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Sis, "whose report will you believe?" That's what I want to know; "whose report will you believe?" Yes, I had to ask it twice because it is just that serious. With so many voices speaking and echoing their thoughts on what it is to be a 21st-century woman and what you need to do, and who you need to become to be accepted as someone worthy of love and respect, sis, if you don't snatch that mic and amplify the sound of your authenticity you will become invisible to yourself. Join host Joy on this no holds bar episode. Available on your favorite podcast apps. Come from behind, fearless one! To connect with me, please visit www.pinkgirlteaches.com If you have a question that you would like to ask me, visit www.wisio.com/pink_girl_teaches; submit your question, and I will send you a video response. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/pinkgirlteaches/support

Before you took your first breath your purpose was already waiting for you. One of the greatest battles the enemy will wage war against is your purpose. How then do you avoid the pitfalls of drama? Pastor Rosalyn Gainous joins me for this conversation. She is a licensed Social Worker that has served as a professional Leader in the mental health field for over 20 years. She is passionate about helping and bringing healing to people who have been through traumatic and stressful experiences. She is known for helping individuals develop healthy relationships, healthy perception of themselves; so they can know themselves as complete and whole individuals Rosalyn Gainous also serves alongside her husband, Pastor Benjamin Gainous as the executive Pastor of Yahweh Transitional Church located in Elkton MD. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/pinkgirlteaches/support

Have you ever committed to something or someone and realized that there would never be a return on your investment? Your time investment and heart posture towards that person or thing. You never experience your desired fulfillment, yet your commitment to that thing or person keeps you stuck? Shannon Savoy, Narc Free Living LLC CEO, joins me for a very upfront and candid conversation. To connect with Shannon, please visit her website: www.narcfreeliving.com To connect with Joy, please visit: www.pinkgirlteaches.com --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/pinkgirlteaches/support

Queenie Love joins host Joy (PGT) for a candid conversation on dating in 2022. Chileee, the thought alone can be exhausting, but the ladies have something to say! Queenie is the creator of the Bar Talks discussion forum and Host of The Relationship Zone the Podcast. To connect with Queenie, please visit: www.instagram.com/the_relationship_zone To connect with host joy, please visit: www.pinkgirlteaches.com --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/pinkgirlteaches/support

How well do you know yourself, and how comfortable are you being who you are? "They" say that the struggle is real" and "the struggle is real" for real, for real! When you do not know who you are or have a limited self-concept, you are in danger of compromising who you are and who God created you to be. To connect with me, please visit: www.pinkgirlteaches.com --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/pinkgirlteaches/support

In this episode Joy, questions how believers should navigate the dating streets. Do you play by the world's rule book and follow the dating trends. Does the fact that you are, set apart set the tone for how you show up in these dating streets? To connect with Joy, please visit www.pinkgirlteaches.com. To join Joy's text community and receive a weekly motivational message, text fearlessone to 74121 or 833-205-9557 --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/pinkgirlteaches/support

Terms such as “YOLO” and “living my best life while they may sound good and tickle your ears need to be lead you to a pause. YOLO and you should indeed live your best life, but what is the stand for this. What does it look like? Don't get caught up in the cycles and trends projected to and believe that you are missing out on something. Join me for this conversation. To connect with me, please visit: https://linktr.ee/PinkGirlTeaches --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/pinkgirlteaches/support

On this comeback, episode Joy wastes absolutely no time diving into the meat and bones of the toxicity of the current dating and relationship culture. A lover of love, Joy does not shy away from sharing the truth through the lens of the word of God. It's time to examine what is leading your relational choices and dive deeper into your why and who. To connect with me or schedule a private coaching session. Please visit https://www.pinkgirlteaches.com. Do you have a question you would like to ask privately about your situation? Would you like the opportunity to receive a video response just for you? If you answered yes, submit your request by clicking below. https://www.wisio.com/Pink_Girl_Teaches Ladies, if you would like to attend the HETOX Q&A that join me on Wednesday, December 15th at 7 pm CST, by clicking on the link below: https://www.pinkgirlteaches.com/upcoming To register for HETOX, visit: www.pinkgirlteaches.com/hetox Ladies journey with a journey of discovery as I look at the women in the Bible. When Queens Convene Bible Study meets on the first Friday of the month at 7 pm CST. In January, we will be looking at the life of Rahab. To register and be part of the gathering of Queens, register at: www.pinkgirlteaches.com/upcoming. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/pinkgirlteaches/support

