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The Complexity of Anger and Forgiveness In this week's quick tips, I want to isolate a part of our conversation around anger. Here are 3 key takeaways from our powerful conversation with Patricia: - Healing is possible, regardless of circumstances: Patricia's story proves that even in the darkest moments, there's always hope for recovery and growth. - The importance of self-trust: Learning to listen to your inner wisdom can be a crucial step in breaking cycles of trauma and abuse. - Unlearning is as important as learning: Sometimes, the key to personal growth lies in letting go of old patterns and beliefs. This episode is a must-listen for those seeking inspiration, healing, or a deeper understanding of trauma recovery. Follow the podcast: Listen on Apple Podcasts (link: https://apple.co/3s1YH7h) Listen on iHeart (link: https://ihr.fm/3MEY7FM) Listen on Spotify (Link: https://spoti.fi/3yMmQCE) Connect with Mathew Blades: Twitter - twitter.com/MathewBlades Instagram - instagram.com/MathewBladesmedia/ Facebook - facebook.com/mathewbladesmedia/ Website - learnfrompeoplewholivedit.com/ Additional Credits: LFPWLI is managed by IMS LLC A note from our partner, Better Than Bitter: Divorce isn't just a life transition - it's a full-blown identity shift. One day, you're a partner, a parent, and a planner for the future. The next? You're staring at paperwork, lawyer fees, and the overwhelming question: ‘What now?' I know it's hard. That's why we've created these courses - to give you courage, clarity, communication tools, and the support you need to move forward with confidence (and maybe even a little hope)! This program will pay for itself by helping you save thousands in legal fees and emotional stress! Hit these links to sign up today. Premium 5-Step Game Plan Course w/ Chat Coaching https://tanialeichliter.ontralink.com/t?orid=1049&opid=7 Standard Course 5-Step Game Plan Course https://tanialeichliter.ontralink.com/t?orid=1049&opid=8
Slow Chinese Listening Practice HSK4 Standard Course Lesson 10 Listening Q13男:你先去床上躺一会儿吧,等饭好了我叫你。女:我没事,还是我来做吧。男:你不舒服,今天我来做,马上就好。女:那你简单做一点儿就行了。问:女的怎么了?DA 饿了B 想喝水C 不想做饭D 身体不舒服
Slow Chinese Listening Practice HSK4 Standard Course Lesson 10 Listening Q12女:你看电视上说了吗?今年一个工作有一百个大学毕业生去面试。男:关键还是看能力,有能力的人不怕找不到好工作。问:男的认为什么是关键?AA 能力高B 应聘的人少C 专业好D 长得好
Slow Chinese Listening Practice HSK4 Standard Course Lesson 10 Listening Q11男:您这次打算安排谁来翻译这份材料?女:我看还是联系一家专业的翻译公司吧,他们翻译得也快一些。问:女的准备找谁翻译这份材料?DA 自己B 李律师C 王教授D 翻译公司
Patricia Journey of Healing and Hope In this powerful episode, Mathew Blades and Dr. Dave sit down with Patricia Noelle, a survivor of childhood abuse and forced adoption who transformed her pain into purpose. You'll hear: • How Patricia overcame a harrowing past of abuse within the Mormon community • The unexpected role of psychedelics in unlocking repressed memories and facilitating healing • Strategies for navigating complex emotions like anger and forgiveness after severe trauma "I wholeheartedly believe that psychedelics saved my life," Patricia reveals, detailing how these experiences helped her confront buried traumas. But she's quick to add, "That's not to tout that psychedelics are for everyone." Dr. Dave offers professional insights throughout, particularly on managing anger and the neuroscience of trauma. This episode is a must-listen for anyone grappling with past traumas or seeking inspiration in their own healing journey. Patricia's story reminds us that no matter the circumstance, healing is possible. Follow the podcast: Listen on Apple Podcasts (link: https://apple.co/3s1YH7h) Listen on iHeart (link: https://ihr.fm/3MEY7FM) Listen on Spotify (Link: https://spoti.fi/3yMmQCE) Connect with Mathew Blades: Twitter - twitter.com/MathewBlades Instagram - instagram.com/MathewBladesmedia/ Facebook - facebook.com/mathewbladesmedia/ Website - learnfrompeoplewholivedit.com/ Additional Credits: LFPWLI is managed by IMS LLC A note from our partner, Better Than Bitter: Divorce isn't just a life transition - it's a full-blown identity shift. One day, you're a partner, a parent, and a planner for the future. The next? You're staring at paperwork, lawyer fees, and the overwhelming question: ‘What now?' I know it's hard. That's why we've created these courses - to give you courage, clarity, communication tools, and the support you need to move forward with confidence (and maybe even a little hope)! This program will pay for itself by helping you save thousands in legal fees and emotional stress! Hit these links to sign up today. Premium 5-Step Game Plan Course w/ Chat Coaching https://tanialeichliter.ontralink.com/t?orid=1049&opid=7 Standard Course 5-Step Game Plan Course https://tanialeichliter.ontralink.com/t?orid=1049&opid=8
Slow Chinese Listening Practice HSK4 Standard Course Lesson 10 Listening Q10女:我听说过两天你要去旅游?男:算是吧,我女朋友在北京读研究生,我去看看她。问:根据对话,可以知道什么?BA 女的要旅游B 男的有女友C 男的是硕士D 男的在北京
