Let's Be Real

In this episode, host Tara discusses how important it is to have a level of self-awareness and be honest with ourselves no matter what. She gives truth life scenarios on how we teeter with being authentic with ourselves, resisting the temptation to act impulsively just because it seems attractive, and acknowledging the warning flags and signs that guide us towards truth.

"Let's Be Real with Tara" wants us to know that marriage is more than just a symbol. Tara jumps right in discussing and examining the complexities of love, partnership, and shared growth. Whether you're married, engaged, or curious about making that leap of love this episode will help you see the various dimensions of marriage in a deeper way beyond the symbol.

In this episode, Tara addresses the complacency among some Christians and the urgent need for collective action within the faith community. With unwavering honesty and deep-rooted compassion, Tara challenges the notion of "lazy Christians" and explores how believers can rise above passivity to actively engage in their spiritual journey and uplift their fellow brothers and sisters in Christ.

Host Tara discusses the various ways in which we inadvertently complicate our own lives and exacerbate challenges. She shares biblical stories in a relatable way to unveil the common pitfalls, self-sabotaging behaviors, and misguided choices that often contribute us making situations more difficult than they need to be. With compassion and a dose of tough love, Tara offers practical strategies, eye-opening revelations, and empowering insights to help listeners break free from the cycle of self-imposed complications and embrace a more simplified, fulfilling path. Listen now let's be real about who and where we are in life and unlock the keys to a simpler, more meaningful existence together.

Pt. 2 An intimate interview with Cemone Wallace entitled "It's Not Easy, But I Did It!" Five kids by the age of 23, didn't graduate HS, and lived in survival mode... Now, a successful educated entrepreneur on her way to becoming her family's first millionaire. Make sure you follow Cemone Wallace's podcast https://youtube.com/@Word-Around-Town for interesting conversation for the culture by the culture soon to be released. She will be writing a book and creating space for healing and enlightenment! Music provided by Rujay. Instrumental: "God Knows" by Mandalaz. Channel: / rujaytv .

Pt. 2 An intimate interview with Cemone Wallace entitled "It's Not Easy, But I Did It!" Five kids by the age of 23, didn't graduate HS, and lived in survival mode... Now, a successful educated entrepreneur on her way to becoming her family's first millionaire. Make sure you follow Cemone Wallace's podcast https://youtube.com/@Word-Around-Town for interesting conversation for the culture by the culture soon to be released. She will be writing a book and creating space for healing and enlightenment! Music provided by Rujay. Instrumental: "God Knows" by Mandalaz. Channel: / rujaytv .

An intimate interview with Cemone Wallace entitled It's Not Easy, But I Did It! Five kids by the age of 23, didn't graduate HS, and lived in survival mode... Now, a successful educated entrepreneur on her way to becoming her family's first millionaire.

We often focus on the negative, this episode reminds us to ask God to help us focus and remember the good things in life.  To help us remember, all the times God came through.

This week host Tara Spates explains why being the responsible one is NOT a bad thing. She discusses how being the responsible one can shape lives for the better. From navigating the complexities of balancing personal and professional commitments to leading by example in relationships and communities. Are you the "responsible one"? If so, how do you feel about that? Do you agree with Tara? Let us hear from you!!!

Are you struggling to achieve your goals and overcome obstacles in life? Do you find yourself giving up easily when faced with challenges? If so, then you need to tune in to our latest podcast with Tara speaking about building up perseverance.  Tune in now!!!

Why Does It Seem Like The Unholy Prosper More Than The Holy?  True there may be individual cases where someone who engages in unethical or illegal activities may experience short-term gains, these gains are often temporary.  But on the other hand, individuals who consistently exhibit ethical behavior, honesty, and integrity can also experience prosperity and success. But its important to note that the definition of "bad" and "good" can be subjective and can vary depending on cultural and societal norms.  Have you ever asked yourself this question; if so have you found an answer?  Listen to this week's as Tara shares her view on this. 

Are you giving the same grace you expect to receive?  Not sure take a listen to this week's show and see if you are.  Let's talk about it:  To give grace means to show kindness, mercy, forgiveness, or generosity to others, even when they don't deserve it or haven't earned it. It involves extending compassion and understanding towards others, and choosing to respond with love and empathy rather than anger or judgment. Giving grace can take many forms, such as offering a listening ear to someone going through a difficult time, forgiving someone who has hurt you, volunteering your time or resources to help those in need, or simply choosing to respond to a difficult situation with kindness and compassion. Ultimately, giving grace is about recognizing the inherent value and worth of every person, and choosing to treat them with respect, kindness, and empathy, regardless of their actions or circumstances. Like. Subscribe. Share. Comment

Original Air Date: January 2023 What is YOUR truth? We must discover and acknowledge our truth before we can do the necessary work and move forward.

