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welcome to the self love letters podcast! my name is shontai cross and i'm 19! every week, we will discuss topics from advice, learning to love yourself, being independent, and so much more! every now and then, i'll have guests to keep things fun and exci

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    • Jul 14, 2024 LATEST EPISODE
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    letter 42: you are truly the creator of your own reality

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 14, 2024 12:18


    lately i feel that a lot of my goals/manifestations have been coming to life & today i decided i wanted to discuss that & all of the things i've learned during the happening! i hope you all took something away from this - sending love always. social media: instagram: @shontai0205 snapchat: @shontaic0205 tiktok: @shontaic0205 youtube: shontai cross --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/shontai-cross/support

    letter 41: we're more then half way into 2024… let's check up on those goals!

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 7, 2024 17:26


    we are already more then half way into the year! how are you doing with your goals? vision boards? today i caught you guys up on my life, lessons i've learned recently and most importantly, gave you some advice & tips to remain inspired and motivated throughout the rest of the year! instagram: @shontai0205 snapchat: @shontaic0205 tiktok: @shontaic0205 youtube: shontai cross --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/shontai-cross/support

    letter 40: why i started a tiktok page (+ i hit 500 subs on youtube!)

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 16, 2024 7:52


    so many wins, realizations and accomplishments this past week! be sure to go follow my tiktok and subscribe to my youtube, i've been pumping out content like crazy & am so excited to share it with you all. social media: instagram: @shontai0205 snapchat: @shontaic0205 youtube: shontai cross --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/shontai-cross/support

    letter 39: one year since i started my healing journey, my summertime plans, and more!

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 9, 2024 15:43


    we all love a good life update episode, so that's what we're doing today! today i sat down and talked all things healing, to lessons i've learned, as well as my summertime plans! social media: instagram: @shontai0205 snapchat: @shontaic0205 youtube: shontai cross --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/shontai-cross/support

    letter 38: the body keeps score | reflecting on where i was this time last year & how i'm feeling

    Play Episode Listen Later May 19, 2024 17:08


    the body keeps score baby! today i woke up in a weird mood, with a lot on my mind, and wanted to share how i was feeling! i even read some of today's journal entry for yall! i hope this helps remind you that you aren't alone & to always give yourself grace. love you! social media: instagram: @shontai0205 snapchat: @shontaic0205 youtube: shontai cross --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/shontai-cross/support

    letter 37: my current favorites | things i've been loving recently

    Play Episode Listen Later May 12, 2024 18:48


    i have tried a lot of new things reverently and wanted to come on & share what i've been loving! i hope this leaves you inspired and wanting to embrace change, as it can be a healthy thing! social media: instagram: @shontai0205 snapchat: @shontaic0205 youtube: shontai cross --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/shontai-cross/support

    letter 36: how i got on a higher vibration frequency & ways you can too!

    Play Episode Listen Later May 5, 2024 28:05


    welcome back! in today's episode, we are discussing all the things i did to get on a higher vibration frequency and the ways you can too. i hope this episode leaves you feeling inspired & feeling good! social media: instagram: @shontai0205 snapchat: @shontaic0205 youtube: shontai cross --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/shontai-cross/support

    letter 35: WELCOME BACK FOR SEASON 2!

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 28, 2024 11:23


    WOWWW!!! welcome back for season 2! i'm so flipping excited to be here and catching up with you guys. here is what i've been up to, what you can expect from me in upcoming content, and all the things season 2! love you all, and i will catch up with you next week! social media: instagram: @shontai0205 snapchat: @shontaic0205 youtube: shontai cross --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/shontai-cross/support

    letter 34: lessons i've learned while on my healing journey!

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 15, 2023 28:53


    while this year has been very transitional for me, and healing isn't always linear, these are some of the lessons that i've learned while on my healing journey. no matter where you are on yours, i hope you take something away from this episode. love you all sm, enjoy! social media: instagram: @shontai0205 snapchat: @shontaic0205 youtube: shontai cross --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/shontai-cross/support

    letter 33: life updates, summer recap & lessons i've learned recently!

