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Welcome to our closing episode for the mental health month! We are often drawn to narcissists due to a combination of complex psychological factors. Their charismatic charm, confidence, and seemingly larger-than-life presence can initially captivate us. Unfortunately, this attraction often leads to a painful cycle of manipulation, emotional abuse, and neglect, as narcissists prioritize their own needs above all else.Today, Violetta starts the episode by defining what is a narcissist and the characteristics to look out for. She proceeds with enumerating the different mind games narcissistic people often do to trick us into believing they genuinely care and other character traits to help us spot if we are dealing with one. And finally, she ends it with the most common reasons why many find narcissistic people attractive. If you want to be featured on the next episode, send an email to press@daddyissuesla.com or call Violetta at 424-278-4268 and leave an anonymous voicemail!Advertise with Almost Adulting at Gumball.fm KITSCH - Get 30% off of your order by visiting https://myKITSCh.com/adultingZOCDOC - Find your local doctor by visiting www.zocdoc.com/adultingNEBULA9 - Visit https://nebula9vodka.com/ and use code ADULTING to get 10% off of your order What to Listen For:00:00 Intro02:13 Let's talk about the narcissist in your life05:53 Five mind games narcissists play17:46 A story about a narcissist21:12 Other things to look out for24:28 Reasons why you keep attracting narcissistic peopleGet more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
Welcome to another Benson Knows Best! Dealing with a painful breakup can be an arduous and emotionally challenging experience. To navigate this difficult time, it is crucial to prioritize self-care and emotional healing.Today, Violetta is back and this time she's going to talk about how to deal with a guy who used to make you smile but is now losing interest in you. She will also share a story from a caller who is grieving a massive breakup and what you can do to heal from the heartbreak and get your power back. If you want to be featured on the next episode, send an email to press@daddyissuesla.com or call Violetta at 424-278-4268 and leave an anonymous voicemail!Advertise with Almost Adulting at Gumball.fm KITSCH - Get 30% off of your order by visiting https://myKITSCh.com/adultingZOCDOC - Find your local doctor by visiting www.zocdoc.com/adultingNEBULA9 - Visit https://nebula9vodka.com/ and use code ADULTING to get 10% off of your order What to Listen For:00:00 Intro02:05 Update on the guys I kissed during the Kentucky Derby03:33 How to respond to a guy who's losing interest?08:35 Men from my past have been showing up12:05 Story #1: Grieving a full on breakup18:46 Tips on how to heal from a breakup20:36 Story #2: He was obsessed with me one day, he pulled away the next day24:28 Change your perspective when talking about yourselfGet more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
TW: Self harmWhy is self-love crucial for a fulfilling life? One answer lies in the transformative power of healthy living. Embracing self-love means nourishing our bodies, minds, and souls with the care they deserve. When we prioritize our well-being, engaging in regular exercise, consuming nutritious foods, and practicing mindfulness, we cultivate a profound connection with ourselves. Today on Almost Adulting, Violetta welcomes Pursuit of Wellness host and Bloom Nutrition founder Mari Llewellyn. Mari's journey to self betterment started when she finally decided to heal her body and mind through consuming a healthy diet and the continuous pursuit of wellness. She also shares her episodes of self harm, dealing with shame, and why showing up for yourself is the best form of self love. Advertise with Almost Adulting at Gumball.fm ETSY: Use code: NEW for 10% off of your first purchase. Visit https://www.etsy.com/NOCD - Go to https://www.treatmyocd.com/ to book a free call today What to Listen For:00:00 Intro01:28 Leading an unhealthy life during college05:56 Self harm 09:43 Creating a life full of positivity11:40 Triggers and self harm episodes13:25 Self value14:54 Dealing with shame18:20 Advice for your younger self20:33 Living a mediocre life27:49 Shedding weight and getting fit29:49 Showing up for yourself31:08 PCOS36:38 Hormonal healing39:43 Founding Bloom42:58 Just keep tryingConnect with Mari on:https://www.instagram.com/marillewellyn/https://www.tiktok.com/@marillewellyn https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCAUN0lbKJFUVzrys9qtgbdw https://bloomnu.com/ https://open.spotify.com/show/0xKOhJLfnQTGkWqFSodeCA Get more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/ https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissues See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
