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Remington Rathjen is my friend. Remi experiences gender dysphoria, same sex attraction, and a passion for Jesus Christ. Remi shares his story of church hurt, spiritual abuse, sexual abuse, and many other things that could push a person far away from Jesus, but has only driven Remi closer to our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
¿Estamos ante un despertar espiritual genuino o simplemente un evento masivo más? En este episodio de Christian Podcast Latino, nos sentamos con Samuel Tejada (Sons of Thunder) para profundizar en lo que está ocurriendo con "Hope", el movimiento que ha logrado la hazaña de unir a más de 3,000 iglesias en el sur de California.Samuel nos revela la visión detrás del gran día en el Coliseo de Los Ángeles, donde se espera un bautismo masivo y una manifestación del poder de Dios sin precedentes. Hablamos sobre la urgencia de abandonar la politización del Evangelio, cómo sanar las heridas causadas por la iglesia (Church Hurt) y por qué la Generación Z está liderando una demanda por lo auténtico. Además, conocemos detalles del lineup de adoración que incluye a Chris Tomlin, Miel San Marcos y LeCrae.Este episodio es un llamado a la unidad del cuerpo de Cristo por encima de denominaciones y agendas humanas. ¡Si tienes hambre de ver a Dios moverse en las calles, no te lo puedes perder!Temas destacados en este episodio:El Milagro de la Unidad: 3,000 iglesias trabajando juntas en LA.Evento en el Coliseo: Lo que sucederá el 11 de abril.Basta de Política: Recuperando la pureza del mensaje de Jesús.Generación Z: El despertar de los más jóvenes por lo real.Momento Espontáneo: Samuel interpreta "Creo en Ti" en un emotivo homenaje.¡Dale play y suscríbete para ser parte de esta conversación que está sacudiendo nuestra fe!Conecta con nosotros: Web: cristianpodcast.com Instagram: @ChristianPodcastLatino
How should Christians handle conflict in the church? Why do Jesus and Paul call us to pursue peace and bear with one another? Pastor Adriel Sanchez and Aaron Simon discuss church hurt, respond to influencers addressing religious trauma, and explore how to pursue reconciliation within the church. PARTNER WITH US - https://solamedia.org/partner/?sc=AS2502V When you become a partner today, you'll receive two remarkable books as our thanks: Rediscovering the Holy Spirit by Dr. Michael Horton and Praying with Jesus by Pastor Adriel Sanchez. We believe these books can guide you into a clearer understanding of the Spirit's work and a richer prayer life. FOLLOW US YouTube | Instagram | X/Twitter | Facebook | Newsletter WHO WE ARE Sola is home to White Horse Inn, Core Christianity, Modern Reformation, and Theo Global. Our mission is to serve today's global church by producing resources for reformation grounded in the historic Christian faith. Our vision is to see reformation in hearts, homes, and churches around the world. Learn more: https://solamedia.org/
Pastor Daryl Crouch of Everyone's Wilson helps us look at the many news stories of pastors and ministry leaders who failed or abuse their congregations. How do you find healing? How do you lovely confront and restore the fallen leaders well? Daniel Buttafuoco, author of "Unapologetic," talks about the evidence for the reliability of the Bible and the truth of Jesus. He also addresses some of the underlying feelings people have that holds them back from accepting the evidence for Jesus. The Reconnect with Carmen and all Faith Radio podcasts are made possible by your support. Give now: Click here
In this conversation, I sit down with Kristen LaValley to talk about the complexity of growing up in the church and what happens when faith both forms us and harms us. We talk about spiritual trauma, shame, neurodivergence, fear-based theology, and the moment when the frameworks we were given stop holding. Kristen shares her story of growing up in ministry, leaving church leadership, and slowly rebuilding a faith centered not on performance or fear, but on the love of God. This episode is about healing, asking honest questions, and the long work of moving toward wholeness—trusting that flourishing is possible, even after faith has hurt you.Kristen LaValley is a writer and storyteller whose words offer a refreshing perspective on faith and spirituality and resonate with those who carry tension in their faith. She offers insights that intersect doubt and belief, hope and suffering, beauty and heartache. With a deep love for the Christian faith and a willingness to explore its complexities, Kristen's writing offers nuanced conversations that challenge readers to think deeply and wrestle with important questions. Kristen lives in Massachusetts with her husband, Zach, and their five children.Kristen's Book:Growing Up SavedKristen's Recommendation:Monk and RobotConnect with Joshua: jjohnson@shiftingculturepodcast.comGo to www.shiftingculturepodcast.com to interact and donate. Every donation helps to produce more podcasts for you to enjoy.Follow on Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, Threads, Bluesky or YouTubeConsider Giving to the podcast and to the ministry that my wife and I do around the world. Just click on the support the show link belowGet Your Sidekick Support the show
Hope After Church Hurt | Pastor Kyle Jackson | Week Four by Generations Church
Church Hurt. Unfortunately, it's a common phrase we hear today. If you've been a part of a church, odds are you've experienced it or know someone who has. But what do we do when it happens? How should we respond? Join us as we delve into this sensitive but important topic.
Church Hurt. Unfortunately, it's a common phrase we hear today. If you've been a part of a church, odds are you've experienced it or know someone who has. But what do we do when it happens? How should we respond? Join us as we delve into this sensitive but important topic.
