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This week, Christine and Ellie are joined by sex educator and host of the Sexistentialist podcast, Em, and they are talking about KINKS! They discuss the difference between kinks and fetishes, who gets to decide the difference between kinky vs. vanilla sex, and Em gives an overview of masochism, sploshing, and cuckolding. Check out Em's podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/4B5VgQzIieEOKsR6Y25Aaw?si=3fde40e3fb514f12  Join us on Patreon for bonus episodes! https://www.patreon.com/embarrassedtoask    IG: @embarrassedtoask Contact us: embarrassedtoaskpodcast@gmail.com  Submit an anonymous question: https://forms.gle/UdHKid8PbvcpV5iC8   Buy ETA stickers: https://forms.gle/pHfPxyV3D2HmSB2n9. Designed by @twentysome.design   Cover Art & Branding by Rachel Hobart, @rhobes   Editing & Music by Greg Hagstrom, greghagjr@gmail.com

On this episode, Christine and Ellie discussed trauma-informed sex ed! They talk about what trauma is, how it can manifest in the classroom, and some simple classroom practices that can make a big difference in creating a safe and supportive environment for students.   Join us on Patreon for bonus episodes! https://www.patreon.com/embarrassedtoask    IG: @embarrassedtoask Contact us: embarrassedtoaskpodcast@gmail.com  Submit an anonymous question: https://forms.gle/UdHKid8PbvcpV5iC8   Buy ETA stickers: https://forms.gle/pHfPxyV3D2HmSB2n9. Designed by @twentysome.design   Cover Art & Branding by Rachel Hobart, @rhobes   Editing & Music by Greg Hagstrom, greghagjr@gmail.com

This week, Christine is joined by everyone's favorite guest - her mom! Christine and Lori unpack a recent NYT advice column and talk about the “parental rights” movement in sex ed.   Join us on Patreon for bonus episodes! https://www.patreon.com/embarrassedtoask    IG: @embarrassedtoask Contact us: embarrassedtoaskpodcast@gmail.com  Submit an anonymous question: https://forms.gle/UdHKid8PbvcpV5iC8   Buy ETA stickers: https://forms.gle/pHfPxyV3D2HmSB2n9. Designed by @twentysome.design   Cover Art & Branding by Rachel Hobart, @rhobes   Editing & Music by Greg Hagstrom, greghagjr@gmail.com

To celebrate pride, Christine and Ellie are answering anonymous questions from students related to gender and sexuality!   Join us on Patreon for bonus episodes! https://www.patreon.com/embarrassedtoask    IG: @embarrassedtoask Contact us: embarrassedtoaskpodcast@gmail.com  Submit an anonymous question: https://forms.gle/UdHKid8PbvcpV5iC8   Buy ETA stickers: https://forms.gle/pHfPxyV3D2HmSB2n9. Designed by @twentysome.design   Cover Art & Branding by Rachel Hobart, @rhobes   Editing & Music by Greg Hagstrom, greghagjr@gmail.com

On this episode, Christine and Ellie discuss Florida's “Don't say gay” bill, the effects on queer and trans youth, and how words like grooming are being weaponized against the LGBTQ+ community and sex educators. They also talk about Kirk Cameron's homeschooling propaganda, moms who are trying to ban inclusive books, and a high school student who was forbidden from using the word gay during his commencement speech. The world is a dark place, but we promise to bring a more uplifting episode next week.   IG: @embarrassedtoask  Contact us: embarrassedtoaskpodcast@gmail.com  Submit an anonymous question: https://forms.gle/UdHKid8PbvcpV5iC8  Buy ETA stickers: https://forms.gle/pHfPxyV3D2HmSB2n9. Designed by @twentysome.design   Cover Art & Branding by Rachel Hobart, @rhobes   Editing & Music by Greg Hagstrom, greghagjr@gmail.com

