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Join Racheal Reed-Maloney (she/her), Jenae McCall (they/she), and Marissa Moreno (she/her) as they talk about the “American Murder: Gabby Petito” documentary on Netflix.Learn about how the cycle of violence appeared in her relationship, the danger assessment, and how missing white girl syndrome impacts the missing and murder cases of folks of color.Sources:Gabby Petitio Foundationhttps://gabbypetitofoundation.org/gabbys-storyDanger Assessment https://www.dangerassessment.org/about.aspxIntimate Partner Homicidehttps://everytownresearch.org/dr-jill-messing-understanding-risk-factors-for-intimate-partner-homicide/Missing White Woman Syndrome https://www.c-span.org/clip/public-affairs-event/user-clip-gwen-ifill-coins-the-term-missing-white-woman-syndrome/4666788Power & Control Wheel https://static1.squarespace.com/static/5a68ba6f268b96c4f3f48a38/t/64dbe956677cdd3ac4445c39/1692133718435/FINAL+PC+Wheel+and+Cycle+Combined.pdf+%283%29.pdfCycle of Violence https://www.thepca.org/relationship-violence-1Senate Bill 1117 Utah DV Bill https://www.upr.org/utah-news/2023-03-03/utah-legislature-passes-domestic-violence-billLawsuit Against Utah Police https://abcnews.go.com/US/gabby-petitos-family-contends-lawsuit-utah-cops-treated/story?id=97593426How to Help a Loved One https://www.thepca.org/how-to-help-a-loved-oneIf you are in crisis and need immediate support, please call our 24/7 interpersonal violence helpline at 303-556-2255.Request an Appointment with an Advocate athttps://www.thepca.org/online-appointment-requestRequest a Violence Prevention Presentation at https://www.thepca.org/prevention-educationInstagram @phoenixauraria
Welcome to the third episode of the series “The Lost Episodes”. In this episode, we dive into the nuances of identifying abuse and understanding the dynamics of domestic violence. Learn about Johnson's typology and the Power and Control Wheel, crucial tools for recognizing patterns of manipulation and control. Whether you're a survivor or supporting someone who is, this conversation is essential listening for fostering awareness and advocating for healthy relationships. Watch the video podcast on Youtube: A Date With Darkness Email questions or comments to Dr. Jones admin@drnataliejones.com Sign up for the free ebook on Red Flags in Your Relationships and the free weekly newsletter for tips about narcissistic abuse at www.drnataliejones.com Individual and group membership coaching sessions opening soon. Get on the mailing list to be the first to know here. Visit the website for more information: https://www.adatewithdarkness.com Let's keep the conversation going via social media: Instagram: A Date With Darkness Twitter: @Adatewdarkness Facebook: A Date With Darkness To connect with others who are seeking support from hurtful and abusive relationships please join the Facebook group: A Date With Darkness group
In this episode, Crystal and Laura discuss recent viral videos that beg the question: When exactly does weaponized incompetence turn into emotional abuse? Is it always emotional abuse? Resources from this Episode:Fresh Starts RegistryTheHotline.OrgPower and Control WheelCycle of Abuse WheelJoin our Patreon!Have a domestic dilemma or question? Leave us a message on Speakpipe! https://www.speakpipe.com/timetolean OR DM us on IG @timetoleanpodFollow Time to Lean on social media @timetoleanpodFollow Laura on social media @thatdarnchatFollow Crystal on social media @itscrystalbrittDomestic Violence Resources Please note: We are not your doctors. None of what we say should be considered a replacement for therapy. :) Get bonus content on Patreon Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Send us a textOK so this week is a bit of a hopefully powerful, but definitely no-holds-barred conversation about reclaiming your strength and exposing male privilege in relationships. I may go ever so slightly off-piste on my soapbox (!) but I genuinely feel that it is important that we talk about this stuff.We talk in the episode about how male privilege impacts not just relationships, but society as a whole. What are the ‘modern' views on gender norms? And what does this mean for power and control of women? We touch on issues like the rise of the "trad wife" trend and how societal shifts still struggle to break free from patriarchal values.Using the Power and Control Wheel, we look at the influence of male privilege in abusive dynamics and how this can fuel this control over women - but also how this is almost facilitated by our societal culture. As a bit of an intro to all of this, we also touch on why Friday the 13th is secretly a day of female power (and how to reclaim it!)
Statistics suggest that marital rape happens in 10-14% of all California marriages. However, the silence surrounding marital rape leaves many victims unaware that they can seek help. In this episode of “Between Friends” Zakia Afrin and Indira Chakravorty discuss Indira's Article on Marital rape as a tool for domestic violence in the recently published “Khadr Dhare Ghor”/ an edited book of essays on Domestic violence published in Kolkata Book Fair, 2023. পরিসংখ্যান বলে, কালিফরনিয়ায় শতকরা ১০ থেকে ১৪ টি দাম্পত্য সম্পর্কে যৌন নির্যাতন ঘটে থাকে। তবু এই বিষয়ে রাখ ঢাক থাকায় অনেকে জানেন না, সাহায্য পেতে হলে কি করতে হবে। এই নিয়ে কথোপকথন রইল আমাদের এবারের পর্বে। Zakia Afrin is the Director of Survivor Advocacy at Maitri. Indira Chakravorty, Author, co-founder of Daya-Houston and Saheli Houston; and volunteer at Maitri. --------------------- Useful resources: Danger Assessment Toolhttps://www.dangerassessment.org/.../DA_NewScoring_2019.pdf Marital Rape Incident in Bangladesh https://www.thedailystar.net/.../marital-rape-killed... 498A of the Indian Penal Code https://indiankanoon.org/doc/538436/ Maitri Discussion on Domestic Violence deaths in the South Asian community https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3AtE6X0aAVM&t=0s No means No Campaign https://www.nomeansnoworldwide.org/Healthy Relationship and Power and Control Wheel; The South Asian Context https://www.facebook.com/maitribayarea/posts/pfbid031iDvU4181ix6HHLTDZuA1z2mm28NxRB53X92FzLu8dsnJUgPdm6k9SnAucScBW9Vl Reproductive Coercion https://www.thehotline.org/resources/reproductive-coercion/ This project was made possible by funding provided by the County of Santa Clara Office of Gender-Based Violence Prevention. [www.sccendviolence.org] --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/maitribayarea/message
We have gotten a lot of questions about gaslighting and narcissism, and today Dr. Kim is answering. This topic is layered and one podcast episode cannot take the place of more in-depth interventions, but we can offer helpful and hopeful next steps. In today's episode we're covering how to know what constitutes abuse versus the sin nature we all struggle with. Listen for We pray this episode is helpful for you and your marriage. Episode highlights include: Marriage counseling doesn't work with abusers – So what does? Can a marriage recover after long-term gaslighting? How to diagnose abuse using the power and control wheel Does the “gray rock” strategy work in marriage? Reasons why emotional abuse is often dismissed *Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out here! QUOTES “Narcissism is all about power and control. Neither of those have a place in marriage at all.” - Dr. Kim Kimberling “I don't think God expects anyone to live in an abusive situation. In many ways, it's as much a violation of vows as adultery is to not take seriously your vow to love and cherish your spouse.” - Dr. Kim Kimberling “You deserve to be safe.” - Dr. Kim Kimberling “If you look at the message of the BIble, you can't defend any type of abuse, for any person, ever.” - Lindsay Few “The goal would be repentance and reconciliation.” - Lindsay Few “The reason a lot of people minimize emotional abuse because they haven't seen it.” - Dr. Kim Kimberling “I've seen people who gaslight and don't really understand what they've been doing.” - Dr. Kim Kimberling “Nobody's uplifted or brought closer to Christ through manipulative behaviors.” - Lindsay Few MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE: The Power and Control Wheel is helpful to understand what constitutes abuse If your marriage is doing okay but could use a jumpstart, then this 5 Week Marriage Refresher Challenge is for you! Past episodes on the topic: Gaslighting in Marriage Accidental Gaslighting When is Enough Enough? With Dr. David E. Clarke Recent series with Kathy's Story Escaping an Emotionally Abusive Marriage: Kathy's Story | Ep. 608 Escaping an Emotionally Abusive Marriage Part 2: Seeking Church Support | Kathy's Story Ep. 609 Escaping an Emotionally Abusive Marriage Part 3: Help to Get Out and Get Safe | Ep. 610
We have gotten a lot of questions about gaslighting and narcissism, and today Dr. Kim is answering. This topic is layered and one podcast episode cannot take the place of more in-depth interventions, but we can offer helpful and hopeful next steps. In today's episode we're covering how to know what constitutes abuse versus the sin nature we all struggle with. Listen for We pray this episode is helpful for you and your marriage. Episode highlights include: Marriage counseling doesn't work with abusers – So what does? Can a marriage recover after long-term gaslighting? How to diagnose abuse using the power and control wheel Does the “gray rock” strategy work in marriage? Reasons why emotional abuse is often dismissed *Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out here! QUOTES “Narcissism is all about power and control. Neither of those have a place in marriage at all.” - Dr. Kim Kimberling “I don't think God expects anyone to live in an abusive situation. In many ways, it's as much a violation of vows as adultery is to not take seriously your vow to love and cherish your spouse.” - Dr. Kim Kimberling “You deserve to be safe.” - Dr. Kim Kimberling “If you look at the message of the BIble, you can't defend any type of abuse, for any person, ever.” - Lindsay Few “The goal would be repentance and reconciliation.” - Lindsay Few “The reason a lot of people minimize emotional abuse because they haven't seen it.” - Dr. Kim Kimberling “I've seen people who gaslight and don't really understand what they've been doing.” - Dr. Kim Kimberling “Nobody's uplifted or brought closer to Christ through manipulative behaviors.” - Lindsay Few MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE: The Power and Control Wheel is helpful to understand what constitutes abuse If your marriage is doing okay but could use a jumpstart, then this 5 Week Marriage Refresher Challenge is for you! Past episodes on the topic: Gaslighting in Marriage Accidental Gaslighting When is Enough Enough? With Dr. David E. Clarke Recent series with Kathy's Story Escaping an Emotionally Abusive Marriage: Kathy's Story | Ep. 608 Escaping an Emotionally Abusive Marriage Part 2: Seeking Church Support | Kathy's Story Ep. 609 Escaping an Emotionally Abusive Marriage Part 3: Help to Get Out and Get Safe | Ep. 610
SERENA WALKER: You don't have to be friends with your ex!Serena Walker is a Counselling Psychologist and new friend of Nelly's. Serena and Nelly met at the funeral of their mutual friend Cal Wilson and they gravitated toward each other. Serena has experience working with clients who have a history of trauma and abuse and or are having issues with depression, anxiety, worry, post-traumatic stress disorder, phobias, or relationship difficulties. Nelly and Serena talk about finding a career late in life, how grief can impact relationships and starting again after difficult relationships. We do the usual "No shade on my ex" and "He's a ten but...". A gorgeous episode with a very special woman.DEAR NELLY LIVE IDAHOBIT SHOW: TICKETS AND INFO HERESERENA'S WEBSITE: HERERESOURCES RECOMMENDED BY SERENA:The Power and Control Wheel: HERERecovering from Rape and Sexual Trauma: HERE DEARNELLYPODCAST.COM: HERE SUBSRCIBE TO DEAR NELLY VIA PATREON HERE SEND NELLY A MESSAGE: HERE 1800RESPECT is A Confidential information, counselling and support service that is available for free, 24 hours a day, 7 days a week to support people impacted by domestic, family or sexual violence: CLICK HERE Nelly's website HEREFahey's website HERE Love yas,Nelly xxx If you love the podcast, please rate, review and spread the word. This stuff works best by word-of-mouth so please share, share and share some more. We can't do this without you!Nelly, Producer Fahey and Producer Sammy xxx https://plus.acast.com/s/dear-nelly. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Awareness and resources for safety are crucial when it comes to addressing issues of domestic violence, especially in the context of breast cancer. In today's episode we share personal experiences, warning signs, and resources for those who may be facing this difficult situation.Lourdes Heras, a breast cancer survivor, shares her experience of dealing with both a health issue and a violent intimate partner. She highlighted the importance of recognizing and addressing domestic violence, especially within the Hispanic community where discussions about such topics may be considered taboo or embarrassing. We are joined by Cami inforzato who is the Women's Program Coordinator for the Domestic Abuse Intervention Programs. The discussion highlights the parallels between the private nature of breast cancer and domestic violence, both of which may not be immediately visible to others. It is essential to create a safe and supportive environment where survivors feel empowered to seek help and access resources for their safety.Topics Covered:00:07:02 - The Power and Control Wheel Explained00:10:25 - The Impact of Domestic Violence on Women and Children00:13:30 - Lourdes's Journey to Seeking Help00:18:49 - The Importance of Women Supporting Each Other00:19:33 - The Equality Wheel: Signs of a Healthy Relationship00:21:37 - Lourdes Reflects on Her Growth and EmpowermentResources:Hotline: 800.799. SAFE (7233). Power and Control Wheel: https://www.thehotline.org/identify-abuse/power-and-control/ Attend a free virtual SurvivingBreastCancer.org event:https://www.survivingbreastcancer.org/eventsFollow us on InstagramLaura and Will: https://www.instagram.com/laura_and_will/SurvivingBreastCancer.org: https://www.survivingbreastcancer.org/Breast Cancer Conversations: https://www.instagram.com/breastcancerconversations/About SurvivingBreastCancer.org: SurvivingBreastCancer.org, Inc. (SBC) is a federally recognized 501(c)(3) non-profit virtual platform headquartered in Boston with a national and global reach. Through education, community, and resources, SurvivingBreastCancer.org supports women and men going through breast cancer. We provide a sanctuary of strength, compassion, and empowerment, where those diagnosed with cancer unite to share their stories, learn invaluable coping strategies to manage wellness and mental health, and find solace in the unbreakable bond that fuels hope, resilience, and the courage to conquer adversity.Support the show
Jaime and Angee decide to use some of our most beloved (or hated) Disney characters and discuss their behavior from a therapeutic standpoint. This week they dive into the magical world of Beauty and the Beast where Angee clearly had some unprocessed rage she needed to work through and heal. Highlights from this episode include: The sheer spectrum of individual responses to trauma. Several of the characters had likely experienced trauma and could be diagnosed with PTSD, yet the ways in which they displayed the symptoms of their trauma both internally and externally were vastly different. Gaston and The Beast were, in many ways, mirror images of one another. Stockholm syndrome The Power and Control Wheel” for examining domestic violence and the tactics an abusive partner might use in a relationship. Thank you so much for listening and continuing to be a fan of the show! If you have a favorite film you'd like Angee and Jaime to therapeutically diagnose, feel free to make your suggestion by emailingJ-A@TheShrinkShowPodcast.com. --- Sign up for our newsletter at www.theshrinkshowpodcast.comFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/The-Shrink-Show-Podcast-103412535766403Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theshrinkshow/Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/TheShrinkShowYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCPtc9jwAOmqL4xJvdVvg2dAThis is another Hurrdat Media Production. Hurrdat Media is a podcast network and digital media production company based in Omaha, NE. Find more podcasts on the Hurrdat Media Network by going to HurrdatMedia.com or Hurrdat Media YouTube channel!