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 24, 2023 19:51


    today is the perfect day for a little life update. join me as i do a recap of my summer, and share all of the lessons i've learned this summer. this year/summer has been such a transitional period for me, and i can't wait to see what the rest of the summer has in store. social media: instagram: @shontai0205 snapchat: @shontaic0205 youtube: shontai cross --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/shontai-cross/support

    letter 32: current goals + aspirations, life changes, moving back, astrology & more | q&a #2

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 13, 2023 22:26


    welcome back! in today's episode, we did another q&a (long overdue!) so excited & hope you guys are too! make sure you follow me on instagram so you can be apart of the next one. social media: instagram: @shontai0205 snapchat: @shontaic0205 youtube: shontai cross --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/shontai-cross/support

    letter 31: my energy givers vs takers!

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 8, 2023 18:59


    hey guys, welcome back! in today's episode, i caught you up a little bit on the past few weeks and we talked all things energy givers vs takers! social media: instagram: @shontai0205 snapchat: @shontaic0205 youtube: shontai cross --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/shontai-cross/support

    letter 30: starting over (moving back home, my breakup & room makeover)

    Play Episode Listen Later May 27, 2023 8:48


    hey guys, welcome back for another episode! two in one week, who is she!? so many changes without such a short period of time, but i'm excited to welcome them all with open arms. here's to a new era! social media: instagram: @shontai0205 snapchat: @shontaic0205 youtube: shontai cross --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/shontai-cross/support

    letter 29: my life being 20 so far

    Play Episode Listen Later May 21, 2023 12:57


    hey guys, welcome back! i am so excited to be here recording a new episode for you guys... it's long overdue! today i gave you guys all the life updates, let you in a little bit on what's been going on, and how i've been feeling! know that you are never alone with what you are going through - these feelings are normal and it's okay to feel them! be sure to follow me, follow the podcast & subscribe to my youtube! i will be back chatting with you guys next week... mwuah! social media: instagram: @shontai0205 snapchat: @shontaic0205 youtube: shontai cross --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/shontai-cross/support

    letter 28: my quarter life crisis came early... my 20th birthday recap!

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 12, 2023 17:17


    my quarter life crisis came early! in today's episode, we recapped my 20th birthday and i told you guys everything that happened. i also discussed how i've been feeling, things i want to do this next year, etc. thank you for listening, i'm so excited for what's to come this next year! i love you - see you next week! social media: instagram: @shontai0205 snapchat: @shontaic0205 youtube: shontai cross --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/shontai-cross/support

    letter 27: 19 things i learned by 19

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 5, 2023 15:35


    welcoming 20 with open arms and am excited for what's to come within this new decade of life. here's 19 things i learned by 19! check out the video version of this episode on my youtube channel! :) social media: instagram: @shontai0205 snapchat: @shontaic0205 youtube: shontai cross --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/shontai-cross/support

    letter 27: how i stay motivated & get to my goals + ways you can too!

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 29, 2023 18:06


    with the new year comes new goals and new opportunities. it's important to be gentle with ourselves, but also remember to show UP for ourselves! here are all the ways i've been getting motivated and staying determined throughout the new year so far. i hope this resonated with some of you and you got some inspo! i love you - we'll talk soon! social media: instagram: @shontai0205 snapchat: @shontaic0205 youtube: shontai cross --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/shontai-cross/support

    letter 26: how to make 2023 your year & my goals + plans for the new year!

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 15, 2023 26:17


    happy new year, happy 2023! it's time to reevaluate, and really put our best foot forward! today i sat down and caught you guys up (new podcast name, eeek!) on everything that's happened recently, and also discussed all of my goals & plans for this year! i love you all and we will chat again next week! social media: instagram: @shontai0205 snapchat: @shontaic0205 youtube: shontai cross --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/shontai-cross/support

    letter 25: it's the most wonderful time of the year! *holiday inspo*

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 11, 2022 14:23


    it's the most wonderful timeee of the yearrrrr! in today's episode, i caught you guys up on my life a little bit, and i also gave you some inspo to help you get into the holiday spirit! from places to shop to gift inspo, i got you covered! social media: instagram: @shontai0205 / @theselfloveletterspod snapchat: @shontaic0205 youtube: shontai cross --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    letter 24: now entering my comeback era!

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 20, 2022 9:40


    you heard it here first! it's time to level up and start showing up for ourselves! i hope i inspired you to do the same. social media: instagram: @shontai0205 / @theselfloveletterspod snapchat: @shontaic0205 youtube: shontai cross --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    letter 23: life lately! mental health, friendships, setting boundaries & more!

