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How often do you say “I'm fine” when your body tells a different story? In this honest and transformative episode of Pure Orgasmic Love Podcast, w/Dragonfly, she explores the subtle yet big ways we lie to ourselves—and why. Through the wisdom of somatic awareness, you'll learn to recognize emotional and physical signs of self-deception and discover gentle practices to reconnect with your truth. If you're ready to deepen your self-honesty and open the door to authentic connection, healing, and freedom, this episode is your gentle guide back home to yourself. Links: PureOrgasmicLove.com (partner(s)/couples) DragonflySomaticWellness.com (women only) Hearts & Hips Platform membership (women only) Goddess Retreats Sliquid  Follow me on: Instagram  Non-monogamous? Join: SDC

In this episode of Pure Orgasmic Love Podcast with Dragonfly, she explores how self-awareness—or the lack of it—shapes your emotional landscape, relationships, and joy. Through the lens of somatic wisdom, learn to decode the subtle messages of your body, embrace emotions with compassion, and transform disconnection into clarity and connection. If you've ever felt emotionally overwhelmed or stuck in relational patterns, this episode offers a gentle yet powerful invitation to tune in and live more consciously. Your body has something to say—are you listening? Links: PureOrgasmicLove.com (partner(s)/couples) DragonflySomaticWellness.com (AFAB only) Hearts & Hips Platform membership (AFAB only) Goddess Retreats Sliquid  Follow me on: Instagram  Non-monogamous? Join: SDC

In a world where technology evolves at lightning speed, it's easy to find ourselves more connected to devices than to our own bodies. Today, we're diving deep into what it means to truly be present—not just with others, but with yourself. Despite the world's increasing connectivity, many of us feel more disconnected than ever, struggling with feelings of loneliness, anxiety, and even depression. But what if the key to rekindling our authentic connections lies in something as simple as putting down our phones and tuning into the moment? Join Dragonfly as she explores how our over-reliance on technology might be affecting our relationships and how embracing the beauty of being in your body can bring you back to what really matters—those real, meaningful connections with yourself and those around you. It's time to step away from the screen and step into the richness of life. Are you ready to reconnect? Let's get started. Show Links: Connected Goddess Gateway: pureorgasmiclove.com/gateways Sliquid Website: PureOrgasmicLove.com Spotify Playlist: Listen Here (@pureorgasmiclove) Follow me on: SDC & Instagram 

Today, we're diving into a topic that holds the power to transform our lives—pleasure. What is your relationship with it? For many, unlocking pleasure, especially erotic pleasure, can be elusive or complicated, influenced by a myriad of factors we might not even be aware of. From cultural norms and societal taboos to personal traumas and body image issues, so many things can impact our ability to fully experience and enjoy pleasure. In this episode, join Dragonfly to break down some of the most common influences that may be limiting your pleasure and how to recognize them in your own life. Together, we'll explore the importance of healthy communication, self-love, and somatic awareness as tools to unlock a deeper, more fulfilling connection with your body and your desires. Whether you're seeking to enhance your current experiences or simply understand your relationship with pleasure better, this episode is for you. So, take a moment, breathe, and join Dragonfly on a journey towards greater pleasure and self-discovery. Connected & Pleasured Membership Connected Goddess Gateway

Join Dragonfly as she explores how embracing small moments can transform our lives, keeping us grounded and more in tune with ourselves and our relationships.

Feeling depleted and maxed out? Time is a thing, and your calendar is important. Do you know what your relationship with that tick-tock is?

Dragonfly reviews 3 “is this normal” Qs about this erotic act and will enlighten you on some benefits that may make you experience this more for yourself!

In this eye-opening episode, we sit down with E to unravel the unconventional wisdom behind our distinct health perspectives and the Human Primate Model. The post #034 Human Primate Model: Health Lessons from the Zoo with E first appeared on Pure Orgasmic Love.

Join Dragonfly on a journey of unraveling the profound impact of self-talk on your authentic self, your relationships, and the pleasure you desire. The post #033 Words of Self-Talk. Important? first appeared on Pure Orgasmic Love.

Talking about losing yourself in the tornados of life and learning some of the juice that goes into being a superwoman while leading with self-love. The post #032 Got the Juice w/my Super Women first appeared on Pure Orgasmic Love.

Most of us are raised with little to no education about sexuality and pleasure, yet our programming says we should be good at them anyway. In this episode, Dragonfly and E talk about changing their mindset to one of sex as a skill. What if we remove the shame around not knowing about sex and […] The post #022 – Sex, a skill? first appeared on Pure Orgasmic Love.

Sometimes the unpleasant parts of responsibility are what lead us to the bonuses. In this conversation, Dragonfly and E talk about what it means to take responsibility for their own pleasure and what that looks like within their relationship dynamic. Our Links: Goddess Gateway Spotify Playlist Follow me on: SDC Instagram Costa Rica ~ PleasurePLAY […] The post #021 – Self-Responsibility for Your Pleasure first appeared on Pure Orgasmic Love.