Naomi Norton Ph.D, LCMFT, LMFT - White Evangelical Power and ControlDivorced: White Evangelical IdeologyNaomi Norton graduated from Northcentral University with her PhD in Family Therapy. Her dissertation focused on how the white fundamental evangelical culture makes meaning about mental illness. She has an active private practice, is an assistant professor at National University, and is a program supervisor at Friends University. She is passionate about exploring how culture shapes meaning, especially within religion, and how it affects interpersonal and systemic functioning. I became interested in chatting with Naomi when I learned about the White Fundamentalist Evangelical Power & Control Wheel (link below).FIND NAOMI:https://www.hopeforhealingllc.org/Facebook profile link: https://www.facebook.com/naomi.ruth.351 RESOURCES:Facebook link for journal article background:https://www.facebook.com/plugins/post.php?href=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.facebook.com%2Fnaomi.ruth.351%2Fposts%2F10167324543655389 Google Doc Link for PDF versions of the wheel graphics: https://drive.google.com/drive/folders/1-E5MSPs_2D9vQLGB1rsm-JpfeRfkNaql Pre-print journal article with graphics: https://osf.io/preprints/socarxiv/c9x3t/?fbclid=IwAR1yFb41837jwQNVLN64a_tbtiOooIxoMMdovEeNjL7E9AyzO66tOH9RtkQ_aem_AWD0-EYtUfPvvpvflT3tVHIpLpi61vKEPDvAQKn1O2HBu5eQpc0B62rruYy40WMDykoSupport this podcast on Patreon (starting as low as $2/month) and get access to bonus content: https://www.patreon.com/janiceselbie Thanks to my newest patrons: Marie, Mary, and Peter. Every dollar helps.Subscribe to the audio-only version here: https://www.divorcing-religion.com/religious-trauma-podcastFollow Janice and the Conference on Religious Trauma on Social Media: Mastodon: JaniceSelbie@mas.toTwitter: https://twitter.com/divorcereligionTwitter: https://twitter.com/Wise_counsellorTwitter: https://twitter.com/ComeToCORTFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/DivorcingReligionTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@janiceselbieInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/wisecounsellor/The Divorcing Religion Podcast is for entertainment purposes only. If you need help with your mental health, please consult a qualified, secular, mental health clinician.Support the show
In episode 2 of our series on domestic violence and coparenting, we define the different forms of domestic violence using the Duluth Power and Control Wheel. If you would like to participate in our domestic violence series as a guest, please contact us and let us know. We are interested in all perspectives and backgrounds for our conversations.Thanks for listening! If you have questions, comments, or concerns, please email us at podcast@coparentacademy.com. To learn more about becoming the best coparent you can be, visit coparentacademy.com.
In the United States, 37% of women will experience contact sexual violence, physical violence, and/or stalking in her lifetime. Abuse and domestic violence are a widespread societal problem, including among Latter-day Saints—no group of people or area of the country or the world is exempt. Domestic violence is a threat to the safety and well-being of women, and thought it's not easy to talk about, it's something we must talk about, become educated about, and be vigilant to watch for and prevent. Today I am honored to welcome my friend, Leah Moses, to the podcast to discuss this critically important topic. In May of this year, Leah suffered the unspeakable loss of her oldest child, Om Moses Gandhi, who was murdered by his father, Leah's ex-husband. Despite Leah's efforts for 15 years to protect her own son, in the end she was not believed. Leah has so bravely spoken up about her experience with the goal that this tragic moment results in systemic change for Utah and beyond, and I'm grateful she is willing to share her experience with other Latter-day Saint women. “Perhaps some of you, however, consider the accounts of survivors, and your soul cries out that you are living a survival story right now as a victim of abuse, neglect, bullying, domestic violence, or any suffering of this kind. You are in the midst of your own desperate attempt to survive a situation that feels very much like a disastrous shipwreck or a promising mission suddenly aborted. Will you ever be rescued; will you make it through your own survival story? The answer is yes. You can survive. You have in fact already been rescued; you have already been saved—by the One who has suffered the very torment you are suffering and endured the very agony you are enduring.1 Jesus has overcome the abuses of this world2 to give you power to not only survive but one day, through Him, to overcome and even conquer—to completely rise above the pain, the misery, the anguish, and see them replaced by peace.” - Elder Patrick Kearon, April 2022 general conference Challenge: This week I challenge you to first read, learn, and understand more about domestic violence (see resources linked below!). Next, I challenge you to BELIEVE. Believe the women, children, and others who talk to you and tell you about their experiences with physical, emotional, sexual, and/or other abuse. Resources: Power and Control Wheel: https://www.thehotline.org/identify-abuse/power-and-control/ National Domestic Violence Hotline: https://www.thehotline.org/ See “Violence Against Women" Utah Women and Leadership Toolkit: https://www.usu.edu/uwlp/resources/toolkits Domestic Violence Among Utah Women Snapshot: chrome-extension://efaidnbmnnnibpcajpcglclefindmkaj/https://www.usu.edu/uwlp/files/snapshot/46.pdf Susan Madsen Deseret News Op-Ed: “Opinion: These mothers have to send their children into abusive situations. We can change that.” https://www.deseret.com/opinion/2023/5/23/23733054/prevent-child-abuse-utah April 2022 Elder Patrick Kearon General Conference Talk: “He Is Risen with Healing in His Wings: We Can Be More Than Conquerors” https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/study/general-conference/2022/04/24kearon?lang=eng Official Church Resources: Abuse.ChurchofJesusChrist.org Learn More: Learn more about Dr. Susan Madsen at www.susanrmadsen.com Sign up to receive monthly emails from Dr. Madsen about updated research, resources, and events at www.utwomen.org. These can be helpful whether you are in Utah or beyond. Follow Unleashing Sister Saints on social media: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/UnleashingSisterSaints Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/unleashingsistersaints/ Contact Me: I love hearing from listeners! Email me with questions, comments, or suggestions at unleashingsistersaints@gmail.com.
For our second episode of our Fall Autonomy season, join Aspen as they interview Casey Faulkingham of Partners for Peace about the intersections of domestic violence and autonomy. How do these topics intersect? What is reproductive coercion? How can loved ones of those experiencing abuse help in a meaningful way? Aspen and Casey address these questions and more! Learn more about Partners for Peace at https://www.partnersforpeaceme.org/ Partners for Peace helpline: 1-800-863-9909 Power and Control Wheel and Equality Wheel: https://www.theduluthmodel.org/wheels/ Image: Sydney Sims via Unsplash
It's our final episode of Domestic Violence Awareness Month, and Dr. Cherie is further explaining the Power and Control Wheel and some of the remaining components and tactics of domestic violence. Tune in to improve your understanding and awareness when it comes to the tactics and methods that abusers use to gain power and control, and to learn more about how we can support survivors, especially in a culturally sensitive way. Resources The Black Woman's Guide to Overcoming Domestic Violence: Tools to Move Beyond Trauma, Reclaim, Freedom & Create the Life You Deserve By: Shavonne J. Moore-Lobban PhD & Robyn L. Gobin PhD If you or someone you know is currently a victim of domestic violence, help and support are available. Please call your local domestic violence response organization, or call the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233. The call is free and confidential and someone is available to support you 24/7, 365 days a year. Connect with Dr. Cherie: https://www.instagram.com/drcherie_holisticcoach/ www.instagram.com/passionatestewardshippodcast https://lcconsultingandcoaching.com/ Sign-Up for the Passionate Stewardship Box: https://the-passionate-stewardship-box-64f1fee85eaca.subbly.me/
In honor of Domestic Violence Awareness Month, today's episode is about different types of abuse and where they fall on the Power and Control Wheel. Domestic Violence can look like a lot of different things beyond physical abuse. In addition to physical abuse, Dr. Cherie is breaking down emotional abuse, financial abuse, sexual abuse, technology-facilitated abuse, and more. These episodes are important, but also pretty heavy, so make sure to take care of yourself. After all, as we like to say around here, radical self-care is health care. Resources https://ncadv.org/blog/posts/quick-guide-domestic-violence-and-sexual-abuse https://www.loveisrespect.org/pdf/What_Is_Digital_Abuse.pdf If you or someone you know is currently a victim of domestic violence, help and support are available. Please call your local domestic violence response organization, or call the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233. The call is free and confidential and someone is available to support you 24/7, 365 days a year. Connect with Dr. Cherie: https://www.instagram.com/drcherie_holisticcoach/ www.instagram.com/passionatestewardshippodcast https://lcconsultingandcoaching.com/ Sign-Up for the Passionate Stewardship Box: https://the-passionate-stewardship-box-64f1fee85eaca.subbly.me/
Pride Month is celebrated annually in June to recognize, uplift, and celebrate LGBTQ+ folks. Despite decades of activism and hard-fought victories, we still live in a time where LGBTQ+ people experience discrimination and harm across all levels of society. Join Aniela and Michael as they discuss how domestic violence can play out and have different implications for survivors of diverse genders and sexual orientations, particularly if they experience barriers to safety and support due to oppression. Learn more: What Unhealthy Relationships Can Look Like Through an LGBTQ+ LensPower and Control Wheel for LGBT+ Folks Follow us online at:Instagram @sarahs_innTwitter @sarahs_innFacebook @sarahsinntogetherstrong #sarahs_inn#togetherstrong
Title: Relationship Truth Unfiltered: Addressing Domestic Violence in the Church Description: In this episode of Relationship Truth Unfiltered, host Leslie Vernick engages in a thought-provoking conversation with Pastor Dan, discussing the often overlooked issue of domestic violence within Christian marriages and the church. Together, they explore the challenges faced by pastors and church leaders in recognizing and addressing abuse, as well as the importance of equipping oneself with the necessary knowledge and tools to provide appropriate support. They emphasize the significance of understanding the power and control dynamics in abusive relationships, the need for accurate diagnosis and treatment plans, and the potential pitfalls of prioritizing institutional reputation over the safety and well-being of individuals. Pastor Dan also shares insights into his church's innovative approach of utilizing case managers to bridge the gap between families in crisis and community resources. The episode concludes with practical advice for individuals seeking to approach their pastors and create a safe space for discussing domestic violence within the church. Episode Highlights: The importance of recognizing and addressing domestic violence within Christian marriages and church settings. The role of the Power and Control Wheel in identifying signs of control and abuse. The challenges faced by pastors in acknowledging domestic violence and the need for equipping oneself to handle such situations. Differentiating between marriage issues and the underlying personal sin issues that contribute to abusive behavior. The potential harm caused by prioritizing institutional reputation over the safety and well-being of individuals. The significance of accurate diagnosis and appropriate treatment plans when addressing domestic violence. The Family Stress Support program: Using case managers as bridge builders between families in crisis and community resources. Approaching pastors with humility and concern, encouraging them to address the pain and seek support for victims of domestic violence. Balancing the values of truth and love in addressing domestic violence within the church. Don't miss this eye-opening episode of Relationship Truth Unfiltered, where Leslie Vernick and Pastor Dan shed light on the crucial issue of domestic violence and offer insights for individuals, pastors, and churches seeking to create a safe and supportive environment for those affected.
In this episode Stephen Herd and I continue our discussion on the power and control wheel.The Power and Control Wheel was developed by a group of activists in Duluth, Minnesota, in the 1980s, who recognised the need for a comprehensive approach to address family violence. The Duluth Model is based on the belief that domestic violence is a result of the abuser's desire for power and control over their partner.According to the Duluth Model, domestic violence is not caused by anger, substance abuse, or mental illness. Instead, it is a deliberate tactic used by abusers to control and dominate their partners. The Duluth Model identifies several different types of abuse, including physical abuse, sexual abuse, emotional abuse, economic abuse, and psychological abuse. These are presented in the Power and Control Wheel as a circular diagram that outlines the different tactics used by abusers.The Power and Control Wheel helps to illustrate the cyclical nature of family violence. The abuser may use a combination of different tactics to gain control over their partner, and the victim may respond with different coping strategies, such as walking on eggshells or trying to appease the abuser. Over time, the abuse can escalate, and the victim may feel trapped and unable to escape the cycle of violence.The Duluth Model and Power and Control Wheel are useful tools for understanding the dynamics of family violence and identifying ways to address it. They help to shift the focus away from the victim and onto the abuser, recognizing that family violence is a result of a deliberate choice made by the abuser to maintain power and control.There are several different approaches to addressing family violence, including criminal justice interventions, civil protective orders, and community-based interventions. The Duluth Model emphasizes the need for a coordinated community response to address family violence, including law enforcement, the court system, and community-based organizations.One of the strengths of the Duluth Model and Power and Control Wheel is that they recognise the importance of a multi-disciplinary approach to addressing family violence. Family violence is a complex issue that requires a coordinated response from multiple sectors, including the criminal justice system, social services, healthcare, and educationDiscussions and comments in our videos are for informational purposes only and should not replace the advice of your medical professional. Please consult with your doctor before making any changes to your medical treatment or lifestyle.Latest Blogshttps://www.meducate.com.au/blogAbout Meducate ®Meducate provides online education for doctors, clinicians, health professionals and the public.See the website to browse the many different talks and courses available https://www.meducate.com.au
In this episode Stephen Herd and I discuss the Power and Control Wheel: a widely used tool to help understand the dynamics of family violence and identify ways to address it.The Power and Control Wheel was developed by a group of activists in Duluth, Minnesota, in the 1980s, who recognised the need for a comprehensive approach to address family violence. The Duluth Model is based on the belief that domestic violence is a result of the abuser's desire for power and control over their partner. According to the Duluth Model, domestic violence is not caused by anger, substance abuse, or mental illness. Instead, it is a deliberate tactic used by abusers to control and dominate their partners. The Duluth Model identifies several different types of abuse, including physical abuse, sexual abuse, emotional abuse, economic abuse, and psychological abuse. These are presented in the Power and Control Wheel as a circular diagram that outlines the different tactics used by abusers.The Power and Control Wheel helps to illustrate the cyclical nature of family violence. The abuser may use a combination of different tactics to gain control over their partner, and the victim may respond with different coping strategies, such as walking on eggshells or trying to appease the abuser. Over time, the abuse can escalate, and the victim may feel trapped and unable to escape the cycle of violence.The Duluth Model and Power and Control Wheel are useful tools for understanding the dynamics of family violence and identifying ways to address it. They help to shift the focus away from the victim and onto the abuser, recognizing that family violence is a result of a deliberate choice made by the abuser to maintain power and control.There are several different approaches to addressing family violence, including criminal justice interventions, civil protective orders, and community-based interventions. The Duluth Model emphasizes the need for a coordinated community response to address family violence, including law enforcement, the court system, and community-based organizations.One of the strengths of the Duluth Model and Power and Control Wheel is that they recognize the importance of a multi-disciplinary approach to addressing family violence. Family violence is a complex issue that requires a coordinated response from multiple sectors, including the criminal justice system, social services, healthcare, and education.Discussions and comments in our videos are for informational purposes only and should not replace the advice of your medical professional. Please consult with your doctor before making any changes to your medical treatment or lifestyle.Latest Blogshttps://www.meducate.com.au/blogAbout Meducate ®Meducate provides online education for doctors, clinicians, health professionals and the public.See the website to browse the many different talks and courses available https://www.meducate.com.au
In this 13th and final episode of our Parental Alienation season we discuss parental alienation as domestic violence.In this episode, we refer to the Duluth Power and Control Wheel. Our research material for this episode comes from Professor Jennifar Harman and colleagues. Learn more about Professor Harman.Next week, in our final episode of the parental alienation season, we'll discuss parental alienation as both domestic and child abuse. Visit coparentacademy.com to see all available courses and discounted course bundles.Thanks for listening! If you have questions, comments, or concerns, please email us at podcast@coparentacademy.com.If you enjoyed this episode, please rate, review and subscribe on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Stitcher. or wherever you listen.
Unbound and Soaring - a path to freedom from emotional abuse
In this episode we meet the insightful psychologist, Karen Kemp, who shares with us the Power and Control wheel; a tool developed in 1984 by the Domestic Abuse Intervention Project and widely used in therapy settings across North America today to help us understand what abuse is and the affects it can have.
The couples counselors Rachel and Lindsay discuss some heavy but important topics this week utilizing Netflix's Love is Blind 3 as the back drop. The therapists focus on relationship dynamics surrounding the couple Matt and Colleen. Lindsay and Rachel have a compassionate discussion around how abusive dynamics start small and grow. They also give voice to how they can creep up on us and how we can fall into explaining it away. The relationship therapists explore in depth the “Power and Control Wheel” and its counter part “Equality wheel”. Other topics discussed are: “When I'm hurting, your world stops.” - John Gottman; Trusting our partners can be there for us. Codependent, interdependent, independent Spectrum. Aggressive presenting body language. The need for safety to communicate honestly. All people in the relationship needing to be willing to work on their own emotion regulation.Green flags: Willing to take responsibility at least for a small part.
