Can I Preach

My guest today is going to help me bring to light, a conversation that we really need to have. One that to be fair, I had never given much thought to until my guest today reached out. The month of October was black history month in the U.K and even though this episode will air in November, today’s topic is one of significant importance all year round as we will be discussing stem cell donation and why black donors play a pivotal role. The post EP 55: Let’s Talk About Stem Cell Donation with Francis Allison appeared first on Can I Preach?.

Think about it, in this day and age, what does it truly mean to be a supportive friend? Especially in a space where friendships are characterised by more than just emotional resonance. These days other aspects like social media affiliation, as dumb as it sounds, factor into the equation of how ‘supportive’ we are being. Should you as a ‘good friend’ risk honesty for the sake of maintaining your ties with people? Let’s talk about it? The post EP 54: Being A Supportive Friend Today appeared first on Can I Preach?.

Bitterness is an ugly look on anyone, doesn’t matter who you are or what you do. We all know that being bitter doesn’t add any positives to our lives but we are still so quick to turn sour. Instead of taking an introspective look at why we’re feeling this way, we’d rather project our turbulent emotions to those we feel did us wrong. The worst part about being bitter is that it usually affects us much more than the people we’re bitter about and before you know it, you’ve spiralled into a rabbit hole of toxicity. Let’s talk about it. The post EP 53: Why Being Bitter Is Toxic appeared first on Can I Preach?.

Do not overlook self-care, you are not a machine! I can’t stress this highly enough because in this day and age, people misconstrue the meaning of productivity and equate it to working yourself into the ground. I have been vocal in the past about how infuriating people who perpetuate toxic productivity can be, always sharing captions that promote an unhealthy standard of living for the sake of ‘the grind’. Self-care is just as important as your 9-5 shift or any other activity you partake in. Learn to make time for yourself and start prioritising healing and reflection. The post EP 52: How To Start Prioritising Self-Care appeared first on Can I Preach?.

Previously on Can I Preach, Donavere and I spoke about his adventures in Hong Kong and Activism amongst many other things. On this episode, we reflect on our journey at university as we stare down the final 10 months to the grand crescendo that is graduation. We delve deeper into all that the ups and downs that this journey has encompassed as well as speculate on what the future holds. We will also try and sprinkle some words of wisdom to all the budding freshers, hoping that they’ll learn from our comical mistakes. The post EP 51: Thoughts On Senior Year Of University with Donavere Mahon appeared first on Can I Preach?.

As we commemorate the 50th episode of Can I Preach, the podcast gods have FINALLY answered my prayers and delivered me a guest. Perhaps the wait was worth the while as the man joining us today has lived quite the experience over the past 12 months. In 2019, Donavere left the humble shores of Dundee, Scotland and ventured off to study abroad in Hong Kong, where he got caught up in the protests. He was then relocated to Australia, his arrival ushered in with the terrible bushfires. Now back home in the U.K, my globe-trotting friend is here to speak about the state of modern-day activism, Black Lives Matter, Biden 2020 and why it’s important to have conversations about racism. 6:00- Donavere’s big move to Hong Kong, his difficulties adjusting and the struggle that is culture shock 18:30- The Hong Kong protests and why it was important for Donavere to participate in these protests. 30:00-Racist stereotypes and navigating the corporate world as a black person 38:00-Donavere’s experience in Australia and the rise of environmental activism 45:00-Black Lives Matter and having uncomfortable conversations about racism. 01:17-Biden 2020 and the rise of Kamala Harris The post EP 50: Activism & Talking About Racism With Donavere Mahon appeared first on Can I Preach?.

Most of my friends have been up in arms about the fact that they can’t go to their favourite nightclub because of the lockdown. I, on the other hand, am not so sentimental about the club. I’ve never really enjoyed going to them for many reasons, maybe it’s because I missed the bus. A lot of people I know started clubbing at a fairly young age (trust me you would be surprised.) When I finally went, I realised that I wasn’t missing out on anything and the surprising thing is that many think along the same lines as me. Let’s talk about it. The post EP 49: Why I Hate The Club appeared first on Can I Preach?.