Are you "stuck" in your feelings? Can you see past what you feel? Let's talk about how we can process, distinguish, and move from the possible "stuck" place feelings can cause to see the facts. #lbr #podcast #letsbereal #feelings #getfreestayfree #healing

Be careful of your feelings.. We were created to move in truth and understanding; not feelings. Feelings will get us caught up and we will often miss opportunities to move beyond what hurt us or disappoint us or even the things that make us happy but are keeping us from our next move. #feelings #truth #depression #letsbereal #noexcuses

Be careful of your feelings.. We were created to move in truth and understanding; not feelings. Feelings will get us caught up and we will often miss opportunites to move beyond what hurt us or disappoint us or even the things that make us happy but are keeping us from our next move. #feelings #truth #depression #letsbereal #noexcuses

Does someone in your family frustrate you? Are you the person that frustrates you in someone else? Let's talk family relationships and GRACE!!!

What is YOUR truth? We must discover and acknowledge our truth before we can do the necessary work and move forward.

God gave us strength because He knew life would be full of trials and tribulations. How are you using this gift that is has become more of a burden than a blessing?

In this episode, we discuss what is healthy and toxic relationships and how can impact one's personal growth for the good and/or bad.

The 'Lighter' Side of Immigration; From the European Viewpoint Today's episode covers how European immigration is viewed in America, as well as getting facts about socialism, social programs and basic facts from a woman who actually experienced the differences by living in a different country. Let's see if what we've heard or been taught is real, opinion or manipulation. #immigration #viewofAmeria #letsbereal #opinion #letstalk #history

Join me and my special guest, Saran Whittington, as we discuss the importance of life insurance, emergency funds, and saving for retirement. This is a general conversation; one that will hopefully lead to you seeking out personal information for yourself. Ms. Whittington's information will be provided at the end of this episode. #wealth #finances #lifeinsurance #generationalwealth #retirement #lbr #lbrnoexcuses #letsbereal

Mental health is trending and that's not a bad thing. We spoke with Lakeesha about how retraining our thoughts are an important step towards improving our mental health. We focused on our youth and women, join the conversation by leaving a comment and share your thoughts. #mentalhealth #healthiswealth #ouryouth #ourcommunity

An interview with Faze Two Magazine, three female entrepreneurs, working to assist their community and entrepreneurs level up. #letsbereal #levelup #keepitreal #digitalmagazine #community

This episode talks about people being messy and expecting God to bless it; or deliver them from the consequences of their mess. Let's talk.. Do you agree or disagree? Share a story to support whether you agree or not with the content.. Let's Be Real and grow together!!

Replay of Depression from 2018 but fitting for this Mental Health Month. #depression #depressedstate #mentalhealth #healing #therapy #help #trauma #knowyourtruth #communicate #letsbereal #noexcuses

This episode, I speak with LaVon Featherstone, an entrepreneur who owns her own publishing and media company. She became a business owner at 23 and in enduring tough family, financial and health battles; realized that now at 39 she doesn't know who she really is. Tune in and support her, maybe you will hear something that will help you along your career/life's journey or share with someone else. #mentalhealth. #strongblackwoman #selfcare #businesswoman #entrepreneur #letsbereal #noexcuses

This episode shares the story of a young lady dealing with her brokenness and abuse; being tossed into the system as a ward of the State, going from home to home. Taking all of those experiences and trying to maneuver life effectively; But GOD!! #family #abuse #community #survival #grace #God #triumph

Nothing worse than a man that acts like a boy because the mother did not raise him to be a man; this is not about father's being in the home. This discussion is about mothers understanding what young men need to help them be better husbands and fathers.. Listen in and let me know what you think. #mommasboy #notaboutfathers #family #raisingaboy #relationshipcoach #letsbereal #noexcuses #podcasting #mentalhealth #bonding #couples #parents #nurturing #love Comment and Share. Connect with Tara: www.taraspates.com

This episode discusses the importance of not allowing your past or your upbringing to define you or dictate where you will be or how far you will go in life. You can change your environment, situation and most of all your thinking; which will help to elevate you to a place of peace and success (and you define what success means to and for you). Comment and share, we would love to hear from you. www.taraspates.com #interview #podcast #podcasting #leadership #entrepreneur #entrepreneurship #networking #coaching #leadershipdevelopment #relationshipcoach

