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Do you remember Silver Chair? Well we do. Another thing we remember is when Jeff had some fun in the basement, but then got dumped the next day. What went wrong?Banter27:20 Question 1 - Do I like him more than he likes me?Banter39:41 Question 2 - Advice please. He Cheated. How to not be mad at men!Banter53:30 Question 3 - "You're so lucky" Ugh... This gendered imbalance frustrates me!Record Your Question for Jeff and Alex : https://www.therapyjeff.com/podcastKeep up with Alex at https://alexandramoskovichpsychotherapy.comJeff's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@therapyjeffJeff's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/therapyjeffListen to more podcasts like this: https://wavepodcastnetwork.comDISCLAIMER: The insights shared in this podcast are for educational and entertainment purposes only, and should not be seen as a substitute for professional therapy. The guidance is general in nature, and does not equate to the personalized care provided by a licensed therapist. The callers are not therapy clients.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
Happy Thursday Problemistas! We're solving problems left right and center today. No soundboard, but plenty of banter and lots of laughs, so click play and enjoy. Don't forget to leave a review. We're aiming for 1000 reviews on iTunes and Spotify, so we need all the help we can get. Whilst you're at it, send this podcast to someone who could use a therapeutic laugh. 23:40 - Question 1 - Is this a codependent corrective experience?32:00 - Question 2 - Uncommitted & casual, but he won't sleep here.44:50 - Question 3 - Two Therapists One Problem. Attachment styles.Record Your Question for Jeff and Alex : https://www.therapyjeff.com/podcastKeep up with Alex at https://alexandramoskovichpsychotherapy.comJeff's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@therapyjeffJeff's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/therapyjeffListen to more podcasts like this: https://wavepodcastnetwork.comDISCLAIMER: The insights shared in this podcast are for educational and entertainment purposes only, and should not be seen as a substitute for professional therapy. The guidance is general in nature, and does not equate to the personalized care provided by a licensed therapist. The callers are not therapy clients.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
Problemistas, we've missed you. We're working on our brand this week, establishing our "after hours" vibe. Which prompted a soundboard re-think. It'll make sense when you listen. Just jump in and click play. 16:00 - Question 1 - Masterbating, oh what fun.23:47 - Question 2 - My boyfriend lacks expression, until the pegging begins! 33:25 - Question 3 - Diving in for some great oral sex.48:00 - Question 4 - Desire and sexual shame. Please help!Please help us by sharing this podcast on social with your friends, and also with people you hate. They might learn something!Record Your Questions and Sounds for Jeff and Alex : https://www.therapyjeff.com/podcastKeep up with Alex at https://alexandramoskovichpsychotherapy.comJeff's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@therapyjeffJeff's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/therapyjeffListen to more podcasts like this: https://wavepodcastnetwork.comGo to https://www.zocdoc.com/solved to find and instantly book a top-rated doctor today!DISCLAIMER: The insights shared in this podcast are for educational and entertainment purposes only, and should not be seen as a substitute for professional therapy. The guidance is general in nature, and does not equate to the personalized care provided by a licensed therapist. The callers are not therapy clients.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
Welcome back! We're adding another category to our Problemista venn diagram of love this week, in the form of Jeff's new favorite toy, the soundboard. It has returned! We're excited to discover how this audible hilarity will affect interactions and relations between our two most outspoken listener groups. "Banter Lovers" and Question Lovers".PS, Results of this incredibly helpful scientific study will not be published unless Jeff and Alex's review goals are met. (Disclaimer - This is not bribery, this is science)0:01 Banter Baby8:14 - Discussion - Is a coffee shop ok for a first date?17:24 - Story - Jeff "Tuna Can" Guenther's first BJ24:42 - Question 1 - Nashville Musician, Florida Wife.34:25 - Question 2 - Chat GPT as an argumentative weapon45:00 - Question 3 - Struggling to get clients as a therapist. Jeff and Alex share their experiences starting up.Thank you for all your support, input, time, and laughter!Record Your Question for Jeff and Alex : https://www.therapyjeff.com/podcastKeep up with Alex at https://alexandramoskovichpsychotherapy.comJeff's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@therapyjeffJeff's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/therapyjeffListen to more podcasts like this: https://wavepodcastnetwork.comGo to https://www.zocdoc.com/solved to find and instantly book a top-rated doctor today!DISCLAIMER: The insights shared in this podcast are for educational and entertainment purposes only, and should not be seen as a substitute for professional therapy. The guidance is general in nature, and does not equate to the personalized care provided by a licensed therapist. The callers are not therapy clients.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
Welcome Problemistas! We're happy you could join us. It's problem solving time again. 0:30 - Jeff and Alex share updates on recent events. 25:33 - Question 1 - Do men find it gross when women burp?29:45 - Question 2 - He does too much for me. I'm itchy!41:15 - Question 3 - I don't care... but what do I wear in front of my ex?50:38 - Question 4 - Passion and sex in your 60's. Record Your Question for Jeff and Alex : https://www.therapyjeff.com/podcastKeep up with Alex at https://alexandramoskovichpsychotherapy.comJeff's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@therapyjeffJeff's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/therapyjeffListen to more podcasts like this: https://wavepodcastnetwork.comGo to https://www.zocdoc.com/solved to find and instantly book a top-rated doctor today!DISCLAIMER: The insights shared in this podcast are for educational and entertainment purposes only, and should not be seen as a substitute for professional therapy. The guidance is general in nature, and does not equate to the personalized care provided by a licensed therapist. The callers are not therapy clients.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
Here we go Problemistas. You asked, so you shall now receive. DJ Jeff is hitting that new soundboard harder than a dom party in a whip factory. Click p-p-p-play, and e-e-e-ENJOY! 0:01 - Banter Baby17:03 - Question 1 - Golf....Really? Did we break up?22:50 - Question 2 - Avoidant Father, Daddy issues.32:23 - Question 3 - Mending a relationship. My boyfriend, and my family.40:30 - Question 4 - Talking about attraction in a relationship.Don't forget to like and review people!!!Record Your Question for Jeff and Alex : https://www.therapyjeff.com/podcastKeep up with Alex at https://alexandramoskovichpsychotherapy.comJeff's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@therapyjeffJeff's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/therapyjeffListen to more podcasts like this: https://wavepodcastnetwork.comGo to https://www.zocdoc.com/solved to find and instantly book a top-rated doctor today!DISCLAIMER: The insights shared in this podcast are for educational and entertainment purposes only, and should not be seen as a substitute for professional therapy. The guidance is general in nature, and does not equate to the personalized care provided by a licensed therapist. The callers are not therapy clients.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
Problemistas! It's that time of the month. Speed, quick wit, banter, knowledge and hilarity, raising the question game with a quick fire episode.Press play - Banter and a Poem Baby!11:55 - Quick Fire Questions "Pew pew pew"Record Your Question for Jeff and Alex : https://www.therapyjeff.com/podcastKeep up with Alex at https://alexandramoskovichpsychotherapy.comJeff's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@therapyjeffJeff's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/therapyjeffListen to more podcasts like this: https://wavepodcastnetwork.comDISCLAIMER: The insights shared in this podcast are for educational and entertainment purposes only, and should not be seen as a substitute for professional therapy. The guidance is general in nature, and does not equate to the personalized care provided by a licensed therapist. The callers are not therapy clients.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
This episode needs no introduction. Just press play big dog.Banter! 15:04 - Question 1 - I'd like more of Alex please.20:29 - Question 2 - Dirt clump expert tears Jeff a new one.31:23 - Question 3 - A heartfelt and emotional family dilema.42:22 - Question 4 - Would you finish already! How do we wrap this up?Thank you for listening, please comment, review, share, and care.Record Your Question for Jeff and Alex : https://www.therapyjeff.com/podcastKeep up with Alex at https://alexandramoskovichpsychotherapy.comJeff's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@therapyjeffJeff's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/therapyjeffListen to more podcasts like this: https://wavepodcastnetwork.comDISCLAIMER: The insights shared in this podcast are for educational and entertainment purposes only, and should not be seen as a substitute for professional therapy. The guidance is general in nature, and does not equate to the personalized care provided by a licensed therapist. The callers are not therapy clients.