We all belong to at least one of them, fandoms are an essential aspect of socialising. Regardless of who you are and whatever background you hail from, you can always find solidarity amongst fellow fans of your favourite sports team, musician, film, tv show and everything else in between. Fandoms allow us to seamlessly fit in with specific groups which in return gives us a sense of belonging and now with the rapid spread of social media, fandoms have become bigger and bolder than ever before. Although there are many benefits to gain from this, there are tricky scenarios that can arise when fandoms clash or when you’re a newcomer trying to navigate uncharted spaces. Let’s talk about it. The post EP 48: Fandoms appeared first on Can I Preach?.

Have you ever felt like you don’t deserve the accolades or the achievements that you get? That it is only a matter of time before everything you’ve worked for comes tumbling down in a blazing inferno? If you can relate, then you have experienced what is known as the imposter syndrome. A psychological blockade riddled with self-doubt, convincing you that all your milestones are as a result of luck and that you are undeserving of any success. Even Maya Angelou, one of the most celebrated people of our time had shared similar concerns, so what can you do about it? The post EP 47: The Imposter Syndrome appeared first on Can I Preach?.

One of the few things in my life that I will NEVER compromise on is my cleanliness, I take great pride in keeping my personal spaces spotless and up to shape. I like to have all my clothes in order when they’re stacked away in my drawers. I always clean the soles of my shoes every day when I get home and I religiously disinfect my living environment thoroughly, every week. The thing about being a neat freak is you can occasionally find yourself getting on the nerves of those who do not share your concern for vigorous cleanliness. I find cleaning therapeutic and my spirit feels at peace when my spaces are in order. Let’s talk about it. The post EP 46: The Struggles of Being A Neat Freak appeared first on Can I Preach?.

I’m sure that we are all aware of the now-infamous Gillette advert that attempted to virtue signal the company towards higher profits by attacking and condemning its primary consumer base, not a great strategy. All jokes aside, (I mean I can’t even grow a beard, damn you genetics.) Toxic masculinity is a term that we often hear people throw around as they attempt to vilify things about men that they do not agree with. I believe that there is a case to be made for toxic behaviours that some men exude to, “Be a man.” However, the mainstream media’s take on it lacks substance and tries to group all forms of masculinity as toxic which is not the case. Let me explain. The post EP 45: Toxic Masculinity appeared first on Can I Preach?.

It’s something that we all deal with, those seemingly endless hours spent awake in the deathly quiet of the night where you just can’t sleep regardless of how hard you try. What if I told you that Insomnia and warped sleeping cycles don’t have to be your achilles heel. This past week I took it upon myself to recalibrate my sleep cycle which had taken a beating recently given that my daily schedule had changed a little. With a little tough love, you too can pummel Insomnia into submission. The post EP 44: Insomnia, The Final Frontier appeared first on Can I Preach?.

‘Kaizen’ is a Japanese word meaning continuous improvement, it’s origins trace back to post World-War Two and its use in the corporate world was popularised by Maasaki Imai through his book titled Kaizen. Why am I telling you this? Because at its core, Kaizen is based on the belief that everything can be improved. A message that I feel is fairly relevant given the chaotic world we are living in right now. More than that, it is important to understand that your self-betterment journey will forever be ongoing. Learning to strive for better, every day, in a sustainable way can have wonderful effects on your life. The post EP 43: The Kaizen Philosophy appeared first on Can I Preach?.

The bane of my existence, procrastination always seems to hit at the most inconvenient times, when I’m supposed to be getting something specific done. What I find most baffling about procrastination is that I avoid doing work by doing work, strange isn’t it? Instead of typing an essay, I’ll end up cleaning my room or going to the gym for a double session. This clearly isn’t me being lazy, after all, I am being productive in some capacity, but not in the way I would have hoped. Why am I like this? I have no idea, let’s talk about it. https://www.nytimes.com/2019/03/25/smarter-living/why-you-procrastinate-it-has-nothing-to-do-with-self-control.html https://jamesclear.com/procrastination The post EP 42:Procrastination appeared first on Can I Preach?.

