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What do unqualified advice givers do? Start a podcast. What do single people do? Give relationship advice. That's how this podcast was born. Menage-a-Pod is a hilarious new podcast about dating, sex, relationships and everything in between, hosted by Gena (IG@genagrish, former HuffPo Dating Columnis…

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    • May 24, 2021 LATEST EPISODE
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    Latest episodes from Menage-A-Pod

    "Friends In The Zone" with comedians Zako Ryan and Hannah Roeschlein

    Play Episode Listen Later May 24, 2021 71:33


    This week we are joined by not one, but TWO, incredible guests.  Friend of the pod and three time guest, Zako Ryan (comedian, podcaster, regular at the Laugh Factory and Zanies, producer of Sorry for Killin at the Lincoln Lodge IG@zakoryan) and Hannah Roeschlein (comedian, podcaster, 1/2 Asian hoosier, part time Chicago comedy killer, full time Indiana comedy boss, IG@handerpumprules) for one of the funniest episodes we've ever recorded.  Listen in as we discuss the friend zone.  What is it?  Can you get out of it?  Or just listen to Zako drink prosecco, Hannah eat donuts, and the four of us cracking up through it all!  Strap in!  It's a good one! To see Tj's monthly show at the GMan Tavern in Chicago on May 27th, click HERE To get tickets to Zako's monthly show, Sorry For Killin, at the Lincoln Lodge on June 10th, click HERE To check out the hottest new streetwear from this month's sponsor, check out www.tichy.store and tell them Menage-A-Pod sent you!  

    "Fleabagging" with comedian and podcaster Ryan Kimble

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 19, 2021 65:55


    On today’s episode, we talk about the popular dating term, Fleabagging, with hysterical comedian and podcaster, Ryan Kimble. Ryan gives us a vulnerable look into his relationship (sorry, Ashley!) and shares some questionable habits of his. We also talk about how to correct these behaviors so you’re breaking the cycle. This is a fun one guys, enjoy!  Follow Ryan on IG@HRKComedy To listen to his podcast "The Perfect Drink" and find him all over the internet check out his Linktree HERE

    "The Power Dynamic" with Comedian Jordan Power

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 5, 2021 77:01


    This week, we're joined by comedian, podcaster (Unmentionable Podcast) and author ("Famous Anus" & the upcoming "My Therapist Sent Me Nudes"), Jordan Power.  He talks about his decision to live a life of outrageous openness and shares some of the wildest and most hysterical stories from his debauchery filled 20's.  This is a wild one, so strap in! Follow Jordan on Instagram HERE

    All in the (Royal) Family

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 22, 2021 45:36


    This week we catch you all up on the world of Gena and TJ and then dig into two scandals that have been all over social media in the last few weeks.  Listen in for Royal Family takes and we weigh in the the J Lo / ARod controversy.  It gets SPICY!!!

    "We're Not Your Only Fan(s)" with Comedian Ariel Julie

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 23, 2021 67:07


    This week we are joined by comedian, figure model, bookworm, & self proclaimed grilled cheese connoisseur, Ariel Julie.  She stopped by to talk about her start in comedy and her time spent nude modeling, as well as her decision to start an Only Fans account.  We also talk about what it's like to balance a relationship when you have a creative hustle that potentially leverages your sexuality! TJ role plays emotional stability and Gena is rocking our new merch! For all things Ariel Julie, including links to her Instagram and Only Fans, click the link https://allmylinks.com/arieljuliecomedy

    "F*ck You Haiku" with author Kristina Grish

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 2, 2021 46:15


    On today’s episode we have author (and Gena’s sister!), Kristina Grish, talking about her newly released book of breakup Haiku, as well as the impact a chronic illness can have on relationships.   I pluck the petals He loves me, he loves me not Eh, who gives a sh*t   Buy Kristina's book at the link below Buy F*ck You Haiku on Amazon   The Pangea Educational Development Charity

    “Talking TikTok, Bad Hinge & The Snack That Smiles Back” with Amelia Samson

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 12, 2021 87:05


    Sometimes, Gena's quarantine TikTok obsession pays off and this is one of those times. This week we're joined by the hilarious and lovely Amelia Samson.  In addition to creating hysterical and relatable TikTok content about dating and her sometimes underwhelming experiences on the apps, Amelia is an actress who co-hosts a sex positive podcast (same, girl!) called The Hoely Hour (clever!)  Listen in as we talk about healing from breakups, men doing the absolute least on Hinge and Bumble, and Amelia breaks down TJ's Bumble profile. Find Amelia on TikTok, Instagram and Twitter @ameliasamson Follow her podcast on Instagram @thehoelyhour Check out the rest of her links at HERE

    "It's The End Of The World As We Know It...And We Feel Fine"

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 6, 2021 38:06


    Gena and TJ put a bow on the shit show that was 2020 and recap the year, for better or for worse.  We talk love, loss, and...dog anatomy??? (LOL) 2020 might have been tough but at least we can still laugh about it!  Grab a drink and join us in saying goodbye to a year we're never going to forget.

