General conversations about dating, relationships, the kink community and other adult topics. Plus some basics about kink you ought to know, what it is, what it isn't. First, CONSENT – Believe it or not, K!nk (should not) happen without it. TRUST – you
# Honesty in Relationships In this episode, host Gallo discusses a Reddit post where a woman was confused why her boyfriend said he doesn't start missing her until about a week after they're apart, even though she misses him within hours. Gallo's take is that men and women experience emotions differently. He argues that most men struggle to identify nuanced emotions beyond basic ones like happy, angry, and sad. So the boyfriend may find the girlfriend "annoying" at times when they're together, and is initially relieved to get space from her. However, after about a week apart, the boyfriend starts to miss the "nice things" she does for him. Gallo contends men can't directly express this, so the boyfriend phrases it as not missing her for a week, when really he's glad for the initial break before her positive qualities are missed. The episode explores how men may struggle to articulate complex feelings toward their partners, exemplified by the boyfriend's phrasing that confused the Reddit poster. Gallo advises understanding this tendency instead of assuming lack of love. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/sucias/message
Gallo kicks off this week's episode with a relatable dating dilemma - his female friend is confused about her situationship and afraid to ask "what are we?" Gallo understands her plight, admitting it's hard to decipher a guy's true intentions despite what he says. He explains that guys often say one thing but mean another when reacting to what women say and do. Just as he's about to reveal a juicy example, Gallo stops himself to clarify he's not trying to make anyone sound bad As we lean in, eager to hear more, Gallo switches gears and makes a sweeping generalization: "Generally, women say one thing, but..." And that's where he leaves us hanging! What were women about to be accused of? Guess we'll have to wait for next week's episode to find out. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/sucias/message
In this episode of the SUCIAS podcast, Gallo talks about his half-brother who passed away a year ago. He acknowledges that he hadn't thought about it much, which he admits is probably a bad thing to say, but considering the life they shared growing up, it's understandable why they weren't that close. Gallo explains that his half-brother was 20 years older than him, so by the time their parents divorced, he was in his mid-20s. As a child, Gallo saw him a few dozen times before he turned 10, usually when he went to visit or spend the weekend with his father. However, the visits were brief, with his half-brother joining them for dinner and then leaving. Gallo doesn't remember any meaningful conversations between his half-brother and father, only a sense of animosity. As a young child, he didn't fully comprehend the situation, but he noticed the tension. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/sucias/message
In this episode, Gallo discusses the concept of male-female friendships and shares his personal experiences. He stands by his previous statement that generally, men and women cannot be true friends, with some exceptions and caveats. As a former "intercourse addict", Gallo admits to having female friends, but clarifies that this is not an excuse for him to have such relationships. He acknowledges that most of his "female friends" are more accurately described as female acquaintances. Gallo delves into the definition of a friend, suggesting that a true friend is someone you can visit unannounced and be welcomed. He implies that everyone else falls into the category of an acquaintance. The episode also touches on Gallo's need to do some housekeeping, likely referring to tasks or responsibilities he needs to attend to. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/sucias/message
what can I say, I'm terrible at writing descriptions. as usual, this might put you off my show, or open your eyes. either way I hope my honesty helps you in some way. I mentioned being on this panel about relationships. it's about 18x longer than this episode. but a lot of good conversation if you have the time, and want more of your Gallo fix https://open.spotify.com/episode/6cCAiucWaUn7MxRg43SCsB?si=2da4fca5a7d7453a if the link doesn't work, look for "A Panel Discussion on Relationships" on "Civil Rhetoric" podcast.
