Podcasts about church hurt

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When hurt comes from within the body of Christ, it can harden our hearts and distance us from God's people.  In part two of their message on Church Hurt, Pastors Andrew and Christina uncover how to handle church hurt in a way that brings health rather than bitterness. We'll learn how to develop thick skin while keeping a soft heart, extend grace that we ourselves need, refuse to let a wound turn into a wall, and choose a helpful narrative that points us back to Christ.  Pain in the church doesn't have to define us; it can shape us into people of maturity, mercy, and resilience when we let God lead the healing process.

Catalyst Church NWA Pastor Nate Sweeney (Lead Pastor)

We’ve all heard the phrase: “Hurt people hurt people.” But what if church hurt doesn’t have to define you—or destroy your faith? In this powerful message, Pastor JC Worley unpacks how unresolved pain often spills over into relationships, breeding more hurt. Looking at biblical truth and real-life experiences, he reminds us that while people may wound us, God offers a path to healing, forgiveness, and restoration. This isn’t about minimizing pain. It’s about breaking the cycle of hurt and allowing Jesus to transform our response.

We’ve all heard the phrase: “Hurt people hurt people.” But what if church hurt doesn’t have to define you—or destroy your faith? In this powerful message, Pastor JC Worley unpacks how unresolved pain often spills over into relationships, breeding more hurt. Looking at biblical truth and real-life experiences, he reminds us that while people may wound us, God offers a path to healing, forgiveness, and restoration. This isn’t about minimizing pain. It’s about breaking the cycle of hurt and allowing Jesus to transform our response.

Can you be a Christian without the church? In this timely episode, Dr. Carmen Imes argues forcefully—and pastorally—that Christianity without community is a contradiction. Drawing from her new book Becoming God's Family, she and Dru Johnson explore why so many people are walking away from church and what it would take to draw them back. From church hurt to spiritual abuse to toxic celebrity culture, Carmen doesn't shy away from the reasons people leave. But she also offers theological and pastoral wisdom on why we can't give up on the church. They explore biblical stories of failed community, why Hagar's story matters, and what healthy faithfulness looks like in a flawed body. They also discuss when it's time to leave a church, how American and global cultures can distort biblical community, and why true belonging means discomfort, difference, and even lament. Drawing on stories from her life and ministry, Carmen makes the case that church isn't about getting what we want—it's about becoming who we're meant to be. For Carmen Imes' substack: https://substack.com/@carmenjoyimes We are listener supported. Give to the cause here: https://hebraicthought.org/give For more resources: https://thebiblicalmind.org/ Social Links: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/HebraicThought Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hebraicthought Threads: https://www.threads.net/hebraicthought X: https://www.twitter.com/HebraicThought Bluesky: https://bsky.app/profile/hebraicthought.org Chapters: 00:00 The Importance of Community in Faith 01:37 Addressing Church Disconnection Post-Pandemic 04:22 The Role of Scripture in Community Dynamics 07:17 Navigating Church Hurt and Abuse 10:36 Finding Hope in Faithful Communities 13:46 The Broader Picture of Church Life 16:38 Understanding God's Family Beyond the Church 18:39 The Power of Community and Discipleship 20:03 Cultural Blind Spots and Family Loyalty 21:42 The Radical Nature of Church Family 25:24 The Ananias and Sapphira Lesson 27:59 The Role of Green Rooms in Church 31:10 Lamenting Together as a Family 32:45 The Messiness of Community 35:34 The Quest for Like-Mindedness 37:32 Diversity in Church and Community 41:58 Creative Solutions for Multicultural Worship  

Have you ever felt overlooked? In today's episode, host Tina Yeager sits down with Mary DeMuth—literary agent, prolific author, and podcaster—to talk about the universal experience of feeling overlooked and misunderstood. Drawing from her latest book, The Most Overlooked Women of the Bible, Mary shares her own story of walking through pain and isolation, particularly within church communities, and offers honest insight on coping with being unseen and undervalued. Together, Tina and Mary explore the emotional weight of being overlooked, the challenge of rebuilding trust after betrayal, and how to process those feelings through both faith and safe community. Mary reminds us of our inherent worth as individuals created in God's image and encourages listeners to seek healing—not in isolation, but with trusted people who can walk through the journey with us. Stay tuned for encouragement, practical steps toward healing, and a much-needed reminder that you are not alone. If you've ever struggled to feel seen, this episode is especially for you. Highlights from this episode include: You're Not Alone: Mary and Tina talk about how common it is to feel isolated or insignificant, especially when comparing our lives to the “highlight reels” of others on social media. Honest Community: Healing often starts by sharing openly with safe, trustworthy people. Mary offered practical advice on how to recognize supportive relationships and protect your own heart. Faith & Worth: The foundation of our worth doesn't come from others, but from being created in God's image. Mary reflected on the importance of lamenting our pain, processing it with God and community, and slowly rebuilding trust. Steps Toward Healing: Acknowledge your pain, talk to a safe person, and don't shy away from grieving. Real, healthy community is a vital part of true healing. Mary's wisdom is a timely reminder—if you're feeling overlooked right now, you aren't “the only one.” There's hope and community waiting for you, just as you are. Want to dive deeper? Check out Mary DeMuth's daily Pray Every Day podcast, visit her website at marydemuth.com for helpful resources, and explore her books for more encouragement and tools.   We're thrilled to accompany you on this journey of faith, growth, and transformation. As always, we appreciate your support! Please subscribe and share this episode. We can't wait for you to join us for future episodes of Flourish-Meant. To book Tina as a speaker, connect with her life coaching services, and more, visit her website: https://tinayeager.com/ Optimize your mind and body with my new favorite, all-inclusive supplement, Cardio Miracle! I love the energy and focus this health-boosting drink mix provides without toxins, caffeine, or sugar! Get a discount on your purchase with my link: http://www.cardiomiracle.com/tinayeager Use the code TINA10 at checkout. To flourish in all seasons of life with the highest quality nutraceutical health supplements that benefit charitable causes, shop NutraMedix wellness supplements. Be sure to use my link  https://www.nutramedix.com/?rfsn=7877557.b6c6785 and add my special code TINA to get 10% off your entire purchase! If you're a writer, subscribe to Inkspirations Online (devotional publication by writers for writers): https://www.inkspirationsonline.com/ Manage stress and anxiety in 10 minutes a day with the course presented by 15 experts, Subdue Stress and Anxiety https://divineencouragement.onlinecoursehost.com/courses Connect with Tina at: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/tyeagerwriting/ Linked In: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tinayeager/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tina.yeager.9/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/TinaYeager Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/tyeagerwrites/ Goodreads: https://www.goodreads.com/author/show/3865622.Tina_Yeager

