Something Blue: Wedding Planning with a 21st Century Bride & Groom

The long-awaited episode… FINALE!!!!!! Erin and Max talk ALOT about their incredible wedding day, the process leading up to it, and all the drama that ensued in between! They impart wedding day wisdom so you can avoid the mistakes they made… and make new ones instead!!! To all our listeners and patrons, thank you so much for your love and support. We have had a blast with this process, and we hope we helped you in some small way leading up to your big day. Lots of love!!! If you like this pod, let us know with 5 stars on Apple Podcasts! If you don't like it, go ahead and keep that to yourself. Instagram/Facebook: @something_blue_podcast Tik Tok: @somethingblue.ish Also, you can support our podcast on anchor by clicking the support link in our episodes page. Any and all contribution helps us create new content and plan our wedding, too! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/somethingbluepodcast/support

We're back!!! And wow do we have updates. You read right… ONE WEEK TIL OUR WEDDING!!!!!! *Disclaimer: this episode discusses sensitive material that can possibly be triggering to those who have experienced pregnancy loss.* CHECK OUR OUR SPONSOR AT SMOOTHMYBALLS.COM AND USE THE CODE BLUEBALLS TO GET YOURS TODAY!!! If you like this pod, let us know with 5 stars on Apple Podcasts! If you don't like it, go ahead and keep that to yourself. Instagram/Facebook: @something_blue_podcast Tik Tok: @somethingblue.ish Also, you can support our podcast on anchor by clicking the support link in our episodes page. Any and all contribution helps us create new content and plan our wedding, too! --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/somethingbluepodcast/support

….Yet another update in the wild wacky world that is Erin and Max. And here we go again… adapting!!! This ep is all about our insane twists and turns and how we maybe are going to make it work… now that we need to find a new venue. :/ VOTE FOR MAX TO BE A LEGENDARY DAD BOD WINNER HERE!!!——> https://legendarydadbod.com/2021/maxwell CHECK OUR OUR SPONSOR AT SMOOTHMYBALLS.COM AND USE THE CODE BLUEBALLS TO GET YOURS TODAY!!! If you like this pod, let us know with 5 stars on Apple Podcasts! If you don't like it, go ahead and keep that to yourself. Instagram/Facebook: @something_blue_podcast Tik Tok: @somethingblue.ish Also, you can support our podcast on anchor by clicking the support link in our episodes page. Any and all contribution helps us create new content and plan our wedding, too! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/somethingbluepodcast/support

Introducing a new segment called Lessons Learned: an episode all about the decisions we made that we wish we could un-make, the lessons we learned a little too late, and the resources we wish we had when we first started planning. This will be an ongoing segment, with a finale after all is said and done and we are finally married... so stay tuned! This week's topics: Communication with vendors, venue shopping, and wedding day timelines and responsibilities! VOTE FOR MAX TO BE A LEGENDARY DAD BOD WINNER HERE!! CHECK OUR OUR SPONSOR AT SMOOTHMYBALLS.COM AND USE THE CODE BLUEBALLS TO GET YOURS TODAY!!! If you like this pod, let us know with 5 stars on Apple Podcasts! If you don't like it, go ahead and keep that to yourself. Instagram/Facebook: @something_blue_podcast Tik Tok: @somethingblue.ish Also, you can support our podcast on anchor by clicking the support link in our episodes page. Any and all contribution helps us create new content and plan our wedding, too! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/somethingbluepodcast/support

Burnout, it's real and it's PRESENT. Erin and Max discuss ways to identify it, prevent it, and power through it. CHECK OUR OUR SPONSOR AT SMOOTHMYBALLS.COM AND USE THE CODE BLUEBALLS TO GET YOURS TODAY!!! If you like this pod, let us know with 5 stars on Apple Podcasts! If you don't like it, go ahead and keep that to yourself. Instagram/Facebook: @something_blue_podcast Tik Tok: @somethingblue.ish Also, you can support our podcast on anchor by clicking the support link in our episodes page. Any and all contribution helps us create new content and plan our wedding, too! --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/somethingbluepodcast/support

It's a bird… it's a plane… it's A WEDDING NIGHTMARES SEGMENT! This episode's topic… brides and grooms who have RUINED their own days. (Aptly named, tornado people.) CHECK OUR OUR SPONSOR AT SMOOTHMYBALLS.COM AND USE THE CODE BLUEBALLS TO GET YOURS TODAY!!! If you like this pod, let us know with 5 stars on Apple Podcasts! If you don't like it, go ahead and keep that to yourself. Instagram/Facebook: @something_blue_podcast Tik Tok: @somethingblue.ish Also, you can support our podcast on anchor by clicking the support link in our episodes page. Any and all contribution helps us create new content and plan our wedding, too! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/somethingbluepodcast/support

