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Best podcasts about nicoletta heidegger

Latest podcast episodes about nicoletta heidegger

Sex Ed with DB
Should I have sex with my ex?

Sex Ed with DB

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 11, 2025 12:08


In It's Complicated, Meryl Streep's character finds herself tangled back up with her slimy ex—familiar, messy, but kind of irresistible. In this week's bonus ep, DB dives into the real-life version of this quandary and answers a listener's question about sleeping with their ex. Why are we drawn back to people we've already left? Can it ever actually work?  Mentioned in this episode: It's Complicated with Nicoletta Heidegger, LMFT: Rom-Com Vom CONNECT WITH US Instagram: @sexedwithdbpodcast TikTok: @sexedwithdbTwitter: @sexedwithdb Threads: @sexedwithdbpodcast YouTube: Sex Ed with DB ROM-COM VOM SEASON 11 SPONSORS: Lion's Den, Uberlube, Magic Wand, & Arya. Get discounts on all of DB's favorite things here! GET IN TOUCH Email: sexedwithdb@gmail.comSubscribe to our newsletter for behind-the-scenes content and answers to your sexual health questions! FOR SEXUAL HEALTH PROFESSIONALS Check out DB's workshop: "Building A Profitable Online Sexual Health Brand" ABOUT THE SHOW Sex Ed with DB is your go-to podcast for smart, science-backed sex education—delivering trusted insights from top experts on sex, sexuality, and pleasure. Empowering, inclusive, and grounded in real science, it's the sex ed you've always wanted. SEASON 11 TEAM Creator, Host & Executive Producer: Danielle Bezalel (DB) Producer: Sadie Lidji Communications Lead: Cathren Cohen Growth Marketing Manager: Wil Williams Logo Design: Evie Plumb (@cliterallythebest)

Sex Ed with DB
It's Complicated: Sex With Your Ex and Messy Mistakes

Sex Ed with DB

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 9, 2025 45:10


In It's Complicated, Meryl Streep is a thriving divorcée caught between her sleazy ex-husband and a soft-spoken architect. What starts as a steamy rekindling quickly turns into a chaotic spiral of questionable decision making. This week, we're unpacking what It's Complicated gets right about midlife sex, healing, and regret — and what it leaves out when it comes to agency and growth. Plus: how Nicoletta's real-life work with couples and families adds context to the emotional wreckage onscreen. GUEST DETAILS Nicoletta Heidegger, MA., MEd, is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and Sexologist. She specializes in sex therapy as well as Equine Assisted Psychotherapy (EAP). Nicoletta received her BA in Psychology from Stanford University, her MA in Clinical Psychology from Pepperdine University, and her Masters of Education in Human Sexuality from Widener University. She also provides coaching, consulting, education, and retreats to folks around the world. When not seeing clients, Nicoletta creates content via her award nominated show Sluts and Scholars: a sex positive, shame-free, educational podcast for professionals who prioritize pleasure. NicolettavHeidegger.com Slutsandscholars.com insta @TherapywithNicoletta @Slutsandscholars CONNECT WITH US Instagram: @sexedwithdbpodcast TikTok: @sexedwithdbTwitter: @sexedwithdb Threads: @sexedwithdbpodcast YouTube: Sex Ed with DB ROM-COM VOM SEASON 11 SPONSORS: Lion's Den, Uberlube, Magic Wand, & Arya. Get discounts on all of DB's favorite things here! GET IN TOUCH Email: sexedwithdb@gmail.comSubscribe to our newsletter for behind-the-scenes content and answers to your sexual health questions! FOR SEXUAL HEALTH PROFESSIONALS Check out DB's workshop: "Building A Profitable Online Sexual Health Brand" ABOUT THE SHOW Sex Ed with DB is your go-to podcast for smart, science-backed sex education—delivering trusted insights from top experts on sex, sexuality, and pleasure. Empowering, inclusive, and grounded in real science, it's the sex ed you've always wanted. SEASON 11 TEAM Creator, Host & Executive Producer: Danielle Bezalel (DB) Producer: Sadie Lidji Communications Lead: Cathren Cohen Logo Design: Evie Plumb (@cliterallythebest)

Double Teamed with Cami and Niki
Back to Monogamy ft. Nicoletta

Double Teamed with Cami and Niki

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 5, 2024 58:03


Hey DT Fam :) Our favorite therapist is back, Nicoletta Heidegger from Sluts and Scholars! We ask her for her advice as we transition back to monogamy after spending the past few years exploring non-monogamy. Why does safety feel so weird? What if we get bored? We had a ton of questions to say the least. She is so wise and insightful, we hope you all love her as much as we do. Visit Vazoplex.com and transform your intimate experiences with “DTFAM” for 20% off. Let Vazoplex guide you to a realm of infinite delight.

Guys We F****d
WHO'S F*CKING THE HORSE? ft. Nicoletta Heidegger

Guys We F****d

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 28, 2024 103:00 Transcription Available


Happy Friday, Fckers! On today's episode, your favorite introspective comedy big sisters, CORINNE FISHER and KRYSTYNA HUTCHINSON read an email from a listener whose best friend is being haunted by the ghost of her dead boyfriend. Well, technically ex-boyfriend. C&K then welcome psychotherapist and sexologist, NICOLETTA HEIDEGGER to the studio. Together they discuss the healing potential of working in partnership with therapy animals, lack of attunement with the person you're sleeping with, using the power of pleasure to create change in your life, and a deep dive into the sexual topic most people are terrified to discuss.   Follow Nicoletta on Instagram @TherapyWithNicoletta   Follow GWF on all social media platforms: @GuysWeFcked     Follow CORINNE FISHER: @PhilanthropyGal Get tickets for Corinne's EYE OF THE TIGER TOUR at www.corinnefisher.com   Follow KRYSTYNA HUTCHINSON: @KrystynaHutch Sign up for Krystyna's Patreon at www.Patreon.com/KrystynaHutchinson   Follow ERIC FRETTY @EricFretty   Want to write in for advice? Send your dilemma to:  SorryAboutLastNightShow@gmail.com    Watch full episodes of GWF on YouTube www.YouTube.com/GuysWeFcked     MUSIC FEATURED ON TODAY'S EPISODE: Dan Bern Kids prayer https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2wv1M5YgksgSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In Your Pants with Dr. Susie G
Signs You Need a Sex Therapist: Expert Advice with Nicoletta Heidegger

In Your Pants with Dr. Susie G

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 7, 2024 24:03


Today we're talking about the benefits of seeing a sex therapist. You'll learn what a sex therapist is, how they can support your sexual wellbeing, and the signs when you should reach out to one. We cover genital and pelvic pain in people with vaginas and penises and how incorporating play into sex can actually reduce pain and enhance pleasure. Lastly, our guest shares her unique therapeutic approach with horses and how she incorporates equine therapy with discussions around sexual topics and intimacy. This episode is truly one of a kind. If you enjoy listening or watching this podcast, be sure to share your favorite episodes and leave a raving review wherever you watch or listen. Your ongoing support is what keeps the content coming! About Nicoletta Heidegger Nicoletta Heidegger is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist practicing in Los Angeles. She received her BA in Psychology from Stanford University, her MA in Clinical Psychology from Pepperdine University, and her Masters of Education in Human Sexuality from Widener University. When not working with clients, she teaches seminars and classes to help others learn about sexual and mental health. CONNECT WITH NICOLETTA HEIDEGGER: Website: https://www.nicolettavheidegger.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/slutsandscholars https://www.instagram.com/therapywithnicoletta/ Twitter: @slutsscholars https://x.com/slutsscholars?lang=en Podcast Chapters 00:00 Intro 01:53 What is sex therapy? 02:43 Signs and symptoms that you should see a sex therapist 04:57 Shame and stigma around sexuality that we should challenge 07:53 Sexual pain, vulvovaginal pain in women 09:12 Causes of pelvic pain in men and women 10:20 Hormone mediated vestibulodynia and vaginismus 12:39 Strategies and resources to support those with pelvic and sexual pain 15:50 Play is essential for pleasure and sexual satisfaction 18:25 Sex and horses (equine therapy) 22:30 Connect with Nicoletta Heidegger RESOURCES MENTIONED ON TODAY'S SHOW: International Society for the Study of Women's Sexual Health: https://www.isswsh.org/ Dr. Lisa Valle, MD https://www.oasiswomenssexualfunctioncenter.org/dr-lisa-valle Dr. Joshua Gonzalez, MD: https://joshuagonzalezmd.com/ Tightlipped: https://www.tightlipped.org/ OTHER RESOURCES Free sex and pelvic pain resources https://drsusieg.com/resources Online Pelvic Pain Relief Program for Men https://drsusieg.com/pelvic-pain-in-men-online-program CONNECT WITH DR. SUSIE AND TEAM: Website: https://drsusieg.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dr.susieg/ and https://www.instagram.com/lainie_ot/ Disclaimer: This information is not intended to substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of a healthcare professional with any questions you may have regarding treatment, medications/supplements, or any medical diagnoses. This information is intended for educational purposes only and is in no way to substitute the advice of a licensed healthcare professional. Hashtags #SexTherapy #SexualWellbeing #SexualHealth #Therapy #MentalHealth #Intimacy #PelvicPain #SexualHealing #PainRelief #EquineTherapy #SexualEducation #NicolettaHeidegger #SexTherapist #PlayForPleasure #PelvicPain #Vaginismus #SexualPain #PelvicFloorTherapy #PelvicHealth #Asheville #NorthCarolina

Birds and Bees Don't Fck
You Can Be Smart AND Slutty (w/ Nicoletta Heidegger)

Birds and Bees Don't Fck

Play Episode Listen Later May 22, 2024 57:13


Nicoletta Heidegger is a therapist, sexologist, equine assisted psychotherapist, educator and host of the podcast ‘Sluts and Scholars' originally from the porn capital of the world (aka the San Fernando Valley) where thankfully she grew up in a sex positive home that lead to being the sexy powerhouse that she is today! Some things we said... “We all have the capacity to be woo girls” "The San Fernando Valley: From Porn Capital to Podcast" “So like a pole at the park, like a bed post, a lamp post, sofa arm, you know, like things that were things that were long and hard that I could rub up against.” "Breaking Down Sexual Shame and Judgment" “I had a curious mind about it and just an active imagination. I had a lot of fantasies when I was younger and self-pleasure and fantasizing became a big part of my young life.” "The Lack of Sexuality Education for Medical Professionals" "I don't know, it's just like dare to resist drugs and yeah. Let's look at it." "And so she was the one that was like, yeah, we should be teaching our kids about masturbation. It's a natural part of having a body and we should be teaching kids about that." ... plus so much more. Watch it on YouTube to get the full experience!   Where to find Nicoletta: Intsta: @slutsandscholars Podcast: https://www.slutsandscholars.com/ Website: https://www.nicolettavheidegger.com/   Where to find Arielle: Insta: @ariellezadok // @birdsandbeesdontfck Freebies, classes, OnlyFans and more: https://stan.store/ArielleZadok Website: https://www.birdsandbeesdontfck.com/   K, love you, byeeeee

Sex Ed with DB
The Sluts and Scholars Podcast: Peg the Patriarchy with Luna Matatas

Sex Ed with DB

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 1, 2024 11:06


Today we are sharing a preview from one of our favorite podcasts that we think you'll enjoy. On Sluts and Scholars, therapist and sexologist Nicoletta Heidegger talks with diverse professionals about all things pleasure and sexuality. In this preview, strap in for some strap on information with Sex and Pleasure Educator Luna Matatas. Nicoletta and Luna talk about pegging, anal play, and why it is so hard to just receive pleasure. Join these slutty scholars as they help to make your sex smarter, and your smarts sexier. Listen to Sluts and Scholars at https://www.slutsandscholars.com/ and follow them on Insta @slutsandscholars!

