Podcast appearances and mentions of Joel W Hawbaker

My guest today is Joel W Hawbaker discussing his 10 Commandments for blending families.What a fascinating podcast this is listening to Joel share his tips and advice for bringing your families together. Positive thoughts and different perspectives on so many step family topics.A podcast for all step/biological parents to listen to. Two coaches giving their advice and sharing their own experiences to help step families in so many different environments.Please click on the link below for all my podcasts and step family articles.https://www.stepparentworld.com/

Todays episode is an interview I did with Joel W. Hawbaker, the host of the 10CBF: A Podcast for Blended Families. We discussed a Step-Dad's journey, the struggles and wins and we dive into my adventures over the past 10 years as a Step-Dad. Joel is the host of the 10CBF: A Podcast for Blended Families". 10CBF is an interview-based show that provides tips and strategies that are immediately applicable to help struggling families while also sharing inspiring stories of blended family successes. Various experts and I will discuss issues unique to remarriage, coparenting, and other aspects of blended family life. In addition, each episode will bring you random quotes and references from Middle-earth, Narnia, Hogwarts, and more. Come and join the 10CBF (10 Commandments for Blended Families) community to help your family today! Follow Joel on Instagram@ joelwhawbaker Apple Podcast@ https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/10cbf-a-podcast-for-blended-families/id1536606184 Anchor Podcast@ https://anchor.fm/10cbf Website: www.theprofessionalstepdad.com Email Me Your Stories: contact@theprofessionalstepdad.com ⬇️ Social Media ⬇️ Instagram@ https:https://www.instagram.com/theprofessionalstepdad TikTok@ https://www.tiktok.com/@theprofessionsalstepdad Apple Podcast@ https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-professional-step-dad-podcast/id1504288883 Spotify@ https://open.spotify.com/show/7kYcvYqG2ihQCOmEkEvt7c Tumblr@ https://www.tumblr.com/blog/theprofessionalstepdad

Mae l'ovannen! Welcome to the 10CBF Community, and thanks for joining me for this inaugural episode of 10CBF: A Podcast for Blended Families! In this episode you'll learn about: 1) the 2 Pillars for Blended Families 2) the 5 Discussions Every Blended Family Needs to Have 3) the 10 Commandments of Blended Family Life Be sure to check out the blended family resources listed below and also come and connect with me on social media. http://familylifeblended.com/ https://www.familylife.com/familylifeblended/blended-families/ https://www.christianbook.com/stepfamily-healthy-family-revised-expanded-edition/ron-deal/9780764212062/pd/212062 https://gilandbrenda.com/restored-remarried/ If you'd like a free copy of my Complete Blended Family Toolkit, just email me at joel@joelwhawbaker.com or send me a message on social media. Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/joel.w.hawbaker/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/joelwhawbaker/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/JoelWHawbaker LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/joel-w-hawbaker-9421a077/ Also, for more information about blended families and the work I do, please check out the following websites: http://joelwhawbaker.com/ https://reallifeleading.com/ http://stepdadding.com/

Mae lo'vannen! Welcome and well-met! In this second episode of 10CBF: A Podcast for Blended Families, I take some time to share my blended family story, beginning with my parents' divorce when I was in middle school, through my first marriage, my divorce, and then my remarriage back in 2014. I share some insights and stories about what caused my mindset to shift, and I also share some of what I've learned about blended families. Thanks for joining me on this journey, and I hope that you are encouraged, challenged, and inspired by what you hear! If you'd like a free copy of my Complete Blended Family Toolkit, just email me at joel@joelwhawbaker.com or send me a message on social media. Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/joel.w.hawbaker/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/joelwhawbaker/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/JoelWHawbaker LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/joel-w-hawbaker-9421a077/ Also, for more information about blended families and the work I do, please check out the following websites: http://joelwhawbaker.com/ https://reallifeleading.com/ http://stepdadding.com/

Our special guest today is Joel Hawbaker. A Blended Family Coach (Joel W. Hawbaker Coaching), Author (Inverted Leadership: Lead Others Better By Forgetting About Yourself), Teacher and Soccer Coach. We each have 24 hours in a day and what we do with our time is of great importance. joelwhawbaker.com

Fellow teacher, soccer player and coach, professional speaker, author, and life coach Joel W. Hawbaker discusses his struggles as a "Raphael" and his various experiences with blended families.

