Podcast appearances and mentions of winifred reilly

Conventional wisdom tells us it takes two people with an equal commitment to save a marriage. Winifred Reilly does not share that way of thinking, and she can prove it. Living in a 10-year static marriage, she applied her therapeutic skills to her own relationship journey. More than 35 years later, her marriage is stronger than ever, she continues to use these techniques very successfully in her therapy practice, and she has written a book, “It Takes One to Tango,” which demonstrates how to rescue a marriage with almost no help from your spouse. In this Smart Sex, Smart Love podcast, Reilly, a licensed marriage and family therapist for the past 40 years, talks about helping couples build strong, loving relationships – no matter how frustrated they are, or how long they've been stuck. One partner can lead the necessary steps to achieve far-reaching positive and sustainable change, even when the other partner does not join the effort. Once you let go of the “two to tango” paradigm, you are in a much more powerful position to affect change. Stop trying to change your partner and focus on what you can change about you that will make a difference in your relationship. To gain an in-depth understanding of “it takes one to tango,” listen to this podcast.

''Be curious about each other instead of furious about each other.''  Winifred Reilly She's been told that her way is unconventional yet she clearly states today that she is happily married to the same man for 40 years...although it wasn't that way in the beginning of their married life. Don't miss this conversation with a 40 years specialized couples therapist insights and advice for you.   Some Things we talk about in this conversation: How to know if you should leave or if you should stay? What couples therapists really think about couples in therapy will shock you  What to do when your partner isn't interested in going to therapy or changing anything in your relationship How to stop complaining or arguing in your relationship Myths of marriage What needs to change in your relationship How to handle being with a partner that's different from you The 5 steps that a loving and lasting relationship And much more!   Click Here to access the ressources & notes about this episode  Subscribe to our newsletter  Join the Citrus Love Facebook Community HERE

Anne Fishel shares the benefits of family dinners, Lisa Shuman describes the implications of human genome editing, Angie Sage talks about how fantasy books can build empathy, Rachel Wadham joins for Mini Book Club, Winifred Reilly give tips for have hard conversations with your spouse, Isabella Broggini shares resources for combatting loneliness, Phil Sylvester gives tips and warnings for travelling internationally.

Registration for the Sexy Marriage Getaway 2019 is open! WE ARE ALMOST FULL!!! Click here to join us June 20-23, 2019 On today’s regular version of the show … The full conversation with Winifred Reilly, the author of It Takes One To Tango. On the Xtended version … A conversation about the sexual styles couples […] The post It Takes One To Tango #410 appeared first on Sexy Marriage Radio.

Registration for the Sexy Marriage Getaway 2019 is open! WE ARE ALMOST FULL!!! Click here to join us June 20-23, 2019 On today's regular version of the show … The full conversation with Winifred Reilly, the author of It Takes One To Tango. On the Xtended version … A conversation about the sexual styles couples […]

Registration for the Sexy Marriage Getaway 2019 is open! WE ARE ALMOST FULL!!! Click here to join us June 20-23, 2019 On today's regular version of the show … The full conversation with Winifred Reilly, the author of It Takes One To Tango. On the Xtended version … A conversation about the sexual styles couples […] The post It Takes One To Tango #410 first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio.

Relationships are hard — add your drunk uncle, traveling with kids, buying presents and everything that comes with the holidays, and you have a recipe for a mental meltdown. No need to worry! Today's episode will give you the tools and advice to manage stress around the holiday's and in everyday life. In this episode we discuss relationship advice topics that include: Learn how to tolerate each others differences and not try to fix them. Find out what 'speed arguing' is and how it can be a valuable tool for your relationship. Learn why it's important not to take your partner's mood personally. Tips to create rules that will help you navigate stressful situations. And much more! Winifred Reilly is a marriage and family therapist, with a private practice in Berkeley, CA. In her thirty-five years of clinical practice she has treated hundreds of couples—many who were convinced they were headed for divorce. Winifred has been a guest lecturer on marriage and sexuality, and her writing has appeared on The Huffington Post, The Good Men Project, xoJane, and on her relationship advice blog, Speaking of Marriage. Full Show Notes and Episode Links at http://idopodcast.com/126 Episode Freebie download: Managing Stress In Your Relationship Interested in learning more about our Costa Rica Couples Retreat? The retreat is built to be the ultimate vacation for couples looking to have fun, try new things and build a stronger relationship in paradise. Click here to learn more! Sign up for our 14 Day Happy Couples Challenge here: 14 Day Happy Couples Challenge Do you want to hear more on this topic? Are you struggling with dating and parenting? If so, you're not alone. Continue the conversation on our Facebook Group here: Love Tribe Sponsors Talkspace: The online therapy company that believes that therapy should be affordable, confidential and convenient. Join over 500,000 people who have used Talkspace for online therapy with their licensed therapist. Get $30 off your first month when you visit Talkspace.com/IDO. Storyworth: StoryWorth makes it easy and fun for your loved ones to share their stories, with weekly emailed story prompts - questions you’ve never thought to ask. At the end of the year, they’ll get their stories bound in a beautiful hardcover book. Strengthen your family bonds, and get to know your loved one in a whole new way.   For $20 off, visit Storyworth.com/ido If you love this episode (and our podcast!), would you mind giving us a review in iTunes? It would mean the world to us and we promise it only takes a minute. Many thanks in advance! - Chase & Sarah

