Podcasts about Loving Someone

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Grief is part of your story. But not the whole story.There's a profound shift that happens when you move from being a companion to becoming a caregiver.The relationship changes.The roles change.And often, so does the emotional landscape.In this chat, we talk about what it's like when someone you love begins to rely on you for care — how it can affect connection, identity, and the way you show up for each other.This transition can bring love, responsibility, exhaustion, tenderness, and even grief… all at the same time.Because sometimes you're not just being with the person you love anymore — you're also holding so much of what they need.

Leave a text or voice message so we can respondIf you keep finding yourself waiting for someone to change, holding onto the “good parts” of them, replaying their promises in your head, or wondering whether you're giving up too soon…this episode is for you.In this powerful episode of the Be A Better You Podcast, we're talking about the emotional trap of loving someone's potential instead of recognizing their consistent patterns of behavior. This is one of the biggest reasons women stay stuck in emotionally abusive, emotionally immature, narcissistic, or unhealthy relationships far longer than they should.You may think you're being hopeful, loyal, compassionate, understanding, or “seeing the best in people.” But after emotional abuse, hope can quietly become a coping mechanism that disconnects you from reality and keeps you emotionally attached to who someone could be instead of who they repeatedly show you they are.In this episode, you'll learn:Why emotionally intelligent women often stay stuck in toxic relationshipsThe difference between healthy hope and emotional self-abandonmentWhy you keep waiting for them to changeHow trauma bonding and co-dependency fuel attachment to potentialWhy words and promises feel so convincing after emotional abuseHow to recognize relationship patterns instead of focusing on isolated momentsThe subconscious beliefs that keep women trapped in cycles of overthinking and confusionWhy “giving the benefit of the doubt” can become emotionally dangerousThe difference between emotional chemistry and emotional safetyWhy emotionally abusive relationships thrive on inconsistencyHow nervous system attachment keeps you hooked on emotional highs and lowsSigns you may be romanticizing someone's future potential instead of accepting present realityIf you've been searching for:“How do I know if I should stay or leave?”“Why can't I let go?”“Why do I keep hoping they'll change?”“Am I trauma bonded?”“Why do I ignore red flags?”“Why do I feel addicted to the relationship?”“How do I stop overthinking my relationship?”“Can emotionally abusive people change?”“Why do I keep making excuses for them?”“Why do I feel guilty for wanting to leave?”…this episode will help you understand the deeper emotional and subconscious patterns driving those thoughts.This episode is not about becoming cold, bitter, or cynical. It's about learning how to see clearly, trust yourself again, and stop building your future around someone else's unfinished potential.✨ Ready for deeper healing?Explore the Emotional Healing Training Lab and the self-paced “Should I Stay or Leave?” course linked in the show notes.Use this link to apply for a free root cause call todaySupport the showTo learn more about my Programs, Course, and Offers visit the website:www.radiatenrise.comSupport Email: Allison@radiatenrise.comTo send a DM, visit Allison's profiles on Instagram and Facebookhttps://www.instagram.com/allisonkdagney/https://www.facebook.com/allisonkdagney/*Formerly (The Emotional Abuse Recovery Podcast)

In this revisited Season 5 favorite, Anne-Marie sits down with photographer Tonda McKay, who also happens to be her wife. Tonda came out at eighteen as a good Southern Baptist girl whose prayer partner became her first love, and she has spent the decades since building a life as a long-out lesbian in the South. She shares what those early years held: the isolation of believing she was the only one, the family rupture when her mother said she was dead to her, and the slow, joyful discovery of community through a liberal church softball team.The conversation then turns to something the two of them know intimately. What is it actually like for someone who has been out for forty years to fall in love with a woman who is only just beginning her journey? Tonda speaks honestly about boundaries, patience, and trust, about learning that her new partner's grief was not about her, and about why being older changed everything. Her advice is tender and unvarnished, full of hard-won wisdom about red flags, self-respect, and why some loves are worth holding onto.It is a episode about two women of the same age meeting from opposite ends of the same experience, and the contentment they found together. As Tonda puts it, there is absolutely nothing wrong with loving who you want to love, and love really does win eventually.You can learn more about Tonda's photography work at https://tondamckay.com/If Tonda and Anne-Marie's story stirred something in you, you do not have to walk your own journey alone. Authentically Us is a warm, grounded community for women exploring identity and coming out later in life, a soft place to land among others who understand. Whether someone is newly questioning or further along the path, community is where the healing happens. Come find your people at community.annemariezanzal.com.

In this revisited Season 5 favorite, Anne-Marie sits down with photographer Tonda McKay, who also happens to be her wife. Tonda came out at eighteen as a good Southern Baptist girl whose prayer partner became her first love, and she has spent the decades since building a life as a long-out lesbian in the South. She shares what those early years held: the isolation of believing she was the only one, the family rupture when her mother said she was dead to her, and the slow, joyful discovery of community through a liberal church softball team.The conversation then turns to something the two of them know intimately. What is it actually like for someone who has been out for forty years to fall in love with a woman who is only just beginning her journey? Tonda speaks honestly about boundaries, patience, and trust, about learning that her new partner's grief was not about her, and about why being older changed everything. Her advice is tender and unvarnished, full of hard-won wisdom about red flags, self-respect, and why some loves are worth holding onto.It is a episode about two women of the same age meeting from opposite ends of the same experience, and the contentment they found together. As Tonda puts it, there is absolutely nothing wrong with loving who you want to love, and love really does win eventually.You can learn more about Tonda's photography work at https://tondamckay.com/If Tonda and Anne-Marie's story stirred something in you, you do not have to walk your own journey alone. Authentically Us is a warm, grounded community for women exploring identity and coming out later in life, a soft place to land among others who understand. Whether someone is newly questioning or further along the path, community is where the healing happens. Come find your people at community.annemariezanzal.com.

Hello Good People and Beautiful Souls,In this episode, the host, Teresa Reese, will be unpacking Part 2 of the often-overlooked difference between being deeply attracted to someone and genuinely loving them in a healthy, intentional way. Because not every intense connection is rooted in love. Sometimes we confuse chemistry for compatibility, obsession for intimacy, attachment for alignment, and potential for true partnership.Together, we will explore how lust often seeks possession, validation, escape, or emotional gratification, while healthy love seeks peace, honesty, consistency, safety, and mutual growth. We will discuss the signs of emotionally mature love versus emotionally consuming attachment, and how unresolved wounds can sometimes cause us to romanticize inconsistency, chaos, or emotional unavailability.This episode is not about shame — it is about awareness. It is about learning how to discern whether a relationship is nourishing our spirit or merely stimulating our emotions.If you have ever found yourself addicted to the highs and lows of a relationship, constantly anxious about where you stand with someone, or mistaking emotional intensity for genuine intimacy, this conversation is for you.Because healthy love does not leave you perpetually confused about your value.Healthy love communicates with integrity and honesty. Healthy love takes responsibility.Healthy love creates clarity, peace, and emotional safety over time.And perhaps most importantly, we will discuss how self-love and discernment protect us from accepting counterfeit love disguised as passion.We hope this episode encourages someone!Be encouraged.