This week, Christine and Ellie are talking about sex ed for students with disabilities! They talk about the ways in which sex ed is failing students with disabilities, and how we can make our language and our classrooms more inclusive for all students. The hosts also mention disabled content creator @spencer2thewest on Tik Tok and a video series created by people with I/DD. Check them out!   Join us on Patreon for bonus episodes! https://www.patreon.com/embarrassedtoask    IG: @embarrassedtoask Contact us: embarrassedtoaskpodcast@gmail.com  Submit an anonymous question: https://forms.gle/UdHKid8PbvcpV5iC8   Buy ETA stickers: https://forms.gle/pHfPxyV3D2HmSB2n9. Designed by @twentysome.design   Cover Art & Branding by Rachel Hobart, @rhobes   Editing & Music by Greg Hagstrom, greghagjr@gmail.com

This week, Christine and Ellie are joined by Mady Frischer to talk about POLYAMORY! Mady shares how they became interested in polyamory, how their gender and sexuality intersect with being poly, their love for dating apps, and how sex ed could be more inclusive of various relationship structures. Follow Mady on instagram and tiktok @madygayle   Join us on Patreon for bonus episodes! https://www.patreon.com/embarrassedtoask    IG: @embarrassedtoask Contact us: embarrassedtoaskpodcast@gmail.com  Submit an anonymous question: https://forms.gle/UdHKid8PbvcpV5iC8   Buy ETA stickers: https://forms.gle/pHfPxyV3D2HmSB2n9. Designed by @twentysome.design   Cover Art & Branding by Rachel Hobart, @rhobes   Editing & Music by Greg Hagstrom, greghagjr@gmail.com

On this episode, Christine and Ellie welcome the winner of ETA trivia to the podcast, Jenny! Jenny is a rare and collectible book seller, and she educates Christine and Ellie about sex in the ancient world through exploring various antiquated texts. TLDL; a lot has changed, and simultaneously nothing has changed. Check out Jenny's rare and collectible book firm, Evening Star Books! Note: There is a discussion of abortion towards the end of the episode. This was recorded prior to the leak of the Supreme Court draft opinion on Roe v Wade, however, Ellie and Christine will be discussing that on the next ETA bonus episode.    Join us on Patreon for bonus episodes! https://www.patreon.com/embarrassedtoask    IG: @embarrassedtoask Contact us: embarrassedtoaskpodcast@gmail.com  Submit an anonymous question: https://forms.gle/UdHKid8PbvcpV5iC8   Buy ETA stickers: https://forms.gle/pHfPxyV3D2HmSB2n9. Designed by @twentysome.design   Cover Art & Branding by Rachel Hobart, @rhobes   Editing & Music by Greg Hagstrom, greghagjr@gmail.com

TW: Sexual Assault. This episode dives into the book Sexual Citizens: A Landmark Study of Sex, Power, and Assault on Campus by Dr. Jennifer Hirsch and Dr. Shamus Khan. Christine and Ellie talk about strategies for mitigating sexual assault on college campuses, binge drinking and greek life, and share their own experiences in college.   Join us on Patreon for bonus episodes! https://www.patreon.com/embarrassedtoask    IG: @embarrassedtoask Contact us: embarrassedtoaskpodcast@gmail.com  Submit an anonymous question: https://forms.gle/UdHKid8PbvcpV5iC8   Buy ETA stickers: https://forms.gle/pHfPxyV3D2HmSB2n9. Designed by @twentysome.design   Cover Art & Branding by Rachel Hobart, @rhobes   Editing & Music by Greg Hagstrom, greghagjr@gmail.com

This week, Christine and Ellie are joined by Kris, the co-founder of sex toy company, Emojibator! They talk about what inspired her to start her business, barriers and challenges she faces in the industry, and how she hopes to make pleasure accessible to all. Christine and Ellie finish the episode by talking about how they learned about sex toys and how they try to incorporate conversations about pleasure in the classroom. Check out Emojibator's products at https://www.emojibator.com/!    Join us on Patreon for bonus episodes! https://www.patreon.com/embarrassedtoask    IG: @embarrassedtoask Contact us: embarrassedtoaskpodcast@gmail.com  Submit an anonymous question: https://forms.gle/UdHKid8PbvcpV5iC8   Buy ETA stickers: https://forms.gle/pHfPxyV3D2HmSB2n9. Designed by @twentysome.design   Cover Art & Branding by Rachel Hobart, @rhobes   Editing & Music by Greg Hagstrom, greghagjr@gmail.com