The First sermon in our series: "It Takes a Village Church"Scripture: Romans 16Dr. Nick FloydSenior Pastor

Today we honor the journey of Mary B. Safrit, a writer, podcaster, and content creator, to explore her story of growing up in the Bible Belt, navigating faith, queerness, and deconstruction. Mary B. shares candid reflections on her upbringing, spiritual journey, and the challenges and growth that come with embracing her identity and leaving behind people-pleasing tendencies. Together, MaryB & Leslie discuss the complexities of church culture, relationships, and finding authentic community.Topics of Interest:Childhood memories growing up on a farm and in the SouthNavigating multiple church traditions (Methodist, Episcopalian, Catholic school, Southern Baptist)Experiences with evangelicalism, purity culture, and people-pleasingComing out as queer and the impact on faith and relationshipsThe challenges of deconstruction and leaving church communitiesThe importance of authentic friendships and making peace with lossBuilding community, healthy relationships, and embracing personal agencyMary B.'s work as a podcaster and writer, and where to find her onlineCheck out MaryB's podcast, Found Family HERE.Find out more about MaryB on her WEBSITE. Honoring the Journey is hosted, produced and edited by Leslie Nease and the artwork for the show is also created by Leslie Nease.Want to get updates/announcements and a FREE Deconstruction Journaling Prompt PDF? Sign up for Leslie's Monthly Newsletter! You can do that HERE.Pick up Leslie's new book, Honoring the Journey: The Deconstruction of Sister Christian here.Interested in working with Leslie as your Life/Faith Transitions Coach? Check out her website and learn more about what she offers! https://www.leslieneasecoaching.comIf you'd like to be a part of the Honoring the Journey Team as a Patreon Supporter, please check it out at this link!Would you like to leave a voicemail for Leslie? Click here!If you are looking for community as you deconstruct or just a place to go and enjoy the company of people who are seekers, learners and who are looking to connect with the Divine without religious baggage, please join the Private Facebook Community! Leslie is very passionate about connection and community, so if that sounds like you, please come join us!

“Church Hurt” is real, but it doesn't have to define your faith or your future.  In this message, Pastors Andrew and Christina Gard walk us through the process of naming and facing those wounds honestly, asking whether it was truly “church hurt” or simply the challenges of being part of a flawed, human family. We'll uncover the importance of taking personal responsibility, doing our part to pursue reconciliation and growth, and recognizing that while the church will never be perfect, it can be as healthy as we allow it to be. This is not just about surviving hurt but discovering the hope and healing God intends within His body.

Catalyst Church NWA Pastor Nate Sweeney (Lead Pastor)

One of the most common reasons people give for leaving or avoiding the church is simple: “It’s full of hypocrites.” In this honest and challenging message, Pastor JC Worley confronts the reality of hypocrisy in the church and its devastating impact. Drawing from the story of Ananias and Sapphira in Acts 5, he shows how hypocrisy destroys trust, damages the witness of the church, and even separates us from God. But the good news is that what hypocrisy breaks, God’s truth and grace can heal.

One of the most common reasons people give for leaving or avoiding the church is simple: “It’s full of hypocrites.” In this honest and challenging message, Pastor JC Worley confronts the reality of hypocrisy in the church and its devastating impact. Drawing from the story of Ananias and Sapphira in Acts 5, he shows how hypocrisy destroys trust, damages the witness of the church, and even separates us from God. But the good news is that what hypocrisy breaks, God’s truth and grace can heal.

Church hurt is one of the deepest wounds a believer can experience—and often, it's carried in silence. In this episode, Shanda sits down with author and speaker Teasi Canon to talk about her personal journey of healing from church hurt and how God restored her faith in the midst of it. Together, they unpack why church hurt is so common, how to process pain in a healthy way without deconstructing your faith, and what to do when you've been wounded by leadership or a church community. Teasi shares practical wisdom on discerning when to stay or leave a church, separating the failures of people from the truth of God, and taking the first step toward healing. If you've ever wondered whether you can love Jesus while struggling to trust His church, this conversation will meet you with hope, honesty, and biblical clarity. Teasi's Website: https://www.teasicannon.com Find Shanda www.shandafulbright.com Instagram & Facebook: @shandafulbright Email: hello@shandafulbright.com Free Resources: https://shandafulbright.com/links YouTube: http://bit.ly/ShandaYT2021 Store: www.Shandafulbright.com/shop  

Send us a textIn this inspiring episode of Living the Dream with Curveball, we are joined by Danielle Bernock, an author, coach, and speaker who founded Four F Media to promote love and healing through various forms of media. Danielle shares her transformative journey from overcoming childhood trauma to empowering others through her writing and coaching. She discusses her first book, "Emerging with Wings," and the significance of her four pillars: faith, family, friends, and freedom. As we delve into the complexities of trauma, Danielle explains the difference between childhood and adult trauma, the impact of church hurt, and the importance of validating personal trauma for healing. With her heartfelt approach, Danielle emphasizes that everyone deserves love and encourages listeners to embrace their value. Tune in to discover how Danielle's insights and resources can help you on your healing journey and remind you that you are loved and matter.www.daniellebernock.com