By now, you know how we feel about a lot of trends and traditions. And hopefully researching the history of many of these have helped you form your own opinions about what to and what not to do during your big day. But one thing that I think needs to happen, no matter where you stand on it… is speech etiquette and reform. So, let's get into it! We outline the do's and don'ts of giving a successful speech, how to choose the people that give a speech at your wedding, and ways to feel your most confident and successful as you deliver your meaningful speech. CHECK OUR OUR SPONSOR AT SMOOTHMYBALLS.COM AND USE THE CODE BLUEBALLS TO GET YOURS TODAY!!! If you like this pod, let us know with 5 stars on Apple Podcasts! If you don't like it, go ahead and keep that to yourself. Instagram/Facebook: @something_blue_podcast Tik Tok: @somethingblue.ish Also, you can support our podcast on anchor by clicking the support link in our episodes page. Any and all contribution helps us create new content and plan our wedding, too! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/somethingbluepodcast/support

Wedding planning, and the wedding that occurs thereafter, is full of anxiety inducing possibilities. Between juggling your regular life responsibilities, your vendors, money stress, family expectations, and keeping your relationship intact and celebrated, it can overwhelm even the most stable individuals. We chat about ways to cope with pre and post wedding planning anxiety and normalize your struggles!!! CHECK OUR OUR SPONSOR AT SMOOTHMYBALLS.COM AND USE THE CODE BLUEBALLS TO GET YOURS TODAY!!! If you like this pod, let us know with 5 stars on Apple Podcasts! If you don't like it, go ahead and keep that to yourself. Instagram/Facebook: @something_blue_podcast Tik Tok: @somethingblue.ish Also, you can support our podcast on anchor by clicking the support link in our episodes page. Any and all contribution helps us create new content and plan our wedding, too! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/somethingbluepodcast/support

You've got questions? We've got answers! The Q & A starts now… we are here on the ep complaining about our chaotic lives, giving some quick covid updates, and diving into some of the most asked wedding questions on the internet. CHECK OUR OUR SPONSOR AT SMOOTHMYBALLS.COM AND USE THE CODE BLUEBALLS TO GET YOURS TODAY!!! If you like this pod, let us know with 5 stars on Apple Podcasts! If you don't like it, go ahead and keep that to yourself. Instagram/Facebook: @something_blue_podcast Tik Tok: @somethingblue.ish Also, you can support our podcast on anchor by clicking the support link in our episodes page. Any and all contribution helps us create new content and plan our wedding, too! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/somethingbluepodcast/support

We love love. Let's talk about loving the right way (spoiler: there is no one right way! Buuuut… love languages can get you pretty close.) We dive into the different love languages, how to best express love and receive love based your language, and how to incorporate love languages while wedding planning. Take the love languages quiz here! https://www.5lovelanguages.com/quizzes CHECK OUR OUR SPONSOR AT SMOOTHMYBALLS.COM AND USE THE CODE BLUEBALLS TO GET YOURS TODAY!!! If you like this pod, let us know with 5 stars on Apple Podcasts! If you don't like it, go ahead and keep that to yourself. Instagram/Facebook: @something_blue_podcast Tik Tok: @somethingblue.ish Also, you can support our podcast on anchor by clicking the support link in our episodes page. Any and all contribution helps us create new content and plan our wedding, too! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/somethingbluepodcast/support

Welcome a very very very wonderful person… Ron Blakely!!! Ron is our officiant and we love them SO MUCH. We chat about the history of officiants, the requirements for your wedding ceremony and the ways to make it your own. CHECK OUR OUR SPONSOR AT SMOOTHMYBALLS.COM AND USE THE CODE BLUEBALLS TO GET YOURS TODAY!!! If you like this pod, let us know with 5 stars on Apple Podcasts! If you don't like it, go ahead and keep that to yourself. Instagram/Facebook: @something_blue_podcast Tik Tok: @somethingblue.ish Also, you can support our podcast on anchor by clicking the support link in our episodes page. Any and all contribution helps us create new content and plan our wedding, too! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/somethingbluepodcast/support

