The Waypoint Pastors’ Wives Podcast

In this episode, Stacy is joined by her husband Kraig, who is the Lead Pastor at New Life Christian Church in Winchester, VA. Kraig and Stacy have four kids and love doing life together. Don't forget to check out our sponsor organization, Waypoint Church Partners, for more info on how you can be a part of their church planting or for some great resources to help your church.

Welcome to Episode 36! I'm hoping you find encouragement in this episode to keep planting seeds and wholeheartedly pursuing God's calling on your life, even when it's hard to see the impact you're having. Don't forget to check out our partner organization, Waypoint Church Partners and our sister podcast, The Waypoint Podcast.

Thanks for listening! Here are the links mentioned in today's episode: www.waypointchurchpartners.com/events www.renew.org If you like what you hear, we'd love for you to rate and review us so more pastor's wives can find us, too!

Welcome back to the Waypoint Pastors' Wives Podcast! It's been a hot minute, but tune in for some life updates, an Easter challenge and a look to what's next! SIDE NOTE: My recording host has made some big changes, so I no longer have access to our intro music--this may be the weirdest, music-less episode ever.

As we continue our series all about PK's, Stacy is joined by mom, Esther Bennett, and her daughter, Sierra. While Sierra was a kid, her parents served in a variety of ministry roles, from church planting to overseas missions. This episode is full of hope for people currently in ministry today, as we hear stories about the Bennett family's time in ministry. Listen in and laugh along with us! Don't forget to check out our sponsor, Waypoint Church Partners! We're so thankful for their work in growing and supporting the Kingdom!

Welcome to Episode One of our PK 101 series. Today, Stacy is joined by her own four kids, talking about what it's like to be a pastor's kid. If you have pastor's kids, we'd love for you to ask them these questions, too!

Join us for the launch of season 3 of the podcast, where Stacy talks about how to navigate being there for people who are in crises without ending up there yourself. Ministry is tough, but arming ourselves for these seasons can help! Resources shared: Waypoint Pastors' Wives Podcast Community Group Renew.org Preston Sprinkle (specific books: Embodied and People to Be Loved. Podcast, Theology in the Raw) Focus on the Family Counselors Database The Best Yes by Lysa Terkeurst Waypoint Church Partners Upcoming Events Pastor's Kid Survey -- for adult pastor's kids and parents of them

In our series finale, Stacy is wrapping up season 2, as well as the "Being the Church" series. In this interview, Carol Sink, a friend and elder's wife, shares how to be the church to people who have lost a child and to those who have lost a family member to suicide. Carol draws from her own personal experiences with these things as she shares.  They are tough, sensitive subjects, but Carol shares a great perspective to hear for those in ministry who may minister to people experiencing these things.   Have a great summer, friends!

Join Stacy and today's guest, Lexi Cook, for a conversation on how to be the church to your community. Lexi will share some of the ways her church is actively helping meet needs in the community and different ideas for things you might be able to implement at your own church. Show Resources: Waypoint Webinar: Creating A Solid Benevolence Plan

Join me for a look at some fun resources, music and things that I love that might help make your life a little more lovely right now. Join the Waypoint Pastors' Wives Podcast Community here: https://www.facebook.com/groups/4701688826532217 My Favorite Things (Right Now) 1) Let's Read the Gospels Bible reading plan & podcast 2) Focus on the Family Christian Counselors Network 3) This is the Hour by Christy Nockels 4) The Glorious In the Mundane podcast 5) Self-compassion 6) How to Thrive as a Pastor's Wife by Christine Hoover 7) Hoopla 8) Mental Health & Ministry Facebook page

In a slightly different take on this "Being the Church" series, Stacy is talking today about how to be there for your husband when he's dealing with difficult pastoral situations. It's never easy to be there for people in some of the worst moments of their lives--so how can we love on our husbands to help them navigate the emotional and physical toll those things can take? Listen in and Happy Easter week!

