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In this episode, we're pulling back the curtain and letting you in on a conversation with Patti Hall, aka Erin's ride-or-die book coach. Now, we know what you're thinking..."I don't want to write a book." But, in true b Cause Work Doesn't Have to Suck fashion, we aren't talking technicalities, but instead revelations. But first, who is Patti? Well, my friend, this introduction is long overdue. Patti M. Hall is the Master Story Alchemist, whose particular coaching genius is distilling powerful stories and messages into books that serve. Patti is a writer, coach, proposal author and publishing guide for heart-lead entrepreneurs, transformational coaches, thought leaders and courageous memoirists. She's also authentic AF. In this episode, you'll hear Erin and Patti talk about 6 game-changing revelations they've had through writing Erin's latest book, You Do You-ish, and how these tactics can be applied to any profession. Check out Patti's book, Loving Large Check out Patti's Website Connect with Patti on Instagram If you'd like quick tangible tips and practical corporate career advice to level up your authentic leadership, download the 10 simple “plays” to stop selling out and start standing out at https://bauthenticinc.mykajabi.com/freebie To connect with Erin and/or Nicole, email: hello@bauthenticinc.com If you like jammin' with us on the podcast, b sure to join us for more fun and inspiration! Follow b Cause on Twitter (really it's mostly Nicole) Follow Erin on LinkedIn or Instagram Join the b Cause Podcast Facebook Group Take our simple, fun and insightful"What's your workplace superhero name?”quiz Unleash your Authentic Superpower with Erin's book,"You Do You (ish)" Check out our blog for more no-BS career advice Work with Us Or just buy some fun, authentic, kick-ars merch here DISCLAIMER: This episode is not explicit, though contains mild swearing that may be unsustainable for younger audiences. Tweetable Comments “We don't have compassion for ourselves until we ask someone else to provide it.” “How many times do you sit back down in a board meeting and wish you'd had a chance to do it differently? What would you do if you'd had a chance to write it and polish it?” “Everything needs a shitty first draft.” “It takes two to make a thing go write.” “You don't know and then write. You write so you can know.” “What you don't write is just as important as what you write.” “Achieving any big goal requires a custom-fit, stick-to-it plan.” “Story isn't just what happened. It's the meaning piece that always needs to rise to the top.” “You don't have to follow the rules. In fact, people are craving new rules.”
In this episode, we're pulling back the curtain and letting you in on a conversation with Patti Hall, aka Erin's ride-or-die book coach. Now, we know what you're thinking..."I don't want to write a book." But, in true b Cause Work Doesn't Have to Suck fashion, we aren't talking technicalities, but instead revelations. But first, who is Patti? Well, my friend, this introduction is long overdue. Patti M. Hall is the Master Story Alchemist, whose particular coaching genius is distilling powerful stories and messages into books that serve. Patti is a writer, coach, proposal author and publishing guide for heart-lead entrepreneurs, transformational coaches, thought leaders and courageous memoirists. She's also authentic AF. In this episode, you'll hear Erin and Patti talk about 6 game-changing revelations they've had through writing Erin's latest book, You Do You-ish, and how these tactics can be applied to any profession. Check out Patti's book, Loving Large Check out Patti's Website Connect with Patti on Instagram If you'd like quick tangible tips and practical corporate career advice to level up your authentic leadership, download the 10 simple “plays” to stop selling out and start standing out at https://bauthenticinc.mykajabi.com/freebie To connect with Erin and/or Nicole, email: hello@bauthenticinc.com If you like jammin' with us on the podcast, b sure to join us for more fun and inspiration! Follow b Cause on Twitter (really it's mostly Nicole) Follow Erin on LinkedIn or Instagram Join the b Cause Podcast Facebook Group Take our simple, fun and insightful"What's your workplace superhero name?”quiz Unleash your Authentic Superpower with Erin's book,"You Do You (ish)" Check out our blog for more no-BS career advice Work with Us Or just buy some fun, authentic, kick-ars merch here DISCLAIMER: This episode is not explicit, though contains mild swearing that may be unsustainable for younger audiences. Tweetable Comments “We don't have compassion for ourselves until we ask someone else to provide it.” “How many times do you sit back down in a board meeting and wish you'd had a chance to do it differently? What would you do if you'd had a chance to write it and polish it?” “Everything needs a shitty first draft.” “It takes two to make a thing go write.” “You don't know and then write. You write so you can know.” “What you don't write is just as important as what you write.” “Achieving any big goal requires a custom-fit, stick-to-it plan.” “Story isn't just what happened. It's the meaning piece that always needs to rise to the top.” “You don't have to follow the rules. In fact, people are craving new rules.”
