He Said, She Said IA

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Let's finish this conversation and see is Molove truly naive?? Join the He Said, She Said IA podcast squad at the table as they open the show in mid-conversation about a statement that EC posed about the expectation of men to protect and provide and if a woman would be willing to provide the same amount of protection and provision. Listen in as B, EC, and Molove discuss the great expectations of protection and provision in partnerships, the difference in expectations for women who work in the home (housewives) and women who work outside of the home, the true root of princess treatment, men's attraction to the damsel in distress, women's need to "fix" men, the reciprocity of financial gifts, the fact that it is acceptable to ask for help, the difference between needs and wants, and the times Molove thought she was asking a man out on the first date. Lean in, get your podcast parties together, and start discussing. We are here to get you talking as we all get real to heal. #Letsgetrealtoheal #Letsgetrealtohealanddobetter #B #EC #Molove #PartOne --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/hesaid-shesaid7/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/hesaid-shesaid7/support

Join the He Said, She Said IA podcast squad at the table as they open the show in mid-conversation about a statement that EC posed about the expectation of men to protect and provide and if a woman would be willing to provide the same amount of protection and provision. Listen in as B, EC, and Molove discuss the great expectations of protection and provision in partnerships, the difference in expectations for women who work in the home (housewives) and women who work outside of the home, the true root of princess treatment, men's attraction to the damsel in distress, women's need to "fix" men, the reciprocity of financial gifts, the fact that it is acceptable to ask for help, the difference between needs and wants, and the times Molove thought she was asking a man out on the first date. Lean in, get your podcast parties together, and start discussing. We are here to get you talking as we all get real to heal. #Letsgetrealtoheal #Letsgetrealtohealanddobetter #B #EC #Molove #PartOne --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/hesaid-shesaid7/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/hesaid-shesaid7/support

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Join B and Molove at the virtual table with their guests, Clarence and Yalonda Lewis aka, DJ C Sharp and Yoyo Baby!!! Hailing from Washington, DC ("the DMV"), Clarence & Yalonda Lewis were college sweethearts that married in 1996. In 2000, they welcomed the birth of their first child, Symone, and four years later, they put out a sequel named, Nathan. One of the cornerstones of their marriage has always been their love of music. In 2020, their love of music led them to start a weekly live stream broadcast centered around R & B music and conversations about life and relationships, called HeartBEATS on the Twitch platform (twitch.tv/djcsharp). Based on their stories and obvious on-stream chemistry, their family, and online community encouraged them to write about their marital adventures and insights. The product of that encouragement is aptly titled, "The Rhythm of Love: 25 Things that 25 Years of Marriage Taught Us," and we are so glad that they joined the He Said, She Said IA crew at the table, to get real and heal. Listen in, have your discussions, pick up the book, and let's keep getting real to heal. #Letsgetrealtoheal #Letsgetrealtohealanddobetter #TheRhythmofLove #DJCSharp #YoyoBaby #B #Molove #EC #HSSSpodcastia --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/hesaid-shesaid7/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/hesaid-shesaid7/support

So you've heard B ask, "Doesn't men's mental health matter?" Well, the He Said, She Said IA Podcast squad answered, "ABSOLUTELY!!" Listen to the finale of this two-part series as Molove leaves the "petty panties" at the door, eliminates all comparison, and opens the table for the fellas to get real and heal. What do women truly misunderstand about men? Why is an acknowledgment from another man more meaningful than it might be from a woman? And, when are women getting it right for the fellas? Listen in, keep your mind open, start your discussions, and let's keep coming to the table to get real and heal!! #letsgetrealtoheal #letsgetrealtohealanddobetter#mensmentalhealthmatters #B #Molove #EC #HSSSpodcastia --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/hesaid-shesaid7/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/hesaid-shesaid7/support

So you've heard B ask, "Doesn't men's mental health matter?" Well, the He Said, She Said IA Podcast squad answered, "ABSOLUTELY!!" Listen to part one of this series as Molove leaves the "petty panties" at the door, eliminates all comparison, and opens the table for the fellas to get real and heal. What do women truly misunderstand about men? Why is an acknowledgment from another man more meaningful than it might be from a woman? And, when are women getting it right for the fellas? Listen in, keep your mind open, start your discussions, and let's keep coming to the table to get real and heal!! #letsgetrealtoheal #letsgetrealtohealanddobetter#mensmentalhealthmatters #B #Molove #EC #HSSSpodcastia --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/hesaid-shesaid7/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/hesaid-shesaid7/support