    "When 2020 Is A Bag Of D*cks" / Thanks Coronavirus

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 21, 2020 52:15


    ...and not the good kind. If you’re like us, you would have thought COVID would be a distant memory by now as we are almost a year into it. Sadly, that’s not the case and even with the vaccine on the horizon, will we go back to life and dating as we know it in 2021? On today’s episode, Gena and TJ talk about the changes to the dating landscape, good (and warm) date spots this winter that won’t get you muuuurdered (like inviting a stranger to your house for a first date could), and some bullshit called “slow dating” that Bumble coined. Watch Joke, Roast and Toast - Exes Edition

    "It’s Been A Minute"

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 16, 2020 46:29


    Hi friends! It’s us! Do you remember us? We know it has been a minute, but COVID has hit Chicago hard (us included!) so taping and lining up guests has been tough. Today’s episode is just us...unless you include our antibodies and then that makes the ménage.  TJ and Gena catch up on life, recent heartbreaks, life changes, and random shit. Thanks so much for the continued support! We love you guys!

    "Dating Across The Aisle"

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 28, 2020 44:54


    With the election right around the corner, it seemed relevant to address a topic that has faced many of us as we date.  What should we do about dating someone with different political beliefs?  In this political climate, is that even possible?  Do you think someone having the opposite beliefs is a red flag or deal breaker? Listen in as we discuss this and more! We also talk about Venmo stalking, chance encounters with internet people across Chicago (Hi AR!), Gena's mom's love of QVC, and make an exciting announcement about some new merch!!   DON'T FORGET TO VOTE!!!

    "Backshots, Chivalry, Flirting and Everything In Between: Topics Edition" with comedian TJ Stokes

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 12, 2020 63:37


    On today's episode, we have our friend, comedian, and one of the best people we know, TJ Stokes! He cohosts a show called Topics On The Streets, with friend of the pod, Darrian Lewis, that Gena will be on coming out Saturday, so we wanted to do a crossover and flip the script! We cover topics such as, is flirting cheating? Is chivalry dead? Do you have a type (hint: Ass. That's all it takes, apparently)... and so much more. Drink everytime you hear the word "backshots." Enjoy!   If you want to see today's guest live at Zanies in Chicago AND come say hi to US (we will be there!) on 10/17 you can set your tickets HERE!

    "Don't Call It A Comeback"

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 5, 2020 42:02


    We're back from a three week, foster dog induced, hiatus to talk about the debate (spoiler alert - watch it on edibles), questionable social media habits, boredom swiping, our appearance on the "Doing Time" Podcast with Drew Loryn, TJ's return appearance to stand up, and Gena accuses TJ of editing abuse of power! 

    “Coin purses, P*rn, and Earning Your Red Wings” with Darrian Lewis

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 7, 2020 79:20


    You guuuuys! Today's episode is the first post-quarantine in-person recording in 6 months! We had so much fun taping this episode with Darrian Lewis, co-host of the podcast B Posi+ive: The Chicago Stories and the co-founder of B Posi+ive Productions, that we actually recorded it twice (yay technical difficulties)! Things got weird, guys. We caught up on how TJ's first stand up show went, all things "coochie", period sex, porn, and can men and women really just be friends? Get ready to laugh until you cry. We're back in full force, baby!! Let's go! 

    "He Went To Jared" with Jhovany Diaz

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 24, 2020 70:28


    Twice. He actually went to Jared twice. Jhovany Diaz, host of Lobo Den podcast, shares his stories on today's episode about how he was engaged twice, the times he has paid for sex, and hitting his rock bottom in Miami. Toward the end of the episode, we also answer a few burning listener questions. Hang onto your butts guys...it's a wacky episode.   