This week's guest is the 3rd member of the ETA team, our audio engineer (and Christine's brother), Greg Hagstrom! While he's usually a silent member of the team, he's hopping on the mic this week to share his perspective on sports culture, locker room talk, and masculinity. Christine and Ellie round out the episode with a conversation about sports and popularity, uniforms, and body curiosity. Check out Greg's band, Fortress of the Bear, on spotify and instagram, or reach out to him directly at greghagjr@gmail.com if you want to take guitar lessons or have any audio engineering needs (i.e. want to record an album or need a podcast editor?)!   Want ETA episodes every week? Join us on Patreon for bonus episodes! https://www.patreon.com/embarrassedtoask    IG: @embarrassedtoask Contact us: embarrassedtoaskpodcast@gmail.com  Submit an anonymous question: https://forms.gle/UdHKid8PbvcpV5iC8   Buy ETA stickers: https://forms.gle/pHfPxyV3D2HmSB2n9. Designed by @twentysome.design   Cover Art & Branding by Rachel Hobart, @rhobes   Editing & Music by Greg Hagstrom, greghagjr@gmail.com

This week ETA is joined by Francisco Ramirez! Francisco holds an MPH from Columbia University's Mailman School of Public Health and has 20 years of experience in the sexual health field including working with the United Nations (UNICEF, UNAIDS, UNFPA, UN Department of Peacekeeping Operations), MTV, Planned Parenthood, Durex, Hetrick-Martin Institute, Albert Einstein College of Medicine, New York Academy of Medicine, and the NAACP. He is co-founder of the newly released sex education app OkaySo and offers #FreeSexAdvice on relationships, sex, and dating to passersby in NYC parks. Christine and Ellie chat with Francisco about his journey in the sexual health field, a shared love for Love Victor, alternative models to sex education, his app OkaySo, what it's like to give #FreeSexAdvice in NYC, and his love of cold weather! Check out Francisco's website to learn more about his amazing work: https://franciscoramirez.com/    Join us on Patreon for bonus episodes! https://www.patreon.com/embarrassedtoask  IG: @embarrassedtoask Contact us: embarrassedtoaskpodcast@gmail.com  Submit an anonymous question: https://forms.gle/UdHKid8PbvcpV5iC8   Buy ETA stickers: https://forms.gle/pHfPxyV3D2HmSB2n9. Designed by @twentysome.design Cover Art & Branding by Rachel Hobart, @rhobes   Editing & Music by Greg Hagstrom, greghagjr@gmail.com

On this episode, Christine and Ellie are discussing GENDER IDENTITY. They discuss TERFs and transmisogyny, gender affirming care, and inequities in health care and prison systems. TLDL; gender is a social construct, and trans rights issues extend far beyond pronouns and bathrooms. Join us on Patreon for bonus episodes! https://www.patreon.com/embarrassedtoask  IG: @embarrassedtoask Contact us: embarrassedtoaskpodcast@gmail.com  Submit an anonymous question: https://forms.gle/UdHKid8PbvcpV5iC8   Buy ETA stickers: https://forms.gle/pHfPxyV3D2HmSB2n9. Designed by @twentysome.design Cover Art & Branding by Rachel Hobart, @rhobes   Editing & Music by Greg Hagstrom, greghagjr@gmail.com

This week, Christine and Ellie are talking about SEXUAL ORIENTATION! They talk about sexual vs. romantic attraction, gender expression and stereotypes, queerbaiting, and the language we use when we talk about sexuality.   Join us on Patreon for bonus episodes! https://www.patreon.com/embarrassedtoask    IG: @embarrassedtoask Contact us: embarrassedtoaskpodcast@gmail.com  Submit an anonymous question: https://forms.gle/UdHKid8PbvcpV5iC8   Buy ETA stickers: https://forms.gle/pHfPxyV3D2HmSB2n9. Designed by @twentysome.design   Cover Art & Branding by Rachel Hobart, @rhobes   Editing & Music by Greg Hagstrom, greghagjr@gmail.com

