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In this episode of Narcissist Apocalypse, Louise shares the story of a 40-year relationship with a man who always seemed to be in conflict with someone else, until that conflict finally turned toward her. At first, Louise believed she was different. He could argue with colleagues, professionals, institutions, and family members, but with her, he seemed loving, principled, and safe. Over time, Louise's life became smaller around his needs, his career, his battles, his conspiracy thinking, and his version of reality. Louise's story is about subtle control, financial dependence, betrayal, gaslighting, privacy violations, and the shock of realizing that the person who once made you feel chosen can later treat you like the enemy. It is also a story about records, validation, rebuilding, coercive control, emotional abuse, financial abuse, post-separation abuse, divorce abuse, legal abuse, psychological abuse, reality distortion, betrayal trauma, infidelity, conspiracy theories, financial dependence, projection, blame shifting, DARVO, enemy creation, and learning to stop blaming yourself for what you could not see at the time. Louise's Website: https://www.louisewilliamsonwriter.com/ Louise's Substack SEEDS: https://louisewilliamson2.substack.com/ Louise's Instagram: louisewilliamsonwriter Louise's Tik Tok: @louisewilliamsonwrites Louise's Book: My Husband, the Rabbit Hole and Me: When Marriage Became a Cult Click if you want to be a guest on our survivor story podcast, please send us an email at narcissistapocalypse@pm.me Click on the title to read about Coercive Control as Care: Signs & Patterns Sign up to our Domestic Violence Newsletter Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
The behavioral contradiction at the center of the Kouri Richins sentencing is staggering. She stood at a podium and told her sons not to hold hate. Prosecutors say she spent the years leading up to that moment orchestrating attacks against every person connected to this case from inside her jail cell.The sentencing memo documents what prosecutors describe as a systematic campaign: a fake dating profile of the lead detective posted online, what they characterize as false DCFS reports against the family raising her children, retained counsel to pursue criminal charges against her sister-in-law, federal firearms charges pursued against Eric's father for removing his dead son's guns, a marijuana report on Eric's sister, and unfounded bar complaints against the prosecutors. According to the memo, none of it had merit. All of it had a target. The psychology behind the pattern — DARVO, narcissistic injury response — is textbook. Prosecutors called her character "irredeemable."Then the courtroom behavior. Cameras caught Kouri scoffing and rolling her eyes while her sons' statements were read by therapists describing locked rooms, fear, and children caring for each other because she wasn't. When her own family took the podium to call her innocent, the tears appeared — instant, performative, and reserved for her own suffering. That contrast became the defining image of the proceeding.Judge Mrazik sentenced her to life without parole on what would have been Eric Richins' forty-fourth birthday. Her forty-minute allocution told her sons to "be like your dad," told them their childhood memories were "an absolute lie," and directed them away from the people keeping them safe. She acknowledged nothing. A post-conviction message to an "admirer" ended with a winking emoji: "They haven't seen anything yet."Her nine-year-old son said: "Once she is gone, I will feel happy."Join Our SubStack For AD-FREE ADVANCE EPISODES & EXTRAS!: https://hiddenkillers.substack.com/Want to comment and watch this podcast as a video? Check out our YouTube Channel. https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC8-vxmbhTxxG10sO1izODJg?sub_confirmation=1Instagram https://www.instagram.com/hiddenkillerspod/Facebook https://www.facebook.com/hiddenkillerspod/Tik-Tok https://www.tiktok.com/@hiddenkillerspodX Twitter https://x.com/TrueCrimePodThis publication contains commentary and opinion based on publicly available information. All individuals are presumed innocent until proven guilty in a court of law. Nothing published here should be taken as a statement of fact, health or legal advice.#KouriRichins #EricRichins #RichinsSentencing #SentencingMemo #DARVO #LifeWithoutParole #HiddenKillers #TrueCrime #ParkCityUtah #JusticeForEric
Here are the fully SEO-optimized versions: TITLE: Top 10 Signs You're With a Covert Narcissist | Narcissistic Abuse & Relationship Patterns PODCAST DESCRIPTION: Are you in a relationship that's hard to explain but impossible to ignore? You may be experiencing narcissistic abuse — and not even know it yet. In this episode of the Covert Narcissism Podcast, Renee Swanson breaks down the Top 10 Signs You're With a Covert Narcissist. Unlike overt narcissism, covert narcissistic abuse is subtle, confusing, and incredibly difficult to identify — which is exactly what makes it so damaging. If you've been walking on eggshells, questioning your own reality, or feeling alone in your relationship, this episode was made for you. We cover: Backhanded compliments and subtle put-downs Gaslighting in relationships and how it makes you doubt yourself The silent treatment as emotional abuse DARVO — the manipulation tactic used to flip the script Trauma bonding and why it's so hard to leave Selective empathy and the public vs. private performance Narcissistic abuse recovery and how to start finding yourself again Whether you're just beginning to recognize the signs of narcissism or you're deep in narcissistic abuse recovery, this episode will help you make sense of what you've been experiencing — and remind you that you are not alone. Ready to take the next step? Visit covertnarcissism.com to learn about coaching and begin your healing journey today. Subscribe to the Covert Narcissism Podcast for new episodes on narcissistic abuse, covert narcissism, emotional abuse recovery, and relationship healing every week. The information provided by Renee Swanson, the Covert Narcissism Podcast, and CNG Life Coaching is for educational purposes only. It is not intended to be used for diagnosis and is not a substitute for professional clinical care. Please consult a qualified healthcare provider for guidance specific to your situation. The content discussed in this podcast reflects general patterns of narcissism and is based on Renee Swanson's personal experiences as well as stories shared with her over many years. Nothing in this content claims that any specific person has narcissism, and it should not be used to refer to or identify any specific individual as a narcissist. Linking to or reposting this material to support such a claim is an unauthorized misuse of this content. Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
In this episode, Holly Draper sits down with Denise Capurso, a licensed clinical social worker with nearly 30 years of experience helping women heal from narcissistic abuse, coercive control, and complex relational trauma. Denise, who is based in Frisco, Texas and sees clients statewide, brings an essential clinical perspective to issues that family law attorneys encounter in their practices every day.The conversation covers critical ground for attorneys navigating high-conflict divorce and custody cases. Denise explains the distinction between narcissistic personality disorder and narcissistic traits, clarifies what narcissistic abuse and coercive control actually look like in practice, and unpacks the DARVO pattern — Deny, Attack, Reverse Victim and Offender — that abusers routinely deploy in courtrooms, mediation, and legal filings. She addresses why survivors of long-term abuse often appear dysregulated, scattered, or non-credible in legal settings, and why their failure to call police or press charges is rarely evidence that abuse did not occur.Denise also offers practical guidance for attorneys: how to recognize litigation abuse as a form of ongoing coercive control, why faster resolution generally better serves the survivor, what to look for when clients report stalking or monitoring, and how to help traumatized clients prepare for court appearances. This episode is an essential listen for any family law attorney whose clients may be navigating the aftermath of emotional, psychological, or coercive abuse. In this episode you will discover:• The difference between narcissistic personality disorder and narcissistic traits• What coercive control really is and how it works • How the DARVO (Deny, Attack, Reverse Victim and Offender) pattern works• Why survivors of narcissistic abuse appear dysregulated or non-credible in legal settings• What attorneys and judges should understand about the neuroscience of these kinds of relational traumas• Why stalking and digital monitoring within relationships is the number one predictor of escalation to physical violence• Actionable advice for attorneys working with abuse survivors Connect with Denise CapursoWebsite: dccounseling.orgInstagram: @Denise_supportcoach | @CharminglyToxicPodcast: Charmingly ToxicLocation: Frisco, Texas (serves clients statewide; offers attorney consultations)
Partnered with a Survivor: David Mandel and Ruth Stearns Mandel
Systems don't just “break” on their own. They do what they were designed to do, and too often that means extracting money, labor, and dignity while claiming to keep us safe. In this episode, David and Ruth sit down with Trisha McOrmond, a Red River Métis systems thinker, to explore what it means to navigate belonging when it's been fractured by family separation, colonisation, and institutions. They talk about the tension of feeling responsible to advocate, serve, and tell the truth without speaking for an entire community. They dig into why speaking from “I” and lived experience isn't selfish, it's accountable, and how the “royal we” can obscure harm in leadership, training, and professional spaces.Trisha shares what decolonising thinking means to her: shifting from a scarcity worldview—where you “arrive here wanting” and must prove your worth—to a relational one, where you “arrive here wanted,” and community organises around care, children, elders, and basic needs. That shift reshapes how we understand capitalism, business as service, and the subtle ways institutions protect capital, property, and liability over people.They also connect these ideas to domestic violence and child welfare systems. David, Ruth, and Trisha explore how deficit-based frameworks get weaponised against victims and targeted communities, how DARVO shows up at scale, and why asking “what will make this better?” can sometimes open doors that “what will make you safer?” closes.If you care about systems change, targeted communities, First Nations perspectives, institutional trust, and building safety through relationships, this conversation is for you.Subscribe, share this with someone doing hard systems work, and leave a review so more people can find the show.Send us Fan Mail Now available! Mapping the Perpetrator's Pattern: A Practitioner's Tool for Improving Assessment, Intervention, and Outcomes The web-based Perpetrator Pattern Mapping Tool is a virtual practice tool for improving assessment, intervention, and outcomes through a perpetrator pattern-based approach. The tool allows practitioners to apply the Model's critical concepts and principles to their current case load in realCheck out David Mandel's new book Stop Blaming Mothers and Ignoring Fathers: How to Transform the Way We Keep Children Safe from Domestic Violence.Visit the Safe & Together Institute website.Start taking Safe & Together Institute courses. Check out Safe & Together Institute upcoming events.
