ReloMoms is a weekly Relocation podcast dedicated to helping trailing spouses and their families relocate well. Discover insights, resources and strategies each week that will help you navigate your relocation from decision to connecting.
Annette Walters: Relocation coach, EXPAT and author
Meeting new people, lots of new people at any given time takes focus, it takes stamina. Even for extroverts, this practice of meeting new people when we know "no one", take a level of energy we typically don't expend. Come in a see how your experience is normal and what you can do to meet new people and find friends. https://ReloWomen.com
How do I FEEL? Is this the right one to share? Many times, we hide our feelings because they are not the RIGHT ONES. End up layering on shame, anxiety or fear? Ever thought: If they know I feel like that I'm done? Natalie Webster, longtime client-friend-real estate agent, and I tackle the trouble our feelings about our feelings cause. https://ReloWomen.com www.NatalieWebsterRealtor.com
Have you ever been trying to explain a concept or perhaps even more personal, how you feel about something and no matter what words you choose, you just can't quite get the other person to understand. And now because they don't understand you think the relationship could end? Today we are talking about why this happens and what you can do to keep the relationship going. https://ReloWomen.com
What do you do – sometimes face down in dunkin', a bottle or 3 of wine, or other things…anything to distract from the pain! All while ruminating and isolating. And we are going to talk about that this weekend…but what if I don't want that to be my go to move.
When does Smart Decision Making become Second Guessing? Today we are talking about second guessing why we do it, how it serves us and how to jump out and into strong decision making. Join Annette as she dissects and share tool to help you make stronger decisions. https://ReloWomen.com/podcasts
Busy packing up and organizing to relocate, we do not realize what we leave behind. The gaps we are creating and the temporary pain that follows. Our lives evolve between the old and the new, and in between we have gaps. Today we talk about seeing what those gaps are so that we can start filling them. https://ReloWomen.com/Podcasts
Everyone is talking about Mindset, but what is it REALLY?? Is it about to do lists and accountability or could there be more to it? Come explore what you need to know about mindset and how YOU Can Use it to Create a REAL LIFE after Relocation...or any time. Learn More at https://ReloWomen.com
The dream is to create a life of good days. We all know there are things we can't predict, but we all want a life of good days. Don't we? No more struggle, no more frustrated...no more bad days. Come with me as we explore good days and bad days, and see how you create the experience you want. https://ReloWomen.com
Sometimes finding our place in our new community is difficult. To find it we must know what gets in our way and keeps us from finding it. Today we talk about the path to finding our place while sweeping away the speedbump that could stop us. https://ReloWomen.com
Louise Wiles interviews me on the Thriving abroad podcast about change, culture and relocating with littles. As an Author, cultural coach and expat we talk about so much of what we faced and overcame as expats. https://www.facebook.com/ThrivingAbroad https://www.linkedin.com/in/louisewiles/ https://www.thrivingabroad.com/a-happy-expat-life-what-27-relocations-have-taught-us/ https://ReloWomen.com
Welcome to the ReloWomen podcast Episode 37. This week on the ReloWomen podcast we are talking about something that ALL OF US are feeling. Perhaps something we have all been feeling for some time. This isn’t right. This is not normal...