    "Slide Into My..." with Zako Ryan

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 18, 2020 81:48


    Get your minds out of the gutter! We are talking about sliding into DM's, jeeze. On today's episode, we have fan favorite Zako Ryan back on the pod! We talk about the face of comedy in the midst of COVID, TJ's comedy debut, Gena's stalker, Zako's love of butterfly kisses down below, and the right and wrong ways to slide into people's DM's.    Follow Zako on Instagram here and follow his web series, Zako and Zeus, here

    "Living in the Gray" with Winnie Hefner

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 10, 2020 75:06


    On today's episode, we talk to Winnie Hefner in all his non-binary finery. He's host of the podcast Winnie's World, a podcast about what it's like to exist as a non-binary person in today's world. We dive deep into the importance of normalizing pronouns, his and TJ's love of TikTok, how important it is to live your authentic truth, and what it's like when love and sexuality isn't so black and white (OMG! See! See what we did there? Living in the Gray- get it?!? Sometimes we really outdo ourselves).  Follow Winnie on Instagram@winnie.wears.what

    "Not The Worst Marriage" with Sara & Sterling Buckley

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 27, 2020 72:19


    On today's episode we talk to Sara and Sterling Buckley - high school sweethearts turned teen parents. After 17 years and 3 kids together, they started a podcast called Not The Worst Marriage, that may or may not teach you anything other than marriage is hard, but if you are willing to put the work in, you can overcome anything (including infidelity). We talk to them about maintaining your own identity during a relationship, opposite sex friendships (we are a pod divided on this), and how to keep a relationship healthy and happy in the most realistic ways possible. Follow them on Instagram @nottheworstmarriage and follow Sara at @nottheworstmom to keep up to date on all the fun things they are working on.  You can also find their podcast anywhere you listen to podcasts.

    It's In The (Mail)Bag

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 21, 2020 45:25


    On today's episode, we dig back into the Menage-a-Pod mail bag, or as it's known to women all across the Chicagoland area, TJ's DM's. We are answering questions about dating after a divorce, tackling sex in the time of COVID, FWB's, how soon before you can stop using condoms, and partners with attention hungry animals. What more could you want to hear about on this lovely day besides our voices tickling your eardrums and tackling these burning topics? If you have a question for our next mail bag episode, please DM us @Menageapodcast on IG and we will answer your questions on air! 

    We're Loving It

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 1, 2020 51:37


    Loving Day is an annual celebration held on June 12, the anniversary of the 1967 United States Supreme Court decision Loving v. Virginia which struck down all anti-miscegenation laws remaining in sixteen U.S. states. In the United States, anti-miscegenation laws were U.S. state laws banning interracial marriage, mainly forbidding marriage between 2 different races, until the Warren Court ruled unanimously in 1967 that these state laws were unconstitutional. Chief Justice Earl Warren wrote in the court majority opinion that "the freedom to marry, or not marry, a person of another race resides with the individual, and cannot be infringed by the State."  This week we are joined by Brandon and Indira, an interracial couple in their first year of marriage. We talk about their journey as a couple, navigating the potential landmines, the impact of microaggressions, and we talk about the importance of difficult conversations. For my information and resources please check out the link below linktr.ee/NationalResourcesList

    "We're Baaaaaack"

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 22, 2020 59:58


    We're Baaaaack!  The podcast dream team you've grown to know and love over the last 18 months is FINALLY back!  This week we talk about our other podcast appearances (B Posi+ive, The Big Gay Round Up, Singles Only), Gena checks back in with an update on someone from her past, TJ updates us on all things dating app (peenworking anyone?), and we talk about dating as a (fully single) Coronavirus survivor (Spoiler alert - TJ lived to tell his tale and now has a dating super power!)   

    "Coronavirus and Chill" Dating in The End Times - Special Episode

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 16, 2020 42:57


    This week we talk about the topic on everybody's mind...the coronavirus.  Can we still date, get a little freaky and still keep #socialdistance?  We give you those answers and more, some helpful tips for the epidemic, and then we go back into the mailbag and you guys didn't disappoint. Finally, we talk about the newest dating app for guys...but the catch is your penis has to be smaller than 5.5 inches!?! I feel like this goes without saying (LOL), but do not mistake our advice for actual medical advice.  Click the link below to see the CDC's recommendations for minimizing risk with coronavirus. :https//www.cdc.gov/coronavirus/2019-ncov/prepare/prevention.html    

    "Catch of the Day" with CEO and Founder of Catch, Vince Surdo

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 10, 2020 61:54


    This week we're joined by Vince Surdo, the CEO and Co-Founder of the new dating app based in Chicago, "CATCH".  We learn all about this exciting new app that prioritizes location based in person meet-ups that will be going live on the Apple Store soon, talk about the dating app landscape, Gena gives us all Coronavirus, and we dive deeeeeeeeeeeep into the mailbag! Follow Catch on Instagram @catchdating Follow Vince Surdo on Instagram @vincent.surdo44 Check out our store and get a call-out in an upcoming episode by going to www.teespring.com/stores/menageapodcast and buying a piece of our new merch!

