Lady and The Harlot™

Happy 2025! Since our first episode in 2023, we wanted recap on what has transpired for the both of us during the last year in a half. Both relationships have assisted in helping us become someone different. We know we all have been in relationships that have either added to us in becoming a better person; or they have made us become a bad version of ourselves that we are not. Have you had a relationship that made you grow better as a person or made you worse in life?

In this week's special episode of a Lady and the Harlot, we are rolling in Greece. unfortunately we've been so busy since you've joined us in our last recorded episode. but now we are back joining from Beautiful Elounda Crete Greece! That's right LATH is going global. In our travels we talk about vacation flings, how hot the men of Greece are and peace and the tranquility that comes along with being here. Please join us as we talking about Rolling in Greece.

In this weeks episode of Lady and the Harlot, we decided to discuss a topic near and true to us, "Black women's hair and things you should know about it." As two ethnic women who have been in interracial relationships, there are certain rules we have to put in place when it comes to thing we can and can not do with our hair. We know that we can in no way speak for the entire Black/Hispanic race when talking about our experiences but at the very least provide a starting perspective and understanding. Especially for those men who are dating a woman of ethnicity. Please join us as we dive into " Black Women's Hair & Dating."

In this weeks episode of the Lady and the Harlot, we discuss Losing the V-Card (Virginity) and womens sexuality. Losing your virginity/ V-Card means having sex for the first time. The idea of virginity can apply to people of any gender or sexual orientation. The most important thing is that you decide when you're ready to have sex. Also learning about your sexuality is different for everyone. It is important to recognize that we are all different and the things that feel right for us may not feel right to someone else . At the end of the day, we should all feel comfortable to explore our sexuality in a safe, consensual and responsible way. Please Join us as we share our experiences of "Losing the V-card."

In this weeks episode of Lady and the Harlot, we discuss a previous post about 6 examples of Micro-Cheating and what that might look like to some people. Since we received so many mix reviews/comments based on the topic of Micro-Cheating, we decided to dive in further and explain how we see it from our point of view. Please Join Us! If you haven't seen the post yet on our page, please check out our Instagram and Facebook to view the post on 6 examples of Micro-Cheating.

In the weeks episode of Lady and the Harlot, we discuss Settling for less in a relationship. So what does settling for less mean? Letting go of the very things that define you, the beliefs that reflect who you are, and the values that are at your core. Its about stifling your own voice with in a relationship. Its about accepting something less than what you want or deserve, even if it makes you unhappy. Join us as we dive into how we have settled for less in our own personal relationships and the impact it has taken on our lives.

In this weeks episode of Lady and the Harlot, we discuss would we prefer, "Separate Beds or Separate Homes?? Sleeping apart is more common than one might think. There are no rules out there saying couples have to sleep in the same bedroom, especially if your partner snores and is keeping you up at night, etc. The same goes for separate homes, There are some couples who are in a committed relationship but choose to live separately for various reasons. Weather its because they love their solitude and space or because they feel like not being together constantly actually strengthens their bond. Either way, Sleeping in separate beds or living apart might offer some relief to couples who value their individual space as well as each other. At the end of the day, it really up to both individuals and if they are on the same page. Please join us as we discuss, Separate Beds or Separate Homes??

In the weeks episode of Lady and the Harlot, we posted a video on our Instagram page, which brought up the topic, "Would you let your partner hang out with friends of the opposite sex alone?" There are two guys in the video, one seems to be fairly confident in allowing his girlfriend to do so, while the other one says its not an insecurity thing but its all about respect. Tell us what do you think? as we dive into, "Crossroads Between Confidence & Insecurities."

In this weeks episode of Lady and the Harlot Podcast, we discuss a video we came across from Dr. Jeff Guenther. He brings up 12 valid personal questions to ask before going on a first date if you are looking for a serious relationship and don't want to waste your time. Listen in as we discuss where we stand on this topic. Please join us as we dive into "Important Questions You Should Ask On A First Date."

This weeks episode of Lady and the Harlot is called "Crossing Boundaries." Crossing/Overstepping boundaries means someone has crossed the imaginary lines we've created for ourselves. Here are some overstepping examples to give you an idea. Physical boundary: This is usually an easy one to tell. It's when someone has invaded your personal space, including your office, home, and even yourself. When your partner oversteps your boundaries, it's usually accidental sometimes – but it's often destructive just the same. Much is left unsaid, feelings are hurt, emotional distance widens and the result can be an unsatisfying relationship that has largely broken down. Nevertheless, Boundaries need to be respected in order for any situation to work. Please join us as we dive into, "CROSSING BOUNDARIES."

