Love Made Easy With Susie & Otto Collins

Imagine how different your love and relationships would be if you never had another fight or argument again... HI and Welcome to Episode 94 of the Love Made Easy Podcast with Susie and Otto Collins where we're talking about this idea of whether it's possible (or even a good idea) to Never Fight or Argue again. In this episode, we're talking about why people even fight or argue in the first place... What problems fighting or arguing really causes (beneath all the obvious ones)... What new possibilities can happen in a love or a relationship when you give up fighting and arguing (but still get your needs met.) If you've ever had a fight or argument with someone you really care about you're really going to get so much from this episode as we share with you a new possibility for deeper, closer and more connected love (without ever needing or wanting to fight or argue again.) Check out this episode now. You are going to love listening to this one. Blessings and love to you Susie and Otto Collins https://SusieandOtto.com

HI and Welcome to Episode 93 of the Love Made Easy Podcast with Susie and Otto Collins where we're talking about the Masculine / Feminine dance in relationships. In this episode, we're talking about what people get right and and what most people get wrong about the Masculine / Feminine dance. We're also talking about some totally new ways to look at Masculinity and femininity as well as some ways to have your masculine / feminine really work to your advantage in a long-term relationship or marriage so you reduce or eliminate any fights or arguments and you never get bored and you never lose the spark, passion and connection. Check out this episode now. You are going to love listening to this one. Blessings and love to you Susie and Otto Collins https://SusieandOtto.com

If you could have your choice, would you choose a "Million Dollar" Marriage or Relationship or would you choose the 49 cent version? Welcome to episode 92 of the Love Made Easy Podcast where we're talking about the "Million Dollar" Marriage or Relationship distinction.  In coaching men, women and couples for over 20 years, we've discovered that some marriages and relationships feel like they're worth a million dollars or more and some feel like they're not worth much at all. In this episode, we're taking a deep dive into how you (or anyone) can have the million dollar version of a marriage or relationship instead of something else you don't want. Give it a listen now. Blessings and Love to you, Susie and Otto Collins https://SusieandOtto.com

Would You like to have a "Love Miracle" show up In your life? Most people would and in this episode, (EP91) of the Love Made Easy Podcast, we're exploring the 2 kinds of miracles that lead to more love. The first kind of miracle appears to be a stroke of luck , a random event or "divine intervention." The 2nd kind of love miracle is what happens when there is a shift in perception within you and how the world appears to you that creates miracles. We've had a lot of fun creating this episode and we think you're really going to get a lot out of it.  Miracles really can happen in your relationships and life. With what you'll discover in this episode, miracles will be much more commonplace for you in your life. Give it a listen now. Blessings and Love to you, Susie and Otto Collins https://SusieandOtto.com

Sometimes you just don't feel like "being" love--whether a physical or emotional challenge is standing in your way or  it's something else you're dealing with. What do you do when the sparks aren't flying, you're not excited about life or you're just down in the dumps for no apparent reason? What do you do then to keep your connection and grow your love when you're just not feeling it?   These things and so much more are what we're talking about in this episode (episode 90) of the Love Made Easy Podcast. Listen now to: "Creating Big Fat Love When You're Not Feeling It."   Blessings and Love to you, Susie and Otto Collins https://SusieandOtto.com

Have you ever wondered why people won't change when it's in their best interest to do so? This is such a big question especially when it seems like it's the best thing for them, the right thing to do or something that should make total sense to them. Well, here's a question that's just as good or maybe even better... What if he or she never changes? What do you do then? After all, you try and you try and they just won't budge. This is the topic of this episode (episode 89) of the Love Made Easy podcast-- "What If He or She Never Changes?" If you've ever wondered about this question then we promise that you're going to get a lot out of this episode.   Blessings and Love to you, Susie and Otto Collins https://SusieandOtto.com