Welcome Problemistas, to another episode of Problem Solved. In this wonderful episode, Jeff and Alex share a few hot takes, and answer some more great questions. 2:53 - Jeff's Art History Hot Take.1:07 - Alex's Hot Take9:24 - (Alex's adderall wears off around this time marker)20:37 - Question 1 - F**k my friends, Don't F**k my friends?26:18 - Question 2 - I need some relationship advice. I'm Sad.34:45 - What doesn't kill you makes you stronger, stronger, stronger, stronger. (By Kelly Guenther)36:14 - A long question, about mental focus.Don't forget to rate, review, and comment! Until next week Problemistas!Record Your Question for Jeff and Alex : https://www.therapyjeff.com/podcastKeep up with Alex at https://alexandramoskovichpsychotherapy.comJeff's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@therapyjeffJeff's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/therapyjeffListen to more podcasts like this: https://wavepodcastnetwork.comDISCLAIMER: The insights shared in this podcast are for educational and entertainment purposes only, and should not be seen as a substitute for professional therapy. The guidance is general in nature, and does not equate to the personalized care provided by a licensed therapist. The callers are not therapy clients.
We can't please everyone in life. So if you'd like to skip past the proverbial banter and jump straight to this week's quick fire questions, and problem solving action, please skip ahead to minute mark 14:42.If you're in it for the chatter, the banter, the giggles and laughs, just click that play button, get comfortable, and enjoy the whole package.1:08 - Jeff & Alex banter9:34 - Where did we get all these awesome questions from? How's this going to work?10:29 - Boom! Swooping back in with some more sweet and savory banter.14:42 - Quick Fire Questions! For the question lovers.Record Your Question for Jeff and Alex : https://www.therapyjeff.com/podcastKeep up with Alex at https://alexandramoskovichpsychotherapy.comJeff's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@therapyjeffJeff's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/therapyjeffListen to more podcasts like this: https://wavepodcastnetwork.comDISCLAIMER: The insights shared in this podcast are for educational and entertainment purposes only, and should not be seen as a substitute for professional therapy. The guidance is general in nature, and does not equate to the personalized care provided by a licensed therapist. The callers are not therapy clients.
Welcome problem peeps! We're back for another fun episode of Problem Solved. This week Jeff and Alex are relaxed, chatty, and having fun. Games, breezy banter and a variety of questions. Alex even reads us a really sweet poem. Don't forget to rate the show on Spotify and Apple Podcasts!1:00 - Jeff and Alex banter10:00 - Unexplained 90's sitcom BS. 15:35 - F**k Marry Kill22:38 - Mind Meld Game26:57 - Question - Is writing a poem a red flag36:48 - Insightful poem reading by Alex. 38:46 - Question - I kissed a friend and I liked it. 48:38 - Question - Trouble with relationship boundariesRecord Your Question for Jeff and Alex : https://www.therapyjeff.com/podcastKeep up with Alex at https://alexandramoskovichpsychotherapy.comJeff's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@therapyjeffJeff's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/therapyjeffListen to more podcasts like this: https://wavepodcastnetwork.comDISCLAIMER: The insights shared in this podcast are for educational and entertainment purposes only, and should not be seen as a substitute for professional therapy. The guidance is general in nature, and does not equate to the personalized care provided by a licensed therapist. The callers are not therapy clients.
Welcome back to another wonderful episode of Problem Solved. The podcast that takes you through every emotion, every week. Today Jeff and Alex share how they became friends, and help solve some listener friend problems, sharing plenty of laughs in the process. Please leave comments, and review the podcast, we appreciate it! Record Your Question for Jeff and Alex : https://www.therapyjeff.com/podcastKeep up with Alex at https://alexandramoskovichpsychotherapy.comJeff's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@therapyjeffJeff's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/therapyjeffListen to more podcasts like this: https://wavepodcastnetwork.comDISCLAIMER: The insights shared in this podcast are for educational and entertainment purposes only, and should not be seen as a substitute for professional therapy. The guidance is general in nature, and does not equate to the personalized care provided by a licensed therapist. The callers are not therapy clients.
Buckle up for some hot takes today. Jeff's in a moooood. Really that just means we're identifying problems, sharing thoughts, and offering direct, honest and personal solutions that include more laughs, giggles and hilarity. Then it's time for burgers.1:50 - Jeff and Alex share their personal updates and banter. I wonder what will happen?15:04 - Caught Cheating at Coldplay.18:07 - Question 1 - Is the 90's dream still alive?22:32 - Question 2 - If there's nothing to hide, let me see your phone.36:40 - Question 3 - Feeling stuck in life. Relationship help please.47:33 - Question 4 - I'm so anxious about this AMAZING relationship!Record Your Question for Jeff and Alex : https://www.therapyjeff.com/podcastKeep up with Alex at https://alexandramoskovichpsychotherapy.comJeff's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@therapyjeffJeff's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/therapyjeffListen to more podcasts like this: https://wavepodcastnetwork.comGo to https://cozyearth.com and use code SOLVED for 40% off best-selling temperature-regulating sheets, apparel, and more.DISCLAIMER: The insights shared in this podcast are for educational and entertainment purposes only, and should not be seen as a substitute for professional therapy. The guidance is general in nature, and does not equate to the personalized care provided by a licensed therapist. The callers are not therapy clients.