WE'RE BACK! Christine and Ellie are recording together in person (!!) and are finally giving some background on how they ended up teaching sex ed and starting a podcast. Then they answer some hard hitting questions from listeners like “what's your favorite breakfast cereal?” Join us on Patreon for bonus episodes! https://www.patreon.com/embarrassedtoask  IG: @embarrassedtoask  Contact us: embarrassedtoaskpodcast@gmail.com  Submit an anonymous question: https://forms.gle/UdHKid8PbvcpV5iC8    Buy ETA stickers: https://forms.gle/pHfPxyV3D2HmSB2n9  Cover Art & Branding by Rachel Hobart, @rhobes   Editing & Music by Greg Hagstrom, greghagjr@gmail.com

Join us on January 27, 2022 at 5:30 PST/8:30 EST for sex trivia! Register here: https://us02web.zoom.us/meeting/register/tZErde2upzgsHtzZ41vztbWvpt5aUbnyNEQx Suggested donation of $5 via Venmo (Christine-Hagstrom). We'll donate 25% of the proceeds to SisterSong and the Trevor Project. We'll have incredible prizes and merch available, and we can't wait to see you there!    Trivia rules (aka the fine print): https://docs.google.com/document/d/1rxyMTFRwmlG39elLr926CsOnruqPvGrP/edit?usp=sharing&ouid=115551317647183893109&rtpof=true&sd=true 

On this special 25th episode, Christine and Ellie are answering anonymous questions from students about all the topics they've covered on ETA so far! This is the last episode of the year because our hosts are taking a much needed break, but don't worry, ETA will be back in early 2022!   IG: @embarrassedtoask Contact us: embarrassedtoaskpodcast@gmail.com Submit an anonymous question: https://forms.gle/UdHKid8PbvcpV5iC8    Cover Art & Branding by Rachel Hobart, @rhobes   Editing & Music by Greg Hagstrom, greghagjr@gmail.com

ETA is mixing it up this week with a much anticipated guest (drum roll please)...Christine's mom! Christine asks Lori how she feels about the podcast and her job as a sex educator, they share how they navigated “the talk” when Christine was growing up, and they give advice to other families on how to have a healthy dialogue about sex and sexuality. IG: @embarrassedtoask Contact us: embarrassedtoaskpodcast@gmail.com Submit an anonymous question: https://forms.gle/UdHKid8PbvcpV5iC8  Cover Art & Branding by Rachel Hobart, @rhobes   Editing & Music by Greg Hagstrom, greghagjr@gmail.com

On this episode, Christine and Ellie are talking about HIV. They talk about the HIV crisis in the 80s (key takeaway: Reagan is the worst), and then get into treatment and prevention options, how HIV is covered in sex ed., the FDA ban on MSM donating blood, and the problematic way that HIV is often conflated with queer health.    IG: @embarrassedtoask Contact us: embarrassedtoaskpodcast@gmail.com Submit an anonymous question: https://forms.gle/UdHKid8PbvcpV5iC8    Cover Art & Branding by Rachel Hobart, @rhobes   Editing & Music by Greg Hagstrom, greghagjr@gmail.com

This week, Christine and Ellie are talking about MENTAL HEALTH. They get really honest sharing their own experiences with mental health challenges, and talk about the ways in which mental and sexual health are intertwined. This was a cathartic episode for our hosts, so we hope the ETA listeners feel the same!   IG: @embarrassedtoask Contact us: embarrassedtoaskpodcast@gmail.com Submit an anonymous question: https://forms.gle/UdHKid8PbvcpV5iC8    Cover Art & Branding by Rachel Hobart, @rhobes   Editing & Music by Greg Hagstrom, greghagjr@gmail.com

It's finally here...Christine and Ellie are talking about CONTRACEPTION. On this episode (that they literally put off for months), they answer listener questions about hormones, side effects, IUDs, withdrawal, emergency contraception, how to talk to a provider about contraception and more! TLDL; use whatever contraceptive method that works best for you, and don't judge anyone else for their choices! Check out https://www.bedsider.org/ for more information on contraception and various methods!   IG: @embarrassedtoask Contact us: embarrassedtoaskpodcast@gmail.com Submit an anonymous question: https://forms.gle/UdHKid8PbvcpV5iC8    Cover Art & Branding by Rachel Hobart, @rhobes   Editing & Music by Greg Hagstrom, greghagjr@gmail.com

