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It seems that people are having sex in the back seats of self-driving cars.  Well, if you get pulled over, simply ask the officer to talk to the driver. #Katt

Hello there. Its been far too long.  Let us start of 2024 with a few sexual resolutions for better sex in 2024.  Thanks for listening, Dr. Nick . 

After watching the documentry on Amazon Prime called Shiny Happy People about the Dugger clan, I also discovered a movement called "Trad Wives," or traditional wives.  On the surface, it seems benign but, if you dig deeper, you'll discover racist beliefs and spousal abuse.  Thanks for listening. #Duggers #ShinyHappyPeople #TradWives

Here is a quick PSA today.  With the more people having oral sex, this increases the chance that you will contract HPV.  Luckily, there is a vaccine that can protect you.  Thanks for listening, Dr. Nick. 

Yes, laughter during sexual activities is a good thing...a great thing.  So, when something "awkward" happens, be sure that you do not laugh at your partner.  Thanks for listening, Dr. Nick. 

This is another PSA for sexual side effects.  In this podcast, I discuss Zoloft, another popular antidepressant.  Please talk to your doctor if you are having side effects that affect your sexual health.  Thanks for listening, Dr. Nick.

Well, hello.  Its been a while. In this podcast, I discuss the 2023 GQ Survey on dating, porn and sex.  With only 600+ participants, take what you will and still, the results were concerning. I did not know people's "body counts" were a concerns.  Thanks for listening, NM.  PS: Sorry for the 'morning voice.' 

After a lifestyle party, couples typically take time to reconnect with each other mentally, and in some cases, physically.  This act of reclaiming/ reconnecting is a crucial element of their relationship.  Some couples even have a ritual they use to reconnect with each other.  Thanks for listening, Dr. Nick. #lifestyle #reclaiming

More and more people are coming out as asexual.  In this podcast, I provide a few tips on being in a successsful relationship with an asexual.  For starters, you both have to be honest with each other.  Thanks for listening. 

In the United States, there was a situation where a hotwife was fired for having sex with her fellow officers.  Granted, some activity took place at police headquarters, but she and other officers were fired.  With the ever increasing number of people in the lifestyle, are the policies behind the times? 

Here is an oldie, but a goodie sex position.  Now, it has a new name, but with the same results.  If you are flexable, give it a try.  You just might like it.  Enjoy, NM. 

Sexuality is everywhere and some of us struggle to talk about sex, especially with intimate partners.  Why is this a hard conversation to have?  I believe in order to have good sex, we have to talk about it.  Thanks for listening, Dr. Nick. 

Medications are known to have severe sexual side effects. In this PSA, I discuss Wellbutrin, a common antidepressant with surprising sexual side effects.  Thanks for listening, NM. #wellbutrin

Well hello everyone.  Its 2023 so, I wanted to take a quick look back at the top podcasts of 2022.  One PSA made it to the list.  I recommend revisiting these top podcasts.  Thanks for listening, NM. 

In a country with over 275 million people, this is going to be a major change.  Why would they make this change? People typically do not like it when the government comes into their bedroom.  #Indonesia #Adultery

This year is coming to a close and a new year begins. Time to make a few sexual resolutions for 2023.  Essence Magazine had a few good suggestions to get you started in the right direction.  #resolutions 

Time to spread the holiday cheer and the sexual pleasure to each and everyone.  These 'stuffers' will actually fit in a stocking too!  Be sure to buy plenty of AA batteries. #sextoys

An increasing number of married couples are living in seperate locations.  According to an article in the New York Times, women are driving this movement.  Can couples really find a way to make this work? 

Sperm counts have been dropping all over the planet, with a consistent decrease starting after 2000 (Y2K?)  So, what is really going on?  Gentlemen, we really need to really monitor what we put into our body, including medications.  

In the lifestyle, the cuck & bull relationship is nothing new.  Being a black bull with BBC can be an amazing experience for some men.  At what cost?

Many people are in sexless marriages, while there are options out there.  Ladies, if your husband asked you for an open marriage, what would you say? #lifestyle #openmarriage

Some women are involved in a man sharing situation and do not have a clue.  Could an open relationship solve this issue?  Maybe, if everyone is aware, agree to a set of rules and has the opportunity to make an informed choice.  #dating #mansharing

To go along with the previous podcast, here are a few more suggestions for sexual fun while trying to keep things quiet. Happy holidays.  

Its that time of year when we spend time with inlaws, friends and family.  Trying to find alone time for sex can be difficult, but it can be done.  Here are just a few tips to help you out.  (Plus, its a fun podcast to listen to and share with friends while you are waiting for the turkey dinner.)  

This is another internet movement which needs to stop.  This madness is getting out of hand.  How and why did this "holiday" appear in the first damn place? #NoFap #NoNutNovember

The web has become a hostile place for sexual health information.  Sites are shut down or just vanish overnight.  What caused this to happen and a better question is what can be done?  #shadowbanning

With so many looking for love online, what can you do to make your profile stand out among the crowd?  Hint: Do not follow the crowd!  Thanks for listening, Dr. Nick. 

