Double Teamed with Cami and Niki

DT FAM for this week, let's throw it back to November 2023, when we recorded with Colette Pervette, a professional Domme and Educatrix. She had some *WILD* stories... one that even had our producer leaving the room to gather himself for 5 minutes. Listening back to this episode was so fun for me, and I hope you all enjoy it just as much all over again. We will be back with a new episode next week!

Welcome back DT Fam! Back in April, Niki asked our IG followers what they would do differently if they could restart their non-monogamous journey all over again. The responses definitely had a few themes, so we discuss those in today's episode: tune in to find out! If you're over 21, check out our favorite gummies from VIIA Hemp! Use code DTFAM for savings on your order :)

Welcome back DT Fam :) Today, we are diving into a topic we briefly covered on Steff's pod (Broke Girl Therapy): high and low libidos! Chances are one of you in the relationship has a higher or lower libido than the other, and there are ways to work through this issue. We discuss some of the mindsets and methods we employ, such as communication tactics, conversation starters, and more. We also briefly touch on using non-monogamy as a tool for couples looking to bridge the gap with the help of others outside the relationship. Hope you enjoy! For those of you over 21, check out our favorite gummies at VIIA Hemp! Use code DTFAM at checkout for savings ! Order your vaginal microbiome test at Evvy with code DTFAM10 and take charge of your vaginal health today!

Welcome back DT Fam! Cami is here with a Vanilla Sunday all about her course, Empowering Caretakers:NAVIGATING SEX EDUCATION CONVERSATIONS WITH KIDS AND TEENS. She's discussed a bit of it on the podcast here and there, but this is a more in depth look, featuring some of the fascinating things she learned along the way and a look at her experience in creating this course. For current or future parents, this is a great listen and we hope you enjoy! Use code EMPOWER for 10$ off your course :)

Welcome back DT Fam! Just the two of us this week :) Given our long distance relationships, we dive into the topic of wanking together with your partner, especially over FaceTime. For LDR couples, this is a great episode going over some tips, finding the confidence, and using this as a way to continue building intimacy together. Enjoy! Enjoy a restful night's sleep with a new Birch mattress made of quality and luxurious materials from Birch Living! Go to birchliving.com/dtf for 27% off your new Birch mattress. If you're 21 and over, check out our favorite gummies from VIIA Hemp Co and use code DTFAM at checkout.

Welcome back DT Fam! Today, we go over listener submissions of ways to surprise your partner. Niki asked our IG followers for some inspiration, and you guys delivered great recommendations :) From heartfelt gestures involving fire places to sexy stickers, tune in to find out! If you're 21+, check out our favorite gummies and drops at VIIA Hemp! Use code DTFAM at checkout for savings and free shipping.

Welcome back DT Fam! On today's episode, we've got a Vag Fact to share with you that had us both infuriated. We also talk about internalization and how not to take things personally if your partner is having a bad day (it's not your fault!). We also lay out the female cycle and how to best support your period having partner during each phase :) Get your vaginal microbiome tested with Evvy! Use code DTFAM10 at checkout for savings on your test. Enjoy a great night's sleep with a Birch Mattress! Go to birchliving.com/dtf and get 27% Off sitewide + 2 free Eco-Rest Pillows with your mattress purchase! If you're 21 and over, get our favorite gummies from VIIA Hemp! Use code DTFAM at checkout!

Welcome back DT Fam! Today we welcome back Brittany Brave, a comedian who we met thru the pod years ago! For anyone that has been here since day one, she was one of the first guests we had on the show. This conversation takes many turns, we dive into: how your 20s are for mistakes and your 30s are for maturity, learning to leave (a bad relationship) and trusting yourself to do so, updating your beneficiary on your life insurance policy, and how to support single friends. Trigger warning: we do touch on some topics of domestic violence and abortion. Hope you all enjoy- Brittany is always hilarious!