    "Tales From A Megabus Contortionist" with Comedian Lindsey Shaw

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 2, 2020 76:50


    In our 60th episode this week we are joined by the hysterical Lindsey Shaw (writer, actor, comedian, IG@linsasha).  We talk about the dating apps, her "Mid to Late" webseries, wanting a partner who is more established, her "transient, gypsy, hooker phase", before diving deep into a listener mailbag!  Grab your drink of choice and listen in!! Buy Tickets to Lindsey's Show on March 5th FB Event Page for Lindsey's March 5th Show at The Irish Oak

    "Crushing It" With Comedian Deanna Ortiz

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 24, 2020 53:34


    This week we're joined by Chicago Comedian and host of the hysterical Crushes! podcast, Deanna Ortiz.  She teaches us how to play "Hot or Just Tall", we talk about our celebrity crushes, try to figure out why we all love the British so much, and TJ GETS CANCELLED!! Follow Deanna Ortiz on Instagram HERE Follow her podcast, Crushes! with Deanna Ortiz HERE Check out Deanna's website to find out about her shows HERE

    "Don't Get All Choked Up" With Comedian Ken Hamlett

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 17, 2020 57:49


    This week, we sit down with comedian Ken Hamlett (Host of A Drunken Night Out Podcast) and talk about our favorite kink (Consensus is?  Hint: A great forearm workout), tell a couple "worst night of drinking" stories (car accidents AND TJ poops his pants), and discuss why some men just cannot orgasm from oral sex.  Strap in guys, this one gets a little wild! Learn more about Ken at www.kendalehamlett.com or follow him on Instagram at http://www.instagram.com/kenhamlett  To support Menage-A-Pod go to our new web store and pick up official merch at www.teespring.com/stores/menageapodcast

    "Still Peacocking" With M.A.P. All Star @GQ50

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 10, 2020 73:41


    In this week's episode, past guest, friend of the pod and Menage-A-Pod All Star, Josh (@GQ50 @thetravelguydes podcast), stops by to catch up on all things dating and relationships (he also made us omelettes...swoon), weigh in the J-Lo / Shakira Halftime Show controversy, and just be as generally charming and likable as we are all used to!  You know what to do!  LISTEN NOW!!!

    "Gena Gets TRIGGERED!!!"

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 3, 2020 58:21


    On today’s episode, it’s just us OG’s catching up on our lives, current events, and of course, talking shit. Apparently, TJ is involved in a online thrupple of strangers that may or may not get him killed and Gena is over here making power moves with old flings. It’s a good episode to listen to while nursing your Super Bowl loss and massive hangover. To see the recap video from our first live event, "More Than Just A Quickie" (A Speed Dating and Chicago Social Event) from Overheard in Chicago (IG@overheard_in_chicago) featuring Menage-A-Pod click HERE We also announced the launch of our official Menage-A-Pod Merchandise!  If you want to support the show, there is no better way than picking up a piece of our new merch.  T-Shirts, Hoodies, Coffee Mugs, Throw Pillows, Stickers, Phone Cases and more are available featuring the "ICONIC"(LOL) Menage-A-Pod Bubble Logo! Click HERE or go to https://teespring.com/stores/menageapodcast to find out more!!  

    "Turning the Tables" with Andrea Rappaport

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 28, 2020 55:15


    This week we are joined by the delightful and absolutely hysterical Andrea Rappaport (IG@theandrearappaport, blogger, comedian, entrepreneur, podcaster@thewerkwivesofficial).  Listen as we discuss overcoming embarrassing situations on dates from listener mail, share some REALLY embarrassing stories of our own, talk about some techniques you can use to get past being embarrassed on a date, and then Andrea turns the tables and puts her interviewing chops to work by grilling TJ and Gena about past indiscretions.  Is this the week we finally make a break through???  Listen in and find out!! Follow Andrea on Instagram here Follow her podcast The Werk Wives here

    "Comfortable In My Crazy" with comedian & podcaster Be Casper

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 20, 2020 82:25


    This week we are joined by Chicago comedian Be Casper (IG@Be_Casper), host of the “That Time I Got Arrested” podcast (IG@thattimeigotarrested) and all around sweetheart and deep thinker. We talk about what inspired her to start the podcast, about how we are ALL broken, how that affects relationships, and what everybody’s plans are for a possible apocalypse! You know what to do. HIT THE PLAY BUTTON!!! You can see Be this week performing stand up in Chicago at My Buddy’s on January 22nd, End of the Line – Sedgwick Stop on January 25th and later at Parlor and Ramp, also on January 25th. Follow her on Instagram for more details. Come check out one of the brightest and funniest minds in Chicago comedy.