Welcome special guests: Hailey and Cole Metz!!! We are back with another episode of WEDDING NIGHTMARES!!! This week's topic: Wedding Party Horror Stories! ************************************************ CHECK OUR OUR SPONSOR AT SMOOTHMYBALLS.COM AND USE THE CODE BLUEBALLS TO GET YOURS TODAY!!! ************************************************ If you like this pod, let us know with 5 stars on Apple Podcasts! If you don't like it, go ahead and keep that to yourself. Instagram/Facebook: @something_blue_podcast Tik Tok: @somethingblue.ish Also, you can support our podcast on anchor by clicking the support link in our episodes page. Any and all contribution helps us create new content and plan our wedding, too! --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/somethingbluepodcast/support

Be prepared… this one is FULL of emotions, and the tea is spilled. On this episode, we chat about second marriages, the taboos of remarriage, and the hardships and hurdles you face when sorting through your partner's past. This episode is a long time coming, and we've got info and lessons in it that we hope everyone can take away from, even if this is not your exact situation. *********************************************** CHECK OUR OUR SPONSOR AT SMOOTHMYBALLS.COM AND USE THE CODE BLUEBALLS TO GET YOURS TODAY!!! *********************************************** If you like this pod, let us know with 5 stars on Apple Podcasts! If you don't like it, go ahead and keep that to yourself. Instagram/Facebook: @something_blue_podcast Tik Tok: @somethingblue.ish Also, you can support our podcast on anchor by clicking the support link in our episodes page. Any and all contribution helps us create new content and plan our wedding, too! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/somethingbluepodcast/support

And we're back!! Sorry for the week off, we NEEDED a vacation. And now we're back to talk about all the important things we have learned so far… especially DELEGATING. This is not easy. Your wedding day is your vision, and it may seem hard to pass the baton to others to carry out. But your loved ones are there to help, make sure you find a way to reach out so you aren't stuck arranging florals 20 minutes before you walk down the aisle! ****************************************** CHECK OUR OUR SPONSOR AT SMOOTHMYBALLS.COM AND USE THE CODE BLUEBALLS TO GET YOURS TODAY!!! ****************************************** If you like this pod, let us know with 5 stars on Apple Podcasts! If you don't like it, go ahead and keep that to yourself. Instagram/Facebook: @something_blue_podcast Tik Tok: @somethingblue.ish Also, you can support our podcast on anchor by clicking the support link in our episodes page. Any and all contribution helps us create new content and plan our wedding, too! --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/somethingbluepodcast/support

Introducing: CHRIS MORT!!!! One of our amazing bridesmen is on the pod talking about bridesmaids dresses, the do's and don'ts of making sure your bridespeople are comfortable on your day, and how to be gender-fluid when creating your bridesmaid's LEWKS. Article: The world's ugliest bridesmaids dresses Quizzes: https://www.weddingwire.com/wedding-ideas/which-bridesmaid-dresses-should-your-bridesmaids-wear https://www.davidsbridal.com/planning/bridesmaid-dress/quiz/ If you like this pod, let us know with 5 stars on Apple Podcasts! If you don't like it, go ahead and keep that to yourself. Instagram/Facebook: @something_blue_podcast Tik Tok: @somethingblue.ish Also, you can support our podcast on anchor by clicking the support link in our episodes page. Any and all contribution helps us create new content and plan our wedding, too! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/somethingbluepodcast/support

As we predicted… It has arrived! The wedding BOOM. We had a nice long chat about COVID safety a few weeks ago and how that affects guest experience even as the vaccines roll out. With just a few modifications, you can have your dream wedding again! But… There's another side to this coin. In the past few weeks, the wedding industry has begun noticing a HUGE uptick in couples booking vendors for their weddings for late 2021 and 2022. Most vendors have already been booked out through 2022 at a pace they have never experienced before… we are experiencing a wedding BOOM. If you like this pod, let us know with 5 stars on Apple Podcasts! If you don't like it, go ahead and keep that to yourself. Instagram/Facebook: @something_blue_podcast Tik Tok: @somethingblue.ish Also, you can support our podcast on anchor by clicking the support link in our episodes page. Any and all contribution helps us create new content and plan our wedding, too! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/somethingbluepodcast/support

GIFTS. Let's talk about gifts. We've chatted about favors, wedding registries, how to ask for money in a way that doesn't make aunt Karen cry, but there are so many other gift giving trends that have become an expectation leading up to your big day . From the mother of the bride to the ushers that help pass out programs, a couple's generosity and gratitude is often expressed with a little token or gift. People have showered bridal party members with gift boxes and given their partner a special something before saying I do. But are these things necessary? Do you HAVE to give a gift to everyone that has helped along the way, or will it seem totally rude if you skip it? If you like this pod, let us know with 5 stars on Apple Podcasts! If you don't like it, go ahead and keep that to yourself. Instagram/Facebook: @something_blue_podcast Tik Tok: @somethingblue.ish Also, you can support our podcast on anchor by clicking the support link in our episodes page. Any and all contribution helps us create new content and plan our wedding, too! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/somethingbluepodcast/support