In this weeks episode of Lady and the Harlot Podcast, we decided to play Tonight's Conversation Cards - Relationship Debates yet again!! We just cant get enough of this game that takes us to the heart of how we may see the world through exciting Q&A on spicy relationship scenarios. We also decided to call these questions of the heart. At the end of the day, we all want to know where our partners head is at when it comes to relationships and if we are on the same page. Are you ready to join us and state your case? I know we are!! Tune in on the fun and let us know some of your responses to these questions, while we play the game “RELATIONSHIP DEBATES”. 

In this weeks episode of Lady and the Harlot podcast, we talk on the topic of the abuse of filters to try to hook a potential partner. Ever go on a dating site and was instantly attracted to someone's appearance and then when you met them they look NOTHING like their picture?? How does that make you feel that you've just been catfished but in a different way. Do you continue to get to know this person you seem to have a connection with? Or do you call them out on their bullshit? Are you the one using a filter for every picture you post? If so, why? Tune in and hear us dive into the topic of, "CATFISHING FILTERS"

In this weeks episode of Lady and the Harlot podcast, we discuss the games we still encounter in the dating world. By games we mean, when we meet someone and they want to play games instead of keeping it real to us and themselves. The older we get the more we can see through the bullshit. If you found the “perfect person” then why continue to be on multiple dating sites and still looking? It starts to make you wonder; “When will we start getting real and stop with the games?” Join us as we dive into the discussing “THE GAME: The guide to Bullshit Artist”.

In this weeks episode of Lady and the Harlot, we decided to get back to the Harlot side of matter and talk about Boosting your Sexual Libido-stimulation. Libido is a persons sexual desire, arousal or appetite. Everyone's libido is different, and the same person's sex drive might fluctuate over time, depending on circumstances. Sometimes it can be issues with communication between you and your partner or lacking emotional connection. Foreplay is a very important factor in stimulating your partner to heighten your sex drive. Either way, If you're looking to increase your sex drive or libido, there are a few things you can do to boost your desire. Understand arousal and learn what turns your partner on is a huge factor. Please join us as we dive into, "Boosting your Sexual Libido/Stimulation."

In this weeks episode of Lady and the Harlot, we discuss Navigating the Relationship Tree. Let's face it.  Relationships are difficult enough and disagreements are often normal parts of a relationship. However, if arguments continually arise and consistently devolve into your partner criticizing, berating, or attempting to control you, gaslighting- there may be underlying issues. These are typical signs of narcissism. Narcissistic people are often unable to engage in normal “give and take” due to a lack of genuine empathy and reciprocal feelings. The narcissistic personality is a complex emotional defense structure typically caused by early childhood trauma and emotional pain The relationship tree is one way that may help to understand why we attract this type and choose to deal with it. The roots of the tree represent us, as an individual. At the end the day, it all about getting down to the root of the problem with in ourselves. Which means going all the way back to childhood. There is no one aspect to make a relationship healthy, but the more we are able to build ourselves up (love and cherish ourselves more) the better equipped we will be to deal and establish healthy boundaries with ourselves and others. Please join us as we dive into, "Navigating the Relationship Tree."

In this weeks episode of Lady and the Harlot podcast, We do a Recap on last weeks episode "Story of Betrayal." We focus our thoughts and feelings about how the story unfolded and ended. We also give our opinion on the situation and how we would've handled it. At the end of the day, no one truly knows how they would react unless you're actually in the situation itself. Please join us as we "Recap Story of Betrayal." Lets dive in. Thank you to our special guest “Rockstar” for sharing his story.

In this weeks episode of Lady and the Harlot podcast, we have on a special guest named "Rockstar" who was willing to share his shocking story of Betrayal. Which as the story unfolds, leads into his now ex wife ghosting him. In turn, this triggered him to catfish and ghost her in the end as pay back. We know it sounds horrible however we really wanted to hear the story that lead to this result. Come join us as we dive into," Story of Betrayal."

In this weeks episode of Lady and the Harlot, we touch upon different types of relationships. Which leads us into our next topic, Companionship vs Situationship and what does that look like. Companionship is the state of being someone's friend or companion. It can be a platonic relationship between two people who simply enjoy each other's company but used in the context of friendship. It's a relationship in which both parties support each other emotionally without having sexual interest or attachment. For some, this type of relationship can be beneficial because it allows both people to rely on the other for comfort and positive reinforcement. But when it come to Situationship, its considered to be less than a relationship, but more than a casual encounter or booty call, a situationship refers to a romantic relationship that is and remains undefined. A situationship is that space between a committed relationship and something that is more than a friendship. Which we think has become more of a trend now. Please join us a we dive into the different types of relationships, "Companionship vs Situationship."

