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Let's be honest: dating can be a trial. For a lot of men, dating isn't something you enjoy, it's something you endure. From trying to meet women, to getting a number, to actually getting women out on a date... it's more like pulling teeth than meeting a potential partner. Today, I want to give you all some advice I wish I had gotten back when I first started dating. Because, if you’re checking out these episodes, then the odds are good that, frankly, you think dating… kinda sucks. And in fairness: you’re not entirely wrong. Dating for men can be kind of awful. But not for the reasons you might think.  In fact, the biggest reason why dating can suck is because of how much harder we men make it for OURSELVES and in the process, make ourselves miserable… even when we think we’re doing everything right.  So let's look at 5 reasons why dating can SUCK for men… and what you can do about it. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: Why men have a conflict mentality when it comes to dating The secret to passing women's "tests" Why so much of what you believe about women, dating and sex is WRONG. How guys get caught in a cycle of dating failure Why you're taking the wrong advice about how to meet women ...and so much more. RELATED LINKS: How To Meet Women, Effortlessly What Men Need To Know About Attraction The Truth About Casual Sex (And Where To Get It)  This Is Why Online Dating Sucks The Fear of Being Invisible  The Love Gap  Faking It: The Lies Women Tell About Sex and the Truths They Reveal What Do Women Want: Adventures in the Science of Female Sexual Desire  Simplified Dating Transcript available at doctornerdlove.com Don’t forget to subscribe and review us on iTunes , Stitcher, Spotify and on YouTube. Like the podcast? Become a Dr. NerdLove patron at Patreon.com/DrNerdLove Want more dating advice? Check out my books at www.www.doctornerdlove.com/books

The most magnetic, charming and well liked people aren't popular because of their looks, their money, or their bodies. People like them because of they make others feel and the value that they bring into other peoples' lives. These 5 qualities will help you create stronger, more profound connections with others, teach you to be instantly charismatic and become incredibly well liked by everyone around you. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: Why genuine likeability and personal magnetism are rare qualities, even in Hollywood Why sharing the spotlight makes you more popular How triggering one emotion in people makes them like you, instantly Why passion is so attractive in others How authenticity and vulnerability make people want to spend more time with you ...and so much more. RELATED LINKS: These Are The Things You Only Learn When Your Friend Dies Popularity 101 The Value of Authenticity  The "It" Factor  How To Be Charming  Transcript available at doctornerdlove.com Don’t forget to subscribe and review us on iTunes , Stitcher, Spotify and on YouTube. Like the podcast? Become a Dr. NerdLove patron at Patreon.com/DrNerdLove Want more dating advice? Check out my books at www.www.doctornerdlove.com/books

Right now, we are living through the most stressful, even outright traumatic year that most of have ever faced in our lives. Even if you’re in a relatively good place, we’re all getting hit with bad news, more stories of police violence, political corruption, the continuing pandemic, even potential fallout from the election. It can be incredibly hard to have a positive attitude and solid confidence. It can be hard not to look around and say “how am I supposed to have the strength to keep going?"  But you need that emotional strength, powerful confidence and positive attitude more than ever. And the first step is to recognize the things that are stealing your happiness and sabotaging your life and learn how to build the emotional strength it takes to persevere, that appealing confidence and the positive attitude that can help build strong relationships and help you face and overcome the challenges in your life that seem impossible. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: Why one simple word can ruin your self-confidence How we convince ourselves that we're powerless... when we're not The mistake we make that makes us miserable... no matter what we do How we talk ourselves out of success Why your rivals can be your greatest allies ... and so much more.  RELATED LINKS: The 5 Things You Need To Know To Succeed At Dating  What "Forged In Fire" Can Teach Us About Manhood  Unlearning Helplessness  You Are Your Own Worst Enemy  "Your Attitude Controls Your Dating Success"  Transcript available at doctornerdlove.com Don’t forget to subscribe and review us on iTunes , Stitcher, Spotify and on YouTube. Like the podcast? Become a Dr. NerdLove patron at Patreon.com/DrNerdLove Want more dating advice? Check out my books at www.www.doctornerdlove.com/books

Have you struggled with relationships that were bad for you? Maybe you’ve been in a toxic relationship with somebody who was always manipulating you into ways of getting what they wanted, leaving you feeling like a doormat. Maybe you had friends who treated you badly or would pressure you into going along with jokes at your expense or doing things that made you uncomfortable or went against your values. Or perhaps you’ve had family members who would leverage guilt or reciprocity to make you do whatever they want, even if it’s a huge inconvenience to you or emotionally draining or even damaging. Or you were constantly being made to feel as though your interests, desires or wants were unimportant or inconvenient… even if it’s simply “don’t treat me like sh*t.” One of the most important things you can do to ensure you have strong, healthy relationships — with your wife or girlfriend, your friends, your family or even your co-workers — is to have strong boundaries. Today, I'm going to teach you how to build strong boundaries... and how to enforce them. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: What one viral video teaches us about toxic relationships Why abusers and toxic people prey on people with weak boundaries How abusers trick you into lowering your boundaries for them How to push back when people push against your boundaries The most important part of maintaining healthy relationships ...and so much more RELATED LINKS: What Will You Put Up With? Boundaries, Self-Esteem and Dating Enforcing Your Boundaries How Do I Avoid Abusive Relationships? How Do I Get My Family To Respect My Boundaries? Transcript available at doctornerdlove.com Don’t forget to subscribe and review us on iTunes , Stitcher, Spotify and on YouTube. Like the podcast? Become a Dr. NerdLove patron at Patreon.com/DrNerdLove Want more dating advice? Check out my books at www.www.doctornerdlove.com/books

Growing up, I knew I was struggling with things that other people seemed to be able to do without a second thought. I thought I was just lazy, that I needed to be more disciplined and to take things more seriously. But it never worked, and I never understood why. Now, after a lifetime of searching, I finally have the answers.  This week, I want to talk with you about my experiences with having been diagnosed with ADHD as an adult, how it can affect you and your relationships, and my experiences with getting diagnosed and getting treated.  Here's what happened. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: What people get wrong about ADHD Why so many people don't get diagnosed or treated when they need it How having ADHD can affect your confidence and your relationships Why people with ADHD have anxiety and depression How getting treatment has changed my life ...and so much more. RELATED LINKS:  Overcome Your Fear of Rejection - https://www.doctornerdlove.com/overcome-your-fear-of-rejection/ Top 5 Dating Mistakes — https://www.doctornerdlove.com/top-5-dating-mistakes/ This is What Happened After I Tried Meditation for 30 Days — https://www.doctornerdlove.com/this-is-what-happened-after-30-days-of-meditation/ You Must Unlearn What You Have Learned — https://www.doctornerdlove.com/how-to-unlearn-what-you-have-learned/ When It's Time To Ask For Help — https://www.doctornerdlove.com/when-its-time-to-ask-for-help/ ADHD In Adults — https://www.additudemag.com/adhd-in-adults/ Transcript available at doctornerdlove.com Don’t forget to subscribe and review us on iTunes , Stitcher, Spotify and on YouTube. Like the podcast? Become a Dr. NerdLove patron at Patreon.com/DrNerdLove Want more dating advice? Check out my books at www.www.doctornerdlove.com/books

