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Entrepreneur, producer, best-selling author, public speaker, and host Lisa Bilyeu is here to tell you that anyone can radiate confidence! In this episode, Lisa shares her personal journey from feeling stuck and unconfident to becoming a downright business powerhouse. Morning Microdose is a podcast curated by Krista Williams and Lindsey Simcik, the hosts and founders of Almost 30, a global community, brand, and top rated podcast. With curated clips from the Almost 30 podcast, Morning Mircodose will set the tone for your day, so you can feel inspired through thought provoking conversations…all in digestible episodes that are less than 10 minutes. Wake up with Krista and Lindsey, both literally and spiritually, Monday-Friday. If you enjoyed this conversation, listen to the full episode on Spotify here and on Apple here.
In this transformative episode of the Gladden Longevity Podcast, Dr. Jeffrey Gladden and Sara Fisk dive deep into the essential connection between authentic relationships and long-term health. While many focus solely on physical biohacking, this conversation reveals that longevity is profoundly impacted by our ability to navigate societal expectations and foster meaningful connections. Sara and Dr. Gladden discuss the unique challenges women face when breaking free from societal norms and the vital role of community support in driving personal transformation. You'll learn why courageous conversations and empathy in relationships are the true foundation of a long, fulfilling life. By shifting the focus from mere survival to the quality of our social bonds, this episode provides a blueprint for those seeking to align their true selves with their health goals. Discover why your "social age" might be just as important as your biological one. For Audience · Use code 'Podcast10' to get 10% OFF on any of our supplements at https://gladdenlongevityshop.com/ ! Takeaways · Women often feel pressured to conform to societal expectations. · Courageous conversations are essential for authentic relationships. · Self-acceptance is a journey that requires vulnerability. · Building skills for communication can transform relationships. · Community support is vital for personal growth. · Judgment can hinder connection and understanding. · Empathy fosters deeper relationships and personal growth. · Navigating family dynamics can be challenging but rewarding. · Self-expression is key to living a fulfilling life. · Longevity is not just about health, but also about quality relationships. Chapters 00:00 The Intersection of Freedom and Health 05:00 The Impact of Patriarchy on Identity 08:11 Navigating Personal Beliefs and Community Expectations 11:13 The Journey of Self-Discovery and Acceptance 13:56 Family Dynamics and Individual Agency 16:50 Creating New Communities and Support Systems 24:12 Understanding Vulnerability and Community 26:41 Courageous Conversations: The Path to Authenticity 31:47 Empathy vs. Judgment in Relationships 37:12 Building Skills for Difficult Conversations 41:52 Navigating Relationship Limitations 49:34 The Connection Between Health and Relationships To learn more about Sara Fisk: Website: www.sarafisk.coach Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sarafiskcoach/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/sara-bybee-fisk/ Reach out to us at: Website: https://gladdenlongevity.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Gladdenlongevity/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gladdenlongevity/?hl=en LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/gladdenlongevity YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC5_q8nexY4K5ilgFnKm7naw Gladden Longevity Podcast Disclosures Production & Independence The Gladden Longevity Podcast and Age Hackers are produced by Gladden Longevity Podcast, which operates independently from Dr. Jeffrey Gladden's clinical practice and research at Gladden Longevity in Irving, Texas. 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►► GET MY FREE VIDEO & WORKSHEET - SHATTERPROOF YOURSELF LITE!7 SMALL STEPS TO A GIANT LEAP IN YOUR CONFIDENCEAre you ready to transform your relationships and become the leader you were meant to be? Episode 194 of the DYL Podcast is your go-to guide for ditching excuses, banishing negativity, and making decisions that truly help. Join host Adam Gragg as he cuts through the fog of ambiguity, showing you how to turn discomfort into empowerment.Discover the three game-changing decisions every leader must make: self-awareness, risk-setting boundaries, and letting go of the outcome. Whether you're a parent, boss, or friend, these practical steps are designed to be so clear you can share them with your six-year-old! Hear engaging stories from real life and get actionable tools that you can use TODAY to make your legacy one that's remembered.Embrace the challenge, stand up for what matters, and create positive change that sticks. Don't miss the episode that might just inspire you to live the life you want to be remembered for ten years after you're gone. Tune in and learn how to help, not enable. Your legacy starts now!CHAPTERS:00:00 Confronting Discomfort to Drive Change05:19 Helper or Enabler: Know the Difference06:52 "Overcoming Eggshelled Self-Doubt"12:27 Helping vs. Harming Choices15:54 "Building Accountability and Boundaries"17:55 "Navigating Family Conflict and Growth"22:08 "Impact Through Words and Actions"23:29 "Decisions Shape Your Legacy"Visit the Decide Your Legacy Website for More! Be sure to check out Escape Artists Travel and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!
In episode 288 of the IDEAS+LEADERS Podcast, I'm joined by Mary J. Nestor, leadership consultant, executive coach, and author of the Amazon #1 bestseller Say It Now! Say It Right!: How to Handle Tough or Tender Conversations. With more than 25 years of experience in organizational development and communication, Mary has helped thousands of leaders and teams, including those at Coca-Cola, Coach, and Coldwell Banker, learn how to communicate with clarity, courage, and compassion.We talk about why so many people avoid difficult conversations, how silence quietly damages relationships at work and at home, and why honesty, when delivered with care, is often the most powerful form of leadership.In this episode, we discuss:Why avoiding difficult conversations often creates bigger problemsHow honesty can strengthen relationships rather than harm themHow to balance truth, timing, and tact when speaking upThe connection between self-talk and leadership communicationHow leaders can create cultures of openness and trustTune in for a thoughtful conversation about communication, courage, and learning to say what truly matters.You can connect with Mary here: Home | Mary J. NestorThank you for joining me on this episode of IDEAS+LEADERS. If you enjoyed this episode, please share, subscribe and review so that more people can enjoy the podcast on Apple https://apple.co/3fKv9IH or Spotify https://sptfy.com/Nrtq.
Why is emotional intelligence no longer optional for leaders facing change and challenging conversations? Amy Jacobson joins Kevin to discuss what emotional intelligence really is and why it matters more than ever. They explore emotional intelligence as a skill, not an identity, emphasizing that EQ shows up in the how and why behind our decisions and behaviors. Amy shares a common misconception about emotional intelligence, clarifying that it isn't about avoiding conflict, being agreeable, or maintaining constant positivity, but about understanding emotions, regulating responses, and choosing actions that move people and outcomes forward. Amy also introduces relatable metaphors, such as treating change as if it were "your baby," to explain why leaders often overlook the emotional experience of those affected by change. Amy's Story: Amy Jacobson is the author of Emotional Intelligence: A Simple and Actionable Guide to Increasing Performance, Engagement and Ownership and her new book The Emotional Intelligence Advantage: Mastering Change and Difficult Conversations. She is an emotional intelligence and human behavior specialist. Previously featured in Fast Company, The Daily Telegraph, News.com.au and more, Jacobson trains corporations, companies and groups large and small in both private and public sectors about the importance of emotional intelligence. She uses simple, actionable strategies—and a bit of tough love where needed—to help leaders and employees understand that no matter what industry you are part of, our biggest challenges are always the same. When she's not working, Jacobson enjoys musicals, basketball, traveling and dining out. She and her husband, Mark, share two teenage children. This Episode is brought to you by... Flexible Leadership is every leader's guide to greater success in a world of increasing complexity and chaos. Book Recommendations Emotional Intelligence: A Simple and Actionable Guide to Increasing Performance, Engagement and Ownership by Amy Jacobson The Emotional Intelligence Advantage: Mastering Change and Difficult Conversations by Amy Jacobson Like this? Leading Change Intelligently with Barbara Trautlein Making Change Work with Brendon Baker Building Emotionally Intelligent Teams with Vanessa Druskat Join Our Community If you want to view our live podcast episodes, hear about new releases, or chat with others who enjoy this podcast join one of our communities below. Join the Facebook Group Join the LinkedIn Group Leave a Review If you liked this conversation, we'd be thrilled if you'd let others know by leaving a review on Apple Podcasts. Here's a quick guide for posting a review. Review on Apple: https://remarkablepodcast.com/itunes Podcast Better! Sign up with Libsyn and get up to 2 months free! Use promo code: RLP
Hard conversations are part of the job, and avoiding them costs more than most leaders realize.In this episode, Shelby and Belinda share a practical framework for navigating difficult conversations at work with clarity, boundaries, and discernment. They share executive-level strategies for adapting communication styles across different contexts, setting boundaries without overexplaining, and using silence as a powerful tool. Shelby also introduces a practical framework for hard conversations, clarifying the What, the Why, and the How, so leaders can prepare intentionally instead of reacting in the moment.The episode also explores the limits of chat-based communication and why leaders must choose the right tool for the message to build trust and real community.Send us a comment!The SafeWork Advantage PodcastMost workplaces react to violence—SafeWork Advantage shows employers how to prevent it.Listen on: Apple Podcasts SpotifySupport the showWe publish new episodes every other Wednesday. Subscribe to the Leadership Tea Podcast Subscribe to Leadership Tea on YouTube! Follow us on Instagram @Leadership_Tea for more inspiration and insights.