In this weeks podcast of Lady and the Harlot, we decided to call this episode, “That's What Friends Are For.” There are just some friendships which seems to stand the test of time. Recently, we had a school reunion going back over 30 years. We had such a good time reconnecting with everyone, that we decided to talk about these special people we've known since we were little kids in school till now. This episode is a bit different but nevertheless, still enjoyable. Please join us as we dive into, “That's What Friends Are For.”

It's all fun and games on this weeks episode of Lady and the Harlot podcast. Big Poppa Willie joins us as our guest, while we play the game “RELATIONSHIP DEBATES”. Tune in on the fun and let us know some of your responses to these questions.

Lady and the Harlot presents , "Hero to Zero part 2" We dived into part 1 in our previous episode. Unfortunately, Our host Dagna was unable to completely spill the tea fully but we are coming back around again to continue to discuss her experiences from dealing with a man who turned out not to be the hero she had hoped for in the end. As we mentioned before, Being organically raw and candid with our followers has been our moto. At the same time, we are still growing and learning about ourselves every day. We thank our followers for joining us on our journey and please know, you are not alone. Please feel free to contact us and share your story on Facebook, Instagram or email us at: LadyandtheHarlot@gmail.com. Thank you so much for listening.

Lady and the Harlot presents our new episode, "Hero to Zero part 1." We have gone through ups and downs in our relationships since we've first started the podcast. Being organically raw and candid with our followers has been our moto. In this episode, Host Dagna discusses her relationship with a man she once called Hero but in the end turned to Zero. We continue to share our experiences so our audience knows in the end, you are not alone and we are all going through something. At the same time, we are still growing and learning about ourselves every day. As the Legendary Prince once said, " Dearly beloved, We are gathered here today, to get through this thing called life." Please join us.

This weeks episode of Lady and the Harlot is called, “Effort & Alignment.” Relationships aren't easy. Consistency is key in a relationship since it means stability, accountability, honesty, essentially the foundation of a partnership. As long as each person puts forth an effort to be consistent in a relationship, it can lead to growth and the development of a bond.  If one person is inconsistent, that speaks to a lack of desire to create that closeness, since inconsistency is a matter of conscious effort. It also takes that same effort to correct the behavior and develop consistency in a relationship – if that's your desire. Nevertheless, your words of wanting to put in the effort should align with your actions. As the saying goes, “Actions Speak Louder Than Words.” Effort in a relationship means paying attention to your partner's needs, patience and communication . It is about being present in the relationship and doing your best to keep the relationship going. Please join us as we dive further into, “Effort & Alignment.”

This weeks episode of Lady and the Harlot is called, “Fools Rush In AKA Making Bad Decision.” Dating someone new can be fun and exciting in the beginning. It's also likely to cause the most rational, levelheaded people to make really dumb decisions. From rushing into another relationship too quickly, especially if you are not over the Ex, to catching feeling too fast for someone who isn't in the same place mentally. Either way, when it comes to dating and relationships; its sometimes hard not to fall trap to making bad decision that may not be right for our well-being. Please join us as we dive in.

Lady and the Harlot Presents, "Game Show Vol.2." In this weeks episode, we are playing ' Ace Metaphor's Tonights Conversation- Date Night Edition Card Game." We previously played this game and answered few intimate questions of our own in Episode 44," Lady and the Harlot Game Show Vol.1." We had so much playing the first time around that we decided to do it again. Please Join Us.

Lady and the Harlot Podcast Presents, "Suppressing Your Kinky Side Vol.2." We previously spoke about this very same topic back in September 2022, S01 E27, "Suppressing Your Kinky Side."  This was one of our top and best episode. We received so much positive feedback that we decided to do it again, Vol.2.  Please join us as we re-visit, "Suppressing Your Kinky Side Vol.2"

We decided to do something fun and different for this weeks episode. So we welcome you all to the Lady and the Harlot Game Show vol 1. Where the contestants ( Hosts: Dagna & Sheryl) ask each other some intimate questions. Some of these questions are from the game card: Tonight's Conversation dating night editions and Tonight's conversation relationship debate. Please join us and play along.

In this weeks episode of Lady and the Harlot Podcast, we discuss "Living in Denial." Being in denial is a psychological defense mechanism against acknowledging “uncomfortable truths” in your relationship or who you are as a person. Unfortunately when we live in any form of denial, it causes us to not see the reality of what the bigger picture really looks like. We use it to overlook the flaws of our partners and to even alter our view of flaws by turning them into positive attributes in the way we view them. There are many reasons we use denial, including avoidance of physical or emotional pain, fear, shame or conflict, within a relationship, as well as being afraid to fully express our truth; or some people will stay in denial to ignore the truths for temporary happiness. Regardless of the fact, Living in denial is something we all have dealt with in some shape or form. Please Join Us as we Dive in.