So you had a bad day…want to keep it or put it down, perhaps forever. Join Certified Life Coach Annette Walters and learn how you can walk out of that bad day as well as what you can do to prevent another. Want to learn more about Relocation Coaching? Let’s Chat about getting you out of relocation’s messy middle. https://ReloWomen.com Tim Ferriss Ted Talk April 2017
Emerging from Covid we are entering a brand new culture. Efrot Weiss talks about how to identify the new rules, attitudes, how to act, what is right..what is wrong!! We have all encountered those people. As we engage is looks similar and we think we know the rules, but not everyone shares what we think is right and safe. Learn what you need for today and every relocation https://ReloWomen.com https://www.linkedin.com/in/efrotweiss/
Remember what you HOPED this life would be like? It is time to get back to that. Whether you have landed in a new community or perhaps are beginning to emerge from this pandemic isolation, this podcast is for you. Join Annette as she walks you through remembering what you hoped for and building a bridge to that reality. Have a question? https://relowomen.com/life-coach-friday-ask-annette/
Nicole Remini talks openly about her life and the most recent relocation to Arizona. She talks about overcoming her past & health struggles to create a vibrant life in her new community. Nicole teaches us to be comfortable with the uncomfortable to create an authentic tribe and a life of intention. This fun conversation will entertain and inspire you. https://ReloWomen.com www.NicoleBellaRemini.com Instagram @NicoleBRemini
What is not included. We think we hit the jackpot with a corporate relocation. Money and people are being offered to help. Certainly, this will be easier than moving across town. They problem is that corporate relocation usually has a narrow focus, housing and transportation. What about the other things? Today we are talking about what corporate relocation typically does not include. https://ReloWomen.com/ReloWisdom
The blank page of relocation is the perfect place to writer our dream life. It allows us to consider what was, what is and how we would truly like it to be. Join Lisa Harris as we discuss writing the story of our lives both in past tense and looking forward. The first draft is typically not the best version. www.lisaharrisandco.com | https://ReloWomen.com/podcasts |
WANT Real help? Actual help includes expert knowledge as well as people to lift, coordinate and manage as agreed to. How do you know if they are capable, and understand the vision? This week we talk about defining real help, seeing what can be delegated and choosing the most valuable. Want more Relocation Coaching? https://calendly.com/relowomen/let-s-chat-about-relocation
Thinking “I Should….?” Shoulds can lead to distraction and disaster. Today we cover 2 Should Statements many of us who relocate think of as TRUTH…when they are only opinions and ones that lead to nowhere. Come learn to identify and jump off the “shoulds” rabbit trail and get settled without distracting yourself. https://ReloWomen.com/Should-ing_Ourselves
“I AM Broken” leads us away from where we WANT to go. And Yet…we sometimes choose “I am broken” as a way to give up or at the extreme a TRUTH WE USE TO REFRAME OUR LIVES. See this lie for what it is and where it goes…AND THEN, Turn from it. I will show you how to tap into the power you already have within you. Let’s Change THAT!! Blog: https://ReloWomen.com/Not_Broken
FIND what you need to know, WHEN you need it. Like calling a friend for a recommendation, these mentors share what you need to know to relocate well, settle and truly take advantage of your choice to relocate. No phone number, but each one is FULL OF WISDOM and available right NOW. Learning and avoid at least a few of the relocation pit falls. All of the links are at the end of Tuesday’s blog. https://relowomen.com/mentors-you-need/
When we are experiencing the pain that comes with a difficult person, many of us choose to back away to avoid more interaction or confrontation. The challenge is, that they or another version of them, will pop up again. If we don’t know any better, we still only have 2 options. Stay or Go. You have more choices than you think. Join me as I lay out some strategies to help you navigate these social interactions. https://relowomen.com/navigating-with-difficult-people/?fbclid=IwAR0UYDYkAgExv84UA4u2cWc24MTpQ4E_iVOC4ARvmMJFxo-CzzmAah-HtPY
The responsibilities of relocation can bog us down. So much so that we can often lose sight of the opportunities we are purposely moving toward. Learning to view relocation through a new lens can help you reclaim your excitement, motivation, and sense of adventure. It is possible! Let me show you how!
Overwhelm. An intense emotion that I do not seem to have any power over. I am stuck on the couch. My tone of voice is flat. I am uninterested in anything. I am not moving. I am beset by emotion If you have walked this like me, you know how trapped you feel. Join me as we explore this stumbling block and discuss strategies to keep it at bay. Blog: https://relowomen.com/overwhelm-and-out-of-my-control/
Real women talking about real relocation and the expat experience in the context of personal purpose. Join Juanita and our panel Lynn Greenberg, Lindy Chapman and me (Annette Walters as we talk about rediscovering our vanishing purpose in relocation. Blog : https://relowomen.com/personal-purpose-lost-without/ Juanita Ingram LinkedIN : The Expats: International Ingrams on Facebook and Prime Video