Firstly, thanks to listeners who left comments and feedback. We see you. This week, the morning buzz of sex questions is in the air as Jeff and Alex dive into solving more wonderfully interesting and completely normal sex problems. 12:47 - Solving Your Sex Problems14:36 - Sensate Focus Question. What is it, and with whom does it work?25:10 - Sensate Focus Book Recs28:10 - Single woman. I just want to have some flirty sex.38:55 - Rate this GD podcast would ya!?39:26 - I'm seeing a guy who rarely orgasms, but says he's satisfied. Trust?47:55 - Does a man's sex drive deplete as the relationship gets serious?Thank you all for listening, and for getting your phones out, commenting, and reviewing!Got a question for Jeff and Alex? Record Your Question for Problem Solved: https://www.therapyjeff.com/podcastKeep up with Alex at https://alexandramoskovichpsychotherapy.comJeff's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@therapyjeffJeff's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/therapyjeffListen to more podcasts like this: https://wavepodcastnetwork.comHead to https://www.greenchef.com/50SOLVED and use code 50SOLVED to get 50% off your first month, then 20% off for two months with free shipping.DISCLAIMER: The insights shared in this podcast are for educational and entertainment purposes only, and should not be seen as a substitute for professional therapy. The guidance is general in nature, and does not equate to the personalized care provided by a licensed therapist. The callers are not therapy clients.
Jeff and Alex are back solving your sex problems this week. Providing their interesting, insightful and entertaining perspective. So much so that they'll likely be moving to the entertainment and comedy category, to lift the spirits of listeners looking to have a good old laugh.1:14 - The Body. A discussion. Did you know?14:00 - Question 1 - Spontaneous or Planned Sex? Making things work.20:20 - Question 2 - How do I tell my partner it smells? Just say something!39:09 - Jeff! You can do something about your taste too!41:08 - The secret to having bigger "loads".43:12 - Question 3 - Slutty past, now i'm a professional. How do I handle this?49:40 - I haven't seen my new dudes D**K.Leave your comments! Subscribe! Share the podcast!!!!Got a question for Jeff and Alex? Record Your Question for Problem Solved: https://www.therapyjeff.com/podcastKeep up with Alex at https://alexandramoskovichpsychotherapy.comJeff's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@therapyjeffJeff's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/therapyjeffListen to more podcasts like this: https://wavepodcastnetwork.comDISCLAIMER: The insights shared in this podcast are for educational and entertainment purposes only, and should not be seen as a substitute for professional therapy. The guidance is general in nature, and does not equate to the personalized care provided by a licensed therapist. The callers are not therapy clients.
Welcome back to Problem Solved, we're back at it, first sharing thoughts on Jeff's recent social post that sparked some negative responses. Alex gives us a pretty awesome breakdown of Cincinnati chili, and we dive into solving problems!6:38 Alex and Jeff discuss comments made on his recent social post about cheating.13:08 Question 1: Classic Cincinnati. Alex, Do you like Skyline Chili? Where did you go to school?24:19 What else do you put chili on?26:05 Question 2: Fellow therapist asking for Jeff and Alex's take on boundaries and ultimatums.29:40 Boundaries Vs Ultimatums Explained.32:54 Personal examples of ultimatums, warning, and boundaries.34:38 Boundaries and ultimatums can feel like control, or cause shame.36:26 Boundaries are rather confusing. Talking in Circles.37:20 Question 3: 50 years old and dating. Am I being too pragmatic?43:06 Jeff shares a touching personal story about grief.46:15 "I had the worst vasectomy" "Bring those interns in"51:17 Back on track. Answering question 3.Thank you for listening!Got a question for Jeff and Alex? Record Your Question for Problem Solved: https://www.therapyjeff.com/podcastKeep up with Alex at https://alexandramoskovichpsychotherapy.comJeff's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@therapyjeffJeff's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/therapyjeffListen to more podcasts like this: https://wavepodcastnetwork.comDISCLAIMER: The insights shared in this podcast are for educational and entertainment purposes only, and should not be seen as a substitute for professional therapy. The guidance is general in nature, and does not equate to the personalized care provided by a licensed therapist. The callers are not therapy clients.
When was the first time you ever saw an adult magazine? Jeff and Alex share their personal firsts.Then we jump into a relational psychology listener question, or we should say "set of calculated questions that resemble a test", which we suspect was submitted by Teal Swan. This deep conversation on favorite things results in some surprisingly "big dog" action. More listener questions this week3:08 - Jeff Personal Story10:36 - Alex Personal Story 19:11 - Question 1 - (Probably from Teal Swan) 34:22 - Question: 2 - Help! I fell in love whilst in an open relationship. 50:01 - Question 3 - I need top tips on how to go LOW contact with a family member.Thank you all!Got a question for Jeff and Alex? Record Your Question for Problem Solved: https://www.therapyjeff.com/podcastKeep up with Alex at https://alexandramoskovichpsychotherapy.comJeff's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@therapyjeffJeff's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/therapyjeffListen to more podcasts like this: https://wavepodcastnetwork.comSponsors:Go to https://www.zocdoc.com/SOLVED to find and instantly book a top-rated doctor today.DISCLAIMER: The insights shared in this podcast are for educational and entertainment purposes only, and should not be seen as a substitute for professional therapy. The guidance is general in nature, and does not equate to the personalized care provided by a licensed therapist. The callers are not therapy clients.
Would you consider it cheating if your partner flirts in front of you? Alex and Jeff review some interesting statistics gathered from a bunch of different "is it cheating" scenarios.Then on to exploring and solving some sex positive listener problems!3:06 - Jeff's Statistic Review - Would you consider it cheating if........? 19:11 - Question 1 - Exploring my sexuality.30:36 - Question 2 - A fellow therapist is debating the idea of having an Only Fans account.40:58 Question 3 - Getting off on an abandonment wound. Is this a bad idea?50:45 Question 4 - Using sex and pleasure as an escape.Got a question for Jeff and Alex? Record Your Question for Problem Solved: https://www.therapyjeff.com/podcastKeep up with Alex at https://alexandramoskovichpsychotherapy.comJeff's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@therapyjeffJeff's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/therapyjeffListen to more podcasts like this: https://wavepodcastnetwork.comSponsors:Go to https://www.zocdoc.com/SOLVED to find and instantly book a top-rated doctor today.Use code SOLVED at https://cozyearth.com for 40% off best-selling sheets, pajamas, and more.DISCLAIMER: The insights shared in this podcast are for educational and entertainment purposes only, and should not be seen as a substitute for professional therapy. The guidance is general in nature, and does not equate to the personalized care provided by a licensed therapist. The callers are not therapy clients.