Hello Good People and Beautiful Souls,In this episode, the host, Teresa Reese, will begin to unpack the often-overlooked difference between being deeply attracted to someone and genuinely loving them in a healthy, intentional way in Part 1 of 2.Because not every intense connection is rooted in love. Sometimes we confuse chemistry for compatibility, obsession for intimacy, attachment for alignment, and potential for true partnership.Together, we will explore how lust often seeks possession, validation, escape, or emotional gratification, while healthy love seeks peace, honesty, consistency, safety, and mutual growth.This episode is not about shame — it is about awareness. It is about learning how to discern whether a relationship is nourishing your spirit or merely stimulating your emotions.If you have ever found yourself addicted to the highs and lows of a relationship, constantly anxious about where you stand with someone, or mistaking emotional intensity for genuine intimacy, this conversation is for you.Listen in as Teresa begins to unpack this topic.We hope this episode encourages someone!Be encouraged.

What does it really mean to support a partner with an eating disorder? Does it require becoming the food police? What about the caregiver's needs? Psychologist and author, Dr. Dana Harron sits down with us to examine the unique challenges faced by partners and spouses when caring for someone through eating disorder recovery. Drawing from her practical book, Loving Someone with an Eating Disorder, Dr. Harron shares insights for partners navigating stress, intimacy, shared meals, and uncertainty around readiness for recovery. An essential listen for partners, caregivers, and loved ones seeking realistic, supportive ways to stay connected and care for themselves. Links: Dr. Harron's Book: Loving Someone with an Eating Disorder - New Harbinger Press  Website: www.monarchwellness.com/dana-harron-psyd Mental Note Podcast www.mentalnotepodcast.com  Pathlight Mood & Anxiety Center: www.pathlightbh.com     Eating Recovery Center: www.eatingrecoverycenter.com Free Group Support: www.pathlightbh.com/support-groups    Free Evaluation with a Trained Therapist:  (877) 850-7199 

Send us Fan MailDo you have a loved one who struggles with anxiety or dysregulation, and you just aren't sure how to help? It can be heartbreaking to watch someone you deeply care about feel unsafe in their own body or mind, but remember—it is not your job to fix them.In this episode of the Find Your Peace podcast, we explore beautiful, practical ways you can become a supportive, grounding presence for your spouse, child, or friend. We discuss how to listen with gentle curiosity rather than defensiveness, the regulating power of respectful physical touch, and why managing your own emotions is the greatest gift you can offer. Healing from anxiety is absolutely possible, and your loving support plays a vital role in their journey. Tune in to discover how to cultivate an environment of peace, trust, and profound connection with your loved one. How's My Nervous System Quiz     I Connect with us at Exalted Health

Send us Fan MailToday's conversation is a tender one. I'm joined by Sheila Hamilton — journalist, speaker, and author of All the Things We Never Knew, a memoir she wrote in the aftermath of her late husband's descent into mental illness. This book is part story, part resource — and it captures the confusion, grief, hope, and fierce love that come with navigating a fractured mental health system while trying to hold a family together.If you've ever loved someone who was struggling…this episode is for you. We talk resilience, motherhood, sisterhood — and the powerful books that shaped Sheila along the way.Episode Highlights:Why Sheila felt compelled to write All the Things We Never Knew after her husband's mental health crisis.How her background in journalism shaped the book into both memoir and resource.The realities of navigating the mental health system while trying to support a family.Why honesty about struggle can help people find connection and community.What resilience really looks like in the middle of grief and uncertainty.The role motherhood played in helping her move forward.Connect with Sheila:InstagramPodcastWebsiteBooks and authors mentioned in the episode:Virginia Woolf booksThe Great Gatsby by F. Scott FitzgeraldThe Chronology of Water by Lidia YuknavitchMcGlue by Ottessa MoshfeghBook FlightThe Year of Magical Thinking by Joan DidionWild by Cheryl StrayedThe Bell Jar✨ Find Your Next Great Read! We just hit 175 episodes of Bookish Flights, and to celebrate, I created the Bookish Flights Roadmap — a guide to all 175 podcast episodes, sorted by genre to help you find your next great read faster.Explore it here → www.bookishflights.com/read/roadmapSupport the showBe sure to join the Bookish Flights community on social media. Happy listening!InstagramFacebookWebsite

What do you do when caring for someone in crisis starts to cost you your health, your sleep, and your sense of self?Today we explore one of the most painful and complex relational dilemmas: how to stay loving and connected with a family member who is suffering, without becoming the container for their pain or sacrificing our own wellbeing.A listener brings a raw and deeply human question about boundaries with a grieving, traumatized family member who refuses professional help. Together, we unpack the difference between compassion and enabling, support and self-erasure, love and responsibility.This conversation offers permission where many of us feel trapped by guilt, and clarity where fear and helplessness blur our choices.You'll hear how boundaries can be an act of care, how stepping back can be an invitation rather than an abandonment, and why holding someone's potential may sometimes be more loving than holding their pain.Key Topics We Explore:•When emotional support turns into burnout•Why you can't heal someone who won't co-create their healing•How to step back without walking away•Boundaries as an act of care, not rejection•Releasing responsibility while staying connectedInterested in reading more?  Find a Companion Guide on the blog.To take advantage of today's Flash Sale, go to nvcacademy.com and get Naturalizing NVC: Authentic, Easy, Flowing Speech for 50% off For ongoing practice and deeper learning, I warmly invite you to become a member of The School of Human Connection. Twice a month, I host live calls where members bring real relationship dilemmas. We slow things down and I'll help you see what's actually happening and how to respond with more integrity, strength and care.You will find a safe space for live discussions and a supportive community of like-minded, open-hearted humans. Stay updated on new episodes and resources by subscribing wherever you listen to podcasts or visiting yvetteerasmus.com.Here are more ways to connect with me:Join the School of Human ConnectionHop on my free Wednesday live callFollow me on YouTube

Leaving a relationship with someone who has untreated borderline personality traits can feel less like a breakup and more like trying to escape a locked room while being told you're the one causing the fire.In this episode, I speak directly to the people who are rarely centered in these conversations: the partners who have been living inside someone else's emotional emergency. The ones who learned to scan tone, timing, silence, and mood shifts just to survive. The ones whose nervous systems became collateral damage.This is not an episode about diagnosing or vilifying people with BPD. It is about naming the relational impact of untreated emotional dysregulation, identity collapse, abandonment panic, and rage–care oscillation on the person who loves them.I talk about:Why leaving can feel impossible without intense guilt and fearHow reality erosion, false accusations, and emotional role reversal take holdThe cycle I see over and over again: rage → collapse → panic → pleading → accusationWhy reassurance makes things worse instead of betterHow partners slowly disappear while trying to keep someone else regulatedWhy intent does not cancel impact, even when suffering is realIf you've ever felt like you were the safest person in the world one moment and the villain the next—with no transition, no shared reality, and no way to win—this episode is for you.Support the show*Please Note: there is a long intro that explains my services. If you do not want to listen, just fast-forward 5 mins past. This intro will be changed in future recordings to be shorter. I am not paid to record this podcast and it is a free offering. Offering my work is the only way I can sustain the podcast* Join the Patreon: https://patreon.com/Youarenotcrazy *New Course*: Unhooked: Map the Cycle of Abuse in your Relationship Website: Emotional Abuse Coach and high-conflictdivorcecoaching.comInstagram: @emotionalabusecoachEmail: jessica@jessicaknightcoaching.com{Substack} Blog About Recovering from Abuse {E-Book} How to Break Up with a Narcissist{Course} Identify Signs of Abuse and Begin to Heal{Free Resource} Canned Responses for Engaging with an Abusive Partner