Winifred Reilly (@winifredmreilly) has been a marriage and family therapist for nearly forty years, runs relationship blog Speaking of Marriage, and is the author of It Takes One to Tango: How I Rescued My Marriage with (Almost) No Help from My Spouse -- and How You Can, Too. "Somebody goes first -- so let that person be you." -Winifred Reilly The Cheat Sheet: Why is the "it takes two to tango" concept flawed when it comes to relationships? Where does fairness go when we take responsibility upon ourselves to course correct a relationship? How are relationships like velcro? One belief about relationships that many people have backwards. It's more important to know what to do when we disagree than trying to avoid disagreements altogether. And so much more... Full show notes at https://theartofcharm.com/661/ Find out more about the team who makes The Art of Charm podcast here! Rhone makes gear for the modern man who demands modern style, comfort, and quality. Click here or go to rhone.com and enter promo code CHARM at checkout to get 20% off your first purchase! Combining high-tech sensors, blockchain protocol, and smart contracts, Ambrosus is building a universally verifiable, community-driven ecosystem to assure the quality, safety, and origins of products. Find out more about Ambrosus here! Four Sigmatic mushroom coffee with lion's mane gives you the boost of coffee with half the caffeine. Try Four Sigmatic's AoC coffee bundle here, and use code CHARM at checkout for free shipping! Does your business have an Internet presence? Now save a whopping 50% on new webhosting packages here with HostGator by using coupon code CHARM! Success! How I Did It is a business and career podcast hosted by Business Insider Editor-in-Chief Alyson Shontell; it features conversations with today's most inspiring business, sports, entertainment, and government leaders. Here's how to subscribe! Free yourself from typing notes, reports, and documents by going with the transcriptionists we trust here at AoC: TranscriptionOutsourcing.net -- 99% or higher accuracy guaranteed! HELP US SPREAD THE WORD! If you dig the show, please subscribe in iTunes and write us a review! This is what helps us stand out from the crowd and help people find the credible advice they need. Review the show in iTunes! We rely on it! http://www.theartofcharm.com/mobilereview Stay Charming!

Winifred Reilly What happens when your marriage is broken but you’re the only one who wants to fix it? We’ve all heard “it takes two” to make a marriage better, but therapist Winifred Reilly noticed that waiting for her change-averse husband to leap up and joyfully embrace her grand plans for remodeling her marriage wasn't working out any better for her than it was for her clients. So she decided to try to rescue her marriage by herself, even though she had no idea what that would take.Like most couples she works with, she wanted a happier marriage, not a divorce. Now she gives us practical, effective, empowering alternatives to talking ourselves blue in the face. “I know from experience that when one partner takes that first step...behaves in a new way, challenges the status quo, the other will usually follow. Sometimes slowly, not always cheerfully, and often not in the way we imagined. But eventually, both partners become stronger and healthier, and so does the marriage.” Learn more about Winifred Reilly: onetotango.com

Winifred Reilly is a marriage and family therapist, with a private practice in Berkeley, CA. In her thirty-five years of clinical practice she has treated hundreds of couples, many who were convinced they were headed for divorce. Winifred has been a guest lecturer on marriage and sexuality, and her writing has appeared on The Huffington Post, The Good Men Project, xoJane and on her relationship advice blog, Speaking of Marriage. In this episode we discuss relationship topics that include: How to stop focusing on your partner's contribution to the relationship and start making the changes on your own. Why working on your own destructive behaviors will help improve your relationship. How you can take the lead and create positive change in your relationship. Why talking to a therapist can create a safe space to help work through your relationship issues. Why it's important not to wait around for your partner to create the change that you want to see and how you can do it yourself! And much more! Sponsors Talkspace: The online therapy company that believes that therapy should be affordable, confidential and convenient. Join over 500,000 people who have used Talkspace for online therapy with their licensed therapist. Get $30 off your first month when you visit Talkspace.com/IDO. Audible: Use the link below, and sign up for a free 30-day trial and one free audiobook download! You will have to enter your CC information, but you can just cancel the trial at the end of the month if you don’t like it and not pay a dime. There are a ton of great relationship audiobooks on Audible.com. Consider downloading The 5 Love Languages for your free download. Audibletrial.com/idopodcast If you haven’t already subscribed to I Do Podcast and left us a review on iTunes, that helps us a ton as well Thanks! – Chase and Sarah

