Girl Talk No Chaser

On this episode of GTNC, We will be discussing How a lot of us while dating, we tend to date the persons POTENTIAL or REPRESENTATIVE but not the actual individual.  In hopes that we will build them up or bring that REAL person out. Unfortunately most times that doesn't happen all the time. We are not build-a-bear workers or creators. We are woman that want a man to show up complete and whole. Now don't get me wrong, I do know that there are such love stories where couples have grown together and became successful.  I do also know that there are more people out there that are still dating the persons potential hoping that they will completely show up and be the best mate you ever had; but It doesn't happen because most of you watch from the side line at the man or woman you helped build up being the best version of themselves with another person. This is a short yet powerful podcast. I pray that it touches someone. Enjoy and God Bless.Support the show

I was watching this tik-tok where this young mother was telling a story about how she was dating this guy that went to prison 2 months into their relationship. She decided to stick by his side only knowing hime for 2 months. Then without fail,  she got pregnant, he mistreated her and abused after he got released. It's so much more to the story, but it was those things that stuck out to me. All I saw  was the lack of self love in this young woman, My heart hurts or her.Self love is very important when it comes to the healing process.I'm going to give you 9 signs you might have wounded inner chick. Then we are going to talk about 11 signs that you're walking in your healing.  I pray that Something I said will help you to heal with your issues. God Bless!Support the show

We're Back!!! Hello to all of my dope and faithful followers and downloaders.Tonight's Episode , We will be discussing a clip that I found on instagram. A man asked a very straight forward blunt question. What does a woman bring to a mans life besides Sexual intimacy? And All the women went off!! Saying that he is a womanizer, He doesn't value a woman's worth etc. etc.  What??  How did you get all of that from a question? Was it his tone? Did you Assume that he was talking about himself? The fact of the matter is that MOST women make something out of nothing, We read all through the book but the book only has 1 PAGE. Yet, we have created 100 other pages that don't even exist; creating our own narrative to a story that we didn't even write. We have to first stop deflecting and stick to the question at had, take accountability for our own actions and blow up.  All men are not the same just like all women are not the same. We have to find  out what is the real problem for us as community  of men andwomen who cant seem to get along. Tune in and Enjoy. I hope you can take something positive from it.Support the show

The Male And Female Perspective is Back and L Boogie has something to say. He's not happy Y'all. We have all seen the unfortunate, embarrassing slap that Actor and comedian Chris Rock received from Fresh Prince Of Bel-Air star Will Smith on national t.v. This was totally out of line for Smith and as always Jada is the reason for another embarrassing moment. The men all across social media have been saying Will Smith is a Simp! For me as a woman, I don't really like that word but I understand it to a certain point. Well let's talk about!Support the show (https://www.buymeacoffee.com/GTnochaser)

We all have witnessed the most historical and most embarrassing slap in the Oscar History, The Will Smith and Chris Rock Slap. I am still in awe of what I witness and my heart hurts for Chris Rock, Yet I applaud  him for his Black Excellence, Professionalism and restraint. He understood the ASSIGNMENT and still stayed in character. He didn't allow the Devil to Slap him out of his promise and character. Let me make a correction, I said that Chris was absolutely wrong, I meant to say that Will Smith was wrong and I stand on that.  But this whole podcast is to shine light on the revelation that God gave me. He told me that in the next season in my life to be Chris Rock. Tune in and Hear what Clarity God has given me for you.Side Note: please forgive my many errors This revelation had me excited. Chris will be performing at Borgata in Atlantic City this weekend 3/02/22.Support the show (https://www.buymeacoffee.com/GTnochaser)

On This Episode we will be discussing Just Being you are in a separate household than your ex, it doesn't make you a Single Parent. If your Ex is providing for your child, still spending time weekends, summers, going to graduations and recitals, You are not a single parent! You're just single Sis! You cant say  we are Co-parenting then in the same breathe say that you are a single parent. We have to build a strong cohesive foundation with each other as parents so that we can raise up strong kings and queens. Our Children must know that even thought mommy and daddy aren't together anymore, the same rules and parenting is still the same on both ends. Children are the best little manipulators alive. They know exacting how to put parents against each other. Remember when it comes to Co-parenting 1+1= 1 whole child!!Support the show