Part 2: Listen!!! What do you get when three childhood friends come to the table to get the world talking?? You get B, Molove, and EC coming to the table to get real to heal. Join the discussion on forgiveness, and listen to when the HSSS squad answers, “When is enough, enough?,” after someone has committed an indiscretion in the relationship, returned, changed, and apologized. Listen as things take an interesting turn, then get your podcast parties together to have your discussions. Let's keep getting real to heal. #letsgetrealtoheal --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/hesaid-shesaid7/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/hesaid-shesaid7/support

Listen!!! What do you get when three childhood friends come to the table to get the world talking?? You get B, Molove, and EC coming to the table to get real to heal. Join the discussion on forgiveness, and listen to when the HSSS squad answers, “When is enough, enough?,” after someone has committed an indiscretion in the relationship, returned, changed, and apologized. Listen as things take an interesting turn, then get your podcast parties together to have your discussions. Let's keep getting real to heal. #letsgetrealtoheal --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/hesaid-shesaid7/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/hesaid-shesaid7/support

Join the He Said, She Said squad at the table to get real and heal. About what? The crew discuss push gifts. Are they needed? Are they a selfish request? What women need in lieu of a push gift vs. what their partner can give during pregnancy is all on the table in this no holds barred conversation. Will Molove and B's friendship make it past this conversation as things get real heated? Listen! Let's keep coming to the table and talking. Thank you for continuing to get real to heal! --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/hesaid-shesaid7/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/hesaid-shesaid7/support

Join the He Said, She Said IA podcast squad as they come to the table to get real and heal about boundaries, ultimatums, and the Jonah Hill situation with his ex-girlfriend. Listen in and weigh in by commenting, messaging, or emailing. Let's keep getting real to heal. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/hesaid-shesaid7/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/hesaid-shesaid7/support

S2. Ep. 65: Yo Mama, Part 2 Hey, hey, Y'all!! We're back for part 2! You asked for it! You brought the He Said, She Said IA crew to the table to discuss the dress that shocked the world, well, at least Darius. Join the HSSS podcast IA squad as they sit down to discuss the cheeks, the public outcry, or defenses, "He-Man Woman Haters," and what they believe the real problem could be, then come to your own conclusion. We're here to get people talking and we hope you join in on the conversation! #Letsgetrealtoheal --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/hesaid-shesaid7/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/hesaid-shesaid7/support

Hey, hey, Y'all!!You asked for it! You brought the He Said, She Said IA crew to the table to discuss the dress that shocked the world, well, at least Darius. Join the HSSS podcast IA squad as they sit down to discuss the cheeks, the public outcry, or defenses, "He-Man Woman Haters," and what they believe the real problem could be, then come to your own conclusion. We're here to get people talking and we hope you join in on the conversation! #Letsgetrealtoheal --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/hesaid-shesaid7/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/hesaid-shesaid7/support

Listen, y'all!!! Thank you for joining Mo and B (missing EC) for another episode of the He Said, She Said IA Podcast at the table as they finalize their discussion around the term "Unbothered." Mo and B delve further into how healthy being unbothered after they conclude the discussion on who B would want his daughter to have as a life partner, Mr. Build It Up, or Mr. I got It! Keep coming to the table to get real to heal and let us know your thoughts by rating and reviewing. #Letsgetrealtoheal #unbothered #hssspodcastia --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/hesaid-shesaid7/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/hesaid-shesaid7/support

Listen, y'all!!! Thank you for joining Mo and B (missing EC) for another episode of the He Said, She Said IA Podcast at the table as they attempt to discuss the term "Unbothered," as B has been Molove's unofficial "Unbothered" Sensei. What does "Unbothered" mean? When is it healthy to be this way vs. allow your self to feel? Check out the discussion, then bear with the crew when they discuss B as a father..... #Letsgetrealtoheal #unbothered #hssspodcastia --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/hesaid-shesaid7/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/hesaid-shesaid7/support

Listen!!! Come to the table to get real to heal during the first attempt at discussing mental health with the He Said, She Said IA squad. Join in the discussion to hear how things turned to the least expected subjects, and somehow set the crew up for an interesting series. Let's keep coming to the table to get real to heal. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/hesaid-shesaid7/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/hesaid-shesaid7/support