Everyone feels misunderstood from time to time and we humans sometimes misunderstand other people as well. When you misunderstand someone or you feel misunderstood yourself, conflict ensues, drama ignites and any hope for more love and a deeper connection is lost. In this episode (episode 88) of the Love Made Easy podcast, we're talking about one small three letter word that clears up big misunderstandings. Sound too good to be true?  It isn't. And in this episode, we not only share this small, simple word with you but also many examples about how this word can clear up and clean up any misunderstandings with the people in your life. Listen now to Episode 88 of the Love Made Easy podcast where we share "One Small Word That Clears Up Big Misunderstandings." Blessings and Love to you, Susie and Otto Collins https://SusieandOtto.com

When most people talk about forgiveness, it's usually about forgiving someone else who wronged them in some way. Welcome to episode 87 of the Love Made Easy podcast where we're talking about the other side of forgiveness--forgiving yourself and how this can be the doorway that opens to your best life ever. In this episode, our conversation is all about the freedom, the inner relaxation and the possibilities for your life (that may not be showing up yet) when you "Forgive Yourself For Everything." We encourage you to listen to this episode now and start finding the freedom to create more of the love and life you want by the simple act of self-forgiveness.     Blessings and Love to you, Susie and Otto Collins https://SusieandOtto.com

We all have habits and when it comes to love, some of our "love habits" are healthy and things you want to do more of and some love habits are things you should stop doing right away. Welcome to episode 86 of the Love Made Easy podcast where we're taking a deeper look at healthy VS unhealthy love habits. In this episode, we're asking the question: What should you do more of to increase love and connection and what destroys love that you'll want to stop doing? Listen now to Episode 86 of the Love Made Easy podcast for our take on Healthy VS Unhealthy Love Habits.      Blessings and Love to you, Susie and Otto Collins https://SusieandOtto.com

Hiding is one of the biggest barriers to love and connection in all relationships. In this episode of the Love Made Easy podcast, we're talking about "Hiding" in love and relationships in all its many forms. We're talking about this because we all hide--especially emotionally from ourselves and the people we love and that creates distance and disconnection. Listen now to Episode 85 of the Love Made Easy podcast and hear us explore why we hide, how we hide and how you can open to more love instead.      Blessings and Love to you, Susie and Otto Collins https://SusieandOtto.com          

Welcome to episode 84 of the Love Made Easy podcast where we're talking about Jealousy and the fact that it can overwhelm you when you least expect it and can destroy relationships and connection when this doesn't have to be the case. In this episode, we're giving practical suggestions for letting go of jealousy and we're also taking a deeper look into some aspects of jealousy (and how to stop it) that you may not have considered before. Listen now to Episode 84 of the Love Made Easy podcast as we share with you some of our latest thinking about the green-eyed monster known as jealousy.   Blessings and Love to you, Susie and Otto Collins https://SusieandOtto.com

Loving ourselves is really important to having close, connected relationships, high self-esteem and much more.   But sometimes it can be really hard to love ourselves, especially when you aren't feeling good about yourself. In this episode, #83 of the Love Made Easy Podcast, we spend some time talking about what's going on when it's hard to love ourselves and how we can love ourselves even when we don't feel like it. In this episode, we went in some directions we didn't anticipate and honestly,we even had some new insights about loving ourselves when we don't feel like it as a result of doing this podcast episode. Give it a listen now... Episode 83 of the Love Made Easy Podcast... Blessings and Love to you, Susie and Otto Collins https://SusieandOtto.com

You can have a new beginning anytime and In this episode of the Love Made Easy podcast, we're talking about the possibilities of new beginnings. As we settle into the new year, a good question to ask yourself is "What do you want in your life?" Listen to Episode 82 now as we talk about new beginnings, how to open to a new beginning and how a fresh start can be much easier than it may appear to jump start you into the love and life you want..   Blessings and Love to you, Susie and Otto Collins https://SusieandOtto.com

In this episode of the Love Made Easy podcast, we're talking about worthiness. We spend time talking about how our thinking and what we decide about whether we're worthy or not sabotages love and every aspect of our lives. We'll also reveal where to start if you want to feel more worthy of love or anything else you want in life. Listen to Episode 81 of the Love Made Easy podcast now as we share with you our belief that you are already worthy and some thoughts on owning your worthiness in ways that will help you have more love in your life now.       Blessings and Love to you, Susie and Otto Collins https://SusieandOtto.com