Join us this 4th of July weekend as we sit down with Joel Hawbaker. A blended family coach. https://joelwhawbaker.com/ www.krisandkristineshow.com Don't forget to SUBSCRIBE, rate and review, we love those five star reviews! Thanks for tuning in and until next time…keep moving forward! Follow us on Twitter: @k2showsandiego Follow us on Instagram: @thek2showsandiego Email us at: krisandkristinepodcast@gmail.com Support us on Patreon at: www.patreon.com/thekrisandkristineshow The Kris and Kristine Show Podcast is recorded in Audacity https://www.audacityteam.org/ using the following equipment: BEHRINGER Audio Interface, 4-Channel (UMC404HD) https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00QHURLHM/ref=cm_sw_r_em_taa_HmjzEbW4P3C1K Audio-Technica ATR2100-USB Cardioid Dynamic USB/XLR Microphone https://www.amazon.com/dp/B004QJOZS4/ref=cm_sw_r_em_taa_2pjzEbAQHBJ1J Knox Microphone Shock Mount for Audio-Technica ATR2100-USB and Samson Q2U https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07KBWHJB5/ref=cm_sw_r_em_taa_dsjzEbFAJGEKJ Aokeo Professional Microphone Pop Filter Mask Shield For Blue Yeti and Any Other Microphone, Dual Layered Wind Pop Screen With A Flexible 360° Gooseneck Clip Stabilizing Arm https://www.amazon.com/dp/B01N21H9WY/ref=cm_sw_r_em_taa_MqjzEbGGPAZR5 OneOdio Adapter-Free Closed Back Over Ear DJ Stereo Monitor Headphones, Professional Studio Monitor & Mixing, Telescopic Arms with Scale, Newest 50mm Neodymium Drivers - Black https://www.amazon.com/dp/B01N6ZJH96/ref=cm_sw_r_em_taa_-qjzEbVKPN7ZP Post-production editing is completed using Levelator which can be found at: http://www.conversationsnetwork.org/levelator Remote podcasts and interviews are completed using Cleanfeed which can be found at: https://cleanfeed.net/

Joel W. Hawbaker is an award-winning teacher, Amazon #1 best-selling author, professional speaker, and blended/stepfamily coach who loves helping families live more positively and cooperatively together. Having been a part of a blended family for most of his life, Joel now seeks to help others in similar situations. He has recently written a 31-day devotional for blended families, and he is currently working on both a book and an online course based on his '10 Commandments of Blended Family Life.' Joel and I talked about how to be intentional about your family relationships even while going through a divorce/having an ex, and while blending a new family! Connect with Joel and receive his "Complete Stepfamily Toolkit," six tools to help your family immediately! at https://reallifeleading.com/, http://stepdadding.com/ (http://stepdadding.com/), or http://joelwhawbaker.com/ Join the Family Success Toolkit Free Membership http://homeandfamilyculture.com These episodes are screened on Fridays before they publish inside of the Family Culture Hackers Facebook group! Come check it out at www.facebook.com/groups/familyculturestrategies 

When it comes to divorce, it's never easy, and it's often chaotic. Yet, when you realize that it is not your job to get your ex-spouse to do what you want, and it is your job to find ways to make it work, then success happens...even if it is a challenge. Learning from his own experience of living in an unconventional blended family where his divorced parents actually got along, Joel Hawbaker knew when he realized he was headed for divorce, he was going to have to invoke to rules to live by to make his kids a priority and his ex-wife an ally and not an enemy. Today he and I talk about creating blended families that work for everyone. About JoelJoel is an award-winning high school teacher, a #1 Amazon best-selling author, a professional speaker, and frequent podcast guest who loves helping others grow through courage, confidence, and humility. By sharing personal stories of failure and success, using humor and engagement, Joel teaches blended families how to live more cooperatively and positively together. He is a divorced and remarried husband and a father of two amazing teenage daughters. He and his family live in Alabama with their two rescue dogs Bruiser and Butterscotch. When he’s not busy speaking, writing, teaching, or coaching, Joel is longing for the day when he can go on his dream vacation of visiting Hobbiton in the Shire. Connect With Joel Website (http://www.joelwhawbaker.com) Business Website (http://www.reallifeleading.com) Hey Guys, Check This Out!Are you a guy who keeps struggling to do that thing? You know the thing you keep telling yourself and others you’re going to do, but never do? Then it’s time to get real and figure out why. Join the 40 Plus Men's Chat's. Learn about about - Click Here! (https://rickclemons.com/40-plus-mens-chats/) Break free of fears. Make bold moves. Live life without apologies P.S. get your free My Bold Life Manifesto, right here - (https://rickclemons.com/manifesto/) You can also listen to the podcast on… (https://apple.co/2Q4nnbt)   (https://www.stitcher.com/podcast/rick-clemons/forty-plus-real-men-real-talk)   (https://www.podchaser.com/podcasts/40-plus-real-men-real-talk-854094)   (https://radiopublic.com/40-plus-real-men-real-talk-WoBlp5)  