Christine and Ellie are back this week for part 2 of their conversation on ABORTION! This week, they're diving into abortion access in the U.S., including discussing Roe v. Wade, TRAP laws, crisis pregnancy centers, anti-choice protestors, and how abortion is portrayed in the media. IG: @embarrassedtoask Contact us: embarrassedtoaskpodcast@gmail.com Submit an anonymous question: https://forms.gle/UdHKid8PbvcpV5iC8 Cover Art & Branding by Rachel Hobart, @rhobes Editing & Music by Greg Hagstrom, greghagjr@gmail.com

This episode is part 1 of Christine and Ellie's conversation on ABORTION. They explain the difference between a medication abortion and an in-clinic abortion, discuss the various emotions people have surrounding their abortion, and debunk some myths about abortion. They also go on a tangent and tear apart J.K. Rowling for being a TERF (trans-exclusionary radical feminist). Regardless of how you feel about abortion, it is a safe, legal, and common procedure in the U.S.   IG: @embarrassedtoask Contact us: embarrassedtoaskpodcast@gmail.com Submit an anonymous question: https://forms.gle/UdHKid8PbvcpV5iC8    Cover Art & Branding by Rachel Hobart, @rhobes   Editing & Music by Greg Hagstrom, greghagjr@gmail.com

This week, Christine and Ellie are talking about VAGINAS. They talk about shapes, sizes, smells, discharge, and go off about the “vaginal wellness” market. Christine also tells the longest UTI story of all time, so buckle up. Thanks for listening!   IG: @embarrassedtoask Contact us: embarrassedtoaskpodcast@gmail.com Submit an anonymous question: https://forms.gle/UdHKid8PbvcpV5iC8    Cover Art & Branding by Rachel Hobart, @rhobes   Editing & Music by Greg Hagstrom, greghagjr@gmail.com

*NOTE: We believe we pronounced Sha'Carri Richardson's name incorrectly on this episode. Sincerest apologies for our mistake! There has been some pretty egregious shit happening with the Olympics this year, so Ellie and Christine are unpacking a few of them. They talk about Sha'Carri Richardson, Soul Caps, and two athletes, Christine Mboma and Beatrice Masilingi, who were banned from competition because they had naturally higher levels of testosterone. They also dive into what biological sex and intersex really means, and discuss the horrific practice of medically unnecessary surgeries on intersex babies (spoiler alert: this still happens regularly around the world, including in the U.S.A.)   IG: @embarrassedtoask Contact us: embarrassedtoaskpodcast@gmail.com Submit an anonymous question: https://forms.gle/UdHKid8PbvcpV5iC8    Cover Art & Branding by Rachel Hobart, @rhobes   Editing & Music by Greg Hagstrom, greghagjr@gmail.com

Buckle up ETA listeners because this might just be our fastest talking episode yet. This week, Christine and Ellie are talking about how sex and sexuality are portrayed in the media. They dive into some throwback TV shows like Gilmore Girls and the Suite Life of Zack and Cody, as well as newer shows like Sex Education, Never Have I Ever, Big Mouth, Pose, and Bridgerton. MAJOR spoiler alert if you haven't seen these shows! They also get into questions like “should sexual assault be shown on TV and movies?” and “is it ok for straight, cis actors to play queer characters?”   IG: @embarrassedtoask Contact us: embarrassedtoaskpodcast@gmail.com Submit an anonymous question: https://forms.gle/UdHKid8PbvcpV5iC8    Cover Art & Branding by Rachel Hobart, @rhobes   Editing & Music by Greg Hagstrom, greghagjr@gmail.com

This week, Christine and Ellie are covering a classic sex ed topic - we're talking about CONSENT. They unpack the “boys will be boys” narrative, discuss the importance of talking about consent with people of all ages, and grapple with some of the grey areas when it comes to consent. They also go on a couple random tangents - btw does anyone else use the phrase “noodle through”? Or just Ellie?    IG: @embarrassedtoask Contact us: embarrassedtoaskpodcast@gmail.com Submit an anonymous question: https://forms.gle/UdHKid8PbvcpV5iC8    Cover Art & Branding by Rachel Hobart, @rhobes   Editing & Music by Greg Hagstrom, greghagjr@gmail.com