In this weeks episode of Lady and the Harlot Podcast, we discuss the age old question, "What is Love Anyway?" We discuss what do we think love is, since love is different for everyone. Some of us have experienced real love before and some of us long for a true meaningful relationship where both parties are in love. Please join us and help us answer the question, "What is love Anyway?"

In this new episode of Lady and the Harlot Podcast, we discuss the topic "Red Flags." When dating or starting a new relationship, Red flags shouldn't be ignored. Sure, maintaining any relationship requires compromise or sacrifice, but you should never give up your wants and needs or put your happiness at bay. And when we're newly in love, relationship red flags can be notoriously easy to miss or ignore — although they're usually clear as day after the fact. Red flags in a relationship include certain behavioral issues, jealousy, frequent lying, not being able to properly communicate, etc. Another major red flag is an unwillingness to compromise or possibly not being fully ready to be in a relationship because they are still stuck on the Ex. At the end of the day relationships shouldn't be one-sided. Please join us as we dive into "Red Flags."

In this weeks episode of Lady and the Harlot, we discuss, "The Importance of Time." We talk about how time is so important on so many levels. Take time to process and heal from past relationships before jumping into something new. Take time to get to know the person you are with before you can say you are truly "In love". Time to really get to know yourself so that you can be a better YOU for somebody else. Please join as we discuss, The Importance of Time.

In this weeks episode of Lady and the Harlot, we revisit episode "Can Men & Women Truly Be Friends Without Sexual Tension." Dagna wanted to go back and clarify a statement she made on the original episode. While Sheryl actually had an experience happen to her just a day after we discussed this topic the first time around. Please join us as we Revisit Part 2 of Can men and women truly be friends without sexual tension.

This weeks episode of Lady and the Harlot, is called " Can you truly have a healthy sex life in a full house." Which means if you have a house full of children, family or roommates can you have a free and full sex life? We deep dive into this topic and read the responses from our listeners. We also give our two cents on certain comments made in reference to this topic. What is a healthy sex life? How many times a week do you think you should be doing it? Can you truly be free with plenty of people under the same roof around you? Please join us as we discuss further.

In this week's episode of Lady and the Harlot Podcast, We decided to give a second update/ continuation on our dating love life. We discuss the lack of interest and communication people may face when they first start dating. Which can cause certain red flags and in turn make the relationship seem as if two people are not on the same page after all. Please Join us on this rollercoaster ride of, "Lady and the Harlot Dating Love Life Update Part 2."

We usually get a flood of messages on if Lady and the Harlot are single or not. In this weeks episode of Lady and the Harlot podcast we decided to share our dating love life update. It's funny how we can connect with someone so fast and then the next minute how things change. It all goes back to communication.

They say, psychologically humans are not capable of being "just friends" with members of the opposite sex. We listened two clips by Steve Harvey & Big Jay Oakerson. Two men who made statements that, "Men and Women can not be friends without sexual Tension." In this weeks episode of Lady and the Harlot Podcast, we talk about this topic from a woman's perspective on if this is true or not. Please Join us as we discuss, "Can Men & Women Be Friends Without Sexual Tension?" What do you believe?

You might be familiar with many of the obvious signs of emotional abuse and manipulation. But when you're in an abusive situation/ relationship, it's easy to miss the subtle early signs that build up to  a persistent undercurrent of abusive behavior.  In this weeks episode of Lady and the Harlot we will discuss a more serious topic, “Abusive Relationships" and our personal experiences with being in one.  Emotional abuse involves attempts to frighten, control, or isolate you. This type of abuse doesn't involve physical violence but can turn into it at some point. There are different forms of Abuse, But we will talk  more about Emotional abuse and touch on certain aspects of physical abuse.  Please join us....  If you are dealing with any form of abuse and need help, please call the National Domestic Violence Hotline @ 800-799-7233.  Help is always Available.

In this weeks episode of Lady and the Harlot, we talk about the response we received on one of our post. We played the lovely game of "How Kinky Are you?" which one would you allow in the bedroom. Listen in and let us know.....How kinky are you?