Healing from trauma is a long and involved process — and it's not just Satanic ritual abuse that can cause deep wounds. Things like everyday rejections or difficulties can build up and create trauma effects too. Those minor wounds add up and, if not healed or addressed through the love of Christ, can become footholds for the Enemy in your soul.In this episode of the Revelations Podcast, host Reagan Kramer sits down for part two of an eye-opening conversation with Michelle Young and her daughter Samantha Miley. Together, they dive deep into the topic of triggers and trauma—ranging from the extreme cases of Satanic ritual abuse (SRA) to the more everyday emotional triggers in marriage and relationships that many people experience. This discussion is essential because it sheds light on the often misunderstood connection between deliverance and emotional trauma, offering listeners a path to deeper healing through the power of Christ.This episode is for all who suffer — whether from the grievous wounds of demonic influence and Satanic ritual abuse, or from the sufferings of daily trials. This is a call that goes out to the lost, the broken, and the hurt: God loves you and will heal you.Here are three reasons why you should listen to this episode:Gain a deeper understanding of how trauma can fragment your soul and how God's love and healing can restore those broken pieces.Understand the spiritual principles behind emotional triggers and the importance of surrender, repentance, and holiness in overcoming deep-seated wounds.Learn practical steps to invite Yeshua into your healing journey, allowing Him to transform your pain and bring true freedom.Become Part of Our Mission! Support The Revelations Podcast:Your support fuels our mission to share transformative messages of hope and faith. Click here to learn how you can contribute and be part of this growing community!ResourcesMore from the Revelations Podcast hosted by Reagan Kramer: Website | Instagram | Apple Podcast | YoutubeRevelations Gateway Academy Michelle Young - LinkedIn | YouTube | Ministry WebsiteSamantha Miley - Instagram | WebsiteBible Verses:Psalm 51Isaiah 61:1-3Luke 4:18-20This Episode is brought to you by Advanced Medicine AlternativesGet back to the active life you love through natural & regenerative musculoskeletal healing: https://www.georgekramermd.com/Episode Highlights[0:52] The Deep Trauma of Satanic Ritual Abuse SurvivorsSatanic ritual abuse inflicts deep trauma on those who survive it, necessitating profound healing of the soul.Many Christians don't recognize the severity of the issues of SRA.Various levels of trauma exist, from major events like earthquakes to everyday experiences that can cause emotional pain.[04:28] Daily Life and Brokenheartedness[04:28] Reagan: “It doesn't have to be SRA, it can be just something that happened to you in kindergarten, right? Or that somebody said something mean to you and you didn't think you were good enough — or an earthquake.”You can experience brokenheartedness in your everyday life too, like going to bed angry. This gives the Enemy a foothold in your heart.Samantha shares a personal story about her daughter's sensitivity and how it gave the Enemy an opening.Addressing these issues is important early on to prevent long-term damage in children.However, not all trauma is extreme, and even small, unresolved issues can build up over time and cause significant emotional pain.[09:43] The Role of the Church in Healing Satanic Ritual AbuseThe church is important in providing healing and deliverance especially when many people feel rejected or unheard in church settings.Many Christians struggle with the idea of being affected by demons despite being saved from Satanic ritual abuse — although salvation came unto them, they have yet to heal.In the same vein, there's a critical difference between the regeneration of the spirit and the healing of the soul.Christians need to understand that healing is not a one-time event. It's a process.[15:36] Practical Steps for Healing and Surrender to ChristAs Christians, we must remember the power that comes from surrendering to Christ and immersing ourselves in prayer and the Word.Being prayerful and seeking guidance from the Holy Spirit are some of the most powerful tools for us to receive true healing.[18:25] Samantha: “You can't just expect the Spirit to just fall on, the Holy Spirit to just do everything. You have got to take initiative and surrender to the Lord.”Healing doesn't come from nothing — it's hard work. It requires us to take the initiative to heal ourselves as well.We need a genuine desire for Jesus and the willingness to do the difficult work that goes into healing your soul.[20:27] The Importance of Identity and Whose We AreIt is important to recognize your identity in Christ and understand who we belong to.David, despite his sins, was remembered for being a man after God's own heart because of his desire for the Lord.There is a need for discipleship and understanding the word to grasp one's identity in Christ.[29:43] Michelle: “I want you to know that when someone finally recognizes who they are and whose they are, this is one of the key things. Even while Daniel was in Babylon, Daniel never forgot who he was.”As Christians, it's our God-given obligation to love others and bear witness to the love of Jesus.[30:38] The Role of the Holy Spirit in HealingMichelle discusses the role of the Holy Spirit in healing and the importance of being open to His guidance.One story to remember in the Bible is that of the woman at the well, who, due to her faith, was transformed and healed by the love of Jesus.There's a need for genuine love and support from the Church to help others heal.Receiving healing lets a person help others in turn.The Church becomes the bridge between brokenness and healing.[36:28] Holiness and RepentanceThe role of the church in addressing triggers lies in providing healing for those who are struggling.The soul needs to walk in the power and authority of God and Christ — something a person's Church must understand.Healing requires holiness and repentance; part of a true desire for God comes from overcoming and repenting our sins.Healing comes from a place of genuine love and support, especially from the Church.Overcoming the deep wounds of Satanic ritual abuse requires addressing the root causes behind a person's emotional pain and trauma.[51:28] Closing Prayer and EncouragementThrough God's guidance and protection, we can overcome all adversity, even that which comes from the Enemy.May you remember to be a part of the remnant Church.Keep true to God's commandments and love.About MichelleMichelle Young is a devoted servant of God, with over 30 years of experience in discipling and counseling those seeking spiritual healing and freedom. As a passionate teacher and pastoral counselor, Michelle specializes in guiding individuals through the healing of emotional wounds and breaking spiritual bondage through the power of Christ.Michelle holds a degree in psychology from Liberty University and continues her studies at Revelation Gateway Academy, focusing on ministering to survivors of satanic ritual abuse. She is also a dedicated wife, mother, and grandmother, committed to seeing God's people walk in the freedom for which Christ died.Connect with Michelle through her ministry work and LinkedIn.About SamanthaSamantha Miley is a devoted Christian, wife, and mother of five. She is married to her college sweetheart, Ralph, and their family journey reflects their deep faith and commitment to God. They chose to trust God's timing for their children, welcoming five children, including a set of twins after experiencing a miscarriage. Sam is passionate about raising her children to be "Kingdom warriors" and maintaining a marriage that honors God. She also runs a seed company, FaMiley Seeds, reflecting her family's love for nature and faith. Connect with Samantha through Instagram or her website.Enjoyed this Episode?If you did, subscribe and share it with your friends!Post a review and share it! If you enjoyed tuning in about generational curses and how to break them, leave us a review. You can also share this with your friends and family. Healing comes from a profound and devout love and desire for God. No matter your trial, whether it's Satanic ritual abuse or other deep traumas, you can heal through the love of God.Have any questions? You can connect with me on Instagram.Thank you for tuning in! For more updates, tune in on Apple Podcasts.