Joel W. Hawbaker is a Real Life Leader, professional speaker, author, award-winning teacher, coach, husband and father. He lives in Alabama with his wife Maryellyn, his two daughters, and their two rescue dogs Butterscotch and Bruiser. On this episode:Joel shares about being teacher in addition to being an entrepreneur.Learn how to be extremely productive with your time.Joel shares lessons from being a part of a blended family.Tweetable Quotes:If you really want to get something done, you’ll find a way to get it done.What are you willing to give up in the short term for a long term gain?If I am in doubt about where I am – I need to ask myself how I got here.Whatever position we are in is either leadership or training for leadership.The stories we tell ourselves shape who we become.Joel Hawbaker:https://www.linkedin.com/in/joel-hawbaker-9421a077/twitter.com/JoelWHawbakerwww.facebook.com/reallifeleadingTo inquire about speaking availability and/or to stay informed on our announcements, please use the form on the home page or email Joel at joel@speakerjoel.com. In return, he will send you a free copy of his e-book (Extra)Ordinary Leadership: 10 Things Dad Taught Me Without Saying Anything, as well as blog updates, podcast interviews, and other information blended family life. Schedule a free 15 minute call with Hans here:https://calendly.com/h-struzyna/15minFor more information about Hans Struzyna and Another Way to Play, visit:anotherwaytoplaypodcast.com See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

2-Minute Tip: Greet Audience Members Early   As much as practical, if you have time before your speech, meet some members of your audience. Greet them as they come in and sit down. This accomplishes a couple things.   First, it’s the start of a relationship with a new person. For part of your audience, you will no longer be just that person on the stage. Instead you will be that person they were just chatting with who is now on the stage. As you build that relationship, you are building trust.   Second, it gives you some familiar faces you can look for when you are on the stage. This encourages you to engage in more eye contact, and it gives you some people you can specifically look for.   As a bonus, it can even help with speaker nerves by distracting in that period before your talk.   Post Tip Discussion: Meet Joel Hawbaker   Joel Hawbaker has fully embraced the storytelling aspect of speaking. And why wouldn’t he? Telling stories is how civilizations have shared their histories, their lessons, and their faiths for millennia.   It’s how religions today share the lessons and directives of their prophets and marketing departments around the world grow their profits. And it’s how you can make history compelling and memorable for the toughest audience in existence — school kids.   Humility is not thinking less of yourself, it’s thinking of yourself less CS Lewis   I also like Joel’s thoughts on the importance of humility for not just a speaker and teacher, but for any expert. There’s an importance in going back to basics and working on fundamentals. Success requires a strong foundation, and not thinking you’re too good to work on the basics.   Even an experienced speaker needs to think through their content, do the prep work, and practice.   This focus on humility and going back to basics is an important that can help us connect with more audiences. They’re the best way to celebrate the hero of our talks — the message.   Bio   Joel W. Hawbaker is a professional speaker, an author, and a high school teacher and soccer coach in Alabama where he lives with his wife, his two daughters, and their two rescue dogs. Joel has a degree in History from Covenant College, and he also spent time studying Medieval Civilizations at New College, Oxford, in the UK. In his professional speaking, Joel focuses on the topics of blended family life, leadership, and education. His goal is to help people form better relationships through a combination of confidence and humility. In addition to his books on leadership, he is currently working on a book about blended family life.   Writing the Book   Joel talked about his approach to writing his book. He worked on his outlines in the evening, and he filled them out while driving to work. This can be a great approach, assuming you can do it safely. This is a great job for a dedicated digital recorder. For a task like this, the small, cheap ones are probably fine.   This is an approach that can work because editing is easier than creating. Once Joel had his recordings done, he could turn them into transcripts and then edit them into a book.  Even with that, it still took him a year to write, “Inverted Leadership.”   But he did it.   On Strokecast, I talked with true crime author Paul Sanders. He finished his latest book a week before he had his stroke. That stroke robbed him (at least for now) of his ability to write books.   So don’t wait. Get that book written now. Joel found a way to write it during his commute. How can you find a way to write yours?   Links   Joel’s Website https://reallifeleading.com/ Joel’s book on Amazon https://www.amazon.com/Inverted-Leadership-Others-Forgetting-Yourself/dp/1983110167/ref=sr_1_1 Joel on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/joel.w.hawbaker Also Joel on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/RealLifeLeading/ Joel on Twitter https://twitter.com/RealLifeLeading Joel on LinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/in/joel-hawbaker-9421a077/ John Acuff Newsletter https://acuff.me/newsletter/ Chandler Bolt’s Self-Publishing School https://self-publishingschool.com/ Rob Kosberg’s Best Seller Publishing http://bestsellerpublishing.org/ John Wooden on socks https://www.newsweek.com/john-wooden-first-how-put-your-socks-167942 Vince Lombardi on a football https://jamesclear.com/vince-lombardi-fundamentals Westbrook Christian Academy http://www.westbrookchristianschool.org/   Call To Action   Check out Joel’s book and web presence Share this episode with 3 colleagues by giving them the link http://2MinuteTalkTips.com/Joel Don’t get best…get better   2-Minute Talk Tips is the public speaking podcast that help you become a more effective speaker in as little as 2 minutes a week.

