Podcasts about sexual sin

(This episode may not be appropriate for younger listeners)In this episode, Matthew Knabe sits down with Joshua Rowland from Pure Life Ministries to have an open and redemptive conversation about breaking free from the grip of sexual sin. Joshua shares his powerful story of healing and restoration after years of personal struggle, and how God's transforming grace led him to freedom and a life of purpose.Together, they discuss how sexual sin takes root, how shame and secrecy can isolate believers, and what genuine repentance and recovery look like through the power of Christ. This episode offers practical encouragement for anyone battling hidden sin or walking alongside someone who is.If you've ever felt trapped by guilt or wondered if real change is possible, Joshua's story will remind you that God's grace reaches even the darkest corners and brings true freedom.https://www.purelifeministries.org/Emerge.org "You Don't Have to Walk Alone" Emerge.org - "You Don't Have to Walk Alone" Support the showContact Us: Email the show: experience@emerge.org Emerge.org facebook.com/EmergeCounselingMinistries Thank you for listening, sharing, and praying for our podcast!Support the ExEm podcast by clicking here:https://www.buzzsprout.com/882700/support

In this episode, Sathiya Sam addresses the complex relationship between faith and pornography addiction. He explores common questions regarding God's forgiveness, the nature of blessings, and the consequences of sexual sin. Through personal anecdotes and biblical references, Sathiya emphasizes the importance of character development and the assurance of God's grace, encouraging listeners to seek freedom from addiction and maintain a strong relationship with God.   Watch This Content In Video Format Coach Sathiya Sam Youtube Chanel    Know more about Sathiya's work: Deep Clean Inner Circle – Join The Brotherhood (and get coached by Sathiya) For Less Than $2/day Submit Your Questions (Anonymously) To Be Answered On The Podcast Get A Free Copy of The Last Relapse, Your Blueprint For Recovery Watch Sathiya on Youtube For More Content Like This   Chapters: (00:00) Introduction to the Podcast and Topic (01:24) Understanding Pornography and Its Impact (05:20) The Nature of God's Blessings and Character (06:47) The Question of Forgiveness (09:06) The Consequences of Sexual Sin (11:19) Finding Hope and Freedom from Addiction

On this episode of the CityLight Podcast, we’re talking about one of the most countercultural messages in today’s world—sexual purity. Pastor Bo shares personal reflections and biblical insight on how God’s boundaries around sex aren’t about restriction, but protection, healing, and peace. From the cultural shift of the 1960s to today’s media-saturated world, we examine how distorted views of sex have impacted relationships, families, and faith communities. But more importantly, we highlight the freedom found in living God’s way. If you’ve ever wrestled with this topic—or know someone who has—this episode offers truth, grace, and hope for real change.(00:00) God's Boundaries and Sexual Purity(10:32) The Dangers of Sexual Immorality(26:59) The Impact of Sexual Sin(34:01) The Devolution of Sexual Morality(46:04) Embracing Freedom in Christhttps://citylightnyc.com/ 

Why does the Bible treat sexual sin differently from other sins? Dr. John Neufeld explores 1 Corinthians 6:15-20, revealing that sexual expression is never merely physical. God designed sex as a sacred "one flesh" experience meant to express lifelong commitment within marriage. Sexual sin creates a unique spiritual wound because it violates the deepest intimacy God created for us.The Gospel Alternative to the Cultures of Men: Being a Christian inevitably puts you in conflict with culture. In this three-week series, Dr. John Neufeld examines 1 Corinthians 5-7 to explore how the gospel creates a distinct counter-culture in the church. Addressing sexual purity, church discipline, and Christian identity, Dr. Neufeld challenges believers to live faithfully in a broken world—not by condemning culture, but by demonstrating Christ's transforming power through humble accountability, moral courage, and authentic community that offers hope to a watching world.