    "Parents Just Don't Understand" with Comedian Dan Cass

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 13, 2020 67:51


    “I can’t wait to get married and spend the rest of my life being judged by your mother.” There comes a time in all serious relationships when it’s time to meet your partner’s parents. In an ideal world, everyone would get along, enjoy the holidays together without bickering, and have family dinner’s without someone throwing a roll at your head. Unfortunately, most of us don’t live in an ideal world. So, in today’s episode, we talk to comedian Dan Cass (IG@dancasscomedy) about what it’s like to date someone and not get along with their parents and what you can do to effectively navigate the land mines. Check out Dan at the Love Below Comedy Show at Beermiscuous (2812 N Lincoln Ave, Chicago, IL) the 1st and 3rd Thursday of every month! The Speed Dating Social Event with Overheard In Chicago at Goat Climb and Cryo on January 25th from 6-9pm sold out yesterday in two hours so there will be no link to that event.

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    "Goodbye 2019, Hello 2020!"

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 6, 2020 48:19


    This week Gena and TJ look back at the best and worst 2019 had to offer and give their two cents.  Relationships, social media, the best restaurants of Chicago, and some of our favorite creators across Chicago also get call outs!  Say goodbye to the dumpster fire that was 2019, and say hello the the dumpster fire that is 2020.  #NewYearSameUs

    "Thank You, Next " with Overheard in Chicago - Best of 2019

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 30, 2019 73:21


    In our most popular episode of 2019, we're joined by the beautiful and hysterical duo from Overheard in Chicago (IG: @overheard_in_chicago) as we discuss red flags and dealbreakers. Does he live in a carpeted studio apartment?  Red Flag.  Does he cut his tacos with a knife and fork? Red flag! Is he having you over to his girlfriend's house when she's out of town? Dealbreaker x 10. Also, how many yellow flags make up a red flag? Is there anything that can make up for a red flag (Big Dick Energy? Money?). We explore all of this and more, so grab your drink and settle in for a doozy.    If  you have a topic you want us to explore, or have any questions you want to ask – you can write to us at: menageapod3@gmail.com  or TEXT us at (872) - 221 - 2083. Please rate, review, and subscribe to us on any of the devices that you listen to! Facebook www.Facebook.com/menageapod Follow us www.instagram.com/menageapodcast Follow us www.twitter.com/menagepod Follow Overheard in Chicago at www.instagram.com/overheard_in_chicago

    "The PRSUIT of Happiness" with Case Kenny - Best of 2019

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 23, 2019 45:19


    We wanted to end the year with our most positive episode of 2019! I know what you're thinking. Menage-a-Pod is doing an episode that is full of rainbows and kittens? That's so not on brand! BUT WAIT! Don't go anywhere, because this episode is a really good one and is a refreshing change from the norm. This week, we talked to self proclaimed "dudebroguy with perspective" Case Kenny (@case.kenny).  Case is a writer, influencer, entrepreneur and founder of PRSUIT (@PRSUIT), a daily email full of perspective that inspires and is dedicated to helping you become the badass human you’re meant to be. He's also the host of the podcast, "New Mindset, Who 'Dis." And if that's not enough for you to check him out, then go stalk his IG page and check out this man's muscles. You can thank us later. We talk about vulnerability, being happy with who you are, why it's important to embrace your ho phase, and not being afraid to shoot your shot to get what you want.  And don't worry, we will be back to our regularly scheduled snark next week.     To receive daily messages from Case and PRSUIT, sign up at https://prsuit.com/   Join our listener group on Facebook at https://www.facebook.com/groups/333406473962378/   If you have a topic you want us to explore, or have any questions you want to ask – you can write to us at: menageapod3@gmail.com or TEXT us at (872) - 221 - 2083. Please rate, review, and subscribe on any of the devices that you listen to! www.instagram.com/menageapodcast www.twitter.com/MenagePod

    "You Did What?!" with Comedian and Storyteller Bridget McGuire

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 15, 2019 70:32


    This week we're joined by Chicago comedian & storyteller Bridget McGuire(IG@bmcguire82) who shares her unlikely story of getting into the Chicago stand up scene at 37 and some of the wildest bad date stories we have ever heard! Strap in guys, this one is not to be missed! To read Bridget's article that is mentioned in the podcast go to: https://medium.com/@bridgetmmcguire/stand-up-comedy-is-making-me-fat-and-broke-10-gains-and-losses-of-my-first-year-in-stand-up-e35a5acbee  