Finish the conversation around, “What's Love Got to Do With It?,” with the He Said, She Said IA squad. Check out what happens when the He Said, She Said IA squad comes together to discuss 11 green flags in relationships, why they may be important, and what their top three may be! #letsgetrealtoheal --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/hesaid-shesaid7/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/hesaid-shesaid7/support

Check out what happens when the He Said, She Said IA squad comes together to discuss 11 green flags in relationships, why they may be important, and what their top three may be! #letsgetrealtoheal --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/hesaid-shesaid7/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/hesaid-shesaid7/support

Join B, EC, Molove at the table as they discuss the biggest difference between men's and women's active listening that Molove peeped on the current season of "Love is Blind," the expectations placed on your partner, the difference in wanted and unwanted communication, a case for monogamy using a food court, and the 80/20 rule from "Why Did I Get Married." Let's keep coming to the table to get real and heal!!! --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/hesaid-shesaid7/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/hesaid-shesaid7/support

Join B, EC, and Molove at the table as they discuss the newest women's basketball trade to LSU and the NIL. Pivot to a discussion about our needs in a relationship, the need for our partners to be attractive to us, and finish with a discussion about the social experiment shows, "Love Is Blind," and, "Married At First Sight." Let's go!!! It's time to get real and heal!! #letsgetrealtoheal #HSSSpodcastia --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/hesaid-shesaid7/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/hesaid-shesaid7/support

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Part ONE!! You wanted it to be over, but you KNOW we had to bring it to the TABLE to get REAL to HEAL in TWO episodes! After all, we are black people from IOWA, we had to air it out! This may be the ONLY place that you may hear the matter from different perspectives, discussed in the calmest of ways, with respect playing in the forefront, and a little humor dispersed. Join B, EC, and Molove as they discuss the "Angel Reese," of the LSU Women's Basketball, move originating from Tony Yayo, made famous by John Cena, towards Caitlin Clark, of the Iowa Women's Basketball Team. Listen to B coming from the "Privileged Critics" and "Selective Outrage" Principles, EC who sees both sides, but saw nothing wrong with it, and Molove who has a surprising perspective to share as a former D1 NCAA athlete, who is a black woman, and has lived the experience of knowing that the "Ebony Experience," is definitely a different one than the "Ivory Experience." Check out the ways that the He Said, She Said IA podcast squad educated those who either ran with the racial undertones in their commenting and/or had the privilege to never have to think about it "that way," let alone experience it. Come to the table, as always, listen to the whole matter (if you can), and finish the discussions in the comments and/or with your friends and families if you can do so in the most respectful ways. We're coming in, we're laying it ALL on the table, and we're getting REAL to HEAL!!! You can't see us (just kidding).....#Letsgetrealtoheal #selectiveoutrage #Privilege #AngelReese #CaitlinClark #B #EC #MoLove --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/hesaid-shesaid7/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/hesaid-shesaid7/support

Men can cry too, or can they? Join the He Said, She Said IA podcast crew as they continue the conversation around men, safe spaces, and crying. B, EC, and Molove discuss Molove's evolution around women and crying, they revisit the Oscar 2022 situation, approach Chris Rock's "Selective Outrage" special, why they don't sit in the front at a comedy show, and so much more. Let's keep coming to the table to get real and heal! --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/hesaid-shesaid7/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/hesaid-shesaid7/support

Join the He Said, She Said IA Podcast crew as they come to the table to discuss a clip from none other than Jerry and Tanisha Flowers of Redefined TV. Although B, EC, and Molove do not own rights to the clip, they discuss the topic of vulnerability and whether or not safe spaces actually exist with others. Listen in, form your opinions, and have the discussions. We continue to be here to get people talking so they come to the table to get real and heal. Let's do this y'all! #letsgetrealtoheal #Letsgetrealtohealanddobetter#B #EC #Molove --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/hesaid-shesaid7/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/hesaid-shesaid7/support

Join the crew at the table as they come together to discuss codependency, Miss Independent, gender roles, wanting to be needed vs. wanted, and give a whole new meaning to “decent and in order” as it pertains to appreciating your partner. Let's keep coming to the table to get real and heal y'all! #Letsgetrealtoheal #B #EC #Molove --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/hesaid-shesaid7/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/hesaid-shesaid7/support