You ever had sex right after a heated argument?  I bet it was rather hot and passionate, right?  Make up sex can be fun but of course, you can only have so much make up sex.  Please do not start an argument for the make up sex either.  Thanks for listening, Dr. Nick. 

One in five women can orgasm without any clitoral stimulation.  Some women can orgasm from nipple stimulation alone.  What other forms of pleasure can lead to sexual excitment and orgasms for you? #orgasms #pleasure

Some men enjoy a prostate massage, which in known to increase orgasmic pleasure.  Is it for you? 

Believe it or not, most women do not like a mouth or nose full of pubes.  They like their men groomed but gentlemen, please avoid cutting a landing strip.  #groomed

My first sponsor...Manscaped!  Women prefer men with groomed pubes.  Thank you all for your support, Dr. Nick.  Get 20% off @Manscaped + free shipping with the promo code SCF20 at MANSCAPED.com  #ad #manscapedpod

Some men are allergic to their semen.  Imagine having a severe allergy attack right after you orgasm and ejaculate.  Luckily, help is easy to get as long as you are not misdiagnosed.  

Yay...Halloween is almost here.  There are dozens of great horror movies out there, while some have strong sexual themes running throughout the entire film. Here is a quick list of sexy/ scary movies for you to enjoy during this time of year. 

Many things can cause low sexual desire including stress, anxiety and even medications.  Stells Anna Sonnenbaum, a sexologist based in London, offers a few unique solutions to this issue.  Thanks for listening, Dr. Nick. #TheSun #London

Apparently, women judge men on other characteristics based on their penis and pubic grooming habits.  Well...if you "manscape," you're more outgoing.  Who knew?  Thanks for listening, Dr. Nick. 

Many men want to experience prostate pleasure during their sex play, but have an issue with the most "direct" route to massage the prostate.  External prostate massage may be just what those men need to increase their sexual pleasure.  #prostateplay #prostate

Due to a lively conversation in the private Facebook group, a moderator (Keri) suggested the topic for a podcast should be on sexual sexual symbols.  You've seen them all over the place and yet, you did not know what you were looking at.  Today, I disucss the symbols of the Swinging community.  #lifestyle #Swinging #hotwife #pineapples

According to Marie Claire, these are the top 5 sex toys for women.  It seems even with all of the choices available, one type of toy stands above the rest.  Time to go shopping.  Thanks for listening, Dr. Nick. 

Is honesty always the best policy?  You would think yes, but some experts are saying no.  Is cheating the one thing you should take to your grave?  Get ready for an interesting podcast.  Thanks for listening, Dr. Nick. #cheating #confessing #trust

In this PSA, I discuss the Throat Orgasm and a old technique called Irrumatio aka "Throat Fu@king."  If you are able to have throat orgasms, this sounds like a match made in heaven.  Thanks for listening, Dr. Nick. #SusanBratton #ThroatOrgasm

Some women can orgasm while performing fellatio with no clitoral stimulation.  "Deep Throat" had the right idea but the orgasm could be related to the Throat Chakra or the pituitary gland.  Thanks for listening, Dr. Nick. #fellatio #orgasm

In this PSA, I give my opinion why some women cheat.  In addition to the reasons given from the full podcast, I believe outdated social norms are the problem.  Plus, medical advancements and financial independence also play a part.  Thanks for listening, Dr. Nick. 

What makes a woman cheat? Older ideas say she has low self-esteem, where newer research says otherwise.  What do you think would make a woman cheat in her relationship?  Thanks for listening, Dr. Nick. 

You've heard of the clitoral, vaginal, and G-Spot orgasms, right? Have you heard of the Wave, Avalanche or the Volcano?  In this mini-podcast, I discuss these types of orgasms.  Thanks for listening, Dr. Nick. #orgasms

In this podcast, I discuss a few of the reasons presented in a GQ article from a few years ago.  Personally, I think it happens due to a combination of reasons.  Thanks for listening, Dr. Nick. #cheating #affair

This PSA is a follow-up to the April podcast.  This time, I discuss men and some on the issues we have connecting with women.  Some of these pro-men groups only make it harder for anyone to date in 2022.  Thanks for listening, Dr. Nick.  #MGTOW #SYSBM

This episode is a follow-up to last weeks podcast on female sexual fantasies.  You can probably guess what #1 is and more importantly, there is some overlap between the fantasies.  Have that conversation and have fun.  Thanks for listening, Dr. Nick. #fantasies #BDSM #Threesomes

One of the more popular sex fantasies for women involve a threesome.  Here are a few tips provided by women to make your fantasy a success.  A "MFM" threesome is also discussed.  Thanks for listening, Dr. Nick. #threesomes #lifestyle

Women have plenty of sexual fantasies, ranging from the wild to the tame, the romantic to the predatory.  In this podcast, I list the top 10 sexual fantasies.  What do you think was #1.  Thanks for listening, Dr. Nick.  #pleasure #fantasies #desire

This is the website update for August 2022.  There are 8 new podcasts in July and the Just the Tip memes run from 40 thru 49.  I may add my TikTok videos to the site as well in the near future.  Enjoy, Dr. Nick.