Navigating the modern world can be a trying and tiring thing as we're all merely trying to exist in the chaos. Politically, socially and even online, we're experiencing a lot of disconnect and whataboutery. In this week's episode, Niall is joined by Jeff Guenther, who may be better known to you online as Therapy Jeff. With almost 4 million followers, Jeff has become known and loved for his thought-provoking videos and nuggets of therapy wisdom, but is no stranger to the darker sides of online popularity. Niall and Jeff discuss the tense landscape we're currently living in, from Trump's election to America's TikTok ban, and how that's impacting all of our psyche. Jeff shares his expertise on connection and what he believes to be the remedy to our individualistic society, along with how his own mind has been impacted by it all. For more mindfulness content check out Niall's Patreon. https://www.patreon.com/niallbreslinFollow Niall on IG @bressie, TikTok @niallbreslin, FB @whereismymindpodcast and Twitter @nbrez and visit his website: www.niallbreslin.com.If you or someone you know is struggling emotionally or feeling hopeless, it's important to talk to someone about it now. You can contact one of the resources below for free. In Ireland/U.K.: https://www.samaritans.org/In the U.S.: https://988lifeline.org/ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
We ask TikTok famous therapist Jeff Guenther what he really thinks about the therapy boom on social media - plus he answers your dating questions, from settling for the slow burn to how to listen to your partner, not react.SHOW NOTES:TherapyJeff on tiktokDM us your thoughts, questions, topics, or to just vent at @triplejthehookup on IG or email us: thehookup@abc.net.auThe Hook Up is an ABC podcast, produced by triple j. It is recorded on the lands of the Wurundjeri people of the Kulin nation. We pay our respects to elders past and present. We acknowledge Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander peoples as the First Australians and Traditional Custodians of the land where we live, work, and learn.
First off, we hear from a neglected third in a poorly executed threeway hook-up. He failed to advocate for himself, and the other two guys weren't asking if he was ok, sitting on the couch, looking at his phone. How could this have gone better? And how can he get over the waves of insecurity he feels when he connects with these same guys again? A woman in an open relationship with a nine year-old daughter wonders how to explain daddy's frequent absences. Our guest this week is the soothing, clever and cussing Jeff Guenther a.k.a Therapy Jeff. Somehow Dan convinced him to come on the show and give him (and all of us really,) some free therapy around the grief we are all feeling. Self care? Sign us up! And of course Jeff sticks around to answer sex questions too. A little is on the Micro and the whole thing is on the Magnum. And, listen in as a woman goes over the details of why her friendship is coming to an end. It really must end. Q@Savage.Love 206-302-2064 This episode is brought to you by Hims, providing affordable access to ED treatment, online. Start your free online visit today at Hims.com/Savage. This episode is brought to you by Dipsea: an app full of hundreds of short, sexy audio stories designed by women for women. Get an extended 30 day free trial when you go to dipseastories.com/savage. This episode is brought to you by True Nutrition. Protein powders and supplements to match your fitness goals. Get 15% OFF your order at TrueNutrition.com with the promo code Savage.
Jeff Guenther AKA TherapyJeff is here to help you take control of your dating life, by tuning into who you are, what you want, and how you can get there. Therapy Jeff has over 3.8 million followers on socials. He is a licensed therapist with twenty years' experience in private practice. Today we are going to unpack a bit of the psychology behind why we are the way that we are in relationships and how that impacts different aspects of our dating lives! Today we chat about: Growing up with a mum who is also a therapist. Is that good or bad? Can we blame our parents for who we are attracted to? Why is dating so hard right now? If you're on dating apps, you could be dating an AI avatar of the person When we ARE the problem and how to take control of that Patterns: are you after chaos and drama or a healthy stable relationship? No, but really what are you actually searching for? How much can you change someone to help them meet your needs? How to spot the difference between love bombing and the honeymoon phase Can you survive cheating? What determines whether you can or can't Find more from Jeff's websiteFind Therapy Jeff on Instagram and tiktok You can watch us on Youtube Find us on Instagram Join us on tiktok Or join the Facebook Discussion Group Tell your mum, tell your dad, tell your dog, tell your friend and share the love because WE LOVE LOVE! xxSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Jeff Guenther, AKA TherapyJeff on Instagram, joins Damona in the premiere of Season 12 of Dates & Mates for a state of the date address! They cover all phases of the dating journey from clarifying what you're seeking to first dates, defining the relationship and even planning for the dreaded breakup. The Dear Damona question this week is: What's the best way to reach out to someone new on LinkedIn? Be sure to follow Jeff on Instagram @TherapyJeff and grab a copy of his new book, Big Dating Energy, on shelves now! And get Damona's bestselling book “F the Fairy Tale” in ebook, audiobook, and hardcover everywhere books are sold (FtheFairyTaleBook.com) This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Get convenient, online therapy with BetterHelp. Visit BetterHelp.com/DATESANDMATES today to get 10% off your first month. TIMESTAMPS Introduction to Season 12 (00:00:00) Overview of the Episode (00:02:06) Introducing Therapy Jeff (00:04:29) Jeff's Book Release (00:05:00) Collaborating with an Ex (00:06:47) Personal Insights in the Book (00:08:48) Clarifying Deal Breakers (00:12:04) Understanding Relationship Needs (00:15:18) The Role of Fears in Dating (00:18:31) Dating Apps Discussion (00:20:07) The Impact of Dating Apps on Love (23:20) The Shift in Dating Dynamics (23:41) Boundaries with Technology (24:27) The Need for Healthy Relationships (27:48) Imagining Ideal Dating Apps (28:16) Cultural Changes in Dating Apps (29:39) Tips for Long-term Relationship Survival (30:19) Navigating Conflict in Relationships (31:59) Communication After Intimacy (33:10) Creating Sexual Energy (35:24) Understanding Breakups (36:45) Ethical Breakup Practices (39:05) The Value of Planning in Relationships (41:38) The Intimacy of Breakup Conversations (43:09) Listener Question on LinkedIn Outreach (44:02) Introduction and Connector Circle (00:46:04) Sliding into DMs (00:46:59) Approaching on LinkedIn (00:48:11) Navigating Online Connections (00:49:19) Promoting the Dates & Mates Method (00:50:16) Call for Listener Questions (00:51:13) Wrap-Up and Guest Teaser (00:52:06) Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
We start the show with a simple question. Should she sleep with the gardener? Her marriage has become sexless, and though her husband swears he would be into a three-way, she wants to audition the hot gardener first. Some questions require a medical opinion. Some questions are so gnarly that only the most intrepid medical experts will suffice. There is only one man who can fill this role. And that man is Doc Barak. On the Magnum, Dan brings on your next favorite guest, Jeff Guenther a.k.a "TherapyJeff." His new book, Big Dating Energy is out now. They talk about dating apps, scheduled sex and how capitalism destroys relationships, Also, Dan self-diagnoses his attachment style, and Jeff makes a sacred promise. And, a near virgin has asked our brave caller if she would relieve him of his virginity. She thinks it could be fun and a mikvah. But is there anything she should be aware of or look out for? Q@Savage.Love 206-302-2064 This episode is brought to you by Squarespace. They make it easy to build a website or blog. Give it a whirl at Squarespace.com/Savage and if you want to buy it, use the code Savage for a 10% off your first purchase. This episode is brought to you by Talkspace- online therapy that makes it easy to get extra mental health support. For $80 off your first month, go to Talkspace.com/Savage, and use the offer code Space80. This episode is brought to you by Hims, providing affordable access to ED treatment, online. Start your free online visit today at Hims.com/Savage.