Slow Chinese Listening Practice HSK4 Standard Course Lesson 10 Listening Q9男:真的是往东走吗?我怎么觉得是在西边呢?女:肯定是往东走,我以前来过这儿,相信我,保证错不了。问:女的认为应该往哪个方向走? AA 东边B 西边C 南边D 北边
Slow Chinese Listening Practice HSK4 Standard Course Lesson 10 Listening Q8女:你知道怎么去动物园吗?我明天要去动物园附近办点儿事。男:我对那儿也不太熟悉,不过网上有地图,我帮你查查。问:男的是什么意思?CA 他认识路B 他很准时C 他上网查查D 他们一起去
Slow Chinese Listening Practice HSK4 Standard Course Lesson 10 Listening Q7男:今天是母亲节,记得给你妈妈打个电话。女:谢谢您的提醒,差点儿忘记了,我现在就打。问:女的准备给谁打电话?BA 老师B 母亲C 丈夫D 孩子
Slow Chinese Listening Practice HSK4 Standard Course Lesson 10 Listening Q6女:听说下周附近要开一家新超市。男:真的吗?那到时候咱们购物就方便多了。问:新超市什么时候开?BA 明天 B 下星期 C 下个月 D 明年
Slow Chinese Listening Practice HSK4 Standard Course Lesson 10 Listening Q5什么是幸福?究竟怎样才算是真正的幸福?一百个人有一百个答案,每个人对幸福都有不同的理解。 ★ 幸福有标准答案。×
Slow Chinese Listening Practice HSK4 Standard Course Lesson 10 Listening Q4昨天我在报纸上看见一家公司在招聘高级翻译,要硕士,给出的条件还不错,你要不要去试试?★ 那家公司在招人。√
Slow Chinese Listening Practice HSK4 Standard Course Lesson 10 Listening Q3在我看来,幸福其实很简单,比如一天的工作结束后,洗个热水澡,然后躺在床上看看书,就很幸福。 ★ 幸福是件很简单的事情。√
Slow Chinese Listening Practice HSK4 Standard Course Lesson 10 Listening Q2我爸爸是医生,妈妈是老师。我的性格很像我爸爸,我现在学医,理想就是以后成为一个像他那样的医生。 ★ 他的职业是大夫。×
Slow Chinese Listening Practice HSK4 Standard Course Lesson 10 Listening Q1科学研究发现,经常笑的人更容易感到幸福,而且更不容易生病。 ★ 笑使人更健康。√
Slow Chinese Listening Practice HSK4 Standard Course Lesson 9 Listening Q21 - Q22有三个人参加长跑比赛,他们都很努力,却都没有得第一。这是不是说明三个都失败了?肯定不是,因为他们的目的不同。第一个人是想通过跑步锻炼身体;第二个人以前参加过长跑,这次是想得到一个更好的成绩;第三个人是第一次参加,只要能跑完,他就很高兴。这样看来,三个人都成功了。21.第一个人为什么参加比赛?DA 减肥 B 支持朋友 C 得奖金 D 锻炼身体22.说话人认为这三个人怎么样?CA 都想得第一 B 没有努力 C 都成功了 D 很有耐心
Slow Chinese Listening Practice HSK4 Standard Course Lesson 9 Listening Q19 - Q20许多人都有过后悔的经历,其实,只要我们按照自己的想法去做了,就没什么后悔的,因为我们不可能把所有的事情都做对。另外,让我们走向成功的,往往是我们从过去做错的事情中得到的经验。19.许多人都有过怎样的经历?AA 后悔 B 紧张 C 高兴 D 难过20.什么能帮助我们走向成功?DA 理想 B 努力工作 C 正确的方法 D 失败的经验
Slow Chinese Listening Practice HSK4 Standard Course Lesson 9 Listening Q18女:您为什么会写这本书呢?男:这些年我经历了许多难忘的事情,我想把它们都写下来。女:您想通过这本书告诉读者什么呢?男:我主要想告诉大家,友谊是我们生命中不可缺少的。问:男的为什么要写这本书?DA 能够赚钱 B 能够出名 C 送给爱人 D 记下经历
Slow Chinese Listening Practice HSK4 Standard Course Lesson 9 Listening Q17女:上海话和普通话的区别很大,上次去上海,我竟然一句也听不懂。男:别说你听不懂,就连很多中国人听起来也很困难。女:你的这个同学是上海人吧?男:对,他虽然讲普通话,可是仔细听,还是有上海味儿。问:男的的同学说话有什么特点?BA 声音非常小 B 有上海味儿 C 别人听不懂 D 声音很好听
Slow Chinese Listening Practice HSK4 Standard Course Lesson 9 Listening Q16男:您穿这条裙子有点儿大。女:那太好了,我就买这条。男:还是给您换小一号的吧。女:不用,我穿上它,朋友见了肯定会说我减肥成功了。问:关于女的,可以知道什么?BA 要去约会 B 正在减肥 C 不打算买裙子 D 想换小一号的
Slow Chinese Listening Practice HSK4 Standard Course Lesson 9 Listening Q15女:黄教授,我们想邀请您七月份也去我们那儿讲一次课,您看您有时间吗?男:七月十二号以后应该都可以。女:那我们暂时定七月十五号可以吗?正好是星期五。男:好的,如果有什么变化我会提前和你联系的。问:关于男的,可以知道什么?AA 接受邀请了 B 在讲课 C 在邀请客人 D 没时间
Slow Chinese Listening Practice HSK4 Standard Course Lesson 9 Listening Q14女:你今天怎么这么安静呀?男:刚刚经理让我写篇总结,我正考虑怎么写呢。女:总结?哪方面的?男:招聘方面的。问:经理让男的做什么?DA 翻译 B 做调查 C 招聘 D 写总结
Slow Chinese Listening Practice HSK4 Standard Course Lesson 9 Listening Q13男:您能给我们介绍一些您的成功经验吗?女:我觉得平时的积累是最重要的,要多向周围的人学习。男:那您觉得您最大的优点是什么呢?女:是诚实。问:女的觉得自己怎么样?CA 很勇敢 B 很可爱 C 很诚实 D 很有礼貌
Slow Chinese Listening Practice HSK4 Standard Course Lesson 9 Listening Q12男:发生这么大的事,你怎么没告诉校长呢?女:当时他不在办公室,打他的电话又一直没人接。问:女的为什么没把这事告诉校长?AA 没找到他 B 没调查清楚 C 不敢告诉他 D 不想告诉他
Slow Chinese Listening Practice HSK4 Standard Course Lesson 9 Listening Q11女:我本来以为任务能顺利完成,没想到事情会变成这样。男:别着急,会慢慢好起来的。问:任务怎么样了?BA 提前完成了 B 遇到困难了 C 通过检查了 D 交给别人了
Slow Chinese Listening Practice HSK4 Standard Course Lesson 9 Listening Q10女:走,咱们一起去打网球吧,锻炼锻炼身体。男:好主意,我很久没去运动了。你等我几分钟,我去换双运动鞋。 问:他们要去做什么?CA 加班 B 爬山 C 打网球 D 打篮球
Slow Chinese Listening Practice HSK4 Standard Course Lesson 9 Listening Q9女:我实在跑不动了,你让我休息一会儿吧。男:你才跑了十分钟,要坚持,至少再跑十分钟。问:男的是什么意思?DA 走一会儿 B 别迟到 C 休息一下 D 再跑一会儿
Slow Chinese Listening Practice HSK4 Standard Course Lesson 9 Listening Q8男:你哥不是说三点到吗?都过去半个小时了,怎么还没出来?女:他还得去取行李箱,您别担心,我打个电话问问。问:男的怎么了? AA 有些着急 B 刚下火车 C 行李箱丢了 D 提前回来了
Slow Chinese Listening Practice HSK4 Standard Course Lesson 9 Listening Q7男:怎么又买这么多吃的,难道你不减肥了?女:我减了一个月,结果一点儿也没瘦,我实在没有信心了。问:女的是什么意思?BA 不想吃饭 B 放弃减肥 C 坚持运动 D 瘦了很多
Slow Chinese Listening Practice HSK4 Standard Course Lesson 9 Listening Q6男:饿了吧?来块儿巧克力怎么样?女:不,我最近在减肥,我吃个西红柿吧。问:女的是什么意思?DA 不饿 B 想吃巧克力 C 不能吃东西 D 正在减肥
Slow Chinese Listening Practice HSK4 Standard Course Lesson 9 Listening Q5如果你想做什么事情,那就勇敢地去做吧。只有试过才知道能不能成功。实际上,即使最后不成功也没有关系,因为至少你努力过。★ 不要担心失败。√
Slow Chinese Listening Practice HSK4 Standard Course Lesson 9 Listening Q4我认为态度决定一切。如果一个人做事情积极、努力,那么他就更容易成功。如果一个人不积极、不努力、不认真,他再聪明也很难成功。★ 聪明最重要。×
Slow Chinese Listening Practice HSK4 Standard Course Lesson 9 Listening Q3为什么说没有失败就没有成功?因为我们可以从失败中发现自己的缺点,总结出很多经验,有了这些经验的积累,才有可能获得成功。★ 没有失败就没有成功。√
Slow Chinese Listening Practice HSK4 Standard Course Lesson 9 Listening Q2其实,只要我们真正努力过了,就不需要太关心结果。因为无论最后是成功还是失败,在努力的过程中,我们已经学到了很多东西。★ 结果比过程更重要。×
Slow Chinese Listening Practice HSK4 Standard Course Lesson 9 Listening Q11. 好的开始是成功的一半,很多事情开头做好了,以后就容易多了;开头没做好,后面会更困难。★ 好的开始很重要。√