guess who's back? Today you're going to hear the worst date I ever had, and you're probably gonna complain about it. as always you can text me to lemme know what you think at (210)895-6533
https://sucias.xyz This episode was inspired by being on an episode of the Christian Reeve Podcast. There we covered a lot of topics including the time I nearly died. So check that episode out https://youtu.be/iJxSZdcxCtY for a broader view of what had happened. in this episode I give a little background and my experience while I was out For more great advice on dealing with life, having a healthy relationship, better seggs life, more success in dating or just life advice in general, checkout Sucias are my Favorite podcast, available on all major platforms https://anchor.fm/sucias
This episode covers how to navigate the dating scene in person and how to manage expectations. for comments, complaints, questions or even ideas for future episodes you can find me and message me here
this episode I share with you how to overcome shyness and be a better you and ask for a date as always you can @ me, comment, complain, ask questions or suggest episode ideas here
this episode covers the importance of mental health and the correalation with sexual well being. and as always, you can at me & bring the smoke, or ask me questions even toss some episode ideas my way. all my socials, even my phone number (text don't call) and email are available at https://sucias.xyz
This episode I chat about the six mistakes most make when trying non-traditional relationships
This episode is another short and sweet conversation. This time about conflict resolution and how it can help you in your current, or future relationships. Both in dating and the world at large. As always, if you want to AT me, or have a question or episode idea, you can call, text, email or message me on socials all my links are here
On this episode of Sucias are my Favorite, we have Felicity Azura, a professional cuddler and sex worker. She writes frequently about her occupations on medium and substack. She is kinky in both her work life and personal life. We get DEEP into the weeds of the cuddle industry. To learn more about my guest, you can find Felicity's substack writing and more at the links below substack patreon.com/felicityazura instagram.com/procuddlehustlepodcast/ reddit.com/r/procuddlehustle/ facebook.com/procuddlehustlepodcast twitter.com/procuddlehustle and as always, if you want to AT me, or have a question or episode idea, you can call, text, email or message me on socials all my links are here funny coincidence this is episode 6 of season 3 which, released on March 6th.
Sex can be an important part of a relationship, but it's NOT a replacement for a deeper connection. In this episode, I talk about the role of sex in a relationship and not only why you shouldn't use sex to strengthen a relationship. But how to create a deeper and meaningful connection with your partner. As always, you can @ me on TikTok, reddit, IG, email or text just follow the link to the landing page
It's natural to want to find a partner and be in a relationship, but sometimes it's necessary to take a break form dating. Gaining clarity about oneself can help you figure out WHO you ARE and help you figure out what you need in a partner. Join me in this episode to learn some more on how to get through this and as always, you can @ me on TikTok, reddit, IG, email or text just follow the link to the landing page
A bad first date can be a major disappointment and can lead to a LOT of wasted time AND energy. This episode covers some common Red Flags to look out for and what you can do to save some time and your sanity as always, you can @ me on TikTok, reddit, IG, email or text just follow the link to the landing page
This week I talk about rejection and how to deal with it. This is a far more common problem for males, but here in the past few years women have begun to "shoot their shot" sometimes with disastrous results. And while being angry, sad or feeling hurt is completely natural, how those feelings manifest themselves are often "not cool" So this episode talks about how to deal with those feelings, move on and have a better chance next time you shot your shot. As always, you can @ me on TikTok, reddit, IG, email or text just follow the link to the landing page
An interview with Hamilton Steele, about the porn industry what it's like now and the changes he's seen since he's started. Plus why he went to Europe for a decade. steelehard.com As always, you can @ me on TikTok, reddit, IG, email or text just follow the link to the landing page
four reason why Christmas is the Worst possible time, of the year
This episode is listener suggestion! and here's my opinion on the topic, you're more than welcome to find me through sucias.xyz and message my that way for tips, ideas suggestions and yes, even complaints
Today I speak with Domme Cacia, about kink and how without her, we wouldn't have the web series THANATOS. And we talk a little bit about kink
this episode is about what my mentor's mentor shared with him in the 70s particularly Discipline/Sadism/Masochism parts of BDSM.
Today we talk a little about kink and how they relate to the real world with executive co-producer Leigh Anne. We also hear a little more on the backstory to the creation of this webseries.
Today I interview Creator of THANATOS web series Andrew C. Fisher. It's a romantic dramadey that's set in the kink world and we learn some of the discoveries Andrew made along the way
This one might get me cancelled, or lose all you guys. But if you're in this deep, just listen to the whole episode, less than ten mins of your time (less than five if you listen at 2x) and you'll be surprised at the point I'm trying to make. otherwise you can at me, my phone number and email can be found here
A conversation with Therapist Nadia, sharing some experiences as first generation immigrants, and everything in between. you can find Nadia on IG @ killingcupid__ (that's two underscores) and on her website killingcupid.com
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This episode I'm joined by Joshua Shea, a porn addict recovery and betrayal trauma coach. He's also an author and public speaker. If you have a porn addiction, or you've been hurt by a partner who is, you can find him at paddictrecovery.com
The age old question of finding a submissive. Or at least an often heard question among people I'm acquainted with. Find out how to find one and become a better person along the way
Here I give some advice on what to ask a date to find out if they're a fuccboi or if they're looking for a relationship. All it takes is two simple questions, and some followup ones, more for clarification. To make sure they're a guy that's looking for something serious
I'm going to explain how to date your crush now. Whether you're a guy or gal, I'll help you at least get their attention. But it comes with some harsh truths.
