This is not your youth group sex talk. The Parallel is a safe space for Christians to talk about everything from the importance of knowing your physical anatomy to relationships and everything in between. God created sexuality and we can have a good time
The Parallel podcast is an absolute gem that I stumbled upon thanks to my daughter's recommendation. From the very first episode, I was hooked and have been a devoted listener ever since. This podcast strikes a perfect balance between encouragement, guidance, and correction, all rooted in God's word. Sonata, the host, radiates wisdom and her willingness to allow God to use her in spreading his message through podcasting is truly inspiring. In a world where Christians often feel isolated or bombarded with conflicting messages, this type of content is essential in reminding us of what truly matters in our faith.
One of the best aspects of The Parallel podcast is how Sonata fearlessly brings important topics into the light for better understanding. The discussions on sex, as God intended it to be, are enlightening and refreshing. She tackles these subjects not just from an educational standpoint but also from a spiritual perspective, showing how intertwined our sexuality is with our faith. Her insights are profound and thought-provoking, leaving listeners with a deep sense of understanding.
Another commendable aspect of this podcast is its consistency in encouraging self-reflection and examination. It pushes listeners to not only reflect on their own lives but also to seek guidance from God. Sonata reminds us that true wisdom comes from above and encourages listeners to look upward for guidance, rather than relying solely on their own understanding. This emphasis on seeking a higher power adds depth and meaning to the discussions presented in each episode.
While The Parallel podcast excels in so many ways, there are unfortunately no significant downsides that come to mind. The host's open discussion on taboo topics is refreshing and much needed in today's society. Sonata creates a comfortable atmosphere that allows listeners to engage with these subjects without feeling judged or uncomfortable. Her touch of comedy adds lightheartedness without detracting from the importance of the messages being shared.
In conclusion, I am incredibly grateful for The Parallel podcast. It tackles real topics that are often brushed under the rug, providing valuable education and insight. Sonata's ability to navigate these important conversations with grace and eloquence is truly commendable. This podcast is a must-have on any subscription list for those seeking wisdom and guidance in matters of faith and sexuality. Prepare to be enlightened, challenged, and ultimately uplifted by this exceptional podcast.
Should we even get married if we don't have the final marriage in mind?Chronological Bible Plan: https://open.spotify.com/show/0zibJ95fDWFj3PsYqbkWKm?si=7oIcFeqPT-ym64-Yxgqkng&preview=none
I think, yes! The Bible is very clear about the importance of seeking wise counsel and that does not stop short at dating. But who is wise counsel? Should we voice our opinions on our friends relationships? Let's talk about it.
Your single season is not just for finding your spouse, there is also something just as important to find and it will be a waste of a single season to miss it, your God given purpose. Often times he burdens us with our purpose in the wait as well.
Is it possible to know someones sexual compatibility while abstaining? Luke shares 5 cues that might give you a glimpse into your future sex life.Luke's Socials : @Narrowwayman
Finding the balance between being content but also remaining hopeful is not easy work but is so central to the life of a Christian.
Yes, read that right. I wanted to give you guys some time to digest this and I explain more in this episode.
Sam speaks about his testimony and shares his hopes for other same sex attracted people and the churches role in creating safe spaces.
As Christian dating takes more intentionality that just judging good character. There isn't a lot of guidance on the kinds of questions to ask so I wanted to provide some!
Does the sex talk even make a difference? Why is it so uncommon for parents to have "the talk"? These questions and more will be answering in the is interview with the creator of Sex Ed reclaimed, Kristen Miele!Socials: @sexedreclaimed
We want to please the Lord but we also wonder how painful obedience will be. The Lord leaves room for a submitted hard and also a weary soul, for grief in the growth. Socials: @theparallelpod
Keon & Destiny talk about the positive effects waiting had on their marriage, how withholding can effect the relationship poorly, handling disagreements in marriage, and what it looks like to court a woman well!Socials: @journey2thehills Youtube/Insta/TiktokVisual: https://youtu.be/OwvSlFMf-6w
If you marry to have sex you are setting yourself up for failure and lackluster love. Socials: @theparallelpod Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCvphOgFC60T4kBS-lNNDXiA
Saving a first kiss until marriage GASP! CD&Melody talk about how they built intimacy, built a beatiful marriage, and learned how to navigate the storms in marriage!Socials: Insta: CD Fabien / Melody Fabien / Hanging With The Fabiens
Sometimes we can be so focused on the arrival of a promise that we forget the intentionality and relationship with the creator.