The most dangerous conversations aren't the ones we have. They're the ones we keep avoiding. In this encore episode of The Game Changing Attorney Podcast, Michael Mogill sits down with Sheila Heen, Harvard Law professor, co-founder of Triad Consulting, and bestselling co-author of Difficult Conversations and Thanks for the Feedback. With over 30 years at the Harvard Negotiation Project, Sheila has spent her career studying why conversations go sideways and what it actually takes to have them well. In this conversation, Michael and Sheila unpack the hidden structure of every difficult conversation, explore why feedback triggers our deepest identity fears, and reveal how the most effective leaders learn to hear what others can't bring themselves to say. Here's what you'll learn: The three hidden layers in every difficult conversation How to use the "third story" approach to enter hard conversations without putting people on the defensive What separates leaders who invite honest feedback from those who build blind spots over time If you want to lead at the highest level, you have to be willing to have the conversations everyone else is avoiding. ---- Show Notes: 07:45 — Why negotiation isn't a field, and why that's actually the whole point. 11:37 — How the Difficult Conversations book has evolved over the past 25 years. 18:09 — Why every difficult conversation is actually three separate conversations happening at the same time. 20:07 — The movie theater test: one question that reveals exactly how you handle conflict. 23:38 — The reason starting from your own story almost always backfires, and what to do instead. 29:51 — The one type of feedback leaders give constantly that makes everything worse. 34:44 — Why two people can receive the exact same feedback and have completely different reactions 39:13 — The mistake Sheila made with her three-year-old son that she now uses to teach every leader she works with. ---- Links & Resources: Sheila Heen Difficult Conversations by Douglas Stone, Bruce Patton, and Sheila Heen Thanks for the Feedback by Douglas Stone and Sheila Heen Harvard Negotiation Project Getting It Done by Roger Fisher and Alan Sharp Carol Dweck ---- Do you love this podcast and want to see more game changing content? Subscribe to our YouTube channel. ---- Past guests on The Game Changing Attorney Podcast include David Goggins, John Morgan, Alex Hormozi, Randi McGinn, Kim Scott, Chris Voss, Kevin O'Leary, Laura Wasser, John Maxwell, Mark Lanier, Robert Greene, and many more. ---- If you enjoyed this episode, you may also like: 395. AMMA — Why Consensus Slows Growth and How to Fix It 373. AMMA — Your Firm's Biggest Threat: Too Many Good Ideas 156. Chris Voss — FBI Negotiation Tactics for Business and Life
" In order to create that trust, you have to be honest enough to know that you're not the right person for everybody. But those people that you do connect with, when you find that connection, that is when you can start to go through that process." –Amy Jacobson In this episode, Australian emotional intelligence expert, speaker, and author of The Emotional Intelligence Advantage: Mastering Change and Difficult Conversations, Amy Jacobson explains why technical skill alone will not build a strong, sustainable bookkeeping firm. She shares how emotional intelligence drives trust, strengthens client relationships, and improves leadership inside growing firms, along with a practical five-step framework you can apply immediately. In this episode, you'll learn: How emotional intelligence builds client trust & retention How to adapt your communication style to different clients Why leadership requires a different skill set than bookkeeping To learn more about Amy, click here. Connect with her on LinkedIn. Buy her book, The Emotional Intelligence Advantage: Mastering Change and Difficult Conversations, at this link. Time Stamps 01:11 – Amy's background & her path into emotional intelligence 04:14 – A clear definition of emotional intelligence for business owners 06:08 – Where bookkeepers commonly struggle with EQ 09:51 – How trust is built through real connection 12:24 – The five-step emotional intelligence framework 15:11 – A real example of client loss due to poor communication 18:10 – Shifting from technical language to client-centered language 21:10 – Becoming part of the client's business instead of an outside vendor 23:44 – Why leadership is not the same as technical skill 27:13 – How reactive leadership drains time & energy 30:00 – A simple daily question to improve emotional intelligence 31:41 – Where to access Amy's books and free tools This episode is brought to you by our great friends at BILL! They're hosting Bookkeeper Appreciation Week from March 30th to April 3rd—dedicated to recognizing the real work you do and giving you tools you can actually use to free up time for more strategic work. Get ready for 5 days of practical resources delivered straight to your inbox, plus live, CPE-eligible webinars! Register now at bill.com/successfulbookkeeper! Don't miss it!
This episode breaks down why hard conversations often go poorly in coaching and how to handle them with clarity, calm, and consistency. Rob and Dustin outline a simple, repeatable framework that works with today's athletes and staff.Key Ideas• The 10–90 Rule: The first 10% of a hard conversation determines 90% of the outcome. How you start matters most.• Why these conversations matter: Most athletes have low reps in real conflict. Avoidance and emotional escalation are common. Coaches who handle conflict well build trust and stability.The Six Steps1. Invite — don't ambush Set a clear time, place, and purpose. Avoid vague “we need to talk” messages.2. Identify the issue Name the problem and stick to it. Don't drift into personal attacks.3. Inform the process Set simple ground rules: listen first, ask clarifying questions, work toward next steps.4. Listen to understand Not to win. Let the other person fully empty the tank.5. Give back Acknowledge the kernel of truth. Take the low seat when appropriate; it strengthens trust.6. Take action Agree on next steps and walk out aligned. Clarity and unity matter.SummaryConsistent structure + emotional regulation = better outcomes. Coaches who embrace hard conversations—not avoid them—lead stronger teams.LinksApple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/beyond-coaching-an-impactful-coaching-project-podcast/id1711128150 Spotify: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/beyond-coaching-an-impactful-coaching-project-podcast/id1711128150 Substack: https://impactfulcoachingproject.substack.com
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Dr. Christopher Fadumiye returns to discuss difficult conversations with resident guests, Drs. Sabrina Muhanna and Spencer Bayless. From tackling hard topics with attendings and peers to communicating bad news to patients and families, this episode is loaded with best practices and useful tips. Recorded January 2026.
When confronted with a difficult conversation – or person – it's often hard to contain our emotions and respond to the moment, rather than have a kneejerk reaction to it. But our guest today, legendary sports agent and negotiator Ron Shapiro, says it's possible to learn. He was on the Florida Gulf Coast University campus last week to give a talk so stopped by our studio for a chat about his civil approach to difficult conversations.
Let me know your thoughts on the show and what topic you would like me to discuss next.If your house is calm but your heart feels far, you might be living under a truce, not peace. We unpack how a conflict-free home can still be ruled by avoidance—and why that quiet erodes trust when hard topics never see daylight. From the subtle ways we deflect vulnerability to the patterns that teach spouses and kids to self-edit, we trace how “later” becomes “never,” and how logistics slowly replace intimacy.We get practical about rebuilding emotional availability. You'll hear clear signs that functional distance has taken root—like when conversations stick to schedules, solutions, and surface updates—and simple ways to shift back toward connection. We model presence over problem-solving, share language that keeps tough talks open (“Do you want ideas or just company?”), and explain why imperfect timing is still the right time for honesty. You'll learn how to sit with uncertainty, tolerate uncomfortable pauses, and invite feedback without getting defensive.This conversation is a wake-up call for partners and parents who want more than orderly routines. Real peace asks more of us: curiosity instead of control, attention instead of advice, and the courage to name what's been avoided. If you're ready to trade a brittle calm for durable trust, start with one brave question and stay long enough to really hear the answer. Subscribe, share this with a friend who needs it, and leave a review telling us what hard conversation you're choosing to have this week.Key moments in this episode:00:45 The illusion of Peace01:27 The Cost of Silence05:13 Scenarios of Avoidance10:04 What Your Family Experiences16:00 Real Peace vs. Managed DistanceSupport the showThanks for listening to the Revolutionary Man Podcast. For more information about our programs, please use the links below to learn more about us. It could be the step that changes your life.