I am so excited to finally welcome Jeff Guenther (better known as TherapyJeff on social) to the show to talk about his new book, Big Dating Energy: How to Create Lasting Love by Tapping Into Your Authentic Self. We talk about dating in the modern world, how it's shifting, what trends Jeff is seeing in his practice, our best tips for lasting relationships, and also what it's like to try and date when you're a bit of an internet celebrity! There was a lot of laughter in this conversation and I hope you enjoy Jeff's humor (and wisdom) as much as I did. Read the show notes for today's episode at terricole.com/627
With the rise of social media, many therapists are elevating their online presence. This is undoubtedly true for Jeff Guenther, better known as @TherapyJeff on TikTok and Instagram where he's built an audience of more than 4 million followers.Jeff, a licensed therapist, author, podcast host, and private practice owner based in Portland, OR, has founded multiple companies, including TherapyDen, a popular therapist directory.In his conversation with host Michael Fulwiler, Jeff explores the complexities of balancing an online persona with maintaining a private practice. He discusses how this dual role can blur professional boundaries and lead to unexpected client interactions. Jeff advises new therapists to be mindful of the emotional impact of their online influence and to respect boundaries with their clients.The discussion also delves into Jeff's journey to becoming a therapist, highlighting his relationship with his mother and his struggles with anxiety as a new therapist. He shares how he overcame feelings of worthlessness, built his client base from scratch, and balanced his professional and personal life. Jeff also touches on the often unspoken truth about therapists working through their own issues and what it means for their professional journey.As a heads-up, this episode contains some strong language.In the conversation, they discuss:Personal struggles and the quest for understanding often lead us to the most fulfilling careers. By recognizing your worth and gradually adjusting your rates, you will find a balance between financial stability and authentic practice. While social media has advantages, it can blur professional boundaries and lead to unexpected client interactions. Stay grounded and true to your therapeutic roots while exploring new avenues for growth.Connect with the guest:On Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/therapyjeff/ On TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@therapyjeff Jeff's website - https://www.therapyjeff.com/aboutBuy Jeff's book - https://www.therapyjeff.com/big-dating-energy-bookConnect with Michael and Heard:Michael's LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/michaelfulwiler/Newsletter: https://www.joinheard.com/newsletter Book a free consult: https://www.joinheard.com/welcome-form Jump into the conversation:00:00 Introduction to Heard Business School with host Michael Fulwiler and special guest Jeff Guenther03:16 Decision to enter therapy as influenced by his mother07:51 On true therapist cliches10:12 Anxieties in starting a private practice at 24 years old24:16 Misconceptions on private practice27:34 Reflecting on the importance of variety in work31:52 On building a social media persona and creating content37:55 Decision not to accept new clients due to social media influence40:56 Insight into Jeff's book, Big Dating Energy47:09 Reflecting on the challenges experienced during practice51:49 Advice on becoming an online therapist/content creator This episode is to be used for informational purposes only and does not constitute legal, business, or tax advice. Each person should consult their own attorney, business advisor, or tax advisor with respect to matters referenced in this episode.
Back again with @therapyjeff! Listen to the episode HERE!Jeff Guenther (@therapyjeff) was an amazing guest on This Helps for Episode 5. He was so kind to invite Marlon to be a guest on a recent episode of his podcast, Problem Solved. They were also joined by the hilarious and talented comedian, Chris Gethard. This week, This Helps listeners have the opportunity to hear how Jeff and Marlon help Chris solve a relatable problem in his life. Stay connected with Jeff: Podcasts: Problem Solved with Therapy Jeff & Big Dating Energy TikTok: https://www.instagram.com/therapyjeff/ Instagram: https://www.tiktok.com/@therapyjeff
In this episode, I sit down with Jeff Guenther (TherapyJeff), a therapist who's made a huge splash with his engaging mostly-relationship content. We dive into Jeff's personal backstory, including his challenging relationship with his mother, his battles with anger, identity formation, music and culture, and the impact of his mom's drug addiction during his formative years.Jeff also opens up about his content journey, from the excitement of his initial viral success to the challenges of monetizing his platform. He shares his struggles with maintaining authenticity while navigating the world of sponsored content. Now, he's shifting toward a more balanced approach, focusing on writing and podcasting and cutting back on sponsored posts.He's also excited about his upcoming book, "Big Dating Energy," which he hopes will offer fresh insights into modern relationships. We wrap up our conversation by discussing his love for organic, long-form conversations and his enthusiasm for the next chapter of his career.Join us as TherapyJeff shares his journey and insights, offering a behind-the-scenes look at the life of a viral content creator turning towards more meaningful media endeavors.Connect with Jeff:WebsiteInstagramTikTokYoutubeConnect with Flynn:Ways That I Can Help YouSubscribe to my relationships and purpose newsletter where I give you the tools and frameworks to take action on everything you want in your life in under 5 minutes.InstagramTikTokSubmit your written reviews to THIS form to be entered into a giveaway to win a 30 min session with me! We'll pull 1 winner at the end of the month.