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There comes a point in life when the noise dies down, the momentum fades, and the questions you've been avoiding finally catch up to you.This episode is not about fixing your life.It's about listening to what's been quietly asking for your attention.In Episode 305, I step away from performance, explanations, and surface-level insight, and sit with the questions that only appear after disappointment, after adaptation, and after you've spent years being composed, reasonable, and useful for everyone else.This is a reflective episode for people who have lived carefully.People who learned to keep things together.People who stayed longer than they should have.People who chose peace over truth, until the cost became impossible to ignore.Through a grounded monologue and a series of twenty deeply personal questions, this episode explores:• Why emotional fatigue creeps in quietly• How usefulness replaces connection without you noticing• The cost of staying silent to stay accepted• The difference between being private and being invisible• Why explaining yourself stops working at a certain stage of life• And how clarity begins when you stop performing your composureThese questions aren't designed to impress.They're designed to interrupt patterns.If you've ever felt like your life looks stable on the outside but unfinished on the inside, this episode will feel uncomfortably familiar in the best way.This is not a call to burn bridges.It's a pause.A mirror.A recalibration.Because sometimes growth doesn't come from answers.It comes from finally asking better questions, and letting them change you.You're Probably Right Podcast

Loving someone with an eating disorder can feel overwhelming – but you're not alone. In this powerful conversation, Dr. Dana Harron PsyD, author of Loving Someone with an Eating Disorder: Understanding, Supporting, and Connecting with Your Partner, shares practical ways to communicate with compassion, navigate tricky situations, and strengthen your relationship during recovery. Join hosts Sam and Laura as they explore real-life scenarios, common communication pitfalls, and tools that help partners show up with empathy, patience, and understanding throughout the healing process.   If you enjoy our show, please rate, review, subscribe, and tell your friends and colleagues!   Interested in being a guest on All Bodies. All Foods.? Email podcast@renfrewcenter.com for a chance to be featured.   All Bodies. All Foods. is a podcast by The Renfrew Center. Visit us at: https://renfrewcenter.com/

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In this episode of The Catholic Sobriety Podcast, I'm joined by Christian life coach and longtime Al-Anon member Sallee New. Sallee shares her story of growing up in a home shaped by alcoholism and how faith, healing, and community helped her move from chaos to peace. Together, we explore what it means to love someone struggling with addiction without losing yourself, how to set calm, faith-based boundaries, and the difference between compassion and enabling. We also talk about forgiveness as an ongoing practice, breaking generational patterns, and how prayer and the sacraments play a powerful role in healing families touched by addiction. 

Message us here!A mother, a son, and a community caught between love and stigma: the new movie "Rosemead" (produced by Lucy Liu) hits like a quiet earthquake. After watching the early screening, I ugly-cried when I found out that it was based on a true story. Because the story tackles the complexities of loving someone with mental illness, I just had to talk about it here. In this episode, I sit down with "Rosemead" actor Anzi De Benedetto to unpack how a true story about schizophrenia, grief, and culture moves beyond clichés and into the messy details of real life. What does support look like when friends don't have the right language? How does a family navigate care when stigma and “face” loom over every choice?Anzi shares his path to the role of Stan, a well-intentioned friend whose lighthearted validation brings comfort, but only to a certain level. We explore the line between empathy and minimization, the moment when a “pep talk” must give way to professional help, and why understanding psychosis as an ongoing condition, not just a singular event. The conversation expands into the cultural dynamics inside Chinese American communities depicted in the film.Still reeling from the emotional impact of the movie, I had to ask Anzi about his journey with acting that brought him to "Rosemead." He offers a rare look into the acting craft as emotional science: breathwork, body cues, and set safety over mythology, mirroring the same regulation skills I also teach. If Rosemead is screening near you, go see it and tell us what you think. Fair warning- it's not for the faint of heart. Bring tissues. Resources:Follow Anzi on his Instagram: @its_anziGet updates on "Rosemead": @rosemeadfilmSupport the showIf you're navigating someone's mental health or emotional issues, join KulaMind, our community and support platform. In KulaMind, we'll help you set healthy boundaries, advocate for yourself, and support your loved one. Follow @kulamind on Instagram for podcast updates and science-backed insights on staying sane while loving someone emotionally explosive. For more info about this podcast, check out: www.alittlehelpforourfriends.com

In this episode, Eli sits down with Dr. Michelle Sherman to explore the delicate balance between supportive love and codependency, the hidden struggles of family members, and practical strategies for maintaining connection when mental health creates uncertainty.

To watch the video of this episode, please go to:    Do you feel held hostage by the rollercoaster of a loved one's addiction? What is the crucial difference between helping someone and enabling their destructive behavior?   Is it possible to stop the chaos and help the entire family heal, even if the addict isn't ready to change?   Join Dr. Adriana Popescu in another empowering episode of Kaleidoscope of Possibilities: Alternative Perspectives on Mental Health, where she explores the complex dynamics of addiction within the family system. In this episode, Dr. Adriana sits down with Candace Plattor, an addiction therapist and author who specializes in helping families stop enabling their loved ones. They discuss the often-overlooked reality that addiction is a family disease, exploring how "loved ones" can inadvertently keep the addict sick through enabling behaviors. Candace shares her personal journey of recovery and offers a transformative roadmap for families to establish boundaries, prioritize their own self-care, and ultimately "raise the bottom" for the addict in their lives.   In this episode: A Journey of Recovery: Candace shares her personal story of overcoming 15 years of opioid addiction and celebrating over 36 years of sobriety. Addiction Defined: Understanding addiction not just as a substance issue, but as a displacement of anxiety and a symptom of underlying trauma. Helping vs. Enabling: A clear, game-changing definition of the difference between truly helping a loved one and enabling their addiction. The Family System: Why treating the addict in isolation rarely works and the importance of healing the entire family unit. Raising the Bottom: Debunking the myth that you have to wait for an addict to hit "rock bottom" and learning how to raise that bottom sooner. Love with Boundaries: Practical steps for loved ones to regain their sanity, stop being held hostage, and love without losing themselves. Holistic Healing: The role of hypnotherapy and addressing the root cause of the "hole in the soul.”   Resources mentioned in this episode: Candace's Website: LoveWithBoundaries.com Book: Loving an Addict, Loving Yourself: The Top 10 Survival Tips for Loving Someone with an Addiction by Candace Plattor: https://lovewithboundaries.com/loving-an-addict-loving-yourself-3/ Free 3-Minute Quiz: Available on Candace's website to see if you are an enabler. Complimentary Strategic Consultation: A free 30-minute call for families.   About Candace: Candace Plattor, author of Loving an Addict, Loving Yourself: The Top 10 Survival Tips for Loving Someone with an Addiction and Loving an Addict, Loving Yourself: The Workbook, knows from personal experience what it means to be an addict. Within a year of being diagnosed with Crohn's Disease in 1973, she found herself in the throes of prescription drug addiction. Her Crohn's Disease diagnosis came at a time when the medical community had a very limited understanding of the disease and how to treat it. As a result, the treatment included some very addictive medications such as Valium, Demerol, Codeine and Oxycontin, which she took faithfully for a number of years. Additionally, she discovered that marijuana took away a lot of her physical pain and helped her escape from feelings of powerlessness, hopelessness, and isolation. In no time at all, she became a daily pot smoker and had one more addiction to deal with. And when she ran out of pot, she abused alcohol. After more than 15 years of abusing substances, she "reached bottom" in 1987. Thus began her journey of recovery and self-discovery. In her books, Candace draws from her experience as an addict, as well as from the stories of those she continues to help in her practice, to uncover the reality of loving someone with an addiction. All too often, people with an addicted loved one in their lives will neglect themselves in an attempt to "help." But, as she points out in her books, this is a lose-lose situation that doesn't help the addict at all. Instead, loved ones must make their own needs a priority and learn to focus on their own self-care.   “Helping is doing something for someone that they are not capable of doing for themselves. Enabling is doing for someone things that they could and should be doing for themselves.” – Candace   Would you like to continue this conversation and connect with other people who are interested in exploring these topics? Please join us on our Facebook group! (https://www.facebook.com/groups/kaleidoscopeofpossibilitiespodcast/)   About your host: Dr. Adriana Popescu is a clinical psychologist, addiction and trauma specialist, author, speaker and empowerment coach who is based in San Francisco, California and practices worldwide. She is the author of the book, What If You're Not As F***ed Up As You Think You Are? For more information on Dr. Adriana, her sessions and classes, please visit: https://adrianapopescu.org/ To find the book please visit: https://whatifyourenot.com/ To learn about her trauma treatment center Firebird Healing, please visit the website: https://www.firebird-healing.com/   You can also follow her on social media:  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/DrAdrianaPopescu/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dradrianapopescu/?hl=en LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/adriana-popescu-ph-d-03793 Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCflL0zScRAZI3mEnzb6viVA TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@dradrianapopescu? 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The War With Pride, 5 of 5 from November 30, 2025 “In a world buying up every selfish whim we are spent by Jesus for others' benefit.” 2 Corinthians 12:11-21 by Michael Lockstampfor (@miklocks)SUMMARYThis sermon on 2 Corinthians 12:11-21 examines how Paul's dedication to the Corinthian church challenges modern views of love. Pastor Michael contrasts self-serving love with biblical love, which grieves over sin and guides others to repentance. Paul's refusal of financial support from Corinth is shown as sacrificial devotion to their spiritual health. Believers are urged to consider if they are "spent by Jesus" for others, instead of pursuing selfish desires, and to confront stumbling blocks in their lives, stressing that love sometimes requires addressing sin.REFLECTION & DISCUSSION QUESTIONS