Welcome back, Besties! Today, Violetta is back with another Confession Corner episode. But this time, she will be sharing her experience when she attended the Kentucky Derby 2023. From her flight, hotel accommodation, and getting some Influencer VIP experience to making out with two guys and not ending up having s*x with both of them because this girl decided to become a celibate. There's more to this trip than just watching the race so tune in to find out more! If you want to be featured on the next Confession Corner call Violet at 424-278-4268 and leave an anonymous voicemail!Advertise with Almost Adulting at Gumball.fm What to Listen For:00:00 Introduction03:11 How did I get into the Kentucky Derby?10:48 I missed my ghost hunt trip 15:24 Day1 of the derby21:18 Gala night26:32 Hot and heavy make out30:02 He made it a point to be around me the whole time38:11 I went to the Jack Harlow party39:19 The sexual attraction was intense41:43 My flight back home got delayed48:09 One thing I did not enjoy in the eventGet more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissues See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
Welcome back!! This is part 2 of the Change Your Perspective week, where we talk about changing your perspective as part of mental health month! Last Tuesday, we talked about how we can look at goodbyes differently. This time, we will talk about ghosting. Today, Violetta gives us a different perspective on the question commonly asked, “Why did he ghost me?” Aside from breaking down the reasons why ghosting happens in a lot of relationships, Violetta also shares tips to turn the tables around and make him chase after you, instead of you chasing after him. Advertise with Almost Adulting at Gumball.fm NOCD - Go to https://www.treatmyocd.com/ to book a free call todayNEBULA9 - Visit nebula9vodka.com and use code ADULTING to get 10% off of your orderWhat to Listen For:00:00 Intro02:16 Why did he ghost me?03:54 There's a few reason why someone ghosts you06:42 People take a gamble when they leave you10:03 Make up possible scenarios in your head 14:48 Three simple ways to get over a heartache20:22 It's not actually about the person who left22:31 Listen to that music that hits differentGet more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
Welcome to a brand new Benson Knows Best episode!! This week is all about changing your perspective as part of the second week of mental health month! Were starting the week with discussing goodbyes and ending the week with ghosting. Today, Violetta talks about letting go and saying goodbye to the person you think was for you but was never the right person for you to love. We will hear the story of a 2-year relationship and how the woman struggled to let go of a man who loved himself more than her. Listen in to find out the truth about painful goodbyes and why doing it now is better than later.Advertise with Almost Adulting at Gumball.fm NOCD - Go to https://www.treatmyocd.com/ to book a free call todayNEBULA9 - Visit nebula9vodka.com and use code ADULTING to get 10% off of your orderWhat to Listen For:00:00 Intro02:27 I was seeing a man for 2 years but he never committed11:58 My mom got cheated by her first husband15:08 Why doesn't he want me?17:46 Goodbyes can feel less painful when… Get more content on:@almostadulting on Instagram@violetbenson on Instagram@daddyissues_ on InstagramYouTubeSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
In today's episode Emily interviews Terri Cole and the two of them discuss all things boundaries. Terri Cole is a licensed psychotherapist and relationship expert based in New York. She is the author of ‘Boundary Boss: The Essential Guide to Talk True, Be Seen, and (Finally) Live Free' and the founder of several programs, including Real Love Revolution, Boundary Bootcamp, and Crushing Codependency. Before becoming an expert in love, boundaries, and codependency, Terri spent years as a bi-coastal talent agent negotiating endorsement contracts for supermodels and celebrities. However, her eventual disenchantment with the world of entertainment led her to make a career change in her 30s and become a psychotherapist and empowerment expert. Her mission has been to help women live self-determined lives that they love by teaching them how to establish and maintain healthy boundaries with ease and create and sustain vibrant relationships. Over the past two decades, Terri has worked with a wide range of individuals, including international pop stars, athletes, Broadway performers, TV personalities, thought leaders, and Fortune 500 CEOs. She empowers a global community of over 800,000 individuals across 189 countries each week through her illuminating videos. articles and blog posts, therapeutic meditations, online courses, and popular podcast, The Terri Cole Show. Terri's approach integrates practical psychology with eastern mindfulness practices, resulting in a unique blend that allows her to simplify complex psychological concepts for her clients and students. Her gift lies in making these concepts not only accessible but also actionable, leading to sustainable change. Recognized as an expert