Cocktails & Confessions Podcast

In this episode, Anthony and James flex their own 'mean gay' muscles as they highlight the parts of the gay scene that aren't as friendly as they make out to be. The LOOSE LADS podcast is a fun gay chat-show from Anthony Gilét (Gilet Slays), with co-host James Egan ('IamTomDop'). The outrageous duo from the podcast Cocktails and Confessions weigh-in on everything from body image to body counts, from dating to death. Each week the pair discuss different topics giving their hot takes and sassy commentary.*Disclaimer: LOOSE LADS contains adult themes and dark humour. With references to sex, and adult language.LISTEN INSTEAD OF WATCH:Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2gpLWuP...Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast...Amazon: https://music.amazon.co.uk/podcasts/f...SOCIALSFollow your hosts: / looseladspodcast https://www.tiktok.com/looselads/Anthony Gilét: https://www.instagram.com / giletslays https://www.tiktok.com/giletslays/James Egan: https://www.instagram.com/ iamtomdop

In this episode, the lads debate the concept of open relationships vs monogamy. James thinks the idea of 'The One' is idiotic, and Anthony thinks people can't simultaneously be "happily married" while still looking for a third on Grindr. The LOOSE LADS podcast is a fun gay chat-show from Anthony Gilét (Gilet Slays), with co-host James Egan ('IamTomDop'). The outrageous duo from the podcast Cocktails and Confessions weigh-in on everything from body image to body counts, from dating to death. Each week the pair discuss different topics giving their hot takes and sassy commentary.*Disclaimer: LOOSE LADS contains adult themes and dark humour. With references to sex, drugs and adult language.LISTEN INSTEAD OF WATCH:Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2gpLWuPHlbtpkQvYWSKHXVApple: https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/loose-lads/id1485572510Amazon: https://music.amazon.co.uk/podcasts/f4b0a3f0-d78e-4024-b59c-56e6fd3a40c2/loose-ladsSOCIALSFollow your hosts:https://www.instagram.com/looseladspodcast/ https://www.tiktok.com/looselads/Anthony Gilét: https://www.instagram.com/giletslays/ https://www.tiktok.com/giletslays/James Egan:https://www.instagram.com/iamtomdop/

In an episode about 'blue movies', Anthony and James discuss the LEAST realistic things about adult entertainment, their turn-offs and why there's gay-4-pay but not the reverse. The LOOSE LADS podcast is a fun gay chat-show from Anthony Gilét (Gilet Slays), with co-host James Egan ('IamTomDop'). The outrageous duo from the podcast Cocktails and Confessions weigh-in on everything from body image to body counts, from dating to death. Each week the pair discuss different topics giving their hot takes and sassy commentary.*Disclaimer: LOOSE LADS contains adult themes and dark humour. With references to sex, drugs and adult language.LISTEN INSTEAD OF WATCH:Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2gpLWuP...Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast...Amazon: https://music.amazon.co.uk/podcasts/f...SOCIALSFollow your hosts:  / looseladspodcast   https://www.tiktok.com/looselads/Anthony Gilét:   / giletslays   https://www.tiktok.com/giletslays/James Egan:  / iamtomdop  

In this episode Anthony and James ask questions like, what defines masculinity? Are you off-put by 'gay voice'? And The LOOSE LADS podcast is a fun gay chat-show from Anthony Gilét (Gilet Slays), with co-host James Egan ('IamTomDop'). The outrageous duo from the podcast Cocktails and Confessions weigh-in on everything from body image to body counts, from dating to death. Each week the pair discuss different topics giving their hot takes and sassy commentary.*Disclaimer: LOOSE LADS contains adult themes and dark humour. With references to sex, drugs and adult language.LISTEN INSTEAD OF WATCH:Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2gpLWuP...Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast...Amazon: https://music.amazon.co.uk/podcasts/f...SOCIALSFollow your hosts:https://www.instagram.com/looseladspo... https://www.tiktok.com/looselads/Anthony Gilét: https://www.instagram.com/giletslays/ https://www.tiktok.com/giletslays/James Egan:https://www.instagram.com/iamtomdop/