One of the things we've found is the more you defend your heart, the less open you are to love. We defend our hearts in so many ways, and yet keeping our hearts open, putting down our walls and defenses and living with an undefended heart are some of the very things that allow us to be connected to another human being. In this episode, Episode 80 of the Love Made Easy Podcast, we're talking about the beauty, the gifts and the many miracles that can come to you in a relationship when you live with an undefended heart. In this episode, we talk about not defending when someone you love is so different from you, why we get so defensive and so much more. Listen to Episode 80 of the Love Made Easy podcast now as we share with you the immense power and beauty of living a life and being in a relationship with an undefended heart.    Blessings and Love to you, Susie and Otto Collins https://SusieandOtto.com

Discover secrets of couples who stay in love forever. Welcome to episode 79 of the Love Made Easy Podcast where we're diving into the question, "Why do some couples stay in love over the years and other couples get lost from one another?" In this episode, we talk about the differences between couples who fall into boredom and become more like roommates than lovers...   And other couples who fall more and more in love the longer they're together. Listen to Episode 79 of the Love Made Easy podcast now as we share with you secrets of couples who stay in love.     Blessings and Love to you, Susie and Otto Collins https://SusieandOtto.com

We all like to get attention but often in our relationships, we can feel like we don't get what we think we need. What we've found is that it's actually much easier than you might think to get all the love and attention you could ever want in a relationship *if* you go about it the right way. Welcome to episode 78 of the Love Made Easy podcast where we're talking about -- "Getting the attention you want and need." Blessings and Love to you, Susie and Otto Collins https://SusieandOtto.com

Everyone has complaints. It's a part of life. Sometimes our complaints are large and loud and other times they're quieter but still there. Welcome to episode 77 of the Love Made Easy podcast where we're exploring the question-- "Are your complaints helpful or getting in the way of love?" In this episode we're also talking about where complaints come from, how we use them (and why) but most of all we're exploring the dark side of complaining where complaining seems like it's a good idea but rarely helps us create the love we want. Blessings and Love to you, Susie and Otto Collins https://SusieandOtto.com

Black and white thinking kills a lot of relationships and the tragedy is-- most people don't even realize how much or how often they are mired in it. Welcome to episode 76 of the Love Made Easy podcast where we're exploring black and white thinking--what it is and how it shuts off love in your life. Both of us have allowed our black and white thinking to get the better of us from time to time and we're guessing that this is true of you and others in your life. Listen to this episode, (EP76) of the Love Made Easy Podcast now as we talk about  "black and white thinking" and how to keep it from damaging or destroying your love and relationship. Blessings and Love to you, Susie and Otto Collins https://SusieandOtto.com

Sometimes we misinterpret (or not even see) the signs we get from those closest to us. In this episode, (Episode 75) of our Love Made Easy podcast, here's how to get those signs right for deeper connection, more understanding and love. Blessings and Love to you, Susie and Otto Collins https://SusieandOtto.com

If you want to stop your spouse, partner (or anyone else in your life) from getting defensive when you talk with them... Ask different questions. That's right, you want to ask them questions that pull them closer, make the two of you feel closer and more connected and create more love between the two of you. So, how do you do this? It's both a mindset and a skill and this is what we're talking about in this episode (episode 74) of our Love Made Easy podcast. What we've discovered is... If you want more love and connection with the people in your life, you have to get better at two things: Communicating in ways that eliminate defensiveness and communication that brings you closer. If you want to learn some questions that eliminate defensiveness and create more love and connection, you're definitely going to listen to this episode. Blessings and Love to you, Susie and Otto Collins https://SusieandOtto.com

For far too many people, the "shoulds" or what people think they "should " or "should not do" is ruining their relationships and their lives. Welcome to episode 73 of the Love Made Easy podcast where we're taking on the question of "shoulds" head on and give you some new ways to see "shoulds." Best of all...we're giving you some ideas for dealing with that voice inside you that is barking at you all the time about what you should and should not do to make your love relationship and your life work better. In case you haven't noticed, that inner voice that tells you constantly what you "should" be doing and it can get get pretty loud inside your head. In this episode, we share some simple, practical tips for recognizing, acknowledging and letting go of the "shoulds" and instead share with you some brand new ways of seeing love (and life) brand new. The fact is, the "shoulds" don't have to ruin your love relationship and they don't have to ruin your life. Listen to this episode, (EP73) of the Love Made Easy Podcast now as we talk about the "shoulds" and how you can let them go. Blessings and Love to you, Susie and Otto Collins https://SusieandOtto.com

