The Ugly Truth About The Girl Next Door

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The Ugly Truth About The Girl Next Door tells the story of a suburban, middle class girl who was trafficked and sexually exploited for decades starting even before the age of 6 years old

The Ugly Truth About The Girl Next Door


    • Feb 19, 2025 LATEST EPISODE
    • infrequent NEW EPISODES
    • 37m AVG DURATION
    • 90 EPISODES

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    The Ugly Truth About The Girl Next Door podcast is an incredibly powerful and important show that sheds light on the dark reality of child abuse and the journey towards healing. As someone who knows Kait well, it is deeply inspiring to see her share her own experiences with such bravery and vulnerability. The presence of Laurie, who accompanies Kait on this healing journey, provides a strong support system that is crucial in navigating through the difficult emotions and memories that arise. This podcast deserves recognition for its ability to raise awareness about child abuse and provide valuable information on how to protect children in our communities.

    One of the best aspects of this podcast is its authenticity. Kait's honesty shines through every word she speaks, allowing listeners to truly understand the impact of her experiences. Her strength and resilience serve as a beacon of hope for others who may be going through similar situations or struggling with their own healing process. Furthermore, the inclusion of Laurie as a co-host adds a valuable perspective from someone who has witnessed firsthand the devastating effects of child abuse. Their dynamic creates a safe space where difficult topics can be discussed openly and without judgment.

    While it is difficult to find faults in such an important podcast, one aspect that could potentially be seen as a drawback is the intense emotional nature of the content. This show deals with heavy subject matter and listening to it can be emotionally draining at times. However, it is important to remember that these uncomfortable conversations are necessary in order to bring about change and protect children from future harm.

    In conclusion, The Ugly Truth About The Girl Next Door podcast is an essential listen for anyone seeking to educate themselves on child abuse and how to support survivors on their path to healing. Kait's courage in sharing her story serves as a wake-up call for society as a whole, urging us to recognize the signs of abuse and take action when necessary. With Laurie by her side, they have created a powerful platform that encourages open dialogue and offers valuable resources for listeners. I highly recommend this podcast and encourage everyone to rate, review, and share it with their friends in order to spread awareness about the pressing issue of child abuse.



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    Conversation with actor Anthony Edwards and author Stephen Mills

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 19, 2025 75:49


    In this episode, we have a conversation with Stephen Mills, author of Chosen: A Memoir of Stolen Boyhood and actor, producer and director Anthony Edwards who some will remember as Goose from the movie Top Gun or Dr. Greene from the television show ER. We are grateful for the authenticity and courage of these men as they share their experiences of sexual abuse as boys. Please join us as we discuss the long term impact of childhood sexual abuse, institutional coverups and the unwillingness of "bystanders" to take a stand.

    Words of Encouragement

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 11, 2024 41:40


    In this episode, we consider recent events and how to deal with the emotional impact. Bottom line.....we ALL have a mission.....to stand for the vulnerable.....so we STAY.ON.MISSION. As we consider this we look to the example of Miep and Jan Gies....the Dutch couple who protected Ann Frank and her family.

    Are you part of the solution or part of the problem?

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 2, 2024 52:02


    Wow....it's been a minute! In this episode we share what Mezzo Allies, Inc. has been passionately pursuing. We also talk about the importance of being willing to be uncomfortable...to speak up when injustice and ignorance are staring us in the face. We are either part of the solution or part of the problem.....there isn't much in the middle.

    Advocacy and Abuse in a Church Environment

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 19, 2024 44:04


    In this episode we have a conversation with Abbi Nye and April Sochia about CFCtoo. CFCtoo is an organization committed to creating a safe space for survivors of Christian Fellowship Church in northern New York State. CFCtoo is also advocating for the passage of legislation requiring faith leaders to be mandated child abuse reporters in NY State.