Do you believe there is only one type of relationship dynamic when you are married? Do you need permission to discover what it could look like for you?   Join Dragonfly & E to understand a bit more about this thing called, Relationship Design. Our Links: PureOrgasmicLove.com Spotify Playlist Follow me on: SDC Instagram Twitter […]

Another amazing year of Naughty N'awlins.Join Dragonfly & E to hear about their favorites of Naughty 2022! Want to experience this amazing event? Dragonfly wants you to be part of her special mingle & tingle, so buy now through her affiliate link.  Get Your Naughty N'awlins 2023 Tickets Here! Mentioned in the show: Duchess – […]

Who brought it up first and what does yours look like? These are two of the things I want to know in this bonus episode of the Pure Orgasmic Love Podcast. In the first of what will be a series of interviews, I talk to four couples at Naughty N'awlins 2021. They open up and […]

Have you ever had someone let you know how you have positively influenced them, and it just melts your heart? That exact thing happened to dragonfly recently, and that story is only one of the fantastic things that happened this year at naughty. Join Dragonfly and E as they talk about connection, education, and coming […]

In today's episode, I'm connecting w/Chris Connelly, Photographer – shooting exclusively Intimate Portraiture. He has Two magnificent NY studios in Albany, and Lake George, plus beautiful location shoots in the Adirondacks and Caribbean.He mainly photographs women and some couples – but always loves to work with men too! Join us for a conversation about our […]

Dragonfly was invited to educate at the SDC event – Sexperience 2021 in Cancun, in this episode we have a conversation around our overall experience and why it was one of our favorite events we have ever done. So much love for the staff, attendees, and the SDC Team. From an Attendee:“We met Dragonfly at […]

We are finally home but during our trip we found lots of love in Mexico. This episode we are going to focus on the love we found for each other and how the decision to focus on us changed everything, and the crazy situation that gave us the time. Todays listener question comes from our […]

Intimacy is an essential part of life. As social animals, we need to feel connected to those closest to us. This closeness feeds our sense of wellbeing. Yet, many of us are lacking intimacy in our lives. In today's conversation, Dragonfly and E talk about how they chose to expand themselves and their relationships by […]

We all need the human touch / I need it, the human touch / We all need the human touch / We all need it, and I need it too… “Human Touch”, Rick Springfield There are studies showing that touch signals safety and trust, it soothes. It activates the body's vagus nerve, which is intimately […]

In Disney's “Bambi”, spring hit the forest and the animals became “twitterpated”!  Is there a correlation between the spring weather, the feeling of the sun on your skin, and how your sexuality starts to awaken? Listen in and we'll discuss how the sun, the spring air, and this season can affect you and your body, […]

It's time for a bonus episode! Join me & a special guest, Michelle, from Michelle Lee Arts, for a conversation digging deeper into our shadows/dark & light/bright sides of us and how we have moved into accepting these sides as part of who we are, entirely and authenticity.

We've got listener mail! Questions come to  us all the time about Ethical Non-Monogamy, and the “lifestyle”.  Listen to this week's episode to find out how we got into it, what it means for us, and what it might mean for you. Listener Question: “ You've mentioned Ethical Non-Monogamy more than once. Can you elaborate […]

For MY Birthday Celebration… I've teamed up with artist @michellelee.arts to give away this 11” x 14” print of her “Shadows on Fire” oil pastel painting, on archival matte fine art paper (value $77). Join me for this conversation about erotic art and how it plays a part in living an Orgasmic Life. Register to win!! […]

We spin in circles of non-communication. Why? Because it can be scary. Listen to this week's episode to find out how to learn your communication style, and communicate in a way to fit your desires! Not everyone is taught HOW to communicate.  Whether it is to express emotion, to express desire to your partner, or […]

It's not just one thing…  What are we talking about? There's always more than one way to please your partner! Listen in on this episode to find out – what ARE the things?? There's so many things! We've all been taught that there's “the way” – or one thing – how you can be sexually […]

Food, Adventure, Sensation, and Birthday Sex! Birthdays are the one actual universal holiday. We were all born, and we should celebrate that in whatever way feels best to us. Join me as I share how I feel about birthdays and what E and I did to celebrate my special day. Music: Birthday Sex – Jeremih […]

Do you enjoy being naked all the time? Do you enjoy being naked only in your own home? Have you ever been naked at a resort, or on a cruise, or in your own backyard? Let's talk about it! The definition of a nudist is a person who believes in the practice of going nude, […]

Let's talk about… Words! Words can hurt. Words can heal.  Let's talk about what we say, how we say it, and what it means to you and those we're speaking to. Words. Words can have a profound effect on us.  Words can hurt and words can heal. The reason words have any effect on us […]

Happy New Year!  A new year brings new opportunities for Pure Orgasmic Love and our followers! Was 2020 just a dream?  I won't say a bad dream, because there was some good in 2020… Pure Orgasmic Love made some changes in how we reach our followers!  We're excitedly looking to the future and all it […]

Holding Space: being physically, mentally, and emotionally present for someone.It means putting your focus on someone to support them as they feel their feelings. Holding Space. What does it mean to “hold space”?  It's a term we hear a lot about, but we may not know what it is, and what it means to us. […]

Lovin', Touchin' and Squeezin'… each other!   Do you love to be touched, in all the places? Do you shy away from touch? Listen in on our conversation about touch and the different aspects of touch, and how touch affects us in different ways. Touch can be good – or it can be bad.  Which […]

It's necessary to sustain life, but did you know that it can play a part in your sexy time? It's all about breathing…  We all do it. It's a necessity of life!  But, how can breathing become a part of your sexy time? Breathing can help you relax, to ready you for sexy time; breathing […]

Pure Orgasmic Love. It is not just my business name, but how we choose to live our life. Listen to find out what being orgasmic and living an orgasmic life means for you. Being orgasmic and living orgasmic… What does it all mean? In this episode we will discuss our favorite topic – what is […]

Find out where we've been, what we've been doing, and where we're going from here! We've missed you!  But we're back!  We'll fill you in on all the details of where we were, what we've been doing, and what's coming up next!  We've got big plans for Pure Orgasmic Love, and we want you to […]