Sometimes you love someone but in spite of this, there are times you just don't like them very much. It might be for a brief moment because you don't like the way they're treating you or the way they see a certain situation--or you might come to the realization that you just don't like who this person has become. These are tough situations to be in and the good news is--there are solutions to this. Listen to this episode, (EP72) of the Love Made Easy Podcast now as we explore when you love each other but you don't like each other. Blessings and Love to you, Susie and Otto Collins https://SusieandOtto.com  

One of the biggest questions people in relationships wonder about is the question-- "Is This As Good As It Gets?" They're asking it of themselves because they're feeling bored, lonely, tired and hopeless and are wondering if this is it or is there something more. This is a terrible place to be in if you want more love and a better relationship because no one wants to feel like it's never going to get better. The good news is "it" (the relationship)  can get better and in this episode we show you how. Listen to this episode, (EP71) of the Love Made Easy Podcast now as we explore the question on the minds of millions around the world-- "Is THIS as good as it gets?" Blessings and Love to you, Susie and Otto Collins https://SusieandOtto.com

Money dramas are some of the biggest challenges to having love be easier, closer and more connected in relationships. But what if money dramas weren't about money at all? What if money challenges between two people were about something else? In this episode, (EP70) of our Love Made Easy podcast, we're taking a deeper dive into money dramas that get in the way of love.  Listen to this episode now or download it for later and let us know your thoughts and questions. Blessings and Love to you, Susie and Otto Collins https://SusieandOtto.com

Most people aren't aware how much their judgments push love away. But the truth is our judgments that we're both aware of and those we aren't are big-time blocks to the love, relationships and connection we want far more often than we know.  In this episode, (EP69) of our Love Made Easy podcast, we're talking about 5 judgments that push love away. If you think you don't have any challenges with "judgments," you might want to think again. The only question is, are you aware of how "judgments" are affecting your life in ways you can't see. Listen to this episode now or download it for later and let us know your thoughts and questions. Blessings and Love to you, Susie and Otto Collins https://SusieandOtto.com

What is the difference between a happy relationship or marriage and one where you're miserable, unhappy and has the potential to end badly? It's probably much more simple than you thought. This is Episode 68 of the Love Made Easy podcast and this is Part 2 of "12 Things We've Learned About How to Have a Happy Marriage." In this episode, we're expanding on some things we talked about in part one and we're also sharing 6 more things we've discovered to be absolute keys to creating a happy, healthy and more loving relationship or marriage. If you want to make sure you have a happy relationship or marriage, listen to this episode now or download it for later and let us know your thoughts and questions. Blessings and Love to you, Susie and Otto Collins https://SusieandOtto.com

This is a special 23rd Anniversary edition of the Love Made Easy Podcast and no, we haven't been doing this podcast for 23 years. We recorded this podcast episode on June 20th, 2022 and because it was our 23rd wedding anniversary, we thought we'd share some things we know about how to have a happy marriage. We also chose this topic because so many people want to know how to be happier in their relationship or marriage. This episode, (EP67) of the Love Made Easy Podcast is part 1 of 2 and you're going to love it because we're talking about "12 Things We've Learned About Having a Happy Marriage." Listen to this episode now or download it for later and let us know your thoughts and questions. Blessings and Love to you, Susie and Otto Collins https://SusieandOtto.com

When you feel trapped, stuck in love or in your life and don't know what to do or which way to turn... What do you do? That's what we're talking about in this episode (EP66) of the Love Made Easy podcast. Listen to this episode now or download it for later and let us know your thoughts and questions. Blessings and Love to you, Susie and Otto Collins https://SusieandOtto.com