    "Let's Talk About Self-Care" with Jen Zanotti of the Jen Z Podcast

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 9, 2019 59:28


    On today’s episode, we are talking to delightfully positive Jen Zanotti of the Jen Z Podcast about self care and how important it is to make sure you take time out for yourself and tune into what’s important in your world, so that you can be a better partner for not just your significant other, but in all relationships, from friendships, family and even co-workers. Jen is an Esthetician and Make-up artist, owning her own business “Jen Z’s Beauty & Wellness Services”, since 2007, and recently completing her certification in nutrition. She is also a Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu purple belt athlete, competitor & instructor. She loves being able to combine her passions of beauty, wellness & jiu-jitsu all in one! Her mission is to help EMPOWER, INSPIRE and MOTIVATE others to live a happier, healthier lifestyle. Nutrition, fitness, self-love, beauty, reiki, goal setting and positive living are key areas of focus with her clients. Find out more about Jen at: https://embrace-amazing.com/ Follow her on Instagram at www.instagram.com/jzbeautyandthebeast

    "Coming Out On Top" with Jacob Wells of the Big Gay Round Up Podcast

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 27, 2019 69:14


    Happy almost Thanksgiving everyone! That has nothing to do with our episode today, but it had to be said. This week, we talk to Jacob Wells (@jacobmwells), host of The Big Gay Roundup Podcast (@biggayroundup) about celebrity crushes, and we spill some tea about Vanderpump Rules, who’s had the best Botox treatments, coming out in his early 20’s to extremely religious parents (he's a preacher's kid), and how Hydrate is a shit show of a place that we hate to love.  If you want to find out more about Menage-A-Pod, head over to our Instagram @menageadpodcast, where you will find our Linktree that includes links to our Facebook group, Twitter account, website, top episodes and more. Finally, a quick thank you to everyone who makes this show happen and of course, YOU for downloading and listening to the show. Until next time, share us in your IG stories, retweet us, share our FB postings, and find other ways to tell a friend about Menage-A-Pod. And of course, good luck out there!.  

    "We're All Mad Here" with Comedian Drew Loryn Soffer

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 18, 2019 73:30


    Today's episode gets a little heavier than normal for us here at Menage-A-Pod. Considering 1 in 4 people in the world will be affected by mental or neurological disorders at some point in their lives, we sat down with Drew Loryn Soffer (@drew.loryn on IG) of the incredibly insightful and informative podcast, Doing Time (@doingtimepodcast on IG) to talk about mental illness, addiction, how prescription drugs play a role in every day life, coping with mental illness, and how mental illness can affect your relationships. She's incredibly open and honest about her experiences with this difficult topic. If you or someone you love lives with a mental illness, give this one a careful listen. Listen to Doing Time on Apple Podcasts https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/doing-time/id1479079214   

    "The Ex Encounter" Minisode

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 11, 2019 35:47


    This week we are in the studio all by our lonesome, trying to get past TJ being really tired, slap happy, and obnoxious and derailing the episode at every turn, as we discuss what to do when you're in a relationship but people from your past keep reaching out.  Should you tell your partner about every contact every time, let them know about the tone and promise it's innocent, or cut it off before it goes somewhere it shouldn't?  Surprisingly, we both agree on this topic...Sort of.  It's cold in Chicago, so grab some hot cocoa and listen in for a funny, short episode that might feature the world's best beat boxer!?!

    "All Tied Up" Take 2 - With Dominatrix Sophia Chase

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 4, 2019 67:40


    Due to some scheduling conflicts this week, we decided to re-release one of our most popular episodes ever, featuring one of the sexiest and most badass woman in Chicago.  You're welcome! On today's show, we have on the incredibly badass, sexy, yet unassuming, and all around cool chick, Sophia Chase (IG@lovelyladysophia). Sophia is a professional Dominatrix and owner of Chicago Dungeon Rentals. She is celebrating her tenth year as a dominatrix this year and we couldn't be more excited to have her on the show to talk to us about her decision to become a Pro-Domme, what got her into the BDSM lifestyle, how YOU can ease into it, her favorite sex toy, and she also gives us a lesson on how to perfect dirty talk, which TJ totally nails (just wait for it...). Phew! Is it hot in here, or is it just us?    www.ChicagoDungeonRentals.com/  www.ChicagoFantasyRentals.com www.twitter.com/DungeonRentals www.instagram.com/ChicagoDungeonRentals www.facebook.com/ChicagoDungeonRentals www.fetlife.com/ChicagoDungeonRentals Email: info@chicagodungeonrentals.com   Join our FB Group to share stories, contribute to episodes ideas, answer dating and relationship polls, and potentially be a guest on our show at: https://www.facebook.com/groups/333406473962378/   If  you have a topic you want us to explore, or have any questions you want to ask – you can write to us      Email:menageapod3@gmail.com or TEXT us at (872) - 221 - 2083. Please rate, review, and subscribe on any of the devices that you listen to! www.instagram.com/menageapodcast www.twitter.com/MenagePod