If only they knew. You've been burned by church — gossip, hypocrisy, wounds that make isolation feel way safer than community. Meanwhile, parenting teens feels impossible: anxiety, porn, loneliness, and digital overload threaten to derail their faith. Turns out self-sufficiency sounds empowering but crumbles under real pressure. If you're tempted to quit on people or give up on the long game, Shelby Abbott, author of "Why We're Feeling Lonely and What We Can Do About It," calls you back. He explains why going it alone doesn't work ... and how messy relationships just might be worth it. To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/84/29?v=20251111
If only they knew. You've been burned by church — gossip, hypocrisy, wounds that make isolation feel way safer than community. Meanwhile, parenting teens feels impossible: anxiety, porn, loneliness, and digital overload threaten to derail their faith. Turns out self-sufficiency sounds empowering but crumbles under real pressure. If you're tempted to quit on people or give up on the long game, Shelby Abbott, author of "Why We're Feeling Lonely and What We Can Do About It," calls you back. He explains why going it alone doesn't work ... and how messy relationships just might be worth it. To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/84/29?v=20251111
Have you ever been wounded by people of God, people in the church? Have you experienced church hurt and you're wondering if you should go back? Many people suffer from the place that they were meant to get healing. The people that they should be able to rely on and trust for support turned around and ended up hurting them. If you've ever experienced, experienced hurt from the church, this podcast is for you. Award-winning author, life coach, and empowerment speaker Amy Joob delves into this issue of church hurt, in which wounded people often walk away from the very community meant to offer healing and support, struggling to find hope and trust again. Amy Joob shares her own story of church hurt, and offers practical steps for pursuing healing, forgiveness, and healthy community. We discuss how to process difficult emotions like anger, shame, and betrayal, how to navigate these experiences as a family, and why it's worth seeking out true connection even after deep disappointment. Whether you're currently wrestling with church hurt or supporting someone who is, this conversation offers compassion, encouragement, and resources for taking those first steps toward restoration. Join us as we discover how to move from pain to purpose within the body of Christ. What You'll Discover: Amy Joob shares her family's deeply moving story of walking through grief and betrayal, highlighting the confusion and isolation that often accompany church hurt. Learn practical steps for seeking resolution and finding forgiveness, even when leaders falter in their responsibilities. Real-life advice on how to separate the imperfect actions of people from the true character of Jesus – and why holding onto faith matters. Wisdom for supporting your family through church-related wounds, including why kids and teenagers may respond differently and how to help them process. Guidance on knowing when it's time to look for a new church, and how to step back into community engagement without carrying bitterness forward. Encouragement for anyone facing isolation after leaving a church, with actionable tips on reconnecting and trusting again. Key Takeaways: "Don't quit. Give yourself permission to heal, but don't give up on the body of Christ." "Forgiveness is a process. Say it out loud, pray blessings over those who hurt you, and trust God with your healing." Create stability and routines for your family during difficult times – consistency can be a lifeline. Connect with Amy Joob: Looking for coaching, grief resources, or support? Amy Joob invites you to connect on amyjoob.com or find her on Facebook, Instagram, and LinkedIn. Final Encouragement: If you've been knocked down by church hurt, remember Amy Joob 's favorite line based on scripture: "If you get knocked down, get up again and keep going." Jesus has a place of healing for you – don't let disappointment be the end of your story. Thank you for listening – and for believing with us in hope and healing. We're thrilled to accompany you on this journey of faith, growth, and transformation. As always, we appreciate your support! Please subscribe and share this episode. We can't wait for you to join us for future episodes of Flourish-Meant. To book Tina as a speaker, connect with her life coaching services, and more, visit her website: https://tinayeager.com/ Optimize your mind and body with my new favorite, all-inclusive supplement, Cardio Miracle! I love the energy and focus this health-boosting drink mix provides without toxins, caffeine, or sugar! Get a discount on your purchase with my link: http://www.cardiomiracle.com/tinayeager Use the code TINA10 at checkout. To flourish in all seasons of life with the highest quality nutraceutical health supplements that benefit charitable causes, shop NutraMedix wellness supplements. Be sure to use my link https://www.nutramedix.com/?rfsn=7877557.b6c6785 and add my special code TINA to get 10% off your entire purchase! If you're a writer, subscribe to Inkspirations Online (devotional publication by writers for writers): https://www.inkspirationsonline.com/ Manage stress and anxiety in 10 minutes a day with the course presented by 15 experts, Subdue Stress and Anxiety https://divineencouragement.onlinecoursehost.com/courses Connect with Tina at: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/tyeagerwriting/ Linked In: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tinayeager/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tina.yeager.9/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/TinaYeager Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/tyeagerwrites/ Goodreads: https://www.goodreads.com/author/show/3865622.Tina_Yeager Stock Media provided by Talekeeper_Music / Pond5 https://www.pond5.com/royalty-free-music/item/87553658-inspirational-cinematic-trailer-p5
Hope After Church Hurt | Pastor Aaron White | Week Three by Generations Church