In this episode, James shares his experience with shibari and Anthony rants about self-fetishisation. The LOOSE LADS podcast is a fun gay chat-show from Anthony Gilét (Gilet Slays), with co-host James Egan ('IamTomDop'). The outrageous duo from the podcast Cocktails and Confessions weigh-in on everything from body image to body counts, from dating to death. Each week the pair discuss different topics giving their hot takes and sassy commentary.*Disclaimer: LOOSE LADS contains adult themes and dark humour. With references to sex, drugs and adult language.LISTEN INSTEAD OF WATCH:Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2gpLWuPHlbtpkQvYWSKHXVApple: https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/loose-lads/id1485572510Amazon: https://music.amazon.co.uk/podcasts/f4b0a3f0-d78e-4024-b59c-56e6fd3a40c2/loose-ladsSOCIALSFollow your hosts:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/looseladspodcast/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/looselads/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@giletslaysAnthony Gilét: https://www.instagram.com/giletslays/ https://www.tiktok.com/giletslays/James Egan:https://www.instagram.com/iamtomdop/

In this episode Anthony and James discuss extreme body transformations disguised as "twink death", 'bodies by pizza', and the paradox of body positivity. The LOOSE LADS podcast is a fun gay chat-show from Anthony Gilét (Gilet Slays), with co-host James Egan ('IamTomDop'). The outrageous duo from the podcast Cocktails and Confessions weigh-in on everything from body image to body counts, from dating to death. Each week the pair discuss different topics giving their hot takes and sassy commentary.*Disclaimer: LOOSE LADS contains adult themes and dark humour. With references to sex, drugs and adult language.LISTEN INSTEAD OF WATCH:Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2gpLWuP...Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast...Amazon: https://music.amazon.co.uk/podcasts/f...

In this week's episode, the hosts discuss the quest for pleasure and just what sexual exploits are worth their outcome. James details an experience with double penetration, while Gilét questions why anyone would ever comitt to a Dubai porta potty.The LOOSE LADS podcast is a fun gay chat-show from Anthony Gilét (Gilet Slays), with co-host James Egan ('IamTomDop'). The outrageous duo from the podcast Cocktails and Confessions weigh-in on everything from body image to body counts, from dating to death. Each week the pair discuss different topics giving their hot takes and sassy commentary.*Disclaimer: LOOSE LADS contains adult themes and dark humour. With references to sex, drugs and adult language.LISTEN INSTEAD OF WATCH:Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2gpLWuP...Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast...Amazon: https://music.amazon.co.uk/podcasts/f...SOCIALSFollow your hosts:  / looseladspodcast   https://www.tiktok.com/looselads/Anthony Gilét:   / giletslays   https://www.tiktok.com/giletslays/James Egan:  / iamtomdop  

In this episode Anthony and James are asking questions about DEATH: like, what happens to your OnlyFans account after you die? Why do people clout-chase the dead? And, a horrifying tale about a lover that was murdered. The LOOSE LADS podcast is a fun gay chat-show from Anthony Gilét (Gilet Slays), with co-host James Egan ('IamTomDop'). The outrageous duo from the podcast Cocktails and Confessions weigh-in on everything from body image to body counts, from dating to death. Each week the pair discuss different topics giving their hot takes and sassy commentary.*Disclaimer: LOOSE LADS contains adult themes and dark humour. With references to sex, drugs and adult language.LISTEN INSTEAD OF WATCH:Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2gpLWuPHlbtpkQvYWSKHXVApple: https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/loose-lads/id1485572510Amazon: https://music.amazon.co.uk/podcasts/f4b0a3f0-d78e-4024-b59c-56e6fd3a40c2/loose-ladsSOCIALSFollow your hosts:https://www.instagram.com/looseladspodcast/ https://www.tiktok.com/looselads/Anthony Gilét: https://www.instagram.com/giletslays/ https://www.tiktok.com/giletslays/James Egan:https://www.instagram.com/iamtomdop/

This week Anthony and James debate the authenticity of relationships made on reality TV, whether it's ethical to use your children on YouTube channels and why OnlyFans gays are so cringeworthy on TikTok. The LOOSE LADS podcast is a fun gay chat-show from Anthony Gilét (Gilet Slays), with co-host James Egan ('IamTomDop'). The outrageous duo from the podcast Cocktails and Confessions weigh-in on everything from body image to body counts, from dating to death. Each week the pair discuss different topics giving their hot takes and sassy commentary.*Disclaimer: LOOSE LADS contains adult themes and dark humour. With references to sex, drugs and adult language.LISTEN INSTEAD OF WATCH:Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2gpLWuP...Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast...Amazon: https://music.amazon.co.uk/podcasts/f...Follow your hosts:  / looseladspodcast   Anthony Gilét:   / giletslays   https://www.tiktok.com/giletslays/James Egan:  / iamtomdop  