Join B, EC, and Molove at the table to discuss why do women enable men? What does it mean to enable men? How can you as a partner bring up the conversation and/or "coach up" a partner who is enabling a co-parent? And, is a woman who is an enabler a turn-off to some men? Listen in as all of these topics are discussed with the addition of childhood's effect on enabling, what does the other end of the spectrum (Ms. INDEPENDENT) look like and how can that affect your relationship. Let's keep coming to the table to get real to heal. #letsgetrealtoheal #letsgetrealtohealanddobetter #B #EC #Molove --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/hesaid-shesaid7/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/hesaid-shesaid7/support

On today's episode B and Molove ask, "Do Good Guys Really Finish Last?" In order to get real to heal at the table, they look at the label of the "good guy," stereotypes that affect people in dating, and whether or not labeling yourself will cause a person to be stagnant in dating. Join the discussion to find out how you can avoid becoming stagnant in your time of being single and preparing to date, but you must first get to the prerequisites of self-awareness and wisdom, to get to the solution. Listen in, join the discussion, and let's keep getting real to heal. #letsgetrealtoheal #B #Molove #EC --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/hesaid-shesaid7/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/hesaid-shesaid7/support

We're baaaaaacccccckkkkk!!! Join B and Molove as they come back to the table to catch up on their month-long "vacation." Let's hear about what they were doing, Molove's entry into her 40's, and her 1/2 birthday party in the making. Then join the duo as they sit down and discover some bad dating experiences from the book, "Crap Dates," by Rhodri Marsden. Covered in the episode are why people lie on other people, first appearances and their importance, how much calling is too much calling after a date, a very "slippery slope," and so much more. Tune in as we open SEASON 2 at the table getting real to heal! #letsgetrealtoheal #letsgetrealtohealanddobetter #B #Molove #EC --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/hesaid-shesaid7/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/hesaid-shesaid7/support

The Culmination of the discussion around the "Cut-Off Game" is FINALLY here!!! Listen this week as the He Said, She Said IA podcast crew is at the table (remotely) to dive deeper in to the subject to get real to heal. You don't want to miss this one! #Letsgetrealtoheal --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/hesaid-shesaid7/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/hesaid-shesaid7/support

This episode comes at the request of one of our important listeners who asked Molove to discuss the "Cut-Off Game" and how to make and maintain a strong one. Join the He Said, She Said IA podcast crew at the table (remotely) as they discuss the cut-off game, gaslighting, introduce us to trauma-bonding, dive deeper into non-negotiables, consistency, and honesty to allow others to make informed decisions. Check out the possible timelines discussed by B, EC, and Molove when it comes to "grey areas", commitment, and when to dig deeper into possible partnership. Molove also asks the fellas if they believe there are more good women than there are good men. Continue joining us at the table weekly so we can get real to heal. #Letsgetrealtoheal #Letsgetrealtohealanddobetter #B #EC #molove Show Links: linktr.ee/hssspodcastia --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/hesaid-shesaid7/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/hesaid-shesaid7/support

HEY, HEY Y'all!!! Welcome back to the table as the He Said, She Said IA squad finishes the discussion around what Molove has learned throughout the year about dating. Be prepared as topics around serial monogamy, exclusivity, Mission Impossible, stalkers, trauma informed dating accomodations, and secret baecations come to the surface. Then continue listening in as Mo-Petty arises out of Petty Anonymous (PA), E-Petty matches her energy, and B-Petty makes an appearance, all in that order. Let's keep coming to the table to get real and heal! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/hesaid-shesaid7/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/hesaid-shesaid7/support

Join the He Said, She Said IA Podcast squad at the table for the NEW YEAR, 2023!!!! Bear with us as our listeners join in on B, EC, and Molove's "business meeting," listen to Molove's version of "Auld Lang Syne," and listen in to the biggest thing that the crew has learned through the year from the podcast and find out why Mo's stops the show.... Come to the table with us as we get real to heal! #letsgetrealtoheal #B #Molove #EC --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/hesaid-shesaid7/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/hesaid-shesaid7/support

B, Molove, and EC, come to the table in the final episode discussing Side Pieces. Nothing is off limits when the He Said, She Said squad unites as a self-proclaimed "Hoe turned Housewife" joins the table vicariously through an anonymous Facebook letter, the squad discusses escorts and the purpose for paying, the false sense of control when dating unavailable men and women, the responsibilities of being in a true partnership, the job description for being a side piece, and the false sense of hope that can develop as a side piece, are discussed at the table as we get real to heal. #letsgetrealtoheal --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/hesaid-shesaid7/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/hesaid-shesaid7/support

