Podcast appearances and mentions of Susan J Elliott

Send us a textOK so this week is a bit of a hopefully powerful, but definitely no-holds-barred conversation about reclaiming your strength and exposing male privilege in relationships. I may go ever so slightly off-piste on my soapbox (!) but I genuinely feel that it is important that we talk about this stuff.We talk in the episode about how male privilege impacts not just relationships, but society as a whole. What are the ‘modern' views on gender norms? And what does this mean for power and control of women? We touch on issues like the rise of the "trad wife" trend and how societal shifts still struggle to break free from patriarchal values.Using the Power and Control Wheel, we look at the influence of male privilege in abusive dynamics and how this can fuel this control over women - but also how this is almost facilitated by our societal culture. As a bit of an intro to all of this, we also touch on why Friday the 13th is secretly a day of female power (and how to reclaim it!)

Send us a textEver wish you could rewrite the past? Sadly, we can't turn back time, but we can definitely rewrite our future—and that's exactly what we're diving into today. In this episode, I break down Dr. Ramani Durvasula's game-changing book, “It's Not You”. This book is an absolute MUST-read if you've ever found yourself tangled up with a narcissist, whether it's an ex, a parent, or even a boss. In this overview of the book, we pull out the different types of narcissism, and look at  how to identify these toxic traits; as well as the devastating impact they can have, and most importantly, how to reclaim your life. If you're ready to stop playing the narcissist's game and start writing your own story, this episode is for you. I hope you take something away from the episode, and please, if you do enjoy it, please please please help a gal out and rate and review the episode! Thank you

Send us a textAfter a divorce, many of us expect the worst of our emotional struggles to be over. But, as I've come to understand through my own journey and conversations with others, the first relationship after a divorce can bring a heartbreak that's unexpected and uniquely f*cking painful.In this episode, I dive into why this post-divorce heartbreak can feel even more intense than the divorce itself. I explore the emotional layers involved, from unresolved trauma to the pressures we put on ourselves to find happiness again. Most importantly, I discuss ways to navigate this pain and use it as a catalyst for healing and growth.I hope you take something away from the episode, and please, if you do enjoy it, please please please help a gal out and rate and review the episode! Thank you

Send us a Text Message.In this episode of "The Divorce Chapter" podcast, I reflect on the challenges of coping with anniversaries after a divorce. As someone who's been through the utter shitshow of a marriage ending, I know first-hand how difficult these days can be, especially in that first year. Anniversaries, such as your wedding date or other significant milestones shared with your ex, can bring a FLOOD of emotions—sadness, anger, or even a sense of loss for the future you once planned.I delve into why these dates are so emotionally charged, and how they can trigger feelings of grief and nostalgia. I also share my own experiences with significant anniversaries, like how I dealt with my first wedding anniversary post-divorce by escaping to Cyprus and then making a decision to change my goddamn life.Hopefully you'll be able to get a few ideas too about how to plan ahead to reclaim the date and reclaim gorgeous YOU ❤️In the episode, I also celebrate a new anniversary - the first one of this podcast. I never ever thought I'd be saying that but here we are and it's all thanks to you as a wonderful listener.Thank you thank you thank you

Heartbreak, the emotional pain and distress caused by the loss or ending of a romantic relationship, can have various effects on individuals, which is what we spoke about with Notes on Heartbreak author and Vogue columnist Annie Lord on the "How To Be Books Podcast".Please hit subscribe to hear the whole series on life skills and social change! It should be short and sweet. I look forward to journeying with you through this maze of hacks.Other amazing guests who took part:Tanya Unkovich is a public speaker, executive mentor and skilled expert in mastering resilience and the author of "Grief to Greatness.Thanks to 'Brian' for contributing. ** Anonymous contribution.Other books/articles looked at:Susan J. Elliott, J.D., M.Ed: Getting Past Your Breakup: How to Turn a Devastating Loss into the Best Thing That Ever Happened to You.