The Nurses Report on America Out Loud with Kimberly Overton, BSN, RN, BC-FMP – Kimberly and Jennifer Erin explore “Villain Syndrome,” revealing how survivors are often recast as the problem after abuse ends. They unpack trauma, DARVO, faith, and healing while challenging misplaced empathy, empowering listeners to reclaim truth, set boundaries, and rediscover their worth with clarity, courage, and compassion...
Narcissists typically avoid, deflect, or deny accountability to protect a fragile ego and maintain control, often viewing responsibility as a threat that triggers extreme shame or guilt. They commonly use tactics like gaslighting, blame-shifting, rewriting history, and DARVO. (Deny, Attack, Reverse Victim and Offender) All to avoid accountability and consequences.
Two years ago — on April 27, 2024 — Mica Francis was found dead in a North Carolina swamp after diverting from her normal routine to purchase a pawnshop firearm. Her ex-husband JP Miller is charged with federal counts of cyberstalking and lying to investigators which may head to trial this June. On this episode, investigative journalists Mandy Matney and Liz Farrell are joined by attorney Mandy Powers Norrell (MPN), a former South Carolina state legislator who helped write the state's 2015 domestic violence statute and now prosecutes those cases out of the Lancaster County Solicitor's Office. MPN walks us through why "Mica's Law," the coercive control bill named in Francis's memory, was rushed through a Senate subcommittee for the fourth session in a row — and what it actually takes to move a victims' bill in a legislature where paid lobbyists set the tone. The conversation dives deep on strangulation as a predictor of homicide, why DV charges still get pleaded down to assault and battery, DARVO, sleep deprivation as psychological warfare, and how Hollywood's age-gap fairy tales primed a generation of girls to mistake control for love. Lots to discuss… ☕ Cups Up! ⚖️ Episode References The inimitable Mandy Powers Norrell Chart of four levels of domestic violence in South Carolina The Post and Courier “Till death do us part” 2014 Series Mandy's Thread Post about Straight Party Line voting Explaining DARVO: Deny, Attack, Reverse Victim & Offender - Domestic SheltersLeading voice raising awareness of coercive control: Laura Richards Stay Tuned, Stay Pesky and Stay in the Sunlight...☀️ Premium Members also get access to all new bonus episodes, video episodes, case files, live trial coverage and exclusive live experiences with our hosts. CLICK HERE to learn more and join with Promo Code "COJ25" for your first month free! https://bit.ly/3BdUtOE. Luna Shark Merch With a Mission shop at lunasharkmerch.com/ Support Our Show, Sponsors and Mission: https://lunasharkmedia.com/support/ Quince - Hungry Root - Bombas Find us on social media: https://www.facebook.com/cupofjustice/ | https://www.instagram.com/cojpod/ Mandy Matney on Instagram | Liz Farrell on Instagram | Eric Bland on Instagram YouTube | TIKTOK *** Alert: If you ever notice audio errors in the pod, email info@lunasharkmedia.com and we'll send fun merch to the first listener that finds something that needs to be adjusted! *** *The views expressed on the Cup of Justice episodes do not constitute legal advice. Listeners desiring legal advice for any particular legal matter are urged to consult an attorney of their choosing who can provide legal advice based upon a full understanding of the facts and circumstances of their claim. The views expressed on the Cup of Justice episodes also do not express the views or opinions of Bland Richter, LLP, or its attorneys. **portions of this episode's production have been assisted by Ai models according to LUNASHARK's privacy and Ai Policies Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Content Warning & Disclaimer This true story contains detailed accounts of emotional abuse, psychological abuse, and narcissistic abuse that began in childhood and continued into adulthood. It includes descriptions of prescription drug misuse, recreational drug abuse, failed suicide attempts, and completed suicides. Please proceed with caution. This episode may be highly triggering for survivors of abuse, trauma, or those struggling with suicidal thoughts. Listener discretion is strongly advised. Throughout the interview, you'll hear the term DARVO — a common manipulation tactic used by abusers. DARVO stands for: Deny Attack Reverse Victim and Offender It occurs when the abuser flips the script, making the victim believe they are the problem and positioning themselves as the victim. This powerful form of gaslighting is explained clearly during Riel's powerful testimony. When I sat down with Riel, I thought I understood the broad strokes of her story. What unfolded was far more shocking and complex than I anticipated. The layers of betrayal — not just from her long-term partner, but also from her own mother — were deeply disturbing and completely unexpected. Riel survived 20 years in a toxic, chaotic relationship that should never have begun. Her story is a sobering reminder of how narcissistic abuse and childhood trauma can trap someone in a destructive cycle for decades. Stories like Riel's highlight critical warning signs of narcissistic abuse and emotional manipulation. Recognizing these red flags early can help you or someone you love avoid years of pain and escape the “conveyor belt of chaos” that toxic relationships often become. If you're in an abusive relationship, dealing with trauma from childhood, or supporting someone who is, this episode offers validation, insight, and hope. Host: Bill Mitchell If you're experiencing intimate partner abuse, coercive control, or narcissistic abuse—or if you suspect someone you care about is—Riel's story offers critical perspective on spotting red flags early, breaking free, and finding support. You're not alone, and recognizing the patterns can be the first step toward safety and recovery. Domestic violence resources are available 24/7—reach out if you need help. Are you a survivor ready to speak out? Email Bill Mitchell at BillMitchell@WhenDatingHurts.com to share your experience on the WHEN DATING HURTS Podcast. Get the WHEN DATING HURTS Book: Explore more through the WHEN DATING HURTS book by Bill Mitchell, available on Amazon in paperback, eBook, and audiobook formats. It's an essential resource for understanding domestic violence and dating safety. Bill Mitchell NOTE: If you are a survivor and want to share your story of abuse on the WHEN DATING HURTS Podcast, please email me: BillMitchell@WhenDatingHurts.com The WHEN DATING HURTS book (in paperback, eBook, and audiobook) can be found on Amazon. HELPFUL RESOURCES: • National Domestic Violence Hotline – The Hotline.org – Call 800-799-SAFE • LoveIsRespect – Call 866-331-9474 • RAINN (Rape Abuse Incest National Network) – RAINN.org – Call 800-656-4673 • SUICIDE HELPLINE: Call 988 Thank you for listening to our WHEN DATING HURTS podcast, Bill Mitchell WhenDatingHurts.com DISCLAIMER: The WHEN DATING HURTS Podcast is providing this platform for information to be shared. We do not state with any certainty that anything is true or untrue. Understand that what you hear is the viewpoint of the people sharing. The information, opinions, and recommendations presented in this Podcast are for general information only. Any reliance on the information provided in this Podcast is done at your own risk. This Podcast should not be considered professional advice. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Content Warning & Disclaimer This true story contains detailed accounts of emotional abuse, psychological abuse, and narcissistic abuse that began in childhood and continued into adulthood. It includes descriptions of prescription drug misuse, recreational drug abuse, failed suicide attempts, and completed suicides. Please proceed with caution. This episode may be highly triggering for survivors of abuse, trauma, or those struggling with suicidal thoughts. Listener discretion is strongly advised. Throughout the interview, you'll hear the term DARVO — a common manipulation tactic used by abusers. DARVO stands for: Deny Attack Reverse Victim and Offender It occurs when the abuser flips the script, making the victim believe they are the problem and positioning themselves as the victim. This powerful form of gaslighting is explained clearly during Riel's powerful testimony. When I sat down with Riel, I thought I understood the broad strokes of her story. What unfolded was far more shocking and complex than I anticipated. The layers of betrayal — not just from her long-term partner, but also from her own mother — were deeply disturbing and completely unexpected. Riel survived 20 years in a toxic, chaotic relationship that should never have begun. Her story is a sobering reminder of how narcissistic abuse and childhood trauma can trap someone in a destructive cycle for decades. Stories like Riel's highlight critical warning signs of narcissistic abuse and emotional manipulation. Recognizing these red flags early can help you or someone you love avoid years of pain and escape the “conveyor belt of chaos” that toxic relationships often become. If you're in an abusive relationship, dealing with trauma from childhood, or supporting someone who is, this episode offers validation, insight, and hope. Host: Bill Mitchell If you're experiencing intimate partner abuse, coercive control, or narcissistic abuse—or if you suspect someone you care about is—Riel's story offers critical perspective on spotting red flags early, breaking free, and finding support. You're not alone, and recognizing the patterns can be the first step toward safety and recovery. Domestic violence resources are available 24/7—reach out if you need help. Are you a survivor ready to speak out? Email Bill Mitchell at BillMitchell@WhenDatingHurts.com to share your experience on the WHEN DATING HURTS Podcast. Get the WHEN DATING HURTS Book: Explore more through the WHEN DATING HURTS book by Bill Mitchell, available on Amazon in paperback, eBook, and audiobook formats. It's an essential resource for understanding domestic violence and dating safety. Bill Mitchell NOTE: If you are a survivor and want to share your story of abuse on the WHEN DATING HURTS Podcast, please email me: BillMitchell@WhenDatingHurts.com The WHEN DATING HURTS book (in paperback, eBook, and audiobook) can be found on Amazon. HELPFUL RESOURCES: • National Domestic Violence Hotline – The Hotline.org – Call 800-799-SAFE • LoveIsRespect – Call 866-331-9474 • RAINN (Rape Abuse Incest National Network) – RAINN.org – Call 800-656-4673 • SUICIDE HELPLINE: Call 988 Thank you for listening to our WHEN DATING HURTS podcast, Bill Mitchell WhenDatingHurts.com DISCLAIMER: The WHEN DATING HURTS Podcast is providing this platform for information to be shared. We do not state with any certainty that anything is true or untrue. Understand that what you hear is the viewpoint of the people sharing. The information, opinions, and recommendations presented in this Podcast are for general information only. Any reliance on the information provided in this Podcast is done at your own risk. This Podcast should not be considered professional advice. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Content Warning & Disclaimer This true story contains detailed accounts of emotional abuse, psychological abuse, and narcissistic abuse that began in childhood and continued into adulthood. It includes descriptions of prescription drug misuse, recreational drug abuse, failed suicide attempts, and completed suicides. Please proceed with caution. This episode may be highly triggering for survivors of abuse, trauma, or those struggling with suicidal thoughts. Listener discretion is strongly advised. Throughout the interview, you'll hear the term DARVO — a common manipulation tactic used by abusers. DARVO stands for: Deny Attack Reverse Victim and Offender It occurs when the abuser flips the script, making the victim believe they are the problem and positioning themselves as the victim. This powerful form of gaslighting is explained clearly during Riel's powerful testimony. When I sat down with Riel, I thought I understood the broad strokes of her story. What unfolded was far more shocking and complex than I anticipated. The layers of betrayal — not just from her long-term partner, but also from her own mother — were deeply disturbing and completely unexpected. Riel survived 20 years in a toxic, chaotic relationship that should never have begun. Her story is a sobering reminder of how narcissistic abuse and childhood trauma can trap someone in a destructive cycle for decades. Stories like Riel's highlight critical warning signs of narcissistic abuse and emotional manipulation. Recognizing these red flags early can help you or someone you love avoid years of pain and escape the “conveyor belt of chaos” that toxic relationships often become. If you're in an abusive relationship, dealing with trauma from childhood, or supporting someone who is, this episode offers validation, insight, and hope. Host: Bill Mitchell If you're experiencing intimate partner abuse, coercive control, or narcissistic abuse—or if you suspect someone you care about is—Riel's story offers critical perspective on spotting red flags early, breaking free, and finding support. You're not alone, and recognizing the patterns can be the first step toward safety and recovery. Domestic violence resources are available 24/7—reach out if you need help. Are you a survivor ready to speak out? Email Bill Mitchell at BillMitchell@WhenDatingHurts.com to share your experience on the WHEN DATING HURTS Podcast. Get the WHEN DATING HURTS Book: Explore more through the WHEN DATING HURTS book by Bill Mitchell, available on Amazon in paperback, eBook, and audiobook formats. It's an essential resource for understanding domestic violence and dating safety. Bill Mitchell NOTE: If you are a survivor and want to share your story of abuse on the WHEN DATING HURTS Podcast, please email me: BillMitchell@WhenDatingHurts.com The WHEN DATING HURTS book (in paperback, eBook, and audiobook) can be found on Amazon. HELPFUL RESOURCES: • National Domestic Violence Hotline – The Hotline.org – Call 800-799-SAFE • LoveIsRespect – Call 866-331-9474 • RAINN (Rape Abuse Incest National Network) – RAINN.org – Call 800-656-4673 • SUICIDE HELPLINE: Call 988 Thank you for listening to our WHEN DATING HURTS podcast, Bill Mitchell WhenDatingHurts.com DISCLAIMER: The WHEN DATING HURTS Podcast is providing this platform for information to be shared. We do not state with any certainty that anything is true or untrue. Understand that what you hear is the viewpoint of the people sharing. The information, opinions, and recommendations presented in this Podcast are for general information only. Any reliance on the information provided in this Podcast is done at your own risk. This Podcast should not be considered professional advice. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Content Warning & Disclaimer This true story contains detailed accounts of emotional abuse, psychological abuse, and narcissistic abuse that began in childhood and continued into adulthood. It includes descriptions of prescription drug misuse, recreational drug abuse, failed suicide attempts, and completed suicides. Please proceed with caution. This episode may be highly triggering for survivors of abuse, trauma, or those struggling with suicidal thoughts. Listener discretion is strongly advised. Throughout the interview, you'll hear the term DARVO — a common manipulation tactic used by abusers. DARVO stands for: Deny Attack Reverse Victim and Offender It occurs when the abuser flips the script, making the victim believe they are the problem and positioning themselves as the victim. This powerful form of gaslighting is explained clearly during Riel's powerful testimony. When I sat down with Riel, I thought I understood the broad strokes of her story. What unfolded was far more shocking and complex than I anticipated. The layers of betrayal — not just from her long-term partner, but also from her own mother — were deeply disturbing and completely unexpected. Riel survived 20 years in a toxic, chaotic relationship that should never have begun. Her story is a sobering reminder of how narcissistic abuse and childhood trauma can trap someone in a destructive cycle for decades. Stories like Riel's highlight critical warning signs of narcissistic abuse and emotional manipulation. Recognizing these red flags early can help you or someone you love avoid years of pain and escape the “conveyor belt of chaos” that toxic relationships often become. If you're in an abusive relationship, dealing with trauma from childhood, or supporting someone who is, this episode offers validation, insight, and hope. Host: Bill Mitchell If you're experiencing intimate partner abuse, coercive control, or narcissistic abuse—or if you suspect someone you care about is—Riel's story offers critical perspective on spotting red flags early, breaking free, and finding support. You're not alone, and recognizing the patterns can be the first step toward safety and recovery. Domestic violence resources are available 24/7—reach out if you need help. Are you a survivor ready to speak out? Email Bill Mitchell at BillMitchell@WhenDatingHurts.com to share your experience on the WHEN DATING HURTS Podcast. Get the WHEN DATING HURTS Book: Explore more through the WHEN DATING HURTS book by Bill Mitchell, available on Amazon in paperback, eBook, and audiobook formats. It's an essential resource for understanding domestic violence and dating safety. Bill Mitchell NOTE: If you are a survivor and want to share your story of abuse on the WHEN DATING HURTS Podcast, please email me: BillMitchell@WhenDatingHurts.com The WHEN DATING HURTS book (in paperback, eBook, and audiobook) can be found on Amazon. HELPFUL RESOURCES: • National Domestic Violence Hotline – The Hotline.org – Call 800-799-SAFE • LoveIsRespect – Call 866-331-9474 • RAINN (Rape Abuse Incest National Network) – RAINN.org – Call 800-656-4673 • SUICIDE HELPLINE: Call 988 Thank you for listening to our WHEN DATING HURTS podcast, Bill Mitchell WhenDatingHurts.com DISCLAIMER: The WHEN DATING HURTS Podcast is providing this platform for information to be shared. We do not state with any certainty that anything is true or untrue. Understand that what you hear is the viewpoint of the people sharing. The information, opinions, and recommendations presented in this Podcast are for general information only. Any reliance on the information provided in this Podcast is done at your own risk. This Podcast should not be considered professional advice. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Send us Fan MailYou can ask for something small, like a knock before someone enters your space, and suddenly you're defending your character, calming their emotions, and questioning your own reality. That spiral is not a personal failure, it's often a predictable pattern in relationships with emotionally immature parents and other emotionally immature people. We talk about why “just set a boundary” can backfire for adult children of dysfunctional families, how guilt hijacks the nervous system, and why the aftermath can feel so lonely and disorienting.Jessica breaks down DARVO (deny, attack, reverse victim and offender) in plain language and explains how it fuels the crazy-making loop that pulls you back into caretaking. From there, we dig into the “healing fantasy” (a term from psychologist Lindsay Gibson): the relentless hope that if you find the perfect words, do enough therapy, or become “good enough,” they'll finally see you, validate you, and change. We also explore how that fantasy can quietly migrate into partnerships, friendships, and work, placing impossible pressure on other people to heal childhood wounds.We end with real, grounded hope: trauma may be part of your story, but it doesn't have to be your identity. We discuss grief work, inner child work, parts work, and rebuilding self-trust so your past can be true without wrecking you. If this conversation resonates, subscribe for more trauma-informed therapy conversations, share it with someone who needs language for what they're living, and leave a review so more listeners can find the show.This podcast is meant to be a resource for the general public, as well as fellow therapists/psychologists. It is NOT meant to replace the meaningful work of individual or family therapy. Please seek professional help in your area if you are struggling. #breakthestigma #makewordsmatter #thingsyoulearnintherapy #thingsyoulearnintherapypodcastIf you or someone you know is struggling with mental health concerns, please contact 988 or seek a treatment provider in your area.If you are a therapist or psychologist and want to be a guest on the show, please complete this form to apply: https://forms.gle/ooy8QirpgL2JSLhP6Feel free to share your thoughts at www.makewordsmatterforgood.com or email me at Beth@makewordsmatterforgood.comSupport the showwww.bethtrammell.com
Der findes mænd, der er blevet skilt fra en kvindelig covert narcissist, og som ikke tør tale højt om det. Systemet mangler sproget, omgangskredsen vender ryggen til, og børnene fanges i krydsilden.I denne episode sidder Sune ved mikrofonen og leverer en radikal overlevelsesguide — fra de første røde flag til den usynlige dobbeltkrænkelse, der venter i systemet.Landkortet for episoden:• Hvad covert narcissisme er: Vi trækker tråde til professor Sam Vaknin og dr. Peter Salerno — og forklarer, hvorfor den skjulte, kvindelige version er særligt usynlig for omverdenen.• Fasen, du først genkender for sent: Fra startens intense romantik og ros, til en endeløs række af kritikpunkter, og over tid falske anklager og afstraffelse ved at blive "lagt på is".• Smædekampagner og performativ sårbarhed: Hvordan hun bruger tårer og offerrollen som våben i systemet udadtil, mens hun nedbryder dig og gaslighter dit barn bag lukkede døre.• Dobbeltkrænkelsen: Hvorfor systemet fuldstændig mangler mønstergenkendelse, omdefinerer overgrebet til en "forældrekonflikt" og dømmer dig langt hårdere som mand.• Legal abuse og den feminine bias: Når sagsbehandlere og domstole ikke kan forestille sig, at en mor kan være hensynsløs og iskold over for sit eget barn.• BIFF-metoden og AI som skjold: Sådan formulerer du skriftlig kommunikation med hjælp fra AI, så dine følelser og frustrationer aldrig kan bruges imod dig.• Parallelt forældreskab: Nødvendigheden af at "speedrunne" din grænsesætning fra dag ét, at få advokater på tidligt, og hvordan du navigerer i samværsordninger (7/7 vs. 9/5) og bopæl.• Børnene i midten: Om triangulering, social isolation via "flying monkeys", og hvorfor systemets velmenende råd om at "tale mor op" reelt gør dig til en enabler der med-gaslighter dit eget barn og nedbryder dets selvforståelse, dømmekraft og anerkendelse af egne behov.• Dokumentation som redningskrans: Hvorfor du er nødt til at skrive tidslinjer og dagbog fra dag ét for at bevare din egen fornuft (sanity).Du er ikke svag, og du er ikke alene. Systemet er ikke bygget til at se mønsteret, men du kan lære at gennemskue det. Både for at beskytte dig selv, validere dine børns følelser og virkelighed — og lære dem at stå solidt i sig selv.Bemærk: Sune deler ærligt ud af sine egne, levede erfaringer for at støtte andre mænd i samme situation. Denne guide repræsenterer én mulig vej igennem systemet, men ethvert forløb er unikt. Brug derfor episoden som spejling og inspiration til din egen proces, frem for et endegyldigt facit.