Welcome back DT Fam! If you remember Dr. Joli Hamilton from our last episode with her, she is back and we are talking about jealousy again. This time... all about retroactive jealousy and how our imagination shapes those jealous feelings. We also dive into a lot of the studies done around jealousy, including findings, what they measured, how they defined jealousy, and more. How do you define jealousy? What were you taught about jealousy as a child? If you struggle with jealousy, this episode is for you. If it's time for a new mattress, you need to check out Birch where comfort and quality combine to give you a great night's sleep. Go to birchliving.com/dtf for 27% off your order! If you're 21 and over, head on over to VIIA Hemp and use code DTFAM for savings on your gummies!

Welcome back DT Fam :) Pete joins us yet again, and this time we are talking about girls night vs. guys night? Based on a viral Tiktok where the girl asks the group if her bf can come, we explore the question - is it okay to bring your significant other to girls/guys night? What if they're having a crappy day, do you stay home with them or continue on with your plans? Find new friends or lovers with FEELD! Download on Google Play or the App Store today. If you're 21 and over, check out our favorite gummies from VIIA Hemp, use code DTFAM at checkout for savings!

Welcome back DT Fam! Molly Tullis joins us on the pod today, she is a romantic fiction author that we have been following for years. If you're into spicy books, this episode is for you. From the books that featured the first sex scenes we read about, to the ones that healed our parental wounds, it is pretty amazing what reading (and writing!) can do for us. Hope you enjoy :) Spring is here and it is time to get out and meet people! Check out Feeld to make some connections, download on Google Play or the App Store today!

Welcome back DT Fam! We are moving from Los Angeles, and we take a walk down memory lane. This is the city where we became creators and started the pod! Also where we had so many firsts and explored every play party we could find, thanks to the people who welcomed us into the world of play parties. Join us as we dive into some fun memories and recommendations. Check out our favorite gummies from VIIA Hemp and use code DTFAM for savings :) Find new connections on Feeld! Download on Google Play or the App Store today. Test your microbiome with Evvy and use code DTFAM10 at checkout!

Welcome back DT Fam! Today, Frank Arthur Smith is back on the show - he is the creator of Open To It, a series about a polyamorous gay couple exploring the ins and outs of their non-monogamous relationship. Our first episode with him was all about season 1, and this episode is about season 2, where they explore themes of intentional ENM exploration, deepening meaningful connections, and reflecting on fulfillment and satisfaction in one's journey. This season also features bisexual representation, parental discoveries, and inter-abled relationships. We LOVED this season, and we hope you do too, so go check it out! If you're looking for new ways to connect with people, check out Feeld on the App Store and Google Play today! Try our fav personal lubricants from Personal Fav! Use code FAVDT at checkout for 20% off :)

Welcome back DT Fam! Niki read an article about how 41% of Gen Z is interested in exploring open relationships... which is a lot! SO, as two people who have had their fair share of non-monogamous exploration, here are six tips to help anyone who is interested in diving into the world of non-traditional relationship structures. The book Niki mentioned was, More: A Memoir of Open Marriage by Molly Roden Winter. If you're 21 and over, check out our favorite gummies from VIIA Hemp & save money with code DTFAM! Use better lube, try Whet and Pique from Personal Fav! Use code FAVDT at checkout. Parents and caretakers, give your child the s*x talk they deserve with Cami's course, Empowering Caretakers, use code EMPOWER for 10$ off

Welcome back DT Fam! Madelyn Moon joins us today, she is a somatic facilitator and author of Artist of Love. She loves championing self expression through creative acting methods, and we dive into those. So if you're struggling to say something and you want to approach it in a different way so you can say what you want to say, give this episode a listen and see if maybe it helps you out. If you're 21+, check out our favorite gummies at VIIA Hemp, and use code DTFAM for 15% off your order! Meet new people with Feeld! Download it at the Apple Store and Google Play. Try Whet or Pique from Personal Fav and use code FAVDT at checkout :) It is our absolute favorite!! Check out Cami's course, Empowered Caretakers, to learn how to give your children an informed talk about their s*xual health. Use code EMPOWER for 10$ off!