In this episode, Amber and Tina chat about how they practice self care and easy ways you can incorporate self care into your daily routine. We also recommend the best self help resources we've used to help us through the healing process. Here are a few links for items mentioned in the episode:Actif Organics Prenatal Vitamins: https://www.amazon.com/Actif-Postnatal-Vitamins-Lactation-Supplement/dp/B01EGV5AVM/ref=sr_1_3?crid=XZQFUKXAEGKR&dchild=1&keywords=actif+organics+prenatal&qid=1611090365&sprefix=actif+%2Caps%2C283&sr=8-3Getting Past Your Breakup: How to Turn a Devastating Loss into the Best Thing that Ever Happened to You by Susan J. Elliott: https://www.amazon.com/Getting-Past-Your-Breakup-Devastating/dp/0738213284/ref=sr_1_2?crid=JYQWFUDIBGEC&dchild=1&keywords=getting+over+your+breakup&qid=1611090431&sprefix=getting+over+your+break%2Caps%2C264&sr=8-2You Can Heal Your  Life by Louise Hay: https://www.amazon.com/You-Can-Heal-Your-Life/dp/0937611018/ref=sr_1_1?crid=3T6PGLITP1Q5X&dchild=1&keywords=you+can+heal+your+life+by+louise+hay&qid=1611090630&sprefix=you+can+heal%2Caps%2C278&sr=8-1Heart Talk: The Journal: 52 Weeks of Self-Love, Self-Care, and Self Discovery by Cleo Wade: https://www.amazon.com/Untitled-Journal-Be-Confirmed/dp/1982140798/ref=sr_1_2?crid=TG1PSB3FKCB4&dchild=1&keywords=heart+talk+the+journal+by+cleo+wade&qid=1611090665&sprefix=heart+talk%2Caps%2C254&sr=8-2

Listen as I share my story of an unexpected event - the sudden news that my husband wanted out of our 31 year marriage. This is an uplifting podcast that shares my struggles and triumphs after receiving the news along with practical advice to other women and men who may be experiencing this.  This first episode shares the book "Runaway Husbands," written by Vikki Stark, an essential guide for women who are dealing with "Wife Abandonment Syndrome," and ends with three tips that women can use to help them overcome and build a better life after.  Suggested books: Run Away Husbands: The Abandoned Wife's Guide to Recovery and Renewal by Vikki Stark Crazy Time: Surviving Divorce and Building a New Life by Abigail Trafford Getting Past Your Breakup by Susan J. Elliott

In today’s episode, special guest Dr. Joy Harden Bradford, joins us share her insight and strategies for getting through that break-up.  Dr. Joy is a trailblazer in fighting the stigma of seeking therapy and her knowledge and expertise in helping women heal from unhealthy and unhappy relationships provides listeners with great tips on how best to deal with the difficult emotions that arise when faced with a break-up.   Thoughts on why getting past a break up is so difficult (even when you know its for the best) are shared as well as reasons why you may continue to desire connection, even when you say the relationships is over. Dr. Joy Harden Bradford is a clinical psychologist with a practice in Atlanta, GA and she is also well known for her podcast Therapy for Black Girls.  She has also created a national directory which lists Black therapists in cities across the US, which has become an important and popular resource for those seeking therapy.  Dr. Joy has made various media appearances and has been featured in well-known publications including “O” Magazine, where she promotes the benefits and importance of seeking therapy.  Her commitment to combating the stigma of seeking help has been hugely successful, as more people of color begin to reach out for help in dealing with life’s issues. How to reach Dr. Joy: Dr. Joy's Website Dr. Joy's FB Group Dr. Joy's FB Page Dr. Joy's Online Support Group Books Dr. Joy referenced: Self-Compassion: The Proven Power of Being Kind to Yourself, By Kristen Neff It’s Called a Break-up Because it’s Broken: The Smart Girl’s Break-up Buddy, by Greg Behrendt Getting Past Your Breakup, by Susan J. Elliott   Relationship Recipes Resources: Kim’s Book is Available on Amazon: Relationship Recipes Book by Kim Knight FB Group: Relationship Recipes Lounge FB Page: Relationship Recipes Let us know what topics you want to hear us discuss. Leave suggestions in the FB Group Relationship Recipes Lounge or send us an email.  Need therapy??   Therapy for Black Girls Therapy for Black Men Psychology Today Directory Remember to share the podcast with family and friends, and don't forget to leave a review in iTunes! Contact Kim at:  relationshiprecipespodcast@gmail.com    