Beware… Another wedding nightmares is here!!! Max and Erin welcome Deven, one of their beloved, wonderful bridesmaids!! They look at a reddit thread that asks, “Those who have been to a ruined wedding, what happened?” If you like this pod, let us know with 5 stars on Apple Podcasts! If you don't like it, go ahead and keep that to yourself. Instagram/Facebook: @something_blue_podcast Tik Tok: @somethingblue.ish Also, you can support our podcast on anchor by clicking the support link in our episodes page. Any and all contribution helps us create new content and plan our wedding, too! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/somethingbluepodcast/support

Oooo time to chat about something *important*!!! I know we are all tired of the covid talk… but it is still prominent and is still claiming lives. And with many of us planning weddings and wanting to celebrate with our loved ones, it is important to have a conversation about how to do so safely, even with restrictions being lifted. There are so many things about gatherings that were second nature that are now having to be rethought, people are struggling to decide if they should cut guests, implement distancing, masks, or require vaccinations to attend. We are here to shed some light on the best ways to go forward, whichever way you choose. Disclaimer: This is not a political issue. This is a public health issue. The safety of everyone is a top concern and should be, covid or no covid. As we move towards a more hygienic society, it is our jobs to adapt and accommodate if we want to enjoy large gatherings like weddings. If you like this pod, let us know with 5 stars on Apple Podcasts! If you don't like it, go ahead and keep that to yourself. Instagram/Facebook: @something_blue_podcast Tik Tok: @somethingblue.ish Also, you can support our podcast on anchor by clicking the support link in our episodes page. Any and all contribution helps us create new content and plan our wedding, too! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/somethingbluepodcast/support

Are you excited?? I’M EXCITED!! Let’s talk about people who are not always excited for your wedding day. DO we care? Should we care? Let’s talk about it. Also, stick around 'til the end to hear our very special guest who is DEFINITELY excited about this wedding. If you like this pod, let us know with 5 stars on Apple Podcasts! If you don't like it, go ahead and keep that to yourself. Instagram/Facebook: @something_blue_podcast Tik Tok: @somethingblue.ish Also, you can support our podcast on anchor by clicking the support link in our episodes page. Any and all contribution helps us create new content and plan our wedding, too! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/somethingbluepodcast/support

We won’t, but if we DID decide to elope…… what do you think? Erin and Max talk about the stereotypes surrounding elopements, how it has evolved over the centuries, and how people in today’s environment navigate eloping and making it the best day EVER. Also, Erin struggles through her constant battle between eloping and waiting another 16 MONTHS. Yey. If you like this pod, let us know with 5 stars on Apple Podcasts! If you don't like it, go ahead and keep that to yourself. Instagram/Facebook: @something_blue_podcast Tik Tok: @somethingblue.ish Also, you can support our podcast on anchor by clicking the support link in our episodes page. Any and all contribution helps us create new content and plan our wedding, too! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/somethingbluepodcast/support

Please welcome, DJ SHAWN!!! Shawn with Bash entertainment sat down to chat with Erin and Max about entertainment companies, how to be the best DJ/Emcee ever, and a ton of insane and awesome stories about weddings past!! Erin and Max also discuss how to create the ideal atmosphere for your guests, and if you should even stress yourself out about what your guests end up doing at your wedding. Check out DJ Shawn with Bash entertainment on WeddingWire and The Knot Look him up on Insta @bashdjs If you like this pod, let us know with 5 stars on Apple Podcasts! If you don't like it, go ahead and keep that to yourself. Instagram/Facebook: @something_blue_podcast Tik Tok: @somethingblue.ish Also, you can support our podcast on anchor by clicking the support link in our episodes page. Any and all contribution helps us create new content and plan our wedding, too! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/somethingbluepodcast/support