The Marvel Cinematic Universe is the most successful franchise in the history of film, comprising so far, of 23 movies across three phases which have collectively grossed over 20 billion dollars in 11 years. Marvel Studios were able to turn B-List superheroes like Iron Man, Captain America and Thor into household names. Today, everyone and their dog knows who the Avengers are, even if you don’t like the films you can’t ignore their influence on pop culture. On this podcast episode, I dive into why Marvel Studios will forever hold a special place in my heart. Join me as I try to explain to the uninitiated why I believe it is one of the greatest gifts to modern cinema despite its flaws. The post EP 41: My Love For Marvel Studios appeared first on Can I Preach?.

I would strongly argue that almost every single issue that Kenya faces today has ties to colonialism, that is not to take personal accountability from local politicians and authorities who are not doing their job as is required. This personal accountability applies to the police force as well, as it’s no secret that the Kenyan public is increasingly becoming disenfranchised with law enforcement. There have been dozens of deaths during the government-imposed curfew as a result of police brutality, unfortunately, cases of citizens being subjected to excessive force are nothing new. To understand the issue, we must first trace the colonial roots of law enforcement in Kenya and how classism carries on its horrid legacy. https://www.washingtonpost.com/world/africa/kenya-coronavirus-curfew-crackdown-death-toll/2020/04/15/740a8c4e-79be-11ea-a311-adb1344719a9_story.html https://theconversation.com/why-violence-is-a-hallmark-of-kenyan-policing-and-what-needs-to-change-139878 https://www.change.org/p/the-president-of-kenya-justice-for-samuel-maina The post EP 40: Classism and The Police appeared first on Can I Preach?.

It’s a horrible world we live in when some of the people who are supposed to protect civilians and uphold the law with diligence, are the same ones causing serious bodily harm and in other unfortunate situations, executing said civilians with complete disregard for their life or the lives of those that they leave behind. I would like to stress that in an institution such as law enforcement where each individual has a great amount of power, one “mistake” is a stain on the entire force. Furthermore, I am aware that there are more good police officers than bad ones, but how many people will have to die before proper changes are implemented to ensure that foul individuals never get the chance to serve in law enforcement in the first place? The post EP 39: Rogue Police appeared first on Can I Preach?.

So there I was talking to my friend about streaming services when I started going off on a rant about how there were way too many to choose from. I mean, how was I going to watch all my favourite shows which had now been scattered across Netflix, Disney Plus and Apple Tv? “It would mean having to pay for three different accounts,” I dreaded. It was at that exact moment when a light bulb flickered in my brain and I realised that I had become a victim of first world problems. I immediately started to think about all the other things that I have been complaining about recently and my worst fears were confirmed, but how did this happen? Had I let my experience as an International student go to my head? Had I become….that guy? Or, are there lessons to be learned from such problems? The post EP 38: First World Problems appeared first on Can I Preach?.

Creating content today is not as simple as just making something and putting it out there, the landscape has changed completely. People today expect value for the time invested, as a creator you must ensure that whatever you offer is up to a certain standard because the competition has ramped up tenfold. If you want to grow and succeed, then you have to learn how the game of content creation is played and there are many tricks to grasp. Beyond that, you must be consistent come rain or sunshine, which is the hardest thing to do. The post EP 37: Advice On Creating Content appeared first on Can I Preach?.

People grow apart, it happens, welcome to the real world. Sorry to be uncharacteristically blunt upfront, but expired friendships are a natural part of this journey we call life. Friendships expire for many reasons, some go through an ugly, intense breakdown, while others drift apart through time. A lot of the times, as you grow your interests change, sometimes in a drastic way that does not support the friendships that you had established earlier. I happen to be at a stage where I am more than comfortable with cutting off ties, I’ll explain why. This episode will benefit you greatly if you have already listened to episode 3, 9 and 25 which complement what I talk about. Let’s do it. The post EP 36: Expired Friendships. appeared first on Can I Preach?.

