The Talking Single Podcast

It's the final episode for this season and the Talking Singles catch up on life in general and online dating. They also find out how well they know each other. Curious? Tune in to find out more.

This week the Talking Single Podcast is joined by special guest Carissa Vikis , the host of The beauty unlocked podcast to continue the conversation on diet culture. Carissa delves into the racist history of diet culture & why it's especially harmful to people of colour & black women. Trying to end on a positive note they talk about how to practice body positivity. Some sources - https://wellbeingtrust.org/bewell/10-ways-to-practice-body-positivity Please use this website directory to get help if suffering from eating disorders - https://www.feast-ed.org/worldwide-list-of-ed-advocacy-organizations/ You can find out more and follow our amazing guest host Carissa on Tiktok at Beauty Unlocked the pod or on Youtube at Beauty Unlocked's Podcast Hour / https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC3Lczai1lXoGJjPKXe5eaKQ.

This week the talking single ladies get very honest and personal as they share their experiences and struggles with diet culture . Trigger warning ! this episode may affect , please reach out to a trained professional if needed. To find out more about today's podcast , please refer to the links below. https://www.bhf.org.uk/informationsupport/heart-matters-magazine/news/food-trends-2016/do-not-follow-food-trends https://www.goodhousekeeping.com/health/diet-nutrition/a35036808/what-is-diet-culture/ https://www.goodhousekeeping.com/health/a35422452/fat-phobia/

The talking singles are back again on the very kinky topic of BDSM. What to learn about the nuts and bolts and the ins and outs? Join Keysha, Rasheeda, Crystal plus a special guest as they cover all you need to know.

Why is dating such a process? why is it so complicated? Why are there so many stages and why is there so much uncertainty from when you match till when it's official? No wonder it's tiring and no wonder so many of us choose to stay single. Listen to Ribi, Crystal and Keysha talk about why it's a jungle out there and more !

This week the Talking Singles discuss the single woman and her career. They cover their career journeys, mistakes, and lessons they've learnt along the way. As usual, Keysha, Rasheeda, Crystal and Ribi don't hold back as they share some very personal career moments.

This week Rasheeda, Keysha, Crystal and Ribi react to the overturning of Roe v Wade. It's a tough topic and things get just a little bit serious as the ladies are not holding back on their views. Find out how this decision has affected women in general and our Talking Single ladies in particular. By the way, there won't be a podcast next week but we will be back the week after.

This week, the Talking singles talk about relationship flags - the red flags that you should totally avoid, the green flags that you should be looking for and the in-between pink flags. As usual, Ribi, Keysha, Crystal and Rasheeda have a very open and honest conversation about what they can and can't take in relationships, what turns them on and what turns them off!

Are poly relationships the solution to infidelity, and the gender number imbalance? Is Polygamy a solution to adultery? Is Polygyny a patriarchal construct? Are there any benefits that would make it worth considering if one is single? Join Rasheeda, Crystal, Ribi and Keysha as they share their views on all types of poly relationships.

This week, the Talking Singles - Keysha, Rasheeda, Crystal and Ribi don't talk about being single. Instead, they share their perspectives on the very topical issue of inclusion, diversity and equality and how it affects their lives today.

This week the Talking Singles go back to the basics and chat about why being single is seen as a thing . They give their perspectives on what's great and not so great about being single , why many in society feel sorry for you if you are over a certain age and are single . They also share how they live their own single and fabulous lives!

What exactly is Pretty privilege? Do you have it? Why do some people reap the benefits and some don't? Does it even matter? Join Crystal, Ribi, Rasheeda and Keysha as they debate this interesting construct.

Keysha, Rasheeda, Crystal and Ribi are back for a new season after a long break. They share what they've been up to .. new jobs, new relationships, getting over COVID, matchmaking and so much more!

It's the last episode of season three, which finds the Talking Singles reviewing the best of the season! They also answer a lot of your questions and give a little hint on Season four. Enjoy this last episode and stay tuned for Season four - coming up very soon.

This week the Ladies discuss non-romantic Relationships - that is Families and Friendships. Join Keysha, Crystal, Rasheeda as they share stories about their families, levels of friendships and more.

This week, the Talking Singles talk about two cultural ideas explaining the role women play in helping other women advance at work, and they are seemingly at odds: the Righteous Woman - that feels a moral obligation to help other women and the Queen Bee - the belief that women simply can't get along. Expect some interesting views. Join Ribi, Rasheeda, Crystal and Keysha as they also catch up on all that's happened in the last week .. a lot ! and if some of the ladies may be possibly changing their love personas.