    Conversation with Kimberly Haight from NY State Children's Alliance

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 19, 2024 53:48


    What is CONSENT and why does it matter?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 29, 2024 41:37


    In this episode we speak with Joyce Short who is the author of Your Consent – The Key to Conquering Sexual Assault and a TEDx Talk Presenter and Nina Lucas who lead Consent Awareness Network (CAN). Joyce and Nina are on a mission to educate the public and legislators about the critical importance of having consent defined in our laws. Click the link to visit CAN's website https://consentawareness.net --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/traffickednextdoor/message

    Cork Board

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 13, 2024 30:11


    In this episode, we talk about the reality of the web of the network of offenders in organized sexual abuse and how difficult it can be for victims to break free. Listen to our raw and real feelings following the creation of the cork board. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/traffickednextdoor/message

    The Ethics of the Podcast

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 6, 2024 37:57


    In this episode, we unpack in detail the ethics of the decision to move from social worker-client to podcast partner then to non-profit partner. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/traffickednextdoor/message

    Response to Liberty University Title IX/Clery Act Fines

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 7, 2024 30:09


    In this episode we share an unscripted…sometimes raw…perspective on the Liberty University Clery Act settlement of $14 million dollars (plus $2 million in new campus safety improvements) --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/traffickednextdoor/message

    Why Don't You Just Move?

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 1, 2024 38:45


    In this episode we address a question that is asked frequently....sometimes with concern...sometimes with curiosity...and sometimes with a hefty dose of skepticism. The question is Why Don't You Just Move? --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/traffickednextdoor/message

    Making an Impact with PowHERhouse Nicholle Overkamp

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 21, 2024 41:19


    In this episode we have a conversation with Nicholle Overkamp of PowHERhouse Money Coaching and Wilcox Financial Group about her upcoming "Becoming PowHERhouse" Summit on March 8th....International Women's Day. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/traffickednextdoor/message

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    Conversation with Lisa Goldblatt Grace Co-Founder and Director of My Life, My Choice (MLMC) Boston

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 16, 2024 48:10


    In this episode we have a conversation with Lisa Goldblatt Grace, LICSW, MPH who co-founded MLMC in 2002 after a teen was murdered by her exploiter. Join us as we talk through the factors that make a difference in the lives of the victims and survivors as well as the lives of the helpers. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/traffickednextdoor/message

    Building the Bridge While Working Against the Tide

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 20, 2024 48:42


    In this episode we share how Mezzo Allies is growing in spite of the continued efforts made by the offenders, their flying monkeys and the naysayers. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/traffickednextdoor/message

    We Keep Going…..still

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 22, 2023 32:27


    Truth moment….we're tired….and we're determined….we're bold and we're stressed. In this episode we talk about the momentum and the ways organized sexual abuse networks work to make that momentum hard to maintain. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/traffickednextdoor/message

    Fear of the Podcast

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 10, 2023 25:42


    In our last episode, we encouraged us all to be willing to be uncomfortable….to be uncommon. In this episode, we talk a bit about what it takes to be a person who makes a difference to the status quo or to an individual person. Spoiler alert….it does not include being MORE afraid of being called out on the podcast than failing to stand for the vulnerable. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/traffickednextdoor/message

    be uncomfortable

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 29, 2023 31:10


    In this episode we encourage….and challenge….ourselves to be willing to be uncomfortable in the pursuit of showing up for those around us --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/traffickednextdoor/message

    2 years ago…1 year ago…TODAY

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 31, 2023 26:57


    In this episode we talk about the dichotomy between where we were this very week 2 years ago- hurt, scared and without help…. 1 year ago- begging Cornerstone Church on Grand Island to keep NAMED SEX OFFENDERS away from children …. And today…training up an ARMY of helpers in the world. The difference is wild. Don't miss this episode! --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/traffickednextdoor/message

    ...so others don't need a podcast

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 26, 2023 27:38


    WE'RE IN BOSTON, MA!!! In this episode we share about our experience in Boston, MA sharing information with child protection staff and leaders about the reality of Family Controlled Exploitation and Organized Sexual Abuse. Thank you for everyone who has made this possible! --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/traffickednextdoor/message