This week Anthony and James discuss their pet peeves when it comes to dating/hook-up apps. Anthony uses Tinder and hates a man that doesn't know what he wants, while James can't stand that pushy "FUN NOW" Grindr persona.Sign up for Eclipse Dating:https://anthonygilet.wixsite.com/eclipseThe LOOSE LADS podcast is a fun gay chat-show from Anthony Gilét (Gilet Slays), with co-host James Egan ('IamTomDop'). The outrageous duo from the podcast Cocktails and Confessions weigh-in on everything from body image to body counts, from dating to death. Each week the pair discuss different topics giving their hot takes and sassy commentary.*Disclaimer: LOOSE LADS contains adult themes and dark humour. With references to sex, drugs and adult language.LISTEN INSTEAD OF WATCH:Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2gpLWuP...Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast...Amazon: https://music.amazon.co.uk/podcasts/f...SOCIALSFollow your hosts:  / looseladspodcast   https://www.tiktok.com/looselads/Anthony Gilét:   / giletslays   https://www.tiktok.com/giletslays/James Egan:  / iamtomdop  

Anthony & James discuss their pet peeves when it comes to dating and hook-up apps in tonight's episode - out at 8pm!The LOOSE LADS podcast is a fun gay chat-show from Anthony Gilét (Gilet Slays), with co-host James Egan ('IamTomDop'). The outrageous duo from the podcast Cocktails and Confessions weigh-in on everything from body image to body counts, from dating to death. Each week the pair discuss different topics giving their hot takes and sassy commentary.

This week, we chat about breaking boy-code; would you sleep with a friend's ex? What about their dad? Find out how far our hosts would go... and how far they have been. LOOSE LADS podcast is a fun chat-show from Anthony Gilét (Gilet Slays), with co-host James Egan ('IamTomDop'). The outrageous duo from the podcast Cocktails and Confessions weigh-in on everything from body image to body counts, from dating to death. Each week the pair discuss different topics giving their hot takes and unfiltered commentary.*Disclaimer: LOOSE LADS contains adult themes and dark humour. With references to sex, drugs and adult language.Follow your hosts: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/looseladspodcast/Anthony Gilét:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/giletslays/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/giletslaysJames Egan: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/iamtomdop/

Returning to the mics after two years, Anthony details his social media break and an arousing nude shoot on a horse, while James explains how he's been using straight dating apps to meet DL men.Follow your hosts:Anthony GilétInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/giletslays/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/giletslaysJames Egan:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/iamtomdop/

In a - very delayed - Christmas Special, Anthony Gilét and DomTop return to dish all of their year of sex; including hook-ups via Adult Friend Finder and a threesome that ends in blood, sweat and cum. The pair delve into listener regrets and confessions from 2022.  Instagram: @CocktailsConfessions @GiletSlays @IamDomTop 

In our last episode for the foreseeable, @GiletSlays is joined by the dulcet tones of @SwanSwagga as they discuss the recent uproar over Gilét's first date standards, the worst things people have said to them during sex, and a 3-part round of confessions!  Our confessionals will still continue over on IG: @CocktailsConfessions 

In a feature-length penultimate episode Gilét Slays is joined by Leo (Laid Bare) and Cooper (Koops) to discuss getting laid with a furry Ukranian, why cliques in the gay community are more exclusive than inclusive, and whether or not non-monogamous couples should have kids.  Go out with a bang they said... 

@GiletSlays is joined by two of the biggest slags in the UK; C**k Destroyer Rebecca More and porn star Josh Moore. They talk about the slaggiest things they've done and delve into more slaggy things from the listeners!  @CocktailsConfessions 

@GiletSlays is joined by @MarkAshleyD to discuss what gives them - and their listeners - the ICK! 

@ReturningQueen joins @GiletSlays and @IamDomTop to spill the tea on having a cash pig pay his rent, which porn star had a B.O. issue and which gay celeb he's seen "thirsty" messages from on Grindr. It's a doozy!  Get your high-end sex toys from HotOctopuss.com

@IamDomTop discusses his latest roleplay that involves an X-Box and a cheating husband, while @GiletSlays had an invite to a sex party. Our listener confessions return.  @CocktailsConfessions Get your high-end sex toys from HotOctopuss.com

How many sex rounds in one night is too many? That's what we're asking on tonight's episode! Fresh off a three-f**k hook-up @GiletSlays asks how many times is too much for one night, while @IamDomTop details his first experience with a panic attack. 