Nope! We're Not Monogamous
How I Learned to Embrace Abundance in Non-Monogamous Relationships, Ep. 69

Nope! We're Not Monogamous

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 22, 2024 49:49 Transcription Available


Hey friends! We're going on a journey with Nicoletta Heidegger, therapist, sexologist, and host of the "Sluts and Scholars" podcast, as we chat about the world of non-monogamy on my latest podcast episode. Nicoletta opened up about her 7-year exploration from monogamy to embracing a non-monogamous lifestyle, sharing the raw challenges she encountered along the way. From aligning with partners who share her vision to battling the need to feel "special" and dismantling a scarcity mindset, Nicoletta's story is both vulnerable and profoundly relatable.In this episode, you'll discover:Some of the joys and challenges of navigating non-monogamous relationships.Some Strategies for overcoming common hurdles in the transition to non-monogamy.The importance of building connections with seasoned individuals in the non-monogamous community.Techniques for nervous system regulation to achieve relationship harmony.The critical role of self-awareness in cultivating healthy and fulfilling relationships.Want to get in touch with Nicoletta?@SlutsonScholars@therapywithnicolettahttps://slutsscholars.libsyn.com/Resources in this episodeCheck out the book The Polyamory Paradox by Irene Mourning for insights into somatic nervous system healing and finding confidence in non-monogamy.Explore the concept of Circles of Sexuality by searching online for resources and tools to understand your sexual narrative, beliefs, and values.Learn about equine-assisted psychotherapy and its benefits by researching local therapy centers or practitioners who offer this unique form of therapy. To claim your free clarity chat with Ellecia visit https://elleciapaine.podia.com/clarity-chat Do you feel like you could use some help with your relationships? Get on a free call with Ellecia to see how she can help you move through the challenges of jealousy, fear, anxiety, and insecurities in a way that strengthens your relationships, deepens your trust, and communication, and leaves you feeling confident. https://elleciapaine.podia.com/clarity-chatSupport the show

Owning Your Sexual Self
195. Exploring Equine Therapy with Nicoletta Heidegger

Owning Your Sexual Self

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 5, 2024 33:03


Hello! On this week's episode of the Owning Your Sexual Self Podcast, we're talking about equine therapy! I've got on Nicoletta Heidegger who is a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist and Sexologist who specializes in trauma-informed sex therapy for diverse populations as well as Equine Assisted Psychotherapy. I loved this conversation, and I'm so excited to share it with you all!You'll hear:Nicoletta's personal storyWhat equine therapy isWhy you might benefit from equine therapyThe different ways it can be usedWhy somatic work is so beneficial to be practiced in addition to talk therapyThank you so much for listening!  Don't forget to share on your social media and tag me if you loved this episode! See you next week!ResourcesSpecial Spirit - www.specialspirit.orgEagala - www.eagala.orgNatual Lifemanship - naturallifemanship.comConnect with Nicoletta!Afternoon Delight Live Event: ADLive.Eventbrite.comInstagram: @slutsandscholars or @therapywithnicolettaWebsite: NicolettaVHeidegger.comSupport the showConnect with Rachel!Instagram: @The_Rachel_MaineWebsite: https://linktr.ee/WellnessSexpertiseYouTube: YouTube.com/@OwningYourSexualSelfFacebook: Rachel MaineEmail: therachelmaine@gmail.com

The Laughing Couple
S4 E197 - Time to put your sex hat on

The Laughing Couple

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 30, 2024 46:42


Life is hard, work is hard, parenting is hard, marriage is hard... what's easy, is to neglect the non squeaky wheel known as your partner; and what that often looks like is a lack of intimacy. Because this is normal (and it is) we've brought in an expert to provide you with a new perspective on the importance of intimacy and pleasure; not only for your partnership but for yourself. Nicoletta Heidegger is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and Sexologist practicing in Los Angeles, California. She provides coaching, consulting, education, retreats & creates weekly content via her hit show Sluts and Scholars: a sex positive, shame-free, educational podcast for professionals who like pleasure. Sluts & Scholars COUPLY: Get your first month FREE + 30% off your first years subscription with the following TLC exclusive link : Couply.io/TLC This episode is brought to you by STORYWORTH - Save $10 on your first purchase at storyworth.com/tlc FACTOR: Head to FACTORMEALS.com/tlc50 to get 50% off. LUME: get $5 off off your Starter Pack (that's over 40% off) with promo code TLC at LumeDeodorant.com KIWICO: Get your first month FREE on ANY crate line at kiwico.com/TLC Unlock brain-building play with KiwiCo Panda Crate! Get 50% off your first month with code TLC at kiwico.com/panda Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Reimagining Love
The Power of Play: Embodying Sex Positivity with Nicoletta Heidegger

Reimagining Love

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 16, 2024 51:50


Therapist and sexologist Nicoletta Heidegger joins Reimagining Love for an expansive conversation about all things sexuality. Nicoletta's approach shows the power of sex-positivity — encouraging curiosity about how everyone can learn to have better sex and, in doing so, build deeper connections to our senses, our relationships, and ourselves.Learn more about Nicoletta's work:https://www.nicolettavheidegger.com/Nicoletta's Sex and Scholars Podcast:https://podcasts.apple.com/ie/podcast/sluts-and-scholars/id1223781930Tickets for Afternoon Delight: A Live Podcast Experience on Feb. 10th, 2024:https://www.eventbrite.com/e/afternoon-delight-a-live-podcast-experience-tickets-767718646137Order Dr. Alexandra's new book, Love Every Day:https://bookshop.org/p/books/love-every-day-365-relational-self-awareness-practices-to-help-your-relationship-heal-grow-and-thrive-alexandra-solomon/19970421?ean=9781683736530Subscribe to Dr. Alexandra's Newsletter:https://dralexandrasolomon.com/subscribe/Submit a Listener Question:https://form.jotform.com/212295995939274 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Couply Podcast
All Your Sex Questions Answered | Nicoletta Heidegger

Couply Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 9, 2024 54:34


In this episode we have Nicoletta Heidegger, a licensed sex therapist and marriage and family therapist, answer all of YOUR questions about sex. Meet Nicoletta and the Couply team! Afternoon Delight is Taking Place at Neue House on Feb 10th in Los Angeles Get tickets here: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/afternoo... 00:00 Introduction and Background 08:41 Exploring BDSM in a Relationship 17:15 Dealing with Desire Discrepancy in a Relationship 26:23 Struggling with Orgasm and Pleasure 32:06 Discussing Erogenous Zones and Pleasure within Christian Values 38:47 Adding Spice to the Bedroom 39:38 Exploring Different Sexual Interests 41:01 Communicating with Your Partner 41:28 Learning How to Perform a Prostate Massage 44:25 Understanding Boundaries and Preferences 47:39 Addressing Oral Sex Preferences Follow Nicoletta on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/therapywith... Join Nicoletta's mailing list: https://www.nicolettavheidegger.com/ Download the Couply app here: https://couply.page.link/podcast --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/couply/message

Digital Social Hour
Nicoletta Heidegger On Equine Therapy, Recovering from Sexual Trauma & Erotic Blueprint | DSH #215

Digital Social Hour

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 5, 2024 30:32


On today's episode of Digital Social Hour, Nicoletta Heidegger comes on the show to talk about her feelings towards the adult industry, what exactly equine therapy is, and what goes into her job as a sexologist. APPLY TO BE ON THE PODCAST: https://forms.gle/qXvENTeurx7Xn8Ci9 BUSINESS INQUIRIES/SPONSORS: Jenna@DigitalSocialHour.com SPONSORS: Opus Pro: https://www.opus.pro/?via=DSH Deposyt Payment Processing: https://www.deposyt.com/seankelly LISTEN ON: Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/digital-social-hour/id1676846015 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/5Jn7LXarRlI8Hc0GtTn759 Sean Kelly Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/seanmikekelly/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Digital Social Hour
Nicoletta Heidegger On Equine Therapy, Recovering from Sexual Trauma & Erotic Blueprint | DSH #215

Digital Social Hour

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 5, 2024 30:31


On today's episode of Digital Social Hour, Nicoletta Heidegger comes on the show to talk about her feelings towards the adult industry, what exactly equine therapy is, and what goes into her job as a sexologist. APPLY TO BE ON THE PODCAST: https://forms.gle/qXvENTeurx7Xn8Ci9 BUSINESS INQUIRIES/SPONSORS: Jenna@DigitalSocialHour.com SPONSORS: Opus Pro: https://www.opus.pro/?via=DSH Deposyt Payment Processing: https://www.deposyt.com/seankelly LISTEN ON: Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/digital-social-hour/id1676846015 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/5Jn7LXarRlI8Hc0GtTn759 Sean Kelly Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/seanmikekelly/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Mental Illness Happy Hour
#670 BDSM And Trauma - LMFT Nicoletta Heidegger

Mental Illness Happy Hour

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 17, 2023 113:41


Nicoletta Heidegger is an LMFT who focuses on human sexuality and BDSM for healing. She talks about how we can often deal with our trauma by exploring our kink and mapping out our own erotic blueprint. Links To Nicoletta's Work:Nicoletta Heidegger Website: https://www.nicolettavheidegger.com/aboutNicoletta Heidegger Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/therapywithnicoletta/Sluts & Scholars Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/slutsandscholarsSluts & Scholars Website: https://www.slutsandscholars.com/Listen On: Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Stitcher, Player.FmWAYS TO HELP THE MIHH PODCASTSubscribe via iTunes and leave a review. It costs nothing. https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/mental-illness-happy-hour/id427377900?mt=2Spread the word via social media. It costs nothing.Our website is www.mentalpod.com our FB is www.Facebook.com/mentalpod and our Twitter and Instagram are both @Mentalpod Become a much-needed Patreon monthly-donor (with occasional rewards) for as little as $1/month at www.Patreon.com/mentalpod Become a one-time or monthly donor via PayPal at https://mentalpod.com/donateYou can also donate via Zelle (make payment to mentalpod@gmail.com) To donate via Venmo make payment to @Mentalpod Try Our Sponsor's Products/ServicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Sex and Love
When Sex Hurts

Sex and Love

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 13, 2023 32:04


Sex shouldn't hurt unless you want it to, but that's not the case for a lot of people. The fact is, 1 in 4 individuals, yeah 25% of people, experience some kind of pain that affects the quality of their sex. As we'll discuss on today's show, pain can be caused by several factors, which is why I've called in sexual pain expert and host of the Sluts and Scholars Podcast, Nicoletta Heidegger.Nicoletta Heidegger is a Licensed Marriage and Family therapist and Sexologist practicing in Los Angeles, California. She specializes in trauma-informed sex therapy for diverse populations and is also an Equine Assisted Psychotherapy (EAP).  She provides coaching, consulting, education, and retreats to folks around the world.When not seeing clients, Nicoletta creates weekly content via her hit show Sluts and Scholars: a sex-positive, shame-free, educational podcast for professionals who like pleasure. Nicoletta contributes regularly to a variety of columns, podcasts, classrooms, and blogs about sex, relationships, and mental health.Thank you to BetterHelp, an online therapy platform that has already helped millions, for sponsoring the show. Get 10% off your first month of therapy by visiting www.betterhelp.com/dremily or by using code DREMILY at check out.If you like what you hear, don't forget to leave me a five-star review. Your positive feedback helps me grow so that we can continue having these engaging, informative, and fun conversations. If you enjoyed this episode, be sure to follow & subscribe so that you'll be notified when a new episode is released.If you have a question or a story you would like to share, you can submit it at www.loveandlibido.com. You can either email in your story or you can record your submission, whatever is easier for you. We always give you the option to have your voice professionally disguised with our fancy editing software, so no worries if you would like to remain anonymous. Or if you're loud and proud, and you want to tell us who are as you share your question, that is fine too. We are also collecting story submissions as well. You can follow me across all the social media channels @dremilyjamea. That's usually the best place to see what information we are looking for as it relates to topics we are discussing on the show.And don't forget to check out my online workshop, Anatomy of Desire: 5 Secrets to Lasting Intimacy. Visit www.emilyjamea.com/workshop for your free sample. Subscribers can use code HALFOFF for 50% off.

Double Teamed with Cami and Niki
Introducing: Sluts and Scholars ft. Nicoletta Heidegger

Double Teamed with Cami and Niki

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 13, 2023 10:57


Hey DT Fam :) Today we are sharing a preview from one of our favorite podcasts that we think you'll enjoy. On Sluts and Scholars, therapist and sexologist Nicoletta Heidegger talks with diverse professionals about all things pleasure and sexuality. In this preview, strap in for some strap on information with Sex and Pleasure Educator Luna Matatas. Nicoletta and Luna talk about pegging, anal play, and why it is so hard to just receive pleasure. Join these slutty scholars as they help to make your sex smarter, and your smarts sexier. Listen to Sluts and Scholars at https://www.slutsandscholars.com/ and follow them on Insta @slutsandscholars!