On this week's episode of The Talking Single Podcast, Crystal, Ribi Rasheeda and Keysha Talk about the Joys of Being Single. Joined by SJ the founder of Soulfully Single they talk about the unexpected Joys of being Single, how to keep from being desperate when you are single, over 30 and much more. Find out more about SJ on her website : https://beingsj.com/soulfullysingleigIntroduction or reach out to her on instagram -https://www.instagram.com/soulfullysingle/. Don’t forget to enter our one year annivasary podcasting (podivasary) Giveaway

This week, the talking singles talk about Dating Coaches – especially those on Instagram and You Tube. Do these insta-famous dating coaches give real solid advice or are they simply good looking men selling impossible and sometimes even hurtful narratives to women, making loads of money in along the way? Join Rasheeda, Crystal, Ribi and Keysha as they debate this, also Rasheeda’s W.A.R is back , tune in to see what’s annoying her this week . It’s also someone’s birthday this week (guess who!) and our one year anniversary of Podcasting is coming up soon - we aim to celebrate both in style!

This week the Talking Singles get the lowdown from an amazing guest , Calvin from the Midlife Crisis Podcast. Not only does he deal with the idea that Good Girls carry last ( and just kills that nonsense). He answers all the questions we’ve always wanted to ask guys , questions like - How did you know she was The One? Why do some men have an issue with women who make more money? How do you fight fair in relationship arguments? What’s the most challenging thing about being married? Why do men cheat? Join Keysha, Rasheeda, Crystal ,Ribi and Calvin (@Midlife Crisis Podcast on Spotify , Apple podcast and more) as they discuss marriage, relationships and so much more . Also tune in to hear how Rasheeda is single but not really mingling and how Keysha’s dealing with Bumble … our stone cold girl is slowly thawing.

Online dating has dehumanised individuals by reducing complex beings into swipe-able avatars, and it has succeeded in the creation of a breeding ground of people for whom direct, honest conversation feels not only unpalatable but also unnecessary. Would you agree with that? Join Ribi , Crystal , Rasheeda and Keysha as they talk about the dramas and nonsense of online dating. With the rise of ghosting , fading , benching , bread crumbing and the like, no wonder Ribi is swearing mad! The ladies are joined by special guest Alex , who drops some amazing pearls of wisdom. Alex is from Strike - An App with an alternative and spontaneous new way to meet matches that fit your personal preferences without many of the stresses of online dating. Alex shares how Strike could be the answer we are all looking for. You don't want to miss that! Enjoy

This week, the Rasheeda, Ribi, Crystal and Keysha get into the very recent and very difficult topic of sexual harassment. They reflect on recent occurrences, review how women are protected generally or not protected as is often the case. They share their previous personal experiences and how that’s affected what they do to stay safe these days. Things get a bit heated whey the ladies discuss what constitutes harassment in the first place- very understandable given the nature of the topic. Even the hashtag Notallmen gets a once over , and as usual with the ladies, it’s open, honest, raw and real.

In this week’s episode, the Talking Singles discuss the world of kinks and fetishes. These are often used interchangeably to mean any sexual desire or proclivity that falls outside the mainstream appetite. A fetish is a sexual fixtation on a specific object ( e.g. foot fetish) or act that is not necessary or absolute to a person’s gratification. A kink is a broader term that encompasses a bunch of alternative sexual interests that go beyond the run of the mill - could include impact play and other forms of BDSM. This episode is a bit more explicit than normal and for some parts, you may want to listen when you aren't eating . Join Crystal, Ribi, Rasheeda and Keysha as they share what their preferences and some interesting revelations. They are joined by a very special guest and hilarious comedian Kyndra for a very funny podcast. Find and follow Kyndra @thekyndracrumpshow, she is simple amazing! If you'd like to learn, there is a lot of information available online. To make it easier , you can also try the links below : Bad girls bible- https://badgirlsbible.com/list-of-kinks-and-fetishes Glamour online - https://www.glamour.com/story/a-to-z-kinks-and-fetishes

This week the Talking Singles have a lot to talk about. They share their versions of a virtual speed dating experience and how one of the ladies got matched, they revisit the topic of interracial dating and for the first time ever , they visit discuss W.A.R - it's totally not what you think . Join Rasheeda, Crystal, Ribi and Keysha as they also talk about how Crystal's voice is extremely orchestral and yet again how their rapid fire round is far from rapid.