Feminist Question Time Australia & New Zealand Women's Declaration International (WDI) Feminist Question Time is our weekly online webinars. It is attended by a global feminist and activist audience of between 200-300. The main focus is how gender ideology is harming the rights of women and girls. You can see recordings of previous panels on our YouTube Channel. WDI is the leading global organisation defending women's sex-based rights against the threats posed by gender identity ideology. There is more information on the website womensdeclaration.com where you will find our Declaration on Women's Sex-based rights, which has been signed by more 30,000 people from 157 countries and is supported by 418 organisations. This week's speakers: Jennifer Scott (Suspended Registered Nurse) Scientific Research and speaking out in the work-place. Steph Hughes (Fair Go 4 QLD Women) Transactivism in the context of the Power and Control Wheel and Domestic Violence Practice. Ally-Marie Diamond (Wahine Toa Rising) Journey from Tragedy to Serendipity Disclaimer: Women's Declaration International (WDI) hosts a range of women from all over the world on Feminist Question Time (FQT) and Radical Feminist Perspectives (RFP) and on webinars hosted by country chapters – all have signed our Declaration or have known histories of feminist activism - but beyond that, we do not know their exact views or activism. WDI does not know in detail what they will say on webinars. The views expressed by speakers in these videos are not necessarily those of WDI and we do not necessarily support views or actions that speakers have expressed or engaged in at other times. As well as the position stated in our Declaration on Women's Sex-based Rights, WDI opposes sexism, racism and anti-semitism. For more information see our Frequently Asked Questions or email info@womensdeclaration.com For more information: www.womensdeclaration.com
** TRIGGER WARNING**This episode contains discussions of Domestic Violence , and the depiction of traumatic events, including rape and suicide. Listener discretion is advised.*************************Today on Spilling the Thera-Tea, KathyDan and Jess talk about the difficult topic of Domestic Violence. They share how it is defined and explain the various types of abuse that occurs. KathyDan details out the Power and Control Wheel as well as the cycle of domestic violence. Jess shares some alarming statistics and explores why it is so difficult for victims of violence to escape the relationship. The ladies also share some of the signs an abuser might present early in a relationship that should be headed as red flags, how to help people who may be in the clutches of a violent relationship, and offers resources for anyone who is experiencing abuse themselves. The team wraps it up by answering some listener question about escaping an emotional rollercoaster during a divorce in the Asked and Answered segment.*************************CDC-https://www.cdc.gov/violenceprevention/pdf/ipv-technicalpackages.pdfNCADV- National Coalition Against Domestic Violencehttps://assets.speakcdn.com/assets/2497/domestic_violence-2020080709350855.pdf?1596828650457NATIONAL DOMESTIC VIOLENCE HOTLINE 800-799-7233Text "START" to 88788PO Box 90249 Austin, Texas 78709Administrative Line: 737-225-3150National Network to End Domestic Violence Nnedv.org*************************DISCLAIMER: This podcast is for educational purposes only and does not replace the advice you may be receiving from a licensed therapist.This podcast and website represents the opinions of KathyDan Moore, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Co-Host Jess Lowe, and their guests to the show and website. The content here should not be taken as medical advice. The content here is for informational purposes only, and because each person is so unique, please consult your healthcare professional for any medical questions.Views and opinions expressed in the podcast and website are our own. While we make every effort to ensure that the information we are sharing is accurate, we welcome any comments, suggestions, or correction of errors.Privacy is of utmost importance to us. All people, places, and scenarios mentioned in the podcast have been changed to protect patient confidentiality.This website or podcast should not be used in any legal capacity whatsoever, including but not limited to establishing “standard of care” in a legal sense or as a basis for expert witness testimony. No guarantee is given regarding the accuracy of any statements or opinions made on the podcast or website.In no way does listening, reading, emailing or interacting on social media with our content establish a doctor-patient relationship.If you find any errors in any of the content of these podcasts or blogs, please send a message to kdandjess@spillingthetheratea.com.Podcast Music by: Lemon Music Studio************************* Have a question for our Asked and Answered Segment? Email Us!AskUs@spillingthetheratea.comFollow us on Instagram! https://www.instagram.com/spillingthetherateapodcastFollow us on Facebook!https://www.facebook.com/Spilling-the-Thera-Tea-103883072393873/
How do you tell the difference between healthy conflict and toxic conflict? How do you navigate healthy conflict with your partners? When do you have that conversation? Hear it all on this episode of the Queer Joy Podcast; where two relationship therapists explore what it looks like to see joy in queer relationships. Power and Control Wheel: https://www.connectivetherapycollective.com/post/ep-51-healthy-conflict-field-guide FB & IG: @queer_relationships_queer_joy
TW: This episode talks about domestic violence, sexual assault, coercive control and suicide. Listener discretion is advised. If you need support you can call the National Domestic Family and Sexual Violence Counselling Service on 1800 RESPECT or visit https://www.1800respect.org.au/In Australia, on average, one woman a week is murdered at the hands of a current, or former partner, and approximately 10 women a day are hospitalised for assault injuries perpetrated by spouse or domestic partner and evidence shows that women with disabilities in Australia are two times more likely to experience sexual violence and intimate partner violence.Nicole Lee is a victim survivor of domestic, family and sexual violence and uses her first hand experience as a person with a disability to help advocate for others with a disability who are also victim survivors of abuse. Susan and Nicole talk about her journey, the cycle of coercive control and how the systems set up for someone to escape violence isn't built for people with disabilties.Support ResourcesReach out - Domestic Violence support: https://au.reachout.com/articles/domestic-violence-supportLifeline Crisis Chat: https://www.lifeline.org.au/crisis-chat/Australian Government Support Directory - respect.gov.au: https://www.respect.gov.au/services/Staying Home Leaving Violence: https://www.facs.nsw.gov.au/domestic-violence/services-and-support/programs/staying-home-leaving-violenceInformation in this episodeNicole Lee: https://speakingout.com.au/speaker/nicole-lee/Women with disability are being turned away by family violence services in Australia - SBS: https://www.sbs.com.au/news/article/women-with-disability-are-being-turned-away-by-family-violence-services-in-australia/bqjumdl3cWomen living with disability can face extra hurdles breaking free of abusers, survivor warns - ABC: https://www.abc.net.au/news/2021-08-23/domestic-violence-and-disability-challenges-to-getting-out/100359908The Choice - Violence or Poverty: https://www.violenceorpoverty.com/Rosie Batty: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rosie_BattyPhil Cleary: sister's death led to drive for justice: https://www.thecourier.com.au/story/1695362/phil-cleary-sisters-death-led-to-drive-for-justice/The Duluth Model Understanding the Power and Control Wheel: https://www.theduluthmodel.org/wheels/understanding-power-control-wheel/So, what exactly is coercive control? - Laura Richards: https://www.laurarichards.co.uk/coercive-control/Spinal Cord Injuries Australia is a for-purpose organisation that supports people with a spinal cord injury and other neurological conditions. For more information about our supports and services, visit our Resource Hub at https://bit.ly/ResourceHubSCIA.
FLF Conference Plug In the beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God, and the Word was God, and the Word didn’t stay in Heaven. The Word became flesh and dwelt among us, and we beheld His glory, the glory of the Father, full of grace and truth. Grace and Truth became flesh. The Word became flesh. The story of God’s grace became flesh. And it is that Word, that truth, that story that will fill the world. That is why this year’s Fight Laugh Feast Conference in Knoxville Tennessee is on Lies, Propaganda, storytelling, and the serrated edge. The Word is a sword. The Word is our glory. So join us, October 6-8, as we fight, laugh, and feast, with beer & psalms, speakers including Pastor Doug Wilson, George Gilder, Ben Merkle, Jared Longshore, and Pastor Toby Sumpter, Chocolate Knox will be doing a round table with the Wilsons and Merkles on why stories are so potent for building family cultures that wine, all culminating in a live show with Megan Basham and Jason Whitlock talking Lies and Journalism. And we just announced a one day Saturday-only pass for 99$. Find out more and register or become a vendor at fightlaughfeast.com. This is Toby Sumpter, and today is Friday, September 16th, and this is your CrossPolitic Daily Newsbrief. https://www.foxnews.com/politics/gavin-newsom-asks-consider-kidnapping-charges-gop-governors-ship-migrants-out-state California Gov. Gavin Newsom has asked the Department of Justice to look into whether sending migrants to other parts of the country constituted kidnapping or other federal crimes. In a letter to Attorney General Merrick Garland, Newsom asked whether actions by Texas Gov. Greg Abbott and Florida Gov. Ron DeSantis sending illegal immigrants from their respective states to destinations such as New York City, Washington, D.C. Chicago, and Martha's Vineyard were illegal. "Several of the individuals who were transported to Martha’s Vineyard have alleged that a recruiter induced them to accept the offer of travel based on false representations that they would be transported to Boston and would receive expedited access to work authorization," Newsom wrote. "I urge US DOJ to investigate whether the alleged fraudulent inducement would support charges of kidnapping under relevant state laws." DeSantis most recently sent migrants to Massachusetts on Wednesday after promising he would relocate them to a "sanctuary destination." "States like Massachusetts, New York and California will better facilitate the care of these individuals who they have invited into our country by incentivizing illegal immigration through their designation as ‘sanctuary states’ and support for the Biden administration’s open border policies," the governor’s communications director, Taryn Fenske, told Fox News Digital. https://thepostmillennial.com/universities-to-offer-climate-change-counseling-for-stressed-out-students?utm_campaign=64487 In recent years, more and more young people have reported feeling anxious or depressed as a result of the dire warnings about climate change that are presented to them everywhere they look. Perhaps nowhere is this more prevalent than in institutions of higher learning. In an attempt to address the mental health consequences of being constantly warned that the planet is on its last leg, there has been a push from within colleges and universities to provide climate change counseling services to students. In 2020, members of the University of British Columbia’s Sustainability Initiative released a report detailing the relationship between climate change and mental health, offering a "systemic approach to action in post-secondary education." "Direct and indirect stressors from climate change," they wrote, "as well as the overarching psychological and psychosocial challenges associated with acknowledging the magnitude of the crisis, lead to mental distress and disrupt mental health and wellbeing. Addressing the challenges that the climate crisis poses to mental health, and finding ways to live with and adapt to the overarching psychological and psychosocial weight of the crisis is needed to build healthy and resilient individuals and communities." The report recommended that existing counselors be trained to discuss climate change, and that more direct lines of communication be opened between them and climate change activist groups on campus. At the University of Michigan, a pilot program has been set up creating a therapy group that will meet for one hour every week for just over three months to see how receiving emotional support can help students overcome their anxiety. Assistant director of the University of Oregon’s Office of Sustainability, Sarah Stoeckl, argued that without such services available to students, they will feel "paralyzed in … uncomfortable emotions." Of the counselors who have chosen to integrate knowledge of climate change into their skillset, some have argued that "eco-anxiety" is unlike other mental health challenges in that in this case, "the psychological part is really meant to go hand in hand with climate action." According to research from The Lancet, 84 percent of children and young adults around the world are "at least moderately worried" about climate change, while over half said they are "very or extremely worried." Perhaps most striking, however, was the finding that 45 percent of those surveyed said that their thoughts and feelings about climate change "negatively affected their daily life and functioning," with many reporting a "high number of negative thoughts about climate change." Or maybe we could just tell the kids the truth? https://dailysceptic.org/2022/09/14/climate-emergency-not-supported-by-data-say-four-leading-italian-scientists/ For example: earlier this week it was reported that four leading Italian scientists have undertaken a major review of historical climate trends and concluded that declaring a ‘climate emergency’ is not supported by the data. Reviewing data from a wide range of weather phenomena, they say a ‘climate crisis’ of the kind people are becoming alarmed about “is not evident yet”. The scientists suggest that rather than burdening our children with anxiety about climate change, we should encourage them to think about issues like energy, food and health, and the challenges in each area, with a more “objective and constructive spirit” and not waste limited resources on “costly and ineffective solutions”. https://www.washingtonexaminer.com/restoring-america/faith-freedom-self-reliance/harvard-students-could-be-punished-for-not-using-preferred-pronouns-report Of course this is not at all unrelated to the fact that A Title IX training at Harvard University reportedly told students that failing to use a person's preferred pronoun could be a violation of university policy. The mandatory training contained multiple fictional scenarios explaining possible violations of the university's Title IX policies, including one in which a student repeatedly uses the "wrong pronouns" to address someone while making comments about gender identity, according to the Washington Free Beacon. The training said the behavior described in the scenario "contribute[s] to a climate of disrespect and may also violate Harvard's policies." Violations of university Title IX policy on sexual harassment can be punished by "admonition" or even "termination, dismissal, [or] expulsion." Another slide contained a diagram of a "Power and Control Wheel," which reportedly detailed a number of possible behaviors that could violate the university's policies, including sexual, verbal, emotional, and physical abuse, as well as "cultural/identity abuse," which included "using the wrong pronouns." The wheel diagram is surrounded by words describing "attitudes, beliefs, and systems," including "racism, xenophobia, sexism, classism, cisheterosexism, ableism-sizeism & fat-phobia." Harvard's treatment of incorrect pronoun use as a violation of Title IX is not unique. In May, a school district in Wisconsin initiated disciplinary proceedings against three male students who refused to address another student by his or her preferred pronouns. In June, Fairfax County Public Schools strengthened district policies that could see students punished for the same infraction. Smart Pricing Table: Do you own a business and write a lot of proposals? If so, you should check out SmartPricingTable.com. Smart Pricing Table allows you to create quick and accurate proposals; and it's loaded with features like recurring fees, quantities and line item upsells. When your prospect is ready, they can e-sign and you're off to the races. Visit SmartPricingTable.com and mention Cross Politic to get 25% off your first 2 months The Psalm of the Day: Psalm 124 0:46-2:17 This is Toby Sumpter with CrossPolitic News. Remember you can always find the links to our news stories and these psalms at crosspolitic dot com – just click on the daily news brief and follow the links. Or find them on our App: just search “Fight Laugh Feast” in your favorite app store and never miss a show. We are now doing a daily show, with daily backstage content for Fight Laugh Feast Club Member. Join today and get access as well as a $100 discount at the Fight Laugh Feast conference in Knoxville, TN Oct. 6-8, and have a great day.