Bedside
How To Get Your Needs Met with Nicoletta Heidegger

Bedside

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 1, 2023 60:22 Transcription Available


How important is sex in a relationship? How often should we being "doing it"? Should I stay or should I go? Today sex therapist Nicoletta Heidegger, host of Sluts & Scholars podcast, joins me on Bedside to chat all things sex therapy, getting your needs met, and defining what a healthy sex life looks like. LA cuties we're having a VISION BOARDING MEETUP!!! Saturday 11/4

Erotic Stories
Erotic Stories Presents: From The Sluts and Scholars Podcast: Peg the Patriarchy with Luna Matatas

Erotic Stories

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 23, 2023 7:50


Today we are sharing a preview from one of our favorite podcasts that we think you'll enjoy. On Sluts and Scholars, therapist and sexologist Nicoletta Heidegger talks with diverse professionals about all things pleasure and sexuality. In this preview, strap in for some strap on information with Sex and Pleasure Educator Luna Matatas. Nicoletta and Luna talk about pegging, anal play, and why it is so hard to just receive pleasure. Join these slutty scholars as they help to make your sex smarter, and your smarts sexier. Listen to Sluts and Scholars at https://www.slutsandscholars.com/ and follow them on Insta @slutsandscholars This show is part of the Spreaker Prime Network, if you are interested in advertising on this podcast, contact us at https://www.spreaker.com/show/5923896/advertisement

This Is Not About Your Body
This Is Not About Your Body | Cultivating a Pleasure-Able Body with Nicoletta Heidegger | S2E35

This Is Not About Your Body

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 17, 2023 66:22


Welcome back to This Is Not About Your Body! This week I'm joined by Nicoletta Heidegger, a licensed marriage and family therapist, and sexologist. Nicoletta hosts the Sluts and Scholars podcast and helps people with issues around human sexuality and pleasure in mental health. Find more from Nicoletta on her podcast "Sluts and Scholars" and on her Instagram and website: https://www.slutsandscholars.com/ https://www.instagram.com/slutsandscholars/ - - - - - - My book, "Body Neutral: A Revolutionary Guide to Overcoming Body Image Issues" is OUT NOW! Pick up a copy from your favorite retailer today! I've also released a new course which pairs nicely with the book which you can purchase from my site: The Body Neutrality Blueprint https://www.jessikneeland.com/product-page/BodyNeutralityBlueprint - - - - - - My e-book is out! Grab a copy of Sustainable Movement here: https://www.jessikneeland.com/product-page/sustainable-movement-a-body-neutral-guide-to-health-fitness Intro to the 4 Body Image Avatars: https://youtu.be/SsxQ9qO0-a4 Get my full Body Image Avatar Guide here: https://www.jessikneeland.com/product-page/the-avatar-guide Find more resources here: https://jessikneeland.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jessikneeland/ Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/jessikneeland Buy Me A Coffee: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/dgrRFaBYO

The Witching Hour with Patti Negri
The Power of Pleasure with Nicoletta Heidegger

The Witching Hour with Patti Negri

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 7, 2023 41:55


This week your favorite good witch Patti Negri welcomes psychotherapist, sexologist, educator, podcaster and good friend Nicoletta Heidegger to the show. They're going to talk about the power of pleasure, body confidence, sex magick, and how you can get more connected to your intimate life. All that plus Where's Patti, The Willow Report an all new magick lesson on Residual Energy. Welcome to an all new episode of The Witching Hour.  #NicolettaHeidegger #Sexology #sextherapist #SlutsAndScholars 

Private Parts Unknown (FKA Reality Bytes)
From The Sluts & Scholars Podcast: Peg the Patriarchy with Luna Matatas

Private Parts Unknown (FKA Reality Bytes)

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 21, 2023 12:49


Today I'm sharing a preview of another great podcast from the Pleasure Podcasts network that I think you'll enjoy. On Sluts and Scholars, therapist and sexologist Nicoletta Heidegger talks with diverse professionals about all things pleasure and sexuality. In this preview, strap in for some strap-on information with sex and pleasure educator Luna Matatas. Nicoletta and Luna talk about pegging, anal play, and why it is so hard to just receive pleasure. Join these slutty scholars as they help to make your sex smarter, and your smarts sexier. For more from Sluts and Scholars: Listen to the rest of the episode on Apple Podcasts 216 Peg the Patriarchy with Luna Matatas  Listen to Sluts and Scholars wherever you listen to podcasts Check out their website for all relevant links slutsandscholars.com Follow Sluts and Scholars on Instagram @slutsandscholars Psst, Courtney has an OnlyFans, which is a horny way to support the show: onlyfans.com/cocopeepshow Private Parts Unknown is a proud member of the Pleasure Podcast network. This episode is brought to you by: https://linktr.ee/PrivatePartsUnknownAds If you love this episode, please leave us a 5-star rating and sexy review! —> ratethispodcast.com/private  Subscribe to the Private Parts Unknown YouTube channel to watch full-length video episodes and clips from the show. youtube.com/privatepartsunknown Psst... sign up for our Private Parts Unknown newsletter for bonus content related to our episodes! privatepartsunknown.substack.com Let's be friends on social media! Follow the show on Instagram @privatepartsunknown and Twitter @privatepartsun. Connect with host Courtney Kocak @courtneykocak on Instagram and Twitter. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Multiamory: Rethinking Modern Relationships
Multiamory Presents Sluts and Scholars

Multiamory: Rethinking Modern Relationships

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 2, 2023 13:30


Today we are sharing a preview from one of our favorite podcasts that we think you'll enjoy. On Sluts and Scholars, therapist and sexologist Nicoletta Heidegger talks with diverse professionals about all things pleasure and sexuality. In this preview, strap in for some strap on information with Sex and Pleasure Educator Luna Matatas. Nicoletta and Luna talk about pegging, anal play, and why it is so hard to just receive pleasure. Join these slutty scholars as they help to make your sex smarter, and your smarts sexier. Listen to Sluts and Scholars at https://www.slutsandscholars.com/ and follow them on Insta @slutsandscholars   Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Luvbites by Dr. Tara
#87 8 SEX QUESTIONS ANSWERED BY A SEX THERAPIST FT. NICOLETTA HEIDEGGER

Luvbites by Dr. Tara

Play Episode Listen Later May 23, 2023 34:48


We all have sex questions we want to be answered by a therapist! Nicoletta Heidegger is a Licensed MFT and Sexologist in LA. Nicoletta is also the host of her hit show Sluts and Scholars: a sex-positive, shame-free, educational podcast for professionals who like pleasure.Questions:1: My partner wants me to peg him but I am scared! What do I do? 2: I resent my partner for getting to their orgasm faster. What do I do? 3: How can I start to feel sexier and embrace my sexuality as I age? 4: The First time with my new partner was terrible. What do I do?5:I feel guilty about being too stressed to have sex with my partner. What do I do? 6: If my partner gets drunk and starts a fight - is that fight valid? 7: I am mothering my husband and am not sexually attracted to him. What do I do? 8: I am starting to want to explore my sexuality, but im in a committed relationship. What do I do?Oh! And, of course, we ended with a rapid round of "5 Quickies with Dr. Tara" Listen and learn, my luvs…oh, and have an orgasmic day!For more sex and relationship realness, follow me on social media @luvbites.co and subscribe to my JUICY newsletter at www.Luvbites.coListen to The Luvbites by Dr. Tara Podcast: https://www.luvbites.co/podcastLinks:Follow Nicoletta Heideggerhttps://www.instagram.com/slutsandscholars/?hl=enhttps://linktr.ee/SlutsandScholarsQuinn - Audio Storieshttps://apple.co/3x5WzOsMy E-Book “30 Days to My Best Sexy Self: A Sexual Mindfulness Journal”https://luvbitesbydrtara.gumroad.com/l/bestsexyselfTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@luvbites.coInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/luvbites.coFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/drtaraconsultApple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/luvbites-by-dr-tara/id1587042783Web: https://www.luvbites.co/ Senior Gang Bang Foot Jobs Questionable Turn OnsPelvic PainSex Therapy

Double Teamed with Cami and Niki
Pregnancy Fantasies & Ghost Sex

Double Teamed with Cami and Niki

Play Episode Listen Later May 11, 2023 69:50


Hello DT Fam! Today we welcome back one of our favorites, Nicoletta Heidegger from Sluts and Scholars. This episode is all about fantasies and exploring why we fantasize about a variety of things and experiences that we wouldn't perhaps normally want in the real world. We each share our own fantasies, and it ranges from blood and vampires, to pregnancies and harems, even sex with ghosts! Check out more of Sluts and Scholars & leave a five star review! You're invited to celebrate Masturbation May with us by learning new techniques for shame-free pleasure. Get 50% off Beducated's yearly pass using code DoubleTeamed. Visit https://beducate.me/pd2319-doubleteamed to get started :) And of course, all relevant links for our pod here.

American Sex Podcast
Peg the Patriarchy with Luna Matatas - From Sluts & Scholars Podcast

American Sex Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 27, 2023 12:07


Today we are sharing a preview from one of our favorite podcasts that we think you'll enjoy. On Sluts and Scholars, therapist and sexologist Nicoletta Heidegger talks with diverse professionals about all things pleasure and sexuality. In this preview, strap in for some strap on information with Sex and Pleasure Educator Luna Matatas. Nicoletta and Luna talk about pegging, anal play, and why it is so hard to just receive pleasure. Join these slutty scholars as they help to make your sex smarter, and your smarts sexier. Listen to Sluts and Scholars at https://www.slutsandscholars.com/ and follow them on Insta @slutsandscholars  

The Slutrepreneur Podcast
98. Sluts & Scholars

The Slutrepreneur Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 29, 2023 11:37


 Today we are sharing a preview of one of our favorite podcasts that we think you'll enjoy. On Sluts and Scholars, therapist and sexologist Nicoletta Heidegger talks with diverse professionals about all things pleasure and sexuality. In this preview, strap in for some strap-on information with Sex and Pleasure Educator Luna Matatas. Nicoletta and Luna talk about pegging, anal play, and why it is so hard to just receive pleasure. Join these slutty scholars as they help to make your sex smarter, and your smarts sexier. Listen to Sluts and Scholars at https://www.slutsandscholars.com/ and follow them on Insta @slutsandscholarsSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-slutrepreneur-podcast/exclusive-content

Broke Girl Therapy
I'm SO Wet Feat. Nicoletta Heidegger (Sluts and Scholars)

Broke Girl Therapy

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 21, 2022 64:10


Send us your stories to be featured on da pod https://www.brokegirltherapy.com/contact-page Stefanie Maegan Instagram & Twitter: @stefaniemaegan https://www.instagram.com/stefaniemaegan/ https://www.instagram.com/brokegirltherapy/ TikTok: @brokegirltherapy https://www.tiktok.com/@brokegirltherapy Nicoletta Heidegger Instagram: @slutsandscholars https://www.instagram.com/slutsandscholars/ Podcast: https://www.slutsandscholars.com/ https://www.nicolettavheidegger.com/ ---- Nightcap: Use code BROKEGIRL for 20% off your purchase https://nightcapit.com/ Nutrablast: Use code BrokeGirl20 to get 20% off your order! https://www.amazon.com/nutrablast FENTY SKIN: fentyskin.com code: BGT20 and get 20% off your Start'rs Bundle https://fentybeauty.com/products/fenty-skin-start-rs-full-size-bundle BetterHelp: As a listener, you'll get 10% off your first month by visiting our sponsor at BetterHelp.com/brokegirl Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Vaginas, Vulvas, and Vibrators
Overcoming Sexual Shame with Nicoletta Heidegger

Vaginas, Vulvas, and Vibrators

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 3, 2022 43:29


Sexual shame shows up for many of us in the bedroom. Nicoletta Heidegger joins us to talk about how to address shame in the bedroom, including tools to help you become more present in your body. We also chat about pleasure and desire discrepancies.  You can find Nicoletta on the Sluts and Scholars podcast and on IG @therapywithnicoletta. Learn more about the The Sex Ed You Wish You Had, a comprehensive adult sex education we all need HERE! Follow Jordan D'Nelle on Facebook and Instagram. Email: JordanDnelle@VaginasVulvasandVibrators.com Support the Vaginas, Vulvas, and Vibrators podcast! Leave an honest review on iTunes. Your ratings and reviews help this podcast impact more lives! Subscribe to Vaginas, Vulvas, and Vibrators on iTunes if you haven't already! *Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational and/or entertainment purposes only and is not a substitute for medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. jordandnelle.com nicolettavheidegger.com 

Bawdy Storytelling
Episode 241: ‘Homomentum‘ (Woody Shticks)