What makes someone who they are? Each person has an idea of their personality type/preference – if they are bubbly or reserved, sensitive or thick skinned.That everyone has unique personalities makes life more interesting (or, sometimes, more difficult).Psychologists who try to tease out the science of who we are define personality as individual differences in the way people tend to think, feel and behave. This week, the Talking singles reveal their personality traits , figure out what they have in common , what makes each one different.. oh and they finally admit the truth about the rapid fire round!

This week the Talking Singles get very emotional and personal as they talk being authentic and content in a world where we are bombarded with images and stories of other peoples best days. We are constantly comparing bodies, jobs, relationships, holidays with others. Is it possible to be content with our lot in life regardless of the 'perfection' we seem to always be exposed to? Join Keysha, Crystal and Ribi as they talk about this and so much more !

The Talking Singles are back and for the first episode are chatting to three awesome Love and Dating Gurus about dating online , dating apps , matchmaking services , speeding dating and so much more. Join Crystal, Rasheeda, Keysha and Ribi as they question the Gurus about what apps to use and which ones to avoid, alternatives to dating apps, what to do on a first date - virtual and covid world .. there's even a tinder experiment to unpack! Special thanks to our amazing Guru's for joining us - Laura , aka the Tartan Matchmaker @matchmadeinscotland, Luisa , a london based love guru @londonloveguru and Suborno, a dating coach and podcaster @brownbear30ish. Please check them out on instagram and other social media platforms. You can also find us on Instagram, Twitter and Facebook @talkingsinglepodcast. Hope you enjoy this episode, we had so much fun making it .

According to an England Mental Health and Wellbeing survey , about 29% of Black women experienced a common mental disorder like anxiety, depression or obsessive-compulsive disorder in the past week, the highest rate for women across all ethnic groups! Surprised at the high number? Then join Ribi, Rasheeda, Crystal and Keysha as they share their personal stories of dealing with mental health issues. They also discuss why we don't talk mental health enough, or seek professional help when we need it .

Could Matchmaking / matchmaking services become our refuge and the most efficient way to date? A hybrid to bridge/replace the initial impersonal nature of searching, finding and connecting on dating applications? Join the Talking singles Rasheeda , Crystal , Keysha and Ribi as they talk about Match making , the pros and cons , it potentially becoming the new normal. They also share their very funny experiences of matchmaking gone wrong and more!

Today, the talking singles are discussing the search for that oh so elusive Mr Right. Should we search? Should we just let it be? Is there even such a thing as Mr Right? are there alternatives? maybe our expectations are too high or un-realistic, maybe Mr Ok or Mr Right now will do just fine. Join Ribi, Rasheedah, Crystal and Keysha to see how they figure this out!

It is said that when you fall in love you can't avoid butterflies dancing and fooling around in your belly. Unfortunately, scientists also say these feelings last for about a year. Given that our attention span as a human species is decreasing rapidly and there are so many options out there, one can’t help but wonder if it's affecting the way we love and how long those feelings last. Join the talking single girls; Crystal, Ribi, Keysha, Rasheeda and two very special talking single guys – The soulful speaker JP and the fabulous artist Sedric Perry as they ruminate on exactly what love has to do with anything!

On this bonus New Year's Eve episode , join the Talking Singles , Crystal, Keysha, Rasheeda and Ribi as they reflect on the ups and downs, highs and lows of 2020.

We all know that sex has been proven to promote better sleep habits, less stress, more happiness, etc . A healthy sex life is said to be part of having a healthy body. Join Keysha, Rasheeda , Ribi and Crystal as they talk about the importance of the physical , psychological satisfaction and enjoyment derived from healthy , pleasurable sex.

The life of a woman is constantly being examined and re-examined. Everyone seems to have an opinion on what a woman can or cannot do. What she can do with her body and time. women have been constantly judged - We’ve endured centuries of being regarded as the less intellectually capable gender and deemed the weaker because it was believed that we had smaller brains.The knowledge has thankfully moved beyond this, but there are other myths and misconceptions still very much around today. Join the talking singles Rasheeda, Crystal , Keysha and Ribi as they do what they do best ....bust those myths with their usual honest, funny and no- holds barred commentary.

Committed relationships, Situationships, Entanglements, Friends with Benefits, Booty Calls, One Night Stands.. the list of different types of relationships goes on and on. How did dating get so varied and complicated ? Join the talking Single ladies Ribi, Rasheeda, Crystal and Keysha as they explore the pros and cons of all types of relationships, in their ususal candid manner.