Slow Chinese Listening Practice HSK4 Standard Course Lesson 8 Listening Q21-Q22科学研究证明,天气会影响人的心情,不同的天气会给人带来不同的感情变化。晴天会让人变得轻松,觉得心情愉快;阴天容易使人感到难过,干什么事情都没有精神;有些人在下雨天会觉得很舒服,变得安静下来;下雪天会让人兴奋,对我们的身体也有好处。21.根据这段话,哪种天气会使人觉得不舒服? BA 晴天 B 阴天 C 下雨天 D 下雪天22.根据这段话,晴天会让人的心情怎么样?CA 难过 B 兴奋 C 高兴 D 紧张
Slow Chinese Listening Practice HSK4 Standard Course Lesson 8 Listening Q19-Q20香蕉是一种“快乐水果”,因为吃香蕉能帮助人减轻压力,让人高兴。另外香蕉还有很多好处,睡觉前吃香蕉能让你睡得更好,多吃香蕉对我们的皮肤很好,而且香蕉还有不错的减肥效果。19.吃香蕉能给我们带来什么? CA 爱情 B 烦恼 C 快乐 D 压力20.根据这段话,以下哪个不是香蕉的好处?BA 让人高兴 B 让人聪明 C 让人睡得好 D 让人皮肤好
Slow Chinese Listening Practice HSK4 Standard Course Lesson 8 Listening Q18男:电影七点开始,下了班去来不及了吧?女:应该来得及。男:可是那个时候堵车很严重,出租车也不好打。女:不用担心,我们坐地铁去,很快的。问:男的担心什么?AA 堵车 B 票卖完了 C 电影没意思 D 可能要加班
Slow Chinese Listening Practice HSK4 Standard Course Lesson 8 Listening Q17男:这次活动非常成功,我们顺利完成了公司交给的工作。女:辛苦了!男:谢谢您对我们的支持。女:能有这么大的成绩,主要是你们工作努力。问:男的是什么心情?BA 觉得不好意思 B 非常高兴 C 难过极了 D 感到不满意
Slow Chinese Listening Practice HSK4 Standard Course Lesson 8 Listening Q16男:小姐,您是今天第一个来我们超市的客人,我们准备了一个小礼物送给您。女:真的吗?谢谢你!太高兴了。男:这是我们超市送您的巧克力,祝您购物愉快。女:谢谢。问:女的为什么很高兴?DA 收到短信了 B 减肥成功了 C 超市在打折 D 得到礼物了
Turning Tragedy into Triumph: A Journey Through Grief with Theo Boyd In this powerful episode, Mathew Blades and Dr. David welcome Theo Boyd, author of "My Grief Is Not Like Yours," to share her heart-wrenching journey through unimaginable loss. You'll hear: • Theo's gut-wrenching account of losing her mother in a tragic farm accident • The devastating impact of her father's suicide and how she's navigated the aftermath • Practical advice for supporting grieving loved ones, emphasizing the power of presence • Strategies for coping with grief during holidays and special occasions "People ask me all the time, does it get better? And I'm like, no, it doesn't. But I get stronger," Theo shares, encapsulating her philosophy on grief. This episode is a must-listen for anyone who has experienced loss or wants to better support those who have. Theo's wisdom, coupled with Mathew and Dr. David's thoughtful questions, creates a space for reflection, understanding, and ultimately, hope in the face of life's most challenging moments. Follow the podcast: Listen on Apple Podcasts (link: https://apple.co/3s1YH7h) Listen on iHeart (link: https://ihr.fm/3MEY7FM) Listen on Spotify (Link: https://spoti.fi/3yMmQCE) Connect with Mathew Blades: Twitter - twitter.com/MathewBlades Instagram - instagram.com/MathewBladesmedia/ Facebook - facebook.com/mathewbladesmedia/ Website - learnfrompeoplewholivedit.com/ Additional Credits: LFPWLI is managed by IMS LLC A note from our partner, Better Than Bitter: Divorce isn't just a life transition - it's a full-blown identity shift. One day, you're a partner, a parent, and a planner for the future. The next? You're staring at paperwork, lawyer fees, and the overwhelming question: ‘What now?' I know it's hard. That's why we've created these courses - to give you courage, clarity, communication tools, and the support you need to move forward with confidence (and maybe even a little hope)! This program will pay for itself by helping you save thousands in legal fees and emotional stress! Hit these links to sign up today. Premium 5-Step Game Plan Course w/ Chat Coaching https://tanialeichliter.ontralink.com/t?orid=1049&opid=7 Standard Course 5-Step Game Plan Course https://tanialeichliter.ontralink.com/t?orid=1049&opid=8
Slow Chinese Listening Practice HSK4 Standard Course Lesson 8 Listening Q15女:这里的景色真美,空气也好。男:怎么样,心情好些了吗?女:好多了,最近压力大,好久都没这么放松了,真是谢谢你。男:不客气。问:女的现在心情怎么样?BA 很担心 B 很放松 C 非常紧张 D 特别难过
Slow Chinese Listening Practice HSK4 Standard Course Lesson 8 Listening Q14男:你今天心情不错,看样子有什么好事。女:告诉你一个好消息,我通过法律考试了,可以当律师了。男:太好了!老同学,这可真是个好消息。女:谢谢!走,我们边走边谈。问:女的为什么高兴?CA 要去留学 B 要结婚了 C 通过考试了 D 做成生意了
How To Have Healthier Relationships with Jennifer Nurick In this episode, you'll hear: How negative cycles show up in relationships and why we get stuck in them Practical tools to break negative cycles, set boundaries, and communicate more effectively with your partner How hidden attachment patterns, like anxious or avoidant styles, might be driving conflict in your relationship Tips to stay grounded when emotional triggers act like time machines and pull on old wounds Jennifer Nurick is a licensed clinical psychotherapist, trauma specialist, and the founder of Psychotherapy Central. With over 20 years of experience in counseling, she specializes in attachment theory, relationship healing, and trauma recovery. Jennifer is also a certified energetic healer and author of Heal Your Anxious Attachment, where she blends evidence-based psychological tools with compassion and real-world strategies to help individuals and couples transform painful relationship patterns. Through her clinical work, writing, and workshops, Jennifer empowers people to break free from negative cycles and build secure, authentic connections. In this episode, Mathew, Dr. Dave Leicken, and Jennifer Nurick dive deep into the emotional dynamics that shape our relationships, especially when we feel stuck in patterns that seem impossible to break. Drawing