Stop falling for the trap where your reaction to abuse becomes the "reason" for the abuse. Learn how narcissists use DARVO and reactive abuse to convince you that you are the toxic one in the relationship. As a diagnosed narcissist, I'm breaking down the mechanics of the "Villain Flip" so you can stop the second-guessing and start winning.Connect with Lee:My Courses: https://courses.mentalhealness.net 1-on-1 Coaching Calls: https://link.me/mentalhealnessAll My Link: https://beacons.page/mentalhealness Follow on Instagram/TikTok: @mentalhealnesssIf this episode helped you gain clarity, please leave a 5-star review on Spotify! It helps others find the validation they need to heal.
Sunes rejse fra psykiatrisk indlæggelse til videnskabeligt grundfæstede udvidede sanser — og hvorfor det er en universel menneskelig erfaring, ikke et særsyn.Vi starter i rygmarven og ender i mikrotubuli: WISER-studiets data om „Super Experiencers“, Telepathy Tapes og „Permeable Self“. Ikke for at bevise noget, men for at give dig sprog for det du måske allerede oplever og vise dig at du ikke er alene eller gak.Hvis du har oplevelser du ikke tør sige højt — det her er den episode hvor de bliver åbnet op.
In episode two of a three episode series Amber Meade and Andrea Vinton are giving us the definition of DARVO, a dance party, and a recap of The Valley.Social Media Outlets:Instagram:@ambermeade @lunalightcounseling@hunterhowl @the_real_bitch_of_bravoTikTok:@the_real_bitch_of_bravo @hunterhowl
Discover how narcissists manipulate, gaslight, and shift blame to control you and learn the exact strategies to break free. This episode exposes the most dangerous psychological tactics, including DARVO, projection, and emotional invalidation, while giving you powerful tools to reclaim your confidence, set boundaries, and take back control.
Quando a acusação não ésobre você: como identificar a projeção narcisista e parar de carregar culpaque não é suaSabeaquele momento em que alguém te acusa de algo que não faz o menor sentido — eainda assim você fica horas tentando entender onde errou? Nesse episódio, aThaís explica um dos mecanismos mais usados por pessoas narcisistas: aprojeção. Quando ele acusa você de mentir, de trair, de sumir — pode ser queesteja descrevendo exatamente o que ele mesmo faz. Você vai entender como essemecanismo funciona no inconsciente, por que você cai nessa armadilha (e não éfraqueza), o que a ciência diz sobre DARVO e projeção narcisista, e como seproteger sem precisar entrar no jogo. Escuta esse episódio se você já duvidouda sua própria percepção dentro de um relacionamento. Você não estava louca.
Recapping the Chappell Roan drama, discussing the realities of DARVO, and dealing with abuse in relationships. Thanks to our sponsors: Sign up and get 10% off at betterhelp.com/CHOSEN. FOLLOW CHOSEN FAMILY TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@chosenfamilypod. Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/chosenfamilypod/. Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC9WM_cdLWHtsCXLg3ygFiww. FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy. Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/. YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs. Twitter: https://twitter.com/AshGavs. FOLLOW ALAYNA JOY @MissFenderr YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/MissFenderr. Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/missfenderr/. Twitter: https://twitter.com/MissFenderr. TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@missfenderr. FOLLOW MAK INGEMI @Makingemi Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/makingemi. TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@makingemi. YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/Makingemi. JOIN OUR CHOSEN FAMILY PATREON https://www.patreon.com/chosenfamilypodcast. Watch our videos on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@chosenfamilypod. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
You know those relationships where you fall hard, fast… and then realize way too late just how much you've been played? The charm is electric, your heart is pounding, but there's this nagging voice inside saying, “Something isn't adding up…” In this episode, I'm sitting down with Harvard professor, happiness expert, and bestselling author Dr. Arthur Brooks to expose the Dark Triad: the three personality traits that make someone irresistible, manipulative, and ultimately dangerous. If you've ever been burned by a narcissist, felt totally confused about what's real, or wondered how the hell to stop the cycle, homie, this is your episode. Here's exactly what we dive into: The 5 early-warning traits all manipulative partners share… and how to spot them before it's too late The “DARVO” technique: Why leaving a toxic relationship can actually be the most dangerous phase, and how to outsmart abusers trying to punish you for leaving Practical tests, questions, and real-world tools to spot the Dark Triad… and the “light triad” you genuinely WANT in a partner SHOWNOTES Why Women Fall for Dangerous Men (And How They Spot Their Next Victim) Fake Signals: How Dark Triads Make Themselves Irresistible The Hidden Danger of Leaving: DARVO, Revenge, and Escalating Punishment The Dark Triad Test: How to Spot Manipulation on the First Date From Biology to Meaning: How to Break Patterns & Find Real Love Thank you to our sponsors: Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa AirDoctor: Up to $300 off with code LISA https://airdoctorpro.com Cozy Earth: code COZYLISA for 20% off https://cozyearth.com OneSkin: 15% off with code LISA at https://oneskin.co/lisa Follow Arthur Brooks:Website: https://arthurbrooks.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/arthurcbrooks YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@drarthurbrooks FOLLOW LISA BILYEU: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=enFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
You know those relationships where you fall hard, fast… and then realize way too late just how much you've been played? The charm is electric, your heart is pounding, but there's this nagging voice inside saying, “Something isn't adding up…” In this episode, I'm sitting down with Harvard professor, happiness expert, and bestselling author Dr. Arthur Brooks to expose the Dark Triad: the three personality traits that make someone irresistible, manipulative, and ultimately dangerous. If you've ever been burned by a narcissist, felt totally confused about what's real, or wondered how the hell to stop the cycle, homie, this is your episode. Here's exactly what we dive into: The 5 early-warning traits all manipulative partners share… and how to spot them before it's too late The “DARVO” technique: Why leaving a toxic relationship can actually be the most dangerous phase, and how to outsmart abusers trying to punish you for leaving Practical tests, questions, and real-world tools to spot the Dark Triad… and the “light triad” you genuinely WANT in a partner SHOWNOTES Why Women Fall for Dangerous Men (And How They Spot Their Next Victim) Fake Signals: How Dark Triads Make Themselves Irresistible The Hidden Danger of Leaving: DARVO, Revenge, and Escalating Punishment The Dark Triad Test: How to Spot Manipulation on the First Date From Biology to Meaning: How to Break Patterns & Find Real Love Thank you to our sponsors: Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa AirDoctor: Up to $300 off with code LISA https://airdoctorpro.com Cozy Earth: code COZYLISA for 20% off https://cozyearth.com OneSkin: 15% off with code LISA at https://oneskin.co/lisa Follow Arthur Brooks:Website: https://arthurbrooks.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/arthurcbrooks YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@drarthurbrooks FOLLOW LISA BILYEU: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=enFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
Conversamos con Ina Coveney, una emprendedora digital que ha realizado una intrigante transición a la industria automotriz. Desde su experiencia en Venezuela hasta su vida actual en Massachusetts, Ina comparte cómo la pandemia le permitió reinventar su negocio, enfocándose en ayudar a concesionarios de autos a mejorar su presencia digital. Destacamos estrategias de marketing que empoderan a sus clientes y desafiamos los estereotipos sobre el rol de las mujeres en este sector. Ina también aborda el concepto de "DARVO", situaciones laborales tóxicas y cómo superarlas. Enfatiza la importancia de construir confianza y conectar auténticamente con los clientes a través de un contenido atractivo. Finalmente, nos comparte su visión sobre un futuro programa de coaching para nuevos vendedores en concesionarios, motivando a los oyentes a arriesgarse y encontrar su propio nicho en un mundo en constante cambio.
Melissa discusses the recent breaking news regarding influencer Taylor Frankie Paul and her on again off again partner Dakota. YBT breaks down what happened, why it matters now, including new allegations and repercussions for SLOMW. Discussion of mental health, trauma, sex and love addiction and DV throughout.TW: DV, SA and Child Abuse YBT discusses social media rhetoric regarding reactive abuse and DARVO; explaining these clinical concepts and nuances to application. Melissa shares DV statistics, risk and protective factors and resources to find help. HELP IS AVAILABLE 1-800-799-SAFE, TEXT START to 88788 At the end, Melissa reads and answers some questions from Patreon THANK YOU FOR LISTENING and for all the support!Please follow YBT podcast and give a 5-star comment & rating (it really helps!)Please follow @yourbishtherapist on Instagram, Patreon, YouTube, FB, and TTFor full video (ad free, bonus content & early releases) visit YBT Patreon, Spreaker Supporters Club or YouTube Patreon: https://patreon.com/YourBishTherapist?utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=copyLinkAPPLE PODCAST https://apple.co/3MfskzeSpreaker Supporters club: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/your-bish-therapist--6065109/supportYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCu8bmVPTlWANg5v7rGRJjow?subconfirmation=1 To find links to all YBT content: https://linktr.ee/yourbishtherapistBrand Ambassador: www.Iamhumanthebrand.com for clothing with a purpose. Code BISH20 for 20% off purchaseDisclaimer: Posts are not intended to diagnose, treat or provide medical advice. Your Bish Therapist (YBT) is for entertainment and informational purposes only. The podcast, my opinions, and posts, are my own and are not associated with past or present employers, any organizations, Bravo TV, Grey Heart productions or any other television network. The information in YBT podcast and on its its social media is provided for general informational purposes only and is not intended to diagnose or treat. Please do not act or refrain from acting based on anything you read, see, or hear on YBT, podcast or associated social media. Communicating with YBT via email, and/or social media does not form a therapeutic alliance. Melissa, operator of YBT, is unable to provide any therapeutic advice, treatment or feedback.