In this episode, Danny dives into the topic of church hurt. Why does it happen? Who's to blame? And is it a two-way street? This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit dannyburnham.substack.com

Catalyst Church NWA Pastor Nate Sweeney (Lead Pastor)

Church hurt is real—but it doesn’t have to define you. In this compassionate and challenging message, Pastor JC Worley tackles the reality of pain caused by people within the church. Using the story of Hannah in 1 Samuel 1, he shows that even when leaders miss it, or fellow believers wound us, God offers healing and hope. This isn’t about pretending the hurt never happened—it’s about facing it, refusing to let it shape your view of God, and choosing to stay and heal instead of walking away.

Church hurt is real—but it doesn’t have to define you. In this compassionate and challenging message, Pastor JC Worley tackles the reality of pain caused by people within the church. Using the story of Hannah in 1 Samuel 1, he shows that even when leaders miss it, or fellow believers wound us, God offers healing and hope. This isn’t about pretending the hurt never happened—it’s about facing it, refusing to let it shape your view of God, and choosing to stay and heal instead of walking away.

Faith ReframedCultural Christianity vs. Christ-Centered Faith: Where the Divide BeginsToday we're diving into a conversation that needs to happen:Cultural Christianity versus Intentional, Christ-centered living.And what happens when that difference begins to shape how we, as Christians, respond to real-world issues like feminism, church hurt, and patriarchy.What is Cultural Christianity?So let's start with definitions. Cultural Christianity is less about Jesus and more about identity.It's Christianity as a label — a default setting — rather than a lived-out, surrendered faith.You see it when someone says they're Christian because:They grew up in a “Christian home.”They go to church on Easter and Christmas.Or… they equate Christianity with being a “good person” or “moral citizen.”But here's the thing — Jesus never invited people to identify with Him in name only. He called them to follow Him. Daily. Sacrificially. Personally.In contrast, Intentional Christianity is about that personal, ongoing commitment to Jesus — loving Him with your heart, soul, mind, and strength. It's not performative. It's not inherited. It's not political.It's relational. It's transformational.How Cultural Christianity Distorts Social EngagementSo why does this matter?Because Cultural Christianity distorts how we engage with the world — and often leaves deep wounds in its wake.Let's talk about feminism, for example.Feminism and the ChurchCultural Christianity often adopts traditionalism in the name of "biblical values" without really engaging Scripture holistically.That's where you get ideas like:“Women should stay silent.”“Leadership is for men only.”Or worse — a tolerance for abuse under the guise of submission.That's not gospel. That's patriarchy dressed in Christian language.Intentional Christianity — rooted in the life of Jesus — looks radically different. Jesus:Defended women in public.Gave them dignity, voice, and value in a culture that silenced them.Made women the first witnesses to the resurrection.Feminism, at its core, is about equality, dignity, and agency — things Jesus modeled long before the word “feminism” existed.Church Hurt and the Real Impact of Inauthentic FaithAnother area impacted by this divide is church hurt.And let's be honest — many people have walked away from the Church not because of Jesus……but because of Christians who never truly followed Him.Cultural Christianity can build toxic systems — ones that prioritize image, power, and control over repentance, healing, and community.That's where you see:Abuse swept under the rug.Performative spirituality.Gatekeeping instead of grace.Intentional Christianity, on the other hand, calls us to accountability. It confesses sin. It listens when someone says, “I was hurt.” It doesn't shame victims; it seeks justice.The Patriarchy ProblemLet's zoom in on patriarchy for a moment.Cultural Christianity often defaults to patriarchal systems, not because Scripture demands it, but because culture — historically and socially — has normalized it.And when you're more invested in preserving a system than reflecting Christ, you end up defending oppression as “God's design.”But here's what Intentional Christianity does:It asks, “What did Jesus model?”It values servant leadership, not dominance.It honors mutual submission, not hierarchy-for-control.It doesn't just ask, “Is this biblical?”It also asks, “Is this Christlike?”And that distinction matters.The Call to Authentic DiscipleshipSo what do we do with all this?The call is simple but costly:Trade in Cultural Christianity for the real thing.Jesus never said, “Identify with Me.”He said, “Follow Me.”