from Jennifer's book Heal Your Anxious Attachment, they explore what negative cycles are, how to recognize when you're in one, and, most importantly, how to begin shifting out of them. The conversation unpacks the ways attachment styles, like anxious or avoidant, show up in adult relationships, how triggers can feel like emotional time travel, and what it takes to approach your partner from a grounded, regulated place. You'll hear actionable tools to interrupt conflict spirals, including boundary-setting, effective communication strategies, and reflective practices for personal healing and growth. Whether you're navigating conflict or seeking deeper connection, this episode offers insight, empathy, and guidance for transforming the way you relate. “We have to have awareness around the cycles. So, what are my repetitive thoughts, what are my repetitive experiences…What cycles run through my family?” - Jennifer Nurick “First we have to discover, we have to know what cycles am I working with, what comes through that generational lineage…then there is healing.” - Jennifer Nurick “It's not just the emotions that they felt, but it's the narrative that they are telling themselves. Each side has a different narrative and the narratives don't always match up.” - Dr. Dave Leicken Follow the podcast: Listen on Apple Podcasts (link: https://apple.co/3s1YH7h) Listen on iHeart (link: https://ihr.fm/3MEY7FM) Listen on Spotify (Link: https://spoti.fi/3yMmQCE) Resources: Jennifer Nurick's Website Psychotherapy Central Website Heal Your Anxious Attachment by Jennifer Nurick How To Talk To People You Don't Like Talking To by Mathew Blades Dr. David Leicken, MD Connect with Mathew Blades: Twitter - twitter.com/MathewBlades Instagram - instagram.com/MathewBladesmedia/ Facebook - facebook.com/mathewbladesmedia/ Website - learnfrompeoplewholivedit.com/ Additional Credits: LFPWLI is managed by IMS LLC A note from our partner, Better Than Bitter: Divorce isn't just a life transition - it's a full-blown identity shift. One day you're a partner, a parent, and a planner for the future. The next? You're staring at paperwork, lawyer fees, and the overwhelming question: ‘What now?' I know it's hard. That's why we've created these courses - to give you courage, clarity, communication tools, and the support you need to move forward with confidence (and maybe even a little hope)! Reality check! Divorce is expensive - but battling in court is even more costly. For less than the price of an hour of an attorney's time, you'll gain the tools, support, and strategies to create a peaceful path forward. This program will pay for itself by helping you save thousands in legal fees and emotional stress! Hit these links to sign up today. Premium 5-Step Game Plan Course w/ Chat Coaching https://tanialeichliter.ontralink.com/t?orid=1049&opid=7 Standard Course 5-Step Game Plan Course https://tanialeichliter.ontralink.com/t?orid=1049&opid=8
Turning Struggles into Songs: Music and Resilience with Gene Moran In this episode, you'll hear: The power of letting someone believe in you The need for humor when facing hard times How cerebral palsy isn't the end—it just requires more creativity to overcome challenges In this episode, Mathew, Dr. Dave Leicken, and Gene Moran dive into the creative process behind Gene's songwriting and the deeper themes that shape his music. Born with cerebral palsy, Gene reflects on how his father instilled in him the belief that he was capable of doing hard things. Gene shares how he overcame his fear of looking foolish on stage and the transformative power of having someone believe in you. The conversation also highlights the role of humor in overcoming hardships and the importance of letting go of expectations to embrace personal growth. Gene Moran is a singer-songwriter and musician based in Mesa, Arizona, born with cerebral palsy, which affects his fine and gross motor skills, Gene has developed a distinctive playing style that sets him apart. Before fully immersing himself in music, he dedicated 21 years to teaching 5th and 6th grade in public schools. Transitioning from the classroom to the stage, Gene has been involved in various musical projects, including Mean Gene and the Soul Scorchers, Rockin' Chair, The Blinding Suns, and Mean Gene and the Green Sardines. His songwriting resonates with everyday issues of poverty, addiction, despair, and love, delivered with an authenticity that reflects his personal experiences and resilience. “You give off good energy, you get back good energy.” - Gene Moran “There is a split where you could on the one hand embrace the disability and say well I can't do this I can't do that…then you end up limiting yourself but I think the right way to do it is the way your dad encouraged you is, how can we…you have to do things a little differently then other people but the hard ‘no' isn't there, you just have to find a way to