In this episode, Dr. K explores the disturbing trend of weaponized therapy speak, where psychological language is used to manipulate others, dodge accountability, and exclude people from social groups,. He breaks down the "DARVO" framework and explains how people with "Dark Triad" traits use virtuous victimhood to control those around them,,. What to expect in this episode: The Weaponization of Healing: An analysis of how phrases like "you need to heal" or "cutting ties for my safety" are being used to blame others while playing the victim,. Understanding DARVO: A deep dive into the classic manipulative cycle of Denying the behavior, Attacking the person holding you accountable, and Reversing the roles of victim and offender,. The Dark Triad Connection: Why this behavior is often linked to psychopathy, narcissism, and Machiavellianism,. Virtuous Victimhood Signaling: How manipulators combine "being a victim" with "being a good person" to make their claims more believable to others,,. Asymmetric Resource Extraction: Why playing the victim is a highly effective way to get kindness, money, or support without having to give anything in return,. The "No-Engagement" Rule: Practical advice on how to handle a DARVO attack, including why you should stop trying to hold them accountable and focus on building one-on-one relationships instead,,.HG Coaching : https://bit.ly/46bIkdo Dr. K's Guide to Mental Health: https://bit.ly/44z3SztHG Memberships : https://bit.ly/3TNoMVf Products & Services : https://bit.ly/44kz7x0 HealthyGamer.GG: https://bit.ly/3ZOopgQ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Have you ever brought up an issue with someone and somehow ended up defending yourself instead? In this episode we break down the psychological tactic known as DARVO — Deny, Attack, Reverse Victim and Offender. This manipulation pattern is often used to escape accountability, distort conflict, and regain narrative control. We explore the science behind DARVO, why it works so effectively on empathetic people, and how it shows up in relationships, workplaces, and family dynamics. We also discuss how to recognize this pattern in others — and how to catch it in yourself before it damages trust.
This episode will be discussing the recent allegations of abuse between Taylor Frankie Paul and the father of her youngest son, Dakota Mortensen. We will be having in depth conversations to clear up some misconceptions about abuse, the dynamic of abuse, and if mutual abuse is possible. Please listen to this episode with care. Sources Used During this Episode: Mutual Abuse: https://www.thehotline.org/resources/mutual-abuse-its-not-real/Wheel Power & Control: https://www.thehotline.org/identify-abuse/power-and-control/Dynamics of Abuse: https://www.thehotline.org/resources/dynamics-of-abuse/Understanding Self Sabotage in Survivors of Domestic Violence: https://dvcontrolaltdelete.org/understanding-self-sabotage-in-survivors-of-domestic-violence/8 Tactics of Psychological Violence Used by Abusers in Intimate Partner Violence: https://sosviolenceconjugale.ca/en/articles/8-tactics-of-psychological-violence-used-by-abusers-in-intimate-relationshipsNarcissist Behavior Around Special Occasions: https://www.usatoday.com/story/life/health-wellness/2023/12/18/narcissists-are-nightmares-during-holidays-birthdays-how-to-cope/71937856007/Headlines in chronological order of when they came out: https://www.tmz.com/2026/03/15/secret-lives-of-mormon-wives-production-paused-taylor-dakota/https://www.tmz.com/2026/03/16/taylor-frankie-paul-allegedly-choked-dakota-mortensen/https://www.tmz.com/2026/03/17/taylor-frankie-paul-mass-calls-to-dakota-are-normal/https://www.tmz.com/2026/03/17/taylor-frankie-paul-breaks-silence-abuse-allegations/https://www.tmz.com/2026/03/17/abc-was-warned-about-taylor-frankie-paul-behavior-before-bachelorette/https://www.tmz.com/2026/03/18/dakota-mortensen-talks-taylor-frankie-paul-allegations/https://www.tmz.com/2026/03/18/taylor-frankie-paul-abuse-claims-cut-from-mormon-wives-reunion/Interviews After Headlines Broke: Good Morning America: https://youtu.be/GhH1ukVFCF0?si=Bu73ZPNcBTZRSoiMEntertainment Tonight: https://youtu.be/Vrh_Dl3Dof0?si=xVyH7yGo41_FQqQeMayci on Vial Files re Sabotaging Special Events for Taylor: https://www.instagram.com/reel/DWAwv7PjhMs/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link&igsh=NTc4MTIwNjQ2YQ==
Nolan Higdon, author and Disinfo Detox host, dismantles the "aberration" myth surrounding Jeffrey Epstein, exposing his deep ties to US/Israeli/Russian intelligence, insider trading, and elite blackmail networks spanning politics (Trump, Dershowitz), tech (Thiel, Palantir), academia (Chomsky, Summers), and media. Higdon reveals how partial Epstein file releases coincide suspiciously with Trump's Iran strikes—launched amid 30% approval and domestic scandals involving ICE—serving as potential distraction from scrutiny over unreleased files and foreign influence (Adelson/AIPAC). He contrasts US corporate media's sanitised narratives of regime changes (Venezuela's Maduro/Flores kidnapping echoing Panama 1989) with international reporting showing Iran's technological resilience and Israeli military setbacks. He critiques NATO's militarised "media literacy" weaponising education against disinformation while shielding Israel-led wars, Gaza genocide denial, and DARVO "self-defence" claims. Higdon warns of AI surveillance eroding youth cognition/social bonds, big tech's eugenics ideology (Yarvin/Thiel), economic fallout from oil spikes, Greenland piracy, and empire's dehumanising normalisation of child trafficking. Urging diverse sourcing beyond legacy media's Politburo-style control, he reveals 2026's fractures—war profiteering and unaccountable power elites. Get full access to Savage Minds at savageminds.substack.com/subscribe
Welcome to today's episode of What to Say and How to Say It with Nina Roesner and Kyle Hargrove. Have you ever confronted someone… only to somehow end up feeling like you're the problem? You're not crazy—and you're not alone. In this episode, we unpack a powerful and often misunderstood manipulation tactic called DARVO:
Have an episode suggestion? Text us!This week on Paige's Perspective, we're digging into DARVO—the manipulative pattern people use to avoid accountability by flipping the script and making you question your reality. You'll learn what DARVO looks like, why it happens, and how to spot it in both loud and subtle forms (even the sweet, guilt-soaked kind that sounds like love but isn't). I'll also share what healthy accountability sounds like and give you practical tools to protect your peace, stop overexplaining, and see DARVO for what it is—a mindf*ck, not a communication issue. If you've ever left a conversation feeling like you're the problem for speaking up… this one's for you.Find video clips and full length video from this episode on YouTube and our other social media pages!On the web:www.twfo.comSupport the Show:Buy Us a Coffee! Online Program: www.reclaiming-you.com Soberlink Device:www.soberlink.com/wheelsCheck out our blog:https://twfo.com/blogFollow us on TikTok:https://tiktok.com/@twfo_coupleFollow us on Instagram:https://instagram.com/twfo_couple/Follow us on Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/TWFOCoupleFollow us on YouTube:https://www.youtube.com/@twfo_coupleFind Taylor Counseling Group:https://taylorcounselinggroup.com/Donate to Counseling for the Future Foundation:Donate Here
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How did Eric Richins miss millions in debt allegedly piling up in his own marriage?The same way thousands of people miss it every day: the fog.This is Part 2 of "Surviving the Fog"—examining coercive control psychology through the Kouri Richins case. We're not diagnosing anyone. We're exploring patterns documented in abuse research.Gaslighting isn't casual lying. It's sustained psychological warfare designed to make you doubt your own mind. They deny what happened with absolute confidence. They attack your credibility. They reverse victim and offender until you're apologizing for bringing up something real.DARVO is the playbook: Deny. Attack. Reverse Victim and Offender.The fog is also exhaustion. Constant crisis that keeps you reactive instead of reflective. Every time you start to see clearly, a new emergency appears. That's not coincidence—it's strategy.Cognitive dissonance keeps you trapped. Your brain can't hold "I love this person" and "this person is destroying me" at the same time. So it rejects the truth to protect you from a reality that would shatter everything.The confusion is the tool. If you're constantly off-balance, you won't leave. You won't tell anyone. You won't act.You're not crazy. You're being made to feel crazy.Kouri Richins is presumed innocent until proven guilty.Join Our SubStack For AD-FREE ADVANCE EPISODES & EXTRAS!: https://hiddenkillers.substack.com/Want to comment and watch this podcast as a video? Check out our YouTube Channel. https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC8-vxmbhTxxG10sO1izODJg?sub_confirmation=1Instagram https://www.instagram.com/hiddenkillerspod/Facebook https://www.facebook.com/hiddenkillerspod/Tik-Tok https://www.tiktok.com/@hiddenkillerspodX Twitter https://x.com/TrueCrimePodThis publication contains commentary and opinion based on publicly available information. All individuals are presumed innocent until proven guilty in a court of law. Nothing published here should be taken as a statement of fact, health or legal advice.#KouriRichins #HiddenKillers #Gaslighting #SurvivingTheFog #DARVO #NarcissisticAbuse #EricRichins #CoerciveControl #PsychologicalAbuse #TrueCrime
Part 2 of "Surviving the Fog"—a psychological deep dive into how coercive control dismantles a victim's perception of reality.Prosecutors allege Kouri Richins was $4.5 million in debt while Eric apparently didn't see the full picture. How is that possible?The fog.This episode breaks down the mechanics:GASLIGHTING: Not just lying—sustained psychological manipulation. They deny what happened with absolute confidence. They tell you you're too sensitive, imagining things, always looking for problems. You stop trusting yourself entirely.DARVO: Deny, Attack, Reverse Victim and Offender. Every confrontation ends with you apologizing. You're the abuser for bringing up something real.ENGINEERED CHAOS: Constant crisis keeps you reactive. You can't analyze the pattern when you're just surviving. Whenever clarity breaks through, a new emergency appears.COGNITIVE DISSONANCE: Your brain can't hold two incompatible truths. "I love them" and "they're destroying me" creates unbearable tension—so your brain rejects the second truth.THE TOOL: Confusion keeps you frozen. You won't leave if you can't trust your own perceptions. The fog is the strategy.The first crack of light: recognizing you're not crazy. You're being made to feel crazy.We're not diagnosing Kouri Richins. We're examining patterns prosecutors have alleged and researchers have documented.Kouri Richins is presumed innocent until proven guilty.Join Our SubStack For AD-FREE ADVANCE EPISODES & EXTRAS!: https://hiddenkillers.substack.com/Want to comment and watch this podcast as a video? Check out our YouTube Channel. https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC8-vxmbhTxxG10sO1izODJg?sub_confirmation=1Instagram https://www.instagram.com/hiddenkillerspod/Facebook https://www.facebook.com/hiddenkillerspod/Tik-Tok https://www.tiktok.com/@hiddenkillerspodX Twitter https://x.com/TrueCrimePodThis publication contains commentary and opinion based on publicly available information. All individuals are presumed innocent until proven guilty in a court of law. Nothing published here should be taken as a statement of fact, health or legal advice.#KouriRichins #KouriRichinsTrial #Gaslighting #SurvivingTheFog #DARVO #NarcissisticAbuse #EricRichins #PsychologyDeepDive #CoerciveControl #MentalAbuse