RARE MAMAS RISING- EPISODE 8 The Power of Storytelling in Community Building with Loving Large Author Patti M. Hall Patti M. Hall is a writer, collaborator, book coach, and founder of the Story House Mastermind. She is also the author of Loving Large: a mother's rare disease memoir. Patti's life was pitched into an abyss of uncertainty when a golf ball-sized tumor was discovered in her teenage son's head, and he was diagnosed with gigantism, a disease of both legend and stigma. After scrambling to access a handful of medical experts in the field, Patti learned that her son could grow uncontrollably, his mobility could be permanently limited, and his life could be cut short without timely and aggressive treatment. Patti's attention shifted fully to her son, away from her relationships as well as her own career and health. Patti's story is all of our stories. In fact, Patti wrote Loving Large for parents like us, whose children suffer from rare, chronic, or incurable diseases. In this episode, Patti gives a peek into her life, her book, and lessons learned along the way. Patti illuminates how sharing our stories has the power to build community and why a community is the very thing we need when navigating rare. EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS In this episode Patti & Nikki dig into: Receiving Aaron's diagnosis and the aftermath Patti's experience scrambling to find doctors, research, and resources all while time was ticking away How the notion of “advocates as experts” has evolved during Patti's time in rare and why forming partnerships with care providers is necessary Navigating ever-changing symptoms and circumstances and deciphering between big and small things on the rare ride The many roles Patti played while being a caregiver to her son including being a story keeper and a promise maker The story behind her book Loving Large and how she rewrote it entirely The bond she developed with her son while being “cellmates” together How we, as rare moms, have to relieve ourselves from the guilt of being away from our kids long enough to take a break and shut off the “monkey mind.” The importance of sharing our lived experiences because community is how we survive and endure LINKS & RESOURCES MENTIONED Patti M. Hall https://pattimhall.com/loving-large-book/ https://www.instagram.com/patti_m_hall/ https://www.facebook.com/pattimhallwriter Global Genes https://globalgenes.org/ Acromegaly Canada https://acromegalycanada.ca/ CONNECT WITH NIKKI Facebook https://www.facebook.com/RareMamas1/ Instagram https://www.instagram.com/Rare_Mamas/ Website https://raremamas.com/ Email info@raremamas.com
When a crisis happens – especially one that lasts long-term – we spend much of our time simply in survival mode, and for good reason. But how do we find empathy for ourselves during the most difficult times of our lives?Our guest this week is Patti M. Hall: a writer, collaborator, book coach, and founder of The Story House book-building mastermind. She's also the author of “Loving Large: A Mother's Rare Disease Memoir.” In this episode, Patti discusses her son's rare disease diagnosis, and how that period of chaos and crisis sent her into physical and mental overwhelm – and how she eventually found balance, self-compassion, and light at the end of the tunnel. What You Will Learn: 4:46: How Patti has come to embrace her own voice, as opposed to just helping others find theirs5:49: Patti tells the story of her son's rare disease diagnosis, and how it affected both her family system and her internal world8:24: How Patti's mental health suffered in the period of time after her son's diagnosis11:38: Why Patti was “floundering” and how she expanded the “fight, flight, or freeze” mechanism in her brain to include something else14:54: How Patti balances responding to crisis with self-compassion (and how she defines self-compassion)18:10: Patti explains how her son is doing now, as well as how crisis has united her family19:55: How Patti tunes into her inner child, even (and especially) during hard times24:57: How Patti has moved from “island” to “community”26:35: Why writing was a tool for Patti to heal her pain, and how she coached herself through the writing process to make peace with her most difficult memories 29:30: What Patti would tell people who are curious about writing as a path towards healing, and why we need to take the “mystique” out of writing30:31: Why writing a book with the audience in mind first is “missing the point” and how stories can release us33:17: What “scheduled unscheduled time” looks like for Patti and how she uses color coding to give herself space for herself in her daily lifeRelevant Links: Visit Patti's website: https://pattimhall.com/Buy Patti's book, “Loving Large: A Mother's Rare Disease Memoir”: https://www.amazon.com/Loving-Large-Mothers-Disease-Memoir/dp/1459746368/ref=sr_1_2?dchild=1&keywords=loving+large&qid=1622642484&sr=8-2Follow Patti on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/patti_m_hall/Free Soulcation Daily Planning Page: https://www.melodymiles.com/daily-planning-pageFollow Mel on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/soulcationmel/Purchase the Soulcation Planner: https://www.melodymiles.com/soulcation-planner