Here come the questions and here comes cuffing season. Lets' talk about how to enter this season with a helpful mindset!
How does a Godly man act? Who should I be to attract a Godly Man?Both good questions that Tamika answers in this episode!All socials: @ tamikathomas Website: tuesdaywithtamika.com
Ghosting is not the move. In this episode Sonata talks about how and why to let people down gently.
Jay speaks about his book called Unwanted that is informed by his understanding of the gospel and his own clinical work addressing unwanted sexual behavior from a very loving and gracious approach. Jay's Info: https://jay-stringer.com/ Social Media: @Jay_stringer_ The Parallel: @theparallelpod DM "God's Plan"Godly Pleasure Event Pre-Event Call: https://calendly.com/sonata-allison/preevent
When we allow our insecurities to choose our romantic partners it will always leave us disappointed and unsatisfied. Link for Pre-Event Call: https://calendly.com/sonata-allison/preevent Socials: @theparallelpod Hope to chat soon!
Shelly shared her woe to woman having premarital sex as well as her testimony of how turning back to God can turn a hard situation into a story of God being ever-present and his provision.
Have you ever thought that you might be using masturbation as a coping skill?
We've all heard to words "six figures" thrown around a lot. Might there be a better goal in mind to achieve what you are really asking for? In this episode:- We talk about what you might really be saying when you say "He has to make six figures". - What might actually be more of your hearts desire-Having money doesn't always equate to financially wiseSocials:@laurenmatheus
You NEED to be here. There are many reasons the Lord put you on this earth and when you dont beleive this truth, you miss opportunities to love God, love others, and love yourself.
Destanee speaks about her abortion story and the role the Lord played in her life after she made that decision. Destanee's Socials : @powerintheprosepodcast@zestofdes
Than what? Than everything....yes, even sex! When the Holy Spirit reminded me of this one thing, my life became so much more peaceful.
In this episode Sonata speaks with Ngina Otiende about what abuse is, red flags to look for, and Ngina shares a lot of helpful resources as well. Resources below:Helpful communities and resources for those in chronically problematic marriages1. (free) Find out if you're in an emotionally abusive Christian marriage by taking the free emotional abuse quiz. By Natalie Hoffman, Flying Free www.emotionalabusequiz.com2. (free) Explore the different categories of mistreatment and danger that are all part of abuse and Domestic Violence. Free resource by Sarah McDugal https://www.wildernesstowild.com/is-it-abuse3. (For pastors and leaders) Is your church as safe as you think it is? Safer Churches seminar https://www.wildernesstowild.com/safer-churches-seminar4. (free) “Is this Abuse?” The 6 Step Guide to Uncovering Hidden/Covert Abuse by https://www.confusiontoclaritynow.com/guideSafe websites/pages for learning about abuse and trauma (or just how a healthy marriage ought not to look like(- Patrick Weaver Ministries https://www.facebook.com/patrickweaverministries- Bare Marriage https://baremarriage.com/- Marg Mowczko (theology website) https://margmowczko.com/- Psalm 82 Initiative training churches to recognize abuse and care for the abused https://www.psalm82initiative.org/Books I mentionedThe Great Sex Rescue (Amazon)She Deserves Better (Amazon)Systems of Abuse: A Guide to Recognizing Toxic Behavior Patterns www.wildernesstowild.com/systems-of-abuse-a-guide-to-recognizing-toxic-behavior-patterns/wmurs
Your confidence can be rooted in things that will never change and truths about yourself that you may struggle to believe but will never cease to be true.
Sonata spoke about different skills that go into loving others romantically and platonically.
Spoke with Sarah Sorenson about how she handled sharing her mental health while dating , how her now husband responded to it and how it's effected her marriage.
Has God promised you something and its taking so long that you have started to question God or if you even interpreted it correctly in the first place? You're not alone. There are so many people in the bible that have experienced something similar to that and can understand the struggle in the waiting.
Can Christians dance with each other...? Is Dancing a sin? For whatever reason some churches have different views on dancing. In this episode, we talk about dancing in scripture and how dancing can reflect communication and relationships. Lauren's Socials: @laurenmatthuesWebsite: Laurenmathues.com
If you are a human you know how hard it is to wait. This episode is somewhat of a lament but hopefully an encouragement in the wait.
