Get Ya Sh!t off- unloading this fu@kstraition, Power of It- get to the real reason being celibate is needed after awhile. What do you know? 5 fun facts about sex

Five months down, and 34 on the way I'm happy to be plain ole happy. I'm getting into the podcast groove, falling in love with life, and still f$$&ing celibate.

In this episode, I give a brief layout of Lotof-Lip.  As well as introduce myself and the reason for my vow of celibacy.  Feel free to share your celibate goals at Awholelotoflip@gmail.com.  Your secret is safe with me

Keeping America in my prayers, brief intermission.

What it means for me to be celibate. Introducing Melody and all the crazy thoughts being nut less brings