Jen Wilkin, JT English, and Kyle Worley are joined by Courtney Reissig to discuss how to trust the church again after hurt.Questions Covered in This Episode:What was your goal in writing this book?What is your book about?How have you seen the Gospel of John help people process not abandoning the faith after hurt?What encouragement can you offer to people who are unsure whether they can trust the church?Are there people in your ministry coming from church hurt?Where did you experience restoration from looking at Jesus in your own journey?Guest Bio:Courtney Reissig is a writer and bible teacher living in Little Rock, Arkansas. She is the proud mom of four sons, happy wife to Daniel, and author of The Accidental Feminist, Glory in the Ordinary, Teach Me to Feel and Someone to Believe In. Her writing has appeared in the Washington Post, The Gospel Coalition, and Christianity Today (among other publications). When she is not writing or wrangling kids, she enjoys running and a relaxing Friday night. Her family belongs to Immanuel Baptist Church. You can follow her on Twitter or Instagram (@courtneyreissig).Resources Mentioned in this Episode:John 20:3, Hebrews 13:8, John 15, Psalm 1, John 9, Ezekiel 34:2”Someone to Believe In” by Courtney Reissig Follow Us:Twitter | Instagram | Facebook | WebsiteSupport Training the Church and Become a Patron:patreon.com/trainingthechurchYou can now receive your first seminary class for FREE from Midwestern Seminary after completing Lifeway's Deep Discipleship curriculum, featuring JT, Jen and Kyle. Learn more at mbts.edu/deepdiscipleship.To learn more about our sponsors please visit our sponsor page.Editing and support by The Good Podcast Co. Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
What do you do when the people who taught you about Jesus let you down? In a generation that has watched spiritual leaders fall publicly and painfully, trust doesn't come easily. Maybe you've asked, Is everyone in the church a hypocrite? Or maybe you're carrying quiet church hurt and wondering if it's even worth going back. In this episode, we talk honestly about it and turn to Scripture to see what God actually says about flawed leaders, accountability, forgiveness, wisdom, and healing. The Bible reminds us: The church has always been filled with imperfect people (Romans 3:23; Acts 6; Galatians 2). Leaders are held accountable (James 3:1; Ezekiel 34). Forgiveness is hard but healing (Colossians 3:13). Wisdom matters—sometimes you stay, sometimes you leave (James 1). And ultimately, our trust belongs in God, not in human leaders (Psalm 118:8). If you've ever struggled to trust the church again, this conversation is for you. Helpful Resources: Book: Fractured Faith Book: All Your Life Watch the conversation on YouTube here.
Hope After Church Hurt | Pastor Trevor Hindman | Week Two by Generations Church
https://www.uncommen.org/wp-content/uploads/2026/02/Church-Hurt.mp3 Quick Answers Is church hurt real? Yes. It isn't just "feelings"; it is often the result of broken trust, bad teaching, or leadership failure. Should I stay home? While isolation feels safe, the "PJs and YouTube" model cannot replace the community and accountability of the local church. How do I start healing from church hurt? Healing begins by separating the character of God from the failures of men and re-engaging with Scripture for yourself. What if it wasn't "hurt"? Sometimes what we call "hurt" is actually the Holy Spirit convicting us of sin through a difficult message. Is there a "Plan B"? The local church remains God's "Plan A" for the world, despite the fact that it is filled with broken people. The Invisible Scar Man, you've been there. You walk into a lobby, the smell of cheap coffee hits you, and suddenly your chest tightens. You remember the meeting behind closed doors, the legalistic comment made about your family, or the pastor who turned out to be someone completely different behind the scenes. You aren't "weak" for feeling this. You are reacting to a breach of a sacred trust. When we talk about healing from church hurt, we have to start by acknowledging that the pain is legitimate. For many men, the church was supposed to be the one place where they didn't have to keep their guard up. When that environment becomes the source of the wound, the natural instinct is to retreat, bunker down, and vow never to get burned again. But here is the hard truth: staying in the bunker won't heal the wound; it only lets it fester into cynicism. Defining the Damage: Hurt vs. Conviction One of the most important steps in healing from church hurt is identifying exactly what happened. In our current culture, "hurt" has become a catch-all term, but there is a massive difference between being wounded by a person and being convicted by the Truth. The podcast hosts made a vital distinction: if you left a church because the pastor talked about lust, greed, or pride, and it made you "feel some kind of way," that isn't church hurt. That is the Holy Spirit doing His job. Real healing from church hurt involves a gut-check. Are you mad at the messenger because the message was true? Or were you truly mistreated by a "broken, sinful person" in a position of authority? If a leader used their platform to shame you, manipulate you, or offer bad theology in the face of tragedy—like the story of the pastor telling a grieving family their daughter's accident was due to their sin—that is a legitimate wound that requires a process of restoration. The "PJs and YouTube" Trap Since the COVID-19 era, many men have traded the sanctuary for the sofa. It feels safer. You can't get burned by a screen. You can change the channel the moment the teaching gets too close to home. But this "pseudo-soul feeding" is a dangerous substitute for the real thing. Healing from church hurt cannot happen in total isolation. You were designed for the "gathering of the saints". When you stay home, you lose the iron-sharpening-iron accountability that keeps a man sharp. You lose the opportunity to serve and be served. You might feel "fed" by a podcast, but you aren't known by a community. Broken People in a Holy Place We often forget that the church is not a showroom for saints, but a hospital for sinners. Every person in that building, from the guy in the front row to the man behind the pulpit, is a "broken, sinful person" just like you. When we expect perfection from the local church, we set ourselves up for resentment. Healing from church hurt requires us to adjust our expectations. We don't go to church because the people are perfect; we go because the God they serve is. As the podcast mentioned, "Hurt people, hurt people". Recognizing the humanity of those who hurt you doesn't excuse their behavior, but it can be the first step toward the forgiveness that sets you free. The Role of Scripture in Your Recovery If you want to move toward healing from church hurt, you have to stop being "spoon-fed". A major cause of spiritual wounding is a lack of personal biblical literacy. If you don't know the Word for yourself, you are vulnerable to "false teachers" or "misinformed" leaders who spout nonsense as if it were Gospel. You