B, Molove, and EC come to the table in the first of two episodes to discuss Side Pieces. Nothing is off limits when the He Said, She Said squad unites as friendship accountability, victim shaming in relationships, timelines in sharing sexual fantasies, judgement about sexual fantasies, golden showers, “mafia mentally with cheating,” and openness in relationships is discussed at the table as we get real to heal. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/hesaid-shesaid7/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/hesaid-shesaid7/support

Join B, EC, and Molove at the table to continue the conversation around attraction, freedom, and decisions in relationships. Hear B's response to the question, "Have you ever rejected someone due to not being attracted to them?" Then join the conversation around Molove's VERY personal first date question used to test pure honesty with the good and the bad in people she's interested in, shaming around sexual preferences, and the crew's cut-off games. Listen to find out who's cut-off game is the strongest and find out why Molove and B's friendship is still going strong today! Again, the purpose of this podcast is to come to the table to get real and heal. We are here to get you all discussing and having real conversations limiting judgement until it is no longer served. If something stings or triggers you, keep listening to hear the whole matter, and/or send a message to the crew at: hssspodcastia@gmail.com. Your voice will be heard and responded to, not reacted to (there is a difference). Thank you for tuning in week after week and for being such dope listeners and viewers! We love you all and let's end 2022 with a bang!! #letsgetrealtoheal #letsgetrealtohealanddobetter #B #Molove #EC --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/hesaid-shesaid7/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/hesaid-shesaid7/support

Join Molove, B, and EC at the table when they come together to discuss one of their most controversial subjects this season, RACISM. Molove has been processing being called racist over the past few weeks based on the feeling that her attraction to black men who date white women decreases. This may be shocking to some, but the crew sifts through this thought, as they tackle the fine line between prejudice and preference, Post Traumatic Slave Syndrome (PTSS) and how most of the weight falls on black women, the privilege of "color blindness," and the ramifications of eliminating a whole group of people from your dating pool. Come to the table, be ready to discuss, and be open to get real and heal! Let's go!!! #letsgetrealtoheal #Freedompart1 #Racism #prejudice #preference --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/hesaid-shesaid7/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/hesaid-shesaid7/support

Listen!!!! The crew is back at the table getting real to heal! We have B, EC, and Molove coming together to discuss some of the chivalrous acts that some men were trained to do, while others had learn later in life, or, are still learning. Those acts like opening the door for a lady, a lady allowing this and waiting for the man to do so, and even learn some new game on bringing flowers to a date. Listen in on the discussion around, “Good Morning,” texts and why the bar gets moved sometimes. We're at the table to get you all talking, so let's keep coming to get real and heal! #Letsgetrealtoheal #HSSSpodcastia Show Links: linktr.ee/hssspodcastia --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/hesaid-shesaid7/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/hesaid-shesaid7/support

Join B, Molove, and EC at the table to get real and heal as they discuss who is qualified to give relationship advice. This topic stems from a social media post that stated, "Ladies stop taking relationship advice from single women. She's not speaking from experience," which was posted by a mutual friend of Molove and B's, and needless to say, Molove had some questions and some things to get off her chest. Tune in and decide who is qualified, capable, or has the potential to give relationship advice, and whether or not they should. Let's keep coming to the table to get real to heal! #Letsgetrealtoheal #Letsgetrealtohealanddobetter #Advice --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/hesaid-shesaid7/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/hesaid-shesaid7/support

Join B and Molove at the table as they follow up the discussion from the crossover episode with the Love is Black Episodes. Listen in to the discussion to hear what the experience was like, how your HSSS Podcast squad feels about married people being friends with single people, what kind of connection may actually get be out of relationship retirement, and finish up with a discussion about how to measure connections with others in your life. Let's keep coming to the table to get real to heal! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/hesaid-shesaid7/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/hesaid-shesaid7/support