Many voices will tell you what you can and cannot have; I am simply here to point you back to the truth. Welcome back! I am so excited to be back behind the microphone. The past year-ish has truthfully not been an easy one, yet I honestly would not change a single thing about it. It has been a time of self-reflection, tears (lots of them), alone time, God time, and growth. I couldn't continue to produce content during a season of pruning because it would not only have been irresponsible, it could have potentially been harmful.  I appreciate your patience; it's my sincere prayer that you will be encouraged and your life enlightened by the content that I will be sharing. Season 1, Episode 1 with be available on Friday, November 5th. God bless you, Fearless One! Pink Girl Teaches | Linktree   --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/pinkgirlteaches/support

Intuitive Self Care Advisor & Life StrategistMonique Williams joins me to discuss “Dating with a Chronic Medical Condition.” We often paint a picture about what our ideal partner should look like and go to great lengths to define our preferences. What do you do when the person who meets those requirements comes with a chronic medical condition? To learn more about Monique, you can connect with her at: https://holisticselfcareinstitute.com https://www.instagram.com/Selfcaremo_ https://www.facebook.com/SelfcareMonique --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/pinkgirlteaches/support

Tiffany Fox joins me today and leaves nothing on the table. It's time to check our "why" and get to the nitty-gritty of our behavior patterns and fix them at the root so that we can meet the authentic version of ourselves and establish the correct boundaries to guard ourselves. To connect with Tiffany, visit her website: www.tiffanyfoxinc.com --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/pinkgirlteaches/support

This is not a conversation to bash men but rather hold ourselves accountable for what we allowed to happen in our lives. Yes, we have to get comfortable addressing our behavior and insecurities and take responsibility for where we find ourselves and what we do with the knowledge we have. It's not enough to say "knowledge is power" and continue to be stuck in our old habits. Chantea Williams joins me for this necessary conversation. To connect with Chantea, visit her website: www.relentlesspublishing.com --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/pinkgirlteaches/support

Hello friends, today is World Narcissistic Abuse Awareness Day (WNAAD), and I wanted to take a moment to bring awareness to this insidious abuse. I want to focus on survivors and highlight your strength. This is a conversation that focuses on who you are and not the narcissist. Now and then, you need to pour back into yourself. This was recorded for YouTube and shared there. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/pinkgirlteaches/support

If ever there was a transparent moment, this is it. Why is dating in ministry so difficult, is it really because the men in ministry lack integrity? Where does personal responsibility and accountability come in to play? Aiesha Nicole join me for this very candid conversation. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/pinkgirlteaches/support

Your single season is the most important season of your life as it lays the foundation for your future relationships and marriage. Don't negate the value of this season by focusing on who is not in your life or dwelling on what married life could be based off the #relationship goals of others. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/pinkgirlteaches/support

When did you last evaluate the quality of your relationship list? Wait a minute, do you even have a list? After sharing the #2 requirement on my list, an interesting conversation was sparked, and some self-reflection occurred. It’s important that you continually evaluate your list because you as a person are continuously evolving and your list should serve not just where you currently are stationed in life but where you see the future version of yourself. In this episode I am sharing my complete list, I look forward to hearing/reading about yours. www.pinkgirlteaches.com --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/pinkgirlteaches/support

Society and culture is currently focused on the conversation centered around High Value Men. Many are lead to believe that these men are the cream of the crop and deserve the very best that life has to offer. When it comes to dating, there is a particular type of woman or look that is approved and another that is considered below par. Queenie, of The Relationship Zone Podcast, joins me for this conversation and we dive into the how limiting this perspective is. Being a High Value Man, is not about being part of a movement but rather the content of a persons character. Join Queenie on her journey: IG: @The_Realationship_Zone YouTube: The Relationship Zone --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/pinkgirlteaches/support

Hey girl hey! Sis we need to talk, there is nothing honorable about being an add on in someone's life. You are not mayo, ketchup or mustard! Those are options. They are not a necessity but are USED to enhance what is already on the plate. Girl don't settle, there is no way that you can be the one and only if you are comfortable being an option. www.pinkgirlteaches.com --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/pinkgirlteaches/support

One of the ingredients to a successful relationship is effective communication. We are not always taught how to communicate and as a result we don't always articulate ourselves or process information accurately. Tricia Sitemere, the CEO & Founder of CTRL Alt Delete. She help individuals find fulfillment – in career and LIFE. Tricia is the author: “I’m Sick of This Shit.” Visit her website and YouTube Channel to learn more about this dynamic lady. www.TriciaSitemere.com --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/pinkgirlteaches/support

On this episode, Relationship Therapist, Dr. Troy Watson, joins the discussion. ways that you can improve the quality of your relationships. Don't allow society and culture to tell you that love real love does not exist. You can have a healthy love that respects you and loves you. Dr. Troy, shares some great tips to help improve your overall well being and lead you to your desired fulfillment. www.realloveandhappiness.com --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/pinkgirlteaches/support