need to "crave the Bible" and study it enough so that if someone quotes it incorrectly, you catch it immediately. When your foundation is built on the actual text of Scripture rather than a personality behind a pulpit, your faith becomes much harder to shake. Healing from church hurt often starts with a man opening his own Bible and saying, "Lord, show me who You really are, regardless of what that last guy said." Five Practical Steps for Healing from Church Hurt 1. Separate God from His "Salesmen" The biggest casualty of church hurt is often our view of God. We assume that because a leader was cruel, God is cruel. Because a church was disorganized, God is chaotic. Healing from church hurt requires you to consciously decouple the Creator from the flawed people who claim to represent Him. 2. Practice "70 x 7" Forgiveness The podcast reminded us that we are called to forgive "seventy times seven". This isn't a suggestion; it's a command for our own survival. Holding onto bitterness is like drinking poison and waiting for the other person to die. Healing from church hurt isn't about saying what happened was "okay"; it's about handing the debt over to God so you don't have to carry the ledger anymore. 3. Seek a "New Model" If the "model" of church you were in featured sarcasm, control, or heresy, it's time to find a healthy community. Not every church is like the one that burned you. Look for a "Church Home" where the leaders invite you to "do your own research" and read along in the Word. 4. Engage in "Breath Prayers" When the anxiety of re-entering a church space hits, use small physical and spiritual shifts. A simple prayer like "Lord, give me peace" can reset your nervous system. These small acts of trust are vital components of healing from church hurt. 5. Stop the "Silent Retreat" Tell a trusted friend what happened. Silence is where shame and bitterness grow. By bringing the hurt into the light, you rob it of its power. A key to healing from church hurt is realizing you aren't the only one who has walked this path. When It's Time to Move On There is a time for reconciliation, and there is a time for relocation. If the teaching in your current environment is "straight up the opposite of what the Lord said," you have an obligation to lead yourself and your family elsewhere. Healing from church hurt sometimes looks like a clean break from a toxic environment so you can find a place where the Gospel is actually preached. However, make sure you are leaving because of "legitimate church hurt" and not just because the truth got uncomfortable. If you find yourself "changing the channel" every time a pastor mentions a sin you're struggling with, the problem isn't the church—it's the heart. The Goal: A Restored Spirit The ultimate goal of healing from church hurt isn't just to get you back into a seat on Sunday. It's to ensure that you don't "turn your back on your faith" because of a human being's failure. Your relationship with Jesus is too valuable to be held "hostage" by the actions of a broken leader. God wants you to have a "settled kind of calm" that isn't based on a perfect church experience, but on His presence. As you navigate the road of healing from church hurt, remember that Jesus Himself was "hurt" by the religious establishment of His day. He knows the sting of betrayal, and He is the only one who can truly bind up those wounds. FAQs on Healing from Church Hurt How do I know if I'm ready to try a new church? If you can talk about your past experience without a flare-up of intense anger, you are making progress. Healing from church hurt is a journey; you don't have to be 100% "fine" to walk through the doors of a healthy church. What if my wife wants to go, but I'm still too hurt? Be honest with her. Don't just "stay home in your PJs" and let her go alone. Take small steps together. Perhaps start with a small group or a mid-week service where the pressure feels lower. Does "healing from church hurt" mean I have to trust the old leaders again? Forgiveness is mandatory; trust is earned. You can forgive someone for hurting you without putting yourself back under their authority. Is online church enough? Online resources are great supplements, but they aren't a replacement for "the gathering of the saints". You need to be in a room where people know your name and your story. A Challenge for the Wounded Man Don't let a bad experience with a "model" of a man or a church define your eternity. The world will try to convince you that the church is obsolete or toxic, but God calls it His Bride. The challenge today is to take one small step toward healing from church hurt. Pick up your Bible. Reach out to a brother. Decide that your faith is worth more than your past pain. If you are going to be something, be uncommon. Check out our other resources in our library. Follow Our Podcast on Apple | Spotify
Too many people are hurt by the church and pastoral abuses. The consequences are real, but the greatest loss is the loss of faith that often follows hurt. In our conversation today, Pastor Jim and I discussed the need for the church to do better and how Christians can both serve the church and guard their faith against its failures. We also hope the conversation can help church leaders better care for those who have experienced hurt. It's an important topic that's too big for one episode, but we hope our conversation can be both helpful and encouraging to those looking for a way forward.
In this episode of After The Message, we dive into church hurt. What is is, what it isn't, how to prevent it and how to move forward from it. 00:00 Intro 2:30 What is church hurt? 11:20 When do you go back to help build a better church? 18:10 How do you deal with unhealthy church leaders? 26:58 How do we trust again after church hurt? 33:53 What does accountability look like for leaders that have caused harm? 45:38 What can I do to help others in this? Be sure to check out our series hub for this series for more resources and to submit your questions that can answer on next weeks episode. https://www.frontrange.org/honest
In this episode of Noisy Narratives, we sit down with licensed counselor Ronda Barney for an honest and compassionate conversation about church hurt and pain. Together, we explore how spiritual wounds impact our faith, relationships, and sense of belonging—and how healing is possible through truth, grace, and healthy community.
The Lord intended the Church to be a place of comfort, peace and healing and the vast majority of Churches are just that. But what happens when you get hurt in the one place that you should be safe? In todays episode we explore some ways to recover from Church Hurt.