On this episode Christine and Ellie are talking about SEXTING. Adolescents today are dealing with receiving unsolicited nudes (let's be real, mostly dick pics), being pressured to sext, and their nudes being shared without their consent (aka revenge porn). Tune in to hear how we can talk about this important issue with young people!   IG: @embarrassedtoask Contact us: embarrassedtoaskpodcast@gmail.com Submit an anonymous question: https://forms.gle/UdHKid8PbvcpV5iC8    Cover Art & Branding by Rachel Hobart, @rhobes   Editing & Music by Greg Hagstrom, greghagjr@gmail.com

Christine and Ellie are continuing their conversation about pleasure, and this week is all about ORGASM and MASTURBATION! They dive into the orgasm gap, “faking it”, myths about masturbation, and the importance of exploring your own body.   IG: @embarrassedtoask Contact us: embarrassedtoaskpodcast@gmail.com Submit an anonymous question: https://forms.gle/UdHKid8PbvcpV5iC8    Cover Art & Branding by Rachel Hobart, @rhobes   Editing & Music by Greg Hagstrom, greghagjr@gmail.com

This week's episode is all about PLEASURE! Christine and Ellie talk about pleasure activism, “sexual personalities”, arousal, and the importance of talking about pleasure in sex ed. Highly recommend Pleasure Activism by adrienne maree brown and Come As You Are by Emily Nagoski for more on this topic!   IG: @embarrassedtoask Contact us: embarrassedtoaskpodcast@gmail.com Submit an anonymous question: https://forms.gle/UdHKid8PbvcpV5iC8    Cover Art & Branding by Rachel Hobart, @rhobes   Editing & Music by Greg Hagstrom, greghagjr@gmail.com

Happy Pride!!! On this episode, Christine and Ellie talk about who Pride is for, coming out, pronouns, and what queer-inclusive sex ed. looks like. (This is Christine speaking...) Ellie, thank you for being so open and honest and sharing your experience with ETA listeners. I love you and am so proud of you!   IG: @embarrassedtoask Contact us: embarrassedtoaskpodcast@gmail.com Submit an anonymous question: https://forms.gle/UdHKid8PbvcpV5iC8    Cover Art & Branding by Rachel Hobart, @rhobes   Editing & Music by Greg Hagstrom, greghagjr@gmail.com

Ever wonder what it's like to be a sex educator? On this week's episode, Christine and Ellie are sharing their experiences working in the sex ed. field (because let's be honest, it's a pretty weird job).    IG: @embarrassedtoask Contact us: embarrassedtoaskpodcast@gmail.com Submit an anonymous question: https://forms.gle/UdHKid8PbvcpV5iC8    Cover Art & Branding by Rachel Hobart, @rhobes   Editing & Music by Greg Hagstrom, greghagjr@gmail.com

CW (39:30-42:35) sexual assault/abuse is discussed This week Christine and Ellie are talking about VIRGINITY. We unpack that gross T.I. story, myths about the hymen, and the harms of abstinence only education. TLDL; virginity is a social construct that perpetuates sexual shame, so let's stop placing value on it! For more information on the sex ed stats we reference, check out this link: https://bit.ly/3oSlekl    IG: @embarrassedtoask Contact us: embarrassedtoaskpodcast@gmail.com Submit an anonymous question: https://forms.gle/UdHKid8PbvcpV5iC8    Cover Art & Branding by Rachel Hobart, @rhobes   Editing & Music by Greg Hagstrom, greghagjr@gmail.com

On this episode, Christine and Ellie discuss the ins and outs of break ups. They talk about Christine's pattern of dumping guys on her birthday, how to get over someone, ghosting, closure, break up sex, and of course, were Ross and Rachel really on a break?    IG: @embarrassedtoask Contact us: embarrassedtoaskpodcast@gmail.com Submit an anonymous question: https://forms.gle/UdHKid8PbvcpV5iC8    Cover Art & Branding by Rachel Hobart, @rhobes   Editing & Music by Greg Hagstrom, greghagjr@gmail.com