melissa@blendedfamilypodcast.com www.blendedfamilypodcast.com   Joel W. Hawbaker is a high school teacher and a soccer coach in Alabama where he lives with his wife, his two daughters, and their two rescue dogs Butterscotch and Bruiser. He is also a professional speaker and author, focusing on leadership, education, and especially blended family life. He has been remarried for five years, and he seeks to inspire other blended families to live a more harmonious life through grace, patience, and mutual respect. When he grows up, Joel wants to be a fighter pilot and a black belt. He joins me for this Father’s Day special to talk about his own journey with fatherhood in a blended family. In this interview we discuss His personal story Why he is in his current line of work Challenges in his own blended family His 10 Commandments of blended family life And much more! Fathers Day article from National Geographic, History of Father’s Day Connect with Joel Website Facebook Facebook Group Twitter LinkedIn   Connect with me Join the Private Facebook Group Connect with me on Facebook Connect with me on Twitter Connect with me on Instagram   Send questions or feedback to melissa@blendedfamilypodcast.com Send me a voicemail at Speakpipe Visit the website at www.blendedfamilypodcast.com Sign up for my monthly newsletter Listen and Rate/Review on Itunes   Schedule an interview, coaching session, or financial review here Take my money quiz here to see how financially literate you are!

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Today's Guest: Joel W. Hawbaker Joel W. Hawbaker is a high school history and Bible teacher as well as a soccer coach in Alabama, where he lives with his Maryellyn, his two daughters, and their two energetic rescue dogs Bruiser and Butterscotch. Joel has a B.A. in history from Covenant College, and he also spent time studying Medieval Civilizations at New College, Oxford, in the UK. When he's not teaching or coaching, Joel is a professional speaker who shares on the topics of leadership, education, and blended family life. He is the author of the #1 Amazon bestselling ebook '(Extra)Ordinary Leadership: 10 Things Dad Taught Me,' and the Amazon #1 bestselling book 'Inverted Leadership: Lead Others Better By Forgetting About Yourself.   Joel W. Hawbaker: Website: reallifeleading.com Facebook: Joel W. Hawbaker LinkedIn: Joel W. Hawbaker Twitter: @reallifeleading Amazon Ebook: (Extra)Ordinary Leadership: 10 Things Dad Taught Me Amazon Paperback/Ebook: Inverted Leadership: Lead Others Better By Forgetting About Yourself FREE Audiobook copy of "The Hobbit" and a FREE 30 Day Trial: Audible Fred Koepp: Twitter/Instagram: @fred_nationBusiness Account: @teacherrecharge Facebook: Fred Motivates Website: www.fredmotivates.com Podcast Website: www.teacherrecharge.podbean.com Email: teacherrechargepodcast@gmail.com   You can also listen on: Stitcher iTunes Google Play Podbean Spotify Player FM  