The #1 reason why so many men struggle with dating is very simple: they don't know what it takes to be successful with women. Attraction isn't a checklist; having all the right "stats" isn't going to magically make you attractive to women. Learning to succeed with women isn't about having the right car or the right body, it's about learning how to become your best, most desirable self.  That's why this week, I'm going to teach you the 5 things YOU need to know in order to succeed with women, become the man you've always wanted to be and build the love life you've always wanted.  SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: Why the men who have everything women want still struggle with dating How to build your dream life... by working backwards from success Why attraction ISN'T about your body, your height, or your income How to escape the trap of your comfort zone Why your own brain tricks you into failing with women ...and so much more. RELATED LINKS: NerdLove Academy Merchandise Book a Private Coaching Session Level Up: Facing Your Dating Fears  How To Take Your Love Life To The Next Level  "I Took The Red Pill. Why Am I Still Not Happy?"  What Women Wish Men Knew About Attraction  The Value of Failure  Transcript available at doctornerdlove.com Don’t forget to subscribe and review us on iTunes , Stitcher, Spotify and on YouTube. Like the podcast? Become a Dr. NerdLove patron at Patreon.com/DrNerdLove Want more dating advice? Check out my books at www.www.doctornerdlove.com/books

Rejection hurts... but the fear of rejection can often hurt even worse. In fact, when we give into the fear of rejection, we often set up a pattern that can affect us throughout our lives. Rejections we've experienced in the past can end up affecting us NOW. When we give into the fear of rejection, we can end up reliving that fear, long after it's happened... feeling the pain as though it's happening to us again, right now. When that happens, it becomes a way that we almost give up our free will; life becomes a series of steps that you take to try to AVOID feeling the discomfort and pain of rejection. It's time to learn how to break the cycle and learn how to stop letting your fear control you. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: What science can teach us about rejection and rejection sensitivity How our brains work against us and keep us in a cycle of fear and avoidance Why rejection hurts, even years later How a fear of rejection can CAUSE the very rejection we're trying to avoid How understanding your body can help you conquer your fear of rejection ...and so much more. RELATED LINKS:   Face Your Dating Fears Overcome Your Fear of Rejection A Man's Guide To Improving Your Emotional IQ This is What Happens After Meditating for 30 Days How To Deal With the Awkward Rejection Sensitivity and the Defensive Motivational System: Insights From the Startle Response to Rejection Cues How ADHD Ignites Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria The Social Skills Survival Pack  Playlist Transcript available at doctornerdlove.com Send your dating advice questions to doc@doctornerdlove.com Don’t forget to subscribe and review us on iTunes , Stitcher and on YouTube. Like the podcast? Become a Dr. NerdLove patron at Patreon.com/DrNerdLove Want more dating advice? Check out my books at www.www.doctornerdlove.com/books  

What makes one relationship last, while another falls apart? Why do you seem to have found your dream relationship, only to have it turn into a nightmare? Your partner may seem perfect, but it takes more than shallow commonalities to make a relationship work. Just because things are amazing in the beginning doesn't mean that everything is going to work out on it's own. If you've ever wondered whether she's "the one", or you want to know if your relationship has what it takes to go the distance, then you need to answer these questions.  SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: Why people end up in cycles of relationships that SEEM great, but fall apart within six months How "New Relationship Energy" can hide relationship destroying flaws What you REALLY need to have in common to make a relationship last Why the way you fight may be more important than your "love languages" What sexual compatibility REALLY means ... and so much more. RELATED LINKS: Are You Ready For A Girlfriend? — https://www.doctornerdlove.com/are-you-ready-for-a-girlfriend/ Is She Right For You? — https://www.doctornerdlove.com/is-she-right-for-you/ 5 Questions You Should Ask Before You Start Your Next Relationship — https://www.doctornerdlove.com/5-questions-you-should-ask-when-you-start-relationship/ Are You Sexually Compatible? — https://www.doctornerdlove.com/are-you-sexually-compatible/ How To Have The "Defining The Relationship" Talk — https://www.doctornerdlove.com/defining-the-relationship/ Transcript available at doctornerdlove.com Don’t forget to subscribe and review us on iTunes , Stitcher and on YouTube. Like the podcast? Become a Dr. NerdLove patron at Patreon.com/DrNerdLove Want more dating advice? Check out my books at www.www.doctornerdlove.com/books

It's very easy to feel like you’re forever going to be defined by your worst decisions or your biggest mistakes. But while you can't change your past, you can change your future. By examining one of the best redemption arcs in modern media, we can learn how Prince Zuko overcame trauma and earned his redemption... and find how we can learn to find our own in the process. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: How our response to trauma can shape our lives... and why it can transform us into different people Why a desire for acceptance can turn people into villains How to make a break with the past to build a new future Why it's so hard to make amends Why you have to let go of your desire to be "right" ...and so much more RELATED LINKS: How Do You Find Redemption? — https://www.doctornerdlove.com/find-redemption/ How Toxic Masculinity Hurts Everyone — https://www.doctornerdlove.com/toxic-masculinity/ Recovering From Failure — https://www.doctornerdlove.com/recovering-from-failure/ Why It's So Hard To Be A Good Man — https://www.doctornerdlove.com/why-is-it-so-hard-to-be-a-good-man/ Solving The Incel Phenomenon — https://www.doctornerdlove.com/incel-phenomenon/ Transcript available at doctornerdlove.com Don’t forget to subscribe and review us on iTunes , Stitcher and on YouTube. Like the podcast? Become a Dr. NerdLove patron at Patreon.com/DrNerdLove Want more dating advice? Check out my books at www.www.doctornerdlove.com/books