Let’s get DEEP about things to discuss with your partner to make sure you are both on the same page before you commit on your big day. Erin and Max thought it would be fun to discuss some of the moments and dynamics in a relationship that indicate that you are in a healthy, successful relationship that will grow into a good marriage. P.S.: Even if you are already engaged, it is a great idea to identify signs of health and growth within your relationship, and reassure you during the stressful times of wedding planning that it is all worth it when you get to be with the one you love. The Q and A from the episode: Where do you want to be in life? Do you want children? What if we aren’t able to conceive? Parenting styles, how do you want to raise your kids? What is your love language, both giving and receiving love? Where do you want to live? Do you like your in-laws? What are your expectations and desires in the bedroom? What is your definition of success? Why do you want to get married? How do you relax/vacation? What is your ideal division of labor? Separate accounts, or share all assets? Whose career takes precedence? Thoughts on marriage counseling? If you like this pod, let us know with 5 stars on Apple Podcasts! If you don't like it, go ahead and keep that to yourself. Instagram/Facebook: @something_blue_podcast Tik Tok: @somethingblue.ish Also, you can support our podcast on anchor by clicking the support link in our episodes page. Any and all contribution helps us create new content and plan our wedding, too! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/somethingbluepodcast/support

Take your seats, because we’re talking about FURNITURE. I promise, it’s not as boring as it sounds. Erin and Max chat about all the different elements of furniture you may need throughout your wedding day, how to decorate them, the pros and cons of assigned seating, and more! If you like this pod, let us know with 5 stars on Apple Podcasts! If you don't like it, go ahead and keep that to yourself. Instagram/Facebook: @something_blue_podcast Tik Tok: @somethingblue.ish Also, you can support our podcast on anchor by clicking the support link in our episodes page. Any and all contribution helps us create new content and plan our wedding, too! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/somethingbluepodcast/support

Warning: this episode contains STRONG opinions about wedding favors. But then again, we’re all used to that by now! *wink* Erin and Max discuss the origins of wedding favors, and the many ways people give small gifts of gratitude and goodies to their guests on their wedding day. They identify the many categories of favors, tips to make them stand out, and the favors they love, and ones they don’t like so much. If you like this pod, let us know with 5 stars on Apple Podcasts! If you don't like it, go ahead and keep that to yourself. Instagram/Facebook: @something_blue_podcast Tik Tok: @somethingblue.ish Also, you can support our podcast on anchor by clicking the support link in our episodes page. Any and all contribution helps us create new content and plan our wedding, too! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/somethingbluepodcast/support

Boo! Sorry, I scared you. Max and Erin introduce a new segment: WEDDING NIGHTMARES and to kick it off, we are discussing everyone’s favorite: nightmare wedding guests!! They read stories posted by brides and grooms everywhere about their experiences with horribly behaved guests, and share ways to control these situations before they happen, and cope with them if they happen anyway. Send us a DM on our social media to share YOUR nightmare wedding story (or your nightmare about what might happen on the big day!!!) If you like this pod, let us know with 5 stars on Apple Podcasts! If you don't like it, go ahead and keep that to yourself. Instagram/Facebook: @something_blue_podcast Tik Tok: @somethingblue.ish Also, you can support our podcast on anchor by clicking the support link in our episodes page. Any and all contribution helps us create new content and plan our wedding, too! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/somethingbluepodcast/support

Wedding websites!! On this episode, Erin and Max look at all the different resources for building a wedding website. They discuss all the benefits of creating one, and maybe some downsides to relying too heavily on technology. Check out their wedding website HERE! If you like this pod, let us know with 5 stars on Apple Podcasts! If you don't like it, go ahead and keep that to yourself. Instagram/Facebook: @something_blue_podcast Tik Tok: @somethingblue.ish Also, you can support our podcast on anchor by clicking the support link in our episodes page. Any and all contribution helps us create new content and plan our wedding, too! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/somethingbluepodcast/support

Mail time… mail time…. Mail time….. MAAAAAAIIILLLL TIIIIIIIME… (cue Blue’s Clues flashbacks). Max and Erin chat about wedding invites, save the dates, RSVPs and stationery! There is a wild origin (and real struggle) of the modern invitation, and so many ways that couples put their personal spin on their stationery. They also share tons of ways to cut costs and save some money while still providing your guests with all the info they need to celebrate with you, in style. Check out their change the date video, SNL style, HERE! If you like this pod, let us know with 5 stars! If you didn't, go ahead and keep that to yourself. Instagram/Facebook: @something_blue_podcast Tik Tok: @somethingblue.ish Also, you can support our podcast on anchor by clicking the support link in our episodes page. Any and all contribution helps us create new content and plan our wedding, too! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/somethingbluepodcast/support

Max and Erin discuss the many ways to honor lost loved ones at your wedding ceremony, and include those who could not attend your special day. They explore the many silly, fun, heartfelt, and tear-jerking ways to express your love and loss while still celebrating your marriage. Dedicated to Robert Tluczek Sr. We love you, Pop-Pop. If you like this pod, let us know with 5 stars! If you didn't, go ahead and keep that to yourself. Instagram/Facebook: @something_blue_podcast Tik Tok: @somethingblue.ish Also, you can support our podcast on anchor by clicking the support link in our episodes page. Any and all contribution helps us create new content and plan our wedding, too! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/somethingbluepodcast/support