This episode discusses the importance of not allowing your past or your upbringing to define you or dictate where you will be or how far you will go in life. You can change your environment, situation and most of all your thinking; which will help to elevate you to a place of peace and success (and you define what success means to and for you). #perserverance​ #letsbereal​ #keepitreal​ #peace​ #success​ #dedication​ #podcast​ www.taraspates.com

Does a mother's lack of affection hurt kids more than a father's? This is a candid discussion on the love of a mother, what is normal; what should happen; what does happen and is it right or wrong? Let's talk; comment and share. www.taraspates.com #Motherslove #toxicfamily #parentalsupport #parentallove #childexpectation #RelationshipCoach #letsbereal #noexcuses #idontoweyou

How our emotional needs and expectations can result in hurt, disappointment and in turn cause depression and similar impact on one's mental health. Let's talk! Comment and share!

Let's talk about aging parents. Have you prepared to care for your parents? Sometimes we forget or just overlook the fact that our parents are aging and we are supposed to be available and ready to step in and care for them. Are you prepared? #letsbereal #keepitreal #eldercare #aging #millenials #family

Are you being your authentic self? What/ who are you representing? Let's talk about the personas we portray and the fears of showing up as we truly are. Comment, share, and subscribe!

Be careful of focusing on all that others have that you forget to appreciate all you have, allowing your peace to be disturbed trying to live someone else's virtual life. Leave a comment or question; let's talk! You want to schedule an appointment with Tara visit: taraspates.com

We spend so much of our lives being replicas of who we really are; until we often forget or don't know who we really are. Let's take some time and discuss this to find ourselves. #selflove #authenticity #findyourself #letsbereal #letstalk For more about Tara Spates: www.taraspates.com

Looking behind the mirror. Tiny and TI, is their relationship what you see?? What sacrifices are made and could you handle it before you try to emulate it.. #letsbereal #relationshipcoach #whatsbehindthemirror #sacrifices #noexcuses

This episode we speak with one of our senior women who discusses her view on relationships from back in the day til now. We also talk about the differences in how young ladies respond.. Let me know your thoughts.

This episode is about the limited beliefs we form while growing up from family, your environment, religion and media. We will discuss how these limited beliefs affect our day to day world and how to manage them and if necessary, identify and change them...

I'm tired...but WHY? Are you fighting against unrealistic expectations? Are you fighting to keep up my relationship mask for social media, family, and friends? Maybe these aren't your situation but you know you are just TIRED. Let's talk about relationship fatigue and how to move forward. Let's talk, let's be real, and remember nothing is off-limits.

Why do women stay? Let's talk about those things that were swept under the rug, ignored and accepted because a woman didn't know better, think they deserved and/ or could do better. How this behavior impact younger generations and how they approach relationships? Comment, share ...Let's talk, let's be real....NOTHING IS OFF LIMITS!

We're Back! Let's Talk Relationships!!! We are kicking off this season discussing relationships and those things that weren't shared with other women from Ride or Die Chicks to effective communication. Comment, share, and ask questions; let's get this conversation going. Remember NOTHING is off limits!

What are you bringing to the relationship? Can you handle what you are asking for? Are you ready for your "ideal mate". We create a laundry list of items we want our potential mate to posses but yet don't have ourselves.

Let's talk about all that weighs on our shoulders this time of year. How it leads to being depressed and feeling a sense of sadness. These feelings are ok as long as we don't allow them to take over. Join me as we speak life and joy to difficult situations in life.

Discussion of the importance of having a relationship; connection to God. Acknowledge that with the connection comes directions and one must take heed; act in obedience.

Sadness, a major part of emotional pain. If not dealt with leads us into some dark places. A discussion on how one can use their faith and the Truth of God to assist them in the healing process of death, illness, strained relationships and etc. Any comments or questions, email lbrnoexcuses@gmail.com or post below.

A deep interview with Miss Sherry, discussing the loss of her baby and how words of comfort help but can also hurt.

A continuation of last week's episode on belief. Is your level of belief helping or hindering God answers and blessings in your life?

Let's discuss belief. Is your level of belief helping or hindering God answers and blessings in your life?

This episodes speaks to the fact that "God provides". This episode will encourage you to rethink your thought process and response to some of life issues. If you have any comments or questions, please post below or email lbrnoexcuses@gmail.com.