Welcome back DT Fam! Two friends of ours told us to listen to a podcast about a (married) woman who had a ChatGPT boyfriend. Niki listened to the podcast and recounts it all to Cami, bringing us to ask ourselves.. how do we feel about AI/ChatGPT relationship? If you'd like to listen to the original podcast episode, it is linked here. Curious to hear your thoughts!! DM us on Instagram or comment on YouTube, or write into our website. If you're 21+, check out our favorite gummies at VIIA Hemp, and use code DTFAM for 15% off your order! Meet new people with Feeld! Download it at the Apple Store and Google Play. Check out Cami's course, Empowered Caretakers, to learn how to give your children an informed talk about their s*xual health. Use code EMPOWER for 10$ off!

Welcome back DT Fam! We brought back a favorite of y'alls: Tia :) Unfortunately, she is going through a break up in her non-monogamous relationship, and has run into the dilemma of having to attend play parties with her ex - they share a friend group! We talk about potential rules and boundaries, what the transition has been like, and what she's calling in for her next partnership. If you're looking for open-minded singles on a dating app unlike the rest, check out Feeld on the App Store or Google Play! Prepare yourself for "the talk" with Cami's course Empowered Caretakers and use code EMPOWER for 10$ off.

Welcome back DT Fam :) Niki's been struggling with doomscrolling lately, especially in today's political climate, so this episode is all about helping you stay aware and proactive so you're not letting social media put you in a pit of despair. I hope you all enjoy, and see you again soon for another Vanilla Sunday!

Welcome back DT Fam! Our good friend Pete, a TikTok creator we met on the app, joins us today :) He recently moved from Colorado to California, so we talk about dating in a new city, romanticizing your life, finding new hobbies to meet people, and and joining run club (aka IRL Tinder). Check out Peteski on TikTok! If you're a parent or caretaker, head on over to Empowered Caretakers to learn all about how to give your child the best s*x talk to prepare them for their s*xual debut. Use code EMPOWER for 10$ off. & don't forget to check out one of our favorite toy brands, Iroha, and use code DTF10 for savings on your order!

Hey DT Fam! Here is our review of Babygirl, Nicole Kidman's latest movie. A lot of our friends in the kink community were not fans, and we totally get it... it wasn't a great representation of power exchange, but we argue: it wasn't a movie about kink! Tune in to find out more. We recommend it, and if you haven't watched it, go check it out, then come back to this episode (it does have spoilers!). If you are a parent or caretaker looking to prepare yourself for the sex talk with your children, check out Cami's course, Empowering Caretakers, and use code EMPOWER for 10$ off. If you're 21 and over, try our favorite gummies at VIIA Hemp, and use code DTFAM at checkout!

Welcome back, DTFAM! Steff from Broke Girl Therapy is back on the pod today. We dive into rich ex-boyfriends, who pays for what in a relationship or when dating, and also how it's going for her and her man now that they are working together after his recent layoff. Be sure to tune into Broke Girl Therapy now that she is making her return. If you are a parent or caretaker looking to have the sex talk with your child, check out Cami's course, Empowering Caretakers, and use code EMPOWER for 10$ off.

We are finally back with Vanilla Sundays! And for this one, Niki goes through her process for setting a boundary. Too many people use the term "boundary" without properly knowing what that actually means or what that entails, so hopefully, this is helpful.

Welcome back DT Fam! This week we dive into boundaries and considerations around friends of the opposite s*x when you are partnered, although honestly a lot of it can apply to friends of the opposite s*x when you are single too, because boundaries are definitely important. Find out why Cami absolutely loathes one of her man's female friends, the tea is served here for sure. In loving memory of Tiesto, this was our last episode recorded with him. Rest easy my little chunky. Be sure to check out Cami's course, Empowering Caretakers, if you're looking to have the sex talk with your children. Use code EMPOWER for 10$ off. Check out Iroha, one of our favorite toy brands, and use code DTF10 for 10% off!