Former 2019 Miss USA  Cheslie Kryst  committed suicide early Sunday Morning by jumping to her death from her 29th floor high rise building. She was only 30 yrs old. The sad part about this whole thing is she actually had a fear of turning 30 and getting older, Trolls on the internet would bully her about her Miss USA title, her body and age since she was the oldest Miss USA contestant to Win at 28 years old.  Since Covid Most of us have suffered through some type of mental health issue, whether it be depression, anxiety, withdrawal from daily activities and isolation. We have experienced it. Unfortunately some worse than others. We have to make a conscious effort to check on our loves ones, reach out when we need a shoulder or ear and most of you have to be honest with yourself when you know you're not good!I decided to pull my Facebook live Mental Health Podcast because someone needs to hear it.If by chance you need help and have had suicidal thoughts please call the Hotline 800-273-8255.Support the show (https://www.buymeacoffee.com/GTnochaser)

Tonights Male And Female Perspective, We will be talking about Does Your Body Count? What is your Body Count? Why are  a lot of  women not talking care of their bodies? When did your body become ransom? How can you put a price on something so precious and yet PRICELESS? Do you not nknow you are the child of the Most High?  Ladies we can't do what men do and still be considered a lady.  You have to know its more to you than just sex, You're beautiful but your treat yourself so ugly. That BBL wont last forever and gravity is real. AIDS is real transmitted diseases are still real. Love yourself just a little much more and  re evaluate yourself and your current situation. Support the show (https://www.buymeacoffee.com/GTnochaser)

Tonight's episode is  its not a trending topic or viral video. We are doing something a little different tonight. I had to Obey what God told me to do and that was to speak and let you know that its ok to change and lose your (old) self.  You have to pull the layers back and change YOU!! There are so many things that you know you have to stop doing, stop thinking and stop reacting too. We are too grown to still be stagnant and stuck in the past. You are in labor and its time to give birth to your PURPOSE. BABY MAMA AND BABY DADDY you have been pregnant for way too long, The Time is now!! Tune and subscribe and download. Please also support this Show by clicking below. Thanks in advance.Support the show (https://www.buymeacoffee.com/GTnochaser)

 We are Back and we decided to start the year off Fresh and New!  Segment 1 of the Male Female Perspective. Tonight we are talking about, Ladies will You date a broke dude? I also posed this same question to the fellas. While we  know money isn't everything and it cant make you happy, Im a strong believer that as a successful individual, We shouldn't date down. Also, as women it's not our responsibility to carry a man that isn't our husband but tune in and let's see what my  Guest Co- Host L Boogie has to say.Its going to be  good!! LEGGO!!Support the show

Happy 2022  everyone!!  This is not the way I wanted to start my first podcast off for the year, by bringing a sad story. However, it is needed to bring awareness to this DEADLY SITUATION that is going on in our community and cities. Florida Rapper 28 y/o J. Stash also know as Justin Joseph, Shot and killed his 27 y/o girlfriend Jeanette Gallegos before turning the gun on himself.  The two had an apparent  argument on the Morning of New Year's Day, where J. Stash took Jeanette into the bedroom, out of view of her 3 children and shot her multiple times. I don't want this to be a news report, but this is a trending topic and it was to be discussed. We as Women are out here fighting for our lives, We are unprotected and left out here to fend for ourselves. With that being said, We have to use what we were given to fight and live. Women's intuition is our God given power and protection. It works but we just don't use it enough until it's too late.FIND A QUIET SPOT AND LISTEN.... ITS TIME TO LIVE QUEENS!!Support the show (https://www.buymeacoffee.com/GTnochaser)

Tonight's episode on the Girl Talk No Chaser Podcast Ep. 11, Its a very special episode message that I prepared for you guys. We are heading into a new year very soon and for that reason, we must apologize and let go because it's time to be set free. I know you must be saying Why do I have to say sorry?  I'll tell you why in this Podcast so find somewhere quiet and listen to this life changing message. Leggo!! #selfcare #lifecoach #motivationalspeaker #podcast #talkshow #peaceofmind #newbeginnings #Author #selflove #moveon #lettinggo #findyourselfagain #respect #love #honor #friendships #familyissues #mentalhealthSupport the show (https://www.buymeacoffee.com/GTnochaser)

 On this episode of Girl Talk No Chaser,  Last week we had a discussion about who should  pay for dinner on a first date? The Male or Female? We told you the story of a young man who ended up paying  for dinner after  his date suggested dinner and made the reservations herself. Well I found out the tea and the FULL back story. Is this what woman are really doing out here now? Are men really being disregarded now? Todays modern women want a traditional men but are traditional themselves? Why Is that? I need answers.  Todays dating scenes seem to only contain men and women talking advantage of one another. Tune in and lets unpack some stuff!Support the show (https://www.buymeacoffee.com/GTnochaser)