    Counting the Cost

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 6, 2023 53:57


    Trigger warning: In this episode we have a conversation about Gretchen who was abused within the same network as Kait and was was lost to suicide on New Year's Day 2023. We are joined by Margaret, Gretchen's sister, and Emily, one of Gretchen's closest, long time friends. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/traffickednextdoor/message

    Suicide Prevention Month

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 22, 2023 31:47


    **Trigger Warning** In this episode we talk about September's Suicide Prevention month, the statistics and Kait's journey --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/traffickednextdoor/message

    Survivor Re-Exploitation

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 8, 2023 35:38


    In this episode we talk about the idea of survivor re-exploitation….the ways survivors can feel compelled to share details of their experience that are unnecessary and for the curiosity of people not in harms way. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/traffickednextdoor/message

    Advancing in the face of adversity

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 5, 2023 39:26


    In this episode, we talk about all that we've been doing to build the army of supporters while standing strong in the face of challenges. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/traffickednextdoor/message

    Action and Reaction

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 14, 2023 34:04


    In this episode we explore the reality that every action we….and others….take triggers a reaction. While this is obvious it can also be complicated because the nature of this situation makes it difficult for others to fully appreciate the reaction that might be caused by their action….or lack of action. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/traffickednextdoor/message

    Chasing Records

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 4, 2023 45:59


    In this episode, we explore the frustrating experience of working to gather background information to corroborate allegations. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/traffickednextdoor/message

    Building the Middle

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 14, 2023 47:37


    In this episode we share our experience connecting with the anti-trafficking community in Boston, MA. We also talk about the needs of survivors of family controlled commercial exploitation of children (FC-CSEC) and the impact how different communities address those needs. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/traffickednextdoor/message

    Introducing Mezzo Inc.!

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 2, 2023 27:59


    We are so excited to announce the beginning of our new endeavor….Mezzo, Inc.….the space between victim and survivor --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/traffickednextdoor/message

    Episode Recap

    Play Episode Listen Later May 22, 2023 43:47


    In this episode we share a high level look at Kait's experience. If you're new to the podcast we hope this will give you a place to start. If you're a long time listener feel free to share this with others….and thank you for hanging with us! --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/traffickednextdoor/message

    What is Justice?

    Play Episode Listen Later May 20, 2023 29:42


    In this episode we explore several paths to justice for survivors and consider the impacts. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/traffickednextdoor/message

    Abuse in a Caregiver Relationship

    Play Episode Listen Later May 6, 2023 50:46


    In this episode we explore the short and long term impact of abuse that happens at the hands of the primary caregivers in a child's life. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/traffickednextdoor/message

    Where is Law Enforcement?

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 29, 2023 35:25


    In this episode we will explore this frequently asked question.....where is Law Enforcement? --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/traffickednextdoor/message

    Child Abuse Prevention Month

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 21, 2023 33:34


    In this episode we explore the question of the long term impact of unresolved childhood trauma. Specifically we consider how difficult it can be for people with unaddressed trauma to really show up for a child who is vulnerable. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/traffickednextdoor/message

    Whiplash

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 14, 2023 24:57


    That whiplash feeling… --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/traffickednextdoor/message

    The Memory Wars

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 8, 2023 46:38


    In this episode we explore the question of repressed memory and address the topic based on current day brain science. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/traffickednextdoor/message

    Conversation with Miranda Pacchiana of The Second Wound

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 31, 2023 34:33


    In this episode we talk with Miranda Pacchiana who is the author of many of the posts we have shared from The Second Wound platform. Join us as we talk through the impact of the failure of people to hear the disclosure of victims and survivors and support them well. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/traffickednextdoor/message

    My ACBC Experience

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 25, 2023 19:56


    In this episode we share Kait's personal experience with ACBC "counseling" --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/traffickednextdoor/message

    Corroboration

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 24, 2023 4:11


    In this episode we respond to the claims by Cornerstone that there has never been corroboration offered to support Kait's allegations…..complete ridiculousness. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/traffickednextdoor/message

    Association of Certified Biblical Counselors (ACBC)

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 17, 2023 49:38


    In this episode we address the issue of the extremely damaging and inappropriate counsel offered by ACBC to victims, offenders and churches about how to respond to allegations of abuse. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/traffickednextdoor/message

    Introducing… YouTube!

