Welcome to the Life with Gaines podcast. Emmanuel and Esther have been married for 10 years and have 4 energetic kids. Tune in as they talk marriage, parenting, God, culture & more with an aim to encourage others to let their faith permeate all of life.
On this Season 2 finale and final part to our Aiding Archers Series, Esther sat down with Bryan Bland, a husband, father of 4 children under eight AND a high school science teacher. Tune in to hear how he navigated the initial school shut down and how he and his wife have been balancing jobs and kids. Bryan shares some very practical wisdom for how he is approaching this school year. Thank you so much for tuning in to Life with Gaines! Please take a minute to leave us a rating and comment on Apple Podcast and share with a friend. Purchase your "People Over Things" shirt here: https://lifewithgaines.com/merch You can also find us on YouTube: https://youtube.com/lifewithgaines Don't forget to follow us on Instagram, The Podcast: https://www.instagram.com/lifewithgainespodcast Emmanuel https://www.instagram.com/lifewith_Emmanuel Esther https://www.instagram.com/lifewith_Esther
This week, as part of our Aiding Archers series, Esther interviews Leslie Hardy, a licensed therapist. With over 20 years of experience, Leslie offers parents and guardians sounds advice on how to navigate through this prodigious school year. Thank you so much for tuning in to Life with Gaines! Please take a minute to leave us a rating and comment on Apple Podcast and share with a friend. Purchase your "People Over Things" shirt here: https://lifewithgaines.com/merch You can also find us on YouTube: https://youtube.com/lifewithgaines Don't forget to follow us on Instagram, The Podcast: https://www.instagram.com/lifewithgainespodcast Emmanuel https://www.instagram.com/lifewith_Emmanuel Esther https://www.instagram.com/lifewith_Esther
This week, as part of our Aiding Archers series, Esther interviews Maribeth Leonard, adjunct professor and virtual international educator. She shares experiential wisdom on how she's navigated this virtual landscape in educating students from a VARIETY of backgrounds. She gives some key advice for teachers and even parents/guardians for this upcoming school year. Thank you so much for tuning in to Life with Gaines! Please take a minute to leave us a rating and comment on Apple Podcast and share with a friend. Purchase your "People Over Things" shirt here: https://lifewithgaines.com/merch You can also find us on YouTube: https://youtube.com/lifewithgaines Don't forget to follow us on Instagram, The Podcast: https://www.instagram.com/lifewithgainespodcast Emmanuel https://www.instagram.com/lifewith_Emmanuel Esther https://www.instagram.com/lifewith_Esther
This week, as part of our Aiding Archers series, Esther interviews Renee Jones, homeschool mother of 11 and business owner. In this very honest conversation, Renee shares wisdom and advice on how to make homeschool work for your family. Thank you so much for tuning in to Life with Gaines! Please take a minute to leave us a rating and comment on Apple Podcast and share with a friend. Purchase your "People Over Things" shirt here: https://lifewithgaines.com/merch You can also find us on YouTube: https://youtube.com/lifewithgaines Don't forget to follow us on Instagram, The Podcast: https://www.instagram.com/lifewithgainespodcast Emmanuel https://www.instagram.com/lifewith_Emmanuel Esther https://www.instagram.com/lifewith_Esther
As we wrap up season 2, we are doing an interview series called "Aiding Archers." We want to aid parents and guardians who are facing a school year different than any other, whether homeschooling, doing virtual academy or on a modified in-person school schedule. This interview with a wife and mother who homeschooled all of her children through high school and now works in human services is one that will give EVERYONE some wisdom. Thank you so much for tuning in to Life with Gaines! Please take a minute to leave us a rating and comment on Apple Podcast and share with a friend. Purchase your "People Over Things" shirt here: https://lifewithgaines.com/merch You can also find us on YouTube: https://youtube.com/lifewithgaines Don't forget to follow us on Instagram, The Podcast: https://www.instagram.com/lifewithgainespodcast Emmanuel https://www.instagram.com/lifewith_Emmanuel Esther https://www.instagram.com/lifewith_Esther
As parents of black children, yes we have had "The Talk" but we have also started having conversations with our kids about racial injustice in this nation and how we can process it through the lens of the Gospel of Jesus. Tune in as we share recent conversations that we've been having in our home. Thank you so much for tuning in to Life with Gaines! Please take a minute to leave us a rating and comment on Apple Podcast and share with a friend. Purchase your "People Over Things" shirt here: https://lifewithgaines.com/merch You can also find us on YouTube: https://youtube.com/lifewithgaines Don't forget to follow us on Instagram, The Podcast: https://www.instagram.com/lifewithgainespodcast Emmanuel https://www.instagram.com/lifewith_Emmanuel Esther https://www.instagram.com/lifewith_Esther
This week, we wanted to share how we are processing the murder of George Floyd and other recent events as a married couple, parents and Christians. Thank you so much for tuning in to Life with Gaines! Please take a minute to leave us a rating and comment on Apple Podcast and share with a friend. Purchase your "People Over Things" shirt here: https://lifewithgaines.com/merch You can also find us on YouTube: https://youtube.com/lifewithgaines Don't forget to follow us on Instagram, The Podcast: https://www.instagram.com/lifewithgainespodcast Emmanuel https://www.instagram.com/lifewith_Emmanuel Esther https://www.instagram.com/lifewith_Esther