Hope After Church Hurt | Pastor Jeremy Isaacs | Week One by Generations Church
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7 Antidotes for “Church Hurt” HURT: Neglect of those in need Acts 6:1-7 (1 Timothy 5:9-10) HURT: Jealousy, Strife, Division 1 Corinthians 3:1-9 & 1 Corinthians 1:10-17 HURT: Toleration of Blatant Sin 1 Corinthians 5:1-8 HURT: Fraud & Lawsuits 1 Corinthians 6:1-11 HURT: Partiality James 2:1-9 HURT: Scoffing, envy, rivalry, backbiting Philippians 1:15-18 Galatians 5:13-15 HURT: Neglecting to worshiping together as a church Hebrews 10:19-25 (Ephesians 2:19-22) Preached by Charles Humphrey on January 25, 2026 (from home during an ice storm)
Kankelfritz & Friends chat about how A.I. can still get itself confused a bit with a cop call report. Also, if you've experienced church hurt, a good word from Mysti if you're praying about going back again.
Have you ever been hurt or abused by someone in the church? Are you still affected by it? Do you think the church should be held responsible? Come on and listen to Dr. Vanessa discuss this topic and share your opinion/experience. Season 4 is our time to HUSH No More!
The crew tackle the difficult task of addressing church hurt. If you have been hurt, above all else, forgive as Christ has forgiven us!If you enjoy the episode, be sure to check us out on Facebook, Youtube and Instagram at TruthRevival37385
Simone Halpin, Kelly Brady, John Vandervelde, and Matt Marron respond to questions from Kelly and John's sermons from Jan 11, 2026
Far too many of us have been hurt by the church and, if we're honest, we may have hurt someone, too. No matter which side of the hurt you're on, Pastor Jerome Gay, Jr., says that Jesus can redeem that pain. If you're stuck in church hurt, don't miss Equipped with Chris Brooks. Learn how you can hold the Church accountable and start the healing process. Featured resource:Church Hurt: Holding the Church Accountable and Helping Hurt People Heal by Jerome Gay, Jr. January thank you gift:Practicing the Way: Be with Jesus. Become Like Him. Do as He Did. by John Mark Comer Equipped with Chris Brooks is made possible through your support. To donate now, click here.
Happy Wednesday! We are so excited for this week's episode! Today, we are sharing one of our co-host story, Ana! Ana has been part of Finding Something Real since the very beginning. Janell and Ana met at a small group when she was a senior in High School in 2019. They've formed a beautiful friendship since then. Ana was born and raised in Chelan, WA. She is currently the Social Media Manager for this Podcast and a co-host this season. She graduated from Northwest University and got her Bachelor's in Business Administration. Ana is one of the founders of Valley Collective - a moment to unify the Churches in the Greater Chelan Valley. She's involved in many other ministries, including this one, using her gift and talents to build His Kingdom. Ana loves the Lord with all her heart. It doesn't mean she hasn't gone through anything hard. Her dad had a stroke her sophomore year in High School. He was handicapped for four years until he passed away at the end of 2021. She shares her story about breaking a generational curse that was associated with to her dad's stroke. She also opens up about her struggle with self-hatred and suicidal thoughts. Ana's relationship with the Lord is so rich and so deep. If you relate to her story or want to ask more questions, please reach out! Message us - we would love to talk with you! We hope you love Ana as much as we do! -- -- -- -- -- LINKS I Have Seen the Goodness of God in My Life You Don't Have to Have All the Answers with Lindsey Medenwaldt Why People Really Don't Believe in Jesus with Xandra Grieme Dealing with Grief and Church Hurt with Jason Schmidt How to Love People in Truth and Love with Drew Berryessa Listen on: Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2MuVWFbZzue3ZLgCtIJGzB Apple Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/finding-something-real-podcast/id1481017856 www.janellmwood.com Follow us on: Instagram: finding_something_real Facebook: Finding Something REAL with Janell Wood Tiktok: @findingsomethingreal Youtube: Finding Something REAL with Janell Wood
01/06/2026 – Steve Cuss –on church hurt and how to recover
It's Christmas Eve! We hope you're enjoying this time with all your loved ones! We have a special treat for you this week. On this episode, we are joined with a returning guest, Lindsey Medenwaldt. We are also joined with three of our co-hosts - Cailee, Ana and Sarah. Lindsey breaks down how to share your faith with others. She gives practical ways we can share our faith, and takes the pressure off feeling you have to know everything. A lot of times, as believers, we may feel like we need to know everything for others to come to Christ. But, really it's Jesus that does the work in them, we just plant the seed. Lindsey is the executive director and resident world religion expert of Mama Bear Apologetics. She holds a Masters in Apologetics & Ethics from Denver Seminary, a Masters in Public Health, and a degree in Law. Recently, Lindsey wrote a chapter about Jehovah's Witnesses in the Popular Handbook of World Religions (Harvest House). Lindsey and her apologist husband have been married for 13 years and currently live with their three beautiful daughters in Texas. In her spare time, Lindsey loves watching British reality television and reading from her at-home library of over 2,000 books. We hope you enjoy this week's episode! Merry Christmas! -- -- -- -- -- LINKS Mama Bear Apologetics Mama Bear Apologetics - The Book Can You Trust the Bible? with Greg Koukl Why People Really Don't Believe in Jesus with Xandra Grieme Is This Even Real? - Katelyn Deal's Story Release What God Has Already Given Us with Jesse Childress Making the Case for Christ with J. Warner Wallace Dealing with Grief and Church Hurt with Jason Schmidt How to Love People in Truth and Love with Drew Berryessa