As strong ReloWomen, needing help is sometimes the last thing we see…until we REALLY NEED IT! This week we are talking to Laura Meehan-Agasian the NYC Storyteller and Premier Realtor. She shares her life-changing relocation experience (one she wasn’t expecting), the lessons she learned, and how these lessons help her relocation and EXPAT clients every day. Through this interview, you will never look at NYC quite the same way! Laura Agasian https://www.linkedin.com/in/laura-agasian-80612b45/ https://laurameehan-agasian.evrealestate.com/ https://relowomen.com/i-didnt-know-i-needed-help/
How is your Yak Shaving going? You know, those useless activities we all depend on. Seth Godin brought this concept to life back in 2005 and here we are talking about what to avoid and what to implement. All references and links for this podcast are at the end of Tuesday’s blog Shaving the Yak. https://seths.blog/2005/03/dont_shave_that/ https://ReloWomen.com/blogs
Does trying to maintain relationships in the pandemic have you down? Listen as I explore creative options for connecting with friends and loved ones. With a little imagination and some out-of-the-box thinking, you can keep creating those cherished memories. It may be easier than you think! https://relowomen.com/podcasts
When surrounded by the clamour of "just WAIT", "Don't do THAT" and "It's dangerous out there"...no wonder we don't see any options. With the accompanying loss of activity and normal life many of us have found giving up to be the easiest, least painful way to live right now. But is that really living? The GOOD NEWS is that all of us do have Options...they just aren't the same ones we had before. Take a listen and try on the ideas. You just might find fulfilling options and ways to really live, that were there in front of you all the time. https://ReloWomen.com/Podcasts
Relocation creates a clean slate the perfect place to create intentional personal change. Rob Fenlon introduces us to intentional transformation, using that clean slate to create personal change with an end in mind. As a StrengthsFinder2.0 coach, he works with students and educational staff to discover and dive into their greatest strengths to become more of who they are and make the greatest contribution they can. https://ReloWomen.com Rob Fenlon LinkedIN
Let's chat about this. With so much we can't or should not do, will the holidays be worth it? Or should we just hunker down and wait until 2021, the vaccine to get on with celebrating or honoring? It all depends on you. We wait for permission for so many things. We depend on others to show the way. It is time to create holidays...your way. And it all starts with you. The Blog https://ReloWomen.com/holidays-all-or-nothing. Remember, whether you think you can't or you think you can...you're right! ~ Henry Ford
We all think we live life on purpose. We choose everything that we do, Right? But do we? Not if you let the distractions prevent this. Today we are talking about what to do and regularly practice if you want to live life on purpose, consciously. Learn more about living Life on Purpose at www.ReloWomen.com . ReloWomen is a weekly podcast dedicated to everything Relocation.
Relocation grief is sneaky. Masquerading at snappiness, frustration and overwhelm just adds to walking through it. In Tuesday's blog we started talking about how to recognize it and today we finish up by discussing how to allow it and walk through it. Relocation grief exists in all relocations because something or someone cannot come with us. Let's recognize it and walk through it together. Schedule your Coaching and Consult today CLICK HERE. www.ReloWomen.com
Have you been trying to connect for...too long? Connecting after relocation can be daunting. It seemed to happen by magic when we were kids and now it doesn't. So what now? Learn how relationships actually work scientifically. Learn the different types and why each matters. ReloWomen dives deep into the connecting friendship and how to. Books mentioned: Connecting: The power of female friendships by Sandy Sheehy and Friendships don't just happen by Shasta Nelson
Feeling like you will never "be home" again? That sense of home where all is well with the world. Home is something few of us consider until we relocate. According to Hallmark movies it is where we were born. So does relocation mean "home" is lost forever? That is what we are talking about today on the ReloWomen Podcast. https://relowomen.com/podcasts Poco Iver TED Talk https://www.ted.com/talks/pico_iyer_where_is_home?referrer=playlist-what_is_home
Identify the 3 insidious relocation struggle that lead to overwhelm. We don't have time to waste and these three are like ninjas looking to shut down our relocation. Learn what you need to know to identify and overcome them before you find yourself overwhelmed and crying in the shower. You have the power. Take it back. https://relowomen.com/signs-of-struggle-in-relocation/
Today, Tania talks about how resilience was built in her through relocation starting at a young age. She relates it to the current pandemic and how her perspective was the key to turning things around. Tania Thomas begin relocating at the age of 2. Tania is a multicultural, multilingual regulatory specialist, a wife and mum who has relocated to Australia, Greece, London, Dubai and the United States. With at least 7 relocations, Tania has lived through all seasons of her life, relocating. Tania Thomas is interested in helping graduating pharmacists to find corporate regulatory positions. Connect with her on LinkedIN at https://www.linkedin.com/in/taniathomas/ Join ReloWomen each week as we explore a new relocation theme beginning with a Facebook Live at Noon CST, the ReloWomen Blog is published every Tuesday on the www.ReloWomen.com website and listen to this podcast every Thursday. This is all about YOU, Relocating Well.