When Allen's gym crush asked him—point blank—if he liked someone, he panicked. Should he tell her? What should he do if she wasn't actually flirting with him? On this episode of How To!: Courtney Martin finds out what happened and brings in Jeff Guenther, therapist and author of the new book Big Dating Energy. (You might know him as TherapyJeff from TikTok, Instagram, or YouTube.) Jeff gives Allen the tools to flirt more authentically, stick to his non-negotiables, and lean into his self-confidence. If you liked this episode check out: How To Ditch the Apps & Actually Find a Date Do you have a problem that needs solving? Send us a note at howto@slate.com or leave us a voicemail at 646-495-4001 and we might have you on the show. Subscribe for free on Apple, Spotify or wherever you listen. How To's executive producer is Derek John. Joel Meyer is our senior editor/producer. The show is produced by Rosemary Belson and Kevin Bendis. Slate Plus members get bonus segments and ad-free podcast feeds. Sign up now at slate.com/howtoplus. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
When Allen's gym crush asked him—point blank—if he liked someone, he panicked. Should he tell her? What should he do if she wasn't actually flirting with him? On this episode of How To!: Courtney Martin finds out what happened and brings in Jeff Guenther, therapist and author of the new book Big Dating Energy. (You might know him as TherapyJeff from TikTok, Instagram, or YouTube.) Jeff gives Allen the tools to flirt more authentically, stick to his non-negotiables, and lean into his self-confidence. If you liked this episode check out: How To Ditch the Apps & Actually Find a Date Do you have a problem that needs solving? Send us a note at howto@slate.com or leave us a voicemail at 646-495-4001 and we might have you on the show. Subscribe for free on Apple, Spotify or wherever you listen. How To's executive producer is Derek John. Joel Meyer is our senior editor/producer. The show is produced by Rosemary Belson and Kevin Bendis. Slate Plus members get bonus segments and ad-free podcast feeds. Sign up now at slate.com/howtoplus. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
When Allen's gym crush asked him—point blank—if he liked someone, he panicked. Should he tell her? What should he do if she wasn't actually flirting with him? On this episode of How To!: Courtney Martin finds out what happened and brings in Jeff Guenther, therapist and author of the new book Big Dating Energy. (You might know him as TherapyJeff from TikTok, Instagram, or YouTube.) Jeff gives Allen the tools to flirt more authentically, stick to his non-negotiables, and lean into his self-confidence. If you liked this episode check out: How To Ditch the Apps & Actually Find a Date Do you have a problem that needs solving? Send us a note at howto@slate.com or leave us a voicemail at 646-495-4001 and we might have you on the show. Subscribe for free on Apple, Spotify or wherever you listen. How To's executive producer is Derek John. Joel Meyer is our senior editor/producer. The show is produced by Rosemary Belson and Kevin Bendis. Slate Plus members get bonus segments and ad-free podcast feeds. Sign up now at slate.com/howtoplus. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
When Allen's gym crush asked him—point blank—if he liked someone, he panicked. Should he tell her? What should he do if she wasn't actually flirting with him? On this episode of How To!: Courtney Martin finds out what happened and brings in Jeff Guenther, therapist and author of the new book Big Dating Energy. (You might know him as TherapyJeff from TikTok, Instagram, or YouTube.) Jeff gives Allen the tools to flirt more authentically, stick to his non-negotiables, and lean into his self-confidence. If you liked this episode check out: How To Ditch the Apps & Actually Find a Date Do you have a problem that needs solving? Send us a note at howto@slate.com or leave us a voicemail at 646-495-4001 and we might have you on the show. Subscribe for free on Apple, Spotify or wherever you listen. How To's executive producer is Derek John. Joel Meyer is our senior editor/producer. The show is produced by Rosemary Belson and Kevin Bendis. Slate Plus members get bonus segments and ad-free podcast feeds. Sign up now at slate.com/howtoplus. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
When Allen's gym crush asked him—point blank—if he liked someone, he panicked. Should he tell her? What should he do if she wasn't actually flirting with him? On this episode of How To!: Courtney Martin finds out what happened and brings in Jeff Guenther, therapist and author of the new book Big Dating Energy. (You might know him as TherapyJeff from TikTok, Instagram, or YouTube.) Jeff gives Allen the tools to flirt more authentically, stick to his non-negotiables, and lean into his self-confidence. If you liked this episode check out: How To Ditch the Apps & Actually Find a Date Do you have a problem that needs solving? Send us a note at howto@slate.com or leave us a voicemail at 646-495-4001 and we might have you on the show. Subscribe for free on Apple, Spotify or wherever you listen. How To's executive producer is Derek John. Joel Meyer is our senior editor/producer. The show is produced by Rosemary Belson and Kevin Bendis. Slate Plus members get bonus segments and ad-free podcast feeds. Sign up now at slate.com/howtoplus. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
When Allen's gym crush asked him—point blank—if he liked someone, he panicked. Should he tell her? What should he do if she wasn't actually flirting with him? On this episode of How To!: Courtney Martin finds out what happened and brings in Jeff Guenther, therapist and author of the new book Big Dating Energy. (You might know him as TherapyJeff from TikTok, Instagram, or YouTube.) Jeff gives Allen the tools to flirt more authentically, stick to his non-negotiables, and lean into his self-confidence. If you liked this episode check out: How To Ditch the Apps & Actually Find a Date Do you have a problem that needs solving? Send us a note at howto@slate.com or leave us a voicemail at 646-495-4001 and we might have you on the show. Subscribe for free on Apple, Spotify or wherever you listen. How To's executive producer is Derek John. Joel Meyer is our senior editor/producer. The show is produced by Rosemary Belson and Kevin Bendis. Slate Plus members get bonus segments and ad-free podcast feeds. Sign up now at slate.com/howtoplus. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Jeff Guenther, also known as @therapyjeff to over 4 million people around the world, is a licensed therapist, a self-proclaimed fan of the 90's, podcast host of Problem Solved and Big Dating Energy, and author of the upcoming book Big Dating Energy, joins us for a hilarious, authentic, and helpful conversation. Hope you enjoy it as much as we did!