Bawdy Storytelling

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 9, 2022 35:13 Very Popular


Are you an overeager trick or treater? Well, pull up a urinal, because this week professor Woody Shticks is here to teach you the Ancient Art of Cruising! If you've ever wondered how to master having unbridled sex in public places, Woody's simple sexy procedures (up/down/flip-the-grip/stir/squeeze/repeat) and pro-tips like the tap back or the downhill doubledick will land you the Juiciest Johnson in no time. Are your knees sticky yet? #SubtletyIsForStraightPeople   About the Storyteller:   Woody Shticks is a comic stripper (comic, and stripper, usually at the same time) based in New Orleans. Follow on Instagram (mild), Twitter (spicy), or TikTok (ridiculous) @woodyshticks, or get into WoodyShticks.com!   Episode links:   Uberlube: Uberlube is a luxurious, high-grade silicone lubricant made from clean, body-friendly ingredients; it's just silicone with a little Vitamin E. Uberlube is Dixie's favorite lube, and they're offering Bawdy Storytelling listeners a special offer – 10% off and free shipping when you use my code “Dixie” at UberLube.com. That's 10% off and free shipping!   Check out this expert- led retreat at a private seaside ranch in Malibu: Looking to add more pleasure to your partnership and sex life? Craving a deeper connection with your partner but unsure where to start? We can help. Join sexologist Nicoletta Heidegger on September 24-25 for The Pleasure Connection, an educational retreat for couples. Their experts will guide you through developing core tools like effective communication, self-regulation, tips on reigniting the spark, and more. We're not taught how to have great sex and intimacy—but it's never too late to learn. More information at http:// thepleasureconnection.eventbrite.com   Bawdy Storytelling returns to live shows with Kinktacular on Sunday, September 25th! We're celebrating Folsom Street Fair - that most high of Holy Days for Kinksters - with our big Folsom Kinktacular. We're an Official Folsom Street Fair event, so join us after the Fair; we've got infamous perverts like Madison Young, Author Janet Hardy & more VIP tables for 2 or 4, Reserved and General Admission Seating, icy cold cocktails with dirty names and a seat for your butt after all that carousing in the sun at the Fair. Buy tickets for the live performance, or you can watch from anywhere on the Livestream: Tickets at https://bit.ly/BawdyKinktacular2022   Bawdy Storytelling's ‘Feels like the First Time' will be in Seattle on Saturday, October 15th and I've just confirmed 2 brand new storytellers for this show! Have you pitched me your story yet? It's been almost 3 years since we did Bawdy in Seattle, and now we've got a new venue, new storytellers who are flying in cause they've heard the Seattle audience is incredible and we're so excited about this joyful reunion with our Seattle community. Tell your friends about Bawdy's return, and buy Tickets now at https://bit.ly/BawdySeattle2022   Wanna get Motorboated onstage at our next live Bawdy? Become an #ApplauseTiddies Sponsor! As a sponsor, you choose the bra, you'll get a sneak peek at it onstage, and you'll get Motorboated in it, plus you get to name my bewbs for that month (they are currently named RedBear and Michael, can you do better?). I have a Bra Registry at A Revelation in Fit in Oakland CA, so let's do this thing, y'all! Contact BawdyStorytelling@gmail.com and let's make a plan.   Patreon: If you love this podcast, you can thank Bawdy's Patreon supporters - they made this happen! It's because of people like you who support this important work that we do, people who want these stories wherever they are. Join our Patreon now and you get exclusive rewards when you join (like monthly free livestream tickets at the $10/mo level!) Become a member now at https://www.patreon.com/Bawdy   Want to support Bawdy in another way? Every bit helps, and it's easy. Our links are:   Venmo: Venmo.com/BawdyStorytelling Paypal: paypal.me/bawdystorytelling Zelle: BawdyStorytelling@gmail.com CashApp: $DixieDeLaTour And THANK YOU!   Wanna work with Dixie? Do you want to learn to tell a compelling, relatable personal true story? I can help you dig deep, gain understanding and communicate with clarity. Whether it's getting ontage, Writing a memoir, creating a podcast, or learning brand storytelling for your business, I can help. Email me at BawdyStorytelling@gmail.com and let's make it happen.   Bawdy Got Me Laid perfume, Bawdy Butter & more: Dixie has created her own fragrance: You'll love #BawdyGotMeLaid perfume, scented with golden honey, amber, ylang ylang, and warm vanilla. There's also our (scented or unscented) creamy Bawdy Butter, Hair & Bawdy Oil, & more. Bawdy Got Me Laid Merchandise means you can deliver your own great smelling Motorboats while supporting Dixie and Bawdy. Get yours today at https://bawdystorytelling.com/merchandise   Check out our Bawdy Storytelling Fiends and Fans group on Facebook - it's a place to discuss the podcast's stories with the storytellers, share thoughts with your fellow listeners, & help Dixie make the podcast even better. Just answer 3 simple questions and you're IN! https://www.facebook.com/groups/360169851578316/ ProTip: Subscribe to the Bawdy Storytelling email list & you'll be notified of all upcoming storytelling workshops, livestreams, podcasts, live shows and Special Events first at https://bawdystorytelling.com/subscribe   Thank you to the Team that makes this podcast possible! Team Bawdy is:   Podcast Producer: Roman Den houdijker Sound Engineer: David Grosof Archivist / Video: Joe Moore Bawdy Livestream pre-show video by Donal Mooney Live-streaming by Rubeun Tan Storytelling support by Mosa Maxwell-Smith (!!!) & Bawdy Creator & Podcast Host Dixie De La Tour & Thank you to Pleasure Podcasts. Bawdy Storytelling is proud to be part of your sex-positive podcast collective!    Tags:   lonely packs apps viable options indirect too late for porn too early for breakfast night is shot dating crap benefits fun frisky finite bathroom guy drops wet hand dry mouth inflated cheeks open space blowjob call scotch hug boss platonic bummed emails pug walk wandering sticky knees great sex terrible luck shit spit on hit on threesome intimidating heartbreaking worthy anonymous basement running shoes cute cocky ready tongue hyper suck smirk spot wild door frozen ankles fear locked up head out closet case anonymity intimacy purgatory turn punch anger scream shock unleash winks excitement decorum walk gentle giant ourselves forget the rules kiss so hard hands time wasted clothes black pink sneakers weird sex naked toilet stranger my kisses stranger bathroom Yes repeat tapping cruise ahead find what's above the shoes confused straight ancient art of getting it done scrappy chaps waxing poetic unbridled sex in public places I had crossed campus stall basement stall promised land stalls urinals door squeaks thank you negligent maintenance left white new balances new cool old sad favorite repeats initiates shuffle of cruising pause rules love rituals shockingly regimented gravitas environment grabbing ass procedure important homage divider formica mustache silent movie villain tucked belt buckle kneel under divider newbie precious hand nut two transfer student graduate program simple sexy procedure consistency seconds later pant door squeak game new spooked real bummer birdwatching   Want more Bawdy? www.BawdyStorytelling.com Follow us on Twitter: @Bawdy On Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bawdystorytelling/ Like us at www.Facebook.com/BawdyStorytelling Join us on FetLife: https://fetlife.com/groups/46341 Support us on Patreon at https://www.patreon.com/Bawdy Watch us on YouTube at http://bit.ly/BawdyTV Find out about upcoming Podcast episodes - & Livestreams - at www.BawdyStorytelling.com/subscribe  

Bawdy Storytelling
240: ‘Bloody Handprint‘ (Mollena Williams-Haas)

Bawdy Storytelling

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 1, 2022 36:49 Very Popular


Can a Viking teach you to have fun when you're bleeding? Infamous storyteller Mollena Lee Williams-Haas goes on on a pervert tour of Europe, spontaneously deciding to accept an invite from a fan in Oslo. They both know this evening will end up in sex - but when she tries to explain that her period has arrived unexpectedly, he shows her a new appreciation for that time of the month. No wonder these folks conquered the fucking planet! #Celebrate #Menstruation #KnowYourNegro #Sober   Song: ‘Warm, Bloody and Tender' (Rachel Lark) Watch the official music video (Dixie's in it!) at https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IGx4OLuE_xU About the Storyteller:   Larger than life, phat as hell, whipsmart AND smart about whips, Mollena Lee Williams-Haas:  [aka "The Perverted Negress" aka "Mo" aka "Pony Oracle," but that is a longer tail] is a performer, storyteller, BDSM/Kink/Leather/AlternativeLifestyle Educatrix, Executive Pervert, librettist and Muse. She is beloved by and in service to her "Spousemeister," legendary contemporary music composer Georg Friedrich Haas. Mollena is an outspoken footsoldier in the fight against bigotry and ignorance and a thought-leader in the world of Power Exchange dynamics. AND hey, she's been sober since 2007 and has a hard-on for living life fully and unabashedly.    Learn more at https://www.mollena.com/ or on her podcast 'All that and Mo' (available wherever you listen to podcasts).   Episode links:   Everlywell: Everlywell at-home lab tests give you physician-reviewed results and personalized insights so you can take action on your health and wellness—all at an affordable and transparent cost. With over thirty tests, you'll be able to choose the ones that make the most sense for you. Everlywell's Food Sensitivity, Metabolism, Sleep & Stress, and Thyroid are just a few of the many options - and, their STD Test discreetly allows you to test for 7 types of STDs, all from the privacy of your own home. And for listeners of the show, Everlywell is offering a special discount of twenty percent off an at-home lab test at https://www.everlywell.com/dixie   Over one million people have trusted Everlywell with their at-home lab testing, so go to https://www.everlywell.com/dixie for twenty percent off your at-home lab test.   Check out this expert- led retreat at a private seaside ranch in Malibu: Looking to add more pleasure to your partnership and sex life? Craving a deeper connection with your partner but unsure where to start? We can help. Join sexologist Nicoletta Heidegger on September 24-25 for The Pleasure Connection, an educational retreat for couples. Their experts will guide you through developing core tools like effective communication, self-regulation, tips on reigniting the spark, and more. We're not taught how to have great sex and intimacy—but it's never too late to learn. More information at http:// thepleasureconnection.eventbrite.com   Bawdy Storytelling San Francisco: We're celebrating Folsom Street Fair - that most high of Holy Days for Kinksters - with the Bawdy Folsom Kinktacular. We've got VIP tables for 2 or 4, Reserved and General Admission Seating, icy cold cocktails with dirty names and a seat for your butt after all that carousing in the sun at the Fair. Buy tickets for the live performance, or you can watch from anywhere on the Livestream: Tickets at https://bit.ly/BawdyKinktacular2022   Bawdy Storytelling Seattle is on Saturday, October 15th: I've just confirmed 2 brand new storytellers for this show! Have you pitched me your story yet? It's been almost 3 years, and now we've got a new venue, and we're so excited about this joyful reunion with the best community anywhere. Tell your friends about Bawdy's return to Seattle, and buy Tickets at https://bit.ly/BawdySeattle2022   Wanna get Motorboated onstage at our next live Bawdy? Become an #ApplauseTiddies Sponsor! As a sponsor, you choose the bra, you'll get a sneak peek at it onstage, and you'll get Motorboated in it, plus you get to name my bewbs for that month (they are currently named RedBear and Michael, can you do better?). I have a Bra Registry at A Revelation in Fit in Oakland CA, so let's do this thing, y'all! Contact BawdyStorytelling@gmail.com and let's make a plan.   Patreon: If you love this podcast, you can thank Bawdy's Patreon supporters - they made this happen! It's because of people like you who support this important work that we do, people who want these stories wherever they are. Join our Patreon now and you get exclusive rewards when you join (like monthly free livestream tickets at the $10/mo level!) Become a member now at https://www.patreon.com/Bawdy   Want to support Bawdy in another way?  It's easy. Our links are:   Venmo: Venmo.com/BawdyStorytelling Paypal: paypal.me/bawdystorytelling Zelle: BawdyStorytelling@gmail.com CashApp: $DixieDeLaTour And THANK YOU!   Wanna work with Dixie? Do you want learn to tell a compelling, relatable personal true story? I can help you dig deep, gain understanding and communicate with clarity. Whether it's getting ontage, Writing a memoir, creating a podcast, or learning brand storytelling for your business, I can help. Email me at BawdyStorytelling@gmail.com and let's make it happen.   Bawdy Got Me Laid perfume, Bawdy Butter & more: Dixie has created her own fragrance: You'll love #BawdyGotMeLaid perfume, scented with golden honey, amber, ylang ylang, and warm vanilla. There's also our (scented or unscented) creamy Bawdy Butter, Hair & Bawdy Oil, & more. Bawdy Got Me Laid Merchandise means you can deliver your own great smelling Motorboats while supporting Dixie and Bawdy. Get yours today at https://bawdystorytelling.com/merchandise   Check out our Bawdy Storytelling Fiends and Fans group on Facebook - it's a place to discuss the podcast's stories with the storytellers, share thoughts with your fellow listeners, & help Dixie make the podcast even better. Just answer 3 simple questions and you're IN! https://www.facebook.com/groups/360169851578316/ ProTip: Subscribe to the Bawdy Storytelling email list & you'll be notified of all upcoming storytelling workshops, livestreams, podcasts, live shows and Special Events first at https://bawdystorytelling.com/subscribe   Thank you to the Team that makes this podcast possible! Team Bawdy is:   Podcast Producer: Roman Den houdijker Sound Engineer: David Grosof Archivist / Video: Joe Moore Bawdy Livestream pre-show video by Donal Mooney Live-streaming by Rubeun Tan Storytelling support by Mosa Maxwell-Smith (!!!) & Bawdy Creator & Podcast Host Dixie De La Tour & Thank you to Pleasure Podcasts. Bawdy Storytelling is proud to be part of your sex-positive podcast collective!    Tags:   supper uncomfortable laid tonight gush Shining uterus bleeding surgical theater waist clean myself up problem towel kibosh dinner booze pours sludge salted black licorice liquor music composers aces death not music cry tears yes big leagues making move hair pulling bleeding hold on blowjob tampons problem bed magnificent small not everyday loss disadvantage towel sheets legs condom squirted orgasm girl shame mindset lights slapping hands away hold passed out fucking me flips me over cigarette smoking hand face dried came break understood celebrating my pussy braced respect appreciation fun Jellyfish sober alt.com Europe ticket landed England Vidar Oslo Norway Viking emails blunt coarse uncouth Amsterdam internet Cafe come to Oslo Ryan Air gates bald red fuzz leather pants piercing blue eyes staring game meet gate huge tattooed ink house story built haunted bathroom basement creaking Norway luggage shopping food moose wild pig young deer Babe and Bullwinkle and Bambi for   Want more Bawdy? www.BawdyStorytelling.com Follow us on Twitter: @Bawdy On Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bawdystorytelling/ Like us at www.Facebook.com/BawdyStorytelling Join us on FetLife: https://fetlife.com/groups/46341 Support us on Patreon at https://www.patreon.com/Bawdy Watch us on YouTube at http://bit.ly/BawdyTV Find out about upcoming Podcast episodes - & Livestreams - at www.BawdyStorytelling.com/subscribe  