Welcome to the "Husband's in Christ" PodcastWe break down how we got here and where we went wrong.We laugh We Pray We get real We give our testimonies We be realMatthew 7:13-29Proverbs 22:17Thank you for taking your time to check us out! https://samzsportz-network.printify.mewintercarecosmetics.org popl.co/profile/samzsportz/dash #God #Blessings #Christ #Pray #Brothers #SamzSportz
In Episode 2 of this three-part series, Christy shares her story of spiritual harm, silence, and survival within church systems that protected power over people. She reflects on the personal cost of being unheard, the impact on identity and faith, and the long road toward naming what happened. Christy's testimony deepens the series by centering the lived experience of abuse and the courage it takes to speak after being dismissed.Support the show
In Episode 1 of this three-part series, Joshua shares his story of spiritual harm, silencing, and the cost of telling the truth inside church systems built to protect power. His testimony traces the personal and relational fallout of abuse, the pressure to stay quiet, and the long road toward clarity and agency. This episode centers Joshua's voice and sets the foundation for the series to come.Support the show
Happy Wednesday! This week on Finding Something Real, we are joined with one of our favorite guest, Xandra Grieme. We are also joined with three of our co-host, Ana, Christie and Sarah. In this episode, we talk about the tension of faith and science, and how they go more hand in hand than you think. Xandra opens up about hard parts of her story and brings light to difficult topics - suffering and free will. And why that keeps a lot of people from fully believing in Jesus. How could a good God allow suffering, abuse, and evil? That's one of the hardest questions, and one we won't know the complete answer to on this side of eternity. But you can trust this - He's a God of Compassion. His heart was never for any of these things to happen. He became flesh and came down to be in the suffering with you. That's how much He loves you. Rest in that truth today. About Xandra: Xandra Grieme received a BS from Colorado State University and later studied at the Oxford Centre for Christian Apologetics. Xandra continued her studies at Victoria University of Wellington where she completed a master's degree in Conservation Biology. Her scientific research includes work in parasitology, flow cytometry, and ecological restoration. Xandra is passionate about educating youth on our role as stewards of the natural world. We hope you enjoy this week's episode! - -- -- -- -- LINKS Is This Even Real? - Katelyn Deal's Story Release What God Has Already Given Us with Jesse Childress Making the Case for Christ with J. Warner Wallace Dealing with Grief and Church Hurt with Jason Schmidt How to Love People in Truth and Love with Drew Berryessa The Difference Jesus Makes - Frankie's Story Season 8 - First Episode Listen on: Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2MuVWFbZzue3ZLgCtIJGzB Apple Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/finding-something-real-podcast/id1481017856 Follow us on: Instagram: finding_something_real Facebook: Finding Something REAL with Janell Wood Tiktok: @findingsomethingreal Youtube: Finding Something REAL with Janell Wood
Church hurt is real and it can leave deep emotional, spiritual, and relational wounds. In this episode of the Finding God Podcast, host Keana W. Mitchell explores what church hurt is, why it's so damaging, and how to begin honest conversations with family members who may not understand.You'll learn:What “church hurt” means and how it impacts faith and mental healthWhy family members may dismiss or minimize your painPractical strategies for starting conversations with loved onesRole‑play examples of supportive vs. dismissive responsesBiblical models of honesty and grief (Hannah, David, Jesus)A prayer for peace and journaling prompts to process your emotionsThis episode reminds us that talking about church hurt is not about tearing down faith it's about building a healthier, more authentic relationship with God and with others.
Happy Wednesday! This week on Finding Something Real, we are sharing one of our co-host's story, Katelyn! She doesn't come from a faith background and is still wrestling with the idea of Christianity. She opens up about her experience, questions about faith and some of her hesitations about religion in general. We are so grateful for Katelyn's honesty and vulnerability. She is such a delight. We hope you love her as much as we do! - -- -- -- -- LINKS Release What God Has Already Given Us with Jesse Childress Making the Case for Christ with J. Warner Wallace Dealing with Grief and Church Hurt with Jason Schmidt How to Love People in Truth and Love with Drew Berryessa The Difference Jesus Makes - Frankie's Story Season 8 - First Episode Listen on: Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2MuVWFbZzue3ZLgCtIJGzB Apple Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/finding-something-real-podcast/id1481017856 Follow us on: Instagram: finding_something_real Facebook: Finding Something REAL with Janell Wood Tiktok: @findingsomethingreal Youtube: Finding Something REAL with Janell Wood
Hypocrisy in the Church has quietly destroyed more faith than atheism, suffering, or doubt.In this episode of Behind the Mike Podcast, Mike Stone speaks directly to anyone who has been hurt, betrayed, disappointed, or wounded by Christians, pastors, spiritual leaders, or church culture.If someone's sin shook your faith… maybe your faith was standing on them instead of Christ.