In this episode of the Kingdom Misfits podcast, the hosts dive into the tricky subjects of sexual sin, temptation, and the woman in Proverbs 7 who's seen as immoral. We really highlight how common pornography and sexual immorality are in both the church and everyday life. The podcast goes deep into Proverbs 7, showing how a seductive woman uses flattery and trickery to trap a young man, and how it all ends badly for him. To wrap things up, the episode gives some helpful advice for believers on how to stay away from temptation, like getting away from sexual immorality, keeping your lust in check, setting strong boundaries, and protecting your mind and environment.Connect with us:Facebook @KingdomMisfitsemail us at kingdommisfitsco@gmail.comMusic in the episode is brought to you by Epidemic Sound and UppBeat.io

Pastor Zac Reno of Enon Baptist Church in Morris Alabama joins Greg to discuss how he led the men of his church thru a 4 week process of identifying and attacking sexual sins. He the put the Bible study into a short book to help people everywhere deal with this often taboo subject in the church.https://www.amazon.com/Freedom-Finding-Sexual-Sin-Strongholds/dp/B0FP9F5T4R

In this passage Paul states that since we have died with Christ, we are called to put to death our old, sinful, and slavery-inducing habits by receiving the full sufficiency of Christ's finished work on the cross.

Hosted by Pastor Josh SorensenOriginating from GRACE FM in Aurora, Colorado, Calvary Live is a one hour program that answers questions about issues surrounding life, godliness, and living for Jesus Christ in our current ever changing culture.

Fornication and it concomitants are incompatible with Christian calling, Christian identity, and Christian love.

What should the Christian do about sex? Why sexual sin hurts others, even if it's consensual Why sexual sin hurts yourself Why sexual sin hurts the Holy Spirit How to stop sinning sexually, even if it's a habit Will the Holy Spirit leave if there's too much sexual sin?   Hey! Don't leave before looking at other P40 stuff:   YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Hnh-aqfg8rw Ko-Fi - https://ko-fi.com/p40ministries  Website - https://www.p40ministries.com Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/p40ministries  Contact - jenn@p40ministries.com  Rumble - https://rumble.com/c/c-6493869  Books - https://www.amazon.com/Jenn-Kokal/e/B095JCRNHY/ref=aufs_dp_fta_dsk  Merch - https://www.p40ministries.com/shop  YouVersion - https://www.bible.com/reading-plans/38267-out-of-the-mire-trusting-god-in-the-middle    Support babies and get quality coffee with Seven Weeks Coffee  https://sevenweekscoffee.com/?ref=P40   Become a member to gain access to The Bible Explained on Fridays: https://ko-fi.com/p40ministries

La sexóloga Adriana Pastrana viene a este episodio con un tema muy candente en el que nos habla sobre los mitos, las fantasías sexuales y los nuevos rituales en el amor. ¡Escucha sus recomendaciones y conviértete en una mejor amante!¡Vivir en armonía y disfrutar el presente es encontrar el verdadero Placer de Vivir! Disfruta el podcast en Uforia App, Apple Podcasts, Spotify, ViX y el canal de YouTube de Uforia Podcasts, o donde sea que escuches tus podcasts. ¿Cómo te sentiste al escuchar este Episodio? Déjanos tus comentarios, suscríbete y cuéntanos cuáles otros temas te gustaría oír en #porelplacerdevivir 

If you've ever wondered, “Why can't I break free from this?” it's probably because you've believed a lie.WATCH NEXT ➡︎ https://youtu.be/selIu5ifNJ8From “God must be disgusted with me” to “one last time won't matter,” these lies are the chains that keep Christians trapped in sexual sin. But the truth of Scripture exposes every one of them, and sets you free.In this episode, we'll break down the 5 biggest lies keeping people stuck and how to replace them with God's truth.We'll cover:Why numbing your pain with sin never worksWhy marriage won't heal your strugglesHow “just one last time” keeps you in bondageWhat the cross proves about God's love for youWhy confession and community are the only way forwardYou're not the only one struggling. But you also don't have to stay stuck. Freedom in Jesus isn't just possible — it's promised. 

Is your church safe? We're exposing grooming practices in the church & offering biblical steps to protect yourself and others!Join Joshua Lewis and Dr. Natalie Atwell as they discuss the insidious issue of grooming within church environments. We'll define grooming behavior, explore its subtle tactics, and contrast it with healthy mentorship and discipleship. Dr. Atwell provides practical insights on identifying red flags, responding to spiritual abuse, and creating a safe church culture. This episode is essential for all Christians, especially pastors, youth leaders, and anyone in a position of spiritual authority.0:00 – Introduction: Grooming Practices in the Church 1:47 – Defining Grooming in a Ministry Context 4:14 – Power Dynamics and Grooming vs. Sexual Sin 6:13 – Questions to Consider Regarding Grooming 11:17 – Early Warning Signs12:14 – Emotional Dependency and Spiritual Language 16:45 – A Healthy View of Spiritual Leadership 21:24 – The CEO Model and Abuse 23:35 – Church Safeguards28:18  - How to Support Victims & Prevent AbuseSubscribe to The Remnant Radio newsletter and receive our FREE introduction to spiritual gifts eBook. Plus, get access to: discounts, news about upcoming shows, courses and conferences - and more. Subscribe now at TheRemnantRadio.com.Support the showABOUT THE REMNANT RADIO:

In this episode, we examine the term "Judeo-Christian" and its evolution over the years. We also discuss how they plan to use the Charlie Kirk incident to promote mass censorship. thefacthunter@mail.comShow Notes:Hate speech is not free speech  https://x.com/shadowofezra/status/1967787454158844261?s=46&t=ytitK_qmWZMvJd0lLKbt-g https://x.com/marionawfal/status/1967765379276509575?s=46&t=ytitK_qmWZMvJd0lLKbt-g Trump Judeo-Christian https://youtube.com/shorts/HxIBT8_OR6g?si=0ITj_YYsL8VEmxvP Trump skipped Kirk vigil https://www.yahoo.com/news/articles/trump-snubs-kennedy-center-charlie-054136270.html Charlie Kirk https://web.archive.org/web/20170227114705/http://www.groupaarch.com/staff/principal.html Ari Ben Maneshhttps://x.com/occultni/status/1967612518077005907?s=46&t=ytitK_qmWZMvJd0lLKbt-g Rubio: https://youtu.be/QLQzdfWQF_Y?si=8s75i3gmYWj9CFS5 BIDEN: WERE I A JEW I'D BE A ZIONIST https://youtu.be/dbn4i7_CFIM?si=4reo0YeTs08i2BP7 Why “Judeo-Christian” Is A Heresy https://youtu.be/BsP1nximIYI?si=aizaolI72V5qNJ5W What Are Judeo-Christian Values? | 5-Minute Videos https://youtu.be/-u5qgVOKkr0?si=ZihyLnGWUTLoyKsI "That's despicable!!" Matt Fradd Clashes w/ Denis Prager on Sexual Sin https://youtu.be/DwEOIGPxRdw?si=66KjbQtYyKv5ymSs Glenn Beck Is Asking For Israeli Citizenship https://youtu.be/D2x8RdWECMw?si=OcezFOiW4igQjJeY Ben Shapiro https://youtube.com/shorts/ixapZAHXcKQ?si=lKAGpwuVtjUZYlVQ Mike Huckabee https://youtu.be/7JN6zR2wll8?si=5Vw37lRrc7olZ5mj Israel breaking the world https://youtu.be/sS9xidsyxXY?si=XyNw7trNYuHm6i7S

Father will use today's feast of the martyrdom of John the Baptist to show us how we can be similar martyrs today.

Talk given in our YSA Ward on the character of our Heavenly Parents and Jesus—and how that brings us peace, healing, and hope. Focused on seven concepts: 1) Our Heavenly Parents love all Their children 2) We have to believe/know we are acceptable to God. That we are created as intended. That no one is a mistake 3) Zion isn't sameness 4) Jesus loves to forgive 5) Whole and complete now 6) Don't feel you are behind 7) Throw out the dating checklist Links: Seven Tips for Overcoming Porn Use: www.churchofjesuschrist.org/study/ensign/2020/10/young-adults/7-tips-for-overcoming-pornography-use How the Savior's Healing Applies to Repenting from Sexual Sin: www.churchofjesuschrist.org/study/ensign/2020/08/young-adults/how-the-saviors-healing-power-applies-to-repenting-from-sexual-sin

As a Christian single, struggling with habitual sexual sin can be a heavy burden. The guilt, shame, and frustration can feel overwhelming, especially when you love God and want to live according to His Word. You might wonder if He's even willing to forgive you after falling so many times. Here's the truth: God is always ready to forgive, no matter how many times we fall. His grace is deeper than our failures, and His love is unconditional. But asking […] The post How to Ask God for Forgiveness: A Christian's Journey Through Habitual Sexual Sin appeared first on Christian Singles Advice | Christian Dating Advice Tips. Related posts: How to Forgive Myself as a Christian Single How to Reset Sexual Boundaries as Christian Singles Should Christian Single Dating Couples Who Fall into Sexual Sin Break Up? Should You Confess Past Sexual Sins to Your Christian Dating Partner? Waiting on God for a Spouse: The Rollercoaster Journey of Patience

