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Discover your orgasmic life! I'm Dragonfly. I believe everyone deserves to learn how to embody more connection and pleasure so they can create fulfilling relationships and profoundly passionate sex to live an Orgasmic Life. I graduated from the Institu


    • May 29, 2025 LATEST EPISODE
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    #040 – The Consequences of Awareness

    Play Episode Listen Later May 29, 2025 20:05


    In this episode of Pure Orgasmic Love Podcast with Dragonfly, she explores how self-awareness—or the lack of it—shapes your emotional landscape, relationships, and joy. Through the lens of somatic wisdom, learn to decode the subtle messages of your body, embrace emotions with compassion, and transform disconnection into clarity and connection. If you've ever felt emotionally overwhelmed or stuck in relational patterns, this episode offers a gentle yet powerful invitation to tune in and live more consciously. Your body has something to say—are you listening? Links: PureOrgasmicLove.com (partner(s)/couples) DragonflySomaticWellness.com (AFAB only) Hearts & Hips Platform membership (AFAB only) Goddess Retreats Sliquid  Follow me on: Instagram  Non-monogamous? Join: SDC

    #039 Reclaiming Connection: Stepping Away from the Screen and into Life

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 5, 2024 13:14


    In a world where technology evolves at lightning speed, it's easy to find ourselves more connected to devices than to our own bodies. Today, we're diving deep into what it means to truly be present—not just with others, but with yourself. Despite the world's increasing connectivity, many of us feel more disconnected than ever, struggling with feelings of loneliness, anxiety, and even depression. But what if the key to rekindling our authentic connections lies in something as simple as putting down our phones and tuning into the moment? Join Dragonfly as she explores how our over-reliance on technology might be affecting our relationships and how embracing the beauty of being in your body can bring you back to what really matters—those real, meaningful connections with yourself and those around you. It's time to step away from the screen and step into the richness of life. Are you ready to reconnect? Let's get started. Show Links: Connected Goddess Gateway: pureorgasmiclove.com/gateways Sliquid Website: PureOrgasmicLove.com Spotify Playlist: Listen Here (@pureorgasmiclove) Follow me on: SDC & Instagram 

    #038  Unlocking Pleasure: Understanding the Influences on Your Erotic Fulfillment

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 22, 2024 18:58


    Today, we're diving into a topic that holds the power to transform our lives—pleasure. What is your relationship with it? For many, unlocking pleasure, especially erotic pleasure, can be elusive or complicated, influenced by a myriad of factors we might not even be aware of. From cultural norms and societal taboos to personal traumas and body image issues, so many things can impact our ability to fully experience and enjoy pleasure. In this episode, join Dragonfly to break down some of the most common influences that may be limiting your pleasure and how to recognize them in your own life. Together, we'll explore the importance of healthy communication, self-love, and somatic awareness as tools to unlock a deeper, more fulfilling connection with your body and your desires. Whether you're seeking to enhance your current experiences or simply understand your relationship with pleasure better, this episode is for you. So, take a moment, breathe, and join Dragonfly on a journey towards greater pleasure and self-discovery. Connected & Pleasured Membership Connected Goddess Gateway

    #037 Small Moments Enhancing Your Life & Arousal

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 7, 2024 11:03


    Join Dragonfly as she explores how embracing small moments can transform our lives, keeping us grounded and more in tune with ourselves and our relationships.

    #036 Embracing You in the Clock’s Tick

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 12, 2024


    Feeling depleted and maxed out? Time is a thing, and your calendar is important. Do you know what your relationship with that tick-tock is?

    #035 Mastur8ation Normal?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 1, 2024


    Dragonfly reviews 3 “is this normal” Qs about this erotic act and will enlighten you on some benefits that may make you experience this more for yourself!

    #034 Human Primate Model: Health Lessons from the Zoo with E

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 9, 2024 58:21


    In this eye-opening episode, we sit down with E to unravel the unconventional wisdom behind our distinct health perspectives and the Human Primate Model. The post #034 Human Primate Model: Health Lessons from the Zoo with E first appeared on Pure Orgasmic Love.

    #033 Words of Self-Talk. Important?

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 21, 2024 20:46


    Join Dragonfly on a journey of unraveling the profound impact of self-talk on your authentic self, your relationships, and the pleasure you desire. The post #033 Words of Self-Talk. Important? first appeared on Pure Orgasmic Love.

    #032 Got the Juice w/my Super Women

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 9, 2024 20:56


    Talking about losing yourself in the tornados of life and learning some of the juice that goes into being a superwoman while leading with self-love. The post #032 Got the Juice w/my Super Women first appeared on Pure Orgasmic Love.

    #031 Somatically Loving in the 5 Love Languages

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 29, 2024 20:40


    #030 Tiny Steps, Big Impact: Embracing the Power of Moments

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 6, 2023 20:54


    #029 Consensual Touch – You're missing the importance of consent!