FLF Conference Plug In the beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God, and the Word was God, and the Word didn’t stay in Heaven. The Word became flesh and dwelt among us, and we beheld His glory, the glory of the Father, full of grace and truth. Grace and Truth became flesh. The Word became flesh. The story of God’s grace became flesh. And it is that Word, that truth, that story that will fill the world. That is why this year’s Fight Laugh Feast Conference in Knoxville Tennessee is on Lies, Propaganda, storytelling, and the serrated edge. The Word is a sword. The Word is our glory. So join us, October 6-8, as we fight, laugh, and feast, with beer & psalms, speakers including Pastor Doug Wilson, George Gilder, Ben Merkle, Jared Longshore, and Pastor Toby Sumpter, Chocolate Knox will be doing a round table with the Wilsons and Merkles on why stories are so potent for building family cultures that wine, all culminating in a live show with Megan Basham and Jason Whitlock talking Lies and Journalism. And we just announced a one day Saturday-only pass for 99$. Find out more and register or become a vendor at fightlaughfeast.com. This is Toby Sumpter, and today is Friday, September 16th, and this is your CrossPolitic Daily Newsbrief. https://www.foxnews.com/politics/gavin-newsom-asks-consider-kidnapping-charges-gop-governors-ship-migrants-out-state California Gov. Gavin Newsom has asked the Department of Justice to look into whether sending migrants to other parts of the country constituted kidnapping or other federal crimes. In a letter to Attorney General Merrick Garland, Newsom asked whether actions by Texas Gov. Greg Abbott and Florida Gov. Ron DeSantis sending illegal immigrants from their respective states to destinations such as New York City, Washington, D.C. Chicago, and Martha's Vineyard were illegal. "Several of the individuals who were transported to Martha’s Vineyard have alleged that a recruiter induced them to accept the offer of travel based on false representations that they would be transported to Boston and would receive expedited access to work authorization," Newsom wrote. "I urge US DOJ to investigate whether the alleged fraudulent inducement would support charges of kidnapping under relevant state laws." DeSantis most recently sent migrants to Massachusetts on Wednesday after promising he would relocate them to a "sanctuary destination." "States like Massachusetts, New York and California will better facilitate the care of these individuals who they have invited into our country by incentivizing illegal immigration through their designation as ‘sanctuary states’ and support for the Biden administration’s open border policies," the governor’s communications director, Taryn Fenske, told Fox News Digital. https://thepostmillennial.com/universities-to-offer-climate-change-counseling-for-stressed-out-students?utm_campaign=64487 In recent years, more and more young people have reported feeling anxious or depressed as a result of the dire warnings about climate change that are presented to them everywhere they look. Perhaps nowhere is this more prevalent than in institutions of higher learning. In an attempt to address the mental health consequences of being constantly warned that the planet is on its last leg, there has been a push from within colleges and universities to provide climate change counseling services to students. In 2020, members of the University of British Columbia’s Sustainability Initiative released a report detailing the relationship between climate change and mental health, offering a "systemic approach to action in post-secondary education." "Direct and indirect stressors from climate change," they wrote, "as well as the overarching psychological and psychosocial challenges associated with acknowledging the magnitude of the crisis, lead to mental distress and disrupt mental health and wellbeing. Addressing the challenges that the climate crisis poses to mental health, and finding ways to live with and adapt to the overarching psychological and psychosocial weight of the crisis is needed to build healthy and resilient individuals and communities." The report recommended that existing counselors be trained to discuss climate change, and that more direct lines of communication be opened between them and climate change activist groups on campus. At the University of Michigan, a pilot program has been set up creating a therapy group that will meet for one hour every week for just over three months to see how receiving emotional support can help students overcome their anxiety. Assistant director of the University of Oregon’s Office of Sustainability, Sarah Stoeckl, argued that without such services available to students, they will feel "paralyzed in … uncomfortable emotions." Of the counselors who have chosen to integrate knowledge of climate change into their skillset, some have argued that "eco-anxiety" is unlike other mental health challenges in that in this case, "the psychological part is really meant to go hand in hand with climate action." According to research from The Lancet, 84 percent of children and young adults around the world are "at least moderately worried" about climate change, while over half said they are "very or extremely worried." Perhaps most striking, however, was the finding that 45 percent of those surveyed said that their thoughts and feelings about climate change "negatively affected their daily life and functioning," with many reporting a "high number of negative thoughts about climate change." Or maybe we could just tell the kids the truth? https://dailysceptic.org/2022/09/14/climate-emergency-not-supported-by-data-say-four-leading-italian-scientists/ For example: earlier this week it was reported that four leading Italian scientists have undertaken a major review of historical climate trends and concluded that declaring a ‘climate emergency’ is not supported by the data. Reviewing data from a wide range of weather phenomena, they say a ‘climate crisis’ of the kind people are becoming alarmed about “is not evident yet”. The scientists suggest that rather than burdening our children with anxiety about climate change, we should encourage them to think about issues like energy, food and health, and the challenges in each area, with a more “objective and constructive spirit” and not waste limited resources on “costly and ineffective solutions”. https://www.washingtonexaminer.com/restoring-america/faith-freedom-self-reliance/harvard-students-could-be-punished-for-not-using-preferred-pronouns-report Of course this is not at all unrelated to the fact that A Title IX training at Harvard University reportedly told students that failing to use a person's preferred pronoun could be a violation of university policy. The mandatory training contained multiple fictional scenarios explaining possible violations of the university's Title IX policies, including one in which a student repeatedly uses the "wrong pronouns" to address someone while making comments about gender identity, according to the Washington Free Beacon. The training said the behavior described in the scenario "contribute[s] to a climate of disrespect and may also violate Harvard's policies." Violations of university Title IX policy on sexual harassment can be punished by "admonition" or even "termination, dismissal, [or] expulsion." Another slide contained a diagram of a "Power and Control Wheel," which reportedly detailed a number of possible behaviors that could violate the university's policies, including sexual, verbal, emotional, and physical abuse, as well as "cultural/identity abuse," which included "using the wrong pronouns." The wheel diagram is surrounded by words describing "attitudes, beliefs, and systems," including "racism, xenophobia, sexism, classism, cisheterosexism, ableism-sizeism & fat-phobia." Harvard's treatment of incorrect pronoun use as a violation of Title IX is not unique. In May, a school district in Wisconsin initiated disciplinary proceedings against three male students who refused to address another student by his or her preferred pronouns. In June, Fairfax County Public Schools strengthened district policies that could see students punished for the same infraction. Smart Pricing Table: Do you own a business and write a lot of proposals? If so, you should check out SmartPricingTable.com. Smart Pricing Table allows you to create quick and accurate proposals; and it's loaded with features like recurring fees, quantities and line item upsells. When your prospect is ready, they can e-sign and you're off to the races. Visit SmartPricingTable.com and mention Cross Politic to get 25% off your first 2 months The Psalm of the Day: Psalm 124 0:46-2:17 This is Toby Sumpter with CrossPolitic News. Remember you can always find the links to our news stories and these psalms at crosspolitic dot com – just click on the daily news brief and follow the links. Or find them on our App: just search “Fight Laugh Feast” in your favorite app store and never miss a show. We are now doing a daily show, with daily backstage content for Fight Laugh Feast Club Member. Join today and get access as well as a $100 discount at the Fight Laugh Feast conference in Knoxville, TN Oct. 6-8, and have a great day.
FLF Conference Plug In the beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God, and the Word was God, and the Word didn’t stay in Heaven. The Word became flesh and dwelt among us, and we beheld His glory, the glory of the Father, full of grace and truth. Grace and Truth became flesh. The Word became flesh. The story of God’s grace became flesh. And it is that Word, that truth, that story that will fill the world. That is why this year’s Fight Laugh Feast Conference in Knoxville Tennessee is on Lies, Propaganda, storytelling, and the serrated edge. The Word is a sword. The Word is our glory. So join us, October 6-8, as we fight, laugh, and feast, with beer & psalms, speakers including Pastor Doug Wilson, George Gilder, Ben Merkle, Jared Longshore, and Pastor Toby Sumpter, Chocolate Knox will be doing a round table with the Wilsons and Merkles on why stories are so potent for building family cultures that wine, all culminating in a live show with Megan Basham and Jason Whitlock talking Lies and Journalism. And we just announced a one day Saturday-only pass for 99$. Find out more and register or become a vendor at fightlaughfeast.com. This is Toby Sumpter, and today is Friday, September 16th, and this is your CrossPolitic Daily Newsbrief. https://www.foxnews.com/politics/gavin-newsom-asks-consider-kidnapping-charges-gop-governors-ship-migrants-out-state California Gov. Gavin Newsom has asked the Department of Justice to look into whether sending migrants to other parts of the country constituted kidnapping or other federal crimes. In a letter to Attorney General Merrick Garland, Newsom asked whether actions by Texas Gov. Greg Abbott and Florida Gov. Ron DeSantis sending illegal immigrants from their respective states to destinations such as New York City, Washington, D.C. Chicago, and Martha's Vineyard were illegal. "Several of the individuals who were transported to Martha’s Vineyard have alleged that a recruiter induced them to accept the offer of travel based on false representations that they would be transported to Boston and would receive expedited access to work authorization," Newsom wrote. "I urge US DOJ to investigate whether the alleged fraudulent inducement would support charges of kidnapping under relevant state laws." DeSantis most recently sent migrants to Massachusetts on Wednesday after promising he would relocate them to a "sanctuary destination." "States like Massachusetts, New York and California will better facilitate the care of these individuals who they have invited into our country by incentivizing illegal immigration through their designation as ‘sanctuary states’ and support for the Biden administration’s open border policies," the governor’s communications director, Taryn Fenske, told Fox News Digital. https://thepostmillennial.com/universities-to-offer-climate-change-counseling-for-stressed-out-students?utm_campaign=64487 In recent years, more and more young people have reported feeling anxious or depressed as a result of the dire warnings about climate change that are presented to them everywhere they look. Perhaps nowhere is this more prevalent than in institutions of higher learning. In an attempt to address the mental health consequences of being constantly warned that the planet is on its last leg, there has been a push from within colleges and universities to provide climate change counseling services to students. In 2020, members of the University of British Columbia’s Sustainability Initiative released a report detailing the relationship between climate change and mental health, offering a "systemic approach to action in post-secondary education." "Direct and indirect stressors from climate change," they wrote, "as well as the overarching psychological and psychosocial challenges associated with acknowledging the magnitude of the crisis, lead to mental distress and disrupt mental health and wellbeing. Addressing the challenges that the climate crisis poses to mental health, and finding ways to live with and adapt to the overarching psychological and psychosocial weight of the crisis is needed to build healthy and resilient individuals and communities." The report recommended that existing counselors be trained to discuss climate change, and that more direct lines of communication be opened between them and climate change activist groups on campus. At the University of Michigan, a pilot program has been set up creating a therapy group that will meet for one hour every week for just over three months to see how receiving emotional support can help students overcome their anxiety. Assistant director of the University of Oregon’s Office of Sustainability, Sarah Stoeckl, argued that without such services available to students, they will feel "paralyzed in … uncomfortable emotions." Of the counselors who have chosen to integrate knowledge of climate change into their skillset, some have argued that "eco-anxiety" is unlike other mental health challenges in that in this case, "the psychological part is really meant to go hand in hand with climate action." According to research from The Lancet, 84 percent of children and young adults around the world are "at least moderately worried" about climate change, while over half said they are "very or extremely worried." Perhaps most striking, however, was the finding that 45 percent of those surveyed said that their thoughts and feelings about climate change "negatively affected their daily life and functioning," with many reporting a "high number of negative thoughts about climate change." Or maybe we could just tell the kids the truth? https://dailysceptic.org/2022/09/14/climate-emergency-not-supported-by-data-say-four-leading-italian-scientists/ For example: earlier this week it was reported that four leading Italian scientists have undertaken a major review of historical climate trends and concluded that declaring a ‘climate emergency’ is not supported by the data. Reviewing data from a wide range of weather phenomena, they say a ‘climate crisis’ of the kind people are becoming alarmed about “is not evident yet”. The scientists suggest that rather than burdening our children with anxiety about climate change, we should encourage them to think about issues like energy, food and health, and the challenges in each area, with a more “objective and constructive spirit” and not waste limited resources on “costly and ineffective solutions”. https://www.washingtonexaminer.com/restoring-america/faith-freedom-self-reliance/harvard-students-could-be-punished-for-not-using-preferred-pronouns-report Of course this is not at all unrelated to the fact that A Title IX training at Harvard University reportedly told students that failing to use a person's preferred pronoun could be a violation of university policy. The mandatory training contained multiple fictional scenarios explaining possible violations of the university's Title IX policies, including one in which a student repeatedly uses the "wrong pronouns" to address someone while making comments about gender identity, according to the Washington Free Beacon. The training said the behavior described in the scenario "contribute[s] to a climate of disrespect and may also violate Harvard's policies." Violations of university Title IX policy on sexual harassment can be punished by "admonition" or even "termination, dismissal, [or] expulsion." Another slide contained a diagram of a "Power and Control Wheel," which reportedly detailed a number of possible behaviors that could violate the university's policies, including sexual, verbal, emotional, and physical abuse, as well as "cultural/identity abuse," which included "using the wrong pronouns." The wheel diagram is surrounded by words describing "attitudes, beliefs, and systems," including "racism, xenophobia, sexism, classism, cisheterosexism, ableism-sizeism & fat-phobia." Harvard's treatment of incorrect pronoun use as a violation of Title IX is not unique. In May, a school district in Wisconsin initiated disciplinary proceedings against three male students who refused to address another student by his or her preferred pronouns. In June, Fairfax County Public Schools strengthened district policies that could see students punished for the same infraction. Smart Pricing Table: Do you own a business and write a lot of proposals? If so, you should check out SmartPricingTable.com. Smart Pricing Table allows you to create quick and accurate proposals; and it's loaded with features like recurring fees, quantities and line item upsells. When your prospect is ready, they can e-sign and you're off to the races. Visit SmartPricingTable.com and mention Cross Politic to get 25% off your first 2 months The Psalm of the Day: Psalm 124 0:46-2:17 This is Toby Sumpter with CrossPolitic News. Remember you can always find the links to our news stories and these psalms at crosspolitic dot com – just click on the daily news brief and follow the links. Or find them on our App: just search “Fight Laugh Feast” in your favorite app store and never miss a show. We are now doing a daily show, with daily backstage content for Fight Laugh Feast Club Member. Join today and get access as well as a $100 discount at the Fight Laugh Feast conference in Knoxville, TN Oct. 6-8, and have a great day.