Pornography isn't just present in our culture—it's pervasive. The average age of first exposure is 11 for boys, and around 12–13 for girls. About 67% of men and 41% of women view porn at least occasionally. Even in the church, over half of practicing Christians admit to using it, and 67% of pastors have struggled with it—18% currently. The biggest issue? 82% of Christians say no one is helping them. This isn't just a "worldly" issue—it's a tsunami hitting the church. But porn thrives in silence. So, we need to talk about it honestly, embracing the "messy middle"—holding two truths in tension:Porn is an addictive sin that devastates families.Porn is a shortcut that numbs our God-given desires for pleasure and intimacy.1. Porn is an addictive sin.Scripture clearly calls out sexual immorality (porneia) as sin (Colossians 3:5). Porn objectifies people and becomes idolatry—worshiping creation over the Creator. It's not just spiritually harmful; it's mentally and emotionally addictive, rewiring the brain and damaging relationships (1 Cor. 6:18).How it devastates families:Hurts your family tree: Trauma and addiction can leave epigenetic footprints passed to future generations (Exodus 34:7).Creates unrealistic expectations: Porn fosters dissatisfaction with real-life partners and intimacy (Ecclesiastes 9:9).Harms children: Young girls wrestle with distorted self-worth, while boys absorb years of misinformation about sex before marriage.Exploits performers: Many in the industry suffer mental health issues and traumatic backgrounds. Watching porn often means consuming someone else's pain.2. Porn numbs God-given desires.God created us with desires for pleasure and intimacy, but porn offers counterfeit versions—pleasure without fulfillment, intimacy without connection (Proverbs 27:20). Porn silences but never satisfies. People don't view porn because they're bad, but because they've let it hijack their desires.Freedom is possible. The battle plan: Repent, Replace, and Relate.Repent – Turn from sin and toward God (Acts 3:19).Replace – Remove access to porn and renew your mind (Romans 12:2, Matthew 5:29). Married couples should embrace real intimacy (1 Corinthians 7:2-5).Relate – Build accountability with others (James 5:16) and deepen your walk with the Holy Spirit (Galatians 5:16). Don't deny your desires—let Jesus redeem them.SummaryPorn traffics in pleasure without purpose and intimacy without love. But Jesus offers real freedom—not just forgiveness, but power to overcome. You don't need a counterfeit when you can have the real thing: true love, intimacy, and freedom.Are you willing to follow Jesus into the messy middle?

Our girl Kirby Kelly is back to share how Jesus saved her, how there's power in vulnerability, & to talk about the struggles she didn't just find a fix for—but an eternal solution in coming to know & follow Jesus.  From being exposed to pornography at age 4, to finding freedom from masturbation, to learning how to accept God's love for her no matter what she thought of herself—this story is one of God's power & grace & we hope you parts of yours in it too. If this ep was helpful, share on socials & in the girls chat

Today's episode of Uncommon Sense with Ginny Robinson is a carefully crafted full-on rant about two awful cultural failures, Donald Trump and Taylor Swift. Both, in their own ways, are failing the next generation and pushing the normalization of pedophilia. Trump refuses to release the Epstein list or hold powerful pedophiles accountable. Meanwhile, Taylor Swift flaunts her naked body on her album cover marketed to an audience that includes young girls who are already being tempted by a society pushing them toward OnlyFans. Feminism has clearly failed. We need to bring back the biblical patriarchy, AKA Christianity.At some point, we have to stop asking why is all of this happening and start living biblically individually, in our families, and as a society. For the sake of our own wellbeing and (far more importantly) the protection of our children. If we can't even agree to safeguard their innocence, what are we doing? Why aren't we protecting the children?--https://bakerbookhouse.com/featured/the-brand-sunday

If we are to be sexually pure, God must have the supreme place in our feelings and thoughts.

  Bob addresses several subjects brought up in Ephesians 5: -Why was sexual sin tolerated in Jesus' day? -What does it mean to be a pleasing fragrance to God? -Is it wrong for Christians to tell jokes or participate in practical jokes? Click on your podcasting platform below to subscribe to The Bob Siegel Show: […]

  Bob addresses several subjects brought up in Ephesians 5: -Why was sexual sin tolerated in Jesus' day? -What does it mean to be a pleasing fragrance to God? -Is it wrong for Christians to tell jokes or participate in practical jokes? Click on your podcasting platform below to subscribe to The Bob Siegel Show: […]

God had healed Mike's lung cancer and delivered him from an addiction to drugs and alcohol, but he was still full of bitterness, anger and addicted to sexual sin. At Pure Life Ministries, Mike was broken over his selfishness and began to give to others the same love that he received from the Lord.