Listen!!! What do you get when a married couple of 14+ years hosts a podcast about the MANY joys and struggles of black relationships and invites two childhood friends of 38+ years who come to the table to discuss life, get people talking, and get real to heal? You get Love is He Said, She Said: A Collaboration episode that you will not want to miss! Harvey and Karese Laguerre, co-hosts of the LOVE IS BLACK podcast which discusses, celebrates, and highlights black love host a crossover episode with the co-hosts of HE SAID, SHE SAID IA podcast (minus EC). Join us as we discuss exactly what is hoped to be healed when we come to the table, how Harvey and Karese met and decided on marriage, the dynamic of Molove and B's friendship and how it may impact future relationships, possible definitions of cheating, how Molove and B's friendship has impacted them and so much more. Let's get to the table to share the joy of crossing over LOVE IS BLACK and HE SAID, SHE SAID IA to let all who listen know that LOVE IS HE SAID, SHE SAID. Let's get real to heal! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/hesaid-shesaid7/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/hesaid-shesaid7/support

Join the He Said, She Said IA podcast squad at the table during episode 36 to finish up the conversation around reciprocity and delayed reciprocity. The conversation shifts to showing appreciation and "Appreciation Languages," The responsibility of healing, What is healing, and the biggest question answered is whether or not healing enhances one's quality of life. Let's get to the table to get real and heal! #letsgetrealtoheal #letsgetrealtohealanddobetter --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/hesaid-shesaid7/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/hesaid-shesaid7/support

Join the He Said, She Said IA crew as they come to the table to discuss "The R Word." What does Reciprocity mean to you and have you seen it, or currently see it from those who you are dating? Should it be expected? Can reciprocity be conditional, or even delayed? Listen in as B, Molove, and EC tackle the "R Word," in dating and make sure you come to the table to get real to heal and start talking. Hear what words Molove says to B to have him "glowing" within the first few minutes of the show and learn the new comeback when you hear, "All men/women are dogs." Then learn and discuss the term, "Negativity Bias," and how it can affect men during the dating season and life. The squad also discusses two key things that women can do to set themselves apart from the others in the dating game. Finally, tune in to hear if someone made history with Molove and if she was led to actually paid for a date that was not on his birthday?? This will be good! LISTEN!!! We are continuing to get to the table to get real to heal and get y'all talking. Please don't forget to rate, review, subscribe and share. We appreciate you all! #letsgetrealtoheal #letsgetrealtohealanddobetter --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/hesaid-shesaid7/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/hesaid-shesaid7/support

Listen!!!!!! The He Said, She Said IA Podcast crew of B, EC, and Molove are back at the table with different perspectives discussing life....AFTER DARK!!! Start the episode by hearing the answer to the question, "How Close Is Too Close?" Check out how Molove completes her mini-screens now, then, find out whether or not be feels some type of way about the "courtesy check." Is Molove being too nice, or does it matter if a person you are dating may be connected to someone you may encounter at special events? EC also weighs in and does he agree with B, or, is he rocking with Molove this go around? Move on with the crew to discuss whether or not men, and women, can desire only one of each other, or nah. Also, is the desire conditional? During this conversation, the crew revisits FWB's and they also discuss Post Traumatic Slave Syndrome (PTSS) and it's possible affect on the Americanized Black Community. Is it too deep, or something that people should take into consideration? Are we adhering too much to society's norms, or, are we putting too much pressure on ourselves to conform? With conforming, the crew discusses Polygamy and Polyamory with limited views (that will be revisited with an expert/experienced person practicing this type of relationship in the hopeful near future), if marriage is just a piece of paper, and they cross the threshold to discuss their love for, but the reality of Nipsey Hussle and Lauren London's relationship. Is marriage a necessity when taking care of home and setting your loved ones up for when you are gone? When considering marriage, or life partnership, is there a different standard, or expectation, of what a woman should bring to the table vs. a man? Is there too much pressure to make it happen or not? Listen as we discuss these topics and more while coming to the table to get REAL and HEAL, then form your own opinions and have your own discussions. Remember, we want to get people talking, because communication is the key. Thank you for joining us each week to support and please rate, review, and subscribe! #letsgetrealtoheal #letsgetrealtohealanddobetter #HSSSPodcastIA #B #Molove #EC #Blackpodcastsupportnetworks --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/hesaid-shesaid7/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/hesaid-shesaid7/support

Join Molove, B, and EC after dark, for "The Aftermath" of the culmination of "Boundaries and Insecurities" Episode.  How do they bridge their way back to understanding after all of the heightened passion that exploded on the air?  Or, do they just sweep things under the rug and wait for the next explosion??  Of course not!!  These three childhood friends are coming back to the table to get real and heal by any means necessary, even when they are free-ballin afterdark.  Finish up the clarity conversation around B's situation, understand what is meant when boundaries are spoken and put in place, listen in as the squad discusses preventative maintenance in relationships and how important it is to know your partner, check out the new meaning of "dragging" partners, then see the answer to the HS|SS Squad's question, "Do you have any non-negotiables in a relationship?"   After you listen in, ask yourself what your non-negotiables are.  It will be quite the self-reflection.   Thank you for consistently joining us as we get to the table to get real and heal!  --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/hesaid-shesaid7/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/hesaid-shesaid7/support

