Single Living

In this episode of Life Be Lifing, I'm taking you on a journey through my career, from the very beginning all the way to where I am today. I'm opening up about the moment I finally quit my job to follow my passion, and how I made it from high school in Jersey to college at Clark Atlanta University, where I started building the foundation for my career. You'll hear all about the internships that kicked it off—working behind the scenes on The Maury Show and The Mo'Nique Show—and how those early experiences led me to work with some of the biggest names in entertainment. From Lil Wayne and 2 Chainz to Gabrielle Union and Melyssa Ford, I've been blessed to collaborate with some incredible people along the way. This episode is all about overcoming fear, taking risks, and the messy reality of building a career from scratch. Tune in for the highs, the lows, and the lessons learned along the way. Whether you're in the middle of your own career shift or just looking for inspiration, this episode is for you!   As Always Love! 

This week Sebastien discusses embracing a broken heart and how to heal from it. In this episode, he touches on What To Do and What Not To Do.    Somebody Said:  Shout out to #TheChildThatOwn    Make It Make Sense: Supreme Court has overturned Roe v Wade | 1973   Final Thought: Embracing the #SoftLife    Podcast Social Media IG: @lifebelifing #LifeBeLifing #LifeBeLifingPod   Personal Social IG: @iamSebastien #iamSebastien #AsAlwaysLove

Besties!!! It's my b'day and I'm giving you a FULL life update on my career, love, and self. Sit back relax and listen up. 

Welcome to Life Be Lifing an all-new show besties! 

How do you know you're in a sneaky link situation? You two are not seen in public with your sneaky link The person only answer calls or texts when they are alone Can only link in a discreet place. (hotel, car, at night time etc.) You do not spend time with your sneaky link on major holidays/even   ANNOUNCEMENTS Budget Like Me!  FREE EBOOK https://bit.ly/MoneyMap2020   JOIN THE COMMUNITY  Super Easy!  Let's kee-kee together in the Single Living Community. This is where we can dish a discuss any and everything amongst ourselves with no judgment, join here: https://bit.ly/SingleLivingFB    DROP ME A LINE Jump in my DMs and “DROP ME A LINE” a quick audio question/drop here  @iamSebastien    Find On Social Show: @SingleLiving.Co Guest: @intheairwithblair Host: @iamSebastien     

For the first time, I'm opening up a door deeper into my life. My baby brother joins me on this episode to discuss growing up with me as an older sibling and his experiences. This was an open and honest conversation with no prep.  Let me know what you think Besties!   

We've all been there... that moment you have to let go of a friendship. It's not easy, but sometimes it's necessary. In this episode, Sebastien dives into when it's appropriate to let go of a friendship that's already served its purpose.  Sit back relax & take a listen besties! 

Can you believe it's already been a year since I left my corporate job? This week I'm doing a special life update on things and where I am. Here is my journey. Looking forward to sharing more with you. 

When it comes to astrological intuition and frequency healing, Jhéanell Bloom is the practitioner you need to know. What started out as reading natal charts for fun has morphed into a thriving multi-six-figure business for Jhéanell's AstroHIVE.    The AstroHIVE serves career-conscious women from around the world with the sole purpose of helping them identify and activate their soul's mission. On the surface, Jhéanell is the fun-loving Jamaican-born best friend in your head encouraging you to keep going. In her daily work as a frequency energy healer and psychic astrologer, she is known as the secret sole architect in the lives and hearts of many.    Jhéanell, 33, is a married mom to two handsome sons in Florida.   ANNOUNCEMENTS Budget Like Me!  FREE EBOOK https://bit.ly/MoneyMap2020   JOIN THE COMMUNITY  Super Easy!  Let's kee-kee together in the Single Living Community. This is where we can dish a discuss any and everything amongst ourselves with no judgment, join here: https://bit.ly/SingleLivingFB    DROP ME A LINE Jump in my DMs and “DROP ME A LINE” a quick audio question/drop here  @iamSebastien    Find On Social Show: @SingleLiving.Co Guest: @JheanellBloom Business Page: @AstroHive Host: @iamSebastien 