therapist and master life coach, she has appeared on popular shows such as GMA3, The Doctors, and NBC News Daily, as well as being featured on the Real Housewives and hundreds of podcasts. She is a contributor to major publications including The Huffington Post, Well+Good, Oprah Daily, and Shondaland, and has been highlighted in People Magazine, The New York Times, Women's Day, Glamour, Elle, Forbes, Vogue, Cosmopolitan, CNN, and Self. COME TO AN EVOLVE RETREAT THIS YEAR! www.evolvewithemilyretreats.com In today's episode you will hear about: What boundaries are and what they are not Why boundaries are the loving way to interact with others How your upbringing impacts your understanding of boundaries How to know when a boundary is needed & how to set it How people pleasing is unloving Different categories of Boundary offenders Boundary Destroyers & how they're the most painful relationships Scripts to use to set boundaries How to identify love bombing No one's trauma excuses their behavior towards you Connect with Terri here: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/terricole/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/user/terricoleny Podcast: https://terricole.com/itunes book website: boundarybossbook.com Connect with Emily Here: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/emilyhayden/ https://linktr.ee/emilyhayden TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@emilyhayden_ Subscribe to The Evolve With Emily Show here: Spotify: https://spoti.fi/3v10YPs iTunes: https://apple.co/3aqW5Ye Soundcloud: https://bit.ly/3dtNINp
We often project our limits onto other people because it can be difficult to recognize and confront our own limitations. By projecting our limitations onto others, we may feel a temporary sense of relief or justification for our own shortcomings. However, this type of behavior can be harmful both to ourselves and those around us, as it can limit our personal growth and prevent us from seeing the full potential in others. Today on Almost Adulting, Violetta welcomes the one and only Jay Shetty. Jay Shetty is a New York Times best-selling author, podcaster, former monk, and motivational speaker. He spent several years as a monk in India, where he learned about mindfulness, meditation, and spirituality. Jay's work focuses on personal development, mindfulness, and self-improvement. He also hosts a popular podcast called "On Purpose with Jay Shetty," where he interviews various guests on topics related to personal growth and spirituality. Together with Jay, Violetta opens the door to being more in-tune with yourself as she and Jay exchange ideas on the limitations we set on ourselves and for others, understanding the different forms of love, why our fears can be defined as unformed boundaries, and how to connect with people with vulnerability and openness. Advertise with Almost Adulting at Gumball.fm TALKSPACE - To match with a licensed therapist today, go to www.talkspace.com/adultingLIFEMD - Visit https://lifemd.com/adulting What to Listen For:00:00 Intro02:15 The journey that took 10 years and the transition had different phases05:08 When we start putting timeline and deadline on where we're at06:13 What's the worst advice you've ever received?07:52 “We project our limits onto other people.”10:46 The three cancers of the mind12:45 The way we change our feelings16:23 The best advice you've ever gotten21:36 When you're starting out, make a lot of quick decisions and move fast28:19 The two lies you can tell yourself33:35 What happens when you carry around unforgiveness36:13 We shouldn't devalue other forms of love38:46 Is unconditional love realistic?41:26 Develop our ability to love as a skill46:16 Fear is just an unformed boundary50:05 Being alone is a great time to get to know yourself53:08 Win or lose together58:52 It's about both of you wanting for it to work01:03:41 The 8 Rules of Love01:06:19 Perfection does not exist01:08:35 Connect with the people who want to connect with youConnect with Jay on:https://jayshetty.me/https://twitter.com/jayshettyhttps://www.instagram.com/jayshetty/https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCbV60AGIHKz2xIGvbk0LLvghttps://twitter.com/jayshetty https://www.tiktok.com/@jayshetty Think Like A Monk8 Rules of LoveGet more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/ https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissues See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