The solution to sin will come from a right heart.Reading Plan: Old Testament - 2 Chronicles 10-12Psalms - Psalm 88:1-7Gospels - Luke 7:36-50New Testament - Ephesians 5:1-14Visit https://www.revivalfromthebible.com/ for more information.

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¿Recordáis cómo fue vuestra educación sexual? ¿Hubo charla? ¿Hubo silencio? En este nuevo episodio del Podcast del Club de Malasmadres hablamos de educación sexual desde la infancia y la adolescencia. De cómo acompañar a nuestras hijas e hijos en este proceso, aunque muchas veces nosotras mismas no hayamos recibido una buena educación sexual.Nos acompañan Anna Boldú, fundadora de Platanomelón, y Beti Badia, psicóloga y sexóloga especializada en divulgación de la Academia Platanomelón, una plataforma para formarnos como madres y padres, y poder educar sin miedo, sin tabúes y con información.

Sexual brokenness manifests itself in both the digital and physical world, leading many down the path to death. Using Proverbs 5, we build a battle plan for the believer to fight sexual sin and run to Jesus. A Q&A follows the message.

This week we close out our treatment of Proverbs 7, focusing on how sexual sin leads to ruin. This week, we cover female sexual sin, and observe how the sins of the Proverbs 7 woman, can and have crept into the church (even in the most subtle ways)

Welcome to the Covenant Eyes Podcast! In this powerful episode, Pastor Garrett Kell from Del Ray Baptist Church shares his deeply personal journey from rebellion to redemption—and how God's grace transformed his life. Pastor Kell offers heartfelt wisdom on breaking free from pornography, the role of accountability, and how the church can walk alongside those who are struggling with sexual sin.

Jon Benz continues our series in Proverbs.

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Happy Memorial Day Monday! I wish today's episode was cute and fun, but it's definitely not lol. This episode is one of the most vulnerable I've ever recorded because it's the story of my life. After leaving a long-term relationship, I found myself ultimately getting pregnant just 2 months into meeting my now husband. Though that chapter of my life now includes love, marriage, and a beautiful baby boy, it also brought deep guilt, shame, and questions I wasn't prepared to face. In today's episode, I'm sharing how I wrestled with the weight of sexual sin, how shame tried to steal my joy, and what it's looked like to truly repent and allow God to restore me. I reflect on the dangers of taking your life into your own hands and the struggle to forgive yourself while also believing that God forgives you too. All in all, I want this episode to be a reminder that you are not defined by your past. There is redemption on the other side of repentance. And God still writes beautiful stories from broken pieces. I pray this episode reminds you that grace still reaches for you - even in your mistakes. FOLLOW US: @girlsirlpod@mariahclayton_Don't forget to leave a 5-star rating! 

Stay away from sexual sin. Until you do, you don't. The Word of God is clear about sexual immorality, and why as believers, need to stay on the right path that He has set before us. Pastor Larry Huch continues his series "The Character of the Child of God." To learn more about Larry Huch Ministries, our broadcast, podcast, outreaches, current TV offers, other resources, how to give, and so much more visit https://larryhuchministries.com.

What if the very thing you thought disqualified you from grace was the story God would use to set others free? In this raw and redemptive conversation, Pastors Josh Howerton and Carlos Erazo sit down with special guest Joshua Broome, a former adult film actor turned passionate advocate for Jesus, to explore the power of healing, identity, and spiritual transformation.  From tackling the porn epidemic to reclaiming biblical intimacy, this dialogue offers hope for anyone feeling trapped in shame or stuck in silence. Whether you're walking through brokenness or walking alongside someone who is, this conversation points to the freedom found only in Christ. Let's talk about the kind of grace that doesn't flinch at your past—and the kind of God who doesn't leave you there.  