Exhausted from dealing with toxic people? Ever feel like you're arguing with a brick wall? Or feeling disappointed (again) with people who promise the world but fail to deliver? In this episode, psychologist Traci Stein reveals the “psychology secrets” for dealing with difficult people. She covers why your need to be "right" might be counterproductive—and what actually works instead. Discover the game-changing difference between fighting ("boxing") and strategic redirection ("tai chi”). Learn to spot DARVO manipulation tactics before they derail you, and walk away with tools for setting boundaries that keep you safe and sane. If you've ever left a conversation thinking "why do I even bother?"—this episode will change how you show up, from the office to the dinner table.For more on Traci Stein, visit: https://www.drtracistein.com/To purchase Traci's audio meditations for setting better boundaries, “Letting Go of Unhealthy Relationships,” visit: https://tracistein.com/products/mp3-releasing-unhealthy-patterns-situations-emotional-cords-formerly-letting-go-of-unhealthy-relationships
There is a well-known cognitive phenomenon that we are all susceptible to, and even more so when we're stressed. And we're all at least a little stressed and overwhelmed right now.The illusory truth effect catches us when we repeatedly hear statements and begin to assume they are true through repetition and familiarity. Things feel true, even if they couldn't be further from it. Research has shown that sheer repetition can even override facts when we know better.Naming–systems, feelings, what we're witnessing, what's missing, what's wrong–is a powerful antidote to the illusory truth effect. Naming forces us to slow down. It interrupts the repetition. We can't meaningfully talk about integrity, values, courage, or innovation if we refuse to look directly at what is.My guest today reminds us that we can't disrupt what we can't name. And we can't heal what stays vague.Soraya Chemaly is an award-winning author and activist. As a cultural critic, she writes and speaks frequently about gender norms, social justice, free speech, sexualized violence, politics, and technology. The former Executive Director of The Representation Project and Director and co-founder of the Women's Media Center Speech Project, she has long been committed to expanding women's civic and political participation.Her most recent book, All We Want is Everything: How We Dismantle Male Supremacy, has been called “a potent rallying cry for a beleaguered feminist movement.” In it, she challenges dearly held beliefs about gender and equality today, drawing clear lines between the dynamics of intimate inequality and global anti-feminist, anti-democratic backlash and machofascism.Content warning: Discussion of details of the video footage leading up to Renee Good's murder, less-detailed discussion of sexual and gender-based violence and harassmentListen to the full episode to hear:Why we need to name systems clearly and specifically in order to challenge themHow male supremacy encompasses concepts of sexism, misogyny, and patriarchy and frames them as part of a larger hierarchical systemHow we're witnessing DARVO play out at scale in our government and media, as well as in personal interactionsHow deepfakes use the pervasive threat of sexual violence against women to dehumanize and enforce subjugationHow women play roles in passing on and enforcing male supremacyHow “the boy crisis” reinforces norms of masculinity at the expense of girls and womenWhy big tent politics that asks everyone but cis, straight men to give up fundamental rights cannot be a yardstick of successLearn more about Soraya Chemaly:WebsiteInstagram: @sorayachemalyAll We Want is Everything: How We Dismantle Male SupremacySubscribe to UnmannedLearn more about Rebecca:rebeccaching.comWork With RebeccaThe Unburdened Leader on SubstackSign up for the weekly Unburdened Leader EmailResources:Dechêne, A., Stahl, C., Hansen, J., & Wänke, M.. The Truth About the Truth: A Meta-Analytic Review of the Truth Effect. Personality and Social Psychology Review, 14(2), 238-257Pennycook, G., Cannon, T. D., & Rand, D. G. (2018). Prior exposure increases perceived accuracy of fake news. Journal of Experimental Psychology: General, 147(12), 1865–1880Thinking, Fast and Slow, Daniel KahnemanFazio, L. K., Brashier, N. M., Payne, B. K., & Marsh, E. J. (2015). Knowledge does not protect against illusory truth. Journal of Experimental Psychology: General, 144(5), 993–1002.EP 96: Rage to Action: The Leading Power of Women's Anger with Soraya ChemalyEP 117: Rethinking Resilience: Moving from Bouncing Back to Relational Resilience with Soraya ChemalyJennifer Joy Freyd, PhD.What is DARVO ? | Jennifer Joy Freyd, PhD.11. Boy Crisis Asides and the Invisible People and Power Living in Them | UnmannedAfterlives, Abdulrazak GurnahRadiohead - CreepI'd Love to Change the World - Ten Years AfterDon't Let's Go to the Dogs TonightBlondieThe Beginning Comes After the End: Notes on a World of Change, Rebecca Solnit
Peace and Forgiveness…For God's Glory In the final episode of the season, Yulee and Daniel share personal reflections on their healing journeys and emphasize the necessity of having support systems, practicing discernment, and engaging in healthy spiritual leadership that aligns with the gospel of grace. They also touch upon the 'whisper network,' the importance of fruit of the spirit, and practical ways to foster accountability and challenge toxic behaviors in ministry. 00:00 Introduction to Toxic Ministry 00:47 Personal Reflections and Listener Feedback 05:22 The Importance of Embracing Humanity 06:47 Evaluating Leadership and Power Dynamics 12:22 The Halo Effect and Leadership Pitfalls 20:19 DARVO and Toxic Leadership Responses 28:35 Receiving Feedback as a Leader 29:36 The Importance of Margins and Self-Care 30:10 Participating in Change and Addressing Toxicity 31:50 The Role of Integrity and Responsibility 33:34 Challenges of Speaking Up Against Toxic Leaders 42:46 The Whisper Network: Pros and Cons 48:16 The Importance of Community and Support 51:36 Concluding Thoughts and Reflections If you appreciate the work we do at the Asian American Center at Fuller Seminary, please consider supporting us! Your monetary support sustains our vital work and expands Asian American research, leadership development, and pastoral formation for the Church in the year ahead. Donate here: fuller.edu/giveaac
Send me a DM here (it doesn't let me respond), OR email me: imagineabetterworld2020@gmail.comToday I'm honored to have back on the show once again: Satanic ritual abuse, mind control, Stargate Project, Freemason, Jesuit, and organized abuse survivor, overcomer and whistleblower, loving mother, content creator, faithful servant to the most high, former school teacher, gardener, floral design extraordinaire, singer and songwriter, poet, poetry and creative writer, and someone I'm so grateful to call my friend: Kadaya Kaday was born into chains most people cannot even imagine - multi-generational webs of satanic ritual abuse, MK-ULTRA and MONARCH mind control, Freemasonic and Jesuit orchestrated ritual abuse, human trafficking, and deliberate soul-shattering trauma from infancy, perhaps even in utero. Programmed by her father - a 33rd-degree Freemason neurologist who turned the study of the brain into an instrument of enslavement - she was molded to serve darkness while her front personality lived what appeared to be and felt like an ordinary, happy, Christian childhood in Canada. Yet beneath the surface laid horrors beyond comprehension - and a silent scream wired into her nervous system so that pain could never find a voice.When memories began to surface in her twenties, she was met with disbelief, gaslighting, betrayal, and the full cult playbook: DARVO, ostracism, weaponization of her own children, financial strangulation, a fraudulent protective order, and exile across an international border with nothing but the clothes on her back.Her husband filed for divorce citing “delusional beliefs.” Family, friends, pastors, and authorities turned away or actively participated in her silencing. She lost her home, her livelihood as a public-school teacher, her safety, and - most agonizingly - daily access to her two beloved children, now used as collateral to punish her refusal to stay silent. But the enemy miscalculated.In the crucible of total loss, Kadaya met the only One more powerful than the programming or programmers: Yah, the Most High, the God of Israel, the Father who sees every hidden thing and whose word is sharper than any double-edged sword. Through raw, honest wrestling - she chose obedience over fear. She repented for generational sins she never chose, fasted and prayed, wrote the sins of her bloodline on a closet wall, and watched spiritual strongholds crack.On today's episode, Kadaya will be sharing ground-breaking information related to current national and global events, Nazi programming in the US and how these events relate to her personal experiences and and the current and upcoming DELTA activations, Sascha Riley, ICE, Donald Trump, the duality of politics and politicians, body memories and abreactions, and so much more. You won't want to miss a minute of this one! DONATE TO KADAYA'S GOFUNDME: https://gofund.me/cb63137dCONNECT TO KADAYA:IG: https://www.instagram.com/thesongofthelamb/?hl=enTelegram: https://t.me/thesongofthelambEmail: thesongofthelamb144@gmail.comCONNECT WITH EMMA: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@imaginationpodcastofficialEMAIL: imagineabetterworld2020@gmail.com OR standbysurvivors@protonmail.comMy Substack: https://emmakatherine.substack.com/BUY ME A COFFEE: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/theimaginationVENMO: @emmapreneurCASHAPP: $EmmaKatherine1204All liSupport the show