What's the craziest Reddit story you've heard? There are so many wild tales on the platform, from heartwarming and uplifting to downright bizarre and unsettling. Whatever your taste is, there's no shortage of jaw-dropping stories to be found. Today, Violetta's childhood bestie, Kylie, is back! And this time for another Confession Corner - Reddit stories. The girls sit down and react to stories about the accidental discovery of an 11-year old affair of a mom with her husband's friend, incest in different forms and perspective, and discovering that the doctor whom you confided in your most embarrassing s*xual acts with a girl turned out to be that same girl's father. If you want to be featured on the next Confession Corner call Violet at 424-278-4268 and leave an anonymous voicemail!Advertise with Almost Adulting at Gumball.fm What to Listen For:00:00 Introduction01:06 Story #1: My mom's 11-year affair with dad's friend06:51 Story #2: My older brother and I had been sleeping together09:33 Story #3: My boyfriend thinks all women are men's property13:31 LifeHack #1: How to reduce the number of homeless people in your area?14:15 LifeHack #2: How do you avoid an annoying call?15:33 LifeHack #3: Save business cards of people you don't like15:44 LifeHack #4: Buy the cheapest ticket ticket available16:32 LifeHack #5: How to block your spouse from getting a divorce attorney?17:34 LifeHack #6: How do you make the perfect lie?18:10 Story #4: I cheated on my wife and she has postpartum depression 25:00 Story #5: What's the most shocking thing you experienced upon meeting your bf/gf's parents?27:08 Story #6: My friend Steve's b*nging his girlfriend and her family Get more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissues Connect with Kylie on:https://www.instagram.com/ksalerno333/ See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
Episode S3 E11, was inspired by a conversation that I had with a classy, beautiful sisterfriend who finds herself smitten by a handsome, charming man who boomeranged back into her life. One night my friend called me and we talked into the wee hours of the morning about the "situationship" (her word not mines) that she's in. It's natural for a heterosexual woman to desire the attention and companionship of a man. But at what cost do we entertain a man? This is what I talk about in this episode. Btw, my friend granted me permission to share her story. CONNECT WITH DEBORA Want to change your life? Book an Embrace Vulnerability Breakthrough Session My Current Offerings: https://ScheduleTimeWithDeBora.as.me/ Move Abroad Support for Black Women Over 50 https://ScheduleTimeWithDeBora.as.me/MoveAbroad Let's Conquer Loneliness Together: https://ScheduleTimeWithDeBora.as.me/ConquerLoneliness Follow me on IG SistersGatheringtoHealPodcast Do me a favor, if you enjoyed the podcast, please subscribe, share, rate & review. Thank you! Buy me a Coffee. Thank you! Get copies of my books Love Addicted: One Woman's Spiritual Journey Through Emotional Dependency, Why Did He Break Up With Me? Lessons in Love, Loss & Letting Go, and Write That Book! How to Start or Finish the Book You're Meant to Write @ Amazon Go to Sisters Gathering to Heal and grab a copy of 13 Things Black Women Who Love Themselves DON'T Do And remember to love yourself FIRST and love yourself FIERCELY!
Why do men pull away in relationships? This is a common question that many women ask themselves when their partner begins to withdraw emotionally or physically. While there are many reasons why this may happen, it's important for couples to communicate openly and honestly about their feelings and needs in order to address any issues that may be causing a rift in the relationship. Today, Violetta is set on discussing the psychology behind why men pull away, the three steps to deal with the situation when a man pulls away, and how dating can be beautiful and perfect but it's all rainbows and butterflies. It often comes with some form of conflict. Advertise with Almost Adulting at Gumball.fm SHOPIFY - Sign up for $1 per month trial period at www.shopify.com/adulting ZOCDOC - Find your local doctor by visiting www.zocdoc.com/adultingWhat to Listen For:00:00 Introduction00:46 I booked my parents a trip to Israel03:05 When a man pulls away, it feels like a bad romcom05:38 Reason 1: When they feel overwhelmed or uncertain about their feelings06:26 Reason 2: Some men need space07:18 Reason 3: They are unsure of the relationship08:12 Reason 4: The woman is more invested in the relationship09:41 Step #1: Do not go Britney Spears on him13:53 Step #2: Do not chase him15:01 Men and women do things differently15:40 Imagine that your partner is like a stretched rubberband18:20 Punishing a man when he pulls away is not the right approach23:20 Step #3: Focus on yourself33:17 Dating works but it always comes with some form of conflict Get more content on:@almostadulting on Instagram@violetbenson on Instagram@daddyissues_ on InstagramYouTubeSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