Special Guest Alert! Laura Covington of Bridal Spectacular Events joins us for an interview as we discuss bridal expos, the industry from a professional’s point of view, and how they adapted their giant show into “Bridal Show in a Bag”! Erin and Max also explore all the goodies offered inside the bag on the episode and chat about how they felt during the whole event. Bridal Spectacular’s online media links: Website, which features all the vendors mentioned in the episode: https://www.bridalspectacular.com/ Social Media: @BridalSpectacular Youtube: Bridal Spectacular - Las Vegas Weddings And check out their bridal expo this August 13 and 14th in Las Vegas! If you like this pod, let us know with 5 stars! If you didn't, go ahead and keep that to yourself. Facebook/Insta: @somethingbluepodcast TikTok: @somethingblue.ish Also, you can support our podcast on anchor by clicking the support link in our episodes page. Any and all contribution helps us create new content and plan our wedding, too! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/somethingbluepodcast/support

Are you BORED during your bridal shower? Need some activities to do during your reception? Is celebrating your love just not entertaining enough for your guests? Then play some games!! Sarcasm aside, Erin and Max look closely into the wedding trends of playing games, from engagement party to bachelorette, to ways to incorporate games at your reception. If you like this pod, let us know with 5 stars! If you didn't, go ahead and keep that to yourself. Make sure to follow us on Instagram: something_blue_podcast And like and follow on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/somethingbluepodcast Also, you can support our podcast on anchor by clicking the support link in our episodes page. Any and all contribution helps us create new content and plan our wedding, too! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/somethingbluepodcast/support

Erin and Max are back with some FACTS about changing your last name, the sexist origins surrounding surnames, and how to feel legitimate and validated when deciding not to participate in this age old tradition. Whether you are on the fence about changing your last name, or you know for sure you can’t wait to be a Mrs., Erin and Max help that transition happen smoothly and give you all the info you need. If you like this pod, let us know with 5 stars! If you didn't, go ahead and keep that to yourself. Make sure to follow us on Instagram: something_blue_podcast And like and follow on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/somethingbluepodcast Also, you can support our podcast on anchor by clicking the support link in our episodes page. Any and all contribution helps us create new content and plan our wedding, too! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/somethingbluepodcast/support

Erin and Max spill the tea on wedding registries! (we love a good rhyme) Ever wonder where the tradition of gift giving comes from? Who established the first wedding registry? The most popular gifts to add to your registry and where to register? How do you ask for cash without seeming like a total douche?? Look (well... listen) no further, we gotchu.  **Also, visit Erin and Max's wedding website to check out how they laid out their registry on their wedding website. metzduncanproductions.com** If you like this pod, let us know with 5 stars! If you didn't, go ahead and keep that to yourself. Make sure to follow us on Instagram: something_blue_podcast And like and follow on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/somethingbluepodcast Also, you can support our podcast on anchor by clicking the support link in our episodes page. Any and all contribution helps us create new content and plan our wedding, too! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/somethingbluepodcast/support

Happy Valentine’s Day from Something Blue! Erin and Max dive into the origins of Valentine’s day, some pretty dark and disturbing, so beware! They also look at how Valentine’s day has evolved over time, and their best and worst V days. Erin and Max also chat about their decision to officially postpone their wedding until next year, due to the ongoing pandemic. They are sad, but still excited and hopeful for their big day. Count on them every Friday to spill the tea on all things wedding planning. If you like this pod, let us know with 5 stars! If you didn't, go ahead and keep that to yourself. Make sure to follow us on Instagram: something_blue_podcast And like and follow on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/somethingbluepodcast Also, you can support our podcast on anchor by clicking the support link in our episodes page. Any and all contribution helps us create new content and plan our wedding, too! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/somethingbluepodcast/support

Wedding planning can bring out the best and WORST all at the same time. Handling stress of the wedding is one thing, but blending it into your already super stressful, complicated life is even harder! Erin and Max talk about the system they created that has helped them stay focused, productive, and rewarded during one of the most stressful times in their life. And they give you tips for ways to adapt their method in order to prevent burnout, feeling overwhelmed, and keep in mind why you’re doing this in the first place: you and your partner love each other! If you like this pod, let us know with 5 stars! If you didn't, go ahead and keep that to yourself. Make sure to follow us on Instagram: something_blue_podcast And like and follow on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/somethingbluepodcast Also, you can support our podcast on anchor by clicking the support link in our episodes page. Any and all contribution helps us create new content and plan our wedding, too! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/somethingbluepodcast/support