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 15, 2023 40:36


    #028 Mindful Masturbation

    Play Episode Listen Later May 25, 2023 38:54


    #027 Masturbation Mindset: Shifting Your Flow for More Pleasure

    Play Episode Listen Later May 11, 2023 37:07


    #026 Intention Behind Touching Each Other

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 30, 2023 22:11


    #025 Just Breathe…Intentionally

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 17, 2023 25:22


    #024 – Actionable Love

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 17, 2023 39:19


    #023 Non-Sexual Sensations

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 9, 2023 33:59


    BONUS: Sexi Ski

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 2, 2023 38:57


    #022 – Sex, a skill?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 21, 2023 30:45


    Most of us are raised with little to no education about sexuality and pleasure, yet our programming says we should be good at them anyway. In this episode, Dragonfly and E talk about changing their mindset to one of sex as a skill. What if we remove the shame around not knowing about sex and […] The post #022 – Sex, a skill? first appeared on Pure Orgasmic Love.

    #022 – Sex, a skill?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 19, 2023 30:45


    #021 – Self-Responsibility for Your Pleasure

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 5, 2023 27:24


    #021 – Self-Responsibility for Your Pleasure

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 5, 2023 27:24


    Sometimes the unpleasant parts of responsibility are what lead us to the bonuses. In this conversation, Dragonfly and E talk about what it means to take responsibility for their own pleasure and what that looks like within their relationship dynamic. Our Links: Goddess Gateway Spotify Playlist Follow me on: SDC Instagram Costa Rica ~ PleasurePLAY […] The post #021 – Self-Responsibility for Your Pleasure first appeared on Pure Orgasmic Love.

    #020 – Relationship Design

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 17, 2022 31:50


    Do you believe there is only one type of relationship dynamic when you are married? Do you need permission to discover what it could look like for you?   Join Dragonfly & E to understand a bit more about this thing called, Relationship Design. Our Links: PureOrgasmicLove.com Spotify Playlist Follow me on: SDC Instagram Twitter […]

    #019 – Our Naughty N'awlins 2022 Recap!

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 17, 2022 37:52


    Another amazing year of Naughty N'awlins.Join Dragonfly & E to hear about their favorites of Naughty 2022! Want to experience this amazing event? Dragonfly wants you to be part of her special mingle & tingle, so buy now through her affiliate link.  Get Your Naughty N'awlins 2023 Tickets Here! Mentioned in the show: Duchess – […]

    Bonus: My Non-Monogamy @ Naughty

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 1, 2021 90:22


    Who brought it up first and what does yours look like? These are two of the things I want to know in this bonus episode of the Pure Orgasmic Love Podcast. In the first of what will be a series of interviews, I talk to four couples at Naughty N'awlins 2021. They open up and […]

    #018 – Our Naughty N'awlins 2021

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 25, 2021 37:54


    Have you ever had someone let you know how you have positively influenced them, and it just melts your heart? That exact thing happened to dragonfly recently, and that story is only one of the fantastic things that happened this year at naughty. Join Dragonfly and E as they talk about connection, education, and coming […]

    Bonus: I love my ass in Mexico w/Chris Connelly Photography

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 22, 2021 68:38


    In today's episode, I'm connecting w/Chris Connelly, Photographer – shooting exclusively Intimate Portraiture. He has Two magnificent NY studios in Albany, and Lake George, plus beautiful location shoots in the Adirondacks and Caribbean.He mainly photographs women and some couples – but always loves to work with men too! Join us for a conversation about our […]

    #017 – Finding LOVE in Mexico Pt. 2 – Sexperience 2021

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 15, 2021 38:46


    Dragonfly was invited to educate at the SDC event – Sexperience 2021 in Cancun, in this episode we have a conversation around our overall experience and why it was one of our favorite events we have ever done. So much love for the staff, attendees, and the SDC Team. From an Attendee:“We met Dragonfly at […]

    #016 – Finding LOVE in Mexico Pt. 1-Us

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 11, 2021 43:55


    We are finally home but during our trip we found lots of love in Mexico. This episode we are going to focus on the love we found for each other and how the decision to focus on us changed everything, and the crazy situation that gave us the time. Todays listener question comes from our […]

    #015 – Platonic What? Yes, Intimacy!

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 20, 2021 30:18


    Intimacy is an essential part of life. As social animals, we need to feel connected to those closest to us. This closeness feeds our sense of wellbeing. Yet, many of us are lacking intimacy in our lives. In today's conversation, Dragonfly and E talk about how they chose to expand themselves and their relationships by […]

    #014 – A Conversation on Touch, that human Touch…

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 13, 2021 30:53


    We all need the human touch / I need it, the human touch / We all need the human touch / We all need it, and I need it too… “Human Touch”, Rick Springfield There are studies showing that touch signals safety and trust, it soothes. It activates the body's vagus nerve, which is intimately […]

    #013 – Spring, Sun & Sex

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 6, 2021 30:44


    In Disney's “Bambi”, spring hit the forest and the animals became “twitterpated”!  Is there a correlation between the spring weather, the feeling of the sun on your skin, and how your sexuality starts to awaken? Listen in and we'll discuss how the sun, the spring air, and this season can affect you and your body, […]

    Bonus – Light & Dark

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 30, 2021 44:32


    It's time for a bonus episode! Join me & a special guest, Michelle, from Michelle Lee Arts, for a conversation digging deeper into our shadows/dark & light/bright sides of us and how we have moved into accepting these sides as part of who we are, entirely and authenticity.