Susan J. Elliot is a sought-after dating commentator, relationship coach, author, blogger and lawyer. She is the author of the book, Getting Past Your Breakup: How to Turn a Devastating Loss Into the Best Thing That Ever Happened to You. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Overcoming a breakup can be a real challenge. Often, to be successful in the next relationship, we must understand the parts of us that broke up, too. Learning to recognize, evaluate, and change the negative patterns that repeatedly show up in our relationships is hard, but with some research, introspection, and practice, it's possible to take a step forward and get back out there. As with anything, re-entering the dating scene is a process. In Getting Back Out There, a sequel of sorts to her book Getting Past Your Break Up, Susan J. Elliott outlines the pains and gains inherent in facing the dating scene again. With insight into the “Five Rs”—Readiness, Rejection, Recycling, Rebounding, and Retreating—Elliott illuminates the bumps we can expect on the road to a new relationship, and shows us how to cope with them. In this segment of The Organic View Radio Show, host, June Stoyer, talks to author, Susan Elliot about her best-selling book, Getting Back Out There: Secrets to Successful Dating and Finding Real Love after the Big Breakup. Stay tuned! Today's show is sponsored by Austria's Finest Naturally Authentic Pumpkin Seeds and Pumpkin Seed Oil from the Steiermark available at OrganicUniverse.com. Listeners of TheOrganicView can receive $1 off their purchase by using the coupon code "orgview".  For more offers, please visit our website at www.theorganicview.com

Overcoming a breakup can be a real challenge. Often, to be successful in the next relationship, we must understand the parts of us that broke up, too. Learning to recognize, evaluate, and change the negative patterns that repeatedly show up in our relationships is hard, but with some research, introspection, and practice, it's possible to take a step forward and get back out there. As with anything, re-entering the dating scene is a process. In Getting Back Out There, a sequel of sorts to her book Getting Past Your Break Up, Susan J. Elliott outlines the pains and gains inherent in facing the dating scene again. With insight into the “Five Rs”—Readiness, Rejection, Recycling, Rebounding, and Retreating—Elliott illuminates the bumps we can expect on the road to a new relationship, and shows us how to cope with them. In this segment of The Organic View Radio Show, host, June Stoyer, talks to author, Susan Elliot about her best-selling book, Getting Back Out There: Secrets to Successful Dating and Finding Real Love after the Big Breakup. Stay tuned! Today's show is sponsored by Austria's Finest Naturally Authentic Pumpkin Seeds and Pumpkin Seed Oil from the Steiermark available at OrganicUniverse.com. Listeners of TheOrganicView can receive $1 off their purchase by using the coupon code "orgview".  For more offers, please visit our website at www.theorganicview.com Do you like FREE stuff? Tune in to The Organic View Radio Show, Monday through Friday @6pm Eastern and visit our contest section at www.theorganicview.com/contests to win one of our monthly prizes!

Overcoming a breakup can be a real challenge. Re-entering the dating scene is a process. Susan J. Elliott's new book, "Getting Back Out There: Secrets to Successful Dating and Finding Real Love after the Big Breakup," outlines the pains and gains inherent in facing the dating scene again. Susan discusses her “Five Rs”—Readiness, Rejection, Recycling, Rebounding, and Retreating— help you navigate the bumps you can expect on the road to a new relationship, and shows you how to cope with them. This show is broadcast live on W4WN Radio – The Women 4 Women Network (www.w4wn.com) part of Talk 4 Radio (http://www.talk4radio.com/) on the Talk 4 Media Network (http://www.talk4media.com/).