A crucial and often uncomfortable topic that touches the heart of many individuals and churches alike is that of sexual sin and its impact on the Body of Christ. There is no doubt that there is something particularly devastating when one hears that a church friend, a confidante, or leader in the church has committed sexual sin. It is an offense to Christ and a violation of trust. For the church, it feels like the ultimate act of hypocrisy. How does a person recover from this kind of sin? Is it possible to find victory again? How should the church respond to recover those people who have fallen in this way? How do we promote faith within the church family despite the feelings of betrayal that they have? In today's episode, we will explore the biblical subject of sexual sin, fornication, and its ramifications on the church. We will also discuss what it looks like to break free from sexual sin and find the road to recovery. To have this conversation, we have invited Dan Reneau, Pastor of Living Faith Lee's Summit and a professor of Biblical Studies at Living Faith Bible Institute.Visit https://www.lfbi.org/learnmore

When Lust No Longer Rules Your Mind: Patrick's Freedom Story It's a quiet kind of bravery that often goes unseen. The kind that walks through the door not to applause, but to shame—and chooses humility instead of hiding.  That's the kind of courage Patrick brought into this conversation. And today, I want to honor that bravery and invite you into a story that too few are willing to tell, but so many need to hear. How Addiction and Lust Took Root in Patrick's Life This is not just a testimony—it's a mirror for so many men. Maybe even you. Patrick didn't set out to become enslaved. No one does. It started with what seemed like innocent attention, where his lack of parental love likely was at the root. A college-aged ego boost. A swipe here. A message there. A few flirty words on a dating app. But what he didn't know was that the enemy had planted seeds. And what felt like harmless validation from unmet needs, eventually spiraled into addiction, and eventually betrayal. But God— Yes, this is a story of rock-bottom moments. It's a story of a man whose addiction, lust, and even prostitution came to light in the most painful and humiliating way.  But it's also a story of a God who meets us in our darkest, filthiest, most shameful pits—and brings us into the light. And you'll hear how it happened for Patrick. The Heartbreaking Wake-Up Call: What His Daughter Found The real wake-up call came when his wife found the proof. Actually—his daughter did. Yes. Patrick's 6-year-old daughter accidentally discovered the messages. Gut-wrenching. Embarrassing. Devastating.  That moment of exposure was the very thing that broke him enough to seek healing. Now, he calls it a “blessing”. The devil thrives in secrecy. He whispers, "Keep this hidden.” “It'll only hurt people if you share.” and “You can fix it yourself."  But Jesus says, "Bring it into the light. Tell safe people. Confess. I will heal you." Patrick did. And his life changed. Why Hiding Hurts—and Confession Heals But let's rewind for a second. Because this story didn't begin with healing. It began with desperation. After that discovery, Patrick didn't know where to turn. He thought he might lose his wife. And to be honest, she had every reason to walk away. But then, a friend—someone who had been through the program himself—spoke life. This friend had also been in the trenches and knew what it was like.  And he offered Patrick a lifeline: “It's not over. There is hope. You should look into Delight Your Marriage.” Patrick took a Clarity Call. It wasn't a sales pitch. It wasn't about convincing him to join a program. It was a discerning process to see if we could even help. And praise God, we could. The Hard Work of True Freedom: Identity, Humility, and Accountability That's when the real work began. You'll hear in this episode the specifics: how Patrick confronted the dual life he was living, how he wrestled with white-knuckling through sobriety, and how he came to reject the identity of "I'm just always going to be an addict." Because that's not how God sees us. Patrick realized something deep and transformational: When we stay tied to the identity of our past sin, we remain bound by it. But when we accept the truth that we are a new creation in Christ, the chains begin to fall off. That doesn't mean the road is easy. Not at all. Patrick will tell you: it was hard. It took humility. It took accountability. It took honesty. And it took work to discover what were the roots of the addiction.  But today, Patrick is walking in freedom. Freedom from shame. Freedom from the fear of being found out. And his marriage? On it's healing journey. Better than ever.  Not because everything's perfect, but because there is now a foundation of truth, transparency, and most importantly—Jesus. He prays with his wife now. He prays for her. He opens the Bible daily. He's leading his family spiritually. He's serving his wife—not as a passive man trying to survive, but as a man who is reclaiming his God-given masculinity. That's the kind of freedom God offers. Hope for Families: When Betrayal Breaks Your Heart So if you're a husband who's been hiding, hoping no one finds out, let this be your wake-up call. You are not alone. And more importantly, you are not without hope. Or maybe you're a wife who discovered your husband's secret. Maybe your heart is shattered, and you don't know how to put the pieces back together. Let this testimony be your whisper of hope. God is in the business of redemption. Patrick's wife is living proof. And if you're a pastor—or married to one—or you're in leadership and wrestling with the same chains, please don't think you're exempt. You're not. And that's okay. This is for you, too. Free Resources to Help You Heal: Training and Clarity Call That's why I want to invite you into a free training: delightym.com/healthechurch This training is specifically for those who want to understand how deep this issue runs in our churches—and what we can do about it. Whether you're battling lust yourself or you're trying to help others—this is your equipping. You can also take the next step like Patrick did and book a free Clarity Call: delightym.com/cc There is hope. There is healing. And it doesn't come from trying harder or hiding longer. It comes from surrendering and allowing God to rebuild you from the inside out. Patrick's story is not just his own. It's a glimpse of what God can do in any marriage, any man, any home. Let this episode remind you: when lust no longer rules, love begins to lead. Don't miss it. Listen now. And please, if this touches you—share it. You never know who's in the dark, needing to hear there's light. With love, Belah Resources: Free Training: Healing the Church from Sexual Sin delightym.com/healthechurch Free Clarity Call: Find out if one of our programs is right for you delightym.com/cc