This week we are sitting down with Patti, a writer, book coach, rare disease advocate, and author of loving large, a mother's rare disease memoir.Meet Patti:I'm an author, writing coach, and publishing project manager, and a proud #memoiraholic. I adore non-fiction and especially the memoir and personal narrative genre.I'm an architect of story. I help people design and build books. I love the way that books are constructed — their infrastructure begins from the scaffolding of an outline, chapter, scenes, backstory, and reflection. The thematic structure is revealed like specks of color; breadcrumbs for the reader to find their way to your conclusion.I'm a magnet for the story. I was built for listening, cultivating memories, and tugging at tales. I'm that person you meet at a dinner party, between the shelves at the library or in the coffee shop line that you find yourself telling your history to.I happen to have a Bachelor's and a Master's degree, and no they aren't in English lit creative writing. My education explains my appreciation for formal writing, and my many years of coaching aspiring university essay writers.https://pattimhall.com/loving-large-book/RARE.WE ARE A BRAND WITH A PURPOSE.Behind every RARE. product is a mission to spread awareness around rare diseases and advocate for those struggling silently with them everyday. We want to make the invisible – visible. And that’s why we created RARE. To Learn More head over to www.findyourrare.com Support the show (https://www.patron.com/findyourrare)
To kick off rare disease month, author Patti M. Hall joins host Kira Dineen to discuss her memoir Loving Large which chronicles her son’s rare disease diagnostic odyssey. Her life was pitched into an abyss of uncertainty when a golf ball–sized tumour was discovered in her teenage son’s head and he was diagnosed with gigantism, a disease of both legend and stigma. After scrambling to access a handful of medical experts in the field, Patti learned that her son could grow uncontrollably, his mobility could be permanently limited, and his life could be cut short without timely and aggressive treatment. Patti’s attention shifted fully to her son, away from her relationships as well as her own career and health. Her new normal sees her step into a dozen additional roles, including nurse, researcher, advocate, risk assessor, and promise maker, while she struggles and fails to rebuild her life as a recently divorced woman. When the unthinkable strikes, parents Love LARGE. Now, Patti serves as an advocate for the rare disease community by serving as a member of the Board of Directors for AcromegalyCanada. Enter our giveaway here to win your own copy of Loving Large! For additional entries head over to our Instagram post. This episode is brought to you by Picture Genetics, a unique DNA testing service, with tests designed for every stage of life -- including family planning. With a Picture Parenting carrier test, you can uncover genetic conditions that may be passed on to your kids (such as cystic fibrosis or fragile X syndrome). Unlike other companies, this is actually a clinical grade test where physicians and genetic counselors are involved. It’s easy to order and understand with good looking reports! To order your Picture Genetics test, go to picturegenetics.com and use code “DNATODAY” for 25% off and free-shipping! Get actionable genetic insights today to benefit your family of tomorrow. On This Episode We Discuss:Diagnostic Odyssey “From sore knees to a brain tumor”Symptoms of gigantism Gigantism vs AcromegalyJoining the rare disease communityMother son relationship through diagnosis and treatmentsFiltering medical information for rare disease kidsImpact of a rare disease on siblingsGenetic research for gigantism Sequel to Loving Large Learn more about Patti Hall on her website and stay updated with her writing and advocacy on her Instagram. Her podcast, “Reframe your Life” addresses issues relevant to women beyond career building and child-rearing. Don’t forget to enter our giveaway for a copy of Loving Large here. You can also get extra entries through our Instagram! Continue our rare disease month celebrations with the next new episode of DNA Today on February 19th! You can also hear 20+ rare disease interviews on previous episodes of the show listed here. New episodes are released on the first and third Friday of the month. In the meantime, you can binge over 130 other episodes on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, streaming on the website, or any other podcast player by searching, “DNA Today”. See what else we are up to on Twitter, Instagram, Facebook, YouTube and our website, DNApodcast.com. Questions/inquiries can be sent to info@DNApodcast.com.