Luvbites by Dr. Tara
#49 COMMON SEX PROBLEMS Q&A WITH SEXOLOGIST NICOLETTA HEIDEGGER

Luvbites by Dr. Tara

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 30, 2022 40:17


Nicoletta Heidegger is a licensed marriage and family therapist and sexologist. When not seeing clients, she hosts the podcast Sluts and Scholars and creates retreats for folks who want to increase their pleasure potential and decrease shame. Come join the conversation about sexual concerns, cultural stresses on having sex, the world of kink and fetish, cuckolding, and so much more. We ended with a rapid round of “10 Quickies with Dr. Tara" Listen and learn my luvs...Oh and have an orgasmic day! For more sex and relationship realness, follow me on social media: luvbites.co and subscribe to my juicy newsletter at www.luvbites.co In this episode we talk about: -Most common sex issues -How to last longer -Initiating sex -Responsive and spontaneous sexual desires -Kinks and fetishes Note: Part 1 of my conversation with Nicoletta is on Sluts and Scholars Podcast (9/2022) Links: https://instagram.com/therapywithnicoletta https://instagram.com/slutsandscholars E-Book - 30 Days to My Best Sexy Self: A Sexual Mindfulness Journal Link: https://luvbitesbydrtara.gumroad.com/l/bestsexyself Bijoux Indiscrets - Enhance Your Sex Life Link: https://shrsl.com/3f3hl Use Code: LUVBITES20 for 20%off *All Rights Reserved Dr Tara International Inc

Take One Daf Yomi
Take One; Ketubot 28

Take One Daf Yomi

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 3, 2022 10:19 Very Popular


Today's Talmud page, Ketubot 28, advocates mightily against being too chummy with your ex. Nicoletta Heidegger, a therapist specializing in relationships, joins us to explain how to approach a painful breakup, and what the Talmud got right about breaking up. Did the rabbis intuit the idea of conscious uncoupling? Listen and find out. Like the show? Send us a note at takeone@tabletmag.com. Follow us on Twitter at @takeonedafyomi and join the conversation in the Take One Facebook group. Take One is a Tablet Studios production. The show is hosted by Liel Leibovitz, and is produced and edited by Darone Ruskay and Quinn Waller. Our team also includes Stephanie Butnick, Josh Kross, Mark Oppenheimer, Sara Fredman Aeder, Robert Scaramuccia, and Tanya Singer.  Check out all of Tablet's podcasts at tabletmag.com/podcasts. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Honeydew Me
97. Sex & Mental Health: Struggling With Arousal, Getting Your Needs Met & Worthiness Wounds

Honeydew Me

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 13, 2022 66:11 Very Popular


This week we're exploring the link between sex and mental health and OH HONEY… have we got some “aha” moments waiting for you! Nicoletta Heidegger, LMFT, is walking us through arousal, desire, worthiness, and giving us ALL the actionable tips and no BS advice we've been craving. We also tackle the concept of whether you need to be “whole” or “healed” in order to be in relationship or receive pleasure and you might be surprised by Nicoletta's answer

Relationship Advice
358: How To Increase Pleasure And Get In Touch With Your Sexuality

Relationship Advice

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 22, 2022 43:38 Very Popular


Who doesn't want to feel more pleasure!? Listen to today's show for some amazing, actionable tips to increase your pleasure, get in touch with your sexuality and start to have mind-blowing sex.  In this episode with Nicoletta Heidegger, we discuss relationship advice topics that include: How to prioritize yourself and your pleasure Understanding your barriers to experiencing pleasure Exercises and tools to help you learn about what you like sexually How to identify exactly what physical sensations give you pleasure Using a 'Yes, No, Maybe' list to better understand your sexuality What to do if your partner is not prioritizing sex Special communication tips for talking with your partner about sex And much more! Sponsors Dipsea is an audio app full of short, sexy stories and guided sessions that are designed to turn you on and help you get in touch with yourself. Get a 30 day free trial when you go ​to DipseaStories.com/IDO. Cozy Earth offers luxury bedding and loungewear known for its incredible softness and temperature regulation. Cozy Earth is providing an exclusive offer for our listeners: 35% off site wide when you use the code “IDOPODCAST”. Spark My Relationship Course: Get $100 off our online course. Visit SparkMyRelationship.com/Unlock for our special offer just for our I Do Podcast listeners! If you love this episode (and our podcast!), would you mind giving us a review in iTunes? It would mean the world to us and we promise it only takes a minute. Many thanks in advance! – Chase & Sarah

Double Teamed with Cami and Niki
“Passion Projects” & Feeling Special w/ & Scholars

Double Teamed with Cami and Niki

Play Episode Listen Later May 26, 2022 57:11


Today, Cami and Niki welcome Nicoletta Heidegger, a licensed marriage and family therapist and sexologist. She hosts Sluts and Scholars Podcast, a sex positive, shame free, educational podcast where they try to help make your sex smarter and your smarts sexier.    This week, we are doing a 2-part episode, the first half you can listen to by checking out the Sluts and Scholars podcast and then the second half is here. We start off with the question, “What was your introduction to kink?” We then shift into talking about how monogamy is ingrained in us and why it's okay to come to terms with yourself before getting a new partner. The fun part is, this seems more like a therapy session. It's free, it's fun, and it's hilarious! Listen Up: 00:00 Intro 01:05 What was your introduction to kink? 10:12 Find a partner who's willing to support your preferences 18:51 We are all conditioned to be monogamous 24:36 Slow down and take time to be with yourself 38:52 Do you see it as a waste of time? 46:53 Dealing with panic attacks and anxiety 54:48 Do you read reverse harem? Follow Sluts & Scholars on: Instagram Twitter Website Podcast Follow Us on: Instagram TikTok Twitter Patreon YouTube Website 

You Need Therapy
Let's Talk About Sex with Nicoletta Heidegger, LMFT

You Need Therapy

Play Episode Listen Later May 23, 2022 46:25


This week Kat has a VERY special guest on the show to help dip our toes into the world of open conversations about sex. Nicoletta Heideggar, LMFT is here to teach us why talking about it matters, what we gain when we feel permission to learn about our bodies and our sexuality, and how not talking about these things produces unnecessary shame. Nicoletta is a licensed therapist who specializes in sex therapy (what is that? Well we answer that question don't worry!), has a masters in human sexuality, and is pursuing her Ph.D in human sexuality as well! She's about as expert as they come when it comes to this topic… and after this conversation we couldn't be more excited to get her back here for round two!  Follow Nicoletta on instagram: @therapywithnicoletta & @slutsandscholars Learn more about her HERE! Follow Kat on Instagram: @Kat.Defatta Follow the podcast Instagram: @YouNeedTherapyPodcast Have a question, concern, guest idea, something else? Reach Kat at: Kathryn@youneedtherapyodcast.com Heard about Three Cords Therapy but don't know what it is? Click here!   Produced by: @HoustonTilley See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Your Mom & Dad
389: “Mismatched” Libidos & “Weird Stuff” We're Into!

Your Mom & Dad

Play Episode Listen Later May 3, 2022 87:48 Very Popular


Fetish, turn-offs, and bedroom communication is IT today, #broadsquad! The Broads are joined by the fantastic Nicoletta Heidegger (sexologist, psychotherapist, and host of “Sluts and Scholars” podcast) - but first Bekah and Jess chat and get honest about some current challenges and growth with family. Then they dive into a great conversation with Nicoletta about partners with differing libidos, the “erotic blueprint”, breaks and accelerators, the difference between desire and arousal, responsive versus spontaneous desire, kink, how to practice asking for what you want, fart and foot fetishes, aliens, and much more!    NICOLETTA HEIDEGGER: Listen to “Sluts and Scholars” podcast here: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/sluts-and-scholars/id1223781930  Follow Sluts and Scholars here: https://www.instagram.com/slutsandscholars/ Follow Nicoletta here: https://www.instagram.com/therapywithnicoletta/  Website: https://www.nicolettavheidegger.com/   THANKS TO OUR SPONSORS: HELLO FRESH: Go to HELLOFRESH.COM/CHATTY16 and use code CHATTY16 for up to 16 free meals and 3 free gifts!  PRETTY LITTER: Go to PRETTYLITTER.COM/CHATTY to save 20% on your first order! FIELD OF GREENS: Get 15% off your first order PLUS get another 10% off when you subscribe for recurring orders at FIELDOFGREENS.COM and use promo code CHATTY NATIVE;  Go to NATIVEDEO.COM/CHATTY or use code CHATTY to get 20% off your first order! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Sex Talk With My Mom
398 What's Your Body Count?

Sex Talk With My Mom

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 16, 2022 55:14


☎️ Text us! 310-356-3920 ☎️ This is my birthday episode! We discuss how many people we've slept with and whether we'd share this info with our partners. We also unpack our weekends: Falling in public, attending a concert completely masked and ear-plugged, and attempting/failing to get an HPV vaccine. Mom also reviews the strangest sex laws ever enacted. I divulge my goals for 33! Please support our show and get discounts on our favorite brands by using our sponsors' links here! UBERLUBE – UberLube is our favorite lube! Perfect for oral, anal, and vaginal sex. Use code MOM at www.UberLube.com for 10% off and free shipping.  DIPSEA – Want to get turned on? Dipsea is an audio app that features short, sexy stories and guided masturbation sessions. Get a 30-day free membership when you visit dipseastories.com/mom! PROSE – Are you balding like Cam? Prose will make you custom hair supplements to reduce shedding and spark thicker, fuller hair. Get 15% off your first order today by visiting www.Prose.com/Sneaky. INTO PLEASURE – Join our fellow Pleasure Podcaster, Nicoletta Heidegger, for a day of online interactive classes to help you maximize your pleasure potential! The event is happening virtually on April 2, 2022 from 9:30 am until 5 PM. More info and tix can be found at intopleasure.com. ❣️You can view this full episode in video form by going to our YouTube channel. A special huge thank you to our wonderful videographer/editor/producer, Dale!  Join our sparkling new Sneaky Freak chatroom on Discord! Just visit: https://discord.gg/jJZqkUw3dV. To gain exclusive access to all our Discord channels, join us at Patreon.com/sextalkwithmymom. If you've enjoyed the show, please consider leaving us a review at RateThisPodcast.com/Mom. Also, it would mean the world if you'd support us through Patreon.com/sextalkwithmymom – a platform where you can get exclusive STWMM bonus episodes and Zoom chats with us! Grab some Sex Talk w/ My Mom swag at sextalkwithmymom.com. Get close with us on socials at: Text us - 310-356-3920 Facebook/Instagram - @SexTalkWithMyMom Twitter - @SexTalkPodcast Website - www.SexTalkWithMyMom.com Our podcast's music was crafted by the wildly talented Freddy Avis! Check out his work at http://www.freddyavismusic.com/ Sex Talk With My Mom is a proud member of Pleasure Podcasts, a podcast collective revolutionizing the conversation around sex.

How C*m
3 Ranch Reboot Retreat (Nicoletta Heidegger, Lisa Reider + Ashley Manta)

How C*m

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 21, 2022 121:40


This episode is full of woo-woo, magic, meant to be moments, and rejuvenation. Remy and Robyn chat with our new friends Nicoletta Heidegger + Lisa Reider and our old pal Ashley Manta (The Cannasexual) about the Ranch Reboot Retreat that Nicoletta threw in LA in January that we got to attend! As a Licensed Therapist and Sexologist who utilizes Equine Therapy, Nicoletta put together a restorative and enlightening day filled with yoga, breathwork, erotic wellness, goal setting, animal assisted learning, past life regressions + soundbaths. We talk about each of the events,  how they shaped us and have informed how we are going to navigate this year better and more embodied.  TW: Suicidal Ideation Follow us @RemyKassimir @robynkennnedy Nicoletta - @SlutsandScholars / @therapywithnicoletta Ashley - @TheCannasexual Lisa - @lisa_reider_here Get tickets for our upc*mming show:   How C*m Presents: Remy's O-nniversary in NYC 2/22/22, Caveat   Sign up for our newsletter howcumpodcast.com  and for access to extras and FULL unedited episodes with VIDEO for only $5 at patreon.com/howcum Check out our website for live forums & merch! RATE, REVIEW & SUBSCRIBE  Thanks  Magic Mind! Go to magicmind.co/HOWCUM and use code HOWCUM  at checkout for 20% off. Thanks Dipsea.  Get a 30 day free trial when you go to DipseaStories.com/howcum.

Speaking of Sex with The Pleasure Mechanics

In this interview with sex therapist and podcast host Nicoletta Heidegger, we explore the terrain of troublesome turn-ons – when what we desire also causes us distress, worry or is perhaps illegal or even impossible to fulfill. Troublesome Turn-Ons are the desires that not only excite us, but cause anxiety, fear, shame, guilt or concern […] The post Troublesome Turn-Ons appeared first on Pleasure Mechanics.

KFI Featured Segments
@DrWendyWalsh-Nicoletta Heidegger Talks Equine Therapy

KFI Featured Segments

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 20, 2021 7:41


Equine-assisted psychotherapy incorporates horses into the therapeutic process. Nicoletta Heidegger joins Dr. Wendy Walsh and tells us all about it!

Eat. Play. Sex.
111: Sex + Depression with Nicoletta Heidegger

Eat. Play. Sex.