Several people over the past couple of months have emailed me, asking me to speak about Christianity and seeing as it is such a broad topic, I didn’t necessarily know what exactly to focus on. So I narrowed it down to the most pressing questions and the recurring ones had a lot to do with the impact that Christianity has had on my upbringing, on African countries, and how it continues to influence social policies such as the Anti-LGBT Laws.As you can see, that is a lot to uncover for one straight male, especially because I can’t speak for all of Africa. Therefore, I decided to focus on Kenya, a land I know all too well as I break down the challenges and hypocrisies that it presents. Okay, here goes nothing. The post EP 35: Christianity, Colonialism & The LGBT In Kenya appeared first on Can I Preach?.

In this day and age, we love to tell everybody that will listen about how many things we’re doing, when we’re doing them and how. A lot of times, we tend to put the cart in front of the horse, instead of working on our goals, we spend more time telling people about how much work we put in. I just learned to stop sharing my dreams with others as I found value in moving in silence. Do my own thing at my own pace and block out all the noise. There are many benefits to be gained when you keep your dreams to yourself and follow your path. Let’s talk about it. The post EP 34: Keep Your Dreams To Yourself appeared first on Can I Preach?.

This episode goes out to all the freshers worried about choosing their courses for their first year at university. I know first hand what it’s like to go through that stressful period, so I thought it would be helpful to give you some tips on how you can ease that burden. The post EP 33: Choosing Your Classes appeared first on Can I Preach?.

For those of you who may not know, I have finally decided to step into the Wizarding World of Harry Potter after years of looking on from the outside. Why the sudden interest you ask? Well, what better time to dive into the seven books than right now? Due to the ongoing lockdown, I had found myself with nothing to read after already ploughing through my other books. Going into one of the most beloved stories of all time, I had various expectations and some reservations, most of which were forced upon me by my Catholic primary school teachers. Now that I have read and watched the Philosopher’s stone, I’d like to share with you my first reaction to it. So tune in to this episode and remember to stay safe, or it’s three points off Gryffindor! The post EP 32: The Boy Who Lived appeared first on Can I Preach?.

“Data is the new oil.” Is a phrase that has become relatively well known in the modern age coined by Clive Humby. Surveillance is defined by the dictionary as the act of paying close and sustained attention to a person or group, over a period of time for a particular reason. It has undergone drastic changes in recent years with the advancement of technology and it would seem that from the outside, we as a collective have come to accept the fact that we are constantly under watch. This relaxed approach that we have embraced raises serious ethical questions about what level of surveillance should be acceptable. Where do we draw the line? Do we even have a right to privacy anymore? Do we care? Let’s talk about it. The post EP 31: SURVEILLANCE AND THE PEOPLE appeared first on Can I Preach?.

Does anyone else feel like they are slowly losing their minds over the whole lockdown situation? I completely understand why it is happening, the importance of social distancing and following the rules. I also commend all the essential workers for putting their health on the line for our benefit. Like always, I am just reflecting on my thoughts. Lately, it feels like my entire rhythm has been recalibrated. At first, I was completely okay with it, though as the days continue to roll on, I’ve started to realise all the things I took for granted. My daily routine that gave me purpose has for the time being been stripped away. Truth be told, this stay at home thing is harder than I thought it would be. The post EP 30: Cabin Fever appeared first on Can I Preach?.

These isolating periods of quarantine as a result of the coronavirus pandemic have given me a lot to think about. During one of my quieter moments, I began to reflect on the latest Star Wars film, The Rise Of Skywalker and why it did not work for me. As the concluding chapter in the otherwise phenomenal Skywalker saga, a saga that has captured the imagination of millions, a story that has been passed on from generation to generation since 1977, this was it. This was supposed to be a grand finale for the ages but it fell flat, for a good number of reasons. Let’s talk about it. The post EP 29: Star Wars; A Missed Opportunity appeared first on Can I Preach?.

Have you ever gone from a situation whereby you were the best around your social group, to finding yourself surrounded by people who are far more advanced than you? A few weeks ago, I joined a writers circle and had people go through my work in detail. It was nerve-wracking at times, as I felt more vulnerable and protective over my work than ever before. Being in this supportive but competitive space, where everyone was good at writing meant that nobody was pulling any punches. Existing in competitive environments where the unfiltered truth is common can either push you to be better or demotivate you. It all comes down to how you handle criticism, if you want to succeed bad enough, then you have to know how to navigate these shark-infested waters. The post EP 28: Constructive Criticism appeared first on Can I Preach?.