Unrequited love can take down even the most capable, confident women, and Hilary is done watching smart, high-achieving women lose themselves over someone who can't meet them where they are. This episode is a call back to your power, especially in those moments when your mind is spinning, your heart is hopeful, and the person you want isn't choosing you back. Hilary dives into the shame, the second-guessing, and the quiet panic that shows up when you start making someone else's behavior mean something about your worth. She offers a clearer way to see what's really happening, why these patterns feel so magnetic, and what becomes possible when you stop interpreting someone's “no” as proof that you're not enough. Instead of chasing, contorting, or holding on to hope that never turns into reality, Hilary invites you to be honest with yourself: would you want this person if fear wasn't making the decisions? She shares the shifts that helped her stop abandoning herself in dating, including the seven things she quit while she was single that opened her up to real love. If you're ready to step out of the spiral and back into self-respect, this episode is your starting place. Episode Highlights: Why unrequited love hits even the strongest women The subtle ways self-abandonment shows up in dating The lock-and-key truth that makes dating cleaner and calmer The questions that reveal whether someone is actually right for you The seven things Hilary quit that opened the door to real love Episode Breakdown: 00:00 Celebrating Women and the Pain of Unrequited Love 03:03 Understanding Self-Worth and Rejection 05:50 The Key and Lock Analogy in Relationships 09:07 Quitting Behaviors That Sabotage Love 17:58 Embracing Your Innate Worthiness  ✨ I'm Hilary Silver, LCSW, former psychotherapist turned master coach and founder of Ready for Love. I help high-achieving women show up in love as confidently as they do in their careers.

She Said, “You Can't Stop Me From Loving Someone Else.” And Took Out $50K For Her LoverBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/true-cheating-wives-and-girlfriends-stories-2025-true-cheating-stories-podcast--5689182/support.

She Said, “You Can't Stop Me From Loving Someone Else.” And Took Out $50K For Her LoverBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/true-cheating-wives-and-girlfriends-stories-2025-true-cheating-stories-podcast--5689182/support.

She Said, “You Can't Stop Me From Loving Someone Else.” And Took Out  $50K For Her LoverBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/true-cheating-wives-and-girlfriends-stories-2025-true-cheating-stories-podcast--5689182/support.

She Said, “You Can't Stop Me From Loving Someone Else.” And Took Out  $50K For Her LoverBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/true-cheating-wives-and-girlfriends-stories-2025-true-cheating-stories-podcast--5689182/support.

What if helping someone you love is actually hurting you? In this episode, Donna Marston shares her journey as a mother of a child in active addiction—and how she learned to set boundaries, release shame, and reclaim her life.We talk about the difference between support and enabling, the grief of parenting through addiction, and how healing begins when you choose yourself.Learn more at www.sharingwithoutshame.comGrab her free resource: 5 Boundaries and BreakthroughsSend me a message This episode includes a paid partnership with BetterHelp. Click this link, betterhelp.com/drdowney, to get 10% off your first month.

Send us a textHave you ever said yes just to avoid an argument? You take it on, you promise you'll change, you nod along. Even though inside you're thinking, “I can't keep doing this.” That's not weakness. That's an agreement that needs a closer look.Last week we shared part one of this two-part series from The Better Love Club on how real connection is created. In part two, we're looking at what blocks it: unhealthy agreements. We're sharing these replays while Tom and I are in Italy checking out the venue for our 2026 couples retreat.A quick note for our Better Love Club community: all student voices have been removed to protect privacy.This is Love Shack Live, the podcast for people at a relationship crossroads. If daily fights are wearing you down, if the gap keeps growing, and you still want a bond that feels real and lasting, you're in the right place.Think about it. Maybe you promised to stop bringing up money. Or to be the one who always texts first. Or to say yes to intimacy when you don't feel close. On the outside, it looks fine. Inside, it feels heavy and exhausting. Today I'll show you how to tell when an agreement isn't serving you and how to shift it without turning it into a blowup.Today's question: What happens when you stop saying a tired yes and start speaking one true sentence instead?We'll explore:The difference between talking and true connection (and why “performing” closeness backfires)How to spot the hidden cost of people-pleasing: resentment, shutdown, and that “I'm disappearing” feelingWhy flexibility in agreements creates safety instead of chaosA simple reveal/witness framework to help you change a deal without lighting a matchLanguage you can borrow to own your part, name what's changed, and propose something betterTry this while you listen: Notice where your body says “no” while your mouth says “okay.” That's your cue to test a more true sentence.By the end, you'll have one sentence to replace an exhausted yes. What shifts when you say it out loud?Ready to Learn What to Say (and Not Say) During Space?If your partner has asked for space, communication can feel like walking a tightrope. What you say (or don't say) can make the difference between rebuilding connection or widening the gap.You have two ways to join me for my “What to Say (and Not Say) During Space” masterclass:

How do you love someone who's struggling? How do you stay present when someone you care about is going through their own winter? Michael offers gentle guidance on supporting others without losing yourself, learning to hold space without trying to fix, and loving people through their difficult seasons. Plus, a practice to help you offer love without attachment to outcomes. -- Follow Michael Galyon on  Instagram: @michael.galyon  AND @lettingitsettle Tik Tok: @coachmichael1 Visit his website at https://www.michaelgalyon.com/ Email the show at lettingitsettle@michaelgalyon.com  Subscribe to Letting It Settle Proudly produced and managed by Good Mess Media Sponsorship and brands, please contact Tracey Thomas at hello@goodmessmedia.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

What if some friendships aren't meant to last forever, but still leave something beautiful behind? In this episode, we explore the quiet shifts that happen when people grow apart. No drama, no blame, just change.  It's about loving someone from afar, holding the memories with gratitude, and finding peace in the space that now exists between you. A soft reflection on what it means to let go without losing the love.  Listen in as we Calm It Down in 3...2...1.