Staying at a billionaire's house? That's a dream come true! But girl, don't forget to show your finesse and charm while you're there. Today, Violetta shares a few updates about her life. She starts off with the post-surgery experience after she had her eggs extracted successfully, how it affected her mentally, and what no one tells you about post egg freezing. Then, she talks about her recent trip to Mexico where she stayed at James Packer's $50M house for a weekend - the place, the view, the food, the fun - bombastic side-eye!Advertise with Almost Adulting at Gumball.fm SHOPIFY - Sign up for $1 per month trial period at www.shopify.com/adulting ZOCDOC - Find your local doctor by visiting www.zocdoc.com/adulting What to Listen For:00:00 Intro02:19 I recently finished freezing my eggs08:52 My friend called and said, “Do you wanna go to Mexico with me?”18:24 I don't normally go on vacation20:37 I got to meet the billionaire23:32 Would you rent it for $35,000 - $40, 000 a night?28:53 How do you finesse staying at a billionaire's house?31:57 Other features of the houseGet more content on:@almostadulting on Instagram@violetbenson on Instagram@daddyissues_ on InstagramYouTubeSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
*Happy Hour 132 - LOVE & RELATIONSHIP CORNER ### * We're back this week for out Love & Relationship segment. We'll dive into the question of whether Black men support and protect Black women enough. Do Black Men Love and Protect Black Women enough? Are there instances where they have/need to? Often on twitter, division between black men and women show New Music - Monica & James Fortune, August Alsina, The Weekend Live at SoFi, Terrance Martin Women's History Month
There's something special about growing up alongside someone who knows you so well and has seen you through all of life's ups and downs. Childhood best friends are the ones who stick with you through thick and thin, who know your secrets and your dreams, and who always have your back. Today, Violetta is joined by her childhood best friend, Kylie Gerber. The duo are all about good laughs and toothy grins as they reminisce childhood experiences, from dating the most toxic guys and crying over horrible breakups to crazy high school drama and throwing a massive party that went out of hand. If you want to be featured on the next Confession Corner call Violet at 424-278-4268 and leave an anonymous voicemail!Advertise with Almost Adulting at Gumball.fm ETSY: Use code: NEW for 10% off of your first purchase. Visit https://www.etsy.com/ What to Listen For:00:00 Introduction01:59 How did we meet and become friends?11:55 What most people don't know about me?14:31 What's your favorite high school memory experience?20:54 We always sneak out and go to Denny's23:22 My favorite memory of Kylie29:03 Kylie's also my first kiss30:04 Funny or embarrassing moment from childhood34:17 My favorite memory of Kylie, which I wasn't even there35:51 Here is something my best friend taught me42:48 When we started dating our second boyfriends46:16 “Give her space.”48:21 Have you ever had an embarrassing moment you still cringe about?49:07 Another funny story with Kylie51:50 The secret to a lasting relationship59:53 Our second biggest fightGet more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissues See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
Life is like a game of Jenga, you never know which block is going to make the whole thing come crashing down. One minute you're on top of the world, and the next you're wondering how you ended up in a pile of rubble. But that's the beauty of life, isn't it? The unpredictability keeps things interesting and makes every day a new adventure, or in some instances, a misadventure. Today, Violetta listens to brand new stories from Reddit. One talks about falling in love with his student ten years younger than him while the other is about a 70 year old grandpa who gets tangled in what's probably the most unrealistic opportunity when he meets with a 20-year old babysitter one evening. The stories just keep getting wild so stick around and see how intense these stories can be. If you want to be featured on the next Confession Corner call Violet at 424-278-4268 and leave an anonymous voicemail!Advertise with Almost Adulting at Gumball.fm ETSY: What to Listen For:00:00 Introduction01:32 Story #1: The accidental death of Ronald Opus06:52 Story #2: She was 13 and I was 2314:45 Story #3: The jealous snaky best friend20:56 Story #4: My 70 year old grandpa's gameGet more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissues See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
Have you ever found yourself trapped in a cycle of self-hate, unable to escape the negative thoughts and feelings that consume you? It's a painful and difficult place to be, but it's not a permanent one. With time, patience, and effort, you can break free from the grip of self-hate and learn to love yourself fully and completely. Today on Almost Adulting, Violetta welcomes Lainey Molnar - a digital artist with thousands of followers online who draws women empowerment comics to liberate women from the immense societal pressure and to help all of us heal and grow through (self-)love, kindness, and acceptance. Violetta and Lainey share their most vulnerable experiences starting from growing through a long phase of self-hate that became debilitating, self-doubt that made you feel less and ugly and unworthy of love, to the double standards of hookup culture and breaking free from an abusive