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How To Talk To Your Spouse About Problems Without Starting A Fight When every attempt to bring up a problem turns into defensiveness, arguing, or shutdown, it's easy to stop trying or to push harder and make things worse. Common “clear communication” tactics can backfire in a strained relationship because they feel like criticism or control, even when they're meant to help. In this episode, Coach Jack explains a calmer, more effective way to raise issues while protecting emotional connection and increasing cooperation over time.What You'll LearnHow to bring up a problem in a way that reduces defensiveness and keeps your spouse emotionally engagedHow to prepare the relationship so requests land better and don't trigger a fightHow to choose the right timing and wording so the conversation feels natural instead of threateningHow to use a simple win-win method (and a Plan B) so problems actually get solved instead of repeatedWant to Work With Coach Jack?If you want step-by-step help applying this approach to your specific situation, Coach Jack can help you build healthier connection, improve communication, and address hard issues without escalating conflict. The best starting point is the Difficult Partner Coaching Package, which focuses on ending a spouse's damaging behavior and building respect.Key TakeawaysDirect “I statements” can still trigger defensiveness when the relationship is strained.Strengthening everyday connection often needs to happen before problem talks.Talk about problems when both of you are relaxed, not while the issue is happening.Lead with validation and keep the conversation natural and low-pressure.Solve one issue at a time using a win-win plan, and use boundaries when discussion won't work.Additional ResourcesOvercome Neediness and Get the Love You Want, by Jack Ito PhDConnecting Through "Yes!" by Jack Ito PhDLove Language Quiz12 Ways to Revive Your Love for Your SpouseWork one-on-one with Coach Jack to repair your relationship using small, easy steps that rebuild connection quickly. Visit CoachJackIto.com to learn more about relationship coaching.
Running a business means having conversations most people avoid. The performance discussion that has been brewing for months. The client boundary you keep postponing. The role transition that everyone knows is coming but no one wants to say out loud.Every difficult conversation you delay creates a hidden tax on your business—in team morale, operational efficiency, and your own mental space. But most founders were not trained to have these conversations effectively. We wing it, overexplain, or wait so long that the conversation becomes even harder.In this episode, I am giving you a repeatable framework for difficult conversations, walking through the four types every founder faces, and sharing exact scripts for each scenario. Because great leadership is not about avoiding hard conversations—it is about having them well.IN THIS EPISODE:Why difficult conversations are non-negotiable for scalingThe real cost of avoidance (beyond what is obvious)What makes a conversation difficult vs just uncomfortableTHE CLEAR FRAMEWORKC - Context: Set the StageL - Listen: Seek to understand firstE - Explore: Share your perspective with specificsA - Agree: Align on what happens nextR - Reinforce: Follow up and recognizeTHE 4 TYPES OF DIFFICULT CONVERSATIONSPerformance feedback conversationsAccountability conversations (when expectations are not met)Fit ConversationBoundary-setting conversationsKEY TAKEAWAYS:Difficult conversations get harder the longer you waitUse the CLEAR framework: Context, Listen, Explore, Agree, and ReinforceFocus on specific behaviors and impact, not personalityDocument everything and follow up consistentlyThe conversation is an act of care for your team and businessRESOURCES: Download our Difficult Conversations Script TemplateTake the free Leadership Assessment (3 min)Book a Strategic Discovery Audit ($997 engagement)Learn more at thedevaincollective.comCONNECT WITH THE DEVAIN COLLECTIVE:LinkedInInstagramWebsite: thedevaincollective.comCONNECT WITH SHEENA:LinkedInInstagramNEXT EPISODE:Why Delegation Fails (And the 3-Step System That Makes It Work)—the real reason your team is not taking ownership and how to fix it permanently.Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/beautifullycomplicated-podcast. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Think you're just “not a people person”? Most tech leaders quietly believe this about themselves, and it's exactly what's holding them back.In this episode, Martijn Versteeg, founder of peer leadership community Group Effort and former CPTO with a background in organizational psychology, makes the case that it's not: human behavior follows predictable patterns you can understand and work with, just like any system. The conversation covers a six-variable model for understanding what drives behavior and disengagement on your team, why popular personality tools like MBTI and DiSC often do more harm than good, and a clear structure for delivering bad news without the usual stress buildup. We also get into what it really takes to let go of hands-on coding when you move into leadership, why developing a product mindset matters even if product isn't in your title, and the psychological risks of heavy AI use that most teams still aren't thinking about.Key topics discussed:The 6 human needs that predict human behaviorWhy MBTI and DiSC often do more harm than goodHow to stop avoiding difficult conversationsDeliver bad news clearly using a 10-second ruleWhy becoming a bottleneck is a slow career killerBuilding a product mindset when you're in techThe mental health risks of heavy AI useWhat peer groups give you that books can'tTimestamps:(00:00:00) Trailer & Intro(00:03:06) Why Small Steps Matter More Than Career Turning Points(00:05:11) About Martijn Versteeg(00:07:01) How Can I Learn People Skills Systematically?(00:13:19) Six Human Needs That Predict Behavior(00:17:28) How Does It Compare to Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs?(00:19:49) Why Are Personality Tests Like MBTI Unreliable?(00:23:20) How Do I Use Pain and Pleasure to Drive Growth?(00:28:30) How Do I Handle Conflict and Difficult Conversations?(00:32:47) A Model for Delivering Bad News in 10 Seconds(00:36:12) How Do I Transition from Tech Lead to Engineering Leader?(00:41:12) How Do I Let Go of Coding as a Leader?(00:42:49) The Vanilla Orchid Story: Why Leaders Must Let Go(00:46:55) How Can Engineers Develop a Product Mindset?(00:53:17) What Are the Hidden Risks of AI for Mental Health?(01:02:19) What Is the Value of Learning Through Podcast Conversations?(01:07:19) Why Consuming Knowledge Is Not the Same as Producing(01:09:06) 3 Tech Lead Wisdom_____Martijn Versteeg's BioMartijn Versteeg is the founder of Group Effort, a Netherlands-based collective that empowers tech and product leaders across Europe through peer groups, offsites, and specialized training. As a key figure in the global product community, he is also an organizer of the Product Mastery Conference, where he helps curate insights for the next generation of product leaders.Before founding Group Effort, Martijn built and successfully sold an EdTech IT platform and spent over five years as an Agile coach and Scrum Master. His unique perspective on leadership is rooted in high-performance athletics; at just 22 years old, he served as the National Rowing Coach for Singapore.Today, Martijn is a vocal advocate for community-led learning. He frequently challenges leaders to move past the search for “golden nuggets” of wisdom and instead focus on the consistent, incremental iterations that solve the “hard people stuff” in scaling organizations.Follow Martijn:LinkedIn – linkedin.com/in/versteegGroup Effort – groupeffort.nlNewsletter – groupeffort.nl/newsletterFree training on Massive Action-Taking for Product Leaders – groupeffort.nl/actionLike this episode?Show notes & transcript: techleadjournal.dev/episodes/248.Follow @techleadjournal on LinkedIn, Twitter, and Instagram.Buy me a coffee or become a patron.
A facilitator, coach and professional speaker for 23 years, Clare Haynes runs award-winning business Wildfire helping people to speak up and have confident conversations. She works with teams and 1:1, building peoples' communication and business confidence using their greatest asset – themselves. Clare has a psychology background and her career spans television, sport, charity and the social sectors. Clare was named in the UK's Top 100 Female Entrepreneurs by Small Business Britain's f;Entrepreneur iAlso campaign 2025, celebrating women business leaders, and has won national awards for her coaching and as a service provider. Clare believes networking is like all business success, not being something you're not but bringing out your best!Website: https://www.wildfireatwork.co.uk/LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/clarehaynes/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/wildfirespark/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/clare.haynes.Wildfire/
Most of us spend our lives in conversation – yet very few of us are ever taught how to communicate well. Whether it's with our partners, colleagues, family or friends, we often assume that being heard is the same as being understood. But true communication isn't just about the words we use – it's about the tone, timing and energy behind them. Feel Better Live More Bitesize is my weekly podcast for your mind, body, and heart. Each week I'll be featuring inspirational stories and practical tips from some of my former guests. Today's clip is from episode 571 with trial lawyer, sought after public speaker and author of the book, The Next Conversation: Argue Less, Talk More - Jefferson Fisher Jefferson believes that better communication can transform not only our relationships, but our health and happiness as well. In this clip, he shares the three essential principles to better communication, and how to shift from reaction to reflection by making your first word your breath. Thanks to our sponsor https://heights.com/livemore Show notes and the full podcast are available at https://drchatterjee.com/571 Support the podcast and enjoy Ad-Free episodes. Try FREE for 7 days on Apple Podcasts https://apple.co/feelbetterlivemore For other podcast platforms go to https://fblm.supercast.com. DISCLAIMER: The content in the podcast and on this webpage is not intended to constitute or be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your doctor or other qualified health care provider with any questions you may have regarding a medical condition. Never disregard professional medical advice or delay in seeking it because of something you have heard on the podcast or on my website
Difficult conversations are not easy and we might be motivated to avoid them. But there is a hidden cost to that, Let us journey there.You can email me at AgileMalayali@gmail.com and connect on LinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/in/vinodn/ You can also join our Telegram Learning GroupAlso checkout my other Podcasts Other PodcastsPahayan Talks Malayalam PodcastAgile Indian English PodcastVayanalokam Malayalam Book PodcastCinema Malayali Malayalam PodcastEnglish Podcast Penpositive OutclassYouTube ChannelsPahayan Talks Youtube ChannelAgile Malayali YouTube ChannelPenpositive YouTube ChannelAgile Positive Your Tube ChannelAgile Indian YouTube Channel
How to turn complexity into connection through clear communication.Communication in high-stakes moments isn't about saying more — it's about connecting better. For Jonathan Berek and Phil Polakoff, the most effective communicators don't rely on jargon or performance. They rely on empathy, listening, and stories that resonate.Both longtime Stanford Medicine leaders, Berek and Polakoff have spent their careers translating complex, emotional, and often urgent health issues for patients, colleagues, and the public. And they've learned that the message only lands when it's delivered at the right level, with the right intention. “Know your audience,” Berek says, describing the importance of “leveling” — communicating in language that meets people where they are, without talking down or over their heads.For both Berek and Polakoff, listening is the foundation. “The two most important skills in communication are empathy and listening,” Berek explains — not as soft skills, but as the core mechanics of trust. Polakoff agrees, pushing for directness and clarity: “I like a yes or a no. I don't like ambivalence or ambiguity.” And when it comes to being memorable, he's relentless about simplicity: “Think bold, start small.”In this episode of Think Fast, Talk Smart, Berek and Polakoff join host Matt Abrahams to examine what great communicators actually do: prepare deeply, speak concisely, listen with intention, and use storytelling to bring others along. Because as Berek puts it, “People feel the emotion when they see a story,” and emotion — paired with clarity — is what turns information into impact.Episode Reference Links:Phil PolakoffJonathan BerekConnect:Premium Signup >>>> Think Fast Talk Smart PremiumEmail Questions & Feedback >>> hello@fastersmarter.ioEpisode Transcripts >>> Think Fast Talk Smart WebsiteNewsletter Signup + English Language Learning >>> FasterSmarter.ioThink Fast Talk Smart >>> LinkedIn, Instagram, YouTubeMatt Abrahams >>> LinkedInChapters:(00:00) - Introduction (02:49) - Raising Awareness For Women's Cancer (03:46) - Redefining Health Beyond Disease (05:08) - Why Storytelling is Essential (07:08) - What Makes a Story Memorable (08:45) - Advice for Better Communication (09:46) - Making Complex Ideas Accessible (10:34) - Speaking at Your Audience's Level (11:57) - Listening & Empathy (12:39) - Improving Communication with Improv (14:08) - Communication for Collective Change (16:47) - Mentorship & The Big Picture (17:58) - The Final Three Questions (21:48) - Conclusion ********Thank you to our sponsors. These partnerships support the ongoing production of the podcast, allowing us to bring it to you at no cost.This episode is brought to you by Babbel. Think Fast Talk Smart listeners can get started on your language learning journey today- visit Babbel.com/Thinkfast and get up to 55% off your Babbel subscription.Join our Think Fast Talk Smart Learning Community and become the communicator you want to be.
If you're the one always delivering bad news, rejecting PTO requests, and handling every performance issue — even for people who don't directly report to you — there's a problem. Your managers are avoiding the hard conversations by passing the uncomfortable stuff up to you, which means you're stuck doing everyone's job instead of actually leading your business. This episode is about why difficult conversations keep landing on your desk, and how to shift that responsibility back to where it belongs: with your managers.Listen in to hear:Why copying someone else's leadership style makes you less effective in the moment.The three questions every manager should be able to answer without hesitation.Why PTO approvals are a capacity planning tool, not an admin task. What bottom-up accountability actually looks like in practtice.The real cost of managers who dodge difficult conversations.
Get free marketing videos from Donald Miller every week at: https://WeeklySoundbite.com/ Most of us avoid hard conversations. We tell ourselves it's not worth the tension. We don't want to look needy or rock the boat, so we let things slide. At work, at home, with friends. But every time we stay silent, something inside us shrinks. Resentment builds, and the relationships that matter most slowly drift off course. We don't lose influence because we lack talent. We lose it because we lack the courage to say what needs to be said. And that silence costs us opportunities, connection, and even our identity. But what if your next big breakthrough is waiting on the other side of one honest conversation? In this episode, Don sits down with negotiation expert Kwame Christian to explore how difficult conversations shape our confidence, relationships, and success. Kwame shares how overcoming people-pleasing transformed his life, why respect matters more than being liked, and how negotiation is about connection, not manipulation. You'll learn why many negotiations fail before they start, how to plant seeds instead of dropping bombs, and why great negotiators focus on long-term trust over short-term wins. Listen in for a masterclass in how to protect your identity and create better outcomes, one conversation at a time. Hire Kwame at: https://kwamechristian.com Connect with Donald Miller on social media: https://www.instagram.com/donaldmiller/ https://www.facebook.com/donaldmillerwords http://StoryBrand.com Building a StoryBrand 2.0 is now available! https://buildingastorybrand.com/?utm_medium=social&utm_source=youtube&utm_campaign=&utm_term=cb&utm_content=SB_Framework Make your marketing and messaging work with the StoryBrand framework—and you can do that with the updated version of the book, Building a StoryBrand 2.0, now available!
Summary In this episode, Andy talks with Joe Ferraro, host of the One Percent Better podcast and a coach who helps leaders have stronger conversations when the stakes are high. If you lead projects, you know how quickly a meeting, a status update, or a feedback moment can either build trust or quietly drain it. Joe shares small, practical moves that make conversations more memorable and more useful. You will hear why being "good at talking" is not the same as being good at conversation, and how preparation can be a generous act toward the other person. They also discuss how to avoid default, predictable questions, how to turn a one-way presentation into something more interactive, and how to keep your composure when you feel defensive. Joe even offers a simple technique for pressure testing ideas without starting a fight, plus a listening cue you can use the next time you feel tempted to jump in. If you're looking for insights on having better conversations that save projects and strengthen relationships, this episode is for you! Sound Bites "And you know what's a great barometer there is for people listening to ask themselves on a daily basis? How many questions do they ask?" "But the reality is a generous conversation is one where you're prepared." "And the easiest path, the simplest path is to ask more questions and then listen, like your life depends on it." "The human ear driving, or on the treadmill or in a board meeting doesn't want to hear the same length answer every time from Andy or Joe or Sheila." "If you feel like you're bursting at the seams and you need to share something, that's when you know to hold it in and to focus on them." "I teach people the technique of inserting devil's advocate, where you, you don't wanna necessarily become the villain, but you say, you know, Andy, you know, it's a great point." "But when I go back to, to Mitch Albom one time, he paused seven seconds before I asked him, before he answered the question." "If you have a recorded conversation, simply ask it to pull out every question that was asked." "My favorite question to ask is the one that I think will elicit the best response for what I'm interested in learning in this moment." Chapters 00:00 Introduction 01:44 Start of Interview 02:04 When Conversation Became More Than Talking 04:32 Curiosity as a Practical Advantage 05:47 Sending Questions Ahead of Time 06:49 Why Most Real Conversations Feel Like Improv 07:40 A Recent Conversation Joe Still Thinks About 09:44 What Makes a Conversation Actually Memorable 11:14 How Joe's Background Shaped His Approach 12:47 Breaking the Habit of Predictable Answers 13:54 The Risk of Chasing "Standard" Questions 15:16 Using Recording as a Growth Tool 16:29 How to Build Better Listening Discipline 18:38 Turning a One-Way Presentation Into Conversation 20:12 What to Do When You Need Real Buy-In 21:44 The Listening Cue to Use When You Want to Jump In 23:34 Helping Others Feel Heard Without Hijacking the Moment 24:30 Staying Composed When You Feel Defensive 27:27 Using "Devil's Advocate" Without Becoming the Villain 30:15 When the Best Move Is to Pause 32:25 How to Ask Questions That Create Better Stories 33:43 The Question That Fits the Moment 36:19 What Joe Thinks People Get Wrong About "Small Talk" 39:12 Interviewers Joe Thinks More People Should Study 45:13 Using AI to Improve Your Conversations 49:20 What Joe Sees Changing in Communication Skills 50:00 Helping Kids Build Conversational Stamina 53:26 Where to Learn More About Joe 54:42 End of Interview 55:08 Andy Comments After the Interview 57:56 Outtakes Learn More You can learn more about Joe and his work here: OnePercentBetterProject.com Joe on X Joe on LinkedIn For more learning on this topic, check out: Episode 380 with Monica Guzman. It's about navigating stressful conversations with people you don't agree with. Episode 284 with Peter Boghossian. It's another episode on conversations that seem impossible. Think of difficult bosses and other stakeholders. Episode 195 with Celeste Headlee. She's an NPR anchor who first introduced me to the idea of conversational narcissism. Pass the PMP Exam This Year If you or someone you know is thinking about getting PMP certified, we've put together a helpful guide called The 5 Best Resources to Help You Pass the PMP Exam on Your First Try. We've helped thousands of people earn their certification, and we'd love to help you too. It's totally free, and it's a great way to get a head start. Just go to 5BestResources.PeopleAndProjectsPodcast.com to grab your copy. I'd love to help you get your PMP this year! Join Us for LEAD52 I know you want to be a more confident leader, that's why you listen to this podcast. LEAD52 is a global community of people like you who are committed to transforming their ability to lead and deliver. It's 52 weeks of leadership learning, delivered right to your inbox, taking less than 5 minutes a week. And it's all for free. Learn more and sign up at GetLEAD52.com. Thanks! Thank you for joining me for this episode of The People and Projects Podcast! Talent Triangle: Power Skills Topics: Communication, Difficult Conversations, Active Listening, Stakeholder Management, Leadership Presence, Psychological Safety, Meeting Facilitation, Coaching, Feedback, Influence, Conflict Management, Relationship Building The following music was used for this episode: Music: Summer Morning Full Version by MusicLFiles License (CC BY 4.0): https://filmmusic.io/standard-license Music: Energetic Drive Indie Rock by WinnieTheMoog License (CC BY 4.0): https://filmmusic.io/standard-license
Contemplating the death of a loved one is a very difficult thing to do, but a necessary one for finances and family members. The ability to have uncomfortable conversations about our mortality, and the consequences it may have on others, is something we cannot avoid and can get help with. FOX's Tonya J. Powers speaks with Lori Friedman, founder of 'The Love Policy' and insurance industry veteran, who says having those uncomfortable conversations is a very important expression of love. Click Here To Follow 'The FOX News Rundown: Evening Edition' Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Contemplating the death of a loved one is a very difficult thing to do, but a necessary one for finances and family members. The ability to have uncomfortable conversations about our mortality, and the consequences it may have on others, is something we cannot avoid and can get help with. FOX's Tonya J. Powers speaks with Lori Friedman, founder of 'The Love Policy' and insurance industry veteran, who says having those uncomfortable conversations is a very important expression of love. Click Here To Follow 'The FOX News Rundown: Evening Edition' Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Contemplating the death of a loved one is a very difficult thing to do, but a necessary one for finances and family members. The ability to have uncomfortable conversations about our mortality, and the consequences it may have on others, is something we cannot avoid and can get help with. FOX's Tonya J. Powers speaks with Lori Friedman, founder of 'The Love Policy' and insurance industry veteran, who says having those uncomfortable conversations is a very important expression of love. Click Here To Follow 'The FOX News Rundown: Evening Edition' Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Drama is something that can derail any culture, and derailing culture is something that can derail any dental office. When we're able to take the principles of handling crucial conversations appropriately and maturely, then we are able to really focus on the most important things in front of us and move the needle towards our goals.In this episode of the podcast, Dr. Eggett shares a clip from a recent staff meeting at his dental office where they discussed how they were handling drama and some of the tools and tips they've used in order to reduce drama in their office over the course of the last year.If you are not currently recording your staff meetings, check out the app fireflies.ai for a handy tool that will make your life so much easier! Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!): https://uppbeat.io/t/matrika/funk-style - License code: KUYOIZCBFCF1FOMP https://uppbeat.io/t/roo-walker/bolt - License code: RS1AU6Y5DGD5A3H8. https://uppbeat.io/t/doug-organ/boogie-time License code: 5EUWDIFBWYHENXPQ
Welcome to another insightful episode of The Brand Called You (TBCY), featuring Amy Jacobson, a global emotional intelligence expert and thought leader from Perth, Australia. Hosted by Ashutosh Garg, this conversation explores the science, psychology, and real-world application of emotional intelligence—especially in leadership, change, and difficult conversations.Drawing from Amy's acclaimed book, The Emotional Intelligence Advantage: Mastering Change and Difficult Conversations, this episode breaks emotional intelligence down into practical, actionable steps that anyone can apply at work and in life.Below is a detailed, question-led timestamped summary highlighting key moments from the conversation.
POWERED BY: Think Kindness / SchoolCulture.orgIn this powerful episode of the Rockstar Teacher Podcast, host Brian Williams sits down with leadership expert and three-time bestselling author Brenda Neckvatal to tackle one of the most challenging aspects of education: dealing with difficult people. Whether it's challenging students, demanding parents, or complicated coworker dynamics, Brenda delivers battle-tested strategies that educators can implement immediately.Brenda shares real-world stories from her 30+ years of experience working with Fortune 500 companies and over 1,000 leaders, revealing the difference between treating symptoms versus addressing root causes of conflict. From her famous "Help me understand" technique to the empowering "I'm the prize" mindset shift, this episode is packed with actionable wisdom that will transform how you approach difficult conversations and challenging personalities in your school environment.Learn why being "nice" might be sabotaging your boundaries, discover the power of commanding under pressure without wielding a heavy hand, and understand why you need to stop owning other people's baggage. This isn't just another inspirational talk—it's a practical toolkit for reclaiming control when difficult people threaten your success and well-being.Connect with Brenda:Website: https://brendaneckvatal.comLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/neckvatal/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brendaneckvatal/Books available at: https://brendaneckvatal.com (also on Amazon)Music Mentioned"Holy Ghost" by Sons of Sundays A high-energy Christian worship song with raw, authentic sound that Brenda credits as her current motivational anthem. The song features an old-fashioned feel recorded with a live, wooden ballroom aesthetic.Listen on major streaming platforms or download at: https://open.spotify.com/track/6iz66XKAS4xVSDAHRa77Bj?si=79a81142376446ba
Message me your 'Takeaways'.Why can you give tough feedback at work but avoid that one conversation with your partner?Life performance coach Lachlan Stuart shares the story of the money conversation he avoided with his wife Amy for months—and what finally made him say it. Spoiler: the fear was worse than the truth.In this episode:- The pattern: why high-performing men are surgical at work but silent at home- The Delay Distortion: how your brain either romanticizes or catastrophizes conversations the longer you wait- The internal conversation that changed Lachlan's career trajectory- A client story: the question that got a marriage back on track in 3 months- Practical steps to have hard conversations early—before they become crisesThis episode explores the Calm Mind pillar of Lachlan's Core 4 framework: Strong Body, Calm Mind, Clear Purpose, Confident Life.Take the free Life Performance Scorecard: https://lachlanstuart.com/scorecardConnect with Lachlan:→ Website: https://www.lachlanstuart.com.au/→ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lachlanstuart/→ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@LachlanJStuartLachlan Stuart is a life performance coach and keynote speaker based in Brisbane who has worked with 1,200+ high-performing men. He completed 58 marathons in 58 consecutive days and hosts The Man That Can podcast.Support the showTake the "Life Performance" Scorecard: HERE Follow Lachlan:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lachlanstuart/YouTube: https://youtube.com/@lachlanstuart91Website: https://themanthatcanproject.com/Newsletter: https://lachlan-stuart-tmtcp.ck.page/profileDo Something Today To Be Better For Tomorrow
Find out the real reason difficult conversations feel so hard at work, and how our mindset hurts our conversations and relationships. This episode gives you four internal switches you can flip in real time, so that you can have calm authority to fix conversations that go sideways. You'll discover what confident communicators do differently in difficult conversations. Because you don't need to say the perfect thing. You just need to stay stable enough to say something useful in that moment so that you can keep your influence. You'll learn how to: Stop taking pushback personally and stay detached under pressure Regulate your emotions so you don't interrupt, over-explain, or get defensive Bring clarity to conversations that feel messy or overwhelming Keep progress happening when discussions get tense, repetitive, or uncomfortable If you want to: Handle difficult conversations at work with confidence Respond to pushback without shutting down or getting reactive Increase your influence with managers, peers, or senior leaders Speak up clearly, even when situations aren't perfect …this episode will give you a practical internal system you can use immediately.
FREEDOM - HEALTH - HAPPINESSThis podcast is highly addictive and seriously good for your health.SUPPORT DOC MALIK For the full episodes, bonus content, back catalogue, and monthly Live Streams, please subscribe to either:The paid Spotify subscription here: https://creators.spotify.com/pod/show/docmalik/subscribe The paid Substack subscription here: https://docmalik.substack.com/subscribeThank you to all the new subscribers for your lovely messages and reviews! And a big thanks to my existing subscribers for sticking with me and supporting the show! ABOUT THIS CONVERSATION: In this episode, I speak with James Delingpole, writer, journalist, and host of The Delingpod. This was the second time James has joined me on the podcast, and it turned out to be a more challenging conversation than I had expected.We began by discussing his thinly disguised autobiography, which led into a moment early in the conversation that shifted the tone. From there we explored the Epstein files, power structures, personal integrity, and how relationships can fracture when uncomfortable questions are asked.I think listeners will find this a thought provoking and worthwhile listen.Enjoy!DocLinksWebsite https://substack.com/@delingpoleIMPORTANT INFORMATIONCONSULTATION SERVICEIn a world of rushed 7-minute consultations and endless referrals, I offer you something rare: time, context, and clear guidance.As your health advocate, I can help you:Understand your diagnosis and decode medical jargonBreak down treatment plans in plain, easy to understand non jargon EnglishPrepare for surgery, understand your risks, obtain true informed consent, and optimise yourself pre-op Recover from surgery, advise you how to heal faster and quicker and minimise post-op complicationsManage chronic illness with lifestyle, mindset, and dietary changesExplore holistic options that complement conventional careImplement lifestyle changes like fasting, stress reduction, or movementAsk better questions, and get real answersGet an unbiased second opinionReady to Take Control?If you're navigating a health concern, preparing for a big decision, or simply want to feel more confident in your path forward, I'd love to support you.Book here https://docmalik.com/consultations/ SeagreenIf you want to support your health naturally, I highly recommend trying Sea Greens, a rich source of bioavailable iodine and trace minerals that nourish thyroid function, balance hormones, and provide a clean daily boost from wild ocean plants. Use the code DOCMALIKhttps://seagreens.shop/Heracles Wellness SaunaHeracles Wellness is a UK-based company and supporter of the show. They offer a fantastic range of beautifully crafted saunas and cold plunge systems, perfect for creating your own healing sanctuary at home.Use the code DOCMALIK3 at checkout to get 3% off all products. https://heracleswellness.co.ukHunter & Gather FoodsCheck out the products from this great companyhttps://hunterandgatherfoods.com/?ref=DOCHG BUY HERE TODAYUse DOCHG to get 10% OFF your purchase with Hunter & Gather Foods.IMPORTANT NOTICEIf you value my podcasts, please support the show so that I can continue to speak up by choosing one or both of the following options - https://www.buymeacoffee.com/docmalik If you want to make a one-off donation.
What begins as a documentary about racial justice in Omaha becomes something far more personal.Filmmaker Nick Beaulieu joins Outrage Overload to discuss My Omaha, a film that follows his effort to document activism in his hometown while navigating a deeply strained relationship with his terminally ill father, a staunch pro-Trump conservative.Rather than trying to change minds, My Omaha explores what it takes to stay in relationship across political, racial, and generational divides. In this conversation, Nick reflects on trust, identity, social media, and how lessons from racial justice organizing shaped the way he tried to understand his father before it was too late.This episode is about family, polarization, and what happens when the story you're telling changes you in the process.Text me your feedback and leave your contact info if you'd like a reply (this is a one-way text). Thanks, DavidSupport the showShow Notes:https://outrageoverload.net/ Contact me, David Beckemeyer by email outrageoverload@gmail.com. Follow the show on Instagram @OutrageOverload. We are also on Facebook /OutrageOverload. Check out our Subtstack https://outrageoverload.substack.comHOTLINE: 925-552-7885Got a Question, comment or just thoughts you'd like to share? Call the O2 hotline and leave a message and you could be featured in an upcoming episodeIf you would like to help the show, you can contribute here. Tell everyone you know about the show. That's the best way to support it.Rate and Review the show on Podchaser: https://www.podchaser.com/OutrageOverload Also check out our companion podcasts, This Week in Outrage and Outrage Science Bites. Intro music and outro music by Michael Ramir C.Many thanks to my co-editor and co-director, Austin Chen.
Send us a textIn this engaging conversation, Andi and our guest Dara Tomasson explore the complexities of navigating conflict, overcoming self-sabotage, and finding joy in business. They discuss the importance of emotional resilience, the impact of imposter syndrome, and the necessity of taking control of one's reactions in a chaotic world. Dara shares her insights on personal growth, the creative process, and the significance of community support in achieving success. The discussion emphasizes the need for continuous evolution and the power of choice in shaping one's path.Passed Episode mentioned on this episode: How to Handle Controversy, Difficult Conversations, & More with Dara TomassonDescript mentioned by Dara and AndiDon't miss an episode! Like, comment, and subscribe for more quilting stories, tips, and industry insights.Chapters00:00 Navigating Conflict and Emotional Resilience14:41 Overcoming Imposter Syndrome and Self-Sabotage26:14 Finding Joy and Purpose in Business36:06 Embracing Growth and Learning from SetbacksConnect with Dara Tomasson:On Instagram On her website: https://daratomasson.com/On YouTubeWant More Quilting Business Content?
Having Difficult Conversations With Aging Parents: How To Start And What To Say In this episode of the WealthStyle Podcast, Iván Watanabe and Evan Wohl are joined by psychotherapist Maria Graceffa to explore how families can approach difficult conversations with aging parents around estate planning, healthcare decisions, and end-of-life wishes. The discussion focuses less on financial details and more on communication, timing, and emotional awareness. Maria shares why topics that feel taboo are often the most important to address, and how understanding your audience matters just as much as having the right information. The conversation covers practical guidance on aligning with siblings before approaching parents, choosing the right messenger, and framing discussions as invitations rather than directives. Listeners will also learn what language to avoid, how silence can create space for trust, and what to do when conversations become emotional or go off track. This episode offers thoughtful, real-world insight for anyone navigating multi-generational planning conversations and wanting to protect family relationships while creating clarity for the future. Key takeaways: Why avoiding “taboo” topics like death, inheritance, and long-term care often creates more stress than clarity How aligning with siblings and choosing the right messenger matters more than having the most expertise How to frame conversations as invitations, not directives, using open-ended questions that preserve a parent's sense of control What language and timing to avoid, and how pauses and silence can reduce defensiveness and build trust Why these discussions work best as an ongoing dialogue rather than a one-time conversation And more! Listen to this episode of the WealthStyle Podcast and subscribe to stay connected to conversations that move your wealth and lifestyle forward, always forward. Connect with Iván Watanabe: Opus Private Client, LLC iwatanabe@opus-pc.com LinkedIn: Iván Watanabe YouTube: OPUS Private Client, LLC Connect with Evan Wohl: Opus Private Client, LLC ewohl@opus-pc.com LinkedIn: Evan Wohl YouTube: OPUS Private Client, LLC Connect with Maria Graceffa: Maria Graceffa Psychotherapy LinkedIn: Maria Graceffa counseling@mariagraceffapsychotherapy.com About Our Guest: Maria Graceffa is a Licensed Mental Health Counselor in New York and Connecticut. She earned her degree in Psychological Counseling from Teachers College, Columbia University, and is known for being an exceptional listener—a professional secret-keeper, in the best colloquial sense. Maria is a seasoned clinician, creating a supportive space where clients can heal their vulnerabilities. She communicates directly—no BS—while always leading with gentle compassion. Her work focuses on helping clients process old hurts, develop new and adaptive belief systems, and build healthier behavior patterns that support lasting change. She helps folks have the hard conversations to get unstuck within family, work, and overall life. Maria is further specialized, offering EMDR and couples counseling. Outside of the therapy room, Maria is a real sports-ball-Mom, with gear, goggles, nets, and balls for every season. She also shares her days with a senior pup who still performs daily auditions for Cirque du Soleil, keeping life both grounded and entertaining.
In this episode, Bernhard Kerres shares insights from an unexpected meeting with 30-40 banking executives who just completed an orchestra leadership workshop. Their biggest takeaway? Even world-class musicians practice daily—but leaders rarely rehearse difficult conversations. Plus: Why the PR2 Framework matters, what to do when your opera co-star doesn't sing her lines, and why AI can't replace consultants in high-stakes meetings (yet).Bernhard's leadership framework is based on his opera background:Prepare - Understanding the wider ecosystem, project context, and company environmentRehearse - Working efficiently with your team within strict time limits (like 3-hour orchestra rehearsals with one 20-minute break)Perform - Authoritative leadership when it counts (example: when the house is on fire, you can't discuss feelings)Reflect - The hardest part as you move up in hierarchy; requires people who give you well-founded feedback, not just praiseLINKS:RolePlays.AI - www.roleplays.ai (free feedback scenario available)Onlettvint - www.onlettvint.com (Feedback framework partner)If you run leadership workshops or training programs:Orchestra leadership workshops available (contact Bernhard)RolePlays.AI scenarios can be customized for your organizationFree feedback scenario available for trialReach out: www.bernhardkerres.comThis Week's Challenge:Before your next difficult conversation (feedback, performance review, objective setting):Identify what makes it difficultActually practice it once (even just talking through it)Notice the differenceTry It:Visit www.roleplays.aiTry the free feedback scenarioPractice a conversation you've been avoidingBernhard Kerres is an executive coach, founder of RolePlays.AI, and the first opera singer to become a C-level executive of multi-million Euro tech companies. He was the only artistic director of a world-leading concert house to bring his startup to Silicon Valley. Based in Vienna, Austria, he coaches executives at firms like Henkel, PwC, and Strategy&, and teaches at London Business School.More at: www.bernhardkerres.comLinkedIn: Connect with Bernhard KerresHashtags: #CoffeeAndCoaching #Leadership #Practice #RolePlaysAI #DifficultConversationsLeadership, Executive Coaching, Difficult Conversations, Practice, Feedback, Performance Reviews, Orchestra Leadership, PR2 Framework, AI in Consulting, Banking Leadership, Situational Leadership, RolePlays.AIKey Takeaway: Even world-class performers practice daily. When's the last time you rehearsed a difficult conversation?
Note: This podcast is also available on YouTube: https://youtu.be/_J8I4ZB72bo This is the kind of conversation about Israel and Palestine you won't hear anywhere else. Rabbi Sid Schwarz, founding rabbi of Congregation Adat Shalom and longtime progressive Zionist, and Sam Sherman, a playwright, actor, and anti-Zionist activist who grew up in Schwarz's congregation, model how to engage in respectful dialogue across profound ideological differences about Israel and Palestine. Schwarz discusses his decades-long commitment to what he calls "spiritual Zionism"—affirming Israel's right to exist while vocally opposing policies that violate Jewish values. Sherman explains his anti-Zionist position rooted in concern for Palestinian dignity and opposition to what he sees as institutionalized Jewish supremacy. Despite their disagreements on the meaning of Zionism, the legitimacy of violence, and the future of the region, both speakers demonstrate deep respect, genuine curiosity, and a commitment to staying in relationship. As Sam prepares to return to the West Bank to work with the Center for Jewish Nonviolence, this conversation offers a rare and moving example of how Jews across generational and ideological divides can engage with empathy, learn from each other, and remain part of the same Jewish community even when fundamental disagreements persist. Theme song, “Ilu Finu” by Rabbi Miriam Margles. Her album This is the Day is available for purchase at CDBaby: https://store.cdbaby.com/cd/miriammarglesandthehadarensemb Visit our home on the web — Evolve: Groundbreaking Jewish Conversations: http://evolve.reconstructingjudaism.org Subscribe by Email at http://subscribebyemail.com/evolve.fireside.fm/rss Read these show notes on the web at https://evolve.fireside.fm/1 This podcast is produced by Reconstructing Judaism. Visit us at ReconstructingJudaism.org.Special Guests: Rabbi Sid Schwarz, Ph.D. and Sam Sherman.
In this Your Health University episode, Jamie sits down with Colin Stevens, Director of Engagement at Your Health, for a practical and honest conversation about communication—what it is, why it breaks down, and how leaders can immediately improve it. Colin reframes communication as understanding, not just delivery, explains why tone is the packaging that determines whether a message gets opened, and explores how ego blocks empathy in moments of conflict. The episode ends with a simple, powerful challenge: if you want to elevate your career and relationships, start by becoming a better listener. www.YourHealth.Org
Hilary shares a story about ambition, self-worth, and the cost of avoiding difficult conversations. Join Bree's NewsletterLearn more about Hilary Sutton: www.hilarysutton.co
In this episode of Management Unfiltered, Kirk Teachout and Zach Shelley dive into how to handle difficult workplace conversations without creating unnecessary tension. They discuss why approach, tone, and body language matter, share practical tips for giving and receiving feedback, and explore how leaders can encourage open communication within their teams. Through real-world examples, they highlight how addressing issues early and listening actively can prevent conflict and build a healthier, more effective work environment.Click here to join our free study club! https://chat.whatsapp.com/H746zQhOps161RNOv5Meut?mode=hqrt3
This is one of the most difficult and meaningful conversations Space for Life has ever held.In this episode, host Tommy Thompson is joined by David Dwight, Senior Pastor at Hope Church Richmond, and Ray Paul, National Board Chair of the American Foundation for Suicide Prevention. Together, they share deeply personal stories of losing close family members to suicide and reflect on what it means to grieve, to care for one another, and to hold hope in the midst of profound loss.Listener discretion is advised. This is a heavy and sensitive topic, and we encourage you to listen at your own pace and with support if needed.This conversation is rooted in lived experience, not theory. With honesty, compassion, and care, they explore:What makes suicide-related grief uniquely complexHow to recognize warning signs and risk factorsHow to talk about suicide without shame, fear, or judgmentThe role of community, presence, and faith in healingHow we can better support both those who are grieving and those who may be at riskThis episode is for anyone who has lost someone they love, is walking alongside someone who is struggling, or wants to learn how to respond with greater care and understanding in these moments.Important Support NoteIf you or someone you love is struggling or in crisis, help is available. In the United States, you can call or text 988, the Suicide & Crisis Lifeline, to connect with trained counselors 24/7.You are not alone.Timestamps00:00 Introduction to a Difficult Conversation 03:49 Personal Experiences with Suicide 11:27 Understanding Grief and Loss 24:08 The Complexity of Suicide 32:17 Statistics and Prevention Strategies 42:56 Navigating Conversations about Suicide 54:34 The Role of Community and Support 01:06:17 Faith and Understanding in Grief 01:14:35 Final Thoughts and ResourcesKey Themes & TakeawaysSuicide loss carries layers of grief that are often misunderstoodPrevention and compassion must exist togetherWarning signs often show up as subtle changes in behavior or moodAsking direct questions and listening carefully can save livesPresence matters more than having the “right” wordsThe way someone dies does not define the value or meaning of their lifeHealing often happens in community, not isolationResources MentionedAmerican Foundation for Suicide Prevention (AFSP) https://afsp.orgWhat to Do When Someone Is at Risk https://afsp.org/what-to-do-when-someone-is-at-risk/Risk Factors, Protective Factors, and Warning Signs https://afsp.org/risk-factors-protective-factors-and-warning-signs/Suicide & Crisis Lifeline (U.S.) Call or text 988Love the show? Subscribe, rate, review, and share! http://tommythompson.org
In this episode, host Gary interviews Ariana Tadler, a renowned lawyer and leader, about finding fulfillment and balance in the legal profession. Ariana shares insights from her 33-year career, discussing leadership, the impact of technology, and the importance of rituals for well-being. She emphasizes compassion, candor, and adaptability, especially for younger lawyers navigating blurred work-life boundaries. The conversation highlights practical strategies for managing stress, setting boundaries, and leading with empathy. Ariana and Gary encourage legal professionals to align their careers with personal values, prioritize presence, and pursue joy and purpose both in and out of the office.Ariana is the founding partner of Tadler Law LLP, a WBENC-certified, women-owned boutique law firm and Of Counsel to Kaplan, Fox & Kilsheimer LLP. With 33 years' experience advocating for consumers, employees, investors, and businesses through negotiation, arbitration, and litigation, Ariana is one of our nation's leading women lawyers. Ranked by Chambers and Partners, Ariana is also a global ”STAR” in e-Discovery (the use of data for litigation) – she is the first woman to receive this distinction and one of only three people ever to have achieved this distinction.Beyond the courtroom, Ariana is the founder of Ariana Speaks LLC, a thought leadership platform where she shares her voice as an author, entrepreneur, emcee, and keynote speaker. Drawing from decades of real-world experience, she speaks powerfully on leadership, resilience, innovation, and what it takes to thrive in today's fast-moving world.Her message resonates deeply with Millennials, Gen Z, and women of all ages—those seeking to confidently and joyfully design a life that is both highly effective and deeply fulfilling. A proud member of National Speakers Association's New York City Chapter, Ariana speaks nationwide about resilience and grit; and work-life integration, built on her curated formula for living a happy, highly effective life. Her mission? To empower and mentor the next generation of leaders—giving them tools not just to succeed, but to lead boldly and live fully.Optimizing Life & Career Choices (00:02:12)Launching a Boutique Firm: Lessons in Leadership (00:05:13) E-Discovery and Star Distinction Explained (00:07:37) The Human Edge in a Tech-Driven Legal World (00:09:29) Listening as a Core Legal Skill (00:11:43) Risk, Litigation, and Core Values (00:13:54) Leading with Candor & Difficult Conversations (00:15:09) Learning from Junior Team Members (00:17:40) Flex and Pivot: Adapting to Change in Law (00:19:16) Gen Z, Millennials, and Evolving Legal Culture (00:21:57) Boundaries, Joy, and Work-Life Balance (00:23:49) Rituals for Happiness and Success (00:24:49) Presence and Avoiding Burnout (00:26:55) Personal Story: The Cost of Not Being Present (00:27:35) Non-Negotiable Rituals for Wellbeing (00:29:39) Transition Rituals and Sleep (00:34:00) Ariana Speaks: Mentoring and Impact (00:35:35) The Power of Coaching and Mentorship (00:38:22) Empowering the Next Generation (00:41:44)You can find The Free Lawyer Assessment here- https://www.garymiles.net/the-free-lawyer-assessmentWould you like to learn what it looks like to become a truly Free Lawyer? You can schedule a complimentary call here: https://calendly.com/garymiles-successcoach/one-one-discovery-callWould you like to learn more about Breaking Free or order your copy? https://www.garymiles.net/break-free
Send us a textIn this episode of That Music Podcast, Bryson tackles one of the most anxiety-inducing parts of teaching: calling home or having difficult conversations about student behavior. Specifically through the lens of music teachers, this episode addresses how being a specialist can complicate communication with families, classroom teachers, and administrators, and why avoiding these conversations often makes things worse.You'll walk away with the CALM framework: a practical, four-step approach to behavior-related conversations that helps you stay professional, reduce emotional escalation, and keep the focus on student learning. This episode is packed with realistic strategies you can use immediately to support classroom management, protect your well-being, and confidently navigate tough conversations without dread.Episode Chapters:0:00 Introduction1:53 The CALM Framework - C3:09 The CALM Framework - A4:24 The CALM Framework - L5:46 The CALM Framework - M6:21 Helpful tips7:49 TakeawaysLinks and Resources: The Elementary Music Summit®Elementary Newbie GuideDisabilities GuideSteady Beat Survival GuideJoin Elementary Music EDGE™Use coupon code PODCAST at checkout for 50% off your first month of Elementary Music EDGE™ today!Grab your free ticket to the Elementary Music Summit®: January Refresh -> www.thatmusicteacher.com/summitHave questions or want to share feedback? Reach out to us at hello@thatmusicteacher.com - we'd love to hear from you!
Sometimes the most difficult place to give witness is when we are with family, friends, and peers who disagree with us. How do we approach giving pro-life witness in those conversations? Teresa Tomeo joins Adam with encouragement on how we can give witness in these situations. Fr. Charlie Archer joins us for another reflection on the Gospel of the Day. Adam concludes the show with the 9 Days for Life Novena and more encouragement as we witness to the dignity of the unborn, their mothers, and the culture of life! Pray the 9 Days for Life Novena Download the Covenant Network app today! Pray the Visual Rosary at VisualRosary.org For more information on Covenant Network, visit OurCatholicRadio.org
Salon owner and colorist Lauren Herzog @thehillbillyhairpainter, shares her unique journey into becoming a successful hairstylist. She discusses the challenges of overcoming stereotypes in the industry, the importance of self-belief, and how to curate a work-life balance while maintaining a thriving clientele. She also reflects on difficult conversations with clients and the importance of surrounding oneself with supportive peers in the industry. This week's Topics: Overcoming skepticism while building your career Breaking Stereotypes in Hairdressing How to Set Yourself Apart Curating a Supportive and Recurring Clientele Dealing with Difficult Conversations with Clients How to be a Student of Life Video versions of our episodes are on our YouTube channel for you to watch! Subscribe to our channel The Hair Game on YouTube and check out 'The Hair Game Podcast' playlist. Our podcast thrives on the opinions of you, the listener... if you have a moment (and you are an Apple user), please leave us a rating & review on the Apple podcasts app or iTunes! Here's what you do: - Scroll down to 'Ratings & Reviews' - Click on the empty purple stars (5 is the best)! - Click on 'Write a Review' and let us know what you love most! Each rating & review helps us reach more and more of your fellow hair loves, and our goal is to help as many hairdressers as we can find success. Thanks in advance! FOLLOW US http://www.instagram.com/thehairgamepodcast http://www.instagram.com/salonrepublic http://www.instagram.com/loveerictaylor
Salon owner and colorist Lauren Herzog @thehillbillyhairpainter, shares her unique journey into becoming a successful hairstylist. She discusses the challenges of overcoming stereotypes in the industry, the importance of self-belief, and how to curate a work-life balance while maintaining a thriving clientele. She also reflects on difficult conversations with clients and the importance of surrounding oneself with supportive peers in the industry. This week's Topics: Overcoming skepticism while building your career Breaking Stereotypes in Hairdressing How to Set Yourself Apart Curating a Supportive and Recurring Clientele Dealing with Difficult Conversations with Clients How to be a Student of Life Video versions of our episodes are on our YouTube channel for you to watch! Subscribe to our channel The Hair Game on YouTube and check out 'The Hair Game Podcast' playlist. Our podcast thrives on the opinions of you, the listener... if you have a moment (and you are an Apple user), please leave us a rating & review on the Apple podcasts app or iTunes! Here's what you do: - Scroll down to 'Ratings & Reviews' - Click on the empty purple stars (5 is the best)! - Click on 'Write a Review' and let us know what you love most! Each rating & review helps us reach more and more of your fellow hair loves, and our goal is to help as many hairdressers as we can find success. Thanks in advance! FOLLOW US http://www.instagram.com/thehairgamepodcast http://www.instagram.com/salonrepublic http://www.instagram.com/loveerictaylor
In this episode of the HR Like a Boss podcast, host John Bernatovicz interviews leadership consultant Laurie Maddalena, author of 'The Elevated Leader.' They discuss the evolution of leadership and the need for modern leadership skills in today's workplace. Lori shares transformative moments from her coaching experiences, emphasizing the significance of work-life balance and the shift from traditional work models to more flexible arrangements. Check out this insightful episode!ABOUT LAURIELaurie Maddalena is the founder and CEO of Envision Excellence, a leadership development consulting firm that provides engaging keynote speeches, leadership development programs for managers and executives, executive coaching, management training, and leadership assessments. Laurie has been personally mentored by Jack Canfield, author of The Success Principles, and is a certified Success Principles Trainer. Laurie is a member of the National Speakers Association (NSA), and is a Certified Speaking Professional (CSP), a designation earned by less than 17% of speakers worldwide. She writes a monthly online column for next generation leaders for CUES, is a contributing writer for CUInsight, and has published articles in Credit Union Management. Laurie is the author of the book, The Elevated Leader: Boost Your Confidence and Transform Your Team by Mastering Coaching, Accountability, and Difficult Conversations. She is a contributing author to the international best-selling books, Women Who Empower and Women Who Shine. Prior to establishing her own coaching and consulting business, Laurie served as Vice President of Human Resources/Organizational Development at Montgomery County Teachers Federal Credit Union (MCT). Under Laurie's leadership, MCT was awarded the “Excellent Place to Work” designation by the Maryland Work~Life Alliance for seven years in a row. Laurie started her credit union career as the assistant manager of the call center, and has been in the industry for over 26 years. Laurie earned a Master of Business Administration (MBA) degree and a Master of Science degree in human resources/organizational development from The University of Maryland Global Campus. She also earned a bachelor's degree in speech communication from Syracuse University. Laurie is a certified executive coach through The Coaches Training Institute, and completed team and organizational coaching training through The Center for Right Relationship and Team Coaching International. Laurie lives in Maryland with her husband, Rino, and their three children, Olivia, Luca and Clara. She loves the outdoors and nature, good food and wine (especially Cabernet Sauvignon), enjoys playing tennis, and is an avid reader and cappuccino lover.
In today's episode I'm talking about giving/receiving feedback and especially having a difficult conversation to leave a group or move closer to your goals.I hope you enjoy it! As always you can learn more and connect with me on my website (andystorch.com) or LinkedIn. And you can find my books - Own Your Career Own Your Life and Own Your Brand, Own Your Career - on Amazon.
Our 10 favorite communication insights from 2025.The most transformative communication insights are the ones we actually remember to use. That's why host Matt Abrahams is taking stock of his favorite communication tips from this year, so we can carry them into the next.In this annual Think Fast, Talk Smart tradition, Abrahams shares his top 10 communication insights from guests over the past year, from facilitating connection through Gina Bianchini's "proactive serendipity” to Jenn Wynn's use of dialogue as a gateway to synergy. Whether you're looking to build trust, boost productivity, or speak more spontaneously, this year's top 10 insights offer a reminder of all we've learned this year — and a roadmap for better communication in the year ahead.Episode Reference Links:Ep.177 Don't Resolve, Evolve: Top 10 Lessons From 2024Ep.120 A Few of Matt's Favorite Things: 10 Communication Takeaways from 2023's TFTS Episodes Connect:Premium Signup >>>> Think Fast Talk Smart PremiumEmail Questions & Feedback >>> hello@fastersmarter.ioEpisode Transcripts >>> Think Fast Talk Smart WebsiteNewsletter Signup + English Language Learning >>> FasterSmarter.ioThink Fast Talk Smart >>> LinkedIn, Instagram, YouTubeMatt Abrahams >>> LinkedInChapters:(00:00) - Introduction (02:21) - Facilitation and Productive Serendipity (03:56) - Toxic vs. Healthy Productivity (06:19) - Dialogue as the Path to Synergy (08:51) - How Actions Build Trust (10:17) - Communication as an Unselfish Act (12:12) - Be Present and Prepare to Be Spontaneous (14:17) - Why Memorable Words Matter (17:32) - Persuasion and Identity (19:21) - Finding Meaning Through Purpose (21:16) - Listening to Negative Emotions (23:33) - Conclusion ********Thank you to our sponsors. These partnerships support the ongoing production of the podcast, allowing us to bring it to you at no cost.Strawberry.me. Get 50% off your first coaching session today at Strawberry.me/smart