When someone you love stops being the person you remember—what do you do? In this episode, we explore the quiet heartbreak of watching someone evolve and the deeper truth about what it means to stay. If you've ever felt distance growing between you and someone you care about—not because they left, but because they changed—this is the perspective shift that might bring peace, compassion, and connection back into the relationship.

Hey lady! We're going to cut straight to the chase because we know that your time is probably scheduled down to the minute. Many of us are out here caring for children, caring for aging parents, killing it at work, showing up for your community, trying to take care of yourself and keep the wheels on the train of your life moving forward. The list is long to say the least. And, on top of all of that you are dealing with the unpredictable nature of humans. This week Terri and Dr. Dom discuss an underdiscussed issue in our community. How to care for yourself when caring for someone struggling with their mental health?What do you do when your cup is empty, and you have nothing left to pour? Dr. Dom and Terri offer real talk and real tools to help you navigate challenging times with loved ones. Whether it's your mama, your man, or your best friend—mental health challenges don't just affect the person going through them. They affect everyone close to them. So, go ahead and download and save this episode, lady. Consider it yet another tool in your toolkit to go through life with grace, class, and your own mental health in check. And, if this episode has helped you and you know it will help others why don't you rate us and let us know how much value you found in our perspective. Your support helps bring our show to more people looking for healing! Practical Tips: How to Show Up with Boundaries 1. Validate their experience but don't try to “fix” them2 Learn the basics of their diagnosis (from trusted sources)3. Communicate clearly: “What do you need from me right now?”4. When necessary, create care plans and safety plans5. Leverage professional help (E.g.; Therapy, support groups, and hotlines)Quote of the Day:"Tough love is you creating and keeping healthy boundaries." – Nedra Tawwab  Goal Map Like a Pro WorkbookCultivating H.E.R. Space Sanctuary  Resources:Dr. Dom's Therapy PracticeBranding with TerriMelanin and Mental HealthTherapy for Black Girls Psychology TodayTherapy for QPOC  Where to find us:Twitter: @HERspacepodcastInstagram: @herspacepodcastFacebook: @herspacepodcastWebsite: cultivatingherspace.comBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cultivating-h-e-r-space-uplifting-conversations-for-the-black-woman--5470036/support.

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Survival, Strength & Second Chances with Alexa Towersey - From braving the wild on Naked and Afraid to facing the raw reality of loving someone with addiction, Alexa Towersey has learned what it means to survive - inside and out. In this episode, she opens up about navigating hormone replacement therapy, the emotional terrain of healing relationships, and why your fitness routine must evolve as you age. With honesty, humour and hard-won wisdom, Alexa reminds us that resilience isn't just about the body - it's about the heart, mind and spirit too. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

How do you stay grounded when someone you love is unraveling? In this powerful episode, Sione and Alana are joined again by Craig Williamson, author of Regarding Substance Abuse & Addiction, who shares what he learned during a 17-year-long journey supporting and loving his son through addiction—a journey that ended with his son's passing at age 29. In this raw and deeply personal conversation, Craig opens up about the emotional toll of loving someone through addiction, and the life-changing lessons he learned about control, setting boundaries, practicing radical self-care, and how to love without losing yourself in the process.  Whether you're currently supporting someone through a hard season, or want to deepen your emotional resilience for life's inevitable storms—this episode will move you, ground you, and give you powerful tools to grow forward. In this episode: What it really means to let go of control—and what to do instead The difference between enabling and loving with healthy boudnaries.  How to stay grounded when you're walking through chaos or grief The role of expectations in emotional pain—and how to shift them The connection between personal identity and unshakable joy Why self-care isn't selfish—it's your first responsibility Preparing your life's foundation before crisis hits Powerful lessons on grace, compassion, and emotional strength  RESOURCES MENTIONED: Craig's Book: Regarding Substance Abuse & Addiction (purchase through this link to support the show at no extra cost to you) Craig's First Podcast Appearance: Understanding Addiction-Ep. 80 Craig's Substack: https://craigawilliamson.substack.com/ ------------------------------------------------------------------ Want to set a foundation for the next 12 months? Check out our Best Year Ever Program to gain clarity and structure around your top priorities, habits, and personal growth goals. ------------------------------------------------------------------ A FEW GOLDEN NUGGETS: Control is an illusion. Responsibility is where your power lives. You can love the person and still reject the behavior The brokenness around you is an opportunity to become your best self. Don't attach your joy to outcomes—anchor it to your identity as a child of God. If you stop taking care of yourself, you become part of the problem. This episode is a must listen for parents, partners, and leaders who want to show up with strength, love, and grace—even when life doesn't go as planned.  ------------------------------------------------------------------- Listen now and uncover what losing a son with addiction taught this father about control, boundaries, & self-care. ------------------------------------------------------------------- For our latest insights and things we don't share with the public, become a Sione and Alana Insider. It's free and easy to join: https://recountinglifelessons.com/insider FOLLOW US:  ► Like on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/sioneandalana  ► Our Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sioneandalana  ► Alana's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alanauyema  ► Sione's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sioneuyema Want to connect with Sione & Alana? ►Website: https://www.recountinglifelessons.com ►Email: sioneandalana@recountinglifelessons.com   Have a life lesson to share? Interested in being a guest? We'd love to connect: click here to schedule a time to connect

In this touching episode of The Wise Effort Show, Dr. Diana Hill converses with Dr. Jennifer Gregg, a psycho-oncologist with vast experience in behavioral medicine and Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT). Dr. Gregg, who has written notable books like ‘Stop Avoiding Stuff' and ‘The Acceptance and Commitment Therapy Skills Workbook,' shares her profoundly personal journey through her husband and son's battles with cancer. She discusses how these experiences shaped her professionally and personally, highlighting the importance of showing up with love, staying grounded in the present moment, and maintaining psychological flexibility amidst life's toughest trials. Listen and Learn About:Children's Reactions to a Parent's DiagnosisSon's Cancer Diagnosis and Family ImpactLiving in the Present MomentUnwise Efforts and Coping MechanismsThe Importance of Community SupportPsychological Flexibility and Values3 Big TakeawaysFacing New UncertaintiesTune in to hear an inspiring story about love, pain, vulnerability, and wise effort in relationships, and gain insights from Dr. Gregg's expert strategies for supporting those dealing with cancer.Suggested Next Episode:Getting Past You and Me to Build a Better Relationship with Terry RealRelated ResourcesGet enhanced show notes for this episodeWant to enhance your movement? Take Diana's audio course, "Level Up Your Movement." It's on pre-sale today for a special subscriber-only discount ($40 off for a limited time) and will be available on March 3, 2025.Get our new book I Know I Should Exercise, But…44 Reasons We Don't Move and How to Get Over Them. I wrote it with Katy Bowman, and it will be available on March 4, 2025.Want to become more psychologically flexible? Take Diana's "Foundations of ACT" course.Diana's EventsReserve your spot in Diana's Costa Rica retreat in 2026!See Diana at an upcoming eventConnecting With DianaSubscribe for free on Apple Podcasts and Spotify.Leave a 5-star review on Apple so people like you can find the show.Sign up for the free Wise Effort Newsletter.

