Podcasts about church hurt

Scripture is powerful.  It has the power to comfort, guide, convict, and restore. But when it's taken out of context or used to control, it can also leave deep wounds. In this conversation, Dr. Alison sits down with theologian and Mending the Soul co-founder Dr. Steven Tracy to explore how Scripture can be used as medicine—or as poison—for those who have experienced abuse. Together, they unpack some of the most commonly misused passages around submission, forgiveness, honoring parents, and divorce, while offering a more faithful way of reading Scripture: one that reflects God's heart for the vulnerable, the oppressed, and the wounded. Here's what you'll cover * Why spiritually abusive people often weaponize Scripture* How to recognize the difference between biblical truth and spiritual manipulation* What God reveals about His heart for those experiencing abuse* Why humility matters when we interpret Scripture* How healthy boundaries honor both God and human dignity* How survivors can begin rebuilding trust in both God and His Word Whether you've experienced spiritual abuse yourself, love someone who has, or simply want to handle Scripture with greater wisdom and compassion, this conversation offers both clarity and hope. Because God's Word was never meant to keep you trapped in harm. It was always meant to lead you toward healing. More Resources: You can now preorder Dr. Alison's newest book, The Secure Soul, and immediately receive the first 3 chapters as well as early access to the companion guide! Read Dr. Steven Tracy's book: To Heal or Harm Connect further with @dralisoncook on Instagram Curious what Family Role may have shaped you? Take the Family Role Quiz to learn how you may be showing up in your relationships with others. Want to hear more like this? Start here: Episode 163: Healing Spiritual Wounds – Understanding Abuse in Faith Spaces Episode 17: What is Church Hurt and How Do I Heal?

In part two with Nikki G., she discusses more of the high-control groups she joined, the political project of the Seven Mountain Mandate that she was part of, the connection between biblical concepts of obedience and white supremacy, and how everyone joins cults, even if white people are the biggest group talking about it. Plus, the difference between “church hurt” and religious trauma. SOURCES Surviving the Black Church Podcast Black Religious Trauma Recovery Network Nikki G. SpeaksSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Church hurt is real — and it's one of the most common reasons people walk away from the church, and sometimes the faith altogether. In this episode, Nathan sits down with Nicholas Hines for an honest, compassionate, and biblically grounded conversation about what church hurt actually is, why this happens, and what to do when it happens to you.Nathan and Nicholas break down two distinct types of church hurt — the everyday relational conflict that comes from doing life with imperfect people, and the larger, more public moral failures that can shake entire congregations. They talk honestly about unrealistic expectations, the danger of putting leaders on pedestals, and why running from conflict might be costing you more than you realize.This episode doesn't dismiss anyone's pain — it takes it seriously. But it also issues a loving challenge: don't let someone else's failure become a reason to turn your back on Jesus.Topics covered:The two types of church hurt and why they require different responsesWhy setting proper expectations changes everythingHow Jesus himself navigated relational conflict and betrayalThe danger of social media algorithms feeding a distorted view of the churchWhy your faith can't be built on a pastor or leader — only on JesusPractical steps to pursue reconciliation instead of runningWhat the Bible (Matthew 18, Proverbs, Hebrews 12) says about conflict and forgivenessWhy isolation makes church hurt worse, not better

This week Dr. Gregg Mays helps us answer the question of why people leave the faith and turn their back on God. Many people find themselves in a faith crisis. They wonder if what they believe is true. Religious doubt does not catch God by surprise.Learning to better handle faith challenges is how we grow into a right relationship with God. Foundation Scripture: John 3:36How can Agape Leaders serve you?  Please find us at:         Website:  http://www.agapeleaders.org/    LinkedIn:  https://www.linkedin.com/in/gregg-mays/      Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/agapeleaders.org     Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/agapeleaders10/    Bible Break With Agape Leaders: http://www.agapeleaders.org/daily-devotionTik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@greggmaysYouTube: https://youtube.com/channel/UCmM7ETR652mLtDSKSjda-pwGet Your Copy of the A Word Wednesday Devotion: https://www.amazon.com/s?k=A+Word+Wednesday+Devotion&ref=nav_bb_sbRead Dr. Mays' book Practical Leadership: https://www.amazon.com/s?k=practical+leadership+lessons+from+an+average+leader&crid=259U5RNS5J5W5&sprefix=Practical+Leadership%2Caps%2C102&ref=nb_sb_ss_ts-doa-p_4_20Give to ALCFM: http://www.agapeleaders.org/store/p15/Agape_Leaders_Christian_Fellowship_Ministry_Support.html