We all do things to "numb ourselves" from pain we don't want to feel. This can be pain from what's happened in our past or what we fear will happen in the future. In this episode, (EP65) of the Love Made Easy Podcast, we're exploring "numbing out" in love and life... Why (and how) we do it, the problems it creates and some good reasons for making your patterns of numbing out a thing of the past. Listen to this episode now or download it for later and let us know your thoughts and questions. Blessings and Love to you, Susie and Otto Collins https://SusieandOtto.com

We've all had people in our lives we've considered bullies and most of us have been the recipient of bullying behavior at one time or another. A bully can be really demanding and difficult, especially if you're in an intimate relationship with or married to someone who acts like this. Maybe you've even been a bully and didn't realize it! In this episode, (EP64) of the Love Made Easy Podcast, we're exploring bullies--the many forms of bullying--and how to deal with them in all types of relationships.  Listen to this episode now or download it for later and let us know your thoughts and questions. Blessings and Love to you, Susie and Otto Collins https://SusieandOtto.com

Sometimes two people love each other but want different things in love (or life.) Some people fight with or even bully the other person to try to get their way. Some people quit or surrender to what the other wants just to stay together. Other people try logic, reason, manipulation, guilt-trips, intellectualizing or a million other ways to try to get the other person to want what they want. But what if there's a better way to grow your love and connection when you love each other but want different things? In this  episode, (EP63) of the Love Made Easy Podcast, that's what we're exploring-- what to do when there's love but you want different things. Listen to this episode now or download it for later and let us know your thoughts and questions. Blessings and Love to you, Susie and Otto Collins https://SusieandOtto.com

As you think about your life journey, we're sure there have been times you've wished you could have had a "do-over." Unfortunately, there's no way to go back in time to un-say it, un-do it or un-think it but you can have a "fresh start." We've found that creating love and life fresh in this moment is far more doable than you might think. In this episode, (EP62) of the Love Made Easy Podcast, this is what we're talking about--How to Have a "Fresh Start" in every moment. Listen now to hear us talk about some new ways to find a fresh start in any situation. Blessings and Love to you, Susie and Otto Collins https://SusieandOtto.com

Everyone can benefit from more self-love in their lives.  In this episode, (EP61) of the Love Made Easy Podcast, that's why we're exploring healthy vs. unhealthy self-love. This is important because what you might think you're saying and doing is helping to create self-love is actually working against you. Listen now to hear us talk about what higher self-love can look like and so much more. If you want to understand more about this topic, you're going to find this episode incredibly helpful. Give it a listen now. Blessings and Love to you, Susie and Otto Collins https://SusieandOtto.com

Sometimes life knocks you down and you need to find some inner resilience but you don't know where or how to see it, feel it or access it in the moment. In this episode, (EP60) of the Love Made Easy Podcast, we're exploring the topic of finding your resilience in difficult times. Listen now to hear us talk about how to tap into resilience when it seems to have gone missing, how to recreate your life after a life event rocks your world and so much more. If you want to understand more about this topic, you're going to find this episode incredibly helpful. Give it a listen now. Blessings and Love to you, Susie and Otto Collins https://SusieandOtto.com

The battle for "control" hurts, damages and destroys far too many relationships. The fascinating thing is that most of us don't realize how big of a factor the desire for control really is in our relationships. In this episode, (EP59) of the Love made Easy podcast, we're taking a deeper look at control dramas and also sharing some ideas on how to resolve these destroyers of connection and love. If control has ever been an issue for you in a relationship (maybe even one you're in right now), you're going to find this episode incredibly helpful. Give it a listen now. Blessings and Love to you, Susie and Otto Collins https://SusieandOtto.com

Everyone has relationship challenges from time to time and sometimes the questions become so big  you wonder..."Is this worth saving?" In this episode (EP58) of the Love Made Easy Podcast, we're talking about... How to Know If Your Relationship is Worth Saving. If you've ever lived with this question, you're going to find this episode incredibly helpful. Give it a listen now. Blessings and Love to you, Susie and Otto Collins https://SusieandOtto.com