JOHN 11:28-57 - LAZARUS COME FORTH - BRIAN SUMNER - 2025"28 And when she had said these things, she went her way and secretly called Mary her sister, saying, “The Teacher has come and is calling for you.” 29 As soon as she heard that, she arose quickly and came to Him. 30 Now Jesus had not yet come into the town, but was in the place where Martha met Him. 31 Then the Jews who were with her in the house, and comforting her, when they saw that Mary rose up quickly and went out, followed her, saying, “She is going to the tomb to weep there.”32 Then, when Mary came where Jesus was, and saw Him, she fell down at His feet, saying to Him, “Lord, if You had been here, my brother would not have died.”33 Therefore, when Jesus saw her weeping, and the Jews who came with her weeping, He groaned in the spirit and was troubled. 34 And He said, “Where have you laid him?”They said to Him, “Lord, come and see.”35 Jesus wept. 36 Then the Jews said, “See how He loved him!”37 And some of them said, “Could not this Man, who opened the eyes of the blind, also have kept this man from dying?”38 Then Jesus, again groaning in Himself, came to the tomb. It was a cave, and a stone lay against it. 39 Jesus said, “Take away the stone.”Martha, the sister of him who was dead, said to Him, “Lord, by this time there is a stench, for he has been dead four days.”40 Jesus said to her, “Did I not say to you that if you would believe you would see the glory of God?” 41 Then they took away the stone [c]from the place where the dead man was lying. And Jesus lifted up His eyes and said, “Father, I thank You that You have heard Me. 42 And I know that You always hear Me, but because of the people who are standing by I said this, that they may believe that You sent Me.” 43 Now when He had said these things, He cried with a loud voice, “Lazarus, come forth!” 44 And he who had died came out bound hand and foot with graveclothes, and his face was wrapped with a cloth. Jesus said to them, “Loose him, and let him go.”45 Then many of the Jews who had come to Mary, and had seen the things Jesus did, believed in Him. 46 But some of them went away to the Pharisees and told them the things Jesus did. 47 Then the chief priests and the Pharisees gathered a council and said, “What shall we do? For this Man works many signs. 48 If we let Him alone like this, everyone will believe in Him, and the Romans will come and take away both our place and nation.”49 And one of them, Caiaphas, being high priest that year, said to them, “You know nothing at all, 50 nor do you consider that it is expedient for us that one man should die for the people, and not that the whole nation should perish.” 51 Now this he did not say on his own authority; but being high priest that year he prophesied that Jesus would die for the nation, 52 and not for that nation only, but also that He would gather together in one the children of God who were scattered abroad.53 Then, from that day on, they plotted to put Him to death. 54 Therefore Jesus no longer walked openly among the Jews, but went from there into the country near the wilderness, to a city called Ephraim, and there remained with His disciples.55 And the Passover of the Jews was near, and many went from the country up to Jerusalem before the Passover, to purify themselves. 56 Then they sought Jesus, and spoke among themselves as they stood in the temple, “What do you think—that He will not come to the feast?” 57 Now both the chief priests and the Pharisees had given a command, that if anyone knew where He was, he should report it, that they might seize Him.”To support this channel and partner with Brian in Ministryhttps://www.briansumner.net/support/For more on Brianhttp://www.brSupport the showSUPPORT THE SHOW
Happy Thanksgiving! We hope you're enjoying this time with loved ones. This week on Finding Something Real, we are joined with Jesse Childress and one of our co-host, Sarah. Jesse and Sarah talk about the tension of not having the all the answers while also being called to release what we do know and let others know how God has worked in our lives. Jesse Childress has an MA in Cultural Apologetics from Houston Christian University and is currently a student at Denver Seminary studying counseling, focusing particularly on the relationship between trauma and faith. He spent a term studying at Francis Schaeffer's L'Abri Fellowship in Switzerland and has a deep appreciation for good food, philosophy, theology, and literature. He has written for Summit Ministries, the Anselm Society, Conciliar Post, and An Unexpected Journal. We hope you enjoy this week's episode! - -- -- -- -- LINKS Making the Case for Christ with J. Warner Wallace Dealing with Grief and Church Hurt with Jason Schmidt How to Love People in Truth and Love with Drew Berryessa The Difference Jesus Makes - Frankie's Story Season 8 - First Episode Listen on: Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2MuVWFbZzue3ZLgCtIJGzB Apple Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/finding-something-real-podcast/id1481017856 Follow us on: Instagram: finding_something_real Facebook: Finding Something REAL with Janell Wood Tiktok: @findingsomethingreal Youtube: Finding Something REAL with Janell Wood
What happens when the place that's supposed to feel safe becomes the source of your deepest wounds? In this healing-focused episode of "You, Me, and Jesus," Keenya addresses the real trauma that can happen in church settings and shares her own experience of being hurt by people she trusted spiritually.Discover the difference between church hurt and God hurt as Keenya unpacks her journey of healing from religious trauma while maintaining her faith. Learn practical steps for processing church wounds and how to separate God's character from the harmful actions of His followers.In our "What Would Jesus Actually Do?" segment, we explore how Jesus might respond to someone deeply wounded by church leadership—offering healing and validation while distinguishing His heart from the actions of imperfect institutions.Whether you're currently healing from church hurt, struggling to trust spiritual leaders again, or wondering if you can have faith without organized religion, this episode offers compassionate guidance for your healing journey.If you felt empowered by this episode, take a screenshot for your stories and tag Keenya on Instagram @keenyakelly. I would be honored to hear your takeaways and re-post your share!Important Links from the show:Understanding your spiritual gifts is definitely one of the foundational things that every single Christian needs to know.If you'd like a quick and free spiritual quiz assessment to understand why and how God gifted you what you have in life click here https://keenyakelly.com/ministry/!Subscribe to our new YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@youmeandjesus Connect with Keenya on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/keenyakelly/ Connect with Keenya on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@keenyakelly Connect with Keenya on Twitter: https://twitter.com/keenyakelly For more information on courses and resources: https://keenyakelly.com/Are you building a business and you want to know what God is saying to you about your business?Looking for strategy on what to do next with your business or market your business in a way that's Christ focused?Click the following link to book a creative consulting session to get a strategy together for your business that is faith focused: https://keenyakelly.com/creativeconsulting/
On this episode of Finding Something Real, we are joined with homicide detective, J. Warner Wallace. He has become a dear friend to the podcast and has great insight on making the case for Christ. We are also joined with our co-host, Sarah. Sarah shares her genuine questions about faith. Even though she is Christian, she still deals with doubt. Questions that she feel we will never fully know the answers to. J. Warner Wallace asks compelling questions to reframe our perspective on addressing doubt and hard theological questions. J. Warner Wallace is a Dateline featured cold-case homicide detective, popular national speaker and best-selling author. He continues to consult on cold-case investigations while serving as a Senior Fellow at the Colson Center for Christian Worldview. He is also an adjunct professor of apologetics at Talbot School of Theology (Biola University), Gateway Seminary, and Southern Evangelical Seminary, and a faculty member at Summit Ministries. J. Warner became a Christ-follower at the age of thirty-five after investigating the claims of the New Testament gospels using his skill set as a detective. He eventually earned a Master's Degree in Theological Studies from Gateway Seminary. We hope you enjoy this week's episode! - -- -- -- -- LINKS Dealing with Grief and Church Hurt with Jason Schmidt How to Love People in Truth and Love with Drew Berryessa The Difference Jesus Makes - Frankie's Story Season 8 - First Episode Listen on: Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2MuVWFbZzue3ZLgCtIJGzB Apple Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/finding-something-real-podcast/id1481017856 Follow us on: Instagram: finding_something_real Facebook: Finding Something REAL with Janell Wood Tiktok: @findingsomethingreal Youtube: Finding Something REAL with Janell Wood
David and Thomas discuss the topic of church hurt. They discuss the times they’ve been hurt in church as members, ministers, and men.