Have you ever wanted to save a loved one from making the wrong choice? Or maybe control a dynamic that was going differently than how you wanted it to? In today's message, Jim reviews the movie Beautiful Boy and connects it to our lives, and encourages us to change our approach to some of life's most significant challenges by relying on God to do what only he can do.

Have you ever struggled to support a close friend or family member dealing with a mental health condition? How do you know when you're truly helping rather than enabling? When should you push, simply show up, or even step away? If these questions resonate with you, you're not alone—at least 20% and possibly up to 40% of people will face this reality at some point in their lives. On this week's podcast, you'll meet a psychologist who shares her research and clinical experiences. Listen and learn: How to differentiate between supporting and enabling a loved one Key questions to ask yourself if you're in a caregiving role The impact of online support groups and AI on mental health care Strategies for handling difficult or unpleasant caregiving situations How to find affordable mental health resources locally and nationally Common challenges of caring for aging family members and how to cope Links www.SeedsofHopeBooks.com ABOUT OUR GUEST Dr. Michelle D. Sherman is a licensed clinical psychologist with over 25 years of experience, specializing in individual and couples therapy. She is a professor in the Department of Family Medicine and Community Health at the University of Minnesota Medical School and a board-certified expert in couples and family psychology. Her work focuses on supporting families dealing with mental illness, PTSD, and trauma. She is the author of Loving Someone with a Mental Illness or Trauma History. Like the Show? Leave us a review Check out our YouTube channel

Send a Text to the Moms - please include your contact info if you want a response. thanks!Actionable strategies for these family members and friends who give so much but whose needs and sacrifices are often unappreciated. Written by clinical psychologist Dr. Michelle Sherman and her mother, DeAnne Sherman, an advocate and educator, the book provides:• Tools to cope with difficult emotions• Strategies to empower loved ones, including how to navigate the mental health system• Communication and limit-setting skills• Approaches to supporting loved ones who have experienced trauma or have PTSD• Ways to manage common challenges, such as alcohol or drug misuse, and when a loved one declines professional help• Strategies to support children• Skills to build personal resilience and strengthen relationshipsLinks:I Am Not Alone book:https://www.seedsofhopebooks.com/i-m-not-aloneLoving Someone with Mental Illness book:https://www.seedsofhopebooks.com/loving-someone-with-a-mental-illness-or-history-of-traumaWebsite for Michelle and DeAnne (has free resources):https://www.seedsofhopebooks.com/Mindy and her book: https://mindygreiling.com/Randye and her book: https://www.randyekaye.com/Miriam and her book: https://www.miriam-feldman.com/Want to know more?Join our facebook page Our websites:Randye KayeMindy Greiling Miriam (Mimi) Feldman

On episode 230, we welcome Michelle Sherman to discuss mental illness within families, the missteps people make in attempting to address it, our tendency to personalize others' struggles, what happens when others aren't aware of why they're struggling and can't explain it, the 4Cs model of navigating mental illness in others, the effects and trauma and neglect, asking for support and overcoming the shame of doing so, and why having a mental illness doesn't necessarily mean one is incapable of being a good parent. Michelle D. Sherman, PhD, ABPP, is a board-certified, licensed clinical psychologist who is a nationally recognized leader in the family experience of mental illness and trauma. She is the editor-in-chief of Couple and Family Psychology: Research and Practice and worked for many years in the Veterans Affairs system. She is a fellow of the American Psychological Association and was named their Family Psychologist of the Year in 2022. Her newest book, co-authored with DeAnne Sherman, available now, is called Loving Someone with a Mental Illness or History of Trauma: Skills, Hope, and Strength for Your Journey. | Michelle D. Sherman, PhD | ► Website | https://www.seedsofhopebooks.com ► Facebook | https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61557940777748 ► Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/seeds_of_hope_books ► Linkedin | https://www.linkedin.com/in/michelle-sherman-phd-lp-abpp-312897100 ► Loving Someone with a Mental Illness or History of Trauma Book | https://amzn.to/3CSwQiR Where you can find us: | Seize The Moment Podcast | ► Facebook | https://www.facebook.com/SeizeTheMoment ► Twitter | https://twitter.com/seize_podcast  ► Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/seizethemoment ► TikTok | https://www.tiktok.com/@seizethemomentpodcast  

Families & Mental Health: Dr. Michelle D. Sherman On this episode of the Make Mental Health Matter Show, Kelli chats with Michelle D. Sherman, PhD LP ABPP (she/her) is a licensed clinical psychologist who has dedicated her career to supporting families dealing with a mental illness or trauma/PTSD. She has worked in diverse settings, including the Veterans Affairs (VA) healthcare system, private practice, and academia as a Professor at the University of Oklahoma and University of Minnesota Medical Schools. Dr. Sherman is a Fellow of the American Psychological Association (APA), and is Board Certified in Couple and Family Psychology. She is the Editor in Chief of Couple and Family Psychology: Research and Practice, the journal of APA's Society of Couple and Family Psychology, and was named their Family Psychologist of the Year in 2022. She has published over 75 articles in peer-reviewed journals, and has given several hundred workshops nationally and internationally. She served on the Board of the Oklahoma National Alliance on Mental Illness (NAMI) for 14 years and now enjoys volunteering with the Minnesota NAMI affiliate. Michelle and her mother DeAnne Sherman, a mental health advocate, are co-authors of Loving Someone with a Mental Illness or History of Trauma: Skills, Hope and Strength for Your Journey and I'm Not Alone: A Teen's Guide to Living With a Parent Who Has Mental Illness or a History of Trauma. Michelle and DeAnne believe that family members of people managing mental health problems and trauma have been invisible and unsupported for too long. It is time to SEE, HEAR, and INCLUDE them...recognize their sacrifices and contributions...and empower them with research-based information, practical skills, and hope. Find out more about Michelle here: Website: www.SeedsofHopeBooks.com  LinkedIn: Michelle Sherman, PhD LP ABPP Want to find out when the next incredible episode of Make Mental Health Matter show is dropping? Sign up for the Make Mental Health Matter newsletter for special tips, and insider only offers. Click HERE to sign up today! Need more resources? www.makementalhealthmatter.org  https://linktr.ee/makementalhealthmatter

Learning to love someone else means dying to self first. Paul said, “I die daily”

I'm thrilled to have the insightful and amazing Ian Cron with us today. You may know him as the author of The Road Back to You, the famous Enneagram book. He's back with a new book, The Fix, about making the 12 steps accessible daily.   Ian reveals how the 12 steps can serve as an emotional and spiritual health trellis. These steps are practical, transformative, and essential for our growth. I'm excited for you to listen to this show.   Timestamps: (06:27) - Everyone's Looking for a Fix (11:12) - What You Need to Know About the 12-Step Program (24:36) - Loving Someone with an Addiction (26:53) - Why Enabling is So Dangerous (30:21) - Ian's Top Recommendations   Ian's Recommendations Ian just loves the song "When My Morning Comes Around" by Iris DeMent. It's beautiful and heartfelt.    Another Americana song that Ian recommends is Amsterdam by Mary Gauthier.    The TV show Ian is watching right now is Slow Horses. He loves this one!   Ian has been telling people about This Is Happiness by Niall Williams lately. It's like word candy, and he can't get enough of it.   On the non-fiction front, Arthur Brook's book Build the Life You Want is super great! The title can throw you off, but this is a great book. And Brook's book Strength to Strength is a good one to help you find the qualities you bring into the world.    The product Ian has told a friend they have to try is the Magic Bullet. He said the creator is a genius! Listen now: Listen now on Apple Podcasts and Spotify Watch Alli on YouTube   I hope you loved this episode!