    "Drunk (or not) In Love" with Katie Tomaszewski

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 29, 2019 57:02


    Today we talk to Katie Tomaszewski (Instagram@deeplinehealth, www.deeplinehealth.com) about what it's like to venture out on a journey of sobriety and what it's like to date when you aren't having that personality drink before, during, and maybe even after depending on how the date goes. I seriously can't even imagine. So many coffee dates. This is usually when I would suggest pouring a glass of wine and settling in to listen, but I don't like to be an enabler, so let's try something different this week...make yourself a nice cup of tea instead. Your liver will thank you later for it.     

    "I'd Like To See You Again"

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 21, 2019 46:06


    For today's episode, it's just the two of us and we are talking about getting to that coveted second date. What does that entail? What should you not do? Honestly, the jury is still out as it seems like we disagree on a few points, but that's to be expected. You know, Mars/Venus and all.         

    "BOO!! Now You See Me, Now You Don't" with Blogger/Influencer Jess Zimlich

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 14, 2019 67:13


    Why don’t ghosts think puns are funny? Because they’re dead inside. GET IT? So many puns, so little time. On today's episode we are being seasonally appropriate by chatting with blogger Jess Zimlich (www.26andnotcounting.com / IG@26andnotcounting) about ghosting; why people ghost (Maybe they get spooked? Ok, ok, I'm done), how not to ghost, and how to handle the rejection. We even share our most cringe-worthy ghosting stories for your listening pleasure. Recommended pairing for today's episode is a flannel, a pair of leggings, and a grande PSL.  #basicbitchforlife   Today’s Episode is brought to you by TBOX 2019! 12 bars of Xmas is right around the corner! On December 14th in Wrigleyville come join us at the Worlds largest and longest running bar crawl It’s almost that time so get dressed in your favorite holiday costumes and come party with thousands of your friends! This year’s theme is meme and there will be contests, free swag, drink tickets, great specials, performances by Stache, Hairbangers Ball, Ultrabeat, all day Karaoke, appearance by Chance The Snapper’s hero Alligator Bob, celeb appearances, and more. 100’s of couples have met at TBOX and gotten married- so you never know who you may meet Go to tbox.org/menage or type the code menage in to save $5 off ticket prices!   In support of our new sponsor, we are running not one but TWO contests to win a pair of tickets to TBOX 2019. The first way you can win, is by submitting your best “Ghosting” stories with the BEST submission winning a pair of tickets and all submitted stories will be credited and read live on an upcoming episode. The second way you can win, is by writing a review of the podcast on Apple Podcasts, taking a screenshot of your review and then sending it to us through DM or at menageapod3@gmail.com. The winner will be chosen at random and announced on the air during our December 2nd episode!    

    "Body Count and We Don't Mean Muurrrrdddeerrr" with Comedian Jamie Shriner Biddle

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 7, 2019 57:03


    On today's episode we have on Jamie Shriner Biddle (IG@jamieshrinerbiddle, stand-up comedian, co-producer of Shady Babies @North Bar and Comedy Uncensored Naughty Thoughts at The Laugh Factory, and creative force behind the musical “Wife Material”) to talk body count. Surprisingly, we aren't talking about murder this time, though you know how much we love a good true crime pod. Instead, we mean it in terms of sexual partners.  Are people still having that conversation with their significant other? If so, are you honest about your number? How many is too many? Should you be counting oral? Did I forget to eat breakfast this morning? So. Many. Questions!    

    "Bye, Bye, Bye!" with Comedian Dario Durham

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 30, 2019 66:12


    On today's episode, we talk with comedian Dario Durham (IG@dariodcomedy, regular at My Buddy's, co-host of the @b__positive_ Podcast) about getting over your ex. There are so many reasons to get over your ex and we could have talked for hours about it, but we had other important things to discuss like, throwing sperm around the room, the plight of having a giant forehead, and stalking people on social media. We laugh a lot on this episode and Dario's positivity really shines through, so get ready to start your Monday with a smile. You can thank us later.     