One reason why a lot of guys have a hard time meeting women is because they’ve put ALL of their focus on ONLY talking to women, and even then, only women that they’re attracted to. The truth is that the most popular and socially successful men — the ones who do the best with women — tend to be the ones who talk to everyone. Part of the secret to their success is that they know how to connect with people  and build relationships that lead to the results they’re looking for, whether it’s networking, making new friends or meeting and dating new and amazing women. They’re able to start conversations and talk with just about everyone they meet. And today, I'm going to teach you how. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: How you can start a conversation with anyone at any time When you should approach people directly, and when you should use a more indirect approach to start a conversation Why asking a stranger for a favor helps turn them into friends How to get people to come talk to you What the most socially successful people do that makes them instantly magnetic ...and so much more. RELATED LINKS: 5 Signs Women Want You To Approach Them  Never Run Out Of Things To Talk About  How To Get Women To Approach You  5 Secrets to Make People Like You How To Be Charming Transcript available at doctornerdlove.com Don’t forget to subscribe and review us on iTunes , Stitcher and on YouTube. Like the podcast? Become a Dr. NerdLove patron at Patreon.com/DrNerdLove Want more dating advice? Check out my books at www.www.doctornerdlove.com/books

What does it take to turn your life around? How can you learn to recognize negative patterns in your life that are sabotaging your progress? And what does it take to break those patterns and make positive lasting changes? This week, I've invited my friend and coach Arden Leigh of The Repatterning Project to talk about how to recognize the patterns in your life that are holding you back and what it takes to transform yourself so that you can find stronger, healthier and more positive relationships. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: How we create and reinforce patterns in our lives Why certain patterns and behaviors keep you from meeting your needs What your moods and mindfulness can tell you about the patterns in your life How your social circle can help transform your life Why "Is this working for me?" is the most important question you can ask ...and so much more. —————————————— About Arden Leigh: Arden Leigh is the creator and facilitator of The Re-Patterning Project, a course in understanding the human operating system and repatterning trauma imprints and social conditioning in order to achieve creative freedom. Her certifications are in neuro-linguistic programming and TimeLine Therapy. She is also the creator and frontwoman of indie pop rock project Arden and the Wolves, as well as the creator and host of web series Peace Talks. She is currently at work on her next book. Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/ItsMeArdenLeigh Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/ItsMeArdenLeigh The Repatterning Project — therepatterningproject.com Arden and the Wolves — facebook.com/ardenandthewolves ——————————————

Women often say that they want a nice guy, so why do so many of them think that nice guys are THE WORST? The trouble is that Nice Guy's behavior works against them; what they see as positive and respectful is actually pushing people away. Here's why being a Nice Guy drives women away... and why it can be so hard to STOP being a Nice Guy. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: What "Nice Guy" behavior says about them Why "treating her like a queen" is actually unattractive How Nice Guys ruin their relationships The #1 mistake Nice Guys make that "bad boys" don't What it takes to STOP being a nice guy... and why being a jerk isn't the answer ... and so much more. RELATED LINKS:  The Science of Nice Guys and Assholes  Developing An Abundance Mentality Eliminating Neediness Where Do You Get Your Validation? What's Wrong With Being a Nice Guy? FIND YOUR VALUE AND DEVELOP YOUR SELF-CONFIDENCE! GET YOUR FREE WORKSHEET HERE:  http://eepurl.com/dgn7c5 Transcript available at doctornerdlove.com Don’t forget to subscribe and review us on iTunes , Stitcher and on YouTube. Like the podcast? Become a Dr. NerdLove patron at Patreon.com/DrNerdLove Want more dating advice? Check out my books at www.www.doctornerdlove.com/books  

Over the course of my career, I’ve dealt with a lot of people who haven’t had much dating experience — from people who’ve only had one or two girlfriends in their lives to literal 40 year old virgins. They all had in one thing common: they had the same fears, beliefs and anxieties regarding dating and women that made them give up. Here's how to break through your dating fears, conquer your anxiety and overcome your self-limiting beliefs. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: How we project our anxieties onto other people How self-limiting beliefs hold us back Why our brains trick us into giving up Why we give up control so easily How to let go of fear ...and so much more. RELATED LINKS:  Unlearning Helplessness Your Attitude Controls Your Dating Success These Self-Limiting Beliefs are Holding You Back Develop An Abundance Mentality The Value of Failure Transcript available at doctornerdlove.com Don’t forget to subscribe and review us on iTunes , Stitcher and on YouTube. Like the podcast? Become a Dr. NerdLove patron at Patreon.com/DrNerdLove Want more dating advice? Check out my books at www.www.doctornerdlove.com/books

This week, we have a special bonus episode: a live episode where my patrons got to ask me anything — from dating advice to moving to Austin to what shows I've been binging during the lockdown. Plus guest appearances from Mr. Senior Kitty! If you want to take part in the next AMA, be sure to support the podcast by becoming a Dr. NerdLove patron! SIGN UP FOR THE DATING ACCELERATOR PROGRAM Don’t forget to subscribe and review us on iTunes , Stitcher and on YouTube. Like the podcast? Become a Dr. NerdLove patron at Patreon.com/DrNerdLove Want more dating advice? Check out my books at www.www.doctornerdlove.com/books

Sexting and knowing how to flirt over text is a skill that’s invaluable whether you have a friends-with-benefits relationship, a long-distance relationship, or if you and your partner are looking to keep things exciting. In fact, knowing how to start sexting with someone the right way may be one of the most invaluable skills you can develop for keeping the spark in your relationship. But you have to know how to get things started the right way. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: How to lay the groundwork to start sexting with your partner Why the right text can be sexier than any photo What to say to a woman over text to turn her on Why most guys FAIL at sexting What to say to start sharing pictures ... and so much more RELATED LINKS: How to Flirt over Text (Without Being a Creeper) How To Look Good in Photos What Women Want in Men Take The Perfect Tinder Photo F*ck Like A Gentleman SIGN UP FOR THE DATING ACCELERATOR PROGRAM Transcript available at doctornerdlove.com Don’t forget to subscribe and review us on iTunes , Stitcher and on YouTube. Like the podcast? Become a Dr. NerdLove patron at Patreon.com/DrNerdLove Want more dating advice? Check out my books at www.www.doctornerdlove.com/books