In Episode 26,  Stacy is joined by Dr. Caroline Gritzinger to discuss her experience with terminal illness and losing a spouse.  They'll dive into more practical ways that the church can be the church during these difficult times.   Caroline's suggested resources: “More than Surviving: Caring for Yourself While You Grieve” By Kelly Osmont “What Can I Say? How to Help Someone Who is Grieving: A Guide” by Kelly Osmont with Marilyn McFarlane “Journeying through Grief” 4 book series by Kenneth C. Haugk “When Your World Falls Apart” By Dr. David Jeremiah “The One Year Book of Hope” By Nancy Guthrie Website: http://paintedprayerbook.com. Writings, poetry, and art by Jan Richardson Website: http://www.griefshare.org “Finding the Good in Grief, Rediscovering Joy after a Life-Changing Loss” by John F. Baggett “Saturday Night Widows, The Adventures of Six Friends Remaking their Lives” by Becky Aikman “Finished Business” by Donald Gallehr “Beautiful Battlefields” by Bo Stern “Widowed” by Joyce Brothers “Widow to Widow” by Genevieve Ginsburg “The Mourning Handbook” by Helen Fitzgerald “I wasn't Ready to Say Goodbye” by Pamela Blair “For Widows Only” by Annie Estlund “Healing After Loss” by Martha W Hickman “Making Sense of Suffering” by Joni Eareckson Tada “Why? Making Sense of God's Will” by Adam Hamilton “Healing Grief”, seventh edition by Amy Hillyard Jensen “If God is My Strength, Why Am I Still Tired? Devotions for Christian Caregivers” by Maggie Hilmer Caroline also referred to Stephen Ministries.  More details and how to access their training and resources can be found here:  https://www.stephenministries.org/

Join Stacy and second-time-guest Jamie Hatfield for a conversation about how we can care for our congregations through hospitality! Stacy and Jamie will share how their churches handle funeral dinners and organizing meals for new moms and others who may need them, as well as other ideas for what biblical hospitality can look like. Come enjoy some laughs about things from Jello salad to contact free delivery--yes, it all fits!

Merry Christmas from The Waypoint Pastors' Wives Podcast and Waypoint Church Partners!

In the "Being the Church" series, we're looking at a variety of life situations that people go through and how the church can best care for the during these times.  In this episode, we're talking about divorce and how the church can love people in some of their darkest days.   If you're looking for a resource to help divorcing/divorced people in your congregation, be sure to check out www.divorcecare.org

Join Stacy for a conversation with fellow pastor's wife, Ashley Gray, about her journey through infertility and adoption. She'll share some tips for how the church (and people in general) can better help people who are walking through these scenarios. She's even sharing some "what not to say" ideas.

In this episode, Stacy gets to chat with Judy Russell, wife of Bob Russell of Southeast Christian Church, to talk about her decades serving as a pastor's wife.  We're also talking about Judy's new book, Elbows on the Table, a sweet book on the art of hospitality.   You can find Judy's book online at most major book stores, including Amazon and Christian Book Distributors.   Order yours today: Elbows on the Table Don't forget to check out all of the upcoming events and resources available through Waypoint Church Partners

Join Stacy for a look at the very real opposition that we have in our lives and how to battle the enemy.

Welcome to Season 2! Join host Stacy Bishop for a look back at the summer and a look forward to the rest of season 2. Waypoint Church Partners sponsors this podcast as a way to help encourage and strengthen the pastors' wives in our region and beyond. Waypoint exists to plan churches, as well as support existing churches. Check out how they can serve you at www.waypointchurchpartners.com

Join Stacy for a conversation with Tina Wilson, a pastor's wife, mom and church planter, about all-in family ministry, raising PK's and more! ******************************** As always, we'd love to have you join our Facebook community for pastor's wives here: https://www.facebook.com/groups/4701688826532217 If you'd like more information about Waypoint Church Partners, our resources or information on church planting, be sure to visit us online: www.waypointchurchpartners.com

Join Stacy and guest Becca Hott for a fun conversation about trends and traditions in churches and how that looks in their current church situation, having just opened a brand new worship space.

Join me for a conversation with Irene Davis, a two-time church planting wife, for a real conversation about their journey through church planting, ministry burnout and how to maintain healthy marriages in ministry.