make it work.” - Dr. Dave Leicken Follow the podcast: Listen on Apple Podcasts (link: https://apple.co/3s1YH7h) Listen on iHeart (link: https://ihr.fm/3MEY7FM) Listen on Spotify (Link: https://spoti.fi/3yMmQCE) Resources: Gene Moran's Website Dead Man's Guitar by Gene Moran Dr. Dave Leicken Connect with Mathew Blades: Twitter - twitter.com/MathewBlades Instagram - instagram.com/MathewBladesmedia/ Facebook - facebook.com/mathewbladesmedia/ Website - learnfrompeoplewholivedit.com/ Additional Credits: LFPWLI is managed by IMS LLC A note from our partner, Better Than Bitter: Divorce isn't just a life transition - it's a full-blown identity shift. One day you're a partner, a parent, and a planner for the future. The next? You're staring at paperwork, lawyer fees, and the overwhelming question: ‘What now?' I know it's hard. That's why we've created these courses - to give you courage, clarity, communication tools, and the support you need to move forward with confidence (and maybe even a little hope)! Reality check! Divorce is expensive - but battling in court is even more costly. For less than the price of an hour of an attorney's time, you'll gain the tools, support, and strategies to create a peaceful path forward. This program will pay for itself by helping you save thousands in legal fees and emotional stress! Hit these links to sign up today. Premium 5-Step Game Plan Course w/ Chat Coaching https://tanialeichliter.ontralink.com/t?orid=1049&opid=7 Standard Course 5-Step Game Plan Course https://tanialeichliter.ontralink.com/t?orid=1049&opid=8
Humor, Healing, and Resilience with Elaine Lindsay In this episode, you'll hear: How our belief system about ourselves is formed—and how to shift it What it's like to live with suicidal ideation Strength in accepting what you can and cannot change In this episode, Mathew, Dr. Dave Leicken, and Elaine Lindsay explore the power of humor as a therapeutic tool, highlighting its ability to bring lightness to even the heaviest of struggles. They discuss the importance of beginning the healing process while emphasizing that it doesn't have to follow a specific timeline. The conversation also delves into the realities of living with suicidal ideation, offering insights into navigating these challenges with compassion, resilience, and support. Elaine Lindsay is a Canadian speaker, podcaster, and digital integration specialist dedicated to mental health advocacy, particularly suicide prevention and awareness. As the host of the Suicide Zen Forgiveness podcast, she fosters open and honest conversations to break the silence, stigma, and shame surrounding suicide loss, ideation, and mental health. Her personal journey is one of profound resilience—having lost a friend to suicide at 16, turned to substance use, and endured a life-altering car crash in her 20s that resulted in the loss of a pregnancy. Despite facing multiple personal losses and numerous surgeries, Elaine has found strength in community support, storytelling, and even humor. Writing for Medium and performing stand-up, she uses laughter as a healing tool, bringing a unique perspective to discussions on grief, trauma, and recovery. “Don't keep everything inside. You are not a one person army.” - Elaine Lindsay “When you realize that some of these things are temporary, and the fact is, I lived through all that pain, I can go through one more thing.” -Elaine Lindsay “If you can just keep moving forward and keep plowing through, things eventually settle down. And when you get on the other side of it, there is gold. There are lessons to be learned, and there are things you can draw out of the pain that make you stronger, wiser, better equipped to help other people going through it.” - Dr. Dave Leicken Follow the podcast: Listen on Apple Podcasts (link: https://apple.co/3s1YH7h) Listen on iHeart (link: https://ihr.fm/3MEY7FM) Listen on Spotify (Link: https://spoti.fi/3yMmQCE) Resources: Elaine Lindsay Website Suicide Zen Forgiveness Podcast by Elaine Lindsay Elaine Lindsay Linkedin Dr. Dave Leicken Connect with Mathew Blades: Twitter - twitter.com/MathewBlades Instagram - instagram.com/MathewBladesmedia/ Facebook - facebook.com/mathewbladesmedia/ Website - learnfrompeoplewholivedit.com/ Additional Credits: LFPWLI is managed by IMS LLC A note from our partner, Better Than Bitter: Divorce isn't just a life transition - it's a full-blown identity shift. One day you're a partner, a parent, and a planner for the future. The next? You're staring at paperwork, lawyer fees, and the overwhelming question: ‘What now?' I know it's hard. That's why we've created these courses - to give you courage, clarity, communication tools, and the support you need to move forward with confidence (and maybe even a little hope)! Reality check! Divorce is expensive - but battling in court is even more costly. For less than the price of an hour of an attorney's time, you'll gain the tools, support, and strategies to create a peaceful path forward. This program will pay for itself by helping you save thousands in legal fees and emotional stress! Hit these links to sign up today. Premium 5-Step Game Plan Course w/ Chat Coaching https://tanialeichliter.ontralink.com/t?orid=1049&opid=7 Standard Course 5-Step Game Plan Course https://tanialeichliter.ontralink.com/t?orid=1049&opid=8