    #012 – Ethical Non-Monogamy and our Relationship Design

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 23, 2021 37:12


    We've got listener mail! Questions come to  us all the time about Ethical Non-Monogamy, and the “lifestyle”.  Listen to this week's episode to find out how we got into it, what it means for us, and what it might mean for you. Listener Question: “ You've mentioned Ethical Non-Monogamy more than once. Can you elaborate […]

    Bonus – Birthday Giveaway

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 18, 2021 23:52


    For MY Birthday Celebration… I've teamed up with artist @michellelee.arts to give away this 11” x 14” print of her “Shadows on Fire” oil pastel painting, on archival matte fine art paper (value $77). Join me for this conversation about erotic art and how it plays a part in living an Orgasmic Life. Register to win!! […]

    #011 – Communication… and other things!

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 16, 2021 37:50


    We spin in circles of non-communication. Why? Because it can be scary. Listen to this week's episode to find out how to learn your communication style, and communicate in a way to fit your desires! Not everyone is taught HOW to communicate.  Whether it is to express emotion, to express desire to your partner, or […]

    #010 – It's Not Just One Thang

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 9, 2021 34:01


    It's not just one thing…  What are we talking about? There's always more than one way to please your partner! Listen in on this episode to find out – what ARE the things?? There's so many things! We've all been taught that there's “the way” – or one thing – how you can be sexually […]

    #009 – It's MY Birthday Share!!

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 6, 2021 32:55


    Food, Adventure, Sensation, and Birthday Sex! Birthdays are the one actual universal holiday. We were all born, and we should celebrate that in whatever way feels best to us. Join me as I share how I feel about birthdays and what E and I did to celebrate my special day. Music: Birthday Sex – Jeremih […]

    #008 – Living as a Nudist

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 9, 2021 39:30


    Do you enjoy being naked all the time? Do you enjoy being naked only in your own home? Have you ever been naked at a resort, or on a cruise, or in your own backyard? Let's talk about it! The definition of a nudist is a person who believes in the practice of going nude, […]

    #007 – Words and How you use Them

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 27, 2021 38:21


    Let's talk about… Words! Words can hurt. Words can heal.  Let's talk about what we say, how we say it, and what it means to you and those we're speaking to. Words. Words can have a profound effect on us.  Words can hurt and words can heal. The reason words have any effect on us […]

    #006 – Happy F**cking New Year 2021!

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 12, 2021 38:53


    Happy New Year!  A new year brings new opportunities for Pure Orgasmic Love and our followers! Was 2020 just a dream?  I won't say a bad dream, because there was some good in 2020… Pure Orgasmic Love made some changes in how we reach our followers!  We're excitedly looking to the future and all it […]

    #005 – Holding Space with Hats On

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 29, 2020 34:18


    Holding Space: being physically, mentally, and emotionally present for someone.It means putting your focus on someone to support them as they feel their feelings. Holding Space. What does it mean to “hold space”?  It's a term we hear a lot about, but we may not know what it is, and what it means to us. […]

    #004 – Talkin' ‘bout Touchin'

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 23, 2020 34:28


    Lovin', Touchin' and Squeezin'… each other!   Do you love to be touched, in all the places? Do you shy away from touch? Listen in on our conversation about touch and the different aspects of touch, and how touch affects us in different ways. Touch can be good – or it can be bad.  Which […]

    #003 – Your Breathing Is More Than…

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 23, 2020 35:38


    It's necessary to sustain life, but did you know that it can play a part in your sexy time? It's all about breathing…  We all do it. It's a necessity of life!  But, how can breathing become a part of your sexy time? Breathing can help you relax, to ready you for sexy time; breathing […]

    #002 – Our Orgasmic Lives

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 8, 2020 48:20


    Pure Orgasmic Love. It is not just my business name, but how we choose to live our life. Listen to find out what being orgasmic and living an orgasmic life means for you. Being orgasmic and living orgasmic… What does it all mean? In this episode we will discuss our favorite topic – what is […]

    #001 – We're back, Stimulated & Connecting

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 7, 2020 32:48


    Find out where we've been, what we've been doing, and where we're going from here! We've missed you!  But we're back!  We'll fill you in on all the details of where we were, what we've been doing, and what's coming up next!  We've got big plans for Pure Orgasmic Love, and we want you to […]

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