Thanks for joining us for another episode! For more info about SoulCare:Winchester, visit www.waypointchurchpartners.com/events

Join me for a great conversation with guest Lisa Cole about the importance of finding a mentor, navigating ministry as a parent and the beauty of a growing church. *********** Lisa's favorite podcasts: Theology in the Raw: https://www.prestonsprinkle.com/podcast Love Thy Neighborhood: https://lovethyneighborhood.org/podcast/ The Roys Report: https://julieroys.com/podcast/ Lisa's recommended books: Mama Bear Apologetics: Empowering Your Kids to Challenge Cultural Lies by Hillary Morgan Ferrer Mama Bear Apologetics Guide to Sexuality: Empowering Your Kids to Understand and Live Out God's Design by Hillary Morgan Ferrer Interested in a Fusion Group? Find out more info here: https://waypointchurchpartners.com/fusion-groups You're INVITED!   SoulCare: Winchester is a weekend gathering designed to encourage and refresh individuals and couples serving in ministry. It's a privilege to serve God in vocational ministry, whether volunteer or paid, part-time or full-time.  It's also exhausting to serve God in vocational ministry.  Most of us struggle to protect our schedules, to create boundaries, and to make sure our own souls are cared for.  We may have the best of intentions, but the realities of ministry often don't respect those intentions. But what if you could have time away, even for just a day or two?  What if you could show up to a church gathering that you didn't have to plan?  What if you could be poured into for a time instead of constantly pouring yourself out? Find out more info at the link.  Only $99 per couple, hotel room and food included.   http://newlife-christian.org/soulcarewinchester

Do you believe God has given you the role of pastor's wife for a reason or do you still question what He was thinking? Do you feel the weight of your church, your ministry or your husband's ministry is on your shoulders? Join Stacy for a study of Bezalel (Exodus) and how his interaction with God should encourage you in your role today. ***** Books mentioned: How to Worship A King by Zac Neese Breaking Free from Body Shame by Jess Connolly God So Close by Becky Thompson You Can Still Wear Cute Shoes by Lisa McKay Sacred Privilege by Kay Warren

Join me for a conversation with Alpha Henry, a fellow pastor's wife who has some great words of encouragement for you today. I loved hearing how she has jumped in to serve alongside her husband over the years and how they have worked to remain faithful to God's calling in all the seasons--good and bad. Alpha also mentions the book "Sacred Privilege" by Kay Warren in this episode. If you haven't read it, check it out! **** Register for SoulCare:Winchester at http://newlife-christian.org/soulcarewinchester

Join me for a look inside one of the biggest questions that pastor's wives have--what does the church really expect from me?  You'll hear from a variety of churchgoers on their own perspectives, and I think you'll find it quite encouraging!   Don't forget to check out our sponsor, Waypoint Church Partners! www.waypointchurchpartners.com

Join me for a conversation with Kristy Howard (www.goodpastorswife.com) for a conversation about faithfulness, why it matters and more. I think you'll love Kristy's encouragement and what she's doing for the Kingdom. Beyond her website, you can find Kristy on Facebook or Instagram @goodpastorswife. ********** Join us for SoulCare:Winchester on April 29-30 in Winchester, VA. For more info and to register, visit https://waypointchurchpartners.com/events If you haven't joined The Waypoint Pastors' Wives Podcast Community, hop over and join us on Facebook today! https://www.facebook.com/groups/4701688826532217

Join me for a truly delightful conversation with my friend and fellow pastor's wife, Helen Atzenweiler. Her heart for serving and her love for her role of pastor's wife is an encouraging and beautiful thing to hear! ******************** The Waypoint Art of the Sermon Events are coming in March, featuring speakers Mark Moore, Brett Andrews and Bob Russell. Find one in your area and register today! https://waypointchurchpartners.com/events ******************** Join us for Soul Care: Winchester, a weekend gathering designed to encourage and refresh individuals and couples serving in ministry, in Winchester, VA on April 29th and 30th, 2022. It's a privilege to serve God in vocational ministry, whether volunteer or paid, part-time or full-time. It's also exhausting to serve God in vocational ministry. Most of us struggle to protect our schedules, to create boundaries, and to make sure our own souls are cared for. We may have the best of intentions, but the realities of ministry often don't respect those intentions. But what if you could have time away, even for just a day or two? What if you could show up to a church gathering that you didn't have to plan? What if you could be poured into for a time instead of constantly pouring yourself out? Visit newlife-christian.org/soulcarewinchester for more information and to register!