Intimate Partner Violence and the Church Episode Type: Professional Host: Hannah Fordice Links for Hannah: Hannah's company House of Faith & Freedom Hannah's book Description: In this episode, Hannah Fordice speaks about the complex relationship many abuse survivors have with the Church -- from its historical failings and scandals to its essential role in healing and long-term support. Plus, learn why it is vital that faith communities get training in advocacy techniques and how your faith community can get started. People Waiting to Help in the United States: • Emergency: 911 • National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: 1-800-273-8255 • National Domestic Violence Hotline: Phone 1-800-799-SAFE (7233) Text “START” to 88788 • National Child Abuse Hotline: 1-800-422-4453 • Safe Helpline, Sexual Assault: 1-877-995-5247 • LGBTQ National Hotline: 1-888-843-4564 • National Runaway Safeline: 1-800-786-2929 • SAMHSA Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services: 1-800-662- HELP (4357) • Crisis Text Line: Text 741741 • National Eating Disorder Association Helpline: 1-800-931-2237 • Veterans Crisis Line: Phone 1-800-273-8255 Text 838255 For more resources please visit The Trauma and Mental Health Report resource page https://trauma.blog.yorku.ca/resources/ Links Discussed in this Episode: The Power and Control Wheel:https://www.thehotline.org/identify-abuse/power-and-control/ The Rise and Fall of Mars Hill Podcast by CT Media: https://www.christianitytoday.com/ct/podcasts/rise-and-fall-of-mars-hill/ "The Body Keeps the Score" by Bessel van der Kolk: https://www.amazon.com/Body-Keeps-Score-Healing-Trauma/dp/0143127748 Introductory Guide "Ready Refuge" by Hannah Fordice: https://www.amazon.com/Ready-Refuge-Cross-Denominational-Intimate-Violence/dp/B08GLQNKLK Articles on the economic impact of domestic violence: https://iwpr.org/iwpr-general/the-economic-cost-of-intimate-partner-violence-sexual-assault-and-stalking/ https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6161830/ https://www.healthline.com/health/domestic-violence-costs#Direct-and-Indirect-Costs Study on mass shootings linked to domestic violence: https://efsgv.org/press/study-two-thirds-of-mass-shootings-linked-to-domestic-violence/ If you would like to share your story/professional experience in an episode please email us at: info@menaspeacemakers.org
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Hey friends! We're glad to be back after a brief hiatus. If you've ever been, or are currently in an abusive marriage relationship, but you've found that the church you're part of — the church you love! — just doesn't understand how an imbalance of power can be used to control, coerce, threaten, humiliate, and harm a married woman, you're not alone. In fact, in a recent poll in our Facebook community, 85% of respondents indicated they'd experienced domestic abuse within marriage, and most churches aren't equipped to handle it. Our guest today is a biblical counselor who started a ministry to help women in the midst of domestic abuse, and a unique aspect of the ministry is how they reach out to churches, helping those local fellowships to understand the dynamics of what's going on, and showing them how they can protect the women and children involved, even if no divorce takes place. I think you're going to be very encouraged by today's episode! Here are a few of the things we cover in today's episode: • Learn what abuse is! • Understand how using the term “abuse” can initially be a red flag to church leadership— it's often better to simply describe what's happening, so the pastors can recognize the cruelty that's occurring. • Hear how abuse within marriage can often result in complex PTSD, and the woman's stress symptoms and emotional response can end up being counterproductive when she's trying to get help from her church leadership or pastors. • Learn how the Power and Control Wheel is a visual that can help explain the dynamics of abuse. • Hear how Called to Peace has pastors who are willing to go in, talk to local church leaders, and help them navigate these abusive situations. What Called to Peace finds is that, although not every church “gets it,” 70%-80% of churches are willing to listen to what the liaisons have to say! In fact, many churches are now reaching out to Called to Peace to help them understand and handle abusive marriage relationships. • The number one thing the ministry tries to teach churches is that domestic abuse is NOT a marriage problem— it's a sin problem with an individual. Bringing in a couple for marriage counseling where one spouse is abusive is like expecting marriage counseling to help in a relationship where the husband is a heroin addict. • Realize that Called to Peace can teach women to maintain boundaries and be safe, but ultimately a marriage where there's abuse cannot survive unless the abuser chooses to acknowledge the sin problem and decides to get the help necessary to change. You can find Called To Peace Ministries at https://www.calledtopeace.org/ Joy Forrest's book, Called To Peace, can be purchased here: https://amzn.to/3CcrZ9o Join our Christ-Dependent Single Motherhood Facebook community, for Christian single moms like you, whether you're divorced, separated, widowed, or never married! https://bit.ly/CDSMFacebook Send us a note at christdependentsinglemoms@gmail.com
Listeners are advised that this episode contains themes of domestic and family violence. If you are impacted by any of the content we discuss today, please reach out to 1800 RESPECT (1800 737 732), or another trusted individual.We are joined this week by Shoshanna, who was diagnosed with Type 1 Diabetes while raising her family. We listen to Shoshanna share her story about how she and her children adjusted to this diagnosis, and any challenges she faced and overcame along the way, to how she is doing now , 7 years later. Shoshanna also shares her personal insights into surviving domestic and family violence, including the impact on her diabetes diagnosis and management, and thriving after gaining independence from her perpetrator. Shoshanna is a freelance journalist, author and public speaker who provides a voice for women of colour and survivors/victims of domestic and family violence. you can read her blog or follow her on social media on both her Facebook or Instagram pages. Shoshanna co-authored the book, 'Shattered to Shining', available on the Broken to Brilliant charity website.You can learn about the Power and Control Wheel for Domestic and Family Violence here. Understanding this wheel can help you identify relationships where power imbalances may exist that can lead to domestic and family violence. Make sure you subscribe to us wherever you listen to your podcast so you never miss an episode, and leave us a review so that others can find us too. Please jump over and find us on Facebook, Instagram & Twitter. The MamaBetes team love connecting with you on these platforms! To reach out, please email us at mamabetes.podcast@gmail.com.If during this podcast series you feel you need to reach out for additional support, please contact your usual treating team, PANDA's National Perinatal Anxiety & Depression Helpline on 1300 726 306 or LifeLine on 13 11 14 outside of PANDAs operating hours.
With the recent overturning of Roe v Wade, NMCADV felt it necessary to start a very important discussion. NMCADV's David Garvin facilitates leading voices in domestic violence. Dr. Carolyn West, Jessica Nunan, and Scott Miller join us to talk about how this is going to affect survivors of domestic violence. We address how power and control presents in abusive relationships and how domestic abusers will use the recent ruling of Roe v. Wade to control and ultimately abuse their partners. Download the Power and Control Wheel used for the conversation here and find more of Duluth's wheels here. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/nmcadv/message
In this episode, Caz and Em discuss understandings of intimate partner violence and coercive control, both in the Bible and contemporary culture. They investigate the “prophetic marriage metaphor” that appears in the book of Hosea, where the prophet Hosea uses his own unhappy marriage to reflect on God's troubled relationship with Israel. Caz and Em explore this metaphor to uncover how it evokes many of the same tactics used by contemporary perpetrators of coercive control. Show notesFind us on Twitter @BloodyBiblePod, on Facebook @TheBloodyBiblePodcast, and on Instagram @bloodybiblepodcast. You can also email the podcast at BloodyBiblePodcast@gmail.com.The Bloody Bible podcast is produced by Carolyn Blyth, Emily Colgan and Richard Bonifant.Episodes are recorded and edited by Richard Bonifant.Our podcast music is ‘Stalker' by Alexis Ortiz Sofield, courtesy of Pixabay music https://pixabay.com/music/search/stalker/ Our podcast art was created by Sarah Lea Westhttps://www.instagram.com/sarahleawest.art/?fbclid=IwAR0F4i-R7JpRePmm8PmGta_OkOCWa-kMjR3QGSSeOKi6SWNrCk3rA5VuIZk Resources for this episodeEmily Colgan, ‘Let Him Romance You: Rape Culture and Gender Violence in Evangelical Christian Self-Help Literature', in Caroline Blyth, Emily J. Colgan, and Katie B. Edwards (eds.), Rape Culture, Gender Violence, and Religion: Christian Perspectives (New York: Palgrave Macmillan, 2018), pp. 9-26.https://link.springer.com/chapter/10.1007/978-3-319-72685-4_2 Crime Analyst podcast, hosted by Laura Richardshttps://www.crime-analyst.com/ Linda Day, “Teaching the Prophetic Marriage Metaphor Texts,” Teaching Theology and Religion 2, no. 3 (1999): 173–179. DOI: 10.1111/1467-9647.00059 The Duluth Model Power and Control Wheel https://www.theduluthmodel.org/wheels/ Carole R. Fontaine, ‘A Response to “Hosea”', in Athalya Brenner (ed.), Feminist Companion to the Latter Prophets (Sheffield Academic Press, 1995), pp. 60-69.Jane Gilmore, Fixed It (Viking, 2019).https://www.penguin.co.nz/books/fixed-it-9780143795506 Jane Gilmore, Fixed It website.https://janegilmore.com/category/fixedit/ Naomi Graetz, ‘God Is to Israel as Husband Is to Wife: The Metaphoric Battering of Hosea's Wife', in Athalya Brenner (ed.), A Feminist Companion to the Latter Prophets (Sheffield Academic Press, 1995), pp. 126-45.Sharon Hayes and Samantha Jeffries, Romantic Terrorism: An Auto-Ethnography of Domestic Violence, Victimization and Survival (Palgrave Pivot, 2015).https://link.springer.com/book/10.1057/9781137468499 Jess Hill, See What You Made Me Do: Power, Control and Domestic Abuse (Black Inc., 2019) https://www.jesshill.net/ Laura Richards, “Breaking down coercive control.”https://twitter.com/laurarichards99/status/1502356993608073218 Laura Richards websitehttps://www.laurarichards.co.uk/ Michael Salter, ‘Real Men Do Hit Women', Meanjin Quarterly (Autumn 2016). Available online: https://meanjin.com.au/essays/real-men-do-hit-women/#3.Small Town Dicks podcast, Season 2, Episodes 2 and 3, “If these walls could talk.”https://www.smalltowndicks.com/episode/s2-e2-if-these-walls-could-talk-pt-1/ Evan Stark, Coercive Control: How Men Entrap Women in Personal Life (Oxford University Press, 2007).https://global.oup.com/academic/product/coercive-control-9780195384048?cc=nz&lang=en& Samantha Taaka, Apriel Jolliffe Simpson & Devon Polaschek, “Coercive Control in Intimate Partner Violence in New Zealand. Future Safe Research Projects,” University of Waikato. https://www.waikato.ac.nz/__data/assets/pdf_file/0006/508956/Sam-Poster-1.pdf Renita J. Weems, ‘Gomer: Victim of Violence or Victim of Metaphor?', Semeia 47 (1989), pp. 87-104Wings, How to respond to victims of domestic violence.https://wingsprogram.com/five-harmful-responses-domestic-violence-survivors/?gclid=CjwKCAiAvaGRBhBlEiwAiY-yMHUr6Y1ZB63Zxc3PB84ULFDav6RfvmCUpjlOhyhJWufPia_PHU0wTxoCIh0QAvD_BwE Women's Aid UK, “How Common is Domestic Abuse?”https://www.womensaid.org.uk/information-support/what-is-domestic-abuse/how-common-is-domestic-abuse/ Support ServicesShine (NZ) - https://www.2shine.org.nz/ Family Violence - It's Not Okay (NZ) - https://www.areyouok.org.nz/ National Domestic Violence Hotline (USA) - https://www.thehotline.org/ Women's Aid (UK) - https://www.womensaid.org.uk/
My friend Nicole Herway (LCSW, Mother of Two, Divorced Survivor of Intimate Partner Abuse, Active LDS) bravely shares her own story to help others. She is not doing this to speak poorly of her former spouse, but to increase knowledge and awareness of abusive patterns and debunk myths. In the podcast Nicole debunks 8 myths using her own story, academic knowledge, and front-line clinical experience. If you feel you might be in an abusive relationship, please listen to this podcast. It will help you. If you suspect someone you love is in an abuse relationship, please listen to this podcast. And if you are a local church leader, please listen as it will give you better tools to help others. Thank you, Nicole, for being on the podcast. I learned so much. I encourage everyone to listen to this powerful episode. Links mentioned in the podcast: Nicole's web site: https://www.herwaycounseling.com/ Power and Control Wheel and Equality Wheel: https://www.theduluthmodel.org/wheel-gallery/ Sister Aileen H. Clyde Quote (starting with “If charity is not ….): https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/study/ensign/1991/11/charity-suffereth-long Elder Kearon April 2022: https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/study/general-conference/2022/04/24kearon Elder Hollard April 2021: https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/study/general-conference/2021/04/23holland
This “best of” episode comes from Jeff Hoffman's chat with Lisa Nolan, the Director of Prevention Education for the Willow Domestic Violence Center in Rochester New York. Prior to her role at Willow, she spent over 14 years in higher education working with college students primarily in the field of student behavior and conduct. During this time, she gained many years of experience working with survivors, understanding trauma, and understanding the impact of dating and domestic violence on individuals and the impact on the broader community. This conversation may be triggering to some and as a reminder, it is for educational purposes only and not medical or legal advice. If you need medical or legal advice, please seek help from the appropriate medical or legal professional. Links Willow Domestic Violence Center: http://willowcenterny.org/ The National Domestic Violence Hotline: http://thehotline.org/ Rape Abuse & Incest National Network: http://rainn.org/ The CDC Fast Facts about DV: https://www.cdc.gov/violenceprevention/intimatepartnerviolence/index.html Information on Adverse Childhood Experiences: https://www.cdc.gov/violenceprevention/aces The Power and Control Wheel: https://www.nsvrc.org/sites/default/files/2019-08/Gender%20Neutral%20Power%20Control%20Wheel.pdf Brene Brown's RSA Short: Empathy: https://brenebrown.com/videos/rsa-short-empathy/ GET YOUR TICKETS TO THE VM COMEDY NIGHT FUNDRAISER: https://visibleman.org/comedyshow/ Subscribe to Beck's Kid's YouTube Account: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCHKpj0_F_zTScHPAoBwNwZQ Support VM: https://www.patreon.com/visibleman National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: 800-273-TALK (800-273-8255) or text “VM” to 741741 American Foundation for Suicide Prevention (AFSP) Loss Survivors: https://afsp.org/ive-lost-someoneAFSP After an Attempt: https://afsp.org/after-an-attempt National Alliance on Mental Illness (NAMI) for family members and caregivers: https://www.nami.org/Your-Journey/Family-Members-and-Caregivers NAMI: https://www.nami.org/home Join Us: https://discord.gg/YbQDWqUC Visible Man: https://www.visibleman.org/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCSPFY2_fDLiw0WLcxZErasg Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/visibleman.org/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/VisiblemanO Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/visibleman_org/ Catch up on past episodes here: https://visibleman.org/the-visible-man-podcast/ --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/visibleman/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/visibleman/support
This “best of” episode comes from Jeff Hoffman's chat with Lisa Nolan, the Director of Prevention Education for the Willow Domestic Violence Center in Rochester New York. Prior to her role at Willow, she spent over 14 years in higher education working with college students primarily in the field of student behavior and conduct. During this time, she gained many years of experience working with survivors, understanding trauma, and understanding the impact of dating and domestic violence on individuals and the impact on the broader community. This conversation may be triggering to some and as a reminder, it is for educational purposes only and not medical or legal advice. If you need medical or legal advice, please seek help from the appropriate medical or legal professional. Links Willow Domestic Violence Center: http://willowcenterny.org/ The National Domestic Violence Hotline: http://thehotline.org/ Rape Abuse & Incest National Network: http://rainn.org/ The CDC Fast Facts about DV: https://www.cdc.gov/violenceprevention/intimatepartnerviolence/index.html Information on Adverse Childhood Experiences: https://www.cdc.gov/violenceprevention/aces The Power and Control Wheel: https://www.nsvrc.org/sites/default/files/2019-08/Gender%20Neutral%20Power%20Control%20Wheel.pdf Brene Brown's RSA Short: Empathy: https://brenebrown.com/videos/rsa-short-empathy/ GET YOUR TICKETS TO THE VM COMEDY NIGHT FUNDRAISER: https://visibleman.org/comedyshow/ Subscribe to Beck's Kid's YouTube Account: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCHKpj0_F_zTScHPAoBwNwZQ Support VM: https://www.patreon.com/visibleman National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: 800-273-TALK (800-273-8255) or text “VM” to 741741 American Foundation for Suicide Prevention (AFSP) Loss Survivors: https://afsp.org/ive-lost-someoneAFSP After an Attempt: https://afsp.org/after-an-attempt National Alliance on Mental Illness (NAMI) for family members and caregivers: https://www.nami.org/Your-Journey/Family-Members-and-Caregivers NAMI: https://www.nami.org/home Join Us: https://discord.gg/YbQDWqUC Visible Man: https://www.visibleman.org/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCSPFY2_fDLiw0WLcxZErasg Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/visibleman.org/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/VisiblemanO Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/visibleman_org/ Catch up on past episodes here: https://visibleman.org/the-visible-man-podcast/ --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/visibleman/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/visibleman/support
You deserve to live your best life of self-confidence, freedom, peace, calm, equality, dignity, safety, security and daily happiness with God's strength and power. Self-actualization. This is the final Part 8 of the Series titled "How to Be a Successful Warrior" which discusses God's Laws in the Bible, Jesus' Living Example on Earth, U.S Department of Justice Laws (e.g. what behavior is legal vs. illegal in relationships as per The Power and Control Wheel vs. The Equality Wheel) and Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs. God loves you, unconditionally. You are created equal by God. You deserve the freedom and happiness that relationships based in equality bring, promoting your ability to live your best, most successful life. God wants you to experience the highest level on Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs which is consistent with God's Laws and his Living Word. You can live a full life of Self-Actualization while alive on earth before joining our Heavenly Father in Heaven. ❤ --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app
RUSTY CAGE FEBRUARY 13, 2021 AARON SMITH SEASON 1 EPISODE 17 SHOW NOTES: Domestic violence is not something we like to talk about or even think about, but it is the daily reality for many. What preconceptions do we have about what it looks like or about the people who experience it? In Episode #17, we do some soul-searching. I share some information that I sincerely hope helps you understand this difficult topic. If you are a victim of domestic violence or have been a witness to it, I hope you can be encouraged by this content. DHHS Domestic Violence: https://dhhs.ne.gov/Pages/Domestic-Violence.aspxNational Coalition Against Domestic Violence NCADV: https://www.ncadv.orgWheel of Domestic Violence: https://www.thehotline.org/wp-content/uploads/sites/3/2016/06/TAC-Power-and-Control-Wheel.pdfBiderman's Chart of Coercion: https://www.strath.ac.uk/media/1newwebsite/departmentsubject/socialwork/documents/eshe/Bidermanschartofcoercion.pdf Find my profile at Substack: https://substack.com/profile/36171904-subtlecain Feel free to email me at subtlecain@protonmail.com with any questions or suggestions. Your support is always appreciated! You can support the show in these ways:Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/subtlecainPayPal: https://paypal.me/subtlecain?country.x=US&locale.x=en_USVenmo: https://venmo.com/u/subtlecainSupport the show (https://paypal.me/subtlecain?country.x=US&locale.x=en_US)
This is our final episode of Spiritual Abuse Awareness Month. Thank you so much for listening, for sharing, and for participating. This is not the final time we will be discussing Spiritual Abuse, but We're so glad we got some extra space to bring awareness to this very important subject. This episode features The Reverend Doctor Agnes M. Lover and Gimel Rogers, Psy.D Contact Tears of Eden tearsofeden.org@gmail.comSupport Uncertain & Tears of EdenGimel Rogers, Psy.D., ABPP is a licensed psychologist and is Board Certified in Clinical Psychology from the American Board of Professional Psychology. With over 10 years of clinical, professional speaking, and training experience she is the owner of F.I.R.E. Igniting Lives, LLC and founder of One Temple Fitness. She earned her doctorate from Pepperdine University and has provided trauma-focused care with clients from the Children of the Night Program, the Ventura Youth Correctional Facility, FCI Terminal Island, and community programs serving survivors of intimate partner violence. She is an expert witness and assists clients who are involved in criminal, family, and civil cases involving a broad range of forensic issues. She is Faculty and the Associate Director of the Online MAP/MACLP Programs at Pepperdine University. Therapeutically, Dr. Rogers presently works with survivors who are recovering from emotional, physical, and sexual abuse as well as persons coping with life's stressors.She utilizes an array of therapeutic interventions with an emphasis on cognitive-behavioral therapy. She has published in the areas of culture, coping, spirituality, and trauma. Her inaugural book is the “21-Day Relationship Healing Devotional and Journal” a poetry-based devotional that promotes restoration through reflection. She is the content developer of the Power and Control Wheel of Historical Trauma.The Reverend Doctor Agnes M. Lover is a native of Montgomery, Alabama. She enthusiastically serves as Lead Pastor at Saint Paul African Methodist Episcopal Church in Montgomery, Alabama, Rosa Parks Home Church, and is committed to passionate worship, community-focused ministry and the anointed preaching of God's Holy Word. Committed to life-long learning, Dr. Lover received the Doctor of Ministry from United Theological Seminary. Her doctoral project, “From Preying to Praying: Exposing the Effects of Spiritual Abuse in the Church,” establishes a psycho-ecclesial model to equip church leadership with the necessary knowledge concerning spiritual abuse and utilizes a biblical behavioral model to illustrate how church leadership should implement spiritual authority. She received the Master of Divinity from Candler School of Theology, the Master of Business Administration from St. Peters College, the Master of Science in Computer Science from Stevens Institute of Technology and the Bachelor of Science in Mathematics & Computer Science from Xavier University. Beyond the local pulpit, Pastor Agnes also compassionately serves in several capacities. She serves as Alabama River Region Conference Chair of Ministry Study, Conference Trustee, Chair of Finance Committee, and past annual conference secretary. In a five-year period, awarded over $60,000 in scholarship as the Episcopal District Christian Debutante Master Commissioner. Pastor Agnes secured funding and established Haven, at Ward Chapel AME Church - Prattville, a ministry that provides advocacy and professional counseling to victims of sexual assault; and ST. PAUL AME CHURCH ROSA PARKS FOUNDATION, INC, a non-profit to continue the legacy of Rosa Parks, Johnny and Arlam Carr, and espouse acts of Civil and Human Rights locally and globally. In addition, she made significant plant improvement in all four pastoral assignments and eliminated debt and burned the mortgage of one. Prior to pastoring full time, she served at Turner Chapel Marietta, GA as worship pastor, discipleship and fellowship purpose leader. Prior to serving in ministry full time, she pursued a corporate career that extensively evolved around 24 years of telecommunication experience combined in systems engineering, project management, sales and marketing. Spirit-led and Sprit-driven, Pastor Agnes is a proponent that strength is found within family—a bond that is strengthened every day. Dr. Lover is the extremely proud mother of two children, son, Kevion (Jillian) Rogers and daughter, Rev. Dr. Gimel Rogers; and grandmother of Kimberly and Kyle Rogers. She is the daughter of Rosa Smith Lover-Patterson and the late William Bernard Lover, II.