Self-love means having a high regard for one's well-being and happiness. It means taking care of your own needs and not sacrificing your well-being to please others. Self-love also means not settling for less than you deserve. Self-love means different things to each person because we all have many different ways to take care of ourselves. Join Crystal, Rasheeda, Keysha and Ribi along with their very special guest - Erusi, aka Aunty Roo - an experienced Self Development Coach, as they discuss why practising Self Love is an important part of one's mental health.

Man Up!.. We've all heard and maybe even used the phrase at some point in time. There are some who feel that the expression reflects the need for men, especially Black Men to step up, but on the other side of the fence are those who say that's its a toxic masculine phrase. Join the Talking Single Ladies - Crystal and Keysha with their special guest Tim Anthony Ford as they talk about all sides of this very relevant and important topic.

On this episode, join Keysha, Crystal and Ribi as they talk about female friendships, mixed-gender friends and all the experiences they've had within their various friendship circles .. including the good, the bad and the very ugly.

In modern society why are there so many unnecessary and even harmful vaginal routines and fads to tame the very natural and normal female genital tract? Is there some sort misogyny going on towards our vaginas? Join the talking singles, Keysha, Crystal, Rasheeda and Ribi as they candidly talk about this often unspoken topic.

This week, the Talking Singles - Rasheeda, Ribi, Crystal and Keysah are joined by the Diasporadicals, Norma Jean and Ria to talk about Colourism. Six ladies and one hot topic! Enjoy

The Talking Singles are back ! Join the ladies ( now four) as they kick off their 2nd Season. New girl Rasheeda, Ribi, Crystal and Keysha share all they've been up to since the last season and the topics they are really looking forward to this season. Promises to be a lot of fun!!

If you could travel back in time to give your younger self advice would you? There’s been some research that suggests mulling over this question is a common human experience. The advice you would give your younger self is a great way to help reflect on how you have grown. So Join Ribi, Crystal and Keysha on their last episode of the series as they share life lessons to their younger selves .

A woman’s best reproductive years are in her 20s. Fertility gradually declines in the 30s, particularly after age 35. Each month that she tries, a healthy, fertile 30-year-old woman has a 20% chance of getting pregnant. That means that for every 100 fertile 30-year-old women trying to get pregnant in 1 cycle, 20 will be successful and the other 80 will have to try again. By age 40, a woman’s chance is less than 5% per cycle, so fewer than 5 out of every 100 women are expected to be successful each month. Join the Ribi, Crystal and Keysha as they talk about this sensitive and very important topic.

What does it mean to be a feminist? Do you have a feminist role model and how have they influenced your choices as you navigate life? Does supporting feminism make a Man less of a Man? Join Ribi, Crystal and Keysha as they talk candidly about feminism and their own take on things.

Join Ribi, Crystal, Keysha and their friend Rasheeda as they talk about the good, the bad and the hilarious side of sex, including every woman's nightmare .. a broken vagina !!

This week, our Talking Singles chat about all thing’s money. Join Ribi, Crystal and Keysha as they share how they've managed money, finances and relationship over time. They'll also be debunking those old myths about women and money as well as sharing tips on how to be savvier with our spending.

In this episode, Ribi, Crytal, Keysha along with their friends JP and Rasheeda, talk about Women and sexual freedom in this modern age.

The conversation continues. Rejoin the talking singles Ribi, Crystal, Keysha and their friends as they talk with a lot of pain and passion about their black experiences, what needs to change and what we all can do about it.

Join Ribi, Crystal, Keysha their two friends Rasheeda and JP in the first part of this emotional podcast episode. It wasn't a planned recording, but in light of everything going on, they've all been triggered. They share their pains and passions on Black Lives Matter and More.

In this episode, Ribi, Crystal, Keysha and special guest Rasheda have a very open conversation about sex toys. They share their experiences or lack of experience with toys and Rasheeda gives some very useful tips to keep in mind should you wish to join the bandwagon!

This episode, Ribi, Crystal and Keysha talk about their experiences during the COVID 19 lockdown. They discuss how, as singletons, they have been affected by the lockdown, what they miss the most and what they are doing to keep body, mind & soul healthy and happy. They also reveal the first things they will do once lockdown is over ... it's all very revealing !!

In this episode, Ribi, Crystal and Keysha talk about everything to do with dating, their approach to dating, what they are looking for in a guy. They share what happens when the girl code and dating collide, as well as many more of their dating experiences both online and in the real world.