Most people who grew up in church have never actually met the real Jesus — not the real one.They've met Therapist Jesus. Political Jesus. Mascot Jesus. In this episode, we set those substitutes aside and go back to the Gospels to meet the real Jesus — the one who emptied rooms with his words, claimed to be God to his own people's faces, and ate dinner with everyone the religious establishment had written off.This is the final episode in our 3-part series:Pride Month → Hell & Judgment → The Real Jesus.In this video:

Have you ever left a church situation feeling like you couldn't quite shake it — even after time passed?In this episode, Jill sits down with a panel of three women who have all experienced some form of church hurt. But this conversation isn't about who was right or wrong. It's about what was happening inside them — the grief, the rejection, the slow shift from hurt to resentment — and what it actually took to process it without becoming someone they didn't want to be.These women are honest. One stayed at her church. One left. One was in leadership when everything fell apart. Their stories are different, but the inner work they each had to do looks more similar than you'd expect. If you've ever sat in a church pew watching someone through narrowed eyes, replaying a conversation you can't let go of, or felt like you left a church but carried it with you anyway — this episode is for you.In This Episode • What it looks like when hurt quietly shifts into seeing someone as an adversary • How three women processed church hurt in very different circumstances • Why staying and leaving can both leave things unresolved • What it means to reconcile your own heart when the other party won't • The role of community, counseling, and intentional inner work in healing • How church hurt can shape the way you trust, lead, and show up — without you realizing itKey Takeaways • You can leave a church without leaving the experience — healing requires intentional work either way • Forgiveness is a choice that doesn't require an apology to begin • The question isn't just what happened to you, but who you're becoming as a result • Processing hurt in community — not alone — makes a real difference • The pain doesn't have to write your story; God can redeem it if you let himSeries Note: This is part 3 of the Church Hurt series. Next week, the series closes with a look at the story of David and Absalom — and what it reveals about what happens when pain goes unprocessed.Keywords: church hurt healing, Christian women podcast, processing church trauma, forgiveness in the church, emotional health faith, leaving a church, church conflict recovery CLICK HERE to learn more and join me for Wholehearted live virtual workshop June 27, 10-1 pm CT.  Come by yourself or register with the women in your world. Discover ways to work with me at www.thehappiestlives.com or www.myhappyvault.comQuestions? Email Jill directly at Jill@thehappiestlives.com

Michael interviews Tim St. John about his “Freedom in Christ” session, “Building Churches that Honor and Protect,” concluding a hidden abuse track focused on identifying abuse in churches and then rebuilding healthy culture. Using a termite-damage metaphor, St. John explains that removing abuse isn't enough; churches must reinstall “beams” like sound theology of suffering and identity in Christ to promote healing and exalt Christ. He defines church hurt as unrepentant sin normalized or protected by leadership and describes three waves of pain: the direct wound, failure to address it, and loss of community. Discussing his book After Church Hurt, he addresses both sheep hurt and shepherd hurt, urges looking to Christ as the Good Shepherd, and offers practical steps including diagnosing what happened, seeking legal counsel when crimes are involved, finding experienced counseling, easing back into church, planning conversations, and evaluating church accountability and culture.00:00 Conference Intro00:41 Meet Tim St John01:24 Workshop Overview03:11 Church Hurt Defined06:11 Three Waves of Pain08:16 After Church Hurt Book08:34 Sheep and Shepherd Hurt11:30 Hope in the Good Shepherd14:53 Practical Steps Forward18:11 Closing and ResourcesEpisode ResourcesAfter Church Hurt - Tim St. John 

In this episode, the fellas discuss what is and what isn't church hurt.