How happy are you with your life right now? If you're like most people, you probably have a list of major changes you’ve wanted to make. You may even have looked at the current pandemic as your chance to work on yourself and get your life where you want it to be. Now tell me, how far HAVE you gotten on that list? The odds are not very far. You probably attacked it like a man possessed… only to find your motivation and desire drained away. Now you’re basically back where you started, just more frustrated than before and wondering why you’re such a failure. Except, you’re not a failure. Honestly, you were always going to end up in this situation. Because here's a secret: this was always going to backfire on you because you — like most people — were going about this the wrong way. That's why,. Let's do this. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: What everyone gets wrong about self-improvement Why your problem isn't a lack of discipline or willpower How you accidently sabotage your own progress Why most self-improvement plans fall apart within weeks, if not days How ritual and routine leads to success ... and so much more. RELATED LINKS: The Dating Accelerator Program Starting From Zero  How To Take Dating to the Next Level  5 Simple Ways to Improve Your Social Skills  Maintaining Positive Changes in Your Life  How To Improve Your Willpower  Transcript available here Don’t forget to subscribe and review us on iTunes , Stitcher and on YouTube. Like the podcast? Become a Dr. NerdLove patron at Patreon.com/DrNerdLove Want more dating advice? Check out my books at www.www.doctornerdlove.com/books

Last time, we talked about the recent trend of folks reaching out to their exes, why it’s happening so frequently and why it can be comforting to try to rekindle an old relationship. But it's far too easy to fall back to old patterns and old routines with your ex, which means you're going to make the same old mistakes that lead to new pain. Today, I'm going to teach you the RIGHT way to get your ex back. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: Why the most popular ways to get your ex back DON'T WORK What you need to do before you try to reconnect with your ex How to reach out to an ex without feeling forced, fake or manipulative What to say to make your ex want to take you back Why so many relationships fall apart for the second time... and how to avoid it ...and so much more. RELATED LINKS: How To Deal With Your Ex Why You Will Never Get Closure How To Stay Friends After The Break-Up Ask Dr. NerdLove: We Were On A Break The 5 Things You Need To Get Over Your Breakup When You SHOULDN'T Get Back With Your Ex (And When You Should) Transcript available here Don’t forget to subscribe and review us on iTunes , Stitcher and on YouTube. Like the podcast? Become a Dr. NerdLove patron at Patreon.com/DrNerdLove Want more dating advice? Check out my books at www.www.doctornerdlove.com/books  

With the stress and the chaos of the COVID-19 pandemic, more and more people are reaching out to their exes for comfort, for connection and something more. But is it ever a good idea to get back with your ex? If you're thinking of trying to get your ex back — or reaching out to them again — then you need to be able to answer these 5 questions first. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: Why we look to our past relationships when times are hard When an old relationship is better left in the past... and when it's worth trying again Why it's so hard to make a relationship with your ex work a second time How to avoid repeating old mistakes and reliving your old break-up Why your ex might be right for you NOW ... and so much more. RELATED LINKS: How To Deal With Your Ex Why You Will Never Get Closure How To Stay Friends After The Break-Up Ask Dr. NerdLove: We Were On A Break The 5 Things You Need To Get Over Your Breakup Transcript available here Don’t forget to subscribe and review us on iTunes , Stitcher and on YouTube. Like the podcast? Become a Dr. NerdLove patron at Patreon.com/DrNerdLove Want more dating advice? Check out my books at www.www.doctornerdlove.com/books  

Self-isolation can be a trial for even the happiest lovers. Couples under quarantine are starting to feel the strain on their relationship. Relationships are rarely tested the way that they’re being tested now, and many people are discovering their relationship isn't as happy or as strong as they they thought. In some parts of the world, divorce rates are starting to skyrocket as soon as quarantine orders have been lifted. Don't let that happen to YOUR relationship. In this free workshop, I'll teach you what it takes to keep your relationship happy, healthy, safe and strong, so that your relationship can survive the COVID-19 crisis. Book a private coaching session with Dr. NerdLove Sign up for The Dating Accelerator Program Don’t forget to subscribe and review us on iTunes , Stitcher and on YouTube. Like the podcast? Become a Dr. NerdLove patron at Patreon.com/DrNerdLove Want more dating advice? Check out my books at www.www.doctornerdlove.com/books

The COVID-19 pandemic doesn't mean that your love life has to be put on hold. In fact, relationships are more important than ever. People are still meeting, dating and even falling in love during social distancing. The coronavirus pandemic has forced us to think about dating in new and different ways. In this replay of the live workshop, Dr. NerdLove will talk about how dating has changed, how we can change with it and how the current crisis has the potential to make us more desirable dates, better lovers and incredible partners. SIGN UP FOR THE DATING ACCELERATOR PROGRAM   Don’t forget to subscribe and review us on iTunes , Stitcher and on YouTube. Like the podcast? Become a Dr. NerdLove patron at Patreon.com/DrNerdLove Want more dating advice? Check out my books at www.www.doctornerdlove.com/books

Loneliness is one of the unspoken side-effects of sheltering in place. And yet, we need our social connections more than ever. How can you build and maintain a social life when social distancing is the rule? In my latest live, free seminar, I talk about how to build and maintain those important social connections, meet new people and strengthen the friendships you already have. Want to take part? The next seminar is on 4/7 at 3 PM CST. Join me at facebook.com/DrNerdLove and join NerdLove Academy at facebook.com/groups/DrNerdLove DOCTOR'S NOTE: So since I did this over Facebook Live, there's a little funkiness with the audio. I've done my best to clean it up but some of it is baked into the episode itself. Sorry 'bout that, we're seeing what can be done for next time. ▶︎ SIGN UP FOR THE DATING ACCELERATOR PROGRAM: https://nerdloveacademy.com/the-dating-accelerator-program-beta ▶︎ 1 ON 1 COACHING: https://www.doctornerdlove.com/private-coaching/ Don’t forget to subscribe and review us on iTunes, Stitcher and on YouTube. Like the podcast? Become a Dr. NerdLove patron at Patreon.com/DrNerdLove Want more dating advice? Check out my books at www.doctornerdlove.com/books  

How do you manage anxiety in the middle of a pandemic? How is living under quarantine affecting you? In my first LIVE teleseminar, I talk about how to manage stress and maintain your emotional health during the COVID-19 pandemic. Want to take part? The next seminar is on 3/31 at 3 PM CST. Join me at the Dr. NerdLove Facebook Page and be sure to join the NerdLove Academy group! DOCTOR’S NOTE: So since I did this over Facebook Live, there’s a little funkiness with the audio. I’ve done my best to clean it up but some of it is baked into the episode itself. Sorry ’bout that, we’re seeing what can be done for next time.