This week, it's all about making God normal in parenting. One son tries to fight his dad, another is caught calling his friend names. How do we make God normal in addressing these things? Tune in to find out! Thank you so much for tuning in to Life with Gaines! Please take a minute to leave us a rating and comment on Apple Podcast and share with a friend. Purchase your "People Over Things" shirt here: https://lifewithgaines.com/merch You can also find us on YouTube: https://youtube.com/lifewithgaines Don't forget to follow us on Instagram, The Podcast: https://www.instagram.com/lifewithgainespodcast Emmanuel https://www.instagram.com/lifewith_Emmanuel Esther https://www.instagram.com/lifewith_Esther
On Episode 28, Emmanuel talked about his first experience with therapy (which was horrible!) so it's only fitting we provide an update. Tune in as we talk through how therapy is going for both of us and why we think it's more important now to seek it out. And there might be a special announcement in there too! ;) Thank you so much for tuning in to Life with Gaines! Please take a minute to leave us a rating and comment on Apple Podcast and share with a friend. You can also find us on YouTube: https://youtube.com/lifewithgaines Don't forget to follow us on Instagram, The Podcast: https://www.instagram.com/lifewithgainespodcast Emmanuel https://www.instagram.com/lifewith_Emmanuel Esther https://www.instagram.com/lifewith_Esther
During this week's episode, Emmanuel & Esther discuss a few of their takeaways from Netflix's Uncorked. We answer the question, whether the family business is a barbecue joint or church, is it ok to force our kids to take over the business even if they have other aspirations? We also unpack what we feel our role is in preparing our kids for their purpose. Thank you so much for tuning in to Life with Gaines! Please take a minute to leave us a rating and comment on Apple Podcast and share with a friend. Don't forget to follow us on Instagram, The Podcast: https://www.instagram.com/lifewithgainespodcast Emmanuel https://www.instagram.com/lifewith_Emmanuel Esther https://www.instagram.com/lifewith_Esther
On this episode, Emmanuel & Esther share in a light-hearted yet encouraging manner, 4 ways how this Corona epidemic can either benefit us or hurt us. Tune in! Or head over to our new Youtube channel and WATCH this episode. Follow us on IG: @lifewithgainespodcast | @lifewith_esther | @lifewith_emmanuel Facebook: @LifewithGaines Email contact: lifewithgaines@gmail.com
In the second part of the discussion Emmanuel & Esther get candid about some of the blessings and challenges they have encountered on their journey to black authenticity in a white church. Tune in! Or head over to our new Youtube channel and WATCH this episode: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCITzZE1KRExxel0ZgQlpYoA Follow us on IG: @lifewithgainespodcast | @lifewith_esther | @lifewith_emmanuel Facebook: @LifewithGaines Email contact: lifewithgaines@gmail.com
During the first of a 2 part conversation, Emmanuel & Esther have an honest and vulnerable discussion about some of their challenges with fully embracing their black authenticity, being a part of a majority culture church. YouTube: Life with Gaines Instagram: @LifewithGainesPodcast | @Lifewith_Esther | @Lifewith_Emmanuel Facebook: @LifewithGaines
If you had the opportunity to sit down with your younger dating self, what wisdom would you pass along? Tune in as Emmanuel & Esther discuss what they would share with their younger selves.
"In sickness & in health" This commitment goes beyond seasonal sickness. How do we respond when our spouse faces chronic health issues? Join this week's conversation as Emmanuel & Esther talk through their journey. IG: @lifewithgainespodcast | @lifewith_Esther | @lifewith_Emmanuel Facebook: Life with Gaines Podcast Email: lifewithgaines@gmail.com
Admitting that you might need therapy is the first step. I was never anti-therapy, I just never thought I needed it. While Esther was out sick, I took this episode to talk about my first therapy session (which wasn't good) and why I feel like I need therapy. Take a listen, maybe you'll find yourself in my story. Book Reference: Emotionally Healthy Spirituality by Peter Scazzero Instagram: @lifewithgainespodcast | @lifewith_esther | @lifewith_emmanuel Facebook: Life with Gaines Podcast Contact: lifewithgaines@gmail.com
Will the goals you set for 2020 matter in 5 years? Join this week's conversation as Emmanuel & Esther discuss how they have become more purposeful in goal setting. Instagram: @lifewithgainespodcast | @2aiming4arrows | @lifewith_emmanuel Facebook: Life with Gaines Podcast Email: lifewithgaines@gmail.com
Our past experiences shape our perception of our current reality and this can often cause friction in our relationships. Join this week's conversation as Emmanuel & Esther discuss how they navigate their differences. Instagram: @lifewithgainespodcast | @2aiming4arrows | @lifewith_emmanuel Facebook: Life with Gaines Podcast Email: lifewithgaines@gmail.com
How do you respond when life is interrupted? Join this week's conversation as Emmanuel & Esther discuss where they saw God when life was put on pause when all 4 kids got sick. Instagram: @lifewithgainespodcast | @2aiming4arrows | @lifewith_emmanuel Facebook: Life with Gaines Podcast Email: lifewithgaines@gmail.com
In this week's conversation, Esther and Emmanuel discuss what it looks like for them to be intentional to bring God into their family traditions. The book mentioned during the conversation was "Treasuring God in our traditions" by Noel Piper.