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 24, 2021 45:02


You may have heard about how sex + orgasms affect mental health, but what about when mental health affects sex? Depression affects so many people not only in the US, but globally. Especially since the start of the pandemic, we've seen the sexual health of individuals + couples alike struggling because of it. Sex therapist Nicoletta Heidegger is here to talk to us about the complications of depression + sexual desire, what medications could be doing to contribute, + how you can empower your own sexual + sensual pleasure to help. In this episode you'll hear: How does depression affect desire for sex in different people? What are symptoms of depression + how do they can manifest in life? Tips to support yourself or your partner in sex while experiencing symptoms of depression What medications for depression impact the libido + which ones do not Post Coital Dysphoria --the experience of sadness, anxiety, anger, depression after sex + what to do about it Treatments for depression + sex + what working with a sex therapist on these challenges looks like Struggles around sexual initiation + tips for having an effective conversation to support How sensual practices can be powerful strategies for improving your sex life. LINKS FROM THE SHOW www.yonipleasurepalace.com code: DRCAT for 10% off any order THE SKINNY ON OUR SEXY GUEST Nicoletta von Heidegger is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and Sexologist (#110256) practicing in Los Angeles. Nicoletta received her BA in Psychology from Stanford University, her MA in Clinical Psychology from Pepperdine University, and her MEd in Human Sexuality from Widener University. Nicoletta is currently pursuing her PhD in Human Sexuality from Widener. In addition to seeing clients in private practice, Nicoletta also works as an EAGALA-certified equine assisted psychotherapist at Stand in Balance. Nicoletta believes in embodied practice and is certified in levels I and II of The Trauma Resiliency Model. When not working with clients, Nicoletta creates and hosts the growing hit podcast Sluts & Scholars and teaches educational seminars and classes to help others learn about sexual and mental health. In her self-care time, Nicoletta enjoys nature, biking, horse riding, her pit mix dog Stevie, and playing the drums in her band. You can find out more about Nicolettat at nicolettavheidegger.com WANT MORE? Start your journey to coming back home to your body + developing a sensual relationship. Grab my FREE Sensual Sundays Guide full of all my favorite products + Sunday ritual to reconnect with your pleasure once again. If you're desiring a deeper dive into the lifestyle of sensual pleasure, come join me for a 14 day initiation into Sensual Awakening. Learn the foundations of activating your pleasure senses, creating luxury without expense, + cultivating a lovership with your body, again. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/eatplaysex/message

Look Down There
Sluts and Scholars with Nicoletta Heidegger

Look Down There

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 29, 2021 43:13


Nicoletta Heidegger is the host of the popular podcast, Sluts and Scholars. She is a sexologist and equine assisted psychotherapist. We take a moment to chat about sexuality, pleasure, masturbation (a word we both don't like) and how to begin your self love pleasure journey. www.lookdownthere.com/the-show --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/look-down-there/support

Practice Outside the Lines
Episode 19: Podcasting and Professionalism in the Sex Therapy Industry with Nicoletta Heidegger

Practice Outside the Lines

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 10, 2021 40:22


In this episode, we talk with sex therapist and Sluts and Scholars podcaster Nicoletta Heidegger. MA, MEd, LMFT. An education enthusiast, Nicoletta gives us her experience going through her undergraduate and master's programs in education, psychology, and therapy with an emphasis on sex and sexual health.

Trust Me
#18: Nicoletta Heidegger - BDSM vs. Abuse

Trust Me

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 3, 2021 58:54


Lola Blanc and Meagan Elizabeth interview sex therapist, sexologist, and Sluts and Scholars podcast host Nicoletta Heidegger about all things BDSM! They discuss the basics of consensual play, Armie Hammer (and why cannibal fantasies are not the problem), red flags to look out for, making check-ins sexy, and how to tell the difference between kink and abuse. Think you might be in an abusive relationship? Please visit www.loveisrespect.org/ or www.thehotline.org/ FOLLOW US: IG: @slutsandscholars @trustmepodcast @oohlalola @vibehigherbitch Twitter: @ohlalola @trustmecultpod PER EPISODE DISCUSSION: Free sex inventories: Autostraddle Emily Nagoski Partially paid programs: Miss Jaiya’s Erotic Blueprint Kayna Cassard’s arousal architecture Apps: Kindu Xconfessions Love Nudge We should try it/Spicer Book:The Relationship Fix, Dr. Jenn Mann

Trust Me
#18: Nicoletta Heidegger - BDSM vs. Abuse

Trust Me

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 3, 2021 58:54


Lola Blanc and Meagan Elizabeth interview sex therapist, sexologist, and Sluts and Scholars podcast host Nicoletta Heidegger about all things BDSM! They discuss the basics of consensual play, Armie Hammer (and why cannibal fantasies are not the problem), red flags to look out for, making check-ins sexy, and how to tell the difference between kink and abuse. Think you might be in an abusive relationship? Please visit www.loveisrespect.org/ or www.thehotline.org/ FOLLOW US: IG: @slutsandscholars @trustmepodcast @oohlalola @vibehigherbitch Twitter: @ohlalola @trustmecultpod PER EPISODE DISCUSSION: Free sex inventories: Autostraddle Emily Nagoski Partially paid programs: Miss Jaiya's Erotic Blueprint Kayna Cassard's arousal architecture Apps: Kindu Xconfessions Love Nudge We should try it/Spicer Book:The Relationship Fix, Dr. Jenn Mann

Trust Me
#18: Nicoletta Heidegger - BDSM vs. Abuse

Trust Me

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 2, 2021 58:54


Lola Blanc and Meagan Elizabeth interview sex therapist, sexologist, and Sluts and Scholars podcast host Nicoletta Heidegger about all things BDSM! They discuss the basics of consensual play, Armie Hammer (and why cannibal fantasies are not the problem), red flags to look out for, making check-ins sexy, and how to tell the difference between kink and abuse. Think you might be in an abusive relationship? Please visit www.loveisrespect.org/ or www.thehotline.org/ FOLLOW US: IG: @slutsandscholars @trustmepodcast @oohlalola @vibehigherbitch Twitter: @ohlalola @trustmecultpod PER EPISODE DISCUSSION: Free sex inventories: Autostraddle Emily Nagoski Partially paid programs: Miss Jaiya's Erotic Blueprint Kayna Cassard's arousal architecture Apps: Kindu Xconfessions Love Nudge We should try it/Spicer Book:The Relationship Fix, Dr. Jenn Mann

Trust Me
#18: Nicoletta Heidegger - BDSM vs. Abuse

Trust Me

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 2, 2021 58:54


Lola Blanc and Meagan Elizabeth interview sex therapist, sexologist, and Sluts and Scholars podcast host Nicoletta Heidegger about all things BDSM! They discuss the basics of consensual play, Armie Hammer (and why cannibal fantasies are not the problem), red flags to look out for, making check-ins sexy, and how to tell the difference between kink and abuse. Think you might be in an abusive relationship? Please visit www.loveisrespect.org/ or www.thehotline.org/ FOLLOW US: IG: @slutsandscholars @trustmepodcast @oohlalola @vibehigherbitch Twitter: @ohlalola @trustmecultpod PER EPISODE DISCUSSION: Free sex inventories: Autostraddle Emily Nagoski Partially paid programs: Miss Jaiya's Erotic Blueprint Kayna Cassard's arousal architecture Apps: Kindu Xconfessions Love Nudge We should try it/Spicer Book:The Relationship Fix, Dr. Jenn Mann

Trust Me
#18: Nicoletta Heidegger - BDSM vs. Abuse

Trust Me

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 2, 2021 58:54


Lola Blanc and Meagan Elizabeth interview sex therapist, sexologist, and Sluts and Scholars podcast host Nicoletta Heidegger about all things BDSM! They discuss the basics of consensual play, Armie Hammer (and why cannibal fantasies are not the problem), red flags to look out for, making check-ins sexy, and how to tell the difference between kink and abuse. Think you might be in an abusive relationship? Please visit www.loveisrespect.org/ or www.thehotline.org/ FOLLOW US: IG: @slutsandscholars @trustmepodcast @oohlalola @vibehigherbitch Twitter: @ohlalola @trustmecultpod PER EPISODE DISCUSSION: Free sex inventories: Autostraddle Emily Nagoski Partially paid programs: Miss Jaiya's Erotic Blueprint Kayna Cassard's arousal architecture Apps: Kindu Xconfessions Love Nudge We should try it/Spicer Book:The Relationship Fix, Dr. Jenn Mann

Trust Me
#18: Nicoletta Heidegger - BDSM vs. Abuse

Trust Me

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 2, 2021 58:54


Lola Blanc and Meagan Elizabeth interview sex therapist, sexologist, and Sluts and Scholars podcast host Nicoletta Heidegger about all things BDSM! They discuss the basics of consensual play, Armie Hammer (and why cannibal fantasies are not the problem), red flags to look out for, making check-ins sexy, and how to tell the difference between kink and abuse. Think you might be in an abusive relationship? Please visit www.loveisrespect.org/ or www.thehotline.org/ FOLLOW US: IG: @slutsandscholars @trustmepodcast @oohlalola @vibehigherbitch Twitter: @ohlalola @trustmecultpod PER EPISODE DISCUSSION: Free sex inventories: Autostraddle Emily Nagoski Partially paid programs: Miss Jaiya's Erotic Blueprint Kayna Cassard's arousal architecture Apps: Kindu Xconfessions Love Nudge We should try it/Spicer Book:The Relationship Fix, Dr. Jenn Mann

Trust Me
#18: Nicoletta Heidegger - BDSM vs. Abuse

Trust Me

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 1, 2021 58:54


Lola Blanc and Meagan Elizabeth interview sex therapist, sexologist, and Sluts and Scholars podcast host Nicoletta Heidegger about all things BDSM! They discuss the basics of consensual play, Armie Hammer (and why cannibal fantasies are not the problem), red flags to look out for, making check-ins sexy, and how to tell the difference between kink and abuse. Think you might be in an abusive relationship? Please visit www.loveisrespect.org/ or www.thehotline.org/ FOLLOW US: IG: @slutsandscholars @trustmepodcast @oohlalola @vibehigherbitch Twitter: @ohlalola @trustmecultpod PER EPISODE DISCUSSION: Free sex inventories: Autostraddle Emily Nagoski Partially paid programs: Miss Jaiya's Erotic Blueprint Kayna Cassard's arousal architecture Apps: Kindu Xconfessions Love Nudge We should try it/Spicer Book:The Relationship Fix, Dr. Jenn Mann

Trust Me
#18: Nicoletta Heidegger - BDSM vs. Abuse

Trust Me

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 1, 2021 58:54


Lola Blanc and Meagan Elizabeth interview sex therapist, sexologist, and Sluts and Scholars podcast host Nicoletta Heidegger about all things BDSM! They discuss the basics of consensual play, Armie Hammer (and why cannibal fantasies are not the problem), red flags to look out for, making check-ins sexy, and how to tell the difference between kink and abuse. Think you might be in an abusive relationship? Please visit www.loveisrespect.org/ or www.thehotline.org/ FOLLOW US: IG: @slutsandscholars @trustmepodcast @oohlalola @vibehigherbitch Twitter: @ohlalola @trustmecultpod PER EPISODE DISCUSSION: Free sex inventories: Autostraddle Emily Nagoski Partially paid programs: Miss Jaiya's Erotic Blueprint Kayna Cassard's arousal architecture Apps: Kindu Xconfessions Love Nudge We should try it/Spicer Book:The Relationship Fix, Dr. Jenn Mann

Trust Me
#18: Nicoletta Heidegger - BDSM vs. Abuse

Trust Me

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 1, 2021 58:54


Lola Blanc and Meagan Elizabeth interview sex therapist, sexologist, and Sluts and Scholars podcast host Nicoletta Heidegger about all things BDSM! They discuss the basics of consensual play, Armie Hammer (and why cannibal fantasies are not the problem), red flags to look out for, making check-ins sexy, and how to tell the difference between kink and abuse. Think you might be in an abusive relationship? Please visit www.loveisrespect.org/ or www.thehotline.org/ FOLLOW US: IG: @slutsandscholars @trustmepodcast @oohlalola @vibehigherbitch Twitter: @ohlalola @trustmecultpod PER EPISODE DISCUSSION: Free sex inventories: Autostraddle Emily Nagoski Partially paid programs: Miss Jaiya's Erotic Blueprint Kayna Cassard's arousal architecture Apps: Kindu Xconfessions Love Nudge We should try it/Spicer Book:The Relationship Fix, Dr. Jenn Mann

Trust Me
#18: Nicoletta Heidegger - BDSM vs. Abuse

Trust Me

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 31, 2021 58:54


Lola Blanc and Meagan Elizabeth interview sex therapist, sexologist, and Sluts and Scholars podcast host Nicoletta Heidegger about all things BDSM! They discuss the basics of consensual play, Armie Hammer (and why cannibal fantasies are not the problem), red flags to look out for, making check-ins sexy, and how to tell the difference between kink and abuse. Think you might be in an abusive relationship? Please visit www.loveisrespect.org/ or www.thehotline.org/ FOLLOW US: IG: @slutsandscholars @trustmepodcast @oohlalola @vibehigherbitch Twitter: @ohlalola @trustmecultpod PER EPISODE DISCUSSION: Free sex inventories: Autostraddle Emily Nagoski Partially paid programs: Miss Jaiya's Erotic Blueprint Kayna Cassard's arousal architecture Apps: Kindu Xconfessions Love Nudge We should try it/Spicer Book:The Relationship Fix, Dr. Jenn Mann