In this weeks episode of Lady and the Harlot, we discuss how it is to be two single parents dating. The number one thing many single parents want a potential partner to know is that the kids come first. But unfortunately there are times where the child(ren) are not taken into consideration, and that can either be on the parent or potential partner side. Either way dating as a single parent can be very hard at times but also more difficult for the kids. Please join us as we dive further into "Dating Single Parents."

In this weeks episode of Lady and the Harlot, we take a stroll back down memory lane to songs we've played during sex in our past relationships. We all have a soundtrack to our lives and but there is something sensual and fun about songs on our sex playlist we just wanted to share. We've also added sexy songs we would like to have sex to at some point. Please join us as we take another musical roller-coaster ride to our next episode called, "Eargasms."

In this week's episode we reflect on past relationships, as well as new ones that have recently ended. We've all dealt with break ups, good and bad. The healing process can be more difficult depending on how deep the relationship was. Join us as we dive in to, "Dealing with Breakups & Healing." Please share your story of your own break up and was it a learning experience for you?

Chances are pretty high that you've heard the word "cuckold" before. But how much do you know about what it really means in todays' world? "Cuckolding" or "cucking" is when a man and his partner take sexual pleasure from the woman having sex with men who are not her partner. Cuckolding is a subset of the BDSM kink world. Cuckolding is a sexual fetish that a lot of people really enjoy. Its a Fetish sex term some couples are embracing today. Join us as we deep dive into this weeks episode of Lady and the Harlot, " The Act of Cuckolding."

In this weeks episode of Lady and the Harlot, we discuss food fetishes. Food fetishes are where a person gets aroused by situations involving food. For example bananas, cucumbers etc. Sometimes, it's simple things like the texture of the food, or the way it melts or spreads. Either way, it a kinky fun way to play with your partner and spice things up in your sex life. Join us as we talk about" Food Fetishes."

In this weeks episode of Lady and the Harlot, we discuss people who suppress their kinky side and why? And what we feel should happen so that side doesn't get push down/suppressed. Please join us as we dive into the topic of "Suppressing Your Kinky Side."

In this weeks episode of Lady and the Harlot, we discuss every mans dream, Girl on Girl action. Two (or more) women engaged in sexual activities (Lesbian/ Bi-sexual) with one another. We talk about our own sexual involvement with women and how these experiences played out in our past relationships. Please join us as we dive into 'Harlot on Harlot Action."

The Art of Wooing, The definition of the word, “wooing” is quite direct and simple: “try to gain the love of (someone, typically a woman), especially with a view to marriage. But Lets start off and focus on the first step "Trying to gain the Attention and Love." There is something sweet about someone just honestly telling you he or she likes you and that person going out of their way to show how much they want you. Unfortunately, the Art of Wooing seems to have change with each generation and the pick up game seems to get weaker and weaker in todays world. Which leads us into this weeks episode of Lady and The Harlot, "THE LOST ART OF WOOING." Whether we attribute its comatose state to dating apps, being connected through text rather than in-person interactions or a dating culture that no longer believes in the same kind of love our grandparents had; dating is in need of some serious TLC. Please join as we Dive into "THE LOST ART OF WOOING."

When it comes to relationships, we live in a lawless era where love is love and (almost) anything goes. We are seeing large age gaps in the dating pool and not just the typical older man-younger woman narrative but also older-women-younger men. In this weeks episode of Lady and the Harlot, we discuss, "THE AGE GAP." Does the Age Gap really matter in a relationship? Can you continue to have enough in common to make it work, so the bond remains, as you both grow older together? Please join us!

In this weeks episode of Lady and the Harlot, we discuss "Workplace Romance Vs Online Dating." Originally this episode was suppose to be about workplace romance only; but quickly we realized its really a question of what do we prefer, Workplace Romance or Online dating. Please Join us and let us know what do you prefer.

In this weeks episode of Lady and the Harlot, we talk about Controlling Relationships and our past experiences. There are different levels of control but the type we explore is the toxic side. It is suffocating to stay in a relationship where your partner always wants to control your actions but when it turns into mental abuse; Then it becomes a bigger problem. Please join us as we dive in.

In this weeks episode of Lady and the Harlot, we discuss the topic "Friends with Benefits." Two people who are physically intimate with one another, yet they are not committed to each other. But how does one deal with this kind of relationship if the other starts to catch feels? In order to make a friends with benefits relationship work, it's important to understand what this kind of causal connection truly means and entails. Please join us as we explore more.

In this weeks episode of Lady and the Harlot, we have a very special guest....THE GREEK! The 3 of us dive in to a discussion about open non monogamous relationships. If you are unsure what that is? Make sure you Tune in and take some notes. Please let us know, If this is a lifestyle you maybe into or curious about? If so, Reach out and tell us your story.