This week on For The Girl, I'm joined AGAIN by my husband, Tyler, for a fun and honest Q&A! From marriage highs and parenting lows to navigating in-laws, friendships, and even the dreaded "Is he into me or just being nice?" question—nothing's off limits. Whether you're single, dating, married, or raising toddlers, this episode brings a dose of laughter, practical advice, and heartfelt encouragement. Tyler shares wisdom from a guy's perspective, and I keeps it real with vulnerable insights on love, communication, and what it actually takes to stay connected when life gets chaotic. Trust us, you'll want to send this one to all your girls (and maybe your guy too

I'm back with part two of my conversation with sociology professor Chryssy Payne, and this time we're going even deeper. In this episode, we unpack the “No New Friends” mentality and how it may be doing more harm than good—especially for those of us trying to build healthy, lasting adult friendships. We also talk candidly about church hurt, the challenges of trusting again, and how to find your people - whether you've been burned before, are new to the area, or are simply out of practice. Chryssy brings her expertise as a sociologist and her lived experience to this honest and insightful conversation. In this episode, we explore: Why adult friendship and community are essential—not optional How wisdom, discernment, and wise counsel can help you form healthy new connections Practical ideas for re-engaging with others, even if you're feeling isolated Whether you're craving new connections or reevaluating old ones, this episode will encourage you to reflect and reconnect—with wisdom and hope.

Catalyst Church NWA August 3, 2025 Lead Pastor Nate Sweeney

08/01/2025 - Steve Cuss -on church hurt and how to recover

Introducing Credible Witness, a new podcast produced by Mark Labberton and the Rethinking Church Initiative. In this episode of Conversing, Mark features the full premiere episode of Credible Witness, and is joined by host Nikki Toyama-Szeto and historian Jemar Tisby. Exploring how Christian witness to the gospel of Christ has become compromised—and what might restore its credibility. Reflecting on five years of candid, challenging conversation among diverse Christian leaders during the wake of George Floyd's murder and rising Christian nationalism, the three discuss the soul-searching, disillusionment, and hope that emerged. Together, they examine the cultural fractures, theological tensions, and moral failures that have pushed many to extremes, elevating strident voices as an increased number of people to leave the church. They articulate the mission and vision of Credible Witness, testify to a persistent hope in Jesus and the power of honest community, face painful truths, and imagine a church that more truly reflects the love, justice, and mercy of God. Key Moments “We absolutely get that… but we're still on board with Jesus. And Jesus has always been with us and hasn't left us.” “This isn't about leaving Jesus. This is about following Jesus.” “We've got a better story to tell.” “It was the church that was putting the church at risk.” “The church has a reputation in the United States… and not a good one by and large.” About the Guests Nikki Toyama-Szeto is the host of Credible Witness, and is executive director of Christians for Social Action, equipping the church to pursue justice and follow Jesus in the tension of our times. Jemar Tisby is the author of The Color of Compromise and How to Fight Racism, and founder of The Witness: A Black Christian Collective. He is the host of Pass the Mic. Show Notes “This isn't about leaving Jesus. This is about following Jesus.” —Jemar Tisby Nikki introduces Credible Witness as a space for honest stories of faith amid moral complexity and social tension Mark recalls the origins of the conversation in summer 2020: COVID-19, George Floyd, church division, and racial injustice Jemar Tisby clarifies the mission for imagining a more credible Christian witness Nikki reflects on trust-building in a space that welcomed “tricky truths” and honesty without pretense The group's five-year journey begins as a short experiment but grows into a lasting community of deep discernment “We weren't trying to replicate any harm.” —Jemar Tisby The group names white Christian nationalism and silence on injustice as threats to the church's credibility Ephesians 2 and the power of “coming together of the unlikes” as a witness to the resurrection “It was the church that was putting the gospel at risk.” —Mark Labberton Nikki explains how church neutrality began to speak volumes: “Choosing silence was actually a loud voice.” Discussion on the failure of integrity: “Too many things in isolation” eroded credibility Jemar highlights story as central to public theology: “We've got a better story to tell.” The group wrestles with algorithmic distortion and toxic digital narratives shaping Christian identity “Not just message, but embodiment”: The church's credibility depends on lived ethics, not just theological claims Mark emphasizes self-examination: “Are we credible?” Dissonance and disagreement as gifts: “What kept people in the room was the gift of dissonance.” —Nikki Toyama-Szeto Jemar recalls moments of tension over how to prioritize justice issues while remaining unified in Christ The group's diversity as a deliberate strategy: different traditions, backgrounds, and responsibilities within the church Nikki names divine timing: the conversation is more urgent now than when it began “We're not all supposed to be the same... That's how everything gets covered.” —Jemar Tisby Mark frames the church's failure as internal implosion—not external threat “Why is the church seemingly so unchanged?” —Mark Labberton Nikki describes how marginalized voices carry wisdom for the way forward Jemar articulates the podcast's goal: a mirror and a window for listeners to see both themselves and the larger church Nikki closes with an invitation to slow down and listen generously: “Pull up a chair...” Production Credits Conversing is produced and distributed in partnership with Comment Magazine and Fuller Seminary.

Follow Everyday Prayers @MillionPrayingMoms A Prayer for Church HurtReference: Psalm 94:19 Can we truly find joy and comfort in God's promises even in moments of suffering, even suffering caused by another believer? Today's prayer is a reminder that we can cling to God's truth in the face of oppression and remember that while Satan seeks to divide the church, God's Word is our anchor. Through scripture and prayer, we are encouraged to resist the temptation to withdraw from God and instead seek comfort, healing, and strength in His Word. Prayer Father, I so easily become anxious and look for ways that I can control what's going on around me. Yet all I need to do is simply lift my eyes to you and offer you my anxiety. Thank you for the reminder in Psalm 46 -10 to be still and know that you are God. For your word is the only place that I find comfort and refreshment. Your consolation brings me joy in the midst of difficult circumstances. In Jesus' name, amen. LINKS:Follow Million Prayer Moms on Instagram & Facebook: @millionprayingmoms Get today's devotion and prayer in written form to keep for future use! Support the ministry with your $5 monthly gift through Patreon. Discover more Christian podcasts at LifeAudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at LifeAudio.com/contact-us Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