Are y'all ready for this?!? This is the episode that almost broke the microphones!!! This is the episode that may be triggering to some as voices STAY raised due to passion around the subjects at hand. Join B, Molove, and EC, at the table as they come together to finish the conversations around Boundaries and Insecurities. Finish the conversation about accountability versus punishment, how much self-awareness is truly needed, deep dive into why majority of women may get upset at their partner's answer and listen in as men reveal why most men stop sharing information with their partners. Can they not handle it, or can they not handle the fact that they ALWAYS have to ask for more? What is considered oversharing? What is considered revealing the WHOLE truth? What factors in as curiosity? Where is the line drawn between being nosey or asking accusatory questions? Do boundaries exist if they are not verbalized to your partner? And how may all of this be linked to past traumas and PTSD manifestations? Listen in and find out, then take time to discuss and decide for yourself. Let's keep coming to the table, let's keep getting real so we can heal!! #HSSSpodcastia #B #Molove #EC #Letsgetrealtoheal #Letsgetrealtohealanddobetter #boundariesandinsecurities #Finale --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/hesaid-shesaid7/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/hesaid-shesaid7/support

Join B, Molove, and EC at the table to finish their conversations around boundaries and insecurities. Now that the fellas are done roasting Molove for getting her black card revoked and EC is finally a married man, the He Said, She Said IA podcast crew comes together to allow B to answer the question, "Do you treat people who are struggling mentally based on how they are presenting currently, or do you treat them based on how you believe they have the potential to be?" Also, Molove discusses one of the concerns of this current generation and not knowing the difference between punishment and accountability, based on the actions of the previous generations. Then listen to EC counter with the need for self-accountability. Sit back and think on the process of going into survival mode (fight or flight) when receiving punishment in the early years and how difficult it now makes holding each other accountable in relationships. Why do we all need connection before making correction too? It gets real, it gets raw, but most of all we are coming to heal and healing is not always pretty and pristine. *Trigger Warning: you may hear voices raised, but know it is passion around the topic.* We're getting to the table to be real and heal, so join us on this journey! #Letsgetrealtoheal #Letsgetrealtohealanddobetter #Blackpodcastnetwork #Podcastsupportnetwork #B #Molove #EC --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/hesaid-shesaid7/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/hesaid-shesaid7/support

Join B, Molove, and EC as they welcome their first guest to the table to get real to heal. He Said, She Said IA podcast family welcome Ms. Stacey Miracle (name soon to change) as we talk about her and EC's relationship from the beginning. Listen to the man behind the camera and his fiance as they share their experience from their pre-dates, dating/courting, exclusive dating, official relationship to engagement, all the way up to the last few days before their WEDDING. Hear another perspective on women paying for dates/experiences, single motherhood in dating, choosing between who you envision you should be with, vs. who you truly need in your life, and choosing partnership, with communication at this week's table. Did this couple have a P-Valley and D-Valley co-ed bachelor and bachelorette party and/or what boundaries were in place? Will Molove be the volunteer security guard at the wedding reception?? Listen in to find out. Be prepared to walk away with some gems from this powerful duo (EC and Stacey) regarding life partnership, goal setting, and planning for and paying for your wedding.. This is an episode that you DO NOT want to miss, so let's all get real to heal! #Letsgetrealtoheal #Lestgetrealtohealanddobetter #pvalleydvalley #HerecomestheBride --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/hesaid-shesaid7/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/hesaid-shesaid7/support

Join the He Said, She Said IA podcast crew at the table as they come together to hear B answer Molove's question, then turn the corner and begin discussing one of the team's Black Card and their need to increase their black movie viewing for the culture. Have they seen, "Life," "Higher Learning," or even, "Love Jones?" Come to the table for this intervention to get real and heal! The team ends up reminiscing about movie theatre dates, the worst things they've ever brought to the movie theatre, where all of the good men and women are, and some good ole accountability. #letsgetrealtoheal #Blackcardrevoked --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/hesaid-shesaid7/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/hesaid-shesaid7/support