I’m answering your most important dating questions! If you have a question about love, sex or dating, then be sure to leave a comment. Maybe the next question I answer will be yours! This week: he and his girlfriend have been stuck in a long-distance relationship because of the COVID-19 pandemic. How can they keep their relationship alive while they're apart? Book a private coaching session with Dr. NerdLove Virtual Museum Tours Virtual National Park Tours Free Metropolitan Opera Live Streams 15 Broadway Musicals and Plays You Can Watch At Home   Don’t forget to subscribe and review us on iTunes , Stitcher and on YouTube. Like the podcast? Become a Dr. NerdLove patron at Patreon.com/DrNerdLove Want more dating advice? Check out my books at www.www.doctornerdlove.com/books

The reason why you have such a hard time getting over your ex is because most folks have the wrong idea about breakups. The pain of a break-up is equal parts mental and physical. When you’re struggling with how to get over your breakup, you’re almost never handling BOTH halves of the equation. Getting over your ex quickly and successfully requires that you address both sides of the breakup. So today I want to give you the 5 things you MUST do in order to get over your breakup and move forward. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: How focusing on the wrong parts of a breakup only prolongs the pain and the heartbreak Why it's important to let yourself feel the pain and frustration of breaking up with someone How breaking up changes who you are Why staying in contact with your ex is a mistake The secret to getting over the loss of your relationship... quickly ... and so much more. RELATED LINKS: How To Survive Being Dumped — https://www.doctornerdlove.com/survive-being-dumped/ The (Positive) Value of Anger — https://www.doctornerdlove.com/positive-value-anger/ This Is Why You Can't Get Over Her — https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aevlnBwpEWw "Cutoff Culture" And The Myth of Closure — https://www.doctornerdlove.com/cutoff-culture-and-the-myth-of-closure/ How To Protect Yourself From A Broken Heart — https://www.doctornerdlove.com/protect-yourself-from-a-broken-heart/ Transcript available at doctornerdlove.com Don’t forget to subscribe and review us on iTunes , Stitcher and on YouTube. Like the podcast? Become a Dr. NerdLove patron at Patreon.com/DrNerdLove Want more dating advice? Check out my books at www.www.doctornerdlove.com/books

I’m answering your most important dating questions! If you have a question about love, sex or dating, then be sure to leave a comment. Maybe the next question I answer will be yours! This week: With all the talk about toxic masculinity, what does POSITIVE masculinity look like? Here's what we can learn about being better men from the hicks, jocks and skids of Letterkenny. What Does Positive Masculinity Look Like? Book a private coaching session with Dr. NerdLove Listen Here Download Here Transcript available at doctornerdlove.com

The reason why so many people struggle with dating isn't because of their looks, their height, their genes or their hairline. It's because they are caught in a cycle of bad habits and practices that destroy your confidence and sabotages your ability to improve. Here's how you can break out of this negative cycle and build the habits that will improve your willpower, your self-esteem and help you find the dating success you deserve. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: How self-limiting beliefs cause you to fail before you've even begun Why negativity is so powerful and seductive How the training secrets of US Navy SEALS can improve your social life Why dreaming about a better life keeps you from achieving your goals How Brad Pitt and George Clooney developed their famous charisma ...and so much more RELATED LINKS: This is Why Your Life Won't Get Better (And How To Fix It) Getting Out of Your Own Way Starting From Zero Build Your Emotional Resilience You're Ok, I Promise Transcript available at doctornerdlove.com Don’t forget to subscribe and review us on iTunes , Stitcher and on YouTube. Like the podcast? Become a Dr. NerdLove patron at Patreon.com/DrNerdLove Want more dating advice? Check out my books at www.www.doctornerdlove.com/books

I’m answering your most important dating questions! If you have a question about love, sex or dating, then be sure to leave a comment. Maybe the next question I answer will be yours! This week: Everyone's heard the "let's just be friends" speech from someone they've been attracted to. But how do you make a friendship work with someone you're attracted to? How do you keep sex from getting in the way of your friendship? Book a private coaching session with Dr. NerdLove  The Secret to Being "Just Friends" Why "Men and Women Can Never Be Friends" is BULLSH*T Transcript available at doctornderdlove.com Don’t forget to subscribe and review us on iTunes , Stitcher and on YouTube. Like the podcast? Become a Dr. NerdLove patron at Patreon.com/DrNerdLove Want more dating advice? Check out my books at www.www.doctornerdlove.com/books

Do you know what women find sexy in a man? Not attractive, not aesthetically pleasing but what makes a woman want to peel a man’s clothing off with her teeth. A lot of guys… don’t. In fact, a lot of guys have the absolute WRONG ideas about what turns women on. If you want to be sexier than other guys, then you should know what draws a woman to a guy... and why she says YES to sleeping with one guy and no to the rest. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: What men DON'T understand about desire and arousal in women Why physical looks aren't the same thing as being sexy What your presentation says about your desirability Why women don't actually LIKE "alpha males" What all the great seducers have in common ...and so much more. RELATED LINKS: How To Be Sexier Why Women Say Yes To Sex  The Science of Nice Guys The Truth About Casual Sex (And How To Get It) -  The Secret to Getting Laid (Without Losing Your Soul) Transcript available at doctornerdlove.com Don’t forget to subscribe and review us on iTunes , Stitcher and on YouTube. Like the podcast? Become a Dr. NerdLove patron at Patreon.com/DrNerdLove Want more dating advice? Check out my books at www.www.doctornerdlove.com/books

I’m answering your most important dating questions! If you have a question about love, sex or dating, then be sure to leave a comment. Maybe the next question I answer will be yours! This week: Valentine's Day is coming, and it's stressing people out. How can you learn to be happy when you’re single, especially when it seems like the universe is determined to remind you that everyone else is coupled up and you’re not? Book A Private Coaching Session With Dr. NerdLove The Secret to Being Successful With Women How To Get Over Your Fear Of Rejection How To Survive Valentine's Day (When You're Single) Don’t forget to subscribe and review us on iTunes , Stitcher and on YouTube. Like the podcast? Become a Dr. NerdLove patron at Patreon.com/DrNerdLove Want more dating advice? Check out my books at www.www.doctornerdlove.com/books

Here's something nobody will tell you about being successful with women: nobody is "naturally" good with women. Nobody is born with an instinctual ability to get dates. Everyone — people who seem to be naturally gifted and people who learned later in life — all developed their skills the same way. That's why all the people who are successful with women have the same things in common. If you want to learn how to have the love life you deserve, then you want to master the four key components to developing the skill to meet, connect with and date amazing women. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: Why "naturals" don't really exist How people learned the right — and wrong — lessons about how to be good with women Why confidence is a vital part of success with women — but not for the reasons you'd expect Why most people fail when they try to get better at dating What makes the difference between someone who succeeds at dating, and someone who will never improve ...and so much more. RELATED LINKS: Become Someone Worth Dating - https://www.doctornerdlove.com/become-someone-worth-dating/ Level Up: Face Your Dating Fears - https://www.doctornerdlove.com/facing-your-dating-fears/ Developing An Abundance Mentality - https://www.doctornerdlove.com/leveling-up-abundance-mentality/ Your Attitude Controls Your Dating Success — https://www.doctornerdlove.com/your-attitude-controls-your-dating-success/ How to Use Humor in Your Flirting — https://www.doctornerdlove.com/use-humor-flirting/ Transcript available at doctornerdlove.com Don’t forget to subscribe and review us on iTunes , Stitcher and on YouTube. Like the podcast? Become a Dr. NerdLove patron at Patreon.com/DrNerdLove Want more dating advice? Check out my books at www.www.doctornerdlove.com/books