Healing Sexual Sin & Shame through the Cross (and Curiosity): Interview with Jay Stringer There is something so incredible about a story of redemption. And, dear reader, I believe this conversation will be a turning point for you, as it has been for so many in our community. I've walked alongside men and women wrestling with the deep pain of sexual brokenness- the battles they face in their marriage beds, their thought lives, their past, and the weight of shame. I've seen firsthand the power of God to restore what seemed utterly lost. And this conversation with Jay Stringer is an invitation to that very healing journey. Jay is a therapist, minister, researcher, and author of Unwanted: How Sexual Brokenness Reveals Our Way to Healing. His compassionate, curious approach offers a fresh lens: that the very behaviors we hate are not random. They are clues. And they point us to healing. On this Good Friday, as we reflect on the sacrifice of Jesus, there is no better time to consider what it truly means to lay our shame at the foot of the cross. Let's dive in. The Cross and Your Story of Healing We all carry wounds. Some we're acutely aware of, and others we've buried so deeply that they show up in our actions long before we recognize them in our hearts. Jay opened our conversation by pointing us to the profound truth of the cross. Jesus knew exactly what you would do. Every mistake. Every moment of shame. And yet, He chose to take it all upon Himself. He bore your sin and your shame. This is not a journey of trying harder to be good enough. It's about understanding how deeply Jesus loves you, even in your lowest moments, and choosing to respond to His love with a courageous step toward healing. Unwanted Behaviors: They Are Not Random One of the most freeing truths Jay shared is this: our unwanted behaviors are not random. Through his extensive clinical work and groundbreaking research, Jay discovered that the specific ways we struggle are deeply connected to our stories of origin. Jay explained that in his role as the sex addiction therapist for the city of Seattle, he began to see patterns. Men arrested for soliciting sex were not making random choices. Their actions were connected to predictable stories of pain and trauma. Whether you grew up in a home of neglect, where your heart longed for connection and was left empty, or in a home of rigid control, where you felt powerless and unseen, these early experiences shape the way you cope and the behaviors you pursue as an adult. Your brain, your body, your desires are all responding to unhealed wounds. Understanding the Root: Family Systems and the Power of Priming Jay described two primary family systems that often set the stage for future struggles: The Disengaged Family System: Parents were physically or emotionally absent. Your longing for connection was never fulfilled. When you first experienced the neurochemical bond of pornography or sex, it felt like the deepest connection you had ever known. The Rigid, Authoritarian Family System: Parents were hyper-controlling, using performance or religion to shape you. You felt powerless and suffocated. Pornography, in contrast, offered a false sense of control and power over your environment. Both systems prime you for certain temptations. And recognizing this isn't about blaming parents or excusing behaviors. It's about gaining understanding. Because understanding is what allows us to grieve. And grieving opens the door to healing. As Jay says, “You can't just try to stop an unhealthy behavior. You have to understand why you were drawn to that behavior in the first place.” Shame Keeps You Stuck. Curiosity Sets You Free. As Christians, we know the seriousness of sin. But too often, we try to hate our way to holiness. We believe that if we punish ourselves enough, we'll finally change. But, the Apostle Paul tells us that it is God's kindness that leads us to repentance (Romans 2:4). Not our contempt. Not our loathing. Not our self-hatred. Jay encouraged us to replace self-contempt with curiosity. Ask yourself: Why am I drawn to this behavior? What is the pain underneath my actions? What does this reveal about my longing to be seen, known, and loved? When we approach our story with curiosity, we give God space to reveal the roots of our pain. The Shark of Shame: Swim Toward It Jay also shared a fascinating metaphor that I just love: Professional shark diver Andy Casagrande was once asked what to do if a great white shark is swimming toward you. His answer? Swim toward it. If you swim away, you act like prey. But if you move toward the shark, it confuses the predator, and it backs away. Shame operates the same way. When we run from it, it devours us. But when we confront it — facing it head on, sharing vulnerably in trusted community, seeking counseling, and naming our wounds — we rob shame of its power. Swim toward the shark of shame. Face it. Name it. And watch as it loses its grip on your life. Jesus Took Your Shame to the Cross This is where our faith becomes not just helpful, but essential. The world offers coping strategies, but Jesus offers complete redemption. He didn't just take your sin to the cross; He took your shame. Through His death and resurrection, we are invited into freedom. If you've ever felt like your past disqualifies you from God's love, let me remind you: Jesus knew your struggles when He went to the cross. He went anyway. He has already made a way for you to live in righteousness, peace, and freedom. This is the hope of Easter. The hope of the Gospel. From Crisis to Calling: Your Story Matters So often, the crises of our lives — the shame, the addictions, the brokenness — are actually invitations to transformation. Jay shared that in the absence of elders to guide us through rites of passage, our souls will create crises that force us to confront our identity and our wounds. Rather than run from the crisis, we can see it as a holy opportunity. Your struggle is not the end of your story. It's the beginning of a new chapter. When you engage your story with honesty and curiosity, you step into the redemption God has for you. You become part of His story of restoration — not just for you, but for others. Final Encouragement: There Is Hope for You Dear friend, this journey is not about perfection. It's about progress. It's about engaging your story with curiosity, leaning into the kindness of God, and walking the path of healing, step by step. Jesus took your sin. He took your shame. And He rose again to give you new life. This Easter, may you embrace the truth that resurrection is possible for you, too. You are deeply loved. You are seen. You are not alone. Happy Easter.   With love,   Belah & Team   PS - Check out Jay's book here: Unwanted: How Sexual Brokenness Reveals Our Way to Healing PPS - If you want to take the first step into freedom and healing your marriage, schedule a free Clarity Call with us at delightyourmarriage.com/cc PPPS - Here is a quote from a recent graduate: “My husband and I lived parallel lives almost our entire marriage…The only thing he wanted from me in the relationship was sex. That was the last thing I wanted to give him because I was exhausted from trying to be the super mom and head of the household. This caused a rift in our relationship…After a separation in our own home we each began our own counseling…Both of our counselors questioned if a form of sex addiction might be part of the problem. I dove into trying to learn everything I could about sex addiction. I joined a 12 step group for spouses of sex addicts. That program is about avoiding unhealthy sexual behaviors. I didn't even know what healthy sexual behaviors were. After 4 years of marriage counseling and feeling stuck in a marriage that was barely hanging on, I discovered your program. I found hope for my marriage and began to see my husband in a different light”