One of the things that I enjoy most about being a woman, is my femininity. It's a beautiful thing to walk confidently in who you are. However, many are not comfortable with this because of life experiences, religion and the opinions of society and culture. Frankly, it can be exhausting. Antoinette, joins me to discuss what it means to be , "Save, Sexy & Sensual." https://savedsexyandsensual.bigcartel.com Facebook Group" https://www.facebook.com/groups/2180497515595714 --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/pinkgirlteaches/support

There is nothing quite refreshing as having a conversation with one of your Day 1's. Here is a peek of what friendship is to me. We hold each other accountable and to a standard to always do our best. Everybody needs a Vernelle in their life. www.instagram.com/nellydoesketo

Have you ever been in a crowded room and felt completely lonely? Have you ever asked yourself why you are lonely? It's time to bring the focus back to you so that you can heal your emotional wounds. Just like happiness is something we experience internally, so is loneliness and for  you to begin to heal, you have to look within. Join me in this journey as I share some of my own experiences and one tool tool that began to shift my perspective.

“They,” say that, one of the most important relationships that we will have, is with our same sex parent . The mother-daughter relationship has been known to have its ups and down which generally speaking, time, growth and life experiences strengthen the bond. What do you do when that’s not your story and all you have encountered is toxicity? Sharia’s Robertson, founder of “Unmotherfuck Yourself,” joins the conversation to help adult daughters impacted by maternal abuse. www.unmotherfuckyourself.com

Yeah, that's right we are talking about IT today. "Sexfluencer," sex blogger, sex toy matchmaker and blowjob coach Ashley, of "Sex With Ashley," joins the conversation. It's really not what you think but it's what you need to know, to help you begin to see your own desires as normal. Let's face it, in certain cultures, sex is still very much a taboo topic, yet it is absolutely part of everyday life. We are here to help change the negative narrative and help you see yourself as normal while enhancing your sexual journey. To book your own virtual party with Ashley, visit her website and definitely check out her social media. www.sexwithashley.com www.facebook.com/sexwithashley www.instagram.com/sexwithashley www.instagram.com/bedtanicals

Let's tell the truth, after day 687,987,098 of quarantine, many people are asking, "how much longer?" The truth is that even though the discussion has shifted to slowly trying to open up the economy and create a new normal for us, there is purpose for each of us during this period. Your purpose doesn't have to reflect mine. That does not diminish either of us. Take the time to self reflect and find the your individual life meaning for this season that we are in. 

Codependency, can generally be characterized by a person belonging to a dysfunctional, on-sided relationship, where one person relies on the other person pretty much meeting all their emotional needs. This episode seeks to uncover the underlying causes as well as provide you with anchoring thoughts to help you unlearn behaviors that were settled in childhood. YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCSBTiC_ST3DUmD2DmOlBlvg?view_as=subscriber Email: pinkgirlteaches@gmail.com

Many of us, experience some type of childhood trauma that alters the way that we see ourselves. This fake identity, leads to destructive patterns that, if you do not do the work the work to heal, it will rob you of your desired fulfillment. The trailblazer, Carla Cannon openly discusses her journey of healing, self discovery and purpose. You can reach Carla at: www.carlacannon.com www.womenofstandard.org

When the abuser, cannot reach the victim, they seek out accomplices to do their dirty bidding. These accomplices are commonly known as, "Flying Monkeys." During this difficult time, some people are not safe at home. Their abuser, is employing flying monkeys to inflict additional abuse. ⛔️Could they be using you? ⛔️Are you a flying monkey? ⛔️How can you NOT participate in this abuse?  

Being quarantined with a narcissist can feel like a season of emotional warfare. You are literally stuck in the house, sharing space, a bed, meals and children with them. this can be a breeding ground for chaos. It's a battle of power and control and they will no doubt be projecting, gaslighting, triangulating and doing anything they can to get a reaction out of you. Stop, take a deep breathe and listen to this episode to get some pointers on how you can survive quarantine. YouTube: Project Real Love

What do you do when you feel trapped in the house with your person? Like literally it feels as though you are on lock down. Now if you like them and have a healthy and secure relationship that is all good. What if that is not your reality. Here you are looking at this person day in and day out, searching for reasons to leave the house, but frankly you have no valid reason to leave the house. Join, "The Relationship Chick," and I in this episode as we share ways on how you can make this down time work for you. IG: @therelationshipschick

I am not new to this but I am true to this! Today marks the podcast launch and so this special edition is just some of my “Pink Thoughts.” Thank you for your continued support ❤️

Just in case you have never heard this term, let us break it down for you. Sabriya Reese CEO, mom and friend joins me so that we can chop up this trend.

Have you ever asked this question, or are you currently asking yourself this question? If you said yes, to either of those questions, let me tell you that you are certainly not alone. Neither are you the first to and you certainly won't be the last. There is a sting that we feel as a relationship is coming to an end or has ended. It is a perfectly normal question, but here is another question that you can ask yourself? "Why do I want them to miss me?"