I'm answering your most important dating questions! If you have a question about love, sex or dating, then be sure to leave a comment. Maybe the next question I answer will be yours! This week: How do you keep your relationship from fading into boredom? What's the secret to keeping the spark making your long-term relationship feel as fresh and hot and alive as when you first met? Book A Private Coaching Session With Dr. NerdLove Transcript available at doctornerdlove.com   Don’t forget to subscribe and review us on iTunes , Stitcher and on YouTube. Like the podcast? Become a Dr. NerdLove patron at Patreon.com/DrNerdLove Want more dating advice? Check out my books at www.www.doctornerdlove.com/books

We live more and more of our lives online, and that means that more of our relationships start there too. But most guys don't know how to flirt effectively on Facebook, Instagram or Snapchat. If you want to be the guy that women like to talk to and enjoy hearing from, not just another thirsty dude trying to slide into her DMs, then you want to follow these rules for flirting with women on social media. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: The three deadly sins of flirting on social media How to get women to want to respond to YOU Why what you say will affect how she sees you How to be attractive on Facebook and Instagram The right way to get slide into her DMs ...and so much more. RELATED LINKS: How To Talk To Women on Social Media 5 Secrets To Make People Like You Make The Right First Impression 5 Common Texting Mistakes Men Make This Is Why You're Creepy (And How To Stop It) Transcript available at doctornerdlove.com Don’t forget to subscribe and review us on iTunes , Stitcher and on YouTube. Like the podcast? Become a Dr. NerdLove patron at Patreon.com/DrNerdLove Want more dating advice? Check out my books at www.www.doctornerdlove.com/books  

I’m answering your most important dating questions! If you have a question about love, sex or dating, then be sure to leave a comment. Maybe the next question I answer will be yours! This week: What are the best pictures for dating apps like Tinder, Hinge, Bumble and OKCupid? And how can guys look more photogenic and get more matches? Book A Private Coaching Session With Dr. NerdLove Transcript available at doctornerdlove.com Don’t forget to subscribe and review us on iTunes , Stitcher and on YouTube. Like the podcast? Become a Dr. NerdLove patron at Patreon.com/DrNerdLove Want more dating advice? Check out my books at www.www.doctornerdlove.com/books

How do you find someone who's the RIGHT girlfriend for you... and how do you make sure that YOU are the guy that SHE'S looking for? We're going to talk about what you can do to turn 2020 into the year you meet someone who is your perfect match, and how to be the exact right man for her as well. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: Why online dating is the WRONG approach for trying to find the perfect girlfriend How men sabotage their own success when they go out to meet women Why even successful, socially skilled men meet the WRONG women How to let go of the self-limiting beliefs that are keeping you from unlocking your true potential How understanding exactly what and who you're looking for will help you meet the right woman for you. ... and so much more RELATED LINKS: How To Find The Right Woman For You How To Get Women To Approach You 5 Questions You Should Ask Before Starting A Relationship What To Look For In A Girlfriend Is She Right For You? Transcript available at doctornerdlove.com Don’t forget to subscribe and review us on iTunes , Stitcher and on YouTube. Like the podcast? Become a Dr. NerdLove patron at Patreon.com/DrNerdLove Want more dating advice? Check out my books at www.www.doctornerdlove.com/books

DR. NERDLOVE MERCHANDISE: https://nerdloveacademy.com/shop/  One of the biggest reasons why people have a hard time flirting successfully is that they don’t understand how flirting is supposed to work. But when you understand the overall philosophy of flirting, you’re in a much better position to fine tune your flirting style to one that works for you and lets you adapt to whomever you’re trying to flirt with. These three unusual tips will teach you how to flirt like a master. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: What guys get wrong about how to flirt with someone they like Why social calibration is THE most important part of flirting How to read someone so you can flirt with them the RIGHT way Why understanding how to set the pace makes you more attractive Why you should think like a cat to flirt more effectively ...and so much more RELATED LINKS: The Art of Social Calibration How To Use Humor In Your Flirting Five Different Ways To Boost Your Charisma What Is Chemistry Pt. 2: Emotional Engagement  Fix Your Flirting Transcript available at doctornerdlove.com Don’t forget to subscribe and review us on iTunes , Stitcher and on YouTube. Like the podcast? Become a Dr. NerdLove patron at Patreon.com/DrNerdLove Want more dating advice? Check out my books at www.www.doctornerdlove.com/books

I'm answering your most important dating questions! If you have a question about love, sex or dating, then be sure to leave a comment. Maybe the next question I answer will be yours! This week: How can you meet more women when you live in a small town? And how do you stop having a fear of missing out on the "perfect" relationship?   Book a Private Coaching Session With Dr. NerdLove   Transcript available at doctornerdlove.com Don’t forget to subscribe and review us on iTunes , Stitcher and on YouTube. Like the podcast? Become a Dr. NerdLove patron at Patreon.com/DrNerdLove Want more dating advice? Check out my books at www.www.doctornerdlove.com/books

What would you do if you weren't afraid of being rejected? How would your life change if you could approach people you were attracted to without the fear of rejection? Eliminating your fear of rejection could create a profound transformation in your life. You can do this. You can learn to be absolutely fearless when it comes to meeting new people. It’s just a matter of making a very simple change in your life. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: Why a fear of rejection is about a fear of loss How a scarcity mindset leads to being terrified of being rejected What the most successful, rejection-proof men all have in common How embracing the Friend Zone can make you fearless with women How having more people in your life can destroy your fear of rejection ...and so much more. RELATED LINKS: Leveling Up - Developing an Abundance Mentality How To Get Women To Approach You  Finding True Confidence Facing Your Dating Fears  5 Ways To Develop Your Social Skills... Quickly Transcript available at doctornerdlove.com Don’t forget to subscribe and review us on iTunes , Stitcher and on YouTube. Like the podcast? Become a Dr. NerdLove patron at Patreon.com/DrNerdLove Want more dating advice? Check out my books at www.www.doctornerdlove.com/books