In this episode, I will go over the Power and Control Wheel which is a powerful tool that shows how abusers abuse and control their victims. Power and Control WheelA More Detailed P&C WheelHealthy Relationship WheelYou can find me on facebook as Julia Freeman.You can read my work at Juliafreemanfree.medium.comRemember you are loved and deserve to live in peace and freedom. Thanks for listening.
IN THIS EPISODE WE DISCUSS THE TRAGIC TRUTHS OF ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIPS WE DISCOVER JUST HOW COMMON ABUSE IS IN OUR CULTURE AND IN OTHERS WE ESTABLISH THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN A DYSFUNCTIONAL AND AN ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP WE HAVE A LONG CHAT WITH THE EXECUTIVE DIRECTOR OF A DOMESTIC VIOLENCE SHELTER WE GAIN SERIOUS INSIGHTS, HEAR SOME TRAGIC TALES, AND SHARE RESOURCES FOR GETTING HELP Here are some quick links to help you find out more: https://www.thehotline.org 24 hours a day, seven days a week, 365 days a year, the National Domestic Violence Hotline 1.800.799.7233 National Network Against Domestic Violence https://nnedv.org/ S.A.F.E. House (Southern Nevada) Emergency Shelter -24 Hour Crisis Hotline: 702-564-3227 Advocacy and Counseling -Office: 702.451.4203 All Services Free Spanish Speaking Employees on Staff and Translation Services Available via Language Line https://www.acf.hhs.gov/fysb/programs/family-violence-prevention-services/programs/ndvh The Family Violence Prevention and Services Act (FVPSA) https://safenest.org SafeNest: Temporary Assistance for Domestic Crisis, Nevada The Power & Control Wheel Explained: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5OrAdC6ySiY https://www.domesticshelters.org/.../statistics/what-are-the-power-and-control-wheels The Power and Control Wheel.
Please be mindful of the content warnings: In discussing ch. 28-29, we talk about sexual assault and domestic violence. Skip this one if you need to, and we'll catch you next time! Links: South Valley Services Domestic Violence 101 Donate to South Valley Services Power and Control Wheel
Patrisha McLean is a photojournalist whose life was upended in 2016 when her husband of 29 years was arrested for domestic violence. The arrest set her free, and on a course of activism around women's rights. In 2019 she started the non-profit organization and movement breaking the silence of domestic abuse Finding Our Voices, which is at FindingOurVoices.net. She has a podcast and radio show of conversations with survivors and for 2021 was named one of 21 leaders for the 21st century by Women's eNews. Also, since leaving my ex, I am doing everything I always wanted to do. "Scuba diving" is one thing, but the biggest thing is probably "making a difference in the world". Patrisha's Journey Our Voices in Biddeford https://www.facebook.com/breakthesilenceofdomesticabuse/ https://www.instagram.com/finding.our.voices/ https://twitter.com/patrishamclean Resources Patrisha Mentions FindingOurVoices.net Power and Control Wheel https://findingourvoices.net/projects/#powerwheels ********************* Please fill out a 5-question survey at lizsumner.com/survey. Let me know when you're done and I'll send you a coupon code for my online course, 8 Steps to Launch Your Dream Life. (launchyourdreamlife.com) ********************* Remarks I've heard from some of you that you listen for the uplifting and positive stories that my guests often tell. Well today's topic is a lot more serious than my usual subjects. But while we get into some very dark territory, Patrisha's story shines light on behavior that's often not talked about and is especially inspiring because of how she turned her harrowing experience into a way of helping others. In preparing for this episode, one article I read says that one in every four women and girls worldwide has experienced domestic abuse. I am fortunate that I am not one of them, though I will say that after listening to Patrisha, that there's a lot of what she describes that's frighteningly familiar. I have certainly struggled with low self esteem and because of that I've tolerated the intolerable. But not for 29 years. I wanted to understand what makes a person remain in a relationship when she's being mistreated. To make sense of the statement “He wouldn't let me.” Patrisha's deeply vulnerable and open account helped me comprehend the mechanisms that led her to enter and stay in an abusive relationship, for many years. And how she was finally able to free herself and turn her life around. I chose not to include all of the examples she shared. There were a lot and it was pretty awful. I left in enough so that people can recognize a variety of behaviors that are not acceptable and also resources that will help you take next steps if you're a victim or a friend. I'm deeply grateful to Patrisha McLean for talking with me, and for all of the people doing work to help victims of domestic violence, in particular to Susan Scrupski of Glorious Alone Productions who made the introduction. Here's the interview. Full transcript available at http://ialwayswantedto.net
Jeff chats with Lisa Nolan the Director of Prevention Education for the Willow Domestic Violence Center in Rochester New York. This conversation may be triggering to some and as a reminder, it is for educational purposes only and not medical or legal advice. If you need medical or legal advice, please seek help from the appropriate medical or legal professional. Notes What is the language we should be using when discussing domestic violence? The different perspectives on men and domestic violence How do we stop domestic violence? What is domestic violence and what does it look like? The signs of domestic violence Does domestic violence happen outside of sexual relationships? How the Britney Spears situation shows us what domestic violence in the family can look like What are the outward signs of domestic violence? What is gaslighting? Are abusers aware that they are abusing? Abuse versus anger management issues Why do people abuse? Where does it come from? How Lisa's experience as a campus judge for a college opened her eyes to the reality of domestic violence Men's versus women's experiences with domestic violence What hurdles do male sexual abuse survivors face? Domestic Violence in the LGBTQIA community How do people end up in abusive relationships? Why are abusive relationships hard to leave? Audience Q&A What we can do to help Links Willow Domestic Violence Center: http://willowcenterny.org/ The National Domestic Violence Hotline: http://thehotline.org/ Rape Abuse & Incest National Network: http://rainn.org/ The CDC Fast Facts about DV: https://www.cdc.gov/violenceprevention/intimatepartnerviolence/index.html Information on Adverse Childhood Experiences: https://www.cdc.gov/violenceprevention/aces The Power and Control Wheel: https://www.nsvrc.org/sites/default/files/2019-08/Gender%20Neutral%20Power%20Control%20Wheel.pdf Brene Brown's RSA Short: Empathy: https://brenebrown.com/videos/rsa-short-empathy/ DONATE TO AND/OR JOIN THE OFFICIAL VM MOVEMBER TEAM: https://us.movember.com/team/2398989 National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: 800-273-TALK (800-273-8255) or text "VM" to 741741 American Foundation for Suicide Prevention (AFSP) Loss Survivors: https://afsp.org/ive-lost-someone AFSP After an Attempt: https://afsp.org/after-an-attempt National Alliance on Mental Illness (NAMI) for family members and caregivers: https://www.nami.org/Your-Journey/Family-Members-and-Caregivers NAMI: https://www.nami.org/home Join Us: https://discord.gg/YbQDWqUC VisibleMan: https://www.visibleman.org/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/visibleman.org/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/VisiblemanO Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/visibleman_org/ --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/visibleman/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/visibleman/support
Jeff chats with Lisa Nolan the Director of Prevention Education for the Willow Domestic Violence Center in Rochester New York. This conversation may be triggering to some and as a reminder, it is for educational purposes only and not medical or legal advice. If you need medical or legal advice, please seek help from the appropriate medical or legal professional. Notes What is the language we should be using when discussing domestic violence? The different perspectives on men and domestic violence How do we stop domestic violence? What is domestic violence and what does it look like? The signs of domestic violence Does domestic violence happen outside of sexual relationships? How the Britney Spears situation shows us what domestic violence in the family can look like What are the outward signs of domestic violence? What is gaslighting? Are abusers aware that they are abusing? Abuse versus anger management issues Why do people abuse? Where does it come from? How Lisa's experience as a campus judge for a college opened her eyes to the reality of domestic violence Men's versus women's experiences with domestic violence What hurdles do male sexual abuse survivors face? Domestic Violence in the LGBTQIA community How do people end up in abusive relationships? Why are abusive relationships hard to leave? Audience Q&A What we can do to help Links Willow Domestic Violence Center: http://willowcenterny.org/ The National Domestic Violence Hotline: http://thehotline.org/ Rape Abuse & Incest National Network: http://rainn.org/ The CDC Fast Facts about DV: https://www.cdc.gov/violenceprevention/intimatepartnerviolence/index.html Information on Adverse Childhood Experiences: https://www.cdc.gov/violenceprevention/aces The Power and Control Wheel: https://www.nsvrc.org/sites/default/files/2019-08/Gender%20Neutral%20Power%20Control%20Wheel.pdf Brene Brown's RSA Short: Empathy: https://brenebrown.com/videos/rsa-short-empathy/ DONATE TO AND/OR JOIN THE OFFICIAL VM MOVEMBER TEAM: https://us.movember.com/team/2398989 National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: 800-273-TALK (800-273-8255) or text "VM" to 741741 American Foundation for Suicide Prevention (AFSP) Loss Survivors: https://afsp.org/ive-lost-someone AFSP After an Attempt: https://afsp.org/after-an-attempt National Alliance on Mental Illness (NAMI) for family members and caregivers: https://www.nami.org/Your-Journey/Family-Members-and-Caregivers NAMI: https://www.nami.org/home Join Us: https://discord.gg/YbQDWqUC VisibleMan: https://www.visibleman.org/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/visibleman.org/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/VisiblemanO Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/visibleman_org/ --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/visibleman/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/visibleman/support
This is third of a Series on the importance of self-care for women and teen girls. The goal? To help YOU achieve the highest level of self- actualization. To help you become a LEADER. God wants YOU to become the best version of yourself and experience REAL love, success and lasting happiness. Hope, faith, trusting in God and believing in miracles are all part of becoming a "Successful Warrior in Life with God," as God speaks to us often through His Living Word. You deserve to love yourself and protect your basic needs as per Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs (and Motivations): "Safety Needs" (next level up from Physiological Needs) is discussed with confirming references to Gods Laws and Commandments in the Bible; Jesus Christ's living example on earth over 2000 years ago; U.S. Department of Justice Laws protecting women and teen girls; as well as the Unhealthy Behavior described in the Power and Control Wheel vs. the Healthy Behavior of the Equality Wheel (TheDuluthModel.org) cited by U.S. Government Mandated Agencies across America. All references are consistent as per God's Laws and Commandments in the Bible, the Living Word to guide you and all people. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app
October is Domestic Violence Awareness month. Heidi DeFord, Hennepin County Attorney, joins TWR to share her story about being in an abusive relationship with the hopes of helping others to heal. Heidi shares that she approaches her work with a holistic view with each person's humanity at the forefront. Referenced in this episode: Hennepin County Lawyer Shares Personal Domestic Abuse Story Domestic Abuse / Harassment Resource Sheet Domestic Abuse Power and Control Wheel
Welcome to the Peaceful Worldschooling Podcast - Episode 3. "The Problem with Public School" featuring Public School Government Teacher and founder of The Red Lipstick Rebellion, Ms. Brenda Diaz. Brenda is a Social Studies teacher in Montgomery County, MD, with a passion for American History, Latin American History, and government. Her academic career began at Georgetown University, upon which after graduation, she applied her love of learning as a Spanish language teacher and Spanish Language Coordinator at a private school in DC. After her daughters were born, she decided to become a homemaker to her 3 beautiful girls: Josephine, aged 17; Julia-Christine, 13; and Kara, 6-years-old. Brenda believes in medical, religious, and educational freedom, and she is now fighting to maintain these God-given, natural-born rights in the greater Washington, D.C. area. 1:30 - How did Angela and Brenda meet? 6:27 - What was it like when you decided to take a stand for what you knew was right? 9:30 - What made you come to the decision to not wear a mask in your school? 9:40 - What happened when you walked into school without a mask and started the Red Lipstick Rebellion? 13:15 - How did you feel when you were walking out of school for the last time? 17:27 - What are the other teachers experiencing that are still in school operating under threats and coercion? 19:09 - Angela introduces the Power and Control Wheel as the basis for her book, Toxic Teaching 26:26 - Do you believe that it is possible to reform public education? 29:15 - What would children create if they were educationally free? 30:20 - How can I give my students freedom in spite of the curriculum? 31:10 - What do you observe regarding students' reading and writing ability? 34:30 - Why did we get here? 44:00 - What would you want to say to the other students and teachers that are still trapped in the public school system? 51:45 - How can you support Brenda as she creates a new “Freedom Pod”? PLEASE SUPPORT BRENDA: https://www.givesendgo.com/freedompod QUOTES FROM THE EPISODE: "The only way to stop abuse is to leave." -Brenda Diaz "I would rather have the responsibility of freedom than the stress of being under coercion and control." -Brenda Diaz ***STAY TUNED*** New episodes are released every Tuesday! If you would like to be a guest on the Peaceful Worldschooling Podcast, please fill out this form: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSfsENPjno6nFT_ySR2YrmvBUsaPt647ubpX-cWfZBP4vCR8uQ/viewform CHECK OUT THE PEACEFUL WORLDSCHOOLERS WEBSITE: https://peacefulworldschoolers.com/
October is "Domestic Violence Awareness Month" and so we're the month with a very serious discussion on domestic violence and statute that impact survivors in today's world. We discuss the definition of Domestic violence, The Duluth Power and Control Wheel, reasons that survivors stay, and how you can help as a friend. Sources on the website: EVENTUALLY Instagram: @TIHIPodcast Twitter: @TIHIPodcast Website: TIHIPodcast.com Windsor's Twitter: Brittany's Twitter: Graphics by: Windsor Intro Music by: https://www.fiverr.com/sunshinekidsng Check out: interstateyouth.org to donate to our nonprofit.