You feeling this episode? Send us a text!In this episode we peel back the layers of why people cannot separate church from trauma. Often times people bring their trauma to church or their trauma started in a church but they cannot separate the culprit from God. It is like a man/woman of the cloth and God is one in the same. They're not! Some trauma is simply from being convicted by God and other are way worse and those traumas came from a wolf in sheep's clothing. We forget "free will" comes to play even when people are going against God. Let's get into it, shall we?!Support the show

A life marked by pain, addiction, and spiritual warfare can feel like a dead end. Substance abuse, anxiety, and demonic oppression often isolate people in cycles of shame and confusion. Many find themselves desperate for freedom, yet unsure how to break the chains that hold them back. The battle is not only physical and emotional, it's spiritual. And it often takes something greater than willpower to escape it: a divine encounter.In this episode of Revelations Podcast, host Reagan Kramer sits down with Tommy Doyle. He is the International Director of Uncharted Ministries and son of renowned missionary leaders Tom and Joanne Doyle. Tommy takes us on a riveting journey from being a pastor's kid entangled in alcoholism, panic attacks, and spiritual torment, to becoming a frontline missionary reaching war zones in the Middle East with the love of Christ. His battles with demonic forces and deliverance through a divine encounter of Jesus offer a powerful message of hope for anyone navigating the wilderness of addiction or doubt.Be equipped with spiritual tools to confront addiction, anxiety, and spiritual warfare with the authority of Jesus. This episode is for hurting hearts, wandering believers, and anyone ready to trade despair for lasting freedom in Christ.Here are three reasons why you should listen to this episode:Discover the spiritual component of addiction and how it can be broken through a divine encounter with Jesus.Explore the reality of spiritual warfare in regions like Egypt and how prayer activates victory over darkness.Learn how Tommy's story shows hope for those battling both anxiety and faith deconstruction.Become Part of Our Mission! Support The Revelations Podcast:Your support fuels our mission to share transformative messages of hope and faith. Click here to learn how you can contribute and be part of this growing community!ResourcesMore from the Revelations Podcast hosted by Reagan Kramer: Website | Instagram | Apple Podcast | YoutubeUncharted Ministries: WebsiteUncharted Adventures: Website“Dreams and Visions: Is Jesus Awakening the Muslim World?” by Tom Doyle“Women Who Risk” by Tom and Joanne Doyle“Spiritual Warfare: Christians, Demonization, and Deliverance” by Dr. Karl Payne Bible Verses2 Timothy 1:7This Episode is brought to you by Advanced Medicine AlternativesGet back to the active life you love through natural & regenerative musculoskeletal healing: https://www.georgekramermd.com/Episode Highlights[00:36] Freedom from Addiction and the Fight for the SoulAddiction, anxiety, and spiritual warfare can make people feel trapped and unseen.Many silently battle overwhelming darkness, believing healing is out of reach.Tommy Doyle, International Director of Uncharted Ministries, knows this struggle firsthand.[03:21] Tommy: “We have so many good friends and so many ministry partners over there, that that's just really where our heart was, and we were part of another ministry before that that we loved dearly, so many great people and everything.”Once bound by addiction and anxiety, Tommy now leads missions that bring healing and hope across the Middle East.[05:26] Ministry Work in the Middle EastTommy describes Uncharted Ministries' work across war-torn regions of the Middle East.He recalls visiting the Gaza Strip a month after a major attack, wearing flak jackets and traveling with armed EMTs.Despite the chaos, they shared comfort and reminded hurting communities that they are not forgotten.Through every mission, Tommy emphasizes the power of showing up and bringing the love of Christ.[12:19] Personal Testimony and Early LifeTommy grew up in a large Christian family, deeply involved in church life as a pastor's kid.Despite strong early faith, he experienced rejection and betrayal from peers in church leadership.That emotional wound led him to pull away and seek belonging in sports and party culture.This shift laid the groundwork for his eventual descent into substance use and spiritual drift.[24:23] Struggles with Addiction and Turning PointTommy began justifying casual partying, which escalated into drug dealing and daily alcohol use.A raid by federal agents became a wake-up call, but the pull of addiction remained strong.Panic attacks worsened his condition, and alcohol became his go-to form of self-medication.Despite several attempts to quit, nothing brought lasting freedom—until he cried out to God.[26:42] Egypt Mission Trip and Spiritual AwakeningTommy joined a mission trip to Egypt to support his mother's outreach to Muslim women.While caring for children there, he was struck by a deep conviction to return to a life of purpose.That moment reignited his faith, shifted his focus, and set him on a path of full sobriety.He returned home and committed to healing through a Christ-centered Celebrate Recovery program.[36:11] Supernatural Encounter in EgyptDuring a foot-washing ceremony, Tommy witnessed a woman visibly possessed and delivered through the name of Jesus.[39:47] Tommy: “Every time that something dark and scary would happen, witnessed by other people too, the power of the name of Jesus was enough to eradicate it and, and that's just so life-giving.”Later that night, he and his brother encountered a terrifying demonic presence outside their desert compound.Prayer in Jesus' name broke the oppression, revealing that when the demonic and divine encounter each other, the authority of Christ prevails over darkness.These spiritual battles confirmed the reality of unseen warfare—and the power believers carry.[47:49] Territorial Spirits and the Battle Over RegionsTommy and Reagan reflect on how demonic strongholds operate not just personally, but over entire regions.In spiritually charged areas like the Middle East, the Enemy fiercely resists gospel work.Tommy shares how even Bible translation efforts in unreached areas face constant spiritual interference.Yet through it all, God's power continues to break ground where darkness has long ruled.[52:45] The Link Between Medication and AddictionTommy discusses the role anti-anxiety medication played in intensifying his alcohol cravings.He noticed his dependence on alcohol spiked after starting an SSRI prescribed for panic attacks.This connection led him to research and ultimately discontinue the medication after his spiritual breakthrough.He encourages others to evaluate their health journeys prayerfully and seek Spirit-led guidance.[58:39] Advice for Overcoming Addiction and AnxietyTommy urges listeners to admit powerlessness and seek a divine encounter with Jesus as the first step to healing.By trusting Him, we take a faithful path to healing.He shares practical advice for managing anxiety, including diet, outdoor activity, and community support.Accountability and honesty are key—especially with trusted friends and family.Above all, he emphasizes that true freedom from addiction and fear comes through Christ alone.[1:03:43] Tommy: “I did not need a foreign substance to be happy and enjoy life. And that's such a lie if, if that's holding you back, reconnect with the Lord.”[1:05:52] Living Free From Darkness to Purpose in ChristTommy reminds listeners that surrender is not weakness but the beginning of real strength.He shares how 2 Timothy 1:7 has anchored him through fear and addiction.God's healing is available to anyone ready to leave darkness and walk into His light.Learn more about Tommy's work through Uncharted Ministries and Uncharted Adventures at unchartedministries.com.About Tommy DoyleTommy Doyle is a missionary leader, speaker, and redeemed overcomer called to bring light into the darkest places. As the International Director of Uncharted Ministries, he continues the legacy of his parents, Tom and Joanne Doyle, by leading gospel-centered outreach in the Middle East and beyond. From war zones to remote villages, Tommy helps bring humanitarian aid, spiritual support, and the message of Jesus to those living in fear, trauma, or persecution. His work bridges cultures and faiths, demonstrating the power of God's love across some of the most spiritually resistant regions in the world.Once bound by addiction, anxiety, and demonic oppression, Tommy experienced radical deliverance during a divine encounter. On his mission trip to Egypt, he reignited his faith and reshaped his purpose. Now over a decade sober, he uses his testimony to reach those walking through their own wilderness. With firsthand experience in spiritual warfare and recovery, Tommy equips others to confront addiction, overcome fear, and live with bold, Christ-centered purpose. His story is a powerful reminder that no one is too far gone for the grace of God.Connect with Tommy through the Uncharted Ministries website.Enjoyed this Episode?If you did, subscribe and share it with your friends!Post a review and share it! If you enjoyed tuning in about generational curses and how to break them, leave us a review. You can also share this with your friends and family. Freedom from addiction, anxiety, and spiritual oppression begins with surrender. When you experience a divine encounter with Jesus, darkness loses its grip. Let this be a reminder that no matter how far you've gone, healing and purpose are still possible.Have any questions? You can connect with me on Instagram.Thank you for tuning in! For more updates, tune in on Apple Podcasts