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 10, 2023 5:10


    Today we are sharing about our new youtube channel- The Ugly Truth About the Girl Next Door. We will use this platform for longer videos to share information about family controlled trafficking. Check it out! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/traffickednextdoor/message

    How Can We Help?

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 4, 2023 40:45


    In this episode we explore the question of how to be the person that can help a child get help and how to show up for a survivor. We specifically look at the gap in awareness of family controlled sex trafficking. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/traffickednextdoor/message

    The Women

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 17, 2023 53:14


    In this episode we answer the question of "where were the women?". We also unpack the impact on a child when a mother is involved in the abuse. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/traffickednextdoor/message

    Happy Anniversary to Us

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 10, 2023 44:42


    How can this be? One year ago on February 11, 2022 we launched our first episode. In this episode we unpack the journey from then to now…..and the bright world/dark world reality of “anniversaries” --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/traffickednextdoor/message

    ….and then there were two

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 3, 2023 49:53


    In this episode we have a conversation with Emily who was Kait's childhood friend. Emily shares her own memories of abuse and experiences with Cornerstone Church and some of the people there. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/traffickednextdoor/message

    Trigger Warning: I Am Not Alone Part Two

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 27, 2023 27:14


    In this episode we continue our conversation with Alicia Cohen, familial sex trafficking survivor and advocate. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/traffickednextdoor/message

    Trigger Warning: I Am Not Alone

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 20, 2023 31:40


    In this first episode in a two part series, we have a conversation with Alicia Cohen who is a survivor of family controlled sex trafficking and the founder of SAFE (Survivors Against Familial Exploitation).   Join us as Alicia shares her experience of sexual abuse and exploitation at the hands of her father who who used the church to hide his crimes.  Alicia also unpacks her very frustrating attempts to leverage the criminal justice system to address the very real ongoing safety concerns for current day victims.   --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/traffickednextdoor/message

    Majoring on the Minors

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 12, 2023 45:30


    In this episode we unpack the phenomenon of 'staring at a pebble while the parade passes by'....otherwise known as 'majoring on the minors' or being distracted from what really matters by details that are irrelevant to the central message. Updated since we have to triple and quadruple think every single word and sentence --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/traffickednextdoor/message

    Where Did It All Begin?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 7, 2023 26:29


    In this episode we will talk through the churches involved and some of the offenders there. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/traffickednextdoor/message

    The Good Shepherd

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 30, 2022 48:58


    In this episode Laurie has a conversation with Darrin Folger, former Executive Pastor of The Well in Amherst, NY about what God has to say about a shepherds response to a predator among the flock --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/traffickednextdoor/message

    How is this so hard….part 2

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 17, 2022 51:56


    In this episode we share how the investigation has been going….or not going. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/traffickednextdoor/message

    The Paths to Safety and Justice

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 13, 2022 28:44


    In this episode we talk through some of the potential paths to safety and justice and how these paths can intersect and happen in parallel. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/traffickednextdoor/message

    Naming Names

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 4, 2022 42:01


    In this episode we address the questions about naming names….Why now? What are the factors that affect the decision for us to name an offender and what is next? --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/traffickednextdoor/message

    Tear Down This Wall of Silence

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 18, 2022 51:56


    In this episode we hear from Pastor Dale Ingraham who challenges the church to be who God calls us to be….a people who boldly stand for the vulnerable and bring hope to the hopeless. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/traffickednextdoor/message

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