Joel W. Hawbaker is a high school teacher and soccer coach in Alabama where he lives with his wife, his two daughters, and their two energetic rescue dogs. Joel is also a professional speaker who focuses on the topics of leadership, blended family life, and education. His book, 'Inverted Leadership: Lead Others Better By Forgetting About Yourself' was a #1 Bestseller on Amazon in the Business Leadership category, and he is currently working on his next books. Website: www.reallifeleading.com Twitter: @RealLifeLeading LinkedIn: Joel Hawbaker Facebook: Joel W. Hawbaker, facebook.com/reallifeleading

Today's Life's Black Belt guest is Joel W. Hawbaker. Joel is a Real Life Leader: husband, father, award-winning high school teacher and soccer coach in Alabama. In addition, Joel is a public speaker and the author of "Inverted Leadership:Lead Others Better By Forgetting About Yourself" which is available on Amazon https://www.amazon.com/Inverted-Leadership-Others-Forgetting-Yourself/dp/1983110167/ref=tmm_pap_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&qid=&sr= Joel talks about life, career and family. Meeting his future wife young and then having his two daughters. However he was a little too focused on his teaching career and coaching soccer. He discusses getting divorced, which caused him to focus on improving himself, while learning how to balance his life out in a more productive way. He stresses how important it was for him to maintain a healthy friendship with his ex wife so that the focus of their relationship could remain on what was best for their daughters. Both Joel and his ex are remarried and maintaining of positive and loving environment for their new family dynamic is essential for him. His life experience as a teacher, coach, father, husband and man of faith led him to author his first book, "Inverted Leadership."Since writing his book, Joel continues to engage in public speaking tours to help inspire others around him. He is working on a 2nd book now. He still teaches, coaches and speaks in front of many groups teaching them about his experiences so that they too may become a more impactful leader in life. I think you will find our conversation very inspiring. Watch the interview on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6uqKOmup2-EYou can learn more about Joel at http://reallifeleading.comTwitter: https://twitter.com/RealLifeLeadingFacebook:https://www.facebook.com/RealLifeLeading/Linked in: https://www.linkedin.com/in/joel-hawbaker-9421a077Follow Life's Black Belts:Twitter: https://twitter.com/lifesblackbeltsFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/LifesBlackBelts/Instagram: @LifesBlackBelts**If you like the show please share with friends, share episodes on social medial and please give us a 5 star rating in iTunes or wherever you listen.***I love your comments as well, please share your thoughts and ideas on the show. Leave a comment on social media or email me lifesblackbelts@gmail.comThanks for listening-Eric

Joel is an award-winning high school teacher and championship soccer coach who is also an author and public speaker, focusing on leadership and education. He is a husband, a father, and he is currently working on his first book about leadership, due to be published in early summer.     Joel has been studying leadership in different ways since 2000 when he first began studying servant leadership at Covenant College. Joel has always loved that model of servant leadership, but the concepts of Confident Humility really became a core part of his identity following his divorce. After his divorce, Joel was forced to confront the fact that almost all the negatives in his life were the result of his own pride, and therefore the only solution is humility. These lessons then became applicable in every area of his personal and professional life, from his second marriage, to his parenting, to the way in which he teaches, coaches, speaks, and writes. And Joel believes these same concepts and principles are applicable in every area of every else's life as well.   Questions You'll Hear Today:   1) Why is rethinking leadership so crucial to building a successful business? 2) What is Confident Humility, and what does it have to do with business and entrepreneurship?  3) How do these principles apply to my specific business venture or to various business models? 4) Why does a leader's attitude and approach matter even more than any product or service? 5) Why do you focus so much on relationships when discussing these topics? 6) Do these principles apply well to a large group, or just in small groups?     Connect with Joel W. Hawbaker:   Website: www.reallifeleading.com Twitter: @RealLifeLeading Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/RealLifeLeading/ Email: joel@speakerjoel.com LInkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/joel-hawbaker-9421a077/