Have you ever looked at something and thought… “I can do that!”? That’s how the DIY bride was born. Erin and Max chat about things to (and things NOT to) DIY for your wedding day. Remember, at the end of the day, it’s all about your priorities and what works for YOU! There is no one-size-fits-all wedding, so your choices in decor and DIY projects will be just as unique as you are. If you like this pod, let us know with 5 stars! If you didn't, go ahead and keep that to yourself. Make sure to follow us on Instagram: something_blue_podcast And like and follow on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/somethingbluepodcast Also, you can support our podcast on anchor by clicking the support link in our episodes page. Any and all contribution helps us create new content and plan our wedding, too! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/somethingbluepodcast/support

Beware the Pinterest hole!!! Erin and Max talk about how to find your couple aesthetic, and how that transforms into your mood, tone, and style on your wedding day. They give you examples of everything from rustic to modern, and give you their (very strong) thoughts on how to create the perfect style for you.  The Knot wedding aesthetic quiz Erin and Max take at the end of the episode is here! The Knot If you like this pod, let us know with 5 stars! If you didn't, go ahead and keep that to yourself. Make sure to follow us on Instagram: something_blue_podcast And like and follow on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/somethingbluepodcast Also, you can support our podcast on anchor by clicking the support link in our episodes page. Any and all contribution helps us create new content and plan our wedding, too! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/somethingbluepodcast/support

Whaaaat? Children?? Gross! Just kidding. Erin and Max chat about what it's like planning a wedding while also being parents - and Erin lets us know how tough it is to be a step parent during this time supposed to be "all about you". They share details about how to (or not to) invite kids to your wedding, and ways to incorporate kids to make sure they have a great time on the big day, in a stress-free and fun way! If you like this pod, let us know with 5 stars! If you didn't, go ahead and keep that to yourself. Make sure to follow us on Instagram: something_blue_podcast And like and follow on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/somethingbluepodcast Also, you can support our podcast on anchor by clicking the support link in our episodes page. Any and all contribution helps us create new content and plan our wedding, too! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/somethingbluepodcast/support

FINALLY! Erin and Max discuss everything from DJs to florists to live animals (yup, it's a thing). They give you the inside tips and tricks to work closely with your vendors to ensure you get everything you want during your big day. And remember, even though it is YOUR day, that doesn't give you an excuse to be rude to your vendors. Like... seriously, don't do that. If you like this pod, let us know with 5 stars! If you didn't, go ahead and keep that to yourself. Make sure to follow us on Instagram: something_blue_podcast And like and follow on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/somethingbluepodcast Also, you can support our podcast on anchor by clicking the support link in our episodes page. Any and all contribution helps us create new content and plan our wedding, too! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/somethingbluepodcast/support

Something Else: Photography edition! Erin and Max discuss how to choose your wedding photographer and videographer, how to create a shot list, how to optimize your vendor's time and expertise throughout the day, and alternative ways you can add additional photo and video as guest interactive experiences! They also share their own timelines and ideas for their big day, and how they are making sure it goes smoothly. (We hope!!) If you like this pod, let us know with 5 stars! If you didn't, go ahead and keep that to yourself. Make sure to follow us on Instagram: something_blue_podcast And like and follow on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/somethingbluepodcast Also, you can support our podcast on anchor by clicking the support link in our episodes page. Any and all contribution helps us create new content and plan our wedding, too! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/somethingbluepodcast/support

Reception time! Erin and Max discuss wedding reception timelines, traditions, and their origins. They also outline how they customized their reception timeline, and what traditions they are (and are not) doing on their big day. If you like this pod, let us know with 5 stars! If you didn't, go ahead and keep that to yourself. Make sure to follow us on Instagram: something_blue_podcast And like and follow on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/somethingbluepodcast Also, you can support our podcast on anchor by clicking the support link in our episodes page. Any and all contribution helps us create new content and plan our wedding, too! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/somethingbluepodcast/support

Time for another episode of Something Else! where we go in depth about the topics you're probably stressing over (just like us). We’re back to finish our chat about food and drink! Today’s episode focuses on the many options when choosing how to serve drinks at your wedding, and cost effective alternatives and variations. This is important stuff! If you like this pod, let us know with 5 stars! If you didn't, go ahead and keep that to yourself. Make sure to follow us on Instagram: something_blue_podcast And like and follow on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/somethingbluepodcast --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/somethingbluepodcast/support