Join me for a conversation with my husband and pastor, Kraig Bishop.  We're talking church hurt, relationships, and more.  We pray you are encouraged by it! ****** Links: www.waypointchurchpartners.com ****** 

Join me (Stacy) for some laughs, encouragement and advice from real life pastors' wives.  I'm praying it will be the encouragement you need as we head into the busy holiday season! **********  If you haven't joined our new Facebook community, come join us!  We have a giveaway going on for when we hit 100 members in our group--and we're getting close! Visit here: https://www.facebook.com/groups/4701688826532217  As always, if you don't know about our fantastic partner, Waypoint Church Partners, check them out and learn how you can be a part at www.waypointchurchpartners.com

Join me for a real life testimony from my friend, Jennah Krueger, as we wrap up our series on Mental Health & The Pastor's Wife.  Jennah is the wife of the children's pastor at my church and is a beautiful example of what it can look like to go from planning a suicide to God intervening to save a life. I know you'll enjoy hearing this story of redemption and healing.  If you have not listened to episodes 1 and 2 of this series, go back and listen for some really great, practical advice on how to deal with your own mental health issues and how to minister to others who are struggling. ********** If you haven't joined our new Facebook community, come join us!  We have a giveaway going on for when we hit 100 members in our group--and we're getting close! Visit here: https://www.facebook.com/groups/4701688826532217 As always, if you don't know about our fantastic partner, Waypoint Church Partners, check them out and learn how you can be a part at www.waypointchurchpartners.com

Join me for part two of my conversation with Tiffany Markwood, LCSW, on mental health. I believe the tools shared in the episode are an important piece of education for anyone in today's world to be able to recognize and help friends who are struggling. If you're in need of someone to talk to, don't be afraid to reach out to me (Stacy Bishop) at waypointpw@gmail.com. If you'd like to sign up to receive occasional emails of encouragement, reminders of new episodes, and upcoming events, become one of our first subscribers here: http://eepurl.com/hJPPIv To join our brand new community group on Facebook, follow this link to request to be added. I'd love to get to know you there! https://www.facebook.com/groups/4701688826532217/ ************ Crisis Resources mentioned: NowMattersNow.org https://www.crisistextline.org/ or text 741741 to connect with a crisis counselor National Suicide Prevention Hotline: 1-800-273-8255 To help find a therapist that fits your needs, you can visit https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/therapists Now Matters Now: Stop, Drop, and Roll Mental Health Exercise. Watch here: https://vimeo.com/360856983 To find a mental health first aid course near you or online): https://www.mentalhealthfirstaid.org/take-a-course/ ***************************

Tiffany Markwood, LCSW, joins us for episode 4 to share of her experience as a therapist and a pastor's wife, sharing strategies and encouragement for those struggling with mental health issues. If you're not someone who is currently struggling, these are great tips for you to be able to help others who might be. If you'd like to sign up to receive occasional emails of encouragement, reminders of new episodes, and upcoming events, become one of our first subscribers here: http://eepurl.com/hJPPIv To join our brand new community group on Facebook, follow this link to request to be added. I'd love to get to know you there! https://www.facebook.com/groups/4701688826532217/ *************************** Crisis Resources mentioned: NowMattersNow.org https://www.crisistextline.org/ or text 741741 to connect with a crisis counselor National Suicide Prevention Hotline: 1-800-273-8255 To help find a therapist that fits your needs, you can visit https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/therapists If you would like a copy of the gratitude worksheet mentioned in this episode, email waypointpw@gmail.com so it can be forwarded it to you.

Rebecca Hott joins us today for a conversation about being a pastor's wife (of course!), finding your own calling outside of your husband's calling, longevity in youth ministry and a few more fun things! We pray you are blessed! ****************************** Links that were mentioned in this episode: Listen to the Waypoint Podcast that Rebecca co-hosts here: https://thewaypointpodcast.buzzsprout.com/ Find more info about upcoming Waypoint events at https://waypointchurchpartners.com/events For more info about Re:Treat, visit www.leadingandlovingit.com ******************************

This is my prayer for us as pastors' wives.  May you be encouraged!

In today's episode, our guest Jamie Hatfield shares her story as a pastor's wife, juggling life and how her family is working to help refugees in the Roanoke area of Virginia.  It's a great conversation of wisdom and encouragement! In the conversation, Jamie mentions these links if you'd like more info on how to get involved in refugee work: The United Nations High Commissioner for Refugees (UNHCR) https://www.unhcr.org/ Catholic Charities USA https://www.catholiccharitiesusa.org/ **************************************** We also would love for you to check out our partner organization, Waypoint Church Partners.  https://waypointchurchpartners.com/ Find out more info about ICOM at  www.theICOM.org *************************************** Know a pastor's wife who could also use some encouragement? Share this podcast with her today! 

Get a taste of the new Waypoint Pastors' Wives Podcast as we rev up to launch on September 6th, 2021. Subscribe today!