In this episode of Narcissist Apocalypse, Kris shares her journey of surviving childhood trauma and escaping an abusive relationship with a narcissistic partner. Growing up in a chaotic household with an authoritarian father, Kris learned early on to seek external validation and to read the moods of those around her for survival. These patterns primed her for manipulation, and when she met her future husband as a teenager, she became entangled in an isolating, controlling relationship marked by emotional abuse, intermittent reinforcement, gaslighting, and escalating physical abuse.It's a story of trauma bonding, authoritarian family dynamics, scapegoating, external validation, emotional abuse, triangulation, push-pull cycles, gaslighting, intermittent reinforcement, hoovering, generational trauma, future faking, guilt, shame, intimidation, control, isolation, financial abuse, smear campaigns, projection, physical abuse, sexual abuse, reproductive coercion, parental alienation, DARVO, self-blame, therapy, cognitive awakening, parallel parenting, and ultimately, rediscovering oneself. CONTENT WARNING - THIS EPISODE DISCUSSES PHYSICAL ABUSE, SEXUAL ABUSE, AND REPRODUCTIVE COERCION If you want to be a guest on our survivor story podcast, please click here or send us an email at narcissistapocalypse@pm.meClick on the title of our blog to read the Emotional Abuse Checklist.Sign up to our Domestic Violence Newsletter Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
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EJ Prior joins Stew Peters to blow the lid off the Utah courtroom scam. Erika Kirk, now running TPUSA, is using her Epstein-tied lawyer Jeffrey Neiman (who defended Alex Acosta, the guy who gave Epstein his sweetheart plea deal) to frantically push for a speedy conviction of patsy Tyler Robinson. Mitch Snow joins Stew to rip apart the TPUSA goons—Erika Kirk's Zionist attack dogs—who've been slinging personal smears to destroy the lone eyewitness to their Fort Huachuca hit on Charlie Kirk. But their DARVO tactics have exploded: every slanderer is now a subpoena target in Mitch's divorce case, forced under oath where lies mean perjury charges.
This episode unpacks what happens when speaking your truth gets twisted into a blame game. You finally name the pattern—gaslighting, neglect, constant eggshells—only to have the conversation hijacked. Suddenly you're defending a mistake from years ago, a text tone, or an unrelated incident. Instead of accountability, you're trapped in deflection, false equivalency, and emotional erasure.Jessica breaks down how this tactic shows up in everyday conversations, why it's such a powerful tool of emotional abuse, and how it connects to the larger cycle. She explains DARVO in real time, highlights the difference between repair and image management, and shares ways to recognize when the blame game is pulling you off center.If you've ever left an argument wondering how you became the problem just for naming your pain, this episode will help you see the pattern clearly—and remind you that you are not crazy.Support the show*Please Note: there is a long intro that explains my services. If you do not want to listen, just fast-forward 5 mins past. This intro will be changed in future recordings to be shorter. I am not paid to record this podcast and it is a free offering. Offering my work is the only way I can sustain the podcast* Join the Patreon: https://patreon.com/Youarenotcrazy *New Course*: Unhooked: Map the Cycle of Abuse in your Relationship Website: Emotional Abuse Coach and high-conflictdivorcecoaching.comInstagram: @emotionalabusecoachEmail: jessica@jessicaknightcoaching.com{Substack} Blog About Recovering from Abuse {E-Book} How to Break Up with a Narcissist{Course} Identify Signs of Abuse and Begin to Heal{Free Resource} Canned Responses for Engaging with an Abusive Partner
Today on What's Right:How the abuse tactic DARVO is used by the LeftThe radical Left used Renee GoodDems seek to Defund ICETime to start loving America againAcquiring GreenlandThanks for tuning into today's episode of What's Right! If you enjoyed this episode, subscribe to the show on Spotify or Apple Podcasts, and make sure you leave us a 5-star review.Have personal injury questions? Visit Sam & Ash Injury Law to get free answers 24/7.Connect with us on our socials:TWITTERSam @WhatsRightSamWhat's Right Show @WhatsRightShow
Why do so many women leave conversations feeling confused, guilty, or like everything is somehow their fault? In this episode of the Advancing Women Podcast, we dive into the subtle but corrosive relational patterns that show up in everyday work and home dynamics. The quiet processes that shift responsibility, distort accountability, and erode self-trust over time. We explore: DARVO” a defensive pattern (Deny, Attack, Reverse Victim and Offender) that flips accountability and turns the person raising concerns into the “problem” Gaslighting: not the buzzword, but the researched process that erodes trust in your own perceptions over time, especially in unequal power dynamics Fragile accountability: when feedback is experienced as attack, reasonable expectations feel persecutory, and responsibility collapses under discomfort Invisible labor: the mental, emotional, and logistical work women disproportionately carry, and how it fuels the “nagging” trap This episode explains why these dynamics feel so disorienting, how they thrive in gendered systems, and what changes when we finally name them clearly. If you've ever wondered: Why you're always apologizing Why accountability conversations go nowhere Why you feel responsible without having real authority This episode offers language, clarity, and release from misplaced guilt. Key takeaway: You're not imagining it. These are known patterns. Naming them doesn't make you difficult, it makes you awake. And clarity is where advancing begins. Advancing Women Podcast previous episodes referenced in this episode: Emotional Labor: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/emotional-labor/id1569849100?i=1000531515098 The 4 Ps Advancement Model: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-4ps-advancement-model/id1569849100?i=1000525495125 For more on the 4 Ps Advancement Model: https://advancingwomenpodcast.com/4ps-advancement-model-problem-patterns-process-proficiency/ Let's Connect: · Instagram: @AdvancingWomenPodcast https://www.instagram.com/advancingwomenpodcast/?hl=en · Facebook: Advancing Women Podcast https://www.facebook.com/advancingwomenpodcast/ · LinkedIn: Dr. Kimberly DeSimone https://www.linkedin.com/in/kimberly-desimone-phd-mba-ba00b88/
In this episode of Perfect Prey, I'm joined by Tonia Bales, author of When You See It: How I Outsmarted and Outlasted Dirty John. Tonia shares her story as the first wife of the man later known to the world as “Dirty John”—long before the podcast, Netflix series, or public recognition of who he really was.Tonia describes how coercive control, deception, and manipulation unfolded inside her marriage, how she began uncovering her husband's double life, and how the legal and family court systems failed to protect her and her children. This conversation offers a powerful look at how predators hide in plain sight, how survivors are often DARVO'd when they speak up, and how children become collateral damage in abusive systems.What we coverLife with Dirty John before the world knew his nameHow predators identify and target “perfect prey”Early warning signs, red flags, and deception hidden in plain sightDARVO tactics and false accusations used to silence victimsSubstance abuse, professional abuse of power, and systemic failureFamily court, coercive control, and the weaponization of childrenProtective parenting, resilience, and healing after profound traumaWhy listen If you are a survivor, protective parent, clinician, attorney, or advocate, this episode offers critical insight into how coercive control operates long before abuse is publicly recognized. Tonia's story underscores why survivors are not naïve or weak—and why systems must do better to protect those who speak up.Guest bio (short) Tonia Bales is a survivor of coercive control and the author of When You See It: How I Outsmarted and Outlasted Dirty John. Her story sheds light on the early patterns of abuse used by predators and the long-term impact of coercive control on victims and children. Through her writing and advocacy, Tonia works to educate the public and professionals about how abuse hides in plain sight—and why survivors must be believed.Book information When You See It: How I Outsmarted and Outlasted Dirty John Available for presale on Amazon and Barnes & Noble Release date: January 13Connect Tonia Bales:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/toniabales?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw==Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/tonia.bales/Book Pre-order Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0FCDDC6FL?utm_source=ig&utm_medium=social&utm_content=link_in_bio&fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAc3J0YwZhcHBfaWQMMjU2MjgxMDQwNTU4AAGnHUKUJZ66YW-ed61SGw-lrKgFG6dnBGrVNG3HKq8--EQOpUpk0p_RHBPIooU_aem_yzp5bcFQZ3qA-0ZB2cUsZQBook Pre-order Barnes & Noble: https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/when-you-see-it-tonia-bales/1147557107?utm_source=ig&utm_medium=social&utm_content=link_in_bio&fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAc3J0YwZhcHBfaWQMMjU2MjgxMDQwNTU4AAGnsCgCEudPLDgxvCiAhmFYxcmlITQgdX8Kg9N5ItIrcW5Doxah2aRfQpDKwmU_aem_nHP_j-GiGb8xTQFMQqQo4gConnect with Dr. Christine:Protective Parenting Program: https://www.coercivecontrolconsulting.com/services/for-parents/Official site: https://www.coercivecontrolconsulting.com/Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@DrCocchiola-coercivecontrol/videosTiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@dr.c_coercivecontrolIG: https://www.instagram.com/dr.cocchiola_coercivecontrol/TEDxTalks: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gp2qByKOue4&t=24sBooks: https://url-shortener.me/c/FramedBookhttps://url-shortener.me/c/EveryMomentOfEveryDayIf this episode landed for you, please share it with someone who needs to hear it, subscribe for more trauma-informed conversations, and consider leaving a review — it helps other survivors find validation and safety.— Dr. Christine Cocchiola & guest Tonia Bales
Hey, Survivor! Narcissistic abuse doesn't always look volatile or obvious. Sometimes it's calm, polite, credentialed, and protected by institutions. In Episode 161 of The Vibrant Survivor Podcast, we explore the polite, professional narcissist—the kind who hides behind charm, titles, faith language, or public service while causing harm behind the scenes. We break down why these individuals are often protected, where they operate, and how organizational systems can enable abuse. You'll learn about DARVO, organizational narcissism, and why survivors are often dismissed or silenced when abuse doesn't match stereotypes. Using Dr. Sears' LEAN wellness framework, this episode offers grounded tools for clarity, regulation, and self-trust—especially after the holidays, when professional and community contact increases. If you, or someone you know, have ever felt confused, invalidated, blamed, or punished for speaking up in a “respectable” environment, this episode will help you name what happened—and trust yourself again. Know who you're dealing with. Know who you are.