15 months ago, I decided to get my hair locked and so far, it has been a fascinating experience to say the least. Having ‘locs’ has taught me a lot about myself, as crazy as that sounds. There are many misconceptions that people have about locs, and Black peoples’ hair in general. Most if not all of them are born out of the ignorance and misinformation of a society that continues to perpetuate the Imperial European standards of what hair type is, “Acceptable.” Though my locs are still very ‘young’ in the grand scheme of things, I feel that my journey has taught me enough lessons that could be useful for those who are thinking about locking their hair, let’s get into it. The post EP:27 Deconstructing The Perception Of ‘Black’ Hair appeared first on Can I Preach?.

I recently rewatched the film Belle, played by Guru Mbatha-Raw set in the late 1700s to early 1800s, based on a true story. Belle was the child of a white British Naval Officer and an African woman, she was brought to the United Kingdom at a young age by her father after her mother passed. Belle was taken into custody by her great-uncle Lord William Murray Mansfield, who happened to be Britains’ most powerful judge at the time. This relationship would be significant as Belles’ life became intertwined with the abolishment of the Slave Trade in March 1807. The film was inspired by a 1779 painting of Belle standing beside her cousin Lady Elizabeth Murray at Kenwood House in London, which now hangs at Scone Palace in Perth, Scotland. Beware of spoilers…. The post EP 26: Dido Elizabeth Belle appeared first on Can I Preach?.

Just like a closet needs clearing and a house needs deep cleaning, your social media accounts need decluttering. This is even more apparent for those of us who have had active profiles for years as there are a tonne of pages and people that are not relevant to our lives anymore. Social media should be fun, you shouldn’t feel boxed in like you’ve been cast out into the wild to fend off hungry wolves. You need to protect your peace and that starts by hitting the unfollow button on some people, so that you can use it as a platform for happiness and inspiration. Declutter your feed without shame, I know I am, a little spring cleaning can go a long way. The post EP 25: Spring Cleaning appeared first on Can I Preach?.

Voltaire once said that, “Perfect is the enemy of the good,” Meaning that we inevitably stifle ourselves on our road to perfection, which is an unreachable destination. Being a perfectionist is almost romanticised by our communities and the wider society, because it is viewed as a desirable trait. I mean, what could be wrong with wanting to make sure that everything you do is perfect? Well it turns out that the quest for perfectionism is a poisoned chalice, drink from it and you’ll expose yourself to a vast sequence of personal degradation, that will only push you further away from the person you are trying to be. Perfectionism is linked with low self esteem, higher levels of insecurity and social anxiety among others, which could explain the rise of cosmetic surgeries and unattainable life expectations in the modern day. I would consider myself a reforming perfectionist, trying as much as I can to distance myself from that word and its characteristics. Let’s talk about it The post EP 24: The Imperfection Of Perfectionism appeared first on Can I Preach?.

First dates are usually exciting and terrifying at the same time, it doesn’t matter if you are a veteran in the relationship game or just starting. You have worked so hard to get the attention of that person, so you don’t want to mess it up. With valentines day on the horizon, I thought I would give you guys a fun rundown of what to do and what not to do on your first date with your special someone. As always, these are pointers from my own experiences, so don’t expect any expert love guru info, I’m just a lad with a microphone, now stop sitting around and press play. The post EP 23:First Date Basics appeared first on Can I Preach?.

One of the best things you can do for yourself while you are still young and full of ambition is to get a job. I mean, we all need money to survive, so it should go without saying. On a serious note, getting a job is much more than simply finding a source of income, it is about valuable experiences and acquiring skills that you will need for the rest of your life. If you are in your early 20s, this is the best time to explore as many fields as possible while you figure out what you plan on doing long term. I’ll also give you some tips on how Internship interviews are conducted for those of you who need them, press play. The post EP 22:Work, Work, Work appeared first on Can I Preach?.