Trust Me
#18: Nicoletta Heidegger - BDSM vs. Abuse

Trust Me

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 31, 2021 58:54


Lola Blanc and Meagan Elizabeth interview sex therapist, sexologist, and Sluts and Scholars podcast host Nicoletta Heidegger about all things BDSM! They discuss the basics of consensual play, Armie Hammer (and why cannibal fantasies are not the problem), red flags to look out for, making check-ins sexy, and how to tell the difference between kink and abuse. Think you might be in an abusive relationship? Please visit www.loveisrespect.org/ or www.thehotline.org/ FOLLOW US: IG: @slutsandscholars @trustmepodcast @oohlalola @vibehigherbitch Twitter: @ohlalola @trustmecultpod PER EPISODE DISCUSSION: Free sex inventories: Autostraddle Emily Nagoski Partially paid programs: Miss Jaiya's Erotic Blueprint Kayna Cassard's arousal architecture Apps: Kindu Xconfessions Love Nudge We should try it/Spicer Book:The Relationship Fix, Dr. Jenn Mann

Trust Me
#18: Nicoletta Heidegger - BDSM vs. Abuse

Trust Me

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 31, 2021 58:54


Lola Blanc and Meagan Elizabeth interview sex therapist, sexologist, and Sluts and Scholars podcast host Nicoletta Heidegger about all things BDSM! They discuss the basics of consensual play, Armie Hammer (and why cannibal fantasies are not the problem), red flags to look out for, making check-ins sexy, and how to tell the difference between kink and abuse. Think you might be in an abusive relationship? Please visit www.loveisrespect.org/ or www.thehotline.org/ FOLLOW US: IG: @slutsandscholars @trustmepodcast @oohlalola @vibehigherbitch Twitter: @ohlalola @trustmecultpod PER EPISODE DISCUSSION: Free sex inventories: Autostraddle Emily Nagoski Partially paid programs: Miss Jaiya's Erotic Blueprint Kayna Cassard's arousal architecture Apps: Kindu Xconfessions Love Nudge We should try it/Spicer Book:The Relationship Fix, Dr. Jenn Mann

Trust Me
#18: Nicoletta Heidegger - BDSM vs. Abuse

Trust Me

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 31, 2021 58:54


Lola Blanc and Meagan Elizabeth interview sex therapist, sexologist, and Sluts and Scholars podcast host Nicoletta Heidegger about all things BDSM! They discuss the basics of consensual play, Armie Hammer (and why cannibal fantasies are not the problem), red flags to look out for, making check-ins sexy, and how to tell the difference between kink and abuse. Think you might be in an abusive relationship? Please visit www.loveisrespect.org/ or www.thehotline.org/ FOLLOW US: IG: @slutsandscholars @trustmepodcast @oohlalola @vibehigherbitch Twitter: @ohlalola @trustmecultpod PER EPISODE DISCUSSION: Free sex inventories: Autostraddle Emily Nagoski Partially paid programs: Miss Jaiya's Erotic Blueprint Kayna Cassard's arousal architecture Apps: Kindu Xconfessions Love Nudge We should try it/Spicer Book:The Relationship Fix, Dr. Jenn Mann

Trust Me
#18: Nicoletta Heidegger - BDSM vs. Abuse

Trust Me

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 30, 2021 58:54


Lola Blanc and Meagan Elizabeth interview sex therapist, sexologist, and Sluts and Scholars podcast host Nicoletta Heidegger about all things BDSM! They discuss the basics of consensual play, Armie Hammer (and why cannibal fantasies are not the problem), red flags to look out for, making check-ins sexy, and how to tell the difference between kink and abuse. Think you might be in an abusive relationship? Please visit www.loveisrespect.org/ or www.thehotline.org/ FOLLOW US: IG: @slutsandscholars @trustmepodcast @oohlalola @vibehigherbitch Twitter: @ohlalola @trustmecultpod PER EPISODE DISCUSSION: Free sex inventories: Autostraddle Emily Nagoski Partially paid programs: Miss Jaiya's Erotic Blueprint Kayna Cassard's arousal architecture Apps: Kindu Xconfessions Love Nudge We should try it/Spicer Book:The Relationship Fix, Dr. Jenn Mann

Trust Me
#18: Nicoletta Heidegger - BDSM vs. Abuse

Trust Me

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 30, 2021 58:54


Lola Blanc and Meagan Elizabeth interview sex therapist, sexologist, and Sluts and Scholars podcast host Nicoletta Heidegger about all things BDSM! They discuss the basics of consensual play, Armie Hammer (and why cannibal fantasies are not the problem), red flags to look out for, making check-ins sexy, and how to tell the difference between kink and abuse. Think you might be in an abusive relationship? Please visit www.loveisrespect.org/ or www.thehotline.org/ FOLLOW US: IG: @slutsandscholars @trustmepodcast @oohlalola @vibehigherbitch Twitter: @ohlalola @trustmecultpod PER EPISODE DISCUSSION: Free sex inventories: Autostraddle Emily Nagoski Partially paid programs: Miss Jaiya's Erotic Blueprint Kayna Cassard's arousal architecture Apps: Kindu Xconfessions Love Nudge We should try it/Spicer Book:The Relationship Fix, Dr. Jenn Mann

Trust Me
#18: Nicoletta Heidegger - BDSM vs. Abuse

Trust Me

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 30, 2021 58:54


Lola Blanc and Meagan Elizabeth interview sex therapist, sexologist, and Sluts and Scholars podcast host Nicoletta Heidegger about all things BDSM! They discuss the basics of consensual play, Armie Hammer (and why cannibal fantasies are not the problem), red flags to look out for, making check-ins sexy, and how to tell the difference between kink and abuse. Think you might be in an abusive relationship? Please visit www.loveisrespect.org/ or www.thehotline.org/ FOLLOW US: IG: @slutsandscholars @trustmepodcast @oohlalola @vibehigherbitch Twitter: @ohlalola @trustmecultpod PER EPISODE DISCUSSION: Free sex inventories: Autostraddle Emily Nagoski Partially paid programs: Miss Jaiya's Erotic Blueprint Kayna Cassard's arousal architecture Apps: Kindu Xconfessions Love Nudge We should try it/Spicer Book:The Relationship Fix, Dr. Jenn Mann

Conversations with a Wounded Healer
135 - Nicoletta Heidegger - Sluts and Scholars, Healing Sexual Trauma

Conversations with a Wounded Healer

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 21, 2020 80:04


“We store so much stuff in our body. So, sometimes that's trauma, sometimes it's joy or whatever, and to be able to recognize, be aware and, like, feel what's happening and name it sounds like you're on your way to, you know, being connected to your body.” ~Nicoletta Heidegger  Healing is what happens to you while you’re busy recording a podcast. This is the second in a series of deeply personal conversations but, unlike the first, I did not expect a landslide of emotion. I did not intend to share my real-time revelations with you.  And yet, here we are. 100+ shows in and I feel as securely held by you, this amazing community, in this process as I did my guests Nicoletta Heidegger, MA, MeD, LMFT, who shepherded me through the spontaneous quake; and Rich Buino, LSW, my husband and post-show co-pilot. My hope is that all my messy vulnerability resonates with you and sheds welcome light on what can feel like a dark, lonely process.  For the sake of mutual safety, this episode is preceded by a trigger warning regarding sexual trauma and minor attracted persons, more commonly labeled as pedophiles. Please take care of yourself, even if that means skipping this conversation.  About Nicoletta. In addition to her work as a therapist and sexoligist, her PhD studies in human sexuality, and hosting duties of the much-lauded podcast Sluts and Scholars, she’s a genuine old soul. Her empathic, careful handling of sexual divergence has led to her focus on preventative practices for minor attracted persons even as she runs counter to our culture’s entrenched, shame-based attitudes toward sexuality. In the spirit of radical transparency, I knew that my on-air experience with Nicoletta required an equally revealing on-air debrief. Healing can take a long time, and each journey is wildly different. I am forever grateful to Rich for navigating these emotional switchbacks with me. There’s no shame in doing this work out loud and I hope that this episode helps you lean into that space. Nicoletta Heidegger is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and Sexologist currently pursuing her Phd in Human Sexuality. When not seeing clients, she hosts the sex positive, shame free, educational podcast sluts and scholars. For full show notes, guest information, and resources, visit: http://www.headhearttherapy.com/podcast *** Conversations with a Wounded Healer is a proud member of @mhnrnetwork. Let’s be friends! You can find me in the following places... Website: www.headhearttherapy.com/podcast Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/WoundedHealr/ https://www.facebook.com/HeadHeartTherapy/ Instagram: @headhearttherapy Twitter: @WoundedHealr @HeadHeart_Chi

F**ks Given
Aliens and Ass Spanks with Nicoletta Heidegger

F**ks Given

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 15, 2020 50:23


This week Florence and Reed chat to Nicoletta Heidegger, a licensed marriage and family therapist specialising in sexology, and host of the podcast Sluts and Scholars, one of Cosmopolitan's "Hot Podcasts to Listen To" where she chats with folks from across sexuality, kink, and professional spectrums about desire, pleasure, shame, stigma and (of course) bodily functions!'F**ks Given' with Come Curious presents an honest and candid exploration of their guests’ sexual histories, from the first f**k to the best f**k and even the bad, average and comical ones in between. Each episode is an uncensored look at what’s gone on beneath the sheets with a variety of coveted guests in a bid to break the stigma around sexual histories and specifically the ‘number’ taboo. Presented by Come Curious, change-makers in the sex and body positivity space, 'F**ks Given' aims to open up the conversation around our sexual past, asking us to celebrate all the f**ks you gave because they’re the ones that made you who you are. You can follow Come Curious on Instagram / Twitter / Youtube This is a Studio71 production.Producer - Jack ClaramuntAssistant Producer - Winnie SimonExec Producer - Tom Payne & Jody SmithProduction Support - Phie McKenzie & Rebecca Dowell Studio71 is a Red Arrow Studios Company. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Finding My Yum
Intimate Partner Terrorism on a Global Scale - with Nicoletta Heidegger

Finding My Yum

Play Episode Listen Later May 14, 2020 24:15


We welcome Nicoletta from Sluts and Scholars back for part 2 of this quarantine special! We move from the ground level view of domestic violence during the quarantine up to the world view. We hear from Nicoletta about legislation in the works, what problems we should be aware of, and what you can do to attempt to positively affect change during times like this. As a reminder, if you need access to resources, please reach out to the national domestic violence hotline - https://www.thehotline.org/ or call 1−800−799−7233 For additional resources, you can find a lot of support at Women's Advocate - https://www.wadvocates.org/ 

Finding My Yum
Identifying Abuse During Quarantine - with Nicoletta Heidegger

Finding My Yum

Play Episode Listen Later May 7, 2020 23:57


We are joined once again by Nicoletta Heidegger from the Sluts and Scholars podcast, to discuss abuse during quarantine. She offers tips on how to identify it, what you can do if you are experience it - or know someone who might be - and how everything is amplified during quarantine. It's an important conversation to have, so listen and learn how you might be able to help. If you need access to resources, please reach out to the national domestic violence hotline - https://www.thehotline.org/ or call 1−800−799−7233 For additional resources, you can find a lot of support at Women's Advocate - https://www.wadvocates.org/   

Girl Insta-rupted
Sluts and Scholars

Girl Insta-rupted

Play Episode Listen Later May 6, 2020 50:06


Nicoletta Heidegger gets insta-rupted today. Nicoletta Heidegger is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (#110256) practicing in Los Angeles and Beverly Hills. She's also the host of The Sluts and Scholars Podcast.   Nicoletta received her BA in Psychology from Stanford University, her MA in Clinical Psychology from Pepperdine University, and her Masters of Education in Human Sexuality from Widener University. Nicoletta is currently pursuing her PhD in Human Sexuality from Widener. When not working with clients, Nicoletta serves as the Director of Operations for the Golden Coast Sexual Health Alliance The Sexual Health Alliance (SHA) promotes an integrated, interdisciplinary approach to sexuality with the goal of fostering cooperation and dialogue among diverse professionals. Throughout the year, SHA facilitates communication among sexual health providers, general practitioners and advocates through its signature lecture series, roundtable forums, and educational workshops.   Nicoletta also creates monthly videos about issues relating to sexuality and mental health and puts out weekly content via her growing hit podcast and Live Sirius XM show, Sluts and Scholars. Nicoletta contributes regularly to other columns, podcasts, and blogs about sex, relationships, and mental health including The Stanford Daily, Vice, Livestrong, Swingtowns, Playboy Radio and more. In today’s episode Syd and Nicoletta discuss pleasure, sexual stigma with women, different types of orgasms, how to connect better with your partner and much more.   Highlights: Growing up with a very supportive family Working to undo her clients conditioning Helping people discover their bodies and pleasure zones The stigma around STI’s The different types or orgasms Having an orgasm while working out Creating a sex menu How size doesn’t matter Tips for working with your partner when their sex drive isn’t as high as yours   Syd Social Media Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/girlinstarupted YouTube – https://www.youtube.com/user/SYDWILDER Instagram – @sydwilder https://www.instagram.com/sydwilder/?hl=en Instagram - @GirlInstarupted https://www.instagram.com/girlinstarupted/?hl=en Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/TheRealSydWilder/ Email: Syd@GirlInstarupted.com   Nicoletta Heidegger Website: http://nicolettavheidegger.com/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC9uleDv6H5OsPUZaMF-zJMQ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/nicoletta-heidegger-646a095b/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/MsHeidegger Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/sluts-and-scholars/id1223781930       Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/Msheidegger/                                                                      

Elevated Intimacy Podcast
Ep. 3 - Masturbation and Bodysex with Nicoletta Heidegger

Elevated Intimacy Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 15, 2020 32:45


Nicoletta Heidegger, LMFT, marriage and family therapist and sex educator, joins Ashley as they reflect on their time masturbating together in the woods at a Bodysex workshop with renowned sex positive feminist Betty Dodson. At the retreat, Betty told Ashley what type of pussy she has, and the group enjoyed energy orgasms and erotic recess. Also in this episode: Nicoletta and Ashley talk about hymen myths and facts, if it is ever okay to fake an orgasm, and how much noise we make during sexy times. To find more about Elevated Intimacy Podcast, visit www.ElevatedIntimacyPodcast.com or follow www.instagram.com/elevatedintimacy To keep up with Ashley, visit www.CannaSexual.com or visit www.instagram.com/cannasexual To learn more about Bodysex, visit www.CSBodysex.com Special thanks to our sponsors Foria and Sybian. Use coupon code CANNASEXUAL at www.ForiaWellness.com to save 10% on purchases. If you have comments or ideas for future episodes, please email podcast@elevatedintimacy.com Please like, subscribe, and review!