Today on the male and Female Perspective Segment, We are discussing a question that came across social media. Who pays for dinner? The man or The woman?  The rules of dating seem to have changed and its way harder than you think with Covid and all.  So L Boogie and myself will be giving OUR PERSPECTIVES on this particular question and a few other concepts of dating.  I have noticed that the modern woman these days want a traditional man at the same time. Ladies are you above treating a man to a date? Fellas are you willing to let a woman treat you to a date? What are some dating red flags you have experienced? I would like to hear about. So get comfy and turn your volume up It's another one for the books. Male And Female perspective Podcast is also on its way soon.Support the show (https://www.buymeacoffee.com/GTnochaser)

On Girl Talk No Chaser Episode 8, Once a week we have The Male And Female Perspective Segment. Tonight my Co host L Boogie and myself, will be discussing Double standards in relationships and how we as women must protect our kings. We also will be talking about the double standard when it comes to a woman putting her hands on a man.The world seem to adopt the perspective that a man shouldn't feel pain and embarrassment. He should just suck it up and take it. This Show in no way condone domestic violence of OF ANY KIND. The argument here is a woman shouldn't be able to attack a man or assault a man and believe that its ok and she can walk away without being held liable and accountable for her actions as well.No one should hurt another human being PERIOD!! Let's get into it. If you are in fear of your life and are a abusive relationship, please call the national domestic violence hotline 1-800-799-SAFE or visit the website www.thehotline.orgSupport the show (https://www.buymeacoffee.com/GTnochaser)

Well it seems that according to twitter and social media, that Jada Pinkett Smith has embarrassed her Husband Will Smith. Not Again Jada!! Jada's RED TABLE TALK was with Guess Actress Gwyenth Paltrow along with Jada's mother. They talked about allowing yourself as a woman to speak your needs when it comes to your sexual wants and stop playing victim. Also taking accountability. Jada chimed in and said in a nut shell that Will should know her needs since they have been together so long. Oh boy did social media not rip into her for embarrassing Will Smith yet again. I on the other hand I have a different perspective about what was said. Take a Listen and learn the Lesson.Support the show (https://www.buymeacoffee.com/GTnochaser)

A 61 year old Florida man married his God-Daughter as soon as she turned 18 years old. I came across this Story on social media yesterday and it mad me so angry. This man is supposed to be protecting her not PREYING on her. How long was he watching and "grooming her? How do you go from being her Daddy to now being her Zaddy? We have to protect our little brown girls from these predators that come in the form of a family member. What in the R. Kelly and Woody Allen is going on here??  God Help us!!SHOW LESSSupport the show (https://www.buymeacoffee.com/GTnochaser)

Honey Y'all are really out trying to cancel Mo'nique over some bonnets, slippers, and pajamas? All I saw trending last week was "let's cancel Mo'nique ! She triggered a lot of young women with her viral and controversial video.  Why? All because she gave you some loving advise that came from a powerful woman of color, who cares about her black Queens? All I'm asking is..... WHERE IS THE LIE SIS? If all you got from her message was her coming for your scarves and bonnets, you are TOTALLY missing the point Pooh. Let's have some Dialogue. ***Disclaimer  IF IT DON'T APPLY, LET IT FLY!***Support the show (https://www.buymeacoffee.com/GTnochaser)

We lost one of the greatest Rappers of all time today DMX. He lost battle with drug addiction on 04/09/21 after being in a coma and on life support for a week. We decided to step away from our norm and show our respects to the life of Earl Simmons. We also wanted to address those who choose to talk about his battle and death in a negative way instead of just letting him REST IN PEACE. He was a father,son,friend and most of a human being. We all make mistakes and we all will die one day. Thank you for tuning in and listening. Enjoy.Support the show (https://www.buymeacoffee.com/GTnochaser)

We had the pleasure of meeting Bishop R.C Blakes (The Father Of Youtube) as he taught us via zoom for our Workers Meeting about Queenology. He was excellent and to have the opportunity to sit at His Feet was a TRUE BLESSING. We are discussing our take on Queenology. Thank You Bishop Blakes and to our Bishop Walker we love you! #RCBlakes #queenology #selflove #Derrickjxn #Kevinsamuels #lifecoach #letstalks #talkshow #vlog #podcast #comedySupport the show (https://www.buymeacoffee.com/GTnochaser)

The women community is really upset with Relationship Guru Derrick Jaxn for cheating on his wife. The same advise, the same men he has told us to stay away from, he has become that same man. We are disappointed and some have given up on love because he seemed to be their last hope. Tonight we will be just chopping it about  how this has changed the game, his wife appearance and if he can recover from this big Blow.Support the show (https://www.buymeacoffee.com/GTnochaser)

Episode 1 Season 1.We have made it through a hell of a year. Now what do we do? Do we continue with bad habits? Or start over and move forward?Support the show (https://www.buymeacoffee.com/GTnochaser)