Art crashes into life for author Erica Cantley when she finds herself behind a podium in front of a class of high school seniors, teaching HAMLET as her father died, thousands of miles to the south in Costa Rica. Interspersing interactions with her teenage students and memories of her father, desperately sick and difficult to reach in his adopted jungle home, Cantley guides her students through HAMLET -- written four centuries ago -- while reflecting upon the impending loss of a parent in the never-ending now. The result is a powerful memoir of a love that will not die, the timeless story of the bond between parent and child, the magic created by a gifted teacher and willing pupils, and finally, the exploration of the timeless themes of HAMLET, the study in the transition of power through the generations. For those of you who aren't acquainted with Hamlet - don't let that deter you from this book or podcast. The themes in this book and discussion are themes we can all relate to in our lives. For more on Erica visit her website. And your cohosts can be found here: Sandy Reynolds and Patti M. Hall
Our guest this week is Anne Bokma . She is an award-winning freelance journalist and the author of My Year of Living Spiritually: From Woo-Woo to Wonderful—One Woman's Secular Quest for a More Soulful Life published by Douglas & McIntyre in October 2019. A leading expert on North America's 80-million strong "spiritual-but-not-religious" demographic, Anne was the award-winning "Spiritual But Secular" columnist for the United Church Observer (now Broadview) for four years before writing her popular My Year of Living Spiritually blog for the magazine. Anne also leads workshops and gives presentations on topics relating to spirituality and writing, including how she left a fundamentalist religion, the importance of finding community, how to live a more soulful life and what it takes to tell a good story. She is the founder of the 6-Minute Memoir “Speed Storytelling For a Cause” event, which features storytellers sharing tales on a common theme within a strict six-minute time limit. The event has raised more than $45,000 for local charities in her hometown of Hamilton, Ontario, since 2013. You can find our more about Anne at her website here. In this episode we talked about some of the challenges of losing your religion. A big part of the struggle is disappointing people. Sandy offers a free PDF course for anyone who needs to find the courage to end people-pleasing in their life. You can find it at her website https://www.sandyreynolds.com And if you want to get support in writing a memoir you've been working on, reach out to Patti M. Hall
Christa Couture reframes the experience of loss for us in her beautiful memoir, How to Lose Everything. In this interview we talk about the questions she gets asked most frequently, her story of loss and the writing process. Synopsis of her book: From the amputation of her leg as a cure for bone cancer at a young age to her first child’s single day of life, the heart transplant and subsequent death of her second child, the divorce born of grief and then the thyroidectomy that threatened her career as a professional musician, How to Lose Everything delves into the heart of loss. Couture bears witness to the shift in perspective that comes with loss, and how it can deepen compassion for others, expand understanding, inspire a letting go of little things and plant a deeper feeling for what matters. At the same time, Couture’s writing evokes the joy and lightness that both precede and eventually follow grief, as well as the hope and resilience that grow from connections with others. Evoking Joan Didion’s The Year of Magical Thinking and Rachel Cusk’s A Life’s Work, Couture explores the emotional and psychological experiences of motherhood, partnership and change. Deftly connecting the dots of sorrow, reprieve and hard-won hope, How to Lose Everything contains the advice Couture is often asked for, as well as the words she wishes she could have heard many years ago. It is also an offering of kinship and understanding for anyone experiencing a loss.” You can find out more about Christa at her website. If you have started on your memoir but need help shaping it and getting it ready for publication, Patti M. Hall can coach you through this critical stage. Contact Patti here. Find out more about Sandy's work with chronic people-pleasers at her website and get started Disappointing More People.
You are going to love this author and her latest book! Alison Wearing is a Canadian writer and performer. In addition to award-winning articles, short stories, essays and solo plays, she is the author of three critically-acclaimed memoirs. Honeymoon in Purdah became a national bestseller and was published in seven countries. Confessions of a Fairy's Daughter was both a bestselling memoir and a multiple award-winning solo play. Her new book, Moments of Glad Grace, has been heralded as "a wise, funny, and tender book, beautifully written and perfectly executed from first to last sentence" by Yann Martel, author of Life of Pi. Connect with Alison here: https://www.alisonwearing.com And find Sandy Reynolds at: https://www.sandyreynolds.com And Patti M. Hall makes her home here: https://pattimhall.com
Jane Christmas has written several memoirs. You will want to read them all! Find out more of Jane at her website. Inspired to write your own story? Patti M. Hall can help. Find out more about her work here. Are you afraid you will disappoint someone if you move forward or share your story? Talk to Sandy!
While working as an executive in the seniors' care industry, Deborah Bakti's professional and personal lives collided when her husband Ty, was diagnosed with a rare disease. When her husband was admitted to a long-term care home, Deborah was forced to adopt a new role; that of a residents' wife. On this episode we talk about her book RECIPE for Empathy and the strategies she teaches for transforming the long term care experience for families. Find out more about Deborah at her website. Find out more about how you can get started writing your memoir with Patti M. Hall here.
This episode kicks off a series featuring women who have written memoirs, hybrids and creative non-fiction. It's fitting to start with the newly released memoir beautifully written by the co-host of the series, Patti M Hall. Over 30 million-plus children in North America suffer from rare, chronic, or incurable diseases. Every person who loves and cares for one of these children may have a unique tale of the diagnostic treatment odyssey. Still, Patti's commonalities and the experiences of many other parent's heartaches and despair make this story everyone's story. Find out more about Patti M. Hall and Loving Large.