Abe Lincoln's Top Hat
Episode 453: Mucky, Yucky World

Abe Lincoln's Top Hat

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 3, 2019 76:34


Ben and Travis discuss the democratic debates and Ben is joined by sex therapist Nicoletta Heidegger to discuss the causes for pedophilia, non-offending pedophiles and Jeffrey Epstein. Listen to Nicoletta's podcast, Sluts and Scholars: https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/id1223781930?ls=1 Go to http://buyraycon.com/TOPHAT to get 15% off your order! Use this exclusive offer to get $100 off at http://smiledirectclub.com/podcast with code TOPHAT Samba Isobel, Kevin MacLeod (incompetech.com) Licensed under Creative Commons: By Attribution 3.0 License creative-commons.org/licenses/by/3.0/

Dr. Wendy Walsh on Demand
@DrWendyWalsh (5/19)

Dr. Wendy Walsh on Demand

Play Episode Listen Later May 19, 2019 64:14


Today we learn about the connection between sleep, love, stress, and health. We have your guide to dealing with the grief of pet loss. Finally, we speak with sex therapist and former beloved tree Nicoletta Heidegger about "minor attracted people."

Romantical Podcast
Ep 008 - The Sluttiness Episode with Sluts & Scholars' Nicoletta and Simone

Romantical Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 11, 2019 57:11


As you might guess, this week's episode is heavy on the adult content - consider yourself warned!  What's your definition of a slut? After this episode with Nicoletta and Simone, the co-hosts of Sluts & Scholars podcast (@slutsandscholars), you might have a different one. Romantical co-hosts Francesca Hogi (@dearfranny) and Saskia Nelson (@saskia_nelson) talk all things sluttiness and pleasure with these extra special guests! This week's discussion about the definition of sex, anal sex, sexual communication with your partner, the anatomy of the clitoris, pegging, omnisexualism, Jessica Drake's Wicked Guide to Anal Sex, and MORE is both hilarious and informative.  Plus: Saskia shares her excitement over London's BFI Flare LGBT Film Festival and Francesca reflects on Michelle and Barack Obama's relationship after reading Michelle Obama's memoir, Becoming.  About our guests: Nicoletta and Simone strive to f*ck (sometimes literally) the paradigm that you can't be openly sexual AND a fully professional competent human. Nicoletta Heidegger is a licensed MFT and sexologist and Simone is an actor-turned-law-student who really likes to talk about sex. Together, they chat with folks from across sexuality, kink and professional spectrums about desire, pleasure, shame, stigma and (of course) bodily functions. In this episode: Sluts & Scholars Podcast: https://slutsscholars.libsyn.com/ Instagram: @slutsandscholars Twitter: @slutsscholars Books mentioned in this episode: Becoming by Michelle Obama Becoming Cliterate by Laurie Mintz Prime: Adventures and Advice on Sex, Love, and the Sensual Years by Pepper Schwartz Naked at Our Age: Talking Out Loud About Senior Sex by Joan Price Untrue: Why Nearly Everything We Believe About Women, Lust, and Infidelity Is Wrong and How the New Science Can Set Us Free by Wednesday Martin www.romanticalpodcast.com Instagram: @romanticalpod Twitter: @romanticalpod Francesca Hogi Instagram: @dearfranny Twitter: @dearfranny Saskia Nelson Instagram: @saskia_nelson Twitter: @saskia_nelson Francesca Hogi is an internationally recognized dating and life coach based in Los Angeles. She’s the least successful contestant in the history of the CBS reality TV show Survivor, an adjunct coach at the UC Berkeley Haas School of Business, and is like a cat lady, but with plants. Saskia Nelson is the award-winning creative genius behind Hey Saturday, the world’s first dating photography agency. After years of online dating, she met her boyfriend of 10 years online and decided to combine her passion for creativity with her expertise in dating to create the new genre of online dating photography.

Sex Magic Podcast
Episode 204: Sex & the Mind - Interview with Nicoletta Heidegger

Sex Magic Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 3, 2019 44:52


Welcome back to the Sex Magic Podcast! We sat down with Nicoletta Heidegger, licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and co-host of Sluts & Scholars podcast. We have a stimulating conversation about sexuality from the lens of psychology. Enjoy this episode as we chat sex, magic, and the mind!

Sex & Society with Valerie Baber
Sex Work & Scholarly Sluts with Nicolette Heidegger

Sex & Society with Valerie Baber

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 25, 2018 45:37


"Sex work-adjacent" therapist Nicoletta Heidegger joins me to discuss BDSM, the psychology of kink and how to safely engage in potentially dangerous play. We cover rape fantasies, FOSTA-SESTA and contemplate where sex workers can go if recent legislation means they can no longer work in the environment they're accustomed to. We also discuss sex doll brothels, whether hefty academic credentials can negate sexual stigmas, and what resources are available to adult entertainers in need of assistance.

Peepshow Podcast
Episode 33: Talking Sex Podcasting with Sluts and Scholars

Peepshow Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 28, 2018 59:31


Episode 33 features an interview with fellow sex podcasters Nicoletta Heidegger and Simone from Sluts and Scholars. They talk to us about why they started a sex podcast and how they’ve negotiated it in their professional lives. We also discuss the important work they are respectively doing in the areas of reproductive advocacy and therapy. For our news segment, we discuss the recent misogynistic viral campaign #ThotAudit, which threatened to turn sex workers in to the Internal Revenue Services.

Girl Boner Radio
Sex Therapy, Minor Attraction, Polyamory

Girl Boner Radio

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 29, 2018 60:15


Nicoletta Heidegger, a registered Marriage and Family Therapy Associate and cohost of Sluts and Scholars, joins August to discuss her work and minor attraction (being attracted to children). How is it different from pedophilia? Are healing, management and preventing harm to children possible? With the help of Dr. Megan Fleming, they weigh in for a listener whose wife of eight years recently revealed that she's polyamorous and in love with a coworker. Sign up for Girl Boner extras at augustmclaughlin.com. Find "Girl Boner: The Good Girl's Guide to Sexual Empowerment" on Amazon.

I Don't Get It
EP81: The Definition of Sex?

I Don't Get It

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 1, 2018 70:27


Have you ever stopped to think about how YOU define sex? Or have you ever felt judged by your sexuality? The girls are joined by Nicoletta Heidegger from the Sluts & Scholars podcast who talks about navigating sexuality in today's culture. 

The Manwhore Podcast: A Sex-Positive Quest
Ep. 206: How to Fight Fairly with Your Partner (Nicoletta Heidegger)

The Manwhore Podcast: A Sex-Positive Quest

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 21, 2018 74:04


Nicoletta Heidegger is an MFT associate and sexologist who thinks there’s nothing strange with being a sex-loving smartypants. “I can be a slut and a scholar at the same time. It doesn’t have to be either/or,” she shares. That’s why she started the Sluts & Scholars podcast! Heidegger joins me on this week’s Manwhore Podcast to discuss how to fight fairly with your partner and how to handle being called out on social media. Can you guess who that second one is directed towards? ALSO: I share a recent regrettable sexual experience that reminded me to advocate for myself. PLUS: disabilities, death threats, impromptu orgies, pegging, therapy and Love, Simon! Join us for next week’s Fanwhore Facebook Live Hangout by liking The Manwhore Podcast on Facebook! Mentioned on the show: Sexual Health Alliance AASECT Hacienda Follow Nicoletta Heidegger! Website Twitter: @msheidegger Instagram: @msheidegger Sluts & Scholars Become a member of my fanwhore community for just $1! Click here to join the club! The Manwhore Podcast is sponsored by AdamMale.com. Get up to 35% off any one item when you use promo code MANWHORE at www.AdamMale.com/manwhore! Email your comments, questions, and boobies to manwhorepod@gmail.com. www.ManwhorePod.com

Don't Waste Your Pretty
Sluts & Scholars w/ Nicoletta Heidegger

Don't Waste Your Pretty

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 7, 2017 45:19


This week sex-positive Marriage and Family Therapist intern and host of the Sluts and Scholars podcast, Nicoletta Heidegger, joins us in a no-holds-barred chat about having the sex we want at every age, her strategies for safer sex, the beauty of a soft body and how to avoid an atrophied vagina. Want to get in touch with Nicoletta: http://nicolettavheidegger.com Find a sex positive therapist need you: https://www.aasect.org Gmail: dontwasteyourpretty@gmail.com Instagram: @dontwasteyourpretty_ Twitter: @wastedprettypod Produced by: Angie Vroom Image by: Krystal Quiles www.krystalquiles.com

Sex Talk With My Mom
Ep. 20 - Weed and Sex Therapy

Sex Talk With My Mom

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 4, 2016 87:32


Cam and KarenLee open by discussing marijuana and its role in the bedroom. Then, they invite on Nicoletta Heidegger, a sex therapist/ex-Stanford Tree/KarenLee's dream daughter-in-law. Nicoletta offers insight on managing premature ejaculation, erectile dysfunction, insecurity related to penis size, and obstacles preventing women from achieving orgasms. She offers sex-positive counseling for everyone from heterosexual couples to adult baby diaper fetishists. Follow Nicoletta Heidegger! Twitter - @MsHeidegger Set up an appt! - http://nicolettavheidegger.com/ Get close with us! Leave a question on our voicemail at (323) 472-4237 Facebook – www.facebook.com/sextalkwithmymom/ Twitter – @SexTalkPodcast Instagram – @SexTalkWithMyMom Email - sextalkwithmymom AT gmail DOT com Website - www.sextalkwithmymom.com

Sexology
EP298 - Should I End My Relationship or Go to a Sex Therapist ft Nicoletta Heidegger

Sexology

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 1, 1970 43:33


Welcome to episode 298 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Nicoletta Heidegger to the podcast. In this episode, we discuss dealing with erotic conflict, exploring other relationship types such as polyamorous and figuring out when's the right time to end a relationship.  Nicoletta Heidegger is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (#110256) and sexologist practicing in Los Angeles, California.   Nicoletta received her BA in Psychology from Stanford University, her MA in Clinical Psychology from Pepperdine University, and her Masters of Education in Human Sexuality from Widener University.    She sees therapy clients virtually and at her unique ranch office in Los Angeles, where she offers sex therapy, outdoor sessions, and Equine Facilitated (also called Equine Assisted) Psychotherapy and Learning. Nicoletta also creates weekly content via her growing hit show Sluts and Scholars: a sex positive, shame-free educational podcast.     In this episode, you will hear:   Dealing with erotic conflict  Discovering your partner likes something sexual you're not interested in What to do when your partner reveals they have a fetish to you How to communicate if your partner revels a different sexual side to you Exploring other relationship types such as polyamorous  The different types of modality people can explore Looking at equine assisted therapy  What we can learn from equine assisted therapy Figuring out when's the right time to end a relationship Find Nicoletta Heidegger Online https://www.slutsandscholars.com   101 Ways To Keep Your Relationship Hot https://sexologypodcast.com/subscribe/   Instagram https://www.instagram.com/sexologypodcast   Podcast Produced by Pete Bailey - http://petebailey.net/audioAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Open Late
28. Why (Not) Sex Therapy? with Nicoletta Heidegger

Open Late

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 1, 1970 49:33


Nicoletta Heidegger is the host of Sluts and Scholars podcast and is a licensed marriage and family therapist. She offers coaching, consulting, and equine therapy. This conversation goes into why sex coaching is beneficial and when is the right time to seek it out.In this episode of Open Late:What led Nicoletta to become a Sexologist How shame can be the root cause of trauma and how to move through itSeeking help before crisis mode: When to know it's time for sex therapyDiscussing the causes and remedies of pelvic painQuestions to ask when thinking about opening up the relationshipFollow Nicoletta:Instagram: @slutsandscholarsTwitter: @therapywithnicolettaWebsite: nicolettavheidegger.comConnect Jessica:Instagram: @journey.with.jessica | @openlatethepodcastWebsite: openlatepodcast.com | jessicaesfandiary.comYoutube: Open Late PodcastShow Resources:Take the relationship style quizGet the Open Late DictionaryThis show is produced by Soulfire Productions