Happiness Solved with Sandee Sgarlata. In this episode, Sandee interviews Dr. Michelle Sherman. Michelle D. Sherman, PhD LP ABPP (she/her) is the co-author of "Loving Someone with a Mental Illness or History of Trauma" (written with her mother) and a licensed clinical psychologist who has dedicated her career to supporting families dealing with a mental illness or trauma/PTSD. She has worked in diverse settings, including the Veterans Affairs (VA) healthcare system, private practice, and academia as a Professor at the University of Oklahoma and University of Minnesota Medical Schools. Dr. Sherman is a Fellow of the American Psychological Association (APA), and is Board Certified in Couple and Family Psychology. She is the Editor in Chief of Couple and Family Psychology: Research and Practice, the journal of APA's Society of Couple and Family Psychology, and was named their Family Psychologist of the Year in 2022. She has published over 75 articles in peer-reviewed journals, and has given several hundred workshops nationally and internationally. She served on the Board of the Oklahoma National Alliance on Mental Illness (NAMI) for 14 years and now enjoys volunteering with the Minnesota NAMI affiliate. Connect with Dr. Michelle: Website: www.SeedsofHopeBooks.comLinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/michelle-sherman-phd-lp-abpp-312897100 Connect with Sandee: Website: www.sandeesgarlata.comPodcast: www.happinesssolved.comFacebook: www.facebook.com/coachsandeesgarlataTwitter: www.twitter.com/sandeesgarlataInstagram: www.instagram.com/coachsandeesgarlata

*Content Warning: This episode contains a discussion about suicide, which may be distressing to some listeners. Click here for resources.In episode 71, Chris and Emma continue the conversation with Dr. Stacey Freedenthal, a suicidologist, therapist, author, and professor at the University of Denver. In this second installment, we delve deeper into the complexities of suicidality, exploring chronic suicidal thoughts and the stigma surrounding suicide. We talk more about what to say and what not to say to someone who is suicidal and how to support those in emotional pain. Stacey shares valuable insights and practical resources for those navigating these challenging experiences. Chris and Emma reflect on their personal journeys and the power of connection in moments of despair. This candid discussion provides essential perspectives for anyone seeking to better understand suicide, reduce stigma, and foster compassion.Resources from this EpisodeSpeaking of SuicideStaceyFreedenthal.comHelping the Suicidal Person: Tips and Techniques for Professionals (book for professionals)Loving Someone with Suicidal Thoughts: What Family, Friends, and Partners Can Say and Do (book for laypeople)Frank King, A Matter of Laugh or Death (YouTube)r/SuicideWatch (Reddit)ChronicSuicideSupport.comAlternatives to SuicideWarmLineWildflower AllianceLive Through ThisChris's story on Live Through This (Interview date: February 26, 2015, Denver, CO)Connect with usPositive Disintegration on SubstackVisit the Dabrowski Center websiteFacebookInstagramThe Positive Disintegration YouTube ChannelAdults with Overexcitabilities group on FacebookThe Tragic Gift blog by EmmaEmail us at positivedisintegration.pod@gmail.comPlease consider supporting the podcast to help fund this work through the Dabrowski Center, a 501(c)(3) nonprofit organization.Find Positive Disintegration MerchIf you enjoyed this episode on Apple or Spotify, please remember to click on the stars and leave a rating or write a review. Thank you! This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit www.positivedisintegration.org/subscribe

*Content Warning: This episode contains a discussion about suicide, which may be distressing to some listeners. Click here for resources. In episode 70, Chris and Emma talk with Dr. Stacey Freedenthal, a suicidologist, therapist, author, and professor at the University of Denver. We discuss the deeply important but often stigmatized topic of suicide. This is part one of a two-part series that explores the intersection of suicide and Dabrowski's theory of positive disintegration, offering listeners tools for empathy and connection in the face of despair.Stacey shares her personal journey with suicidality, the experiences that led her to dedicate her career to this work, and the insights she's gained through her research, teaching, and practice.Together, we explore the stigma surrounding suicidal thoughts, the ways people can hide their pain, and how well-intentioned responses often fall short. Stacey emphasizes the need for what she calls “brave listening”—creating a safe space for honest conversations without judgment or quick fixes. Chris and Emma also reflect on their own experiences and share perspectives on navigating these tough but crucial discussions.Resources from this episodeSpeaking of Suicide StaceyFreedenthal.com Helping the Suicidal Person: Tips and Techniques for Professionals (book for professionals)Loving Someone with Suicidal Thoughts: What Family, Friends, and Partners Can Say and Do (book for laypeople)A Suicide Therapist's Secret Past (NY Times article mentioned, behind paywall. Click for PDF)Stacey mentioned the following image from her book's cover.We mentioned Episode 8: Surviving DisintegrationThomas Joiner's Interpersonal Theory of Suicide (Wikipedia)Connect with usPositive Disintegration on SubstackVisit the Dabrowski Center websiteFacebookInstagramThe Positive Disintegration YouTube ChannelAdults with Overexcitabilities group on FacebookThe Tragic Gift blog by EmmaEmail us at positivedisintegration.pod@gmail.comPlease consider supporting the podcast to help fund this work through the Dabrowski Center, a 501(c)(3) nonprofit organization.Find Positive Disintegration MerchIf you enjoyed this episode on Apple or Spotify, please remember to click on the stars and leave a rating or write a review. Thank you! This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit www.positivedisintegration.org/subscribe

SEASON 3 Episode Thirteen. "Loving Someone Traumatized By The Industry"Synopsis:   Sean's investigating the mental health ripple effect that occurs when an employee is traumatized by an employer.  Actor Eddie Pendergraft (the actor from Wicked in Ep 10 "Another Wicked Story"), Eddie's husband Tony and clinical psychologist Dr. Michelle Sherman are all on board to share their insights. Special thank you to Eddie Pendergraft, Tony Mansker, and Dr. Michelle Sherman.  And Carole and Ian.Order Dr. Michelle Sherman's book "Loving Someone With A Mental Illness Or A History of Trauma" here:Loving Someone with a Mental Illness or History of Trauma: Skills, Hope, and Strength for Your Journey: Sherman, Michelle D., Sherman, DeAnne M.: 9781421450506: Amazon.com: BooksComing up in 2 weeks: "Sean Has Questions For The Union”Hear more of Sean's conversation with Eddie and Dr. Sherman at STAGE COMBAT AT PATREON.patreon.com/StageCombatThePodcastIt's the companion to Season 3. And experience at Patreon our all-new chat podcast series:  JUST ACTING and THE MENTAL HEALTH POD.Hosted by Sean HaydenEditing by Alex Griffitt.  Mixing and Sound Design by Justin Gerrish.Written and Directed by Sean Hayden for Haywood Productions, LLC.Produced by Haywood Productions, LLC.Sign up for the Stage Combat newsletter atLanding Page - Stage Combat (stagecombatthepodcast.com)Contact us with a DM at our instagram:Stage Combat