A chat about the evolution of woman reading their word, where to start if you haven't, and different resources to help.Wiggy's Socials : @thewordwithwiggyYoutube: WiggyTV
When we have a better understanding of what to expect from life and from the world it can make things more bearable and id even say easier. One of those things we have to understand is suffering. Socials: @theparallelpod
In this episode Corey & Kiana speak about the transition to abstinence, how they prepared for marriage, and newlywed adjustments. Socials: Instagram & Tiktok : @clhgreene & Keekz.coBooks to Prepare for Relationships: https://www.amazon.com/shop/clhgreene?ref_=cm_sw_r_apin_aipsfshop_aipsfclhgreene_VVFHXS11DQTX4DXYB5K7
The answer should be no...but why? Knowing the "why" behind things helps with follow through so thats what we'll be talking about today. Socials: @theparallelpod
Michaela shares her story of how her sexualized childhood shaped her worldview and how the Lord redeemed it all. Michaela's Social Media: @michaelanikolaenkoParallel : @theparallelpod
Wisdom is always looking to be found and with wisdom comes wise decisions and less opportunity for unnecessary heartbreak.Socials: @theparallelpod
Your beauty is not for your gain alone but an opportunity to attract people to Christ.PARALLEL MERCH - https://theparallelpod.myshopify.com/collections/all Follow - @theparallelpod
Christians should be having the best sex because it was literally made for us. In this episode, Angela speaks about how to cultivate a healthy sex life for all stages of marriage and even conversations before. Angela's social : The Christian Sexpert Tiktok: @thechristians_xpert
Indulging in the same sin struggles is not an activity to do with your Christian friends. It's a wasted opportunity to be the church to each other. To love well, to hold each other accountable.
In this episode myself and the HILARIOUS Shama Mrema speak about his success, discipleship in dating, kite flying and morehttps://www.shamamrema.com Shama Mrema's Socials : @shama4realz
Christian can be so scared of sinning that we miss out on appropriate ways of being intimate without having sex. In todays episode I speak about a few ways to cultivate non sexual intimacy. @theparallelpod
Yes, the wait for anything is hard but could it be more bearable if we keep our eyes on the one who is shepherding us through it all?
The garden on Eden is where it all started and the bible uses metaphors that relate to our lives and how we should live to gardening. We speak about how Jerrold came to have this talent and how it's impacted his relationship with the Lord. @beyondorganicgardening
There are questions that need answers and I speak about the most important questions to be asking early on in Christian dating. Tik Tok Dating Questions - https://www.tiktok.com/@theparallelpod/video/7151479170688716075?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc&web_id=7124034749036168747 Link to @girldefined questions - https://www.instagram.com/p/CivlMyaPAi8/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link
"God told me we shouldn't date" The Christian dating space can help filter out some of the unfit bachelors...but it can also be as toxic as any other dating space. Detox Christian Dating - https://www.amazon.com/Detox-Christian-Dating-Examination-Detoxification/dp/0578935988/ref=asc_df_0578935988/?tag=hyprod-20&linkCode=df0&hvadid=564689542723&hvpos=&hvnetw=g&hvrand=5153585037336475686&hvpone=&hvptwo=&hvqmt=&hvdev=c&hvdvcmdl=&hvlocint=&hvlocphy=9011759&hvtargid=pla-1463537013984&psc=1
Even in the striving to be more like Christ in every way, in a world that derives worth from work, we are still called to rest... Song List: Communion - Maverick and Steffany Gretzinger , Finally Found It - Austin David, “A God Who Sees” by Jason Upton , Closer - sang by Amanda Cook, My Soul Sings - Dante Bowe, Safe Retreat by Kings Kaleidoscope Spotify Playlist - https://open.spotify.com/playlist/1WWkwF5UEdceb7MwNT3oXA?si=6c015b45932245ea
This episode addresses Meghans mindset behind having an abnormal number of kids in this day and age and different things that come with the territory...and we get a cute interruption at the end of the episode haha Socials - @meghanjoytoday Blog - Meghanjoyyancy.com Visual episode https://youtu.be/tOoHL3MPqtA (https://youtu.be/tOoHL3MPqtA)
Might there me more to "waiting" than just saving yourself sexually? The bible speak about guarding your heart and I think saving yourself emotionally is just as saving yourself sexually. Socials: @theparallelpod
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