Time for another episode of Something Else! where we go in depth about the topics you're probably stressing over (just like us). Today’s episode is all about FOOD! So... eat lunch before listening because we go into detail about all the different ways you can cater your wedding, and don’t forget dessert! If you like this pod, let us know with 5 stars! If you didn't, go ahead and keep that to yourself. Make sure to follow us on Instagram: something_blue_podcast And like and follow on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/somethingbluepodcast --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/somethingbluepodcast/support

Ever wonder where ceremony traditions come from? Why do you wear a white dress? Why does the bride HAVE to stand on the left? Who even thought of the wedding vows anyway? Erin and Max explore the origins of many different wedding ceremony traditions and share how they modernized the traditional wedding ceremony to fit their style. If you like this pod, let us know with 5 stars! If you didn't, go ahead and keep that to yourself. Make sure to follow us on Instagram: something_blue_podcast And like and follow on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/somethingbluepodcast --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/somethingbluepodcast/support

Time for another episode of Something Else! where we go in depth about the topics you're probably stressing over (just like us). Let's talk wedding party: who to include, who not to include, how to ask them, common wedding party roles and ways to subvert the norm and give your wedding party personal and unique responsibilities in your wedding (and planning process!) If you like this pod, let us know with 5 stars! If you didn't, go ahead and keep that to yourself. Make sure to follow us on Instagram: something_blue_podcast And like and follow on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/somethingbluepodcast --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/somethingbluepodcast/support

Time for another episode of Something Else! where we go in depth about the topics you're probably stressing over (just like us). We're back to talk all about budgets!! We cover how to establish your wedding priorities, how to allocate budget, how to talk about wedding finances with your partner and family, and much more! If you like this pod, let us know with 5 stars! If you didn't, go ahead and keep that to yourself. Make sure to follow us on Instagram: something_blue_podcast And like and follow on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/somethingbluepodcast --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/somethingbluepodcast/support

Oh boy, we're engaged! We're excited! ... We are quarantined! Erin and Max chat about how COVID has effected their engagement, their wedding planning, and all the different options for rescheduling, downsizing, and making the best of a WILD situation. They also dispel the stereotype of the dreaded "bridezilla" and give tips on how best to involve a partner that may not be as gung-ho about the ever-stressful world of wedding planning.  If you like this pod, let us know with 5 stars! If you didn't, go ahead and keep that to yourself. Make sure to follow us on Instagram: something_blue_podcast And like and follow on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/somethingbluepodcast --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/somethingbluepodcast/support

Welcome to our segment on Something Blue called Something Else! In these shorter segments, we will discuss in depth the very, very, VERY many topics that will go through your brain when wedding planning. We break down the logistics of each topic and provide tons of options for different styles, aesthetics, wedding types, and more. This episode: Guest lists. The daunting, ever so stressful list that will definitely change between now and the big day. And that's OKAY! Listen here and we'll give you some of the ways we perfected the list. If you like this pod, let us know with 5 stars! If you didn't, go ahead and keep that to yourself. Make sure to follow us on Instagram: something_blue_podcast And like and follow on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/somethingbluepodcast --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/somethingbluepodcast/support

Welcome to our new segment on Something Blue called Something Else! In these shorter segments, we will discuss in depth the very, very, VERY many topics that will go through your brain when wedding planning. We break down the logistics of each topic and provide tons of options for different styles, aesthetics, wedding types, and more. First up: VENUES. Different types of venues, the right time for the right venues, tips for your venue walk throughs, and more! If you like this pod, let us know with 5 stars! If you didn't, go ahead and keep that to yourself. Make sure to follow us on Instagram: something_blue_podcast And like and follow on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/somethingbluepodcast --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/somethingbluepodcast/support

Here's to the first official episode, and we're diving right in to PROPOSALS! Erin and Max discuss the many stereotypes and pressures surrounding proposals promoted by wedding culture, and break down the best way to propose! *Disclaimer: These are our opinions and observations, sprinkled in with a spoonful of research and just a dash of prior experience. At the end of the day, you do you, bitch.* --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/somethingbluepodcast/support

Happy New Year, and Happy new podcast! We are the Metz-Duncans, an engaged couple navigating our way through wedding planning during a time of true craziness! Before we begin chatting about wedding tips, tricks, and all the things in between, we'd like to give you a little glimpse into who we are. (You can skip this episode if you don't enjoy extremely infectious personalities and charming banter. Your choice.) --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/somethingbluepodcast/support