We all get angry. The question is, how do you deal with it when it comes up? When it comes to anger, are you a spewer or a shover? How about the people in your life...are they spewers or shovers? Meaning... Some people spew it outward toward the person or situation that made them upset and other people shove it down and try to ignore the fact that they're angry. The point is, when anger arises in you (or someone else) it's critically important to know where anger comes from and how to deal with it when it does. This, (How to deal with Anger) and so much more is what we're talking about in this episode (episode 57) of the Love Made Easy Podcast. Blessings and Love to you, Susie and Otto Collins https://SusieandOtto.com

What if your failed relationships weren't really failures at all? What if your "failed" relationships were actually blessings in disguise or gifts for you that could last a lifetime? What we've found is, sometimes, a little perspective is all it takes to change a relationship or a life. In this episode (#56) of our Love Made Easy podcast, we're sharing new ways to look at any (or all) your relationships that you might consider "failures" and help you see them as roaring successes (even if you think they weren't.) Love shouldn't have to be a struggle and in this episode, we're helping you discover how much easier love can be for you in your life.   Blessings and Love to you, Susie and Otto Collins https://SusieandOtto.com

Sometimes it's hard to decide what's a yes and what's a no when making decisions. In this episode 55 of our Love Made Easy podcast, we're sharing ways to find clarity when you're faced with making small and big decisions in your life. Love shouldn't have to be a struggle and in this episode, we're helping you discover how much easier love can be for you in your life. Blessings and Love to you, Susie and Otto Collins https://SusieandOtto.com

Almost everyone (at one time or another) has wanted to be a mind reader in their relationships. In this episode, we're going to give you a sure-fire way that will get you pretty close to knowing exactly what the other people in your life want. What we're talking about in this episode (episode 54) of our Love Made Easy podcast is actually a question to ask when you want to know what someone else is thinking, feeling or even something as simple as getting them to tell you what they want.  Knowing this question and using it can help you eliminate misunderstanding, assumptions and so much more Love shouldn't have to be a struggle and in this episode, we're helping you discover how much easier love can be for you in your life.   Blessings and Love to you, Susie and Otto Collins https://SusieandOtto.com

What do Guilt Trips, Manipulation and Expectations all have in common? They're all things that can really screw up any relationship. That's why we're talking about these things and how you can keep them from ruining your relationships in this episode (EP53) of our Love Made Easy Podcast. If you've had anyone use guilt to try to manipulate you or have unreasonable expectations of you, (or you've tried this with someone else) THIS is a must-listen episode. If you want to know how love (and your relationships) can be easy, listen to this episode now and discover how much easier love can be for you in your life. Blessings and Love to you, Susie and Otto Collins https://SusieandOtto.com

Why is it that some things you're committed to manifest quickly and easily and other things you're "committed to" seem to just fizzle out? The reality is that some things you're committed to happen and other things don't. Sometimes you're committed to something only to find out later you really wanted something else more. Crazy isn't it? After all, in relationships and in life...if you don't have commitment, what do you have? This is such a fascinating topic and in this episode (episode 52) of our Love Made Easy podcast, we're diving into the question of why some of our commitments fall flat and others don't. Love was never meant to be such a struggle. Be sure and listen to this podcast (along with all the other episodes) to see just how much easier love can be. Susie and Otto Collins https://SusieandOtto.com

What if the questions you're asking yourself about your relationships and life are the wrong questions? What if the questions about your relationships and life are disempowering and creating more of what you don't want instead of more of what you do want? Sadly, for a lot of people this is the way they go through life.   This is why in this episode, (episode 51) of our Love Made Easy podcast, we're exploring what questions empower us and what questions take us away from what we truly want. If you want to know how love (and your relationships) can be easy, listen to this episode now and discover how much easier love can be for you in your life. Blessings and Love to you, Susie and Otto Collins https://SusieandOtto.com

What if love (and relationships) didn't have to be so hard? What if love didn't have to be such a struggle and the relationships in your life could actually be easy? We believe having the love you want can be so much easier than what most people experience and in this episode, (episode 50) of our Love Made Easy podcast, we're exploring some of the quickest, simplest and (most important) ways love can be easy for you in your relationships and life. If you want to know how love (and your relationships) can be easy, listen to this episode now and discover how much easier love can be for you in your life. Blessings and Love to you, Susie and Otto Collins https://SusieandOtto.com  