What kind of love is real love according to God and the example of Jesus in his treatment of his mother Mary and other women friends in his life? Including women friends who financed his Ministry? How does God want you to be treated? God wants you to be given the kind of real love that has its foundation in equality, trust, mutual respect. Not unhealthy power and control. See the Equality Wheel vs. Power and Control Wheel on Grace Gal Life Ministries website and marketplace with FREE resources: https://GraceGal.com and the U.S. Dept of Justice' justice.gov - Office for Women as well as the Living Word. God's Laws and Commandments. Bible.com --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app
This is a continuation of this Podcast Series focusing on Relationships. How did Jesus treat women and girls? What are God's Laws and Commandments as per the Old and New Testaments of the Bible? What are U.S. Laws as per the Department of Justice of America? The Duluth Organization"s Power and Control Wheel vs. Equality Wheel are used, and how these values are parallel to the Bible. Bible verse references are used, as well as personal stories, and public celebrity examples. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app
In this episode, we discuss what makes up an unhealthy or abusive LGBTQIA+ relationship. We discuss and share out the LGBTQIA specific power and control wheel, which shows different examples of abuse and manipulation that can be carried out in relationships. We take time to discuss how we can support someone in an unhealthy/abusive LGBTQIA relationship, including supportive language useful for difficult conversations, and other considerations. At the end of the episode, we discuss resources specifically for the LGBTQIA community.LGBTQIA Power & Control Wheel: https://www.loveisrespect.org/lir-files/LGBT-Power-and-Control-Wheel.pdfGender Spectrum Resource Hub: https://genderspectrum.org/Trevor Project (LGBTQIA Youth Resources/Ally Resources): https://www.thetrevorproject.org/Society for Sexual, Affectional, Intersex, and Gender Expansive Identities: https://saigecounseling.org/LGBTQIA Resources/Empowerment: https://itgetsbetter.org/One Conversation, The Podcast Where We Believe One Conversation Can Change A Life | www.liveviolencefree.org
About AJ Paterson: Just a girl with a story of life. Passionately worked in the Domestic Abuse sector for 16 years and the Homeless Sector for 25 years. Discusser of rights in relationships. Advocate for everyone's voice, people telling their stories. It's all about community. Survivor. Musician. Sports fanatic. Politics!!! Abuse Talk Podcast currently offers a series of interviews with those that work in the domestic abuse sector. Getting an inside feel for what its really like in their job role and sharing it with all of you. Now mixing with survivor stories. Don't forget you can respond to this episode by leaving a voice message on Anchor, get in touch if you have any queries. Our website: www.abusetalk.co.uk My website: www.jennifergilmour.com Find AJ on Twitter - twitter.com/ajpatty Resources mentioned: Galop - www.galop.org.uk Love is Respect - www.loveisrespect.org/lir-files/LGBT-Power-and-Control-Wheel.pdf --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/abusetalk/message
Abuse is so much more than broken bones and bruises. In this episode, I break down specifics of The Power & Control Wheel. For more information, go to https://www.theduluthmodel.org/wheels/understanding-power-control-wheel/. Ladies, you are welcome to join us on Facebook at Held & Healed: Christian Women Rebuilding After Abuse. Or, contact me at heatherelizabeth.org --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app
We enter an upcoming series on unpacking the pie pieces of the Power and Control Wheel. Hear in this episode from Economic Abuse and Coercive Control expert, Stephanie Aguilar.
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In this episode, I pick. up my conversation with Lovern Gordon, President of Love Life Now (www.lovelifenow.org). The episode begins with a listing of the different types of abuse: coercion and threats, intimidation, emotional abuse, isolation, minimizing, denying and blaming, using children, economic abuse and male privilege. These all come from the Power and Control Wheel by the National Center on Domestic and Sexual Violence website www.ncdav.org. Lovern and I continue our discussion focusing on the warning and tell tale signs that the relationship you are in could turn abusive. We also discuss the complicated issues of why a person stays in an abusive relationship. Domestic violence is not black and white; the shades of grey can keep someone in danger for a long time. Most importantly, we talk about what bystanders can do to help and how just being a listening ear helps victims. Below, are the resources listed in the first episode. My hope is that someone who needs help will reach out or that a bystander will get familiar with the domestic violence resources in their community. That way, the bystander can (when the time is right) offer suggestions for the person they care about. Although Domestic Violence Awareness month is celebrated in October, this issue should be openly discussed all year long. Thank you for listening and your interest in this important topic. National Domestic Violence Resources: Love Life Now Foundation - 888-LLN-9876; www.lovelifenow.org The National Domestic Violence Hotline - 1-800-799-7233 (SAFE); www.ndvh.org National Dating Abuse Helpline - 1-866-331-9474; www.loveisrespect.org Women of Color Network - 1-800-537-2238; www.wocninc.org Casa de Esperanza - 1-651-772-1611; www.casadeesperanza.org The National Immigrant Women's Advocacy Project - 202-274-4457; http://www.niwap.org A Call to Men - 917-922-6738; www.acalltomen.org Northwest Network of Bisexual, Trans, Lesbian & Gay Survivors of Abuse - 206-568-7777 Massachusetts Domestic Violence Resources Love Life Now Foundation - Mass211 - www.mass211.org Respond, Inc. - www.respondinc.org Further Reading Resources Mashable - https://mashable.com/article/how-to-help-domestic-violence-survivors-social-distancing-covid-19-coronavirus/ The Joyful Heart Foundation - www.joyfulheartfoundation.org
During domestic violence awareness month, I wanted to shed some light on the differences between the violence and equality wheels. Do you know if you are in an abusive relationship? --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/karen-messina/message
There is the Power and Control Wheel and the Equality Wheel. Which one is controlling you? Sometimes we let our past thoughts continue to control us. We unpack the effects of the power and control v. the equality wheel. Take a listen. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/karen-messina/message
James comes up from his week off from his media blackout and finds out what a "Kenosha" is... wow 2020. Not ready to go there so we pivot with our two guest co-host. First: Avi Roque is here to chat cancel culture, using our social media for social activism, and how to come correct when challenging someone as we explore shame vs. guilt. Then our resident Afro-Latina comedian Glory is here to dive into something that has been weighing HEAVY on her... and she is coming for fellow Afro-Latina Zoey Saldana, who played Nina Simone and probably should not have, which opens us up into a deep conversation about Afro-Latinx heritage, and specifically Dominican history, slavery, colorism, and just how deep anti Blackness is. Also John Leguizamo we may have some words for you too, as Glory has a callout for colorism within the Latinx community, and exclusion of Afro-Latino’s. Then we’re going to finish with some self-care and do something we rarely do here on the pod and talk about relationships. Whether you're currently in one, or not you will get some great healing tools as Avi walks us through some exercises from the Anti Violence Projects’ Power and Control Wheel for Queer Partnerships. RESOURCES:New York City Anti-Violence Project (https://avp.org/) / Intimate Queer Partnerships -- LGBT Power & Control Wheel (https://www.lgbtagingcenter.org/resources/resource.cfm?r=594)Chadwick Boseman's Agent's article in The Hollywood Reporter CONTACT USTwitter: @minoritykornerEmail: minoritykorner@gmail.comIG: @minoritykornerJames Arthur M: TW: @JamesArthur_M, IG: @JamesArthurMGlory Mora: TW: @prettyfunnyglo, IG: @glorelysmoraAvi: www.avirroque.com. TW: @ok_roque, IG: @amroque
How do you escape a life as a child bride, and what does the process of rebuilding entail?Join Laura Gassner Otting as she hosts this episode of LGOtv with special guest, Samra Zafar - Humanist, Traveler, Child BrideTimestamps:3:10 - Tell me about the day you decided to leave.4:54 - "Everyone turned to look at me and I was scared."6:56 - "As a child, I was told to dream but don't dream too big."11:07 - "It was as if I was living in two different worlds."12:57 - "I gained leverage, and learned how to manipulate the system to my advantage."16:22 - "There many times that I was assaulted, humiliated, and abused and I didn't even know what to call it. I thought it was normal."18:30 - The sign that made all the difference.20:14 - "The diagram of the Power [and Control] Wheel changed my life."25:26 - "The worst thing I faced was the backlash from my family, community, and culture."27:30 - How do you get loud when The Culture of Honor says to stay quiet?29:59 - "No one believed me when I said I was leaving because I was abused."30:47 - "If that community at the university hadn't been there, I would have gone back."32:29 - "Hundreds of women have written to me over the years saying, 'I can't leave because my family would never talk to me again...I'll lose everybody.'"33:00 - "Honor killings are just the tip of the iceberg."34:34 - Domestic violence is on the rise due to COVID-19. "The isolation is the abuser's best friend."36:00 - Why did you decide to go public with your personal story?37:47 - "My story is not just my story. This is the story of millions and millions of girls around the world who continue to suffer in silence because no one wants to talk about it."41:04 - "A man wrote and said that he decided that he is going to cancel his teenage daughter's wedding and send her to school after I read your story."42:27 - The letters from the haters are less difficult to bear than the letters from supporters and the girls and women who you inspire.44:25 - How do you thrive in this space of Wonderhell, where what you are doing is so necessary that you have to be the one that continues to bring the energy and put yourself out there?50:19 - "The work takes a toll."51:18 - "It's okay to take care of yourself."54:00 - Where does the internal strength come from?58:13 - "We are all here in this world for a purpose."Links:https://www.facebook.com/samrazafar001https://www.linkedin.com/in/samrazafarhttps://twitter.com/iamsamrazafarhttp://www.samrazafar.comhttp://www.ncdsv.org/images/PowerControlwheelNOSHADING.pdfWashington Post Best Selling Author and Motivational Keynote Speaker, Laura Gassner Otting, inspires people to push past the doubt and indecision that keep great ideas in limbo because her presentations make listeners think bigger and accept greater challenges that reach beyond their limited scope of belief.She delivers strategic thinking, well-honed wisdom, and perspective generated by decades of navigating change across the start-up, nonprofit, political, as well as philanthropic landscapes. Laura dares listeners to find their voice, and generate the confidence needed to tackle larger-than-life challenges. She leads them to seek new ways of leading, managing, and mentoring others.
Jon interviews Joy Forrest about what domestic abuse is and how misuse of the Bible in the pulpit has an impact on domestic abuse. Joy is the director of Called to Peace Ministries, conference speaker, Certified Biblical Counselor, and the author of Called to Peace: A Survivor's Guide to Finding Peace and Healing After Domestic Abuse. Link to Joy's book: https://www.amazon.com/Called-Peace-Survivors-Finding-Domestic/dp/1948449013/ref=sr_1_2?crid=RH3PA06UPQDT&dchild=1&keywords=called+to+peace+joy+forrest&qid=1597328811&sprefix=Called+to+Peace%2Caps%2C538&sr=8-2 Link to Called to Peace Ministries: https://www.calledtopeace.org/ Link to the Power and Control Wheel: https://www.theduluthmodel.org/wheels/understanding-power-control-wheel/ Link to Chris Moles website and resources: http://www.chrismoles.org/
We frequently see that victims of abuse are blamed for what happens to them, by their partner or even those closest to them. Generally speaking, individuals have a hard time understanding why someone would keep returning to THAT kind of home life. But a more appropriate question could be, why does their partner keep treating them that way? OR what is the invisible anchor that is holding my friend captive to that toxic relationship? When we understand how strategic power and control moves can affect a victim's hope for a peaceful life, we can begin to understand why leaving an abusive relationship is one of the hardest things someone can do. For more on the Power and Control Wheel, visit: www.theduluthmodel.org/wheels/ For More on Safety Planning or Free and Supportive Services available for victims of abuse, visit us online www.carelodge.com or call our 24/7 help line at 601.693.4673.
Believe it or not, there are quite a few people who need to be set free from abuse. In fact, there are people in abusive relationships who don’t even realize it. For one thing, when most people hear the word ‘abuse’ they only relate it to physical harm. Abuse is not just physical The Power and Control Wheel gives clear examples of abuse. But sadly, that is not the case. In addition to physical harm, abusers often use verbal and/or emotional abuse tactics. Furthermore, abusers use those tactics to intimidate, manipulate, and control another person. So, when we look at abuse from that viewpoint, a person can be in an abusive relationship totally unaware. Actions speak louder than words Now, the scripture also warns us about abusive behaviors. In particular, 2 Timothy 3:1-5 English Standard Version lays it out very well. It says, "1 But understand this, that in the last days there will come times of difficulty. 2 For people will be lovers of self, lovers of money, proud, arrogant, abusive, disobedient to their parents, ungrateful, unholy, 3 heartless, unappeasable, slanderous, without self-control, brutal, not loving good, 4 treacherous, reckless, swollen with conceit, lovers of pleasure rather than lovers of God, 5 having the appearance of godliness, but denying its power. Avoid such people." It is clear to see, even in scripture, that abusers exhibit certain behaviors. As a result, abusers intimidate, manipulate, and control innocent people. And those people need to be set free from abuse. The poet Maya Angelou said it like this, “When someone shows you who they are; believe them the first time.” In other words, actions speak louder than words. Love is not supposed to hurt you or those you hold dear to your heart. Original Photo by Sydney Sims on Unsplash It’s time to get free Finally, if you or someone you know is in a verbally, physically, and/or emotionally abusive relationship, this podcast episode will offer life-changing information. Join Lady V and me as we discuss how to be set free from abuse. Helpful Resources National Domestic Violence Hotline Safety Alert: Computer use can be monitored and is impossible to completely clear. If you are afraid your internet usage might be monitored, call the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1−800−799−7233 or TTY 1−800−787−3224. Users of web browser Microsoft Edge will be redirected to Google when clicking the “X” or “Escape” button. When Georgia Smiled The Robin McGraw Revelation and Dr. Phil Foundation Devoted to helping advance organizations and programs that serve victims of domestic violence, sexual assault, child abuse and individuals facing crisis to live healthy, safe and joy-filled lives. We also support communities that have been severely affected by disasters. The Aspire Initiative The Aspire Initiative is a FREE domestic violence education curriculum aiming to reduce the level of intimate relationship violence in the U.S., and instill the importance of bystander responsibility, from prevention to safe exit strategies. Available to access online, anywhere, anytime. The Aspire News App Voted as one of the two “best apps for domestic violence prevention” last year, the Aspire News App is a potentially life-saving app that allows victims of abuse to call for help at the touch of a button. The app contains summaries of top stories in world, sports, and entertainment news powered by Yahoo! It is available for download on iPhone and Android smartphone devices. Previous episodes you may enjoy Wisdom — A God-listening Heart – S1E5 Mental Health: Cyber Bullying, Depression, and Suicide - S1E6 Mental Health Awareness – S1E7 Living Through a Diagnosis-S1E8 Christianity Misunderstood--Understanding Grace - S1E9 Ask your questions or share your feedback Comment on the episode Email feedback Follow and like us on Social Media Take our quick Audi...