relationship.Advertise with Almost Adulting at Gumball.fm KITSCH - Get 30% off of your order by visiting https://myKITSCh.com/adulting What to Listen For:00:00 Intro01:59 “I live all over the world…”05:50 How do you say it in Hungarian?06:49 When did you start illustrating women's issues?09:33 Advocating for women's rights13:49 How can you tell you're existing in your feminine energy?19:00 Don't hate yourself too much22:29 Your inadequacy demon28:14 I used to be an extremely unhappy, self-hating person33:57 We can't just deal with the happy things37:16 Three downsides of hookup culture44:04 Deciding to be a celibate50:50 Keeping yourself safe thru casual sex55:03 Mentally, sexually, and physically abusive partner58:00 Getting out of an abusive relationship01:02:49 Being able to recognize the red flags Connect with Lainey on:https://www.bylainey.com/ https://www.instagram.com/lainey.molnar/https://www.facebook.com/bylaineymolnar/https://www.tiktok.com/@lainey.molnar Get more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/ https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissues See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
Many of us may picture our career, athletic or weight loss goals in our minds' eyes and imagine what it may be like to achieve them. However, we may not be so inclined to do this kind of work when it comes to love and relationships. Listen to today's show to learn how functional imagery training can help you in all areas of your life, including your relationships. In this episode with Joanna Grover we discuss relationship advice topics that include: Understand how imagery shapes our behavior Getting clear on who you are and who you want to be to help achieve your goals Using mental cues to interrupt negative thought patterns The importance of living a live in alignment with your core values How to visualize the changes you want to make in your life so you're up to 5x more likely to actually make those changes How to tap into your body's wisdom to help make better decisions And much more! Sponsors Dipsea is an audio app full of short, sexy stories and guided sessions that are designed to turn you on and help you get in touch with yourself. Get a 30 day free trial when you go to DipseaStories.com/IDO. Foria is an innovative health and sexual wellness company that designs all-natural sexual intimacy products for women, people with vulvas, and the people who love them. Get 20% off your first order by visiting foriawellness.com/ido. Apostrophe offers personalized, clinically proven treatment plans crafted by a board-certified dermatologist. Get prescription-strength skincare for acne, rosacea and more without ever leaving home. Get your first visit for only $5 by visiting apostrophe.com/ido when you use our code IDO. Spark My Relationship Course: Get $100 off our online course. Visit SparkMyRelationship.com/Unlock for our special offer just for our I Do Podcast listeners! If you love this episode (and our podcast!), would you mind giving us a review in iTunes? It would mean the world to us and we promise it only takes a minute. Many thanks in advance! – Chase & Sarah Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Egg freezing is an increasingly popular option for women who want to preserve their fertility and have children later in life. By freezing their eggs, women can extend their reproductive lifespan and increase their chances of having a healthy pregnancy in the future. Today, Violetta shares her incredible egg freezing journey - from doing an extensive research about the pros and cons of the process and finding the right doctor to day one of prepping her body before egg collection and the changes she's been through. She also answers the most common questions from women who are interested in egg freezing. Advertise with Almost Adulting at Gumball.fm What to Listen For:00:00 Intro01:52 My egg freezing process06:29 When you aren't ready to have kids yet10:09 I'm still taking Adderall10:27 The cost11:21 Why freeze your eggs?12:38 Doctor visit14:35 The shots16:51 Things you can't do19:35 Emotional mood20:37 The worst injection24:05 Vitamins24:30 Other side effects24:42 Why do we not moan when doing an ultrasound? Get more content on:@almostadulting on Instagram@violetbenson on Instagram@daddyissues_ on InstagramYouTubeSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
Listen, we all need a good reminder every once in a while; myself included. This is for you if you want to reconnect to your sensuality, your feel good place or just feel re-inspired about how easy it can be to build intimacy with your self or your lover. If you want to create deeper intimacy NOW, go grab the 14 days to hotter intimacy E-bookCome find me in the Getting intimate Facebook group! Subscribe to my email list for a juicy gift at https://www.azariamenezes.com/your-pussy-is-a-portal-to-healing or come find me on Instagram @azaria.menezes and say Hi. I'd love to hear your questions so I can answer them on future episodes!