**Note: Apologies that we lost half of the episode, this is what we could salvage!  @GiletSlays and @IamDomTop discuss sexting the wrong people after Gilet text the wrong 'Grindr' contact in his phone.  @CocktailsConfessions

@GiletSlays and @IamDomTop chat about why compliments in bed are just great, plus they read out some confessions that'll shock even the most open-minds.  DM us on Instagram to submit a confession or dating question: @CocktailsConfessions @Cocktails_Cocktalk

@GiletSlays and @IamDomTop chat about trying out butt plugs, while one man got a Sex And The City-motivated circumcision. We tune in to a listener confession that involves a drunken hook-up with an ex, a dustpan and a garden hose.  @CocktailsConfessions Sponsored by: Hotocotpuss.com Shop the Plex: https://bit.ly/3J0eLg4

@DaniStJames returns for a catch-up with @GiletSlays: Gilét is currently dealing with a very peculiar infliction, while Dani shares what keeps a good relationship going long-term.  The pair discuss the recent Atlantis Cruise and its controversy, and the thickening plot of the dad and son on OnlyFans. 

@GiletSlays is joined by guest host Mark Bittlestone @PoofsRUs where they talk threesomes gone wrong, having sex with people you don't like, and breaking up with guys over text.  @CocktailsConfessions @Cocktails_Cocktalk 

@GiletSlays has been flirting with men in drag, while @IamDomTop is struggling to get rough in bed after a cosmetic procedure. The pair discuss Miranda's fingering scene in And Just Like That... before discussing their own experienced with the "lost art".  

@GiletSlays and @IamDomTop talk through their growth over the last year, and go through their best and worst shags of the year.   

@GiletSlays gives up on the men hiding behind masks (and helmets), while @IamDomTop undergoes a lil construction on his face. The pair then tackle some end of year fagony aunts and confessions. 

This week @IamDomTop has been ticking a number of things off his sexual bucket list, while @GiletSlays ponders if he needs to tick off his before getting into a relationship. 

Disclaimer: This episode contains references to sexual assault and rape, if you feel like this may be triggering for you, please don't feel like you have to listen.  @GiletSlays and @IamDomTop are used to using comedy as a defense mechanism, but in this episode they put the jokes to one side to speak about a topic that runs close to home: sexual assault in men.  If you are struggling with your own experience of sexual assault or rape please see the resources below: UK - Sexual Abuse Support: 08 08 16 89 111 SupportLine: 01708 765200 US - RAINN - https://www.rainn.org/ 800-656-HOPE (4673)

@GiletSlays and @IamDomTop are joined by @SwanSwagga and @NotJustJoe to talk all things circumcision. Should it be banned? What are our experiences with it? Find out in today's ep!   

Sex And The City podcaster @DylanBJones joins @GiletSlays and @IamDomTop for their SATC/And Just Like That special, where they discuss the impact the show had on them, their favourite episodes and characters and what they hope from the series revisit.   

@IamDomTop discusses his recent experiences with edging and @GiletSlays spills the tea on shooting his shot with the flight attendant. 

@GiletSlays and @IamDomTop chat with author and comedian @GraceCampbell about where shame comes from, how we can overcome it, and fantasies of getting fingered at the dinner table.  Get us on socials: @CocktailsConfessions @Cocktails_Cocktalk 

@GiletSlays and @IamDomTop are joined by @Glow_With_Ola to discuss femmephobia within the gay community, along with outfits to ditch at a festival, and how to converse with a sub who has a fetish for size-shaming. Talk about relatable.   

In the first Fagony Aunt of season 4, @GiletSlays and @IamDomTop weigh-in on a listener who wants to know how he gets action as a Side.  Get 10% off Hot Octopuss: COCKTAILS10  Follow us on socials: @Cocktails_Cocktalk @CocktailsConfessions 

In our season 4 opener, @GiletSlays opens up about his recent near-death experience, and a threesome which he... paid for? Meanwhile, @IamDomTop is finally back on the horse - and the witch hazel for those bedroom bruises.  Sponsored by Hot Octopuss use code: COCKTAILS10 for discount! 