Church hurt can leave lasting wounds, but what if we focused not only on healing, but also on prevention?In this episode of the Care to Change Podcast, host Mac Zambrano sits down with therapist Kyle Hopkins to discuss how pastors, ministry leaders, and church staff can cultivate healthier, safer church environments. Together, they explore common leadership blind spots, the role of accountability, and practical ways leaders can respond when harm has already occurred.Rather than approaching church hurt through blame or fear, this conversation focuses on stewardship, humility, and intentional leadership that reflects the heart of Christ.In This Episode we discuss...Common leadership blind spots that can contribute to church hurtWhy communication and transparency matter more than leaders often realizeWhat emotionally safe church cultures look likeHow leaders can respond when harm has already happenedThe difference between intent and impactHealthy accountability practices for church leadersTrauma-informed approaches to ministryPractical steps leaders can take to create safer environmentsResources for continued growth and learningResources Mentioned

Church hurt is real. And for many people, it becomes a barrier to faith, community, and healing. Whether you've experienced disappointment, betrayal, or conflict in the church, this message offers Biblical hope, practical wisdom, and an invitation to move toward restoration and deeper trust in Christ.

The New York Knicks just ended a 53-year championship drought. And Norense was in a Brooklyn bar watching strangers from every culture, background, and walk of life — hugging, crying, screaming, and celebrating together.And God used an orange basketball to teach him something about isolation, community, and why the enemy's greatest weapon isn't your past. It's getting you alone.This episode is a raw, unscripted download from Brooklyn — part testimony, part teaching, part real talk — about what happens when you stop hiding behind the pressure to have it all figured out and start actually doing life with people.From church hurt after losing his sister, to being moved to tears by a stranger who saw him clearly, to watching Jalen Brunson silence every doubter — Norense weaves it all together into one central truth: you were never meant to do this alone.In this episode:Why the enemy's greatest strategy is isolation — and how shame, hurt, and "I'm good" keep you locked in itWhat the Knicks' championship run teaches about being counted out, staying the course, and proving doubters wrong without making it about themThe danger of pseudo-vulnerability — saying how you feel without the facts to face your fightWhy "feeling, feeling, feeling" without healing is just a cycle — and how to actually break itWhat church hurt looks like, why it's real, and how to not let it become a reason to isolate from community entirelyWhy being annoyingly curious about other people is one of the most powerful spiritual practices you haveA live testimony of being prayed over by a stranger who saw him — and breaking down in tears because God used her to say I see youKey Truth: "The enemy fights in isolation. There's no condemnation in Christ Jesus — so step in, show up, and stop letting shame keep you small."Key Verse: Hebrews 10:25 — Not forsaking the assembling of ourselves together, as the manner of some is, but exhorting one another.If this episode hit you:Rate and review the Mind Bully Podcast — it helps more homes and hearts find this message.

Carl Tinnion is an Anglican minister and former YWAM leader with a heart for creativity, imagination, and genuine community in the Church. In this episode, he opens up about his passion for those who've been hurt or disillusioned — and what it looks like to find true belonging in the Body of Christ.For more content from Carl:The Creative Word Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/6DhgmTY4nlkEyuxu5fUbhz?si=ef4b365948a74c90 YouTube Channel - Heavenly Nosh:youtube.com/@heavenlynosh44Find out more about YWAM Furnace below

In John 10, Jesus speaks of thieves, robbers and hirelings that harass his sheep. But he promises us as the Good Shepherd that he will never quit fighting for his flock! If you've ever been wounded by others (especially people inside the church), today's message from pastor Dan will bring you hope and healing! -- GIVE: Visit www.connectcalgary.ca/give to help share #LifeOverflowing across Canada.

What happens when the very place meant to bring healing becomes the source of pain? In this final message of The Tough Stuff series, we explore one of the most uncomfortable topics in the church: church hurt. Drawing from Ezekiel 34 and the Gospel of John, Vicar Alex unpacks the image of the shepherd and what it reveals about leadership, accountability, and the danger of entitlement in the pews. The sobering truth is that church hurt doesn't only come from the top, it can come from any one of us. Whether you've been wounded by the church or wonder if you've ever been the one doing the wounding, this message invites honest reflection. And for those carrying that pain, there is a word of hope: the church at its best is a place where the wounded are are welcomed. Jesus is the Good Shepherd, and he is still in charge.

Church hurt can leave deep wounds that impact trust, relationships, and faith. In this episode, counselor and previous pastor, Mac Zambrano and Sherry Follett, Life Coach and prior church staff member, share practical insight on the healing process, including the role of grief, common misconceptions about recovery, and how to begin rebuilding trust with God and others.You'll learn why healing takes time, the difference between forgiveness and trust, how spiritual bypassing can cause additional harm, and three practical steps to begin moving forward. If you've experienced spiritual wounds, this conversation offers hope, encouragement, and a reminder