Tania Thomas begin relocating at the age of 2. Tania is a multicultural, multilingual regulatory specialist, a wife and mum who has relocated to Australia, Greece, London, Dubai and the United States. With at least 7 relocations, Tania has lived through all seasons of her life, relocating. Tania shares the challenges and successes of relocation from both a work and family perspective. Join us as she talks about her best and most challenging relocations...and THE THING that made all the difference as she was building her community. Tania Thomas is interested in helping graduating pharmacists to find corporate regulatory positions. Connect with her on LinkedIN at https://www.linkedin.com/in/taniathomas/ Join ReloWomen each week as we explore a new relocation theme beginning with a Facebook Live at Noon CST, the ReloWomen Blog is published every Tuesday on the www.ReloWomen.com website and listen to this podcast every Thursday. This is all about you Relocating Well. Building Community Blog
Create a Relocation Roadmap for a successful relocation. Few partners offers one to follow that includes more than moving tips and community guide. A successful relocation is more than a place to live and a way to get your things from here to there. Join Annette Walters as she shares 3 Relocation Roadmap must haves along with the the power to keep going when relo goes cattywhompus. For more about creating a successful relocation visit the ReloWomen Blog webpage. www.ReloWomen.com
Without this tool, a minor and major relocation derailment is bound to happen. This is the 5th and most important tool we are covering this week in ReloMoms. Learn what this it is and how to use it to supervise and manage your relocation to success. Implementing it is something that you can do today and will impact your relocation immediately. Join Annette Walters, a seasoned ReloMoms and Expat, as she walks you through the problems and share what you need right now. https://relowomen.com/tools-to-make-better-relocation-decisions/
Listen this week to discover and understand the #1 Relocation Problem, all of the implications...and how to solve it. If not addressed it can sabotage all areas of relocation and seriously undermine decision making. I am shining a spotlight on that problem and giving you the tools to solve it and perhaps even prevent it. Take your relocation to the next level with ReloWomen as we explore The #1 Relocation Problem. https://relowomen.com/the-problem-in-relocation/
Is relocation creating an education gap for your child? Do you know how to create educational continuity? Relocation, during breaks or mid-year can create unidentified educational gaps due to different curriculum, environment and culture. Annette Walters, a seasoned ReloMom talks to Kat Caldwell this week about she traversed 2 countries, 2 states and 3 school to provide continuity for her 3 children. If you are concerned about educational continuity for your children, this episode is for you! https://relowomen.com/the-right-school-and-educational-continuity/
Which School is the Right School for your kids and your family? Go beyond the typical stats and figure out which one best serves the needs and talents. Join Annette Walters, a seasoned ReloMom, as she continues the discussion this week. If you want to choose the RIGHT school, you have come to the right podcast. https://relowomen.com/choosing-the-right-school/
Relocation Benefits: What to look for and what to expect! Join Annette Walters, a seasoned 18 move ReloMom, as she shows you where to look. Relocation is challenging. If you are looking to find your secret relocation wins, this podcast is for you! Let's explore together. https://relowomen.com/3-secret-benefits-of-relocation/
Relocation is mentally tough. Am I making the right decisions? Can I handle one more problem? Annette Walters, a seasoned 13+ move ReloWomen talks to Natalie Webster about how coaching helped her navigate a relocation, a breakup and a category 4 hurricane. If you want to know more about hurricanes, mind management and if relocation coaching can help you, this is your ReloWomen Podcast episode. https://relowomen.com/what-is-relocation-coaching/
Relocation is expensive and real estate commissions are a big part of that. Are you paying too much? Annette Walters, a seasoned 13+ move ReloWomen and former active real estate agent, talks about how the real estate commission system works. If you want to know how much real estate agents really get paid, this is your ReloWomen episode. This is your relocation. You need to know about real estate commissions. https://relowomen.com/how-real-estate-agents-get-paid-and-follow-the-splits/
It's hard to find a good real estate agent when you have time. Annette Walters, a seasoned 13+ move ReloMom, knows how to find one in "relocation time." If you want to know how to effectively evaluate agents in 4 to 7 days and find the Right real estate agent, this episode is for you. This time it's about you, your relocation and the prospective real estate agent real time performance.