The Unexpected Gift of Trauma: Finding Growth After Pain with Dr. Edith Shiro In this episode, you'll hear: Practical steps to move from trauma to post-traumatic growth Tips for identifying a support group that truly aids your healing journey How generational trauma is passed down through genetics and the power you have to break the cycle Dr. Edith Shiro is a highly respected clinical psychologist, author, and speaker specializing in trauma and post-traumatic growth. She co-founded the Trauma and Resilience Center in Miami, Florida, and is the author of The Unexpected Gift of Trauma: The Path to Post-Traumatic Growth. As the granddaughter of a Holocaust survivor and a Syrian refugee, Dr. Shiro's personal history deeply informs her work, inspiring her mission to help individuals break cycles of generational trauma. Growing up as a Jewish woman in Venezuela before immigrating to the U.S. to pursue her education and career, she embodies resilience and transformation. In this episode, Mathew, Dr. Dave Leicken, and Dr. Edith Shiro dive into the complex and deeply personal topic of generational trauma, exploring how it is not only passed down through learned behaviors but is embedded in our genetics. Dr. Shiro shares the stages needed to get to post-traumatic growth, starting with radical acceptance of one's experiences. They explore the idea that trauma, though painful, can hold unexpected gifts. The conversation sheds light on the inevitability of trauma as part of the human experience, how its impact is deeply subjective, and what it takes to shift from suffering to growth. They also discuss the importance of timing, knowing when you're truly ready to heal, and the difference between letting go and not caring. Finally, they address the critical role of support, distinguishing between helpful and harmful support groups and how to recognize if the people you turn to are aiding your healing or keeping you stuck in pain. “Let's understand what trauma is…Anything that can happen to you that shakes or shatters your belief system about yourself, about the other, about the world, for which you don't have tools or you don't have resources to deal with.” -Dr. Shiro “Time is a myth because you can't say ‘Time heals all'. It's what you do with time.” - Dr. Shiro “Yes we get passed on traumas, but we also get passed on treasures, and we also get passed on wisdom.” -Dr. Shiro Follow the podcast: Listen on Apple Podcasts (link: https://apple.co/3s1YH7h) Listen on iHeart (link: https://ihr.fm/3MEY7FM) Listen on Spotify (Link: https://spoti.fi/3yMmQCE) Resources: The Unexpected Gift of Trauma: The Path to Posttraumatic Growth By Dr. Edith Shiro Dr. Edith Shiro's Website Dr. Dave Leicken Connect with Mathew Blades: Twitter - twitter.com/MathewBlades Instagram - instagram.com/MathewBladesmedia/ Facebook - facebook.com/mathewbladesmedia/ Website - learnfrompeoplewholivedit.com/ Additional Credits: LFPWLI is managed by IMS LLC A note from our partner, Better Than Bitter: Divorce isn't just a life transition - it's a full-blown identity shift. One day you're a partner, a parent, and a planner for the future. The next? You're staring at paperwork, lawyer fees, and the overwhelming question: ‘What now?' I know it's hard. That's why we've created these courses - to give you courage, clarity, communication tools, and the support you need to move forward with confidence (and maybe even a little hope)! Reality check! Divorce is expensive - but battling in court is even more costly. For less than the price of an hour of an attorney's time, you'll gain the tools, support, and strategies to create a peaceful path forward. This program will pay for itself by helping you save thousands in legal fees and emotional stress! Hit these links to sign up today. Premium 5-Step Game Plan Course w/ Chat Coaching https://tanialeichliter.ontralink.com/t?orid=1049&opid=7 Standard Course 5-Step Game Plan Course https://tanialeichliter.ontralink.com/t?orid=1049&opid=8