Welcome back DT Fam! Another episode with Abigail from Rat Girls Podcast :) This time, we are diving into what women think about during sex, based on a Q&A Abby did on her Instagram. Do women think about other dicks? What's happening when we close our eyes? What if the guy comes too quick, is that an issue? Click on Iroha at doubleteamfam.com and use code DTF10 for 10% off your order! Order Niki's favorite sex blanket from Sunny Situations! Use code DTFAMLOVE If you're a parent, get this course and educate yourself on how to give the best sex talk! Use code Empower for 10 dollars off.

Welcome back DT Fam! This week we're talking about what to keep and what to delete when it comes to pics of past lovers and such. Is it okay to keep spicy pics? When do you delete them? Is it when you break up the relationship or when you're ready to let the pics go? What about pics you've sent to exes? Lots to discuss. This is our second to last episode recorded with Tiesto, our beloved kitty who has passed away. If you're a parent, or you want to give yourself a better s*x talk, check out Cami's course Empowering Caretakers, and use code EMPOWER for 10 dollars off. Get 10% off private, discreet STD tests at www.stdhero.com with code DTF10 Try our favorite gummies from VIIA, use code DTFAM at checkout :) Must be 21 or older. Click on Iroha and use code DTF10 for an additional 10% off your order! Get 10% off the sensually soft and waterproof Couples Blanket with code DTFAMLOVE at SunnySituations.com.

Hey DT Fam! This week, we are co-releasing this episode with Abigail from Rat Girls Podcast. We dive into some of the toxic things we've done in the name of jealousy, as well as our jealous triggers, jealous exes, and jealousy coping mechanisms. Hope you all enjoy this episode! & if you're a parent or caretaker, give your kids the s*x talk with the help of Empowered Caretakers, the course that gives you all the tools you need, created by Cami. Use code EMPOWER at checkout. Get 10% off our private, discreet STD tests at www.stdhero.com with code DTF10 Try Niki's FAVORITE waterproof blanket from Sunny Situations! Use code DTFAMLOVE at checkout. Download Feeld on the App Store or Google Play! Visit Iroha Store USA to find the best pleasure item that suits your needs! Enjoy 10% off with code DTF10

Welcome back DTFAM! We are so excited to be back here with you guys, we have definitely missed you all and the pod. OKAY SO, first things first - CAMI FINISHED HER ONLINE COURSE ON EMPOWERING PARENTS AND CARETAKERS! More to come on that, but please feel free to check out the link here and order your course today, even if you don't have children. Use code EMPOWER for $10 off. Secondly, we've got some stories regarding waterproof blankets (aka s*x blankets), which are now an absolute must during sexy time. Thirdly, Cami's therapist did some voodoo shit that left her absolutely mindblown! Enjoy :) Get Niki's favorite new blanket at sunnysituations.com and use code DTFAM. Get your next or new Iroha and use code DTF10 for savings at checkout. Get 10% off our private, discreet STD tests at www.stdhero.com! If you're 21+, check out viia.co and use the code DTFAM to receive 15% off your order.

Hey DT Fam! Here's a Vanilla Sunday all about reflecting on our work and home life as Mars retrogrades through the signs of Leo and Cancer (Dec 6th thru Feb 23rd!). I find this is a time I am usually questioning where I am putting my energy, reflecting on my relationships and my home life, but also a time when I am feeling more sensitive and emotional. I have a few tips for you as we finish out this transit, and I hope they inspire you to reflect in ways that bring good changes and updates to your life. I hope you all enjoy! & don't worry, the retrograde will end soon enough.