Hey Warriors Unmasked family! Chuck Thuss here, bringing you a truly meaningful episode that's close to my heart. In Episode 170, I had the honor of sitting down with Dr. Michelle Sherman and her mom, Deanne Sherman, two incredible women who are shining a much-needed light on an often-overlooked group: the supporters. Whether you're a spouse, sibling, friend, or child of someone managing mental health challenges or trauma, this episode is packed with insights, tools, and encouragement just for you. Dr. Sherman, a clinical psychologist with over 30 years of experience, and Deanne, a mental health advocate and teacher, share their wealth of knowledge and personal stories about how to navigate the complex role of supporting someone who is struggling. From the emotional toll it can take to the importance of self-care, their conversation is a game-changer for anyone who has ever felt overwhelmed, lonely, or burnt out while caring for someone they love. Key Takeaways from the Episode: Recognizing the Caregiver's Role: Often, those who support loved ones with mental health challenges feel invisible. Dr. Sherman and Deanne emphasize the importance of seeing and honoring the sacrifices these caregivers make. Self-Care is Essential, Not Optional: As Deanne beautifully states, taking care of yourself isn't a luxury—it's a necessity. Whether it's taking five minutes to breathe, delegating responsibilities, or finding a community of support, self-care is the foundation of being able to help others. Advocating for Support: Caregivers often feel guilty about asking for help, but Dr. Sherman reminds us that we can't pour from an empty cup. Whether it's leaning on a friend, joining a support group, or simply taking time for yourself, these small steps make a big difference. The Stigma Around Mental Illness: Michelle and Deanne also address the societal stigma that isolates both individuals managing mental illness and their families. They challenge listeners to lean in, rather than withdraw, when someone in their circle is struggling. Tools and Resources for Caregivers The Shermans recently co-authored two incredible books: Loving Someone with a Mental Illness or History of Trauma: Skills, Hope, and Strength for Your Journey I'm Not Alone: A Teen's Guide to Living with a Parent Who's Experienced a Mental Illness or History of Trauma These books are more than just informative—they're interactive guides packed with reflection exercises, practical skills, and stories from people who've been there. Whether you're an adult or a teen, you'll find actionable advice to help you navigate the challenges of supporting someone with mental health issues while maintaining your own well-being. You can find their books at Seeds of Hope Books or on Amazon. A Message to Caregivers One of the most powerful takeaways from this episode is the reminder that caregivers matter too. Dr. Sherman and Deanne's mantra, “We see you, we hear you, and we're with you,” resonates deeply. If you've ever felt alone in your journey, know that there is a community of people who understand and want to support you. Listen Now To hear the full conversation with Dr. Michelle and Deanne Sherman, including their personal stories, practical advice, and the mission behind their work, tune into Episode 170 of Warriors Unmasked. Share this episode with someone who could use the encouragement, and remember—you are not alone. Connect with Chuck If this episode inspired you and you'd like to learn more about Warriors Unmasked or connect with me for coaching or speaking engagements, visit Warriors Unmasked. Together, we can navigate life's challenges and live unmasked. LINKS: www.thecompassionateconnection.com www.warriorsunmasked.com  Join Chuck's Text Community: 251-418-7966 GUEST LINKS: www.SeedsofHopeBooks.com Social Media: LinkedIn: Michelle Sherman, PhD LP ABPP - https://www.linkedin.com/in/michelle-sherman-phd-lp-abpp-312897100/ Episode Minute By minute:  00:00 Introduction – Chuck welcomes Dr. Michelle Sherman and DeAnne Sherman and sets the stage for the conversation. 03:45 Understanding the Caregiver's Role – Dr. Sherman discusses the invisible yet critical role of caregivers and their impact on loved ones' mental health. 08:20 Self-Care for Caregivers – DeAnne shares personal experiences and actionable self-care strategies for those supporting others. 14:10 Addressing Mental Health Stigma – A discussion about breaking down barriers to open conversations around mental health and trauma. 20:05 Advocacy and Empowerment – How the Shermans empower families through workshops, mentoring, and community involvement. 27:15 Family Stories and Lessons Learned – Personal anecdotes that highlight the strength and resilience required in caregiving. 35:30 Tools and Resources for Caregivers – Dr. Sherman talks about their co-authored books and other supportive resources for families. 42:00 Final Thoughts and Encouragement – Closing the conversation with a message of hope and unity for caregivers and families.

Divorce can be especially difficult when one partner has a serious mental illness, such as bipolar disorder or psychotic disorders. The mood swings, erratic behavior, and episodes of psychosis can make communication, decision-making, and co-parenting challenging, adding stress to an already complex process. For those navigating divorce, balancing compassion for a partner's mental health with the need for personal safety is crucial. In this episode, we're joined by Julie A. Fast, a leading expert on bipolar and psychotic disorders, and author of Loving Someone with Bipolar Disorder & Psychotic Disorders: Understanding and Helping Your Partner. Julie shares practical advice on managing relationships affected by mental illness, offering insights into setting boundaries, protecting your mental health, and navigating divorce and custody issues. If you're dealing with mental illness in a relationship, this episode is packed with essential tips for finding stability and support. Connect with Julie: Website: https://juliefast.com/ Join the Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/TheStableBed/ Be the Winner of the Book Free Gift: Email admin@journeybeyonddivorce.com you mental health story and you will immediately be entered to win one of Julie's books. Winner to be announced on January 6th 2025 Follow Julie on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/Juliefast/ Journey Beyond Divorce Resources: Book a Free Rapid Relief Call: http://rapidreliefcall.com  Follow JBD on Instagram: @journey_beyond_divorce A word from our sponsors: Soberlink is a revolutionary tool designed to support individuals in their journey to sobriety. As a leading provider of remote alcohol monitoring, Soberlink offers a secure and reliable solution that helps people stay accountable and transparent in their recovery process. We're grateful for Soberlink's commitment to enhancing the recovery process and providing valuable resources to our listeners. Learn more about how Soberlink can make a difference in your journey at www.soberlink.com/jbd ======= TalkingParents provides a comprehensive platform designed to simplify co-parenting and enhance communication between parents. With secure messaging, a shared calendar, and features for tracking parenting time, TalkingParents ensures that all important details and agreements are documented and accessible.  We're grateful for TalkingParents' support in simplifying co-parenting and enhancing communication for our listeners. Discover how TalkingParents can bring clarity and organization to your co-parenting journey at www.talkingparents.com/jbd  

On the Emmy- and Peabody-winning series “The Bear,” Liza Colón-Zayas plays Tina Marrero, a cook at the Chicago restaurant at the center of the story. Tina and her fellow workers are in a constant struggle for the survival of their restaurant, and they fight just as fiercely with one another. Only at rare moments do we see them drop the tough exterior and show one another love or respect.Today, Colón-Zayas reads “A Web Between Her Body and Mine,” by Karen Paul. It's a Modern Love essay about two friends who also met at work, but have a different kind of bond: Karen has no problem showing affection to her best friend, Miriam. But after Miriam has a terrible accident, Karen finds herself in uncharted territory, not certain when, or how, to support her. It's a story Colón-Zayas says she relates to personally, and her reaction to it takes her by surprise.