Breaking Free: Finding Your Path After Trauma and Grief with Kharma Lindsey In this episode, you'll hear: The potential of psychedelics to unlock your ability to move forward Practical strategies beyond psychedelics and ketamine therapy The power of finding a purpose greater than yourself Tips for those who feel stuck in trauma In this episode, Mathew, Dr. Dave Leicken, and Kharma discuss grief, breaking free from limiting patterns, discovering a purpose greater than oneself, and the role of integration therapy in the healing process. They dive into the complexities of grief, exploring how to accept that life will never be the same while still finding a way to move forward. The conversation delves into psychedelic therapy—its benefits, risks, and why it's not for everyone—while emphasizing the importance of setting intentions for any healing journey. Beyond psychedelics, they share practical strategies for those seeking alternative healing methods, including sound healing. They also explore Kharma's journey through the court system against a narcissistic ex-partner and how this experience led her to become a "transitional character" breaking cycles for future generations. Kharma Lindsey is a spiritual coach and healer specializing in guiding individuals toward their authentic selves through various transformative practices. While battling a narcissist ex-partner for custody of her daughter she uncovered an unjust justice system and successfully worked to remove a judge from the bench. Working through that experience with the support of psychedelics and therapy she emerged transformed. Kharma got a degree in Psychology and worked in behavioral health utilizing legal psychedelics. She is the founder of Soul Rhythms, an organization dedicated to reconnecting individuals with their inner essence through methods such as drumming, breathwork, and shadow work. “We can't look at psychedelics like a one size fits all, just like we can't look at traditional western medicine the same.” - Kharma Lindsey “Finding a new normal, recognizing we're never gonna go back to the way we were.” - Kharma Lindsey “For a long time I couldn't see anything beyond that fight, I couldn't see anything beyond that pain.” - Kharma Lindsay “If your brain is oriented toward self protection you're not able to be creative, you're not able to love. Your brain is tied up.” - Dr. Dave Leicken Follow the podcast: Listen on Apple Podcasts (link: https://apple.co/3s1YH7h) Listen on iHeart (link: https://ihr.fm/3MEY7FM) Listen on Spotify (Link: https://spoti.fi/3yMmQCE) Resources: Kharma Lindsey's Linkedin Kharma Lindsey's Instagram Kharma Lindsey's Facebook Kharma Lindsey's X Soul Rhythms Dr. Dave Leicken Connect with Mathew Blades: Twitter - twitter.com/MathewBlades Instagram - instagram.com/MathewBladesmedia/ Facebook - facebook.com/mathewbladesmedia/ Website - learnfrompeoplewholivedit.com/ Additional Credits: LFPWLI is managed by IMS LLC A note from our partner, Better Than Bitter: Divorce isn't just a life transition - it's a full-blown identity shift. One day you're a partner, a parent, and a planner for the future. The next? You're staring at paperwork, lawyer fees, and the overwhelming question: ‘What now?' I know it's hard. That's why we've created these courses - to give you courage, clarity, communication tools, and the support you need to move forward with confidence (and maybe even a little hope)! Reality check! Divorce is expensive - but battling in court is even more costly. For less than the price of an hour of an attorney's time, you'll gain the tools, support, and strategies to create a peaceful path forward. This program will pay for itself by helping you save thousands in legal fees and emotional stress! Hit these links to sign up today. Premium 5-Step Game Plan Course w/ Chat Coaching https://tanialeichliter.ontralink.com/t?orid=1049&opid=7 Standard Course 5-Step Game Plan Course https://tanialeichliter.ontralink.com/t?orid=1049&opid=8
The role of psychedelics in personal growth and leadership development with Ray Brejcha Recently, I joined a men's group in San Diego for a psychedelic retreat. We dropped in with a “hikers dose” of San Pedro. I found the day to be wonderful and filled with connection which was the goal of retreat host Ray Brejcha. In this interview we explore the transformative power of psychedelics in personal growth and leadership development, emphasizing the importance of vulnerability, self-leadership, and internal fulfillment over external validation. Ray will explain the concept of microdosing San Pedro, its effects, and how it differs from macrodosing. We will also discuss the use of Psychedelics as a toolbox and how they can help us heal and lead. Ray Brejcha is a transformational executive coach, mentor, and trusted advisor who helps high-achieving leaders, founders, and entrepreneurs break free from the subconscious limitations that hold them back. With a unique blend of deep psychological work, leadership mastery, and personal transformation, he supports those who are ready to move beyond surface-level success and step into their full, unshakable power. His approach includes: Executive Coaching & Leadership Evolution – Helping leaders embody confidence, clarity, and decisiveness while navigating high-stakes decisions, conflict, and team dynamics. Mentorship & Advisory Work – Supporting high performers in leadership, business, and personal growth with a strategic and