In this episode of Perfect Prey I'm joined by my friend and colleague Dr. Ramani Durvasula, a clinical psychologist, author, professor, and internationally recognized expert on narcissistic abuse. We dig into why coercive control feels like imprisonment without bars, how systems (including family court) retraumatize survivors, and what survivors can do to protect themselves and their children. What we coverWhy coercive control is often invisible — and why the myth of “free will” makes it so hard for institutions to understand emotional abuse.How victim-blaming and the DARVO pattern (Deny, Attack, Reverse Victim & Offender) let abusers manipulate sympathy in court.The difference between milder narcissistic traits and the kind of malignant, coercive abuse that creates real danger and CPTSD-like responses.Practical, trauma-informed strategies for surviving family court: what to document, when to prioritize safety over “justice,” and how to protect your children while minimizing retraumatization.The “industrial divorce complex” — how systems and money can deepen harm, and what survivors can do strategically to preserve their safety and sense of self.Why listen If you're a survivor, a clinician, a legal professional, or someone trying to understand a loved one's experience, this conversation names the harms you may not see on the surface and gives clear, compassionate guidance for staying safe and getting validated. You'll hear clinical insight paired with real-world, tactical advice about custody, court behavior, and how to build a safety-first plan.Guest bio (short) Dr. Ramani Durvasula, Ph.D., is a licensed clinical psychologist, author, and media expert who writes and speaks widely about narcissism, personality disorders, and relationship dynamics. She maintains a clinical practice and educational network focused on helping people heal from narcissistic relationships. Connect with Dr. Ramani:Official site: https://doctor-ramani.com/drn/Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@DoctorRamaniTiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@doctorramaniIG: https://www.instagram.com/doctorramani/Podcast: Navigating Narcissism with Dr. RamaniBooks: https://www.amazon.co.uk/stores/Ramani-Durvasula/author/B00C2C5U0O?ref=ap_rdr&isDramIntegrated=true&shoppingPortalEnabled=trueConnect with Dr. Christine:Protective Parenting Program: https://www.coercivecontrolconsulting.com/services/for-parents/Official site: https://www.coercivecontrolconsulting.com/Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@DrCocchiola-coercivecontrol/videosTiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@dr.c_coercivecontrolIG: https://www.instagram.com/dr.cocchiola_coercivecontrol/TEDxTalks: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gp2qByKOue4&t=24sBooks: https://url-shortener.me/c/FramedBookhttps://url-shortener.me/c/EveryMomentOfEveryDayIf this episode landed for you: share it with someone who needs to hear it, subscribe for more trauma-informed conversations, and leave a rating — it helps more survivors find validation and safety.— Dr. Christine Cocchiola & guest Dr. Ramani Durvasula
Hey, Survivor! Tired of the narcissist playing victim, after causing chaos, confusion and harm? In this episode, I'm talking about DARVO, bad acting, why this gut punch is especially hurtful, and how to overcome it. You can reclaim your power after this narcissistic abuse tactic and heal. Your truth and peace matter! If you, or someone you know, need validation and empowerment, this episode is for you. Know who you're dealing with. Know who you are.
There's a moment when "endure it" becomes "end it," not because you stopped believing in God's power to heal, but because refusing to betray your God-given boundaries is how you stop betraying yourself. This week on Win Today, Lysa TerKeurst joins me to confront the realities so many live in silence: when it's biblically wise to end a marriage, how we talk ourselves out of our own boundaries, why loneliness is sometimes God's operating room, and what you must know about narcissistic abuse—gaslighting, trauma bonds, and DARVO—so you can name what's happening and get safe. If you've been praying for clarity while living in chaos, this conversation is a lifeline. Guest Bio Lysa TerKeurst is President and Chief Visionary Officer of Proverbs 31 Ministries and a #1 New York Times bestselling author. Having walked through public heartbreak and private rebuilding, she helps people leave destructive patterns with biblical clarity and practical courage. Today isn't about her résumé; it's about your safety, your sanity, and your future. Show Partner SafeSleeve designs a phone case that blocks up to 99% of harmful EMF radiation—so I'm not carrying that kind of exposure next to my body all day. It's sleek, durable, and most importantly, lab-tested by third-party laboratories. The results aren't hidden—they're published right on their site. And that matters, because a lot of so-called EMF blockers on the market either don't work or can't prove they do. We protect our hearts and minds—why wouldn't we protect our bodies too? Head to safesleevecases.com and use the code WINTODAY10 for 10% off your order. Episode Links Show Notes Buy my NEW BOOK "Healing What You Can't Erase" here! Invite me to speak at your church or event. Connect with me @WINTODAYChris on Instagram, Facebook, Twitter, and YouTube.
Slam The Gavel welcomes back Jamie Logan from Massachusetts. She was last on the podcast Season 5, Episode 175. Jamie's children were staying with her in Massachusetts for the past 11 months, however Colorado ruled the custody to the father BEFORE the findings of the UCCJEA (Uniform Child Custody Jurisdiction and Enforcement Act) came out. Jamie is sharing the TRANSCRIPT of the Body Cam footage or her minor child. What happened on 9/24/2025, a terrified teen walked into the Colorado, Erie Police Department asking for help and safety. Instead of protection, he encountered a system that dismissed his fear, minimized his injuries and blamed HIM for defending himself. The police normalized it, while the police sergeant reframed a child's panic and pleas for help as "normal discipline." "Everything I've shared in this episode is based on the Colorado Erie Police Department body-camera recordings from September 24, 2025. These are my opinions and my reflections on what those recordings show.I'm sharing my story so people understand what families go through when the system fails to listen to a child." States Jamie Logan.To Reach Jamie Logan: jlmama952@gmail.comSupportshow(https://www.buymeacoffee.com/maryannpetri)Maryann Petri: dismantlingfamilycourtcorruption.comhttps://www.tiktok.com/@maryannpetriFacebook: https://www.youtube.com/@slamthegavelpodcasthostmar5536Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/guitarpeace/Pinterest: Slam The Gavel Podcast/@guitarpeaceLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/maryann-petri-62a46b1ab/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@slamthegavelpodcasthostmar5536 Twitter https://x.com/PetriMaryannEzlegalsuit.com https://ko-fi.com/maryannpetrihttps://www.zazzle.com/store/slam_the_gavel/about*DISCLAIMER* The use of this information is at the viewer/user's own risk. For information only and no affiliation with legislation, bills or laws. Not financial, medical nor legal advice as the content on this podcast does not constitute legal, financial, medical or any other professional advice. Viewer/user's should consult with the relevant professionals. Reproduction, distribution, performing, publicly displaying and making a derivative of the work is explicitly prohibited without permission from content creator. Podcast is protected by owner. The content creator maintains the exclusive right and any unauthorized copyright.Support the showSupportshow(https://www.buymeacoffee.com/maryannpetri)http://www.dismantlingfamilycourtcorruption.com/
Author and Feminist Sarah Gate and I discuss the recent issue with a female door dash driver who was confronted with a naked man when delivering food to his house. How we always give men the benefit of the doubt but never women. We always jump to point out what the woman did wrong.
Are domestic violence jokes ever okay? Is it “just a joke”... or something much deeper? Hear from a DV survivor about why DV jokes aren't funny - and how they're actually harmful. From “punching down” humor to the subtle gaslighting survivors face when the world laughs off abuse, we'll talk about how society normalizes violence against women under the guise of comedy.You'll learn: ✨ Why “joking about DV” reinforces real-world harm ✨ What “punching down” means & why it's not real comedy ✨ How casual comments & memes retraumatize survivors ✨ What to say when someone makes a DV joke ✨ How to trust your own reactions when others minimize abuseWhether you've ever wondered “is it okay to joke about domestic violence?” or you've been the only one at the table not laughing, this episode will help you name what's happening, protect your peace, & stand in your power.
This week on Sibling Rivalry, Monét is again confronted about her messy website links before Bob and Monét start DARVO-ing each other. They rehash their foot race drama, debate shoe sizes, and test their Spanish comprehension while asking if speaking louder actually helps when someone doesn't understand. They discuss who really came up with the idea for the podcast, and Bob calls out the tipping point of Monét's lies—including the revelation of who she almost started a podcast with instead of him. They also ask if Monét is intimidated by Bob's singing, and then Monét (and Jacob) spoil an old show Bob just started watching. Want to see exclusive Sibling Rivalry Bonus Content? Head over to www.patreon.com/siblingrivalrypodcast to be the first to see our latest Sibling Rivalry Podcast Videos! @BobTheDragQueen @MonetXChange Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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