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 25, 2022 15:41


    it's been a little bit since i've caught you guys up and talked about my life recently! we talked all things fall, friendships, setting boundaries, and just all things that have been going on recently! love you all and i'll talk to you real soon! MWUAH!

    letter 22: IT'S FALL, Y'ALL! *all the fall inspiration you need*

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 22, 2022 23:14


    welcome back to the self love letters podcast! in this week's episode, i'm so excited to discuss all things FALL! fall is my favorite time of year, and today i am here to share all of my reasons why! i hope you got some inspo and are feeling inspired after this episode. love you guys and i will talk to you again real soon! social media: instagram: @shontai0205 / @theselfloveletterspod snapchat: @shontaic0205 youtube: shontai cross --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    letter 21: my book recommendations! *these will get you back into reading*

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 18, 2022 19:06


    hey guys, welcome back! my first book episode for the pod... this is one for the BOOKS! okay, i'm done. hope you guys enjoyed and check some of these out; you will not be disappointed! social media: instagram: @shontai0205 / @theselfloveletterspod snapchat: @shontaic0205 youtube: shontai cross --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    letter 20: 73 questions with shontai cross | advice, bedtime rituals, hidden talents & more!

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 11, 2022 27:03


    we all know and love vogue's 73 questions series, so i decided what an amazing idea it'd be to do my own take of it on the podcast! i hope you guys all enjoyed and learned something new about me! love you and i will talk to you again next week! the questions i used for today's episode: https://fredandfar.com/blogs/ff-blog/ask-yourself-vogues-73-questions social media: instagram: @shontai0205 / @theselfloveletterspod snapchat: @shontaic0205 youtube: shontai cross --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    letter 19: all the little things that make life worth living!

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 4, 2022 21:16


    keeping it lighthearted today, i talked about all the little things that make life worth living. we have to romanticize our lives - we only get one of them! love you all so much, and i'll talk to you next week! social media: instagram: @shontai0205 / @theselfloveletterspod snapchat: @shontaic0205 youtube: shontai cross --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    letter 18: how to feel confident in the skin you're in without the opinion's of others!

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 28, 2022 16:36


    this is a topic i've been wanting to touch on forever! i hope you learned something and gained some insight on my personal experience's too! always know you are BEAUTIFUL and you are never alone! mwuah! social media: instagram: @shontai0205 / @theselfloveletterspod snapchat: @shontaic0205 youtube: shontai cross --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    letter 17: overcoming burnout & finding sight of what's important again!

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 21, 2022 20:04


    hey guys, welcome back! in today's episode, i talked about overcoming burnout/procrastination and how i've been finding sight of what's important to me again. make someone's day today, i love you! social media: instagram: @shontai0205 / @theselfloveletterspod snapchat: @shontaic0205 youtube: shontai cross --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    letter 16: my july 2022 recap (even though july isn't even over!)

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 24, 2022 19:25


    july isn't even over, but we have to catch up. a lot has happened and it's important for me to keep you guys in the loop. social media: instagram: @shontai0205 / @theselfloveletterspod snapchat: @shontaic0205 youtube: shontai cross --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    letter 5: relationships, red flags & everything in between | q&a #1

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 24, 2022 41:25


    hey guys, welcome back! in today's episode, i did my first q&a! this one was all about dating; from knowing your worth to knowing when to move on, i spilled everything i know and hope you all take something away from this episode! be sure to follow the instagram to be included in my next one! social media: instagram: @shontai0205 / @theselfloveletterspod snapchat: @shontaic0205 youtube: shontai cross --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    letter 3: being comfortable while being alone | learning to become your own best friend

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 24, 2022 25:52


    welcome back! in today's episode, i sat down and talked to you guys about being alone! it might sound scary at first, but it's really important. i shared my experience with being alone post breakup, and how i finally learned to become my own best friend!   social media:  instagram: @shontai0205 / @theselfloveletterspod snapchat: @shontaic0205 youtube: shontai cross --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    letter 15: life is a crazy thing... let's catch up!

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 6, 2022 16:43


    hello guys! i am back from my little hiatus and today i thought it'd be perfect to catch you all up. love you so much and thank you for always supporting me! social media: instagram: @shontai0205 / @theselfloveletterspod snapchat: @shontaic0205 youtube: shontai cross --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    letter 14: all about summer 2022! | plans, goals, things to do

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 1, 2022 21:45


    summer is almost here and it's time we talk about it! in today's episode, i shared some of my plans, my goals and things that i want to do (and things you guys can do!) this summer! social media: instagram: @shontai0205 / @theselfloveletterspod snapchat: @shontaic0205 youtube: shontai cross --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    letter 13: how to romanticize your life & become the main character!