"IT TAKES ONE TO TANGO: How I Rescued My Marriage With (Almost) No Help From My Spouse-and How You Can, Too" SHOW Guest: Winifred Reilly What happens when your marriage is broken but you're the only one who wants to fix it? What if you're willing to see a counselor but your spouse isn't? When couples can't agree on how-or whether-to make their marriage better, many assume they've reached a dead end. Some give up and settle for a less-than-satisfying marriage. Some think the only way out is divorce. Marriage and family therapist, Winifred Reilly, knows otherwise. In Winifred Reilly's new book, IT TAKES ONE TO TANGO: How I Rescued My Marriage With (Almost) No Help From My Spouse-and How You Can, Too, she tells her personal story about trying to keep her own once troubled marriage from coming apart. Like most couples she works with, she wanted a happier marriage, not a divorce. Tune in and learn firsthand how Reilly succeeded in saving her marriage and how you can, too. As Reilly writes, "I know from experience that when one partner takes that first step...behaves in a new way, challenges the status quo, the other will usually follow. Sometimes slowly, not always cheerfully, and often not in the way we imagined. But eventually, both partners become stronger and healthier, and so does the marriage."

"IT TAKES ONE TO TANGO: How I Rescued My Marriage With (Almost) No Help From My Spouse-and How You Can, Too" SHOW Guest: Winifred Reilly What happens when your marriage is broken but you're the only one who wants to fix it? What if you're willing to see a counselor but your spouse isn't? When couples can't agree on how-or whether-to make their marriage better, many assume they've reached a dead end. Some give up and settle for a less-than-satisfying marriage. Some think the only way out is divorce. Marriage and family therapist, Winifred Reilly, knows otherwise. In Winifred Reilly's new book, IT TAKES ONE TO TANGO: How I Rescued My Marriage With (Almost) No Help From My Spouse-and How You Can, Too, she tells her personal story about trying to keep her own once troubled marriage from coming apart. Like most couples she works with, she wanted a happier marriage, not a divorce. Tune in and learn firsthand how Reilly succeeded in saving her marriage and how you can, too. As Reilly writes, "I know from experience that when one partner takes that first step...behaves in a new way, challenges the status quo, the other will usually follow. Sometimes slowly, not always cheerfully, and often not in the way we imagined. But eventually, both partners become stronger and healthier, and so does the marriage."

Kathryn interviews psychotherapist Winifred Reilly MA, MFT, author of It Takes One to Tango: How I Rescued My Marriage With (Almost) No Help From My Spouse – and How You Can, Too. What happens when your marriage is broken but you're the only one who wants to fix it? Reilly challenges the widely held notion that it takes two eager and willing partners to turn a troubled marriage around, assuring unhappy partners that one person alone can initiate far-reaching positive change in a marriage. Kathryn interviews Neal Barnard MD, NY Times bestselling author of The Cheese Trap: How Breaking a Surprising Addiction Will Help You Lose Weight, Gain Energy, and Get Healthy. Dr. Barnard has published more than 70 clinical research studies and dietary reviews and is filming his fourth PBS special about diet and health. He is an adjunct professor at the George Washington School of Medicine and Health Sciences and is featured on NPR, The Dr. Oz Show and in USA Today.

Kathryn interviews psychotherapist Winifred Reilly MA, MFT, author of It Takes One to Tango: How I Rescued My Marriage With (Almost) No Help From My Spouse – and How You Can, Too. What happens when your marriage is broken but you're the only one who wants to fix it? Reilly challenges the widely held notion that it takes two eager and willing partners to turn a troubled marriage around, assuring unhappy partners that one person alone can initiate far-reaching positive change in a marriage. Kathryn interviews Neal Barnard MD, NY Times bestselling author of The Cheese Trap: How Breaking a Surprising Addiction Will Help You Lose Weight, Gain Energy, and Get Healthy. Dr. Barnard has published more than 70 clinical research studies and dietary reviews and is filming his fourth PBS special about diet and health. He is an adjunct professor at the George Washington School of Medicine and Health Sciences and is featured on NPR, The Dr. Oz Show and in USA Today.