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Send us a textStart the New Year strong and grow a healthy, thriving youth ministry...if you'd like to work with us, check out GrowYourYouthMinistry.com *** The unfortunate truth is that "church hurt" is a real thing and it's only a matter of time until you have a student in your youth ministry or a parent of a student who is dealing with it. So how, as a youth pastor, should you react and handle those dealing with church hurt? In this episode, we open up about how church hurt happens, what it looks like across a wide spectrum, and how youth pastors and student ministry leaders can respond with empathy, patience, and integrity that rebuilds trust and relationships.If you're a youth pastor, youth leader, or youth ministry volunteer looking for a steady path through delicate seasons, this conversation offers tools to listen well, move slowly, and lead with the kind of consistency that heals.
On this episode of Finding Something Real, we are joined with a returning guest, Jason Schmidt. Jason's parents were Janell's Youth Pastor's. They had a tremendous impact on her life and now has the privilege of sharing that with their son, Jason. We are also joined with one of our co-host, Ana. Jason is a High School and Young Adult Pastor in Albuquerque, New Mexico. He is currently in seminary, coaches boys soccer, and loves investing in this next generation. In this conversation we unravel grief. Both and Ana and Jason lost their dad at an early age. Ana asks questions about how Jason handle his grief, if he felt any pressure to step into ministry because of his dad, and some disappointments they experience in the church. We hope you enjoy this week's conversation! - -- -- -- -- LINKS Can Doubt and Faith Coexist with Jason Schmidt How to Love People in Truth and Love with Drew Berryessa The Difference Jesus Makes - Frankie's Story Season 8 - First Episode Listen on: Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2MuVWFbZzue3ZLgCtIJGzB Apple Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/finding-something-real-podcast/id1481017856 Follow us on: Instagram: finding_something_real Facebook: Finding Something REAL with Janell Wood Tiktok: @findingsomethingreal Youtube: Finding Something REAL with Janell Wood
We want to hear from you! Submit your Thanksgiving Prayer or a short note of thanks! Your submissions could be featured on Your Daily Prayer as we lead up to Thanksgiving Day. Thank you again for your continued support—we can’t wait to hear from you! https://tinyurl.com/322k4xau God never intended for us to do life alone. As our daily prayer and reflection remind us, from the beginning of creation, He designed us for community — with Him and with one another. Yet, for many believers, being part of a church family isn’t always easy. Differences in opinion, leadership conflicts, or even personal wounds can cause deep pain within the very place meant to nurture our faith. In this compassionate reflection, Laura Bailey reminds us that while church hurt is real and painful, Christian community is still God’s plan for His people. Just as Adam was not meant to be alone, neither are we. Throughout Scripture, we see how God uses relationships — even messy ones — to shape us, refine us, and reveal His grace. From the early church in Acts to the disciples who followed Jesus, believers have always grown stronger in community. Though it can be hard to stay when relationships feel strained, the call of Christ is not to walk away but to lean in — to forgive, to reconcile, and to remain united under His love. Today's Bible Reading:“The Lord God said, ‘It is not good for the man to be alone. I will make a helper suitable for him.’” – Genesis 2:18, NIV
todays episode is a little different and special, i have my handsome kind guest, alan, slaying the kitchen for me!! while he makes me spam fried rice, he talks about his life long journey of mental health, being hurt by the church, how he met his lovely husband, and going viral on tiktok for being himself!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
If you've ever been hurt by broken people in the Church - this episode is for you.Jennie opens a raw and honest conversation about church hurt and what it means to still believe in the beauty of God's design for the body of Christ. From her own story of planting a church to worshiping in mud-floored sanctuaries across the world, Jennie reminds us that while the church is messy and imperfect, it's still God's plan for our healing, growth, and belonging.Resources & Links:Listen to more episodes: Apple Podcasts | Spotify | YouTubeLearn More About JennieFollow Jennie on social:InstagramFacebookJennie's new book is available for pre-order NOW! Grab a copy HERE!