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About the series: Jesus encountered people who were skeptical of him as well as those who were deeply scarred by the pains from life on a fallen world. This is still true today. We will take a closer look at these stories of skeptics and scars from the Gospel of Mark and how they apply us today. About this week's message: Church hurt can produce scars. It can also turn people into skeptics. The Pharisees were not engaging in anything illegal or immoral within their leadership roles; instead, they were characterized by legalism, condemnation, and control. We'll cover how to respond in a healthy way to church hurt. Key Phrase: “Some of them were looking for a reason to accuse Jesus.” Mark 3:2

Church Hurt Video we reference: https://www.youtube.com/shorts/rrcl_86N0Lk In this candid episode, we unpack the reality of church hurt—those wounds that cut deepest when they come from the very people meant to love us. Jason and Emily recount the season their own church community turned its back on them. Whether you're nursing fresh scars or supporting a friend who is, this conversation offers empathy, wisdom, and encouragement—because the Church is more than a handful of hurtful humans. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

It hurts the most when it comes from people who claim to follow Jesus. Church hurt is real—but it doesn't have to define your faith. Don't let what a few people did to you keep you from what Jesus did for you.

In this week's bonus show, Matt and Keith answer a really great question into the hotline about trauma, hell, and how the church tends to respond to those who deconstruct.If you want to call in to the Bonus Show, leave a voicemail at (530) 332-8020. We'll get to your calls on next Friday's Bonus Show. Or, you can email Matthew at matthew@quoir.com.Join The Quollective today, and use Promo Code "heretic" to save an additional 10% off a yearly subscription (which is already 10% off a monthly subscription).Pick up Keith and Matt's book, Reading Romans Right, today!Please consider signing up to financially support the Network: QuoirCast on PatreonIf you want to be a guest on the show, email keith@quoir.com.LINKSQuoirCast on PatreonQuoirCast on Patheos

When my wife was 16, something happened that would change the course of the next 10 years of her life. This is part 1 of her story, where she shares what she went through and where we are now in our parenting journey. We share this vulnerability in hopes of helping those who still feel unheard and those who share the desire to raise emotionally healthy children.Subscribe to my weekly reflections on SubstackFollow The Tired Dad on InstagramFollow The Tired Mom on InstagramSubscibe to Youtube Follow on TikTokFollow on FacebookEnter code: tireddadpod for 15% off at tireddad.comFor partnerships, email collabs@tireddad.com  