We continue the arc of abuse in this episode on the topic of physical abuse. Susette and Brandon define what is considered physical abuse while also providing resources on how to further assess situations. We identify misconceptions of physical abuse and embark on a the issue of spanking, a subject that has a widely varied opinion. Physical Abuse: is any intentional and unwanted contact with you or something close to your body. Sometimes abusive behavior does not cause pain or even leave a bruise, but it's still unhealthy. Scratching, punching, biting, strangling or kicking. Throwing something at you such as a phone, book, shoe or plate. Pulling your hair. Pushing or pulling you. Grabbing your clothing. Using a gun, knife, box cutter, bat, mace or other weapon. Smacking your bottom without your permission or consent. Grabbing your face to make you look at them. Grabbing you to prevent you from leaving or to force you to go somewhere. Power Control Wheel: https://ywcaspokane.org/wp-content/uploads/2017/10/2018-YWCA-Spokane-Power-and-Control-Wheel.pdf What Science Says - and Doesn't Say about Spanking: https://www.scientificamerican.com/article/what-science-says-and-doesn-t-about-spanking/ RESOURCES Domestic Violence Hotline: https://www.thehotline.org Child Abuse Reporting https://www.childwelfare.gov/organizations/?CWIGFunctionsaction=rols:main.dspList&rolType=Custom&RS_ID=%205 Elder Abuse: https://www.justice.gov/elderjustice Toxic Faith https://www.amazon.com/dp/0877888256/ref=cm_sw_r_sms_c_api_i_yHyzEbTHV6EKN Sexual Abuse Recovery: The Wounded Heart: Hope for Adult Victims of Childhood Sexual Abuse
Resources: National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233 (SAFE) or 1-800-787-3224 (TTY)Love is Respect Hotline 1-866-331-99474 ( You can also text “loveis” 22522)National Sexual Assault Hotline (24/7) 1-800-656-HOPE (4673) Better Help (Online Therapy) https://www.betterhelp.com/GLBT National Help Center Hotline 1800-246-PRIDE (1-800-246-7743) (You an also chat online at: http://www.volunteerlogin.org/chat/)Gay Men’s Domestic Violence Project Hotline: 1-800-832-1901FORGE– (for Transgender and gender nonconforming survivors of DV and sexual assault): https://forge-forward.org/anti-violence/for-survivors/referrals-and-information/The Network La Red– (LGBTQ, poly, and kink/BDSM survivors of abuse; also has bilingual offerings) 617-742-4911Asian Pacific Institute on Gender-Based Violence: https://www.api-gbv.org/The Center for Survivor Agency and Justice: https://csaj.org/Incite! Women of Color Against Violence: https://incite-national.org/The Power and Control Wheel:http://www.ncdsv.org/images/PowerControlwheelNOSHADING.pdf
Welcome to Coffee and Counseling with your hosts Cherlette McCullough and Cristina Ally. We have a great show for you today. Today we are talking about toxic relationships. While no relationship is picture perfect, whether its family, romantic or business it could be TOXIC. But for the most part, a good relationship should make you feel heard, secure, happy, cared for, respected, and free to be yourself. Toxic relationships are ones that make you feel angry, drained, depleted, and sometimes confused.So today, we will talk about what a toxic relationship looks like, how to handle a toxic relationship, how to end a toxic relationship, dating after a toxic relationship has ended and more importantly how to take ownership if you are the toxic person in the relationship. So, if you’re ready for a great show, let’s jump right in!...Our favorite resources for this episode:Support us on a monthly basis at: www.patreon.com/coffeeandcounselingBook Suggestion: Toxic People: 10 Ways of Dealing with People Who Make Your Life MiserableBook Suggestion: 200 Ways to Love the Body You HavePower and Control Wheel - http://www.ncdsv.org/publications_wheel.htmlTed Talk: Leslie Morgan Steiner “Why Domestic Violence Victims Don’t Leave”Book Suggestion: Crazy Love by Leslie Morgan SteinerNational Center on Domestic and Sexual Violence Hotline: 1-800-799-SAFE (7233) or 1-800-787-3224 (TTY)Get your FREE Audiobook here: www.audibletrial.com/coffeeandcounseling Please note all resource links to amazon are Coffee and Counseling Amazon Associate links which means we receive a small profit from purchases made with these links which helps support our show to bring you fabulous, fun and informative content! Contact UsIf you would like to reach Cherlette directly you can visit her website at www.cherlettemccullough.com.If you would like to reach Cristina directly you can visit her website at www.cristinaally.com.Feel free to reach out to us at info@coffeeandcounseling.org and let us know how you were impacted by this episode!Never want to miss an episode? Subscribe to our email list here: https://mailchi.mp/df7b8004163e/coffeeandcounselingVisit us at www.coffeeandcounseling.org!Join the Coffee and Counseling Community and conversation on Facebook! Do you love the show and want to financially support us on a mSupport the show (https://www.patreon.com/coffeeandcounseling)
Ellen Higgins and Deborah Hackworth talk with Claudia Pahls about domestic violence in this episode. It's not about anger, it's about power and control. "An abuser isn't 'out of control.' They control themselves - they aren't abusing random people. They control their anger and abuse and focus it on their victims." Domestic violence can be defined as a pattern of behavior in any relationship that is used to gain or maintain power and control over an intimate partner. Abuse is physical, sexual, emotional, economic or psychological actions or threats of actions that influence another person. This includes any behaviors that frighten, intimidate, terrorize, manipulate, hurt, humiliate, blame, injure or wound someone. Domestic violence can happen to anyone of any race, age, sexual orientation, religion or gender. It can happen to couples who are married, living together or who are dating.Domestic violence affects people of all socioeconomic backgrounds and education levels. Power and Control Wheel You may be in an emotionally abusive relationship if your partner: Calls you names, insults you or continually criticizes you. Does not trust you and acts jealous or possessive. Tries to isolate you from family or friends. Monitors where you go, who you call and who you spend time with. Does not want you to work. Controls finances or refuses to share money. Punishes you by withholding affection. Expects you to ask permission. Threatens to hurt you, the children, your family or your pets. Humiliates you in any way. You may be in a physically abusive relationship if your partner has ever: Damaged property when angry (thrown objects, punched walls, kicked doors, etc.). Pushed, slapped, bitten, kicked or choked you. Abandoned you in a dangerous or unfamiliar place. Scared you by driving recklessly. Used a weapon to threaten or hurt you. Forced you to leave your home. Trapped you in your home or kept you from leaving. Prevented you from calling police or seeking medical attention. Hurt your children. Used physical force in sexual situations. Visit https://www.dasasmi.org/ for resources or call our 24-hour hotline at 800-828-2023.
The language of power and control is diametrically opposed to the language of love. Transforming relationships - Losing the need to control, or the tendancy to be controlled, by increasing self confidence. Deluth Power and Control Wheel
The language of power and control is diametrically opposed to the language of love. Transforming relationships - Losing the need to control, or the tendancy to be controlled, by increasing self-confidence. Deluth Power and Control Wheel
We all want to reduce the turbulence of life. Stuff Happens and we find ourselves bouncing around the sky. Help! Learn the three best things you can do to handle these unexpected changes? Laura shares what she has learned in her Major Transformation and how it can help you. Watch live on Facebook. www.facebook.com/transformationtalkradio/
The language of power and control is diametrically opposed to the language of love. Transforming relationships by losing the need to control or the tendency to be controlled by increasing self confidence. Deluth Power and Control Wheel.
There are no bruises, but something is terribly wrong inside your relationship. If you find yourself in an abusive relationship, please listen to this episode and let it guide you towards the help you need. Power and Control Wheel (suggested by Hannah during the episode)Get in touch with Hannah (remember, she can work remotely through secure web calls)Find help near you.Support the show (https://www.shinestrong.co/podcast)
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Do you know someone who is being abused? Matt Hollo, a Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor and experienced offenders treatment group facilitator, explains the Duluth "Power and Control Wheel." This wheel shows aspects of subtle mistreatment that lead to physical and sexual violence. We discuss how to safely help yourself or someone who is in danger. He also covers the generalities of the Duluth "Nonviolence (Equality) Wheel." This podcast was recorded live on Facebook and the extended video showing behind-the-scenes footage is available at https://www.facebook.com/ThriveTribe419/videos/1717807244946942/ If you need immediate help, call 911. For counseling regarding domestic violence (victims or offenders, kids, couples), call Matt with Deep Roots Wellness at 419-239-2113 to set up a free 15 minute consultation. Visit www.MattHollo.com for more information. If you need report abuse or get away from an unsafe situation, please contact one of these organizations while you are in a safe location, on a password protected device (or use a public phone or computer if necessary): House of Ruth: 1-877-988-5559 (NW Ohio area) RAINN National Sexual Assault Hotline: 800-656-HOPE (4673) Comprehensive Crisis Care: 419-592-8336 (NW Ohio area) Defiance/Paulding County Job & Family Services: 800-342-0160 Sarah's House Victims of Crime: 419-782-0911 (NW Ohio area) Teen Line: 24 hour confidential information: 877-419-7233 Center for Child & Family Advocacy: 419-592-0540 (NW Ohio area) Thanks to our sponsor: Matt Hollo at Deep Roots Wellness: www.MattHollo.com Music Credit: www.BenSound.com
Cari and Kelsae discuss the power and control wheel, a tool that explains different ways in which abusive people gain power and control over others, in the context of Mormonism and how many of these same tactics are used by the LDS church to maintain power over members. For full show notes and links, go to: www.nomanknowsmyherstory.com/episodes/16
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Dr. Sheela Reddy is a psychologist, executive coach, and mother of two girls, who is passionate about helping women who are suffering through domestic abuse. Growing up in India, Sheela suffered domestic abuse throughout her childhood. Her way of coping was finding people whom she could count on, people who she referred to as her other mothers. She asked for help – and received it. At an early age she recognized that she had the power to assist others who were suffering and has been using her innate gifts ever since. In this podcast she talks about her journey from India, shares her thoughts about the importance of speaking out, especially for Asian women, about resilience, and she offers resources. Sheela came to the United States at age 19 because she was fascinated by the businesswomen that she saw while watching American television, and she was seeking a future with more possibilities. She attended Loyola University where she earned her Masters degree in counseling. She then went on to help patients manage substance abuse issues. After several years she enrolled at Rutgers University where she earned her doctorate in multicultural counseling psychology. While at Rutgers she worked with her husband to build a business with operations in India and the U.S. While that sounds like a busy and stressful life on the surface, her challenges were compounded by being in a difficult marriage that ultimately ended in divorce. Sheela has been a director at a domestic violence center and is now a practicing psychologist and an executive coach. In her practice, she loves working with individuals and families and is skilled at running corporate workshops in emotional intelligence and teambuilding. Alternative methods relying on mindfulness such as yoga and art – are an important part of her approach. Part of my discussion with Sheela focuses on the #MeToo movement. More and more women are coming forward to share their stories of sexual harassment and intimidation, but Sheela and I believe that this is just a beginning. We know that there are thousands of women who are too reliant on their paychecks to speak out, and Sheela explains that, because of their culture, Asian women in particular find it very challenging to address and admit to abuse. Sheela also discusses: When bad things happen, how do you cope? Making meaning out of a difficult situation Becoming more resilient Cultural challenges of breaking silence Not saying "why me?" Instead, look for resources. Learn more about Dr. Sheela Reddy or contact her at Minedful.com. Resources Domestic Violence Hotline: 1-800-799-7233 Hopeworks of Howard County, MD Abused Persons Program in Montgomery County, MD Power and Control Wheel from National Center on Domestic Violence For help with taking your next career step, contact me at Lisa@EverBetterU.com http://www.everbetteru.com/work-with-me-coaching
Call the show at 612-643-1108 or email transatheistpod@outlook.com Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/transatheistpod Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/transatheistpod Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/transatheistpod/ This podcast is proud to be a part of the Trans Podcaster Visibility Initiative: https://www.facebook.com/transvisiblepodcaster/ Main show page is http://www.thequeerlife.org/category/transatheistpod/ The Trans Lifeline is http://www.translifeline.org/ US: (877) 565-8860 and Canada: (877) 330-6366 Quick links 001:13 Brief personal transition story 007:58 Thank you 009:05 Interview with Jennifer Landuis - Director of Social change at The Idaho Coalition Against Sexual & Domestic Violence 138:35 Mya Byrne, American Dream (so far away) My guest for this episode is Jennifer Landuis, she is the Director of Social Change at the Idaho Coalition Against Sexual & Domestic Violence. This conversation may be difficult for some listeners as it is a frank discussion on the work Jennifer is doing in combatting sexual and gender violence. The conversation takes a few detours on the way, we touch a bit on her Christianity and social justice and getting deeper the conversation turns to why we sometimes use the term gender violence in lieu of domestic violence, what her recommendation is if you come across an abuse situation in public, and how to find resources in your area. This is a pretty long conversation, and a conversation which was over much too quickly. I hope you enjoy this episode, and while I hope no one listening is in a place where they need any of the resources Jennifer provides, the resources Jennifer and I discuss are in the show notes, they are right here for those that do. Links: Idaho Coalition Against Sexual & Domestic Violence: https://idvsa.org/compassionate-communities/ Lewis House: https://www.360communities.org/violence-prevention-intervention/lewis-house/ Domestic Violence hotline: 1-800-799-SAFE Outfront Minnesota: http://www.outfront.org/programs/avp/dv MN Coalition for battered women: http://www.mcbw.org/ FORGEforward (yes I'm including a religious link): https://forgeforward.org/ Anti-Violence Project: https://avp.org/ Northwest Network Seattle: http://www.nwnetwork.org/ Power Control Wheel for LGBTQIAA relationships: https://static1.squarespace.com/static/566c7f0c2399a3bdabb57553/t/582b7f6e440243e4d6d05c67/1479245679835/11-Power-and-Control-Wheel-for-LGBT.pdf Music Links: Mya Byrne: http://myabyrne.com/ Mya Byrne Bandcamp site: https://myabyrne.bandcamp.com/ Thanks as always for downloading, listening, and supporting! Jokes! Ghosts don't have gender They're. . . Non-boo-nary Q. Why are most monsters covered in wrinkles? A. Have you ever tried to iron a monster Q: What do you get when you drop a pumpkin? A: Squash this one is actually ironic because technically a pumpkin is a type of squash, like Libby's Pumpkin that I use for my pumpkin pie is made from squash Also, always remember, jokes are more funny when they come with footnotes!
Join Angela Lauria of The Author Incubator as she interviews Inspirational Speaker and AuthorMaxine Browne about the publishing of her book, Years of Tears. The book was inspired by Maxine's ten-year experience with a psychologically, verbally and emotionally abusive husband, and at the end of those ten years Maxine was so thoroughly cowed, depressed and suicidal that she could not protect her children, particularly after her husband began physically abusing one of her own daughters. Maxine later involved herself in a survivors' task force of domestic violence, and she wrote the book to share her experience so that others would see the red flags in the relationship that she had failed to see. Read more and get the transcript here: Maxine Browne on the Author Incubator.
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