Questions answered this episode:1. My husband and I are newly married and both committed to our faith. I came into marriage with a deep understanding of the sacredness of the marital embrace through TOB, but we quickly discovered I have a much higher sex drive, and he struggles with erectile dysfunction. It's left me feeling rejected, unattractive, and alone—especially since women rarely talk about having stronger desire. I'm trying to love him through this, but I'm grieving how hard this is compared to what I imagined.2. I've been on and off with a woman I feel deeply connected to—like home. That connection has led us into sexual sin many times, though we often go to confession. I truly love her, but I'm afraid our past intimacy might have harmed our chances of a holy marriage and family. If God is calling us to be together, have we already ruined something good?3. My husband has struggled with porn since he was young, even though he always sensed it was wrong. He worked hard to stop, especially during our engagement, but relapsed a few times in marriage—mainly around postpartum seasons. He's been free for over two years, but I've just had our third baby and feel anxious it could return. He's otherwise loving and tender, and our sex life is beautiful. But I worry this may be a cross we carry forever. Is real healing possible?Ask Christopher West is a weekly podcast in which Theology of the Body Institute President Christopher West and his beloved wife Wendy share their humor and wisdom, answering questions about marriage, relationships, life, and the Catholic faith, all in light of John Paul II's beautiful teachings on the Theology of the Body. ---