Did you know you're most attractive when you are authentically you? Well, that's precisely what this week's guest, Therapy Jeff, says! Jeff Guenther, known as Therapy Jeff, joins Lily for a conversation about the intricacies of modern dating, the evolution of therapy in the age of social media, and authentic self-expression. Therapy Jeff's insights on modern dating and mental health are a breath of fresh air. In a world saturated with dating advice and unrealistic expectations, his book, 'Big Dating Energy,' offers a refreshing perspective: that lasting love stems from embracing one's authentic self. In an era of self-doubt and comparison, Jeff reminds us that we are inherently lovable and deserving of genuine connection. We get into: What dating advice/problems/framing Jeff's book, Big Dating Energy, aims to solve Addressing beliefs like “It's my fault, or I'm not good enough.” The idea of feminine and masculine energy and the notion of “not being in your feminine enough.” Cognitive overload and how to get in touch with your intention when using social media or dating apps Links: Lily's book, Thank You More Please, is available for preorder right now and you can grab it and the preorder bonuses with this link! Jeff's book, Big Dating EnergyTherapy Jeff's websiteTherapy Jeff on TikTokTherapy Jeff on Instagram Show notes: http://datebrazen.com/blog/big-dating-energy-with-therapy-jeff
Today we're joined by Jeff Guenther, also known online as TherapyJeff! Jeff has joined us to talk about what he does, therapy, non-monogamy, and much more!Jeff Guenther, aka TherapyJeff, is, according to him, the most handsome therapist on the internet and is an international treasure who made Portland Oregon cool when he moved there in 2005. Jeff dedicates his time to creating short videos for TikTok and Instagram, and hosting his weekly podcasts, 'Big Dating Energy' and Problem Solved.' Honestly, we can't believe he is on our show. What a blessing! Learn more about him at TherapyJeff.com. If this show is helpful to you, consider joining our amazing community of like-minded listeners at patreon.com/Multiamory. You can also get access to ad-free episodes, group video discussions, bonus episodes, and more! Join Beducated for 40% off their yearly pass and level up your sex life at https://beducate.me/pd2412-multiamory with promo code multiamoryQuality lube is essential for good sexual experiences. Try our absolute favorite, Uberlube and get 10% off plus free shipping with promo code MULTIAMORYGet hair care that is completely customized to your hair and your life AND get 15% off at Prose.com/multiamoryThis episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/multi and get 10% off your first month. Multiamory was created by Dedeker Winston, Jase Lindgren, and Emily Matlack.Our theme music is Forms I Know I Did by Josh and Anand.Follow us on Instagram @Multiamory_Podcast and visit our website Multiamory.com. We are a proud member of the Pleasure Podcasts network. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Today's guest is the very funny, very handsome, and extremely anti-camping licensed professional counselor, Jeff Guenther. You may now him best from his insanely popular advise account, TherapyJeff on TikTok and Instagram -- and we're so lucky to have him here today! We're talking relationship do's and don'ts, for people currently in relationships, people who are trying to get into relationships, and people who have no interest in relationships at all! From love bombing; how to recognize it, and how to stop yourself from doing it, to farting in front of a partner, to learning healthy relationships when they weren't modeled for you, to supporting partners with mental health issues/ body issues, to being monogamish, and several compatibility tests that we have learned from the New York Times and Married At First Sight: Australia -- this episode has it all. Love How C*m? -- RATE, REVIEW & SUBSCRIBE Follow Jeff @TherapyJeff Follow / DM us at @HowCumPodcast @RemyKassimir Support the podcast/ get extras on Patreon Check out our website for extra info & merch!
In this, the debut episode of Problem Solved, your host, Jeff Guenther, LPC (AKA Therapy Jeff) and guest co-host, sex and relationship therapist, Julie Jeske, help best friend duo and hosts of the Excuse My Friend podcast, Julia and Alexis, (better known to their nearly 7 million TikTok followers as the hilariously loveable Heartlyn Rae) tackle the uncomfortable practice of expressing vulnerability without getting defensive. Listen to find out if Alexis and Julia's walls stay up or if they take Julie and Jeff's advice to heart.Listen to more podcasts like this: https://wavepodcastnetwork.comListen to Jeff's podcast Big Dating Energy here: https://wavepodcastnetwork.com/Keep up with Julie Jeske on Instagram @julie_jeske and at her website portlandsextherapy.comFollow Heartlyn Rae on Instagram @heartlynrae and TikTok @heartlynraeListen to Jeff on Heartlyn Rae's podcast Excuse My FriendJeff's TikTok: https://www.instagram.com/therapyjeff/Jeff's Instagram: https://www.tiktok.com/@therapyjeffDISCLAIMER: The insights shared in this podcast are for educational purposes only, and should not be seen as a substitute for professional therapy. The guidance is general in nature, and does not equate to the personalized care provided by a licensed therapist. The callers are not therapy clients.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
Jeff Guenther, LPC (AKA Therapy Jeff) breaks down his new podcast, Problem Solved. Each week, this podcast embarks on a new mission, exploring, analyzing, and hopefully solving common problems that as humans we all experience. Guests engage in thoughtful, patient conversation, identifying areas of their lives they feel need improvement. Through open discussion, Problem Solved provides a refreshing "Masked Magician" perspective into both the world of self improvement and mental health.Listen to more podcasts like this: https://wavepodcastnetwork.comListen to Jeff's podcast Big Dating Energy here: https://wavepodcastnetwork.com/DISCLAIMER: The insights shared in this podcast are for educational purposes only, and should not be seen as a substitute for professional therapy. The guidance is general in nature, and does not equate to the personalized care provided by a licensed therapist. The callers are not therapy clients.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
Welcome back! It's our first episode since we went on a brief hiatus, and what better way to kick off this new era of Mostly Balanced than with the internet's favorite therapist and dating expert, Jeff Guenther, LPC—or, as you probably know him, @therapyjeff. what we're talking about: Jeff's upcoming book, Big Dating Energy (*preorder it here!!) what's holding you back from meeting your person how to be more successful on dating apps how to actually get approached IRL how to let someone know you are interested how to communicate what you need in a relationship what to do if you're not happy in a situationship (+ how to get over it) *here's the post we discuss defining a relationship/bringing up exclusivity what to do when they haven't said I love you but you want them to say it first & more! Find Jeff on Instagram and TikTok @therapyjeff + head to his website to preorder his book. As always, find us on Instagram @mostlybalancedpodcast. To have your question answered on an upcoming episode, email hello@wearemostlybalanced.com. And if you're enjoying the pod, please leave a rating & review!
This week, Ash talks with Jeff Guenther, a Licensed Professional Counselor and podcast host of the show Big Dating Energy, all about the green flags and red flags of relationships and dating. Ash and Jeff dive into advice on navigating the complexities of love and relationships, understanding different love languages, tips for maintaining the spark in a relationship post-honeymoon period, and the importance of emotional availability within a relationship. Whether you are looking for guidance on how to deepen your connection or are ready for advice on success in dating…this episode has something for you. In This Episode, You'll Learn: Understanding the power struggles in relationships The role of love languages in relationships. The reality of why opposites attract. How to keep the spark alive after the honeymoon phase ends. How to deal with “the one that got away” What to do when friends and family disapprove of your partner. Connect with Jef Guenther https://www.instagram.com/therapyjeff/?hl=en Order his new book Bid Dating Energy: https://www.therapyjeff.com/big-dating-energy-book Connect with Ash: https://www.instagram.com/ashleystahl/ Take a FREE Quiz to Discover Your Most Authentic Career Path: https://www.ashleystahl.com/freequiz/
Jillian and special guest Jeff Guenther get candid and personal in this riveting conversation about why men look at provocative accounts, the difference between healthy and unheathy chemistry and why dating apps might be working against you. Jeff Guenther is a licensed professional counselor in Portland, Oregon, practicing since 2005. His focus includes working with both couples and individuals. Alongside therapy, Jeff dedicates his spare time to creating short videos for TikTok and Instagram, and hosting his weekly podcast, 'Big Dating Energy.' Excitingly, you can now pre-order his new book, also titled 'Big Dating Energy.' Follow him on all platforms for insightful relationship advice, tips, pep talks, and a range of resources to boost your mental health. Learn more at TherapyJeff.com ~~ Follow the show on Instagram: @jillianonlove Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreon Find Resources mentioned in the show at the Jillian on Love Recommendations Follow Jillian Turecki on Instagram: @jillianturecki TikTok: @jillian.turecki Twitter: @JillianTurecki Visit her website at jillianturecki.com ~~ Jillian On Love is brought to you by QCODE. To advertise on the show, contact us! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Welcome to Big Dating Energy, a new relationship and dating podcast hosted by licensed therapist Jeff Guenther, whom you may know as 'TherapyJeff,'. In this trailer episode, Jeff explains exactly what listeners can expect from future episodes of Big Dating Energy.Click to Pre order your future favorite book now!