I'm answering your most important dating questions! If you have a question about love, sex or dating, then be sure to leave a comment. Maybe the next question I answer will be yours! This week: Should you tell women that you're a virgin, or is it better to keep it a secret. And is dating your co-worker a good idea? The Virgin's Guide to Great Sex Book a Private Coaching Session With Dr. NerdLove Transcript available at patreon.com/DrNerdLove Don’t forget to subscribe and review us on iTunes , Stitcher and on YouTube. Like the podcast? Become a Dr. NerdLove patron at Patreon.com/DrNerdLove Want more dating advice? Check out my books at www.www.doctornerdlove.com/books

Why did she stop replying to your texts? Why won't she text you back? Is time to panic?  When when stop responding to your texts, it can feel like she doesn't like you any more. But that's not always the case. If your text conversations are drying up before you can get her out on a date, then you may be having one of these common issues. Here's why women won’t text you back… and what you can do about it. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: Why most reason why women won't text a guy back — it's not what you think. How you end up telling women not to bother replying to your texts What to say to keep a conversation flowing effortlessly via text Why guys who know this one texting secret go on more dates and have more sex than the guys who don't The text that is GUARANTEED to get a response, even from someone who hasn't responded in days or weeks. ... and so much more. RELATED LINKS: 5 Common Texting Mistakes Men Make How To Talk To Women On Social Media How To Use Humor in Your Flirting How to Be Instantly Magnetic To Women  How To Be Charming Transcript available at patreon.com/DrNerdLove Don’t forget to subscribe and review us on iTunes , Stitcher and on YouTube. Like the podcast? Become a Dr. NerdLove patron at Patreon.com/DrNerdLove Want more dating advice? Check out my books at www.www.doctornerdlove.com/books

I'm answering your most important dating questions! If you have a question about love, sex or dating, then be sure to leave a comment. Maybe next week the question I'll answer will be yours! This week: Why do so many women have empty online dating profiles? And what do you do when a woman's given you a fake number? Transcript available at patreon.com/DrNerdLove Don’t forget to subscribe and review us on iTunes , Stitcher and on YouTube. Like the podcast? Become a Dr. NerdLove patron at Patreon.com/DrNerdLove Get one-on-one coaching with Dr. NerdLove: https://nerdloveacademy.com/private-coaching/ Want more dating advice? Check out my books at www.www.doctornerdlove.com/books

Online dating sucks. Doesn't matter if it's Tinder, Bumble, OKCupid or Christian Mingle. Men get next to no matches, women get flooded with awful messages, bots, trolls and zombie profiles run rampant on most apps... it's like trying to find a diamond in a pit of sewage. Most dating apps seem designed to be frustrating to ANYONE who wants to date someone of the opposite sex. But it doesn't have to bet that bad. Here's why online dating is so awful... and 5 ways you can make it better. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: What science has discovered about how men and women use Tinder Why men match with women less than .6% of the time How to use dating app algorithms to your advantage Why you're using the WRONG dating app How The Cat Theory of Online Dating can improve your matches The biggest sin of online dating ... and so much more. RELATED LINKS: Private Coaching With Dr. NerdLove How To Master Tinder Tune Up Your Tinder Profile How To Get Laid (Without Being a F*ckboy) Texting Mistakes Men Make How To Write The Perfect Online Dating Message Transcript available at patreon.com/DrNerdLove Don’t forget to subscribe and review us on iTunes , Stitcher and on YouTube. Like the podcast? Become a Dr. NerdLove patron at Patreon.com/DrNerdLove Want more dating advice? Check out my books at www.www.doctornerdlove.com/books

Toxic relationships can be hard to recognize. Are you being stubborn and selfish? Or is something actually wrong? Toxic people don't look like cartoon abusers, gloating about how great it is to manipulate folks. Learning how to recognize the signs of a toxic relationship — and how to avoid them in the first place — will strengthen your relationships, improve your confidence and make you 100% happier. Learn to recognize these signs and how to drive toxic people out of your life. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: Why toxic relationships are so hard to recognize How toxic people trade on myths about love and relationships What red flags you should be watching Why "no" is your shield against toxic people How to enforce your boundaries — even when people think you're wrong ...and so much more. RELATED LINKS: Is Your Relationship Toxic? What Will You Put Up With? Boundaries, Self-Esteem and Dating Why It's So Hard To Break Up (Even When You Need To) Dump Your Toxic Friends Enforcing Your Boundaries Transcript available at patreon.com/DrNerdLove Don’t forget to subscribe and review us on iTunes , Stitcher and on YouTube. Like the podcast? Become a Dr. NerdLove patron at Patreon.com/DrNerdLove Want more dating advice? Check out my books at www.www.doctornerdlove.com/books

Why do women say they want to find a nice guy, but never seem to want to date them? The answer is that what women are not saying is actually more important. Whenever a woman says “I wish I could find a nice guy”, there’s the unspoken modifier: “I wish i could find a nice guy… who actually excites me." Here's how men can stop being so "nice", and start being amazing. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: What women REALLY mean when they talk about finding a nice guy Why women aren't attracted to "nice" guys Why being "nice" by itself isn't enough Why nice guys lose respect... and how to get it back How to develop the qualities women are REALLY looking for in men ...and so much more. RELATED LINKS: Why Being A "Nice Guy" Isn't Good Enough Eliminating Neediness What Bad Boys Know (That Nice Guys Don't) Enforcing Your Boundaries Do Women Prefer Dominant Men? Dominance, Prosocial Orientation and Female Preferences Transcript available at patreon.com/DrNerdLove Don’t forget to subscribe and review us on iTunes , Stitcher and on YouTube. Like the podcast? Become a Dr. NerdLove patron at Patreon.com/DrNerdLove Want more dating advice? Check out my books at www.www.doctornerdlove.com/books

Are you ruining your chances of meeting incredible women before you even start? Women HATE it when the guys they meet do these 5 things. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: How guys turn women off before they even say a word Why trying to impress women you're attracted to is the wrong move How to demonstrate REAL value and status when you're flirting Why you don't want to have TOO much in common How men manage to turn a win into a loss with this ONE mistake ...and so much more. RELATED LINKS: 5 Signs Women Want You To Approach Them How To Get Women To Approach You 5 Secrets To Make People Like You How To Be Charming Make The Right First Impression How To Tell Amazing Stories Transcript available at patreon.com/DrNerdLove Don’t forget to subscribe and review us on iTunes , Stitcher and on YouTube. Like the podcast? Become a Dr. NerdLove patron at Patreon.com/DrNerdLove Want more dating advice? Check out my books at www.www.doctornerdlove.com/books