This week is all about relationships and dating! Christine and Ellie share some embarrassing dating stories (duh) and their thoughts on dating apps, soulmates, love languages, and more! P.S. go get some Qdoba today because you deserve it.   IG: @embarrassedtoask Contact us: embarrassedtoaskpodcast@gmail.com Submit an anonymous question: https://forms.gle/UdHKid8PbvcpV5iC8    Cover Art & Branding by Rachel Hobart, @rhobes   Editing & Music by Greg Hagstrom, greghagjr@gmail.com

On this episode, Christine and Ellie answer all of your questions about condoms! Do condoms ruin the moment? Can you use an expired condom? And what's the deal with flavored condoms?    IG: @embarrassedtoask Contact us: embarrassedtoaskpodcast@gmail.com Submit an anonymous question: https://forms.gle/UdHKid8PbvcpV5iC8    Cover Art & Branding by Rachel Hobart, @rhobes   Editing & Music by Greg Hagstrom, greghagjr@gmail.com

Huge shout out to Greg Hagstrom for editing and creating the music for ETA! Go check out his band @fortressofthebearband on IG and Spotify. Also a massive thank you to Rachel Hobart for creating ETAs cover art and social media branding! Give her a follow @rhobes.  Christine and Ellie spend the first 5 minutes debating candy corn before they finally get into talking about BODY HAIR. TLDR; screw gender norms and do whatever the hell you want with your body hair. P. S. For the love of god Christine the word you're looking for is AESTHETICIAN (I blame the candy corn and coffee breakfast).   IG: @embarrassedtoask Contact us: embarrassedtoaskpodcast@gmail.com Submit an anonymous question: https://forms.gle/UdHKid8PbvcpV5iC8

CW (22:35): fetishization, gun violence, violence against Asian women. This episode is all about PORN! Christine and Ellie unpack the differences between porn and reality, the importance of porn literacy, and why porn isn't a great substitute for sex ed.  IG: @embarrassedtoask Contact us: embarrassedtoaskpodcast@gmail.com Submit an anonymous question: https://forms.gle/UdHKid8PbvcpV5iC8    Cover Art & Branding by Rachel Hobart, @rhobes Editing & Music by Greg Hagstrom, greghagjr@gmail.com 

On this episode, Christine and Ellie chat about the shame around menstruation, ignorance from people who don't menstruate, and their preferred period products. And, yes, we now know that the quote is “I can't help it if I have a heavy flow and a wide set vagina.” IG: @embarrassedtoask Contact us: embarrassedtoaskpodcast@gmail.com Submit an anonymous question: https://forms.gle/UdHKid8PbvcpV5iC8 Cover Art & Branding by Rachel Hobart, @rhobes Editing & Music by Greg Hagstrom, greghagjr@gmail.com

Remember how awkward puberty was? Christine and Ellie are exposing all of their embarrassing puberty stories on this episode! Tune in to find out what they experienced, what they wished they had known, and tips for talking to kids about puberty. IG: @embarrassedtoask Contact us: embarrassedtoaskpodcast@gmail.com Submit an anonymous question: https://forms.gle/UdHKid8PbvcpV5iC8    Cover Art & Branding by Rachel Hobart, @rhobes Editing & Music by Greg Hagstrom, greghagjr@gmail.com

(CW: homophobia is discussed) [update from the TA mentioned in this episode: the responses from most of the simpts (including Ricky) were written by the professor and not the TA!] On this episode, Christine and Ellie talk all things STIs and go off about some terrible sex ed. they received in their graduate program. Yes, even when you're paying thousands of dollars, most sex ed. classes are still trash.  IG: @embarrassedtoask Contact us: embarrassedtoaskpodcast@gmail.com Submit an anonymous question: https://forms.gle/UdHKid8PbvcpV5iC8  Cover Art & Branding by Rachel Hobart, @rhobes  Editing & Music by Greg Hagstrom, greghagjr@gmail.com

Meet your hosts, Christine and Ellie! We're sex educators who are going to talk about all the things you wished you learned in your sex ed. class. Welcome to the pod!  Cover Art & Branding by Rachel Hobart, @rhobes Editing & Music by Greg Hagstrom, greghagjr@gmail.com