Do you think polygamy is okay? Seriously, can two women,  live a happy and fulfilling life with one man? Is one man able to meet the mental, emotional, sexual and spiritual needs of multiple women or vice versa? CEO, Creative Director & Fashion Designer, Neka Kahilia, founder of Fire On The Runway joins the conversation.

With Valentine's day fast approaching, there are many reminders that you are not boo'd up. There will be an influx of cute couples on social media sharing the highlights of their love story. Many proposals on the most romantic day of the year all reminding you that it's not you. Look, singleness is not a curse. Lifestyle Vlogger Monet of @Slaying_Singleness joins the conversations and sheds light on how beneficial her single season has been to her overall growth and she shares ways that you too can slay your single season.

He is giving you the vibe that you are a couple sometimes, he even verbalizes to you that you are a couple, yet sometimes things seem off-ish. He has one foot in and one foot out, he sitting on the fence, sex everyday, having babies and yet he will not marry you or even claim you. yes, society and culture says that this behavior is the norm nowadays, tuh! This is your life and at any given moment and without explanation you can flip the script and issue the plot twist. That's right, this your life and your only life don't settle just for some company, a warm body or community dick!Keisha Natalee Cole joins the discussion, what do you think? You can see Keisha at: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCH8qQCFtu2VgrIS3kefeaZA

Every now and then, your strong friend, is going to experience a moment of vulnerability. Let’s face the fact that we ALL experience life and need the love and support of our family and friends.

During cuffing season, the narcissist will most definitely hover you.

If you are really serious about solving your relationship problems, then prove it to yourself by stopping the “brushing it off” act. Do not lie to yourself that the problem is not so bad, or that it will take care of yourself- you know that it will not!

Before you decide that cheating on your partner is a risk worth taking, take a quick pause and get back in touch with your desires. What is it you are looking for when these temptations come along?

Day by day, the majority of us have a painful war with ourselves. It is a constant fight that includes constant criticism, pressure, anger, sadness and endless cruel comparisons. It is an everyday struggle that gets in the way and keeps you from seeing yourself for who you really are and achieving your true purposes in life. Where did this war begin and why?

You may know that online dating is a valuable platform for meeting new people, but you may find yourself anxious and uncomfortable with the process and all of the uncertainty that comes with it. From being ghosted or rejected to getting your hopes up prior to meeting in person only to determine you are not a match, there are a wide range of highs and lows that come with dating.

Jealousy. It may only be a simple word, but does not have such a simple definition behind it. There are many reasons we feel jealous and though it is a normal human emotion to feel, it tends to get out of control if we fail to tame it. In order to tame it and control it however, you will first have to learn where your jealousy is coming from. There is always a cause for jealousy to arise and once you have those causes figured out, controlling it will become easier.

You have between 3-30 seconds to make your profile standout. In this episode Dating and Relationship Coach Pink Girl Teaches shares tips that are sure to make your profile standout.

Some of the worst dating advice that I have ever heard is, “you will know if he likes you.” That’s because it doesn’t factor in the effects of oxytocin or the halo effect.

Are you the one, who the one, that you are looking for, is looking for? Do you qualify for what you are praying and asking for? Do you match the list of requirements that you are seeking? Do you measure up? Let’s tell the truth, you don’t attract who you are becoming or who you want but rather you attract what you are. If you are tired of repeating cycles, it’s time to ask yourself some questions. Are you ready to qualify for the person you desire to have in your life? Join host Pink Girl Teaches as she walks you through the steps to qualifying for what you are looking for.

Let's face it narcissist abuse is insidious and follows a very calculated path of manipulation. Not a single person alive, would in their right mind sign up for this and yet it is happening every single day. Countless people fall prey to the charisma of the narcissist only to realize that it was an illusion. What traits is the narcissist seeking to determine who is going to be a good source of supply and who will ultimately fall for their deceptive and manipulative behavior? Join host Joy affectionately known as Pink Girl Teaches on this journey of emancipation.

While for some, the holiday season is magical and a time of love, family and excitement. For others, it is a time when the blues set in and feelings of loneliness, anxiety and at times, depression set in. What do you do? Do you rent a boo for the holidays to dodge the, "aren't you tired of being single?" questions? Lets discuss what you can do to alleviate societal pressures. www.facebook.com/pinkgirlteaches www.instagram.com/pink_girl_teaches www.twitter.com/pinkgirlteaches

How do you recover when you have been dropped? What do you do when the promise is aborted? You take a timeout to regroup and bounce back with a game plan.

The standard to be a wife or simply to be in a relationship should never include dragging your common sense through the mud. It’s time that we stop glorifying inconsistent behavior, mediocrity, immaturity and general bad behavior. Stop holding yourself to whack standards that limit your potential.