    Play Episode Listen Later May 22, 2022 24:50


    we all deserve to feel like the main character. here's all the ways i became one. social media: instagram: @shontai0205 / @theselfloveletterspod snapchat: @shontaic0205 youtube: shontai cross --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    letter 12: may is mental health awareness month | my story

    Play Episode Listen Later May 8, 2022 43:27


    happy mental health awareness month! today i took a deep dive into my story, and shared some tips & things i've learned along the way! always know you're not alone and you can get through anything. social media: instagram: @shontai0205 / @theselfloveletterspod snapchat: @shontaic0205 youtube: shontai cross --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    letter 11: life post grad, body confidence & more | advice hour #1

    Play Episode Listen Later May 1, 2022 33:02


    hey guys, welcome back! in this week's episode, i sat down and gave you guys advice on things you needed help with! to be included in the next advice hour, be sure to follow the podcast instagram! social media: instagram: @shontai0205 / @theselfloveletterspod snapchat: @shontaic0205 youtube: shontai cross --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    letter 10: figuring it out, therapy, my yt channel & more | catching up

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 24, 2022 27:42


    hey guys & welcome back! today i sat down and caught you guys up with everything that's going on in my life. we love a good chill episode every once in awhile! social media: instagram: @shontai0205 / @theselfloveletterspod snapchat: @shontaic0205 youtube: shontai cross --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    letter 9: the girls that get it... get it! *spring time motivation*

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 10, 2022 19:34


    in this episode, i talked aboutall the inspo and motivation you need for this spring! from booking those appointments to spring cleaning, we all need a fresh start every once in awhile, so what better time then now? social media: instagram: @shontai0205 / @theselfloveletterspod snapchat: @shontaic0205 youtube: shontai cross --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    letter 8: how to know when it's time to level up *growth & change is a good thing*

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 3, 2022 26:04


    sometimes we lose sight of ourselves, our goals & our values. we can also forget that change can be a good thing. in today's episode, i talked about knowing when it's time to level up your life. social media: instagram: @shontai0205 / @theselfloveletterspod snapchat: @shontaic0205 youtube: shontai cross --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    letter 7: my favorite mood boosters & how i cheer myself up when i'm feeling down!

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 27, 2022 28:27


    we all go through phases where we aren't feeling our best, and that's okay! today i shared some of the things i like to do when i'm feeling down. social media: instagram: @shontai0205 / @theselfloveletterspod snapchat: @shontaic0205 youtube: shontai cross --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    letter 6: healthy habits you NEED in your daily routine | 10 habits that changed my life

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 20, 2022 28:03


    in today's episode, i shared all of the healthy habits that changed my life. from little things like making your bed and drinking water, to getting outside and starting therapy, i shared all my tips in hopes that you guys each gain something from it! - shon social media: instagram: @shontai0205 / @theselfloveletterspod snapchat: @shontaic0205 youtube: shontai cross --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    letter 4: getting after it & staying motivated!

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 3, 2022 25:09


    hello guys & welcome back to the pod! in today's episode, i talked about all the ways i stay motivated! from mentality to simple tips and tricks, i shared everything i know and hope that you guys all take something away from this! hope you enjoy and i'll see you next week! - shon social media: instagram: @shontai0205 / @theselfloveletterspod snapchat: @shontaic0205 youtube: shontai cross --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    letter 2: getting to know me | career, hobbies & more

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 20, 2022 27:25


    in today's episode, i caught you guys up to speed on what's going on in my life! from my career to my relationships, you get the 411 on everything in between! love you guys! - shon social media: instagram: @shontai0205 / @theselfloveletterspod snapchat: @shontaic0205 youtube: shontai cross --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    letter 1: welcome to the self love letters

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 17, 2022 3:19


    welcome to the podcast! today is a trailer episode, kind of giving the run down on what you can expect! from advice, girl talks, and topics like "learning to love yourself," and so much more, you can expect to gain a lot from the self love letters! hope to see you back next week. love you sm! - shon social media: instagram: @shontai0205 / @theselfloveletterspod snapchat: @shontaic0205 youtube: shontai cross --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

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