Why do nice guys finish last? what's the difference between a nice guy and a gentleman? Aren't they one in the same? Get the answers to this and more in this episode of your new favorite podcast.
This episode covers the tragedy that happens every day hundreds of times over, and seeing the results of it on Reddit and hearing about it in my social circles. Both online and "In Real Life" That issue is not knowing if a date went as well as you thought and whether your date is into you. I share my example of how I end a date and let them know that I like them. Find out what I say and the small group of females that always get a second date and also know that their dates are into them.
After being called out I'm finally following up with one of the intended purposes of this podcast. To educate about keenk in ADDITION to relationships, dating and sex. I share the ten most common keenks I've seen in the last 20 years in North American Metropolitan areas.
I'm joined in this episode by Trooth, from Trooth be Told podcast. He is boldly breaking down barriers and sharing a kink of his and goes on to explain what it is and how he discovered it. We also dive into perceptions about machismo, masculinity and western culture and how we deal with sex and sex education as a society. All this and more in this episode
Today I have yet ANOTHER conversation with Boogie one half of the hosting duo from Blokk Talk. The IG is Cementblock_Productions and we started the conversation about our simpin stories, but ended up talking about a slew of things. The value of pussy, Paternity, Men's rights and the rest you'll just have to listen to find out more
sucias.xyz This is the only other video to survive RollerCon, just don't ask what happened with the other SD cards.
sucias.xyz Today I caught up with a skater friend from San Antonio, The one and ONLY Backlash. She's a skater friend for the past 5 ish years now, man how time flies. Anywho, I ran into her during registration at RollerCon and a few other times in passing. It was nearly the end of RC (RollerCon) before I was able to get her on camera for a few minutes between bouts she was playing and I was annoucing/DJing. So listen in to a convo with Backlash a Skater from Alamo City Roller Girls and we chat about dating and what she and most women look for in a guy.
I don't think I've introduced the co-worker, Jesus, not his real name… or is it? tune into this episode to find out more about Jesus and his girlfriend.
I know you've heard the most common one, if you've been listening for a while. But, there are a few others I have yet to mention, as I was only recently reminded of them. These nuggets are solid gold and I hope they help you out in your life.
Today's guest is Boogie, one half of Blokk Talk podcast duo, and he's gonna share how he learned to be better at getting with women. Listen in as there is an uncanny resemblance to our personal histories.
This is NOT a movie review. Ok it TECHNICALLY is, but it's a more detailed synopsis about the wishes in the movie Bedazzled (2000). And of course how it relates to dating, specifically what a man should strive for instead of longing for a woman he's only spoken with once.
No, you didn't miss me on a Ted Talk. But, if I were invited, this episode would be my talk The data that I refer to comes from a national study by NCBI - national Center for Biotechnology Info, under US National Library of Information, under US Dept Health & Human Servs Fortunately the data has been extrapolated for easier reading by Huff Post and, Insider.com
This is more of a flow of thought as I piece together what I was trying to communicate. Originally, I was going to go for something inflammatory. But I realized, thanks to another podcaster, that it is better to stand by my content, and it's quality, than to try and be clickbaity.
Why are we here? No, this isn't a philosophical episode. But it is another personal one, in part, realizing that I've been in Reno longer than I was in San Antonio. Also, I'm going to introduce a cast of characters that I'll likely be talking more about in future episodes
Jared is back, this time we talk about his journey in the dating world. His previous luck, or lack thereof and how a little push from your friendly neighborhood Sucio Supreme helped him step up his game, get a girlfriend and by the sound of it, keep her longer than he has in the past.
Confidence, what does it mean? If I told you, all you need is confidence to succeed what would you need to do to GET confidence? Well this episode I explore what I really mean with the C word, and a better turn of phrase to have more success in talking to slash approaching women.
This episode is my take on the last paragraph in this article by askmen.com "How to be a Man's Man in a Culture That Hates Masculinity" where I talk about being an Individual