holistic lens. Subconscious Reprogramming & Limiting Belief Work – Releasing deep-rooted conditioning to create lasting shifts in mindset and behavior. Group Leadership Retreats & Mastermind Experiences – Creating spaces where men can explore self-mastery, emotional intelligence, and a more expansive vision of leadership. LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/raybrejcha/ Websites: Psychedelic Enhanced Executive Coaching: pioneeringpathway.com Guided Solo Medicine Retreats for Leaders: Homecoming Health Connect with Mathew Blades: Twitter - twitter.com/MathewBlades Instagram - instagram.com/MathewBladesmedia/ Facebook - facebook.com/mathewbladesmedia/ Website - learnfrompeoplewholivedit.com/ Additional Credits: LFPWLI is managed by IMS LLC A note from our partner, Better Than Bitter: Divorce isn't just a life transition - it's a full-blown identity shift. One day you're a partner, a parent, and a planner for the future. The next? You're staring at paperwork, lawyer fees, and the overwhelming question: ‘What now?' I know it's hard. That's why we've created these courses - to give you courage, clarity, communication tools, and the support you need to move forward with confidence (and maybe even a little hope)! Reality check! Divorce is expensive - but battling in court is even more costly. For less than the price of an hour of an attorney's time, you'll gain the tools, support, and strategies to create a peaceful path forward. This program will pay for itself by helping you save thousands in legal fees and emotional stress! Hit these links to sign up today. Premium 5-Step Game Plan Course w/ Chat Coaching https://tanialeichliter.ontralink.com/t?orid=1049&opid=7 Standard Course 5-Step Game Plan Course https://tanialeichliter.ontralink.com/t?orid=1049&opid=8
Look for a note from Better than Bitter below. In this episode, you'll hear: When to contemplate the end of a relationship Strategies for managing nonproductive emotions and thoughts The five-steps to an amicable divorce A powerful exercise to kickstart your self-care Tania Leichliter is an Amicable Divorce Success Coach and the host of the podcast Better Than Bitter. She is the founder of a coaching platform dedicated to guiding individuals toward amicable divorce resolutions. Drawing from her personal experience of navigating a positive, amicable divorce, Tania emphasizes the importance of emotional healing before engaging in the legal process. She believes that with mindset management, self-love, and a clear vision of the future, an amicable divorce is attainable. In this episode, Mathew, Dr. Frank Bevacqua, and Tania discuss the complexities of ending relationships, focusing on divorce but highlighting how the insights and tools shared can apply to all types of relationships.They emphasize that, although divorce may be common, it doesn't have to be the adversarial battle many envision. They explore how to recognize when it might be time to end a relationship, address how certain emotions and thought patterns can perpetuate harm, and share tools to manage them. Tania also outlines her five-step process for achieving an amicable divorce. “What if divorce is just another life transition, and we all deserve to have better and brighter futures.” “If it's my truth it's just a thought, if it's the truth that's the fact.” Follow the podcast: Listen on Apple Podcasts (link: https://apple.co/3s1YH7h) Listen on iHeart (link: https://ihr.fm/3MEY7FM) Listen on Spotify (Link: https://spoti.fi/3yMmQCE) Resources: Divorce Coaching - Better Than Bitter (TM) Better than Bitter Podcast LFPWLI series on intimacy with Dr. Elizabeth Fedrick Connect with Mathew Blades: Twitter - twitter.com/MathewBlades Instagram - instagram.com/MathewBladesmedia/ Facebook - facebook.com/mathewbladesmedia/ Website - learnfrompeoplewholivedit.com/ Additional Credits: LFPWLI is managed by IMS LLC A note from our partner, Better Than Bitter: Divorce isn't just a life transition - it's a full-blown identity shift. One day you're a partner, a parent, and a planner for the future. The next? You're staring at paperwork, lawyer fees, and the overwhelming question: ‘What now?' I know it's hard. That's why we've created these courses - to give you courage, clarity, communication tools, and the support you need to move forward with confidence (and maybe even a little hope)! Reality check! Divorce is expensive - but battling in court is even more costly. For less than the price of an hour of an attorney's time, you'll gain the tools, support, and strategies to create a peaceful path forward. This program will pay for itself by helping you save thousands in legal fees and emotional stress! Hit these links to sign up today. Premium 5-Step Game Plan Course w/ Chat Coaching https://tanialeichliter.ontralink.com/t?orid=1049&opid=7 Standard Course 5-Step Game Plan Course https://tanialeichliter.ontralink.com/t?orid=1049&opid=8