Private Practice Startup fears are real, but have you thought that you were peeing your pants during your sessions? In this hilarious but very real episode, I talk with Jeff Guenther, the owner and founder of Therapy Den and a TikTok influencer, about the very real fears that exist when starting your private practice. I talk about my own fears of leaving my agency job, including the infamous question: "Will people ever call me, and am I qualified enough to help people?" AKA Impostor Syndrome... Jeff talks about starting his private practice in Portland Oregon, marketing via Craigslist and hanging flyers on telephone poles, and considering quitting the career in mental health therapy due to the stressors. We talk about: Startup Fears and how normal they are Jeff's very real fears of "phantom peeing himself" during therapy sessions My fears and imposter syndrome when taking the leap to leave my agency job How to work through the fear and anxiety, and learn to trust your instincts and skills More about Jeff: Jeff Guenther, LPC, is a therapist in Portland, OR. He has been in private practice since 2005 and currently leads workshops on how health and wellness practitioners can build their digital brand and attract more clients online. Jeff is the creator and owner of two highly-ranked therapist directory sites, Portland Therapy Center and TherapyDen. Check out Jeff's Website & Join the TherapyDen Directory: Therapyden.com –––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––
Prepare yourself for an inside look at my therapy session. I'm here with Therapy Jeff, my favorite TikToker when it comes to relationship advice. We'll cover online dating disasters, have soul crushing revelations, and of course, unpack the enigma of the different relationship attachment styles – all with a cheeky twist. Therapy Jeff and I make an unlikely discovery that leaves us questioning the fabric of reality and heals our inner child. Tune in for a session that's part confessional, part cosmic exploration, and wholly entertaining. This is one therapy appointment I will never forget. Finding Laura Clery: Website: thelauraclerypodcast.com Read/Listen: Idiot & Idiots Checkout our new Kids Show: Pammy's World TikTok & Youtube & Facebook: @Laura Clery Instagram: @lauraclery Episode Breakdown: -00:00 Welcome I'm here with Therapy Jeff, Jeff Guenther -00:58 Okay but why therapy? -4:45 Life regrets -5:55 Baseball vs. sex -9:10 Parenting advice gone wrong -13:50 Life after death, according to Therapy Jeff -18:00 Why we're obsessed with love -20:00 Attachment styles, explained -30:00 Love bombing -45:00 Commitment issues -50:00 Dating post divorce -55:11 Spicy DMs -56:00 Update on Stephen and I -1:00:00 Questions to ask your partner -1:13 Connect with him @TherapyJeff on Instagram and TikTok -1:14:00 AG1 is my favorite supplement, it's completely vegan and helps with my gut health and energy levels. If you order at drinkag1.com/idiot you'll get five FREE travel packs and a year supply of immune supporting vitamin D.
We had the pleasure of chatting with TikTok's favorite therapist, Jeff Guenther. He is known as TherapyJeff on social media with 2.8 million followers on TikTok and millions of views on his videos where he shares dating and relationship advice, tips, and pep talks. We picked Jeff's brain about all things relationships. From what makes a relationship last, things to ask on a first date, all the way to break up sex, is it good or bad? Jeff has a relatable approach that makes his advice easy to understand and easy to apply in our lives. You are going to want to hear all that he has to say. Also, we filmed this on a rooftop outside, so if you hear random noises in the background, that's why! We hope you enjoy this episode! Follow Jeff: https://www.therapyjeff.com IG: @therapyjeff TikTok: @therapyjeff Follow us: @excusemyfriend @heartlynrae Submit a story to be read on the show: excusemyfriend@gmail.com
'Boujee Bits' are short clips from the Boujee Best Friend Podcast, and this one is from episode 52: Have you ever wondered why secure relationships can get boring? In this clip, licensed therapist Jeff Guenther breaks down why we sometimes find healthy relationships boring and what to do about it. Full Episode Here: CONNECT WITH JEFF: https://www.tiktok.com/@therapyjeff?_t=8cU5slhY8Lr&_r=1 https://instagram.com/therapyjeff?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA== https://www.therapyjeff.com/ https://m.youtube.com/channel/UCPvzconEIUrYJlYC37Bd8OQ?sub_confirmation=1%3Fsub_confirmation%3D1#bottom-sheet CONNECT WITH KOKO: https://www.instagram.com/kokobeaute/ https://www.tiktok.com/@kokobeaute https://www.instagram.com/boujeebestfriend https://www.boujeebestie.com
'Boujee Bits' are short clips from the Boujee Best Friend Podcast, and this one is from episode 52: Have you ever wondered why people cheat in relationships? In this clip, licensed therapist Jeff Guenther breaks down the motivations and common reasons for why people cheat on their partners. Full Episode Here: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/boujeebestfriend/episodes/Why-You-Keep-Dating-the-Same-Type-of-Person---On-Cheating--Patterns--Friendship-ft--Jeff-Guenther-therapyjeff-e24fd64 CONNECT WITH JEFF: https://www.tiktok.com/@therapyjeff?_t=8cU5slhY8Lr&_r=1 https://instagram.com/therapyjeff?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA== https://www.therapyjeff.com/ https://m.youtube.com/channel/UCPvzconEIUrYJlYC37Bd8OQ?sub_confirmation=1%3Fsub_confirmation%3D1#bottom-sheet CONNECT WITH KOKO: https://www.instagram.com/kokobeaute/ https://www.tiktok.com/@kokobeaute https://www.instagram.com/boujeebestfriend https://www.boujeebestie.com
Dating in search of "The One"? Relationship therapist Jeff Guenther, aka Therapy Jeff from TikTok, says that might not be practical. If your goal is a successful long-term partnership, having realistic expectations and a clear understanding of your values is vital. We'll help you break up with your fantasy partner, do some relationship math and learn what it takes to build a successful partnership based in reality.