From a childhood marked by trauma, sexual abuse, and deep resentment toward the church, Pastor Todd's journey is one of unimaginable brokenness — until Jesus stepped in. After years of running, addiction, and homelessness, God met him in the most unexpected places and began a radical work of healing and restoration. This powerful testimony of redemption will awaken your hope in the God who restores all things.Listen on Podcast Spotify Podcast ⇨ https://spoti.fi/3RBKdq3Apple Podcast ⇨ https://apple.co/3evzCuuConnect with ushttps://www.facebook.com/delafetestimonieshttps://www.instagram.com/delafetestimonies/Credits:Testimony by Todd HoltsDirected by Eric Villatoro Interviewed by Eric Villatoro Edited By Joshua GayleAudio Mixed by Paul Nicholas Testimony Recorded in Houston, TexasDelafé Testimonies is a global evangelistic project with the mission of creating the world's largest archive of Jesus testimonies until His return. Chapters00:00 Merch Update01:42 Viewer Discretion01:44 Growing Up as a Pastor's Kid07:41 Seeing the Church Mistreat My Dad10:13 Becoming Frustrated with My Dad and the Church16:02 Being Sexually Abused as a Child22:32 More Sexual Brokenness24:16 Being Reintroduced to Jesus Through a Friend29:31 Hearing God's Voice in a Trap House32:15 The Lord Begins to Restore My Life35:56 The Lord Calls Me into Ministry39:38 My First Marriage Falls Apart42:43 The Lord Begins to Restore Me Again47:25 Meeting My Current Wife and Pastoring Again48:17 Seeing God Move Through Sharing My Testimony53:38 Living to Simply Love People56:01 Who is Jesus To You?58:14 Prayer1:00:43 My Relationship with My Dad Today1:03:50 Final WordsFrom Sexual Abuse, Church Hurt, and Homelessness to Following JESUS! (Testimony)Todd Holts Testimony

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In this heartfelt episode, Pastor David Teis shares personal moments of church hurt and how God used those painful seasons to grow his ministry. He reflects on the people God brought into his life and the importance of stepping back to see His purpose in the pain. A must-listen for anyone navigating hurt in ministry or seeking healing through faith. To learn more about Teis Family Ministries, please visit davidteis.com. To purchase 'Hope for My Hometown' by Pastor Teis, visit davidteis.com

Church is supposed to be a sanctuary.But what happens when it becomes the place that breaks you?In this unfiltered and courageous conversation, we're diving into the kind of pain the Church doesn't like to talk about—church hurt.We're talking spiritual manipulation, toxic leadership, cult-like control, and the paralyzing guilt that keeps many trapped in pews, afraid to walk away.Our guest, Simon Andrade—host of the Free and Redeemed Podcast—knows this pain firsthand. He's walked the road of betrayal masked as ministry, and he's here to help us face the truth:You're not crazy.You're not weak for leaving.And Jesus is not the one who hurt you.If you've ever sat in a sanctuary and felt your soul suffocate…If you've ever been told to “just submit” while your spirit screamed for peace…If you've wrestled with the fear that walking away from a church means walking away from God…This episode is for you.We're asking the hard questions—about forgiveness, boundaries, cult-like systems, and the messy journey toward healing. Because freedom doesn't come from silence. It comes from honesty—and honesty and truth will always lead you closer to Jesus.We Go Deep On:Is it just “church hurt” or is it spiritual abuse?How do you protect your soul without hardening your heart?Can you love Jesus and take a break from church?Red flags of modern-day cults that don't look like cultsHealing when you're still in pain—and learning to trust againRaw. Honest. Necessary.This isn't just another podcast.This is truth that draws us nearer to the heart of Christ.

The sermon in this review was given by Pamela Baltazar at Lakepointe Church on May 11, 2025. All rights belong to Pamela Baltazar and Lakepointe Church. This video is for teaching and review purposes only and is protected under fair use.Fair use is a doctrine in the United States copyright law that allows limited use of copyrighted material without requiring permission from the rights holders, such as commentary, criticism, news reporting, research, teaching, or scholarship.Original Sermon: https://youtu.be/QmR_LwIgxww?si=VzZugwXBZKubo5Hg

If you think of Bathsheba's story, it's so twisted, yet God brought good from it for her. In all my years of hearing this story, I've only ever heard Bathsheba painted in a bad light as a seductress. Let's break down Scripture to see what God really says about her, and not add our own cultural traditions to wrongfully judge this woman. This study is so powerful for today in the church. If you have your own crimes against you and were judged wrongfully, you are not alone. God sees you, and He loves you. I hope this story also encourages your heart to have compassion on so many have faced deep hurts. Let's treat women differently, how God sees them.

Have you ever walked into church hoping for healing—but walked out feeling hurt instead? In this episode of Christ In Me with Addie, we're getting real about something so many of us have faced but few talk about openly: church hurt. Addie sits down with her friend Cierra for an honest, heartfelt conversation about the pain that can come from people we trusted in spiritual spaces. Together, they unpack their own experiences and talk through what it looks like to hold onto Jesus even when His people let us down. If you've been there, and maybe asked yourself, "Why is community still worth it?"... this one's for you!Grab a copy of Addie's cookbook!https://addieoverla.gumroad.com/l/cookbookAddie's Socials     YouTube https://youtube.com/@addieoverla?si=b9BzpzS9J9HrLiK5 TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@addieoverla Instagram https://www.instagram.com/addieoverla/ LINKS Elevated Faith Apparel https://bit.ly/3xjVBvF    LikeToKnowIt  https://www.shopltk.com/explore/addiewoost    Amazon Storefront  https://www.amazon.com/shop/influencer-649a9b8a?ref_=cm_sw_r_cp_ud_aipsfshop_aipsfinfluencer-649a9b8a_4C3D57EYC99TN49DVP21Support the show

 Transformed Podcast Episode 127 | June 12, 2025 Dr. Greg Gifford explores the real reasons behind church hurt—and what to do about it. With biblical insight, he reveals how our own fears, expectations, and lack of relationship skills can shape our experience of conflict in church settings. Learn how to pursue healing without giving up on the body of Christ. – Order the new book, "Lies My Therapist Told Me", by Fortis Institute Fellow Dr. Greg Gifford now! https://www.harpercollins.com/pages/liesmytherapisttoldme – Thanks for listening! Transformed would not be possible without the financial support of our Gospel Partners. If you would like to support Transformed we would be extremely grateful. VISIT https://fortisinstitute.org/donate/ If you are already a Gospel Partner we couldn't be more thankful for you if we tried!