“We are all self-conscious, I’m just the first to admit.” Kanye West said that in his 2004 hit song, ‘All Falls Down’ which explores societies’ heightened obsession with materialism. The fact that the songs’ message is more relevant today than it was back then, speaks volumes about us as people. Before I go any further, I understand that there are those saints who have detached themselves from the need for material possessions, good on you for doing so, but this episode of for the rest of us mere mortals like myself who can’t help it. Flexing is a big part of our lives, that transcends the financial realm. There are many aspects of yourself that you can flex, I mean, how else with the haters know you are living your best life? We love to be seen, we love to show off, it’s just the way we work and spoiler alert, I don’t think there is anything inherently wrong with celebrating yourself. Maybe that’s just the marketer in me, trying to justify our high levels of materialism. I believe that the dilemma lies in the 'why' and 'how', doesn’t make sense yet? Don’t worry it will, press play. The post EP 21: Flex Culture appeared first on Can I Preach?.

Most things can be harmful to you in excess and productivity is no different. Now I know what you’re thinking, “How can productivity be toxic when I need to be productive to achieve my dreams?” Fear not, for on this episode, I will do my best to answer that question. Toxic productivity or hustle culture is a complicated subject matter that has no true definition although the characteristics of toxic productivity are common online. It has a lot to do with the mentality we adopt when trying to, “Get that bread,” In this never-ending pursuit for success. Here is the plot twist though, I may have been guilty of perpetuating it, I know GASP! I had to take a long introspective look at why exactly I want to succeed and how that relates to my productivity. The post EP 20: Toxic Productivity appeared first on Can I Preach?.

For those of us who rely on our imagination and ingenuity to create art, be it music, YouTube videos, podcasts and written literature, creative blocks are our biggest nightmare. You are stuck in this void where you cannot seem to channel that spark that has been coming so effortlessly to you. It’s frustrating not being able to snap out of it immediately, so what can you do? The post EP 19: Creative Blocks appeared first on Can I Preach?.

“Show me your friends and I will show you who you are.” That is how that popular saying goes. As radical as it may come across, one can’t help but wonder whether there is some truth to that saying.The people you surround yourself with on a daily basis, can either be fantastic for your own personal growth, or be the very individuals holding you back from achieving your desires. Like always, I arrogantly assume I am qualified enough to give you advice, so here goes nothing. The post EP 18: The Company You Keep appeared first on Can I Preach?.

2019 has run its course and as the new year dawns, we must say goodbye to the 2010s. What a decade it has been, for better or for worse the world has undergone massive changes all across the board. At times, the 2010s have been inspiring, innovating, disappointing and disrupting. We have witnessed a decade where globalisation has grown and cultures have spread, where light has been shed on new conversations both politically and socially. This podcast episode looks back at the 2010s one last time before the clocks strike midnight, a fitting end to a significant period. The post EP 17: Sign Of The Times appeared first on Can I Preach?.

It is the belief that positive or negative thoughts will result in either positive or negative outcomes in a person’s life. I was highly sceptical when thinking about the law of attraction because I used to think about it as spiritual mambo jumbo. What changed my mind? The post EP 16: The Law Of Attraction appeared first on Can I Preach?.

Exam season is arguably the most stressful period for most students during the semester. Many must juggle tonnes of information that they have gathered from their various modules, memorise every formula, every quote said by some scholar to stand a chance of getting a good grade. Sometimes, it feels like the weight of the world rests on your shoulders, so how can you get through this awful period with your sanity intact? Listen to find out. The post EP 15: Exam Season appeared first on Can I Preach?.

Let me set the scene for you, you are at a party having the time of your life when your favourite song plays on the playlist. Naturally, you and your friends sing the lyrics word for word as you would but wait a minute, someone in the room drops the N-word! Hearing that word come out of the mouth of someone who is not black makes you uncomfortable. “It’s just a song,” You say to yourself, but the damage is already done and your night is ruined. Here is my take on the N-word and its use in society, it's a lot more complicated than it seems, so hold on to your hats! The post EP 14: The N-Word appeared first on Can I Preach?.