    "The Secret Is..." with Comedian Kenyon Adamcik

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 23, 2019 57:49


    On today’s episode we talk with comedian Kenyon Adamcik (@kenyoncomedy on IG, producer of @derailedcomedy at the Laugh Factory, and cohost of @illseeyouinhelp podcast) about his views on self help, some of the methods he has been forced to try for the good of his podcast, and drinking your own urine. Yes, you read that right.  Because apparently, the only way to fight off disease is to drink the very thing your body is expelling. We. Just. Can’t. Ew.       

    "No More Mr Nice Guy" with comedian Alexa Jaeger

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 16, 2019 57:45


    On today’s episode we talk about “The Nice Guy.” Who is he? What’s he like? Can you really date him? Should you date him? Is he really that nice? So. Many. Questions. All of which will be answered on today’s show with our amazingly funny guest, comedian, and producer of Shady Babies at North Bar and Comedy Uncensored Naughty Thoughts (C.*.N.T.) at the Laugh Factory - Alexa Jaeger (@alexajaggs on IG)   TJ is riding in a charity motorcycle event on September 29th to benefit Prostate Cancer and Mental Health Charities, called the Distinguished Gentleman's Ride.  Please donate to support this wonderful cause at the link below https://www.gentlemansride.com/rider/ChicagoCafeRacer   If you want to find out more about Menage-A-Pod, head over to our Instagram @menageadpodcast, where you will find our Linktree that includes links to our Facebook group, Twitter account, website, top episodes and more.    

    All In The (Podcast) Family

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 2, 2019 69:24


    Hey friends! As the days start getting shorter and the weather gets cooler, we are also nearing the end of our summer hours and we wanted to celebrate you guys getting more of us back into your lives weekly by sharing a fun all star episode! This week, we caught up with past guests Ariel, Daniel, and Jennie over a boozy brunch filled with very funny stories, big life updates, and a ridiculous game of Never Have I Ever.  Vibrator Link  https://www.amazon.com/Vibrators-Waterproof-Rechargeable-Stimulator-Vibration/dp/B07GZHJ3NL/ref=sr_1_1?crid=1MS1COJ31NL7J&keywords=tracy%2Bs%2Bdog%2Bclitorial%2Bsucking%2Btoy%2Bpink&qid=1567434651&s=hpc&sprefix=tracy%2Chpc%2C301&sr=1-1&th=1  

    "The No Good, Very Bad Date(s)" Listener Stories Part 3

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 19, 2019 48:13


    We're back at you from the ivory tower this week with a fan favorite!  Another round of listener submitted bad stories, as well as some funny dating stories in the news!  Have tacos become cliche?  Are lattes and anal the Netflix and Chill we never knew about it?  Bill Cosby makes a surprise appearance and you're not going to want to miss that!  Is dating and being on the apps making you miserable?  You're not alone, so strap in for episode #35!!!

    What’s Love Got To Do With It

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 5, 2019 104:28


    A lot! Along with patience, forgiveness, communication, and a ton of fun adventures. On today’s episode, we talk to newlyweds DJ Doran (President of NEMA, Host of The DJ Doran Show (DJDoran.com) and President and Founder of Diversitas Media) and Joe Morales (Creator of the website Joe Eats World (podcast coming soon!) and chef extraordinaire) about what goes into having a 17 year relationship? Warning, the bourbon is freely flowing and you know what that means! Tangents! You’re welcome!

    "Let’s Talk About Sex(ual dysfunction), Baby" with Dr Jennifer Rafacz

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 21, 2019 56:00


    In today’s episode we chat with Dr Jennifer Rafacz, (Ph.D. in Clinical Psychology, M.S. in Clinical Psychology, Sexual Health Certificate/Sex Therapy, American Association of Sex Educators, Counselors, and Therapists (AASECT) Certified Sex Therapist) about sexual dysfunction. What is it? What’s causes it? How do you talk to your partner about it? Is it “normal”? So. Many. Questions. And now thanks to Dr Rafacz, we’ve got all your answers to your burning (hopefully not when you pee) questions.    Join our Facebook group at   https://www.facebook.com/groups/menageapod/   Learn more about Dr Rafacz and the services her practice offers at the link - https://www.family-institute.org/therapists-locations/staff/jen-rafacz  Or visit them on Facebook at https://www.facebook.com/tfinu   If  you have a topic you want us to explore, or have any questions you want to ask – you can write to us at: menageapod3@gmail.com  or TEXT us at (872) - 221 - 2083. Please rate, review, and subscribe to us on any of the devices that you listen to! Website: http://menageapodcast.libsyn.com Facebook: www.Facebook.com/menageapod Follow us @menageapodcast on Instagram & @MenagePod on Twitter  

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