What if true, genuine gratitude could create miracles in your relationships and life? That's what's on offer when you make one simple shift about how you see (and use) gratitude in your life.  In this episode, (episode 49) of our Love Made Easy podcast, we're exploring the 2 different kinds of gratitude. The kind that feels like an obligation (and doesn't open hearts and minds to love) and the kind that just "rises up from within you" that literally creates instant miracles in people's lives. We're also exploring how seeing (and opening to) gratitude brings you more peace, love and heartfelt connection with the people you care about most. In this episode, we're talking about gratitude that shifts your whole sense of being into a more radiant field of love and connection. If you want to know how a simple thing like gratitude can change your life for the better instantly, listen to this episode now and discover how much easier love can be for you in your life. Blessings and Love to you, Susie and Otto Collins https://SusieandOtto.com

Is your idea of a healthy relationship "normal"? Is your idea of a healthy relationship making you happy, getting you what you truly want and setting you up for lasting love? Some people spend a lot of their waking hours trying to figure out how to get their relationship or marriage to be truly "healthy" and they never figure it out. Many people are going to either go to their graves (or to a divorce lawyer) with an unhealthy relationship when one simple thing that we're going to share with you can prevent all that. You can have a healthy, happy, successful relationship (of any kind) and in this episode, (episode 47) of our Love Made Easy podcast, we're exploring the whole question of "What does a Healthy Relationship Look Like?" If you want to know what a healthy relationship looks like, listen to our exploration and discover how much easier love can be for you in your life. Blessings and Love to you, Susie and Otto Collins https://SusieandOtto.com

When it comes to setting boundaries, have you ever wondered how much is too much or where to draw the line? In this episode, (episode 47) of our Love Made Easy podcast, we're exploring questions like, "Where do I draw the line?","What's the difference between a healthy boundary and an unhealthy one?","What do people get 'wrong' about setting boundaries?","When is it time for an ultimatum?" and so much more. If you want to know the secrets to setting healthy boundaries while at the same time setting yourself up to have all the love you'd ever want, listen to this episode now and discover how much easier love can be for you in your life. Blessings and Love to you, Susie and Otto Collins https://SusieandOtto.com

We all want to feel respected but what do you do when you just don't like the people in your life are respecting you? When you don't feel respected, do you get angry, upset, pull away, yell, scream, tell the other person how hurt you feel or do you do something else to try to get the love and respect you want? So many people don't truly understand what happens that causes them to feel a lack of respect from the people in their lives. In this episode, (episode 46) of our Love Made Easy podcast, we're exploring questions like, "How can I get the respect I want?" "Where does respect come from?" "What should I do when I don't feel respected?" and so much more. If you want to get more of the respect you want and need, listen to this episode now and discover how much easier love can be for you in your life. Blessings and Love to you, Susie and Otto Collins https://SusieandOtto.com

Sometimes it's scary to allow ourselves to be vulnerable. And yet, being vulnerable and showing up in ways that invite vulnerability from the people in our lives is critical to having close, connected and loving relationships. Sometimes we refer to this vulnerability as getting emotionally "naked" and whether you're willing to do that or not varies from person to person and moment to moment. In this episode, (episode 45) of our Love Made Easy podcast, we're exploring the question, "How Emotionally Naked Should You Get?" Listen to this episode now and discover new ways of having love be so much easier in your life. Blessings and Love to you, Susie and Otto Collins https://SusieandOtto.com

It's undeniable that our fears, doubts, insecurities, unhealthy habits and disempowering ways of looking at the people and situations in our relationships and lives get in the way of what's possible for us. ...And much of the time, we don't even see it, recognize it  or know that it's happening. One of the ways this plays out is what we're unconsciously thinking, believing and making real after we say the word BUT. In this episode, (episode 44) of our Love Made Easy podcast, we're talking about how we can all get off our "buts"...not the ones we sit on... and create more of the love and life we want. Listen to this episode now and discover new ways of having love be so much easier in your life. Blessings and Love to you, Susie and Otto Collins https://SusieandOtto.com