Count 10 children you know; statistics say 1 of them will be sexually assaulted before their 18th birthday. On today's episode, we talk about our decision to become facilitators for Stewards of Children, a Child Sexual Abuse Prevention training. Tune in to hear how you too, can get involved. Visit www.d2l.org for more information about the training. To schedule training with Esther and Emmanuel, email lifewithgaines@gmail.com Instagram: @lifewithgainespodcast | @2aiming4arrows | @lifewith_emmanuel Facebook: Life with Gaines Podcast
As Emmanuel & Esther are preparing to celebrate 10 years of marriage, they reflect on some personal lessons they've learned over the last decade. Instagram: @lifewithgainespodcast | @2aiming4arrows | @lifewith_emmanuel Facebook: Life with Gaines Podcast Contact: lifewithgaines@gmail.com
Gary Chapman's book The 5 Love Languages helped Emmanuel & Esther put language to their love styles early on but a recent conversation reveals what happens when love languages change but it's not communicated. Tune in to this insightful episode. Instagram: @LifewithGainespodcast | @2aiming4arrows | @lifewith_Emmanuel Facebook: Life with Gaines Podcast Contact: LifewithGaines@gmail.com
On this season finale, Emmanuel & Esther share some listener favorites and their favorite episodes along with encouragement to stay connected to community. Season 2 starts October 15, 2019 Keep up with the Gaines on social media: Instagram: Â @lifewithgainespodcast | @2aiming4arrows | @lifewith_emmanuel Facebook: Life With Gaines Podcast
Before jumping into this week's topic of building a legacy with your spouse, Emmanuel & Esther talk briefly about a recent cultural festival and Esther's surprise birthday gift. There are a lot of good nuggets on this episode! Instagram: @lifewithgainespodcast | @lifewith_Emmanuel | @2aiming3arrows Facebook: Life with Gaines Podcast
From conversations with amazing female friends, Esther is perplexed at the seeming absence of single men pursuing marriage. Join her & Emmanuel as they discuss this complex yet common issue.
Test and trials will hit every family but having a history with God helps us trust God even when we can't see what he is doing. Join Emmanuel & Esther as they share how they build a history with God.
On today's episode, Emmanuel & Esther take time to affirm the priviledge and role of fathers.
Will our kids listen if we don't sound mad or yell when correcting them? It will have a greater impact if I sound mad, right? Join Emmanuel & Esther as they discuss how they are growing in correcting their children.
As church kids themselves, Emmanuel & Esther talk through how they navigate raising kids to have a genuine confession of faith in Jesus.
A recent road trip left Emmanuel & Esther stranded in the middle of the mountains. Listen to how they saw God's providence as their journey unraveled.
On today's episode, Emmanuel & Esther talk about the dangers of father figure idolatry and the importance of pointing your children to the heavenly Father.
Submitting to God's will is not always easy. Join Emmanuel & Esther as they talk through what this looks like on their homeschool journey.
Silent treatment without structure can be emotional abuse towards your partner. Join Emmanuel & Esther as they talk through their recent bout with silent treatment.
On today's episode, Emmanuel & Esther talk through fighting against laziness to rest with peaceful hearts.
On this week's episode, Emmanuel and Esther talk through the cost of being vulnerable and the importance of trusting God through it all.
What do you do when you find out your spouse is addicted to pornography? Join Emmanuel & Esther as they open up about the impact of pornography in their marriage. Book Reference: Finally Free by Heath Lambert
On today's episode, Emmanuel and Esther open up about early struggles in their sex life as newly weds and what helped turned things around.
Emmanuel and Esther talk through their current challenges in raising their 3 black sons in the midst of today's culture and in light of their faith.
On this episode, Emmanuel and Esther discuss Esther's need for an escape from the day-to-day life as a stay-at-home/homeschool parent. They talk about what it currently looks like for them and encourage other stay-at-home parents who feel overwhelmed.
Tune in as Emmanuel and Esther share the events that lead up to the day they got married, a day they don't try too hard to remember. In this episode they share how God was able to redeem their mistakes on their journey to becoming One.
Esther and Emmanuel did not go through pre-marital counseling which made for a challenging start to their marriage. In this episode they continue to share resources that have helped them in their almost decade long marriage.
Esther and Emmanuel did not go through pre-marital counseling which made for a challenging start to their marriage. In this episode they share some resources that have helped them in their almost decade long marriage.
A brief podcast where Emmanuel and Esther share their heart behind starting the Life with Gaines podcast.
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