Candace Blair is the wellness curator and writer at Live Civil who also assists with social strategy. She’s a black woman who is not afraid to go against the grain or demand her seat at the table. She prides herself in her ability to “learn to unlearn” and fervently seeks to conquer the challenge of breaking generational chains. She believes in indulging in self-care and letting go of anything that disturbs your peace. Her experience in various relational settings over the last decade has given her the ability to understand that looking yourself in the mirror is where true wellness starts. She is very candid as well as authentic on her social platforms as she uses her experiences in life to help others. Candace is an avid traveler and enjoys adrenaline-infused adventures. She’s also a philanthropist and believes her purpose in this life is to help others in need.   ANNOUNCEMENTS Budget Like Me!  FREE EBOOK https://bit.ly/MoneyMap2020   JOIN THE COMMUNITY  Super Easy!  Let’s kee-kee together in the Single Living Community. This is where we can dish a discuss any and everything amongst ourselves with no judgment, join here: https://bit.ly/SingleLivingFB    DROP ME A LINE Jump in my DMs and “DROP ME A LINE” a quick audio question/drop here  @iamSebastien    Find On Social Show: @SingleLiving.Co Guest: @intheairwithblair Host: @iamSebastien 

How To Forgive   Pain comes in many forms. You can forgive and still be hurt. Forgive from afar. You’re capable of  forgiving and still not have that person near.     1.) Switch The Focus from Blaming Others to Understanding Yourself Step outside the situation Don't take full responsibility either Process what about the situation is upsetting you?   2.) Learn, Let Go & Be Like Water It's bigger than what it looks like Flow-through the situation Be open to listening Be slow to anger Great response: "I never considered it that way before."   2A.) Let Go of Resentment Resentment wears more on you Letting go is the best form of freedom you can give to yourself Finding compassion   Letting Go of The Story   Where I am today with my brother:  We don’t speak No desire to repair I’ve felt the weight and resentment (this is the challenge) There’s a little coldness and rage from within I think of all the things he was supposed to be and fell short.   Pros  He taught me to learn for myself I grew stronger quicker Think for myself Be more independent Thicker skin Learned how to defended myself with my mouth     3.) Take Responsibility for Your Part It's easy to point to finger at others, but there's always room to take responsibility See where you fit into the equation   4.) Be Kind Instead of Right "If you're going to pursue revenge, you'd better dig two graves." - Chinese Proverb "The ax forgets, but the tree remembers" - African Proverb No one is wrong or right, it unfolds to "what do you want out of the situation?"   He was right in feeling what he wanted out of a brother and so was I.    What I’m learning is that we both felt robbed of the experiences.    Maybe people thought he was gay by proximity or saw him as lesser of a man. Plus with black men being placed on a higher pedestal of masculinity that would make sense.     5.) Stop Looking for Occasions to Be Offended or Vent Stop harping on moments to share the same story That's relishing in the situation Mariah Carey references to her family as her ex-sister, ex-brother, ex-mother, due to "Treating her as an ATM Machine with a wig on" 6.) Send Love Forgiveness is for you Give grace to you and the situation The act of forgiving allows us to move forward without carrying the burden of unresolved issues.   ANNOUNCEMENTS Budget Like Me!  FREE EBOOK https://bit.ly/MoneyMap2020   YouTube Links YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1h_FtyaMIVc&t=1s YouTube 2: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ussAoMPHejw&t=3s    JOIN THE COMMUNITY  Super Easy!  Let’s kee-kee together in the Single Living Community. This is where we can dish a discuss any and everything amongst ourselves with no judgment, join here: https://bit.ly/SingleLivingFB    DROP ME A LINE Jump in my DMs and “DROP ME A LINE” a quick audio question/drop here  @iamSebastien    Find On Social Show: @SingleLiving.Co Host: @iamSebastien