Learning how to handle your finances is arguably one of the most important skills you will need to acquire as a student. The slippery slope that is life on a student budget is well documented, some might go as far as to say that there is no such thing as financial security as a student. While I agree with that sentiment, there are still steps you can take to ensure that you are spending the money you have wisely and saving as much as possible. I’ll tell you how on this episode. The post EP 13: Save The Student appeared first on Can I Preach?.

It’s that time of year, (No not Christmas.) But my birthday, November 26th! This year as I turn 21 years old, I thought that for this episode I would answer five questions in detail given that answering twenty-one would be tedious. So sit back and enjoy this easy going episode on your morning commute, lunch break or evening quiet time. The post EP 12: Being 21 appeared first on Can I Preach?.

In a world plagued with politics essays and microeconomics exams, one student will emerge from the horizon to save his grades, get a good degree and teach others how to be their own heroes. But as our hero swoops in, the dark forces that loom in the shadows threaten to stand in his way. It’s up to him to find a way through the shackles of unspeakable evil and pass on the knowledge that he has attained throughout his time on campus. What knowledge you ask? Listen to the episode to find out. The post EP 11: Being Your Own Hero appeared first on Can I Preach?.

On the 14th of April 2019, the 8th and final season of Game Of Thrones began. This was a day many had anxiously anticipated for months since the release of season 7. Millions of fans all over the world had speculated about what to expect, hundreds of theories and narratives circulated our social groups. The excitement was at a fever pitch and we knew that regardless of whatever happens, this would be the most epic conclusion ever. Sadly for us, we were very wrong. Game Of Thrones season 8 was a massive disappointment story-wise, crumbling under the weight of its own success. Winter came but it did not leave any lasting impressions, instead, it made us long for what could have been. The post EP 10: Why Game Of Thrones Failed appeared first on Can I Preach?.

Personality traits reflect people’s characteristics, how they behave and communicate both physically and emotionally. Usually, we as a society tend to group people into one of two main distinctions, extroverts and introverts. Extroverts are people who are energised when they are surrounded by others, they constantly feed off of social interactions and engagements. Introverts, on the other hand, prefer to spend their time alone to recharge their energy. This does not necessarily mean that they are shy, they just do not crave social interaction like extroverts. Ambiverts are in the middle, we love to socialise but we also like to be left alone on some days. Being a young adult in my early twenties, this can sometimes be a hurdle when trying to juggle social commitments, ill explain further on this episode. The post EP 09: Being An Ambivert appeared first on Can I Preach?.

Cancelling someone refers to the act of socially disowning a person, usually a celebrity, for doing or saying something that has been flagged down as irredeemable by society. The aim of cancelling the individual is to diminish their cultural capital, ensuring that their influence in a particular field dwindles, this is achieved through boycotting and public shaming. I was once a vocal ‘canceller’ myself until I began to ask the question, where do we draw the line? These days everywhere you look someone is being bashed on the internet, in some cases it is justified but in others, it feels like we automatically ostracise those who do not conform to our ideals and that can lead us down a dangerous path. The post EP 08: CANCEL CULTURE! appeared first on Can I Preach?.

Social media over the last ten years has grown exponentially to the point where it is weird to think about what our world would be like without it. It has opened many doors for innovation and created a whole host of new careers but concurrently, social media has exposed us to a variety of new threats. In this digital age where we are interconnected through different apps and platforms, it is easy to get caught up in the machine and lose yourself. This podcast episode explores the dangers of social media. The post EP 07: The Dangers Of Social Media appeared first on Can I Preach?.

Back in Kenya, some of my friends who are from other countries around the world would often tell me about their experience as a minority in a majority ‘Black’ country. I listened to them but I was never really able to relate because that was not my reality, that is, until I moved abroad to study. When you are a racial minority, you view the world in a completely different way as certain things that were not known to you at the time become very transparent very quickly. This episode explores some of the observations I have made as a minority. The post EP 06: Being A Minority appeared first on Can I Preach?.

On the third episode of this podcast series titled, ‘Making Friends,’ I mentioned that you should do your best to be nice to people. Here’s the catch though, sometimes being too nice can have severe repercussions because some people will take advantage of your kindness and use you. So, how can you prevent that from happening? The post EP 05: Nice For What? appeared first on Can I Preach?.