Manifesting the love you deserve starts with knowing your worth and setting clear intentions. Take the time to reflect on what you truly want in a relationship and focus on the positive aspects you want to attract. Today, Violetta shares how she manifested the ideal guy she wanted to date through the love letter method. This method of manifesting what you want, although silly-sounding at first, is worth a shot. Who knows, the partner you've been looking for might be that guy you met at yesterday's dinner party.Advertise with Almost Adulting at Gumball.fm TALKSPACE - To match with a licensed therapist today, go to www.talkspace.com/adultingWhat to Listen For:00:00 Introduction01:02 Manifesting - The Love Letter Method04:49 How can you look for a partner when you hate men?10:07 “The love letter I wrote a few months back…”14:21 You deserve love18:43 Setting an intention and getting obsessed over someone Get more content on:@almostadulting on Instagram@violetbenson on Instagram@daddyissues_ on InstagramYouTubeSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
This week I'm talking to a very special guest. One who I go way, way back with and knows the depths of my grief...my boyfriend Joe.Joe has been a previous guest on the podcast many moons ago in season 1! We've dragged Joe back for a part 2 on grief, love and relationships. Joe and I reflect on these years spent together and navigating through this thing called grief. How it's changed for the better and worse, what we've learnt and how we're trying to grow together through it all.Towards the end, we have a crack at answering some of your questions for us. We hope we did alright!Thanks Joe, for always being a good sport, a great partner and an even better laugh. Big love,Amber xxFollow and be part of The Grief Gang community:Join our patreon Unpacking Grief: patreon.com/UnpackingGriefInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/thegriefgangpodcast/?hl=enTwitter: https://twitter.com/thegriefgang?ref_src=twsrc%5Egoogle%7Ctwcamp%5Eserp%7Ctwgr%5EauthorFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheGriefGangYoutube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCCpe5pGmjvqPFteN4L7T_ZATikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thegriefgangWebsite: https://www.thegriefgang.com/Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/the-grief-gang. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
This month, we jumped into Reddit and picked out the most WTF confessions. While the act of cheating can take many different forms, the underlying motivations and consequences of cheating remain consistent across all situations. One of the primary reasons why people cheat is a lack of satisfaction or fulfillment in their current situation.Violetta is back and ready as she sits down to listen to some of the most unbelievable and somehow outrageous relationship confessions on the internet. From men complaining about their wife's weight just right after she had given birth to cheating men who seem to have never learned their lessons, these confessions will leave you sighing in disbelief! If you want to be featured on the next Confession Corner call Violet at 424-278-4268 and leave an anonymous voicemail!Advertise with Almost Adulting at Gumball.fm TALKSPACE: To match with a licensed therapist today, go to www.talkspace.com/adulting What to Listen For:00:00 Introduction02:04 Confession #1: She loves me05:02 Confession #2: Her body is not the same as before10:41 Confession #3: She gained a lot of weight18:56 Confession #4: She ruined the movie experienceGet more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissues See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
Have you ever wondered what it's like to struggle with infertility? Infertility affects millions of people around the world and can be caused by a variety of factors, including age, genetics, medical conditions, and lifestyle choices. Coping with infertility can be a lonely and isolating experience, but it's important for those struggling to know that they're not alone. Today on Almost Adulting, Violetta welcomes Dr. Shahin Ghadir. As a founding partner of Southern California Reproductive Center, Dr. Ghadiris board-certified in both Obstetrics and Gynecology and Reproductive Endocrinology and Infertility. He is currently an assistant clinical professor in the department of Obstetrics and Gynecology at the David Geffen School of Medicine at UCLA and at the Keck School of Medicine at USC.Dr. Ghadir debunks the most common myths about egg freezing, the truth about infertility in women and men and the causes behind it, and what it takes for an IVF pregnancy to succeed. Advertise with Almost Adulting at Gumball.fm What to Listen For:00:00 Intro01:45 Fertility affects both men and women02:28 The most common infertility causes04:09 Biggest myths in the use of birth control05:15 Infertility in men07:20 Fertility is different for every woman08:18 Choosing to delay having children10:49 Myth #1: It's only for women who wants to delay motherhood17:47 Myth #2: You need to freeze a lot of eggs19:23 Myth #3: Frozen eggs last forever20:25 The success rate of egg freezing27:26 The average cost of the entire process28:42 The biggest side effects31:14 Success stories33:47 Which couples are a good candidate for IVF?33:24 What is IVF?38:39 Who undergoes IVF?39:17 Is IVF unethical?40:19 Emotional impact of IVF on couples43:27 Helping women ovulateConnect with Dr. Ghadir on:https://drghadir.com/https://www.instagram.com/drshahinghadir/https://www.scrcivf.com/ https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-fertile-life-with-dr-shahin-ghadir/id1558042643 Get more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/ https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissues See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.