In a season 3 finale, @Giletslays and @IamDomTop discuss language barrier when hooking up with a buff Brazilian, taking our masks off post-covid (and in general) and one confession gets our hosts hearts racing ("call the paramedic!") Shop C&C merch: etsy.com/uk/shop/CocktailsCollections Join the conversation: @CocktailsConfessions @CocktailsCocktalk  Get 10% off Hot Octopuss: COCKTALK10 

In @DaniStJames last episode as a regular host, the gang discuss the worst things they've seen on the club scene, erotic hypnotism, and Dani answers some listener questions. With @GiletSlays and @IamDomTop Join the conversation via our Instagram stories or DM us your confessions: @CocktailsCocktalk @CocktailsConfessions Shop our t-shirts: Etsy.co.uk/shop/cocktailscollections  Get 10% off Hot Octopuss toys with code: COCKTALK10

@DaniStJames discusses her condom days, @IamDomTop talks about his thing for hooking up in graveyards, and @GiletSlays gets "accosted" on another disastrous date.  Join the conversation: @CocktailsCocktalk @CocktailsConfessions Support us on Patreon and get bonus episodes each month!  patreon.com/cocktailsconfessions 10% OFF the most thrilling toys at Hot Octopuss with code: cocktalk10

Host of the Sex Rebels podcast and head of diversity for sex toy company Hot Octopuss, Kelly Gordon joins @GiletSlays and @IamDomTop to discuss how to have sex as a wheelchair user, devotees (people sexually attracted to disability) and weighs in on some truly sticky confessions.  Support the show and get bonus episodes twice a month! patreon.com/cocktailsconfessions Join the conversation: @CocktailsCocktalk @CocktailsConfessions

@GiletSlays and @IamDomTop read out the listener's best and worst experiences with gay celebrities. Gilét gets propositioned for mutual masturbation (...in this economy?!) and James' stalker continues to prowl.  Get extra episodes and bonus segments on Patreon: patreon.com/cocktailsconfessions Join the conversation: @CocktailsConfessions @CocktailsCocktalk W6WuFir0sVcVeTXgI42P

@GiletSlays and @IamDomTop dissect things that people have used Grindr for which isn't sexual, including cleaning services, drugs, McDonald's and just getting a good night's sleep.  Get bonus episodes over on Patreon: patreon.com/cocktailsconfessions Join the conversation on Instagram: @CocktailsConfessions @CocktailsCocktalk   Shop merch: etsy.com/uk/shop/cocktailscollections

Porn star @JoshMooreOfficial joins @GiletSlays and @IamDomTop to discuss masturbating to his own material, how he feels about falling in love, and together with hosts delves into a confession that involves a very... unique grieving process.  @CocktailsConfessions @CocktailsCocktalk Get the deleted scenes at: patreon.com/cocktailsconfessions

This week @DaniStJames and @GiletSlays are joined by @Coopsthecub and @Leolaidbare: the first couple to ever star on the show. They tell us the far-from-romantic way they met, selling underwear online, and address more dodgy confessions, including one from a guy who gave head in his gran's house.

@SwanSwagga returns and he's shed the 'barren Darren' image. Along with @GiletSlays and @IamDomTop, they discuss some of this week's confessions, including a Midsommer masturbation and bareback on a memorial bench.  Want to join the discussion and be in with a chance to win 3 months FREE to Cocktails & Cocktalk: Members.  @CocktailsCocktalk @CocktailsConfessions Get 2 bonus episodes each month from £5: patreon.com/cocktailsconfessions  Shop our merch: Etsy.com/uk/shop/cocktailscollections  

@IamDomTop ponders whether he has a foot fetish, while @GiletSlays relays another dead-end date. The pair then cackle over a sex story involving a carrot and a thatch of pubes.  @CocktailsConfessions @CocktailsCocktalk Want more? Get 3x extra episodes a month on Patreon!  Or support us via our merch store: etsy.com/uk/shop/cocktailscollections

@GiletSlays and @DaniStJames discuss the relevance of the 'T' slur, while reading some of the worst sex in fiction books. This week's confession is a bottom who's husband won't share his hole. Yikesss. Join the conversation: @CocktailsCocktalk @CocktailsConfessions Want MORE? Get bonus content at: patreon.com/cocktailsconfessions Or support by shopping our merch: Etsy.com/uk/shop/cocktailscollections 

@GiletSlays and @IamDomTop read out the best worst sex scenes from fiction - while doing ASMR - with hilarious results.  @CocktailsCocktalk @CocktailsConfessions Can't get enough? More episodes and content at: patreon.com/cocktailsconfessions  Support the show by buying our merch: etsy.com/uk/shop/cocktailscollections

@GiletSlays and @IamDomTop discuss the difference between dating older and younger men. Why FaceTime is great tool for modern dating. And read some of the best worst sex excerpts from books.  Want to support our show? Become a patron: patreon.com/cocktailsandcocktalk.com Or grab our official merch: etsy.com/uk/shop/cocktailscollections Join the conversation: @CocktailsConfessions @CocktailsCocktalk