Confidence isn’t about being 100% sure of your inevitable success, it’s simply feeling that you know how to handle the situation.
 Taking away the fear of social awkwardness helps build bullet-proof social confidence. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:  Why your attitude is the key to your social success How you accidently cripple your in-person social skills Why MeetUps, mixers and networking is better for developing your social skills than cold approaches at bars How to block out social anxiety by avoiding the Spotlight Effect How to make it easier for other people to approach YOU ... and so much more. RELATED LINKS: Stop Being Socially Awkward Pt. 1  Stop Being Socially Awkward Pt. 2 Developing an Abundance Mentality Face Your Dating Fears How To Get Women To Approach YOU Transcript available at patreon.com/DrNerdLove Don’t forget to subscribe and review us on iTunes , Stitcher and on YouTube. Like the podcast? Become a Dr. NerdLove patron at Patreon.com/DrNerdLove Want more dating advice? Check out my books at www.www.doctornerdlove.com/books

What does it take to be someone that women want to date? It's not about looks, status or money. It's about understanding the secret behind why we fall in love and with whom.  Show Highlights: Why guys focus on surface issues... and miss the most important parts of attraction Why women will reject you BEFORE getting to know the real you How guys turn off women long before they ever start talking to her Why you keep meeting the WRONG women What makes a woman decide INSTANTLY whether she will EVER sleep with somebody ...and so much more. Related Links: Become Someone Worth Dating The Science of Nice Guys and Assholes Why Women Say Yes To Sex This Is Why Women Won't Date You Build An Amazing Lifestyle That Attracts Women Transcript available at patreon.com/DrNerdLove Don’t forget to subscribe and review us on iTunes , Stitcher and on YouTube. Like the podcast? Become a Dr. NerdLove patron at Patreon.com/DrNerdLove Want more dating advice? Check out my books at www.www.doctornerdlove.com/books

Does personality matter, or are looks the only thing that's important? Why do guys have a hard time understanding what makes a man attractive to women? SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: How much your physique ACTUALLY matters to women Why "attraction triggers" and evolutionary psychology give men all the wrong answers How we let self-limiting beliefs sabotage our dating success Why attraction is about more than biology How we confuse power fantasies for sexual ones ... and so much more. RELATED LINKS: The Myth of What Women Want  What Matters More, Looks Or Personality? The Subtle Things That Make Men Attractive Do Looks Matter? The Dr. NerdLove Facebook thread The Dr. NerdLove Twitter thread Transcript available at patreon.com/DrNerdLove Don’t forget to subscribe and review us on iTunes , Stitcher and on YouTube. Like the podcast? Become a Dr. NerdLove patron at Patreon.com/DrNerdLove Want more dating advice? Check out my books at www.www.doctornerdlove.com/books

Men feel immense pressure to look a particular way and they're breaking themselves, physically and psychically to try to get to reach those ideals.
 As bodies are marketed to us as products and men are sold self-loathing, we have to ask: what does a REAL man look like? SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: How male celebrities are getting the body-shaming treatment from the media Why the idea of what makes a "real" man is always in flux  How the "perfect" body has changed over time What men get wrong about trying to achieve the perfect body Why there's no body positivity movement for men ...and so much more. RELATED LINKS: The New (And Impossible) Standards of Male Beauty The Fear of Being Invisible The Myth of What Women Want  The Selling of Masculinity What Men REALLY Need Transcript available at patreon.com/DrNerdLove Don’t forget to subscribe and review us on iTunes , Stitcher and on YouTube. Like the podcast? Become a Dr. NerdLove patron at Patreon.com/DrNerdLove Want more dating advice? Check out my books at www.www.doctornerdlove.com/books

When Chris Morgan had a meltdown at the Bagel Boss in Long Island, he was tapping into real frustrations short men have in dating. Here's how short guys can learn to get the girl. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: How the body shaming of Jason Momoa and the Bagel Boss meltdown are symptoms of the same problem Why your height isn't the deal breaker you think it is What Tom Cruise, Robert Downey Jr., Donald Glover and Bruno Mars have in common Why women like tall men How to seem taller than you really are ...and so much more. RELATED LINKS: 5 Dating Tips for Short Men How To Get Women To Approach You Finding True Confidence Why You Should Fake It Til You Make It What is The "It" Factor? Transcript available at patreon.com/DrNerdLove Don’t forget to subscribe and review us on iTunes , Stitcher and on YouTube. Like the podcast? Become a Dr. NerdLove patron at Patreon.com/DrNerdLove Want more dating advice? Check out my books at www.www.doctornerdlove.com/books

Charisma and personal magnetism aren't about being the handsomest or most impressive person in the room. It's about knowing how to connect with people in ways that other folks can't. Understand how to build the right connections with people and amazing women won't be able to stop thinking about you... instead of someone else. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: What the story of one man's failure teaches us about personal magnetism and charisma Why your presentation matters more than your looks How your body language affects your connection with others Why intensity and authenticity is so important What most men get wrong about being cool, popular and desirable ...and so much more. RELATED LINKS: 5 Ways To Be More Charismatic... Instantly  Find Your Swagger  The Value of Authenticity 5 Secrets To Being Make People Like You How To Be Charming 5 Rules For Instantly Upgrading Your Style Transcript available at patreon.com/DrNerdLove Don’t forget to subscribe and review us on iTunes , Stitcher and on YouTube. Like the podcast? Become a Dr. NerdLove patron at Patreon.com/DrNerdLove Want more dating advice? Check out my books at www.www.doctornerdlove.com/books

Now that Neon Genesis Evangelion is available on Netflix, what can we learn about love, life and loneliness from Shinji Ikari? SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: Why so many fans relate to Shinji Ikari How the End of Evangelion and "The Beast That Shouted AI at the Heart of the World" represent two paths for Shinji... and us Why our fear keeps us from making the relationships we most need How loneliness can turn to anger and violence Why we're (not) alone ... and so much more   RELATED LINKS: Pacific Rim and Lessons in Positive Masculinity Elliot Rodger and the Price of Toxic Masculinity  Where Do You Get Your Validation?  Captain America and Non-Toxic Masculinity  Why Your Life Won't Get Better (And How To Fix It) Transcript available here Don’t forget to subscribe and review us on iTunes , Stitcher and on YouTube. Like the podcast? Become a Dr. NerdLove patron at Patreon.com/DrNerdLove Want more dating advice? Check out my books at www.www.doctornerdlove.com/books