Happy Holidays DTFAM :) This is our last episode of 2024! Don't worry, we will be back mid-January 2025 for our next season. We hope you all have an amazing holiday break, and please stay safe out there. In this episode, we cover some Vag Facts by Evvy, how to rate your sex life, and Niki's current dilemma in missing exploring parts of her bisexuality. Sometimes you don't want to do the inner work to prepare for a threesome, and that's okay! BUT, always good to think about how you might approach it in the future. As always, thank you for your support in listening to our show, and can't wait to be back next year! Boost your stamina and drive with JoyMode! Go to tryjoymode.com and use code DOUBLETEAM for savings on your order! Ladies, we finally have a product for you. Check out VB Health's Soaking Wet probiotic to get that WAP flowing. Use code DTFAM at checkout! Get 10% off our private, discreet STD tests at www.stdhero.com with code DTF10! Test your vaginal microbiome with Evvy :) use code DTFAM10 for 10% off your Evvy test.

Welcome back DT Fam! This Sunday, Cami's walking us through the recent check-in she did with her boyfriend and the framework/outline she used to make it successful for the both of them. From example questions to tips on how to soften the blow for the hard stuff, she's got some great advice if this is something you're looking to incorporate in your relationship. Enjoy! Test your v*ginal microbiome today with Evvy! Use code DTFAM10 at checkout.

Welcome back DTFAM :) Another short lil episode just the two of us, about two of our favorite shows we've watched recently. One showcases toxic relationships, the other showcases healthy relationships, and one of them had a representation of non-monogamy that we had a bone to pick with! If you haven't watched Tell Me Lies on Hulu or Nobody Wants This on Netflix, spoilers ahead, but there's still some great stuff to take away from this episode. Up your stamina with Joymode! Go to tryjoymode.com and use code DOUBLETEAM for savings on your order! If you're 21+, head to Viiahemp.com and use the code DTFAM to receive 15% off. PLEASE support our show and tell them we sent you. Take your passion and pleasure to a whole new level with High Love from VIIA Hemp.

Welcome back DT Fam :) Today is a short and sweet episode analyzing what to do if you feel crappy after a wanking sesh, something Niki has been struggling with. If you share this struggle, hope it helps! And if not, perhaps it might still give you some good questions to reflect on when it comes to self love. Head on over to soakingwet.com and use code DTFAM for 10% your order of Soaking Wet :) Give Joymode a try at tryjoymode.com and use code DOUBLETEAM for savings on your order! Try our favorite gummies from VIIA Hemp! Use code DTFAM at check out.

Welcome back to another Vanilla Sunday :) This week, let's look and see if you and your boo are a fated connection. If you feel that inexplicable tug, astrology can definitely tell you why. We're diving into north node synastry, south node synastry, why everyone says to avoid moon/south node synastry, and what it means when they touch the personal planets, Jupiter/Saturn, and the ascendant/midhaven. If you'd like to do some research of the nodes, check out Cafe Astrology or Chani Nichols! && don't forget to head on over to tryjoymode.com and use code DOUBLETEAM for savings on your order :)

*** Apologies for the technical difficulties, the first 3 minutes of the episode are cut off by the platform. Full episode can be found YouTube.*** Hey DT Fam! A new guest is joining us today - Nikole Mitchell, known as the pastor turned str*pper that went viral on social media. She is now a life coach and adult content creator, and she is just absolutely full of wisdom - so inspirational! She doubled down on herself, and it paid off. We dive into her varied career, her key to success, and her journey in embracing her s*xuality. Check out her website, nikolemitchell.com to connect with her. Last longer in the bedroom with Joymode! Go to tryjoymode.com and use code DOUBLETEAM for savings on your order :) If you're 21+, head to Viiahemp.com and use the code DTFAM to receive 15% off. PLEASE support our show and tell them we sent you. This fall, enhance your everyday with VIIA.

Happy Sunday, fam! In this episode, Cami walks us all through the practices we use to call in more abundance in our home. This includes: salt and cinnamon ritual, money corner plants, crystals around the home, and cleansing out any energy that gets in the way of your abundance. It's a little woo woo, but come with an open mind - these have really worked for us!

Hey DT Fam! A listener asked for some aftercare tips, so we decided to share our favorite forms of both pre and after-care, because it's all about the intention both going in and out of an intimate experience. From snack buckets to breathing exercises, we hope you find inspiration to add some new forms of precare and aftercare to your routines :) And if you're looking for a nice beverage to sip on as you lay out your toys, head on over to seggswater.com and use code DTFAM for a discount! If you're 21+, head to Viiahemp.com and use the code DTFAM to receive 15% off. PLEASE support our show and tell them we sent you. This fall, enhance your everyday with VIIA.

Hey DT Fam, Abby from Vibeslut & the Rat Girls Podcast is back on our show this week! We love her, she always has us laughing. We recap her wedding, which she made sure to stick to what was true to her! And we also dive into the healthy aspects of our respective relationships including: growing and learning from past mistakes, showing commitment to healing right off the bat, and recognizing your partner's healing as well. Also - TEAMA! Tune in to find out what that's all about, but Cami is already practicing it every night with her boo. Don't forget to use code DOUBLETEAM at Joymode for savings on your next order! Get 20% off your order at seggswater.com with code DTFAM :)

Welcome back DT Fam! You all see the furballs in and out of the frame on many episodes, so we decided to do an episode giving you all formal introductions including their signs, their ages, and their quirks. Also, our favorite stories. Happy Sunday :)

Welcome back for part 2, so glad to have you here :) Also, Happy Halloween! In this episode, we cover the day of and post party - from tear down, to the conversation Cami had with her man afterwards. And if you're looking to recruit some hot, open-minded people for your next play party, might we recommend Feeld? Thank you guys for tuning in, and we will be back next week! Get bigger, better tasting loads with Popstar! Use code DTFAM at checkout :) Up your stamina with Joymode, use code DOUBLETEAM for savings!

Hello DT Fam! Before we found ourselves in monogamous relationships, we planned.... a birthday play party :) By the time we met our respective boyfriends, we of course could not cancel, so we proceeded with what is probably our last play party for quite some time (not sure what the future holds there!) This episode dives into the planning, the requirements we had for our guests, and the conversations we had with our partners beforehand. Come back next week to hear how it went! Download Feeld on the App Store or Google Play! Get a boost with Joymode! Go to tryjoymode.com and use code DOUBLETEAM! Who doesn't want bigger loads? Check out Popstar and use code DTFAM for 20% off!

Hey DT Fam! Niki is here this week to talk through some practices she uses to overcome those pesky intrusive thoughts that bombard the mind when our fears start taking over. From scrunching your toes to visualizing kicking them to the curb, we hope these help you get back to a place where you aren't believing in the worst-case scenario. Also, RE: ChaptGPT affirmations, here are some good ones :) "I acknowledge my thoughts, but they do not define me." "I am in control of my mind and my reactions." "I can let go of thoughts that do not serve me." Cami will see you all for the next Vanilla Sunday!

Hey DT Fam :) Just the two of us this week, and we recap Niki's trip to Italy and her long-distance relationship. What is it like maintaining a relationship when there's a nine-hour time difference and a fourteen-hour plane ride away? What does communication look like? How long is it sustainable? Cami also discusses aspects of her long-distance relationship, although they are only about a three-hour drive apart, luckily. Check out our favorite gummies at VIIA Hemp and use code DTFAM for savings! Get bigger loads with Popstar! Use code DTFAM for 20% off your first order :) Looking for your next pocket pal? Save 10% on your next fleshlight with Promo Code DTF at fleshlight.sjv.io/DoubleTeamed Use our code AFF-DTF at Lovehoney for savings on your next purchase!

Welcome back DT Fam :) Mackie Swan, CEO of Woo More Play, joins us today on the pod! We met her at an event over the summer and really hit it off, she's absolutely hilarious. We talk about surging s*x drives after 30, maintaining a baseline libido, her contributions to the sexual wellness space, and more. Be sure to check out WooMorePlay.com and use code DTFAM for 20% off. Increase your stamina in the bedroom with JoyMode! Go to Tryjoymode.com and use code DOUBLETEAM. Get bigger loads with Popstar! Head over to popstarlabs.com and use code DTFAM :) Test your vaginal biome with Evvy! Use code DTFAM at evvy.com for savings.

Hey DT Fam :) Cami missed her last Vanilla Sunday, because she was recovering from her most recent procedure - a nose job! She discusses the surgery, recovery, what the pain has been like, her boyfriend's opinion, and how she is liking the results. This is part two to her previous Vanilla Sunday, enjoy!

Welcome back DT Fam :) Tia from the Sexy Biz Babe Podcast is co-hosting this episode with me today, and we interview the infamous and powerful Kimi Inch. She is a professional Domme, somatic therapist, and motivational spanker. We dive into the energy behind power exchange, ego-driven dominance and submission, her journey from DJ to Domme, and the wildest requests she's received in her line of work. Check out her website, And More Presents, to learn more about her!

Welcome back DT Fam :) Dr. Joli Hamilton joins us today, and she is a jealousy researcher, so of course we had a ton of questions about handling jealousy in now monogamous relationships. The methods can definitely look different when comparing non-monogamous vs monogamous containers. She also takes us through her apology ladder, which is a great tool to ensure you're apologizing effectively. She was a wealth of knowledge, and we can't wait to record with her again. Up your stamina in the bedroom with Joymode, head on over to tryjoymode.com and use code DOUBLETEAM for savings!

Welcome back DT Fam :) This week, two of our favorite women entrepreneurs join us - Stephanie and Hannah from Personal Fav. You've probably heard us sing their praises before, we absolutely love their products and their formula, specifically Whet. It's been a while since we've caught up with them, so we talk about their recent product launches, their experience dealing with male investors for sexual wellness products, and their family's reactions to starting a lubricant brand. Hope you all enjoy this conversation as much as we did, and don't forget to use code FAVDT at checkout :) TRY JOYMODE! Head on over to tryjoymode.com and use code DOUBLETEAM for savings on this performance enhancing supplement for men. Try High Love! Go to VIIAhemp.com and use code DTFAM at checkout :)

Hey DT Fam :) Just Niki this week, with Dr. Kate Balestrieri - psychologist, sex therapist, and founder of Modern Intimacy. We dive into her podcast and work in the sex therapy space, as well as feminine rage and the emotional labor that often falls on women during an intimate experience. Not to mention - what to do when someone does something that maybe you do typically enjoy, but should have warranted consent. Be sure to check out her Instagram and Get Naked with Dr. Kate! Head on over to tryjoymode.com and use code DOUBLETEAM for savings on Joymode's performance booster for men!

Welcome back DT Fam! Niki's got some random, funny stories from high school, college, and her divorce. They're not sexual so they're not ones we've shared on the pod, and now here is a random little episode housing these moments. Hope you get a kick out of them, and definitely always remember to lock your front doors at night.

Hey DT Fam :) Our favorite therapist is back, Nicoletta Heidegger from Sluts and Scholars! We ask her for her advice as we transition back to monogamy after spending the past few years exploring non-monogamy. Why does safety feel so weird? What if we get bored? We had a ton of questions to say the least. She is so wise and insightful, we hope you all love her as much as we do. Visit Vazoplex.com and transform your intimate experiences with “DTFAM” for 20% off. Let Vazoplex guide you to a realm of infinite delight.

Hey DT Fam! This bonus episode features Suzannah Weiss, sex writer, educator, and author of Subjectified: Becoming a Sexual Subject. Her book dives into changing the narrative around how women can shift from the object of their sex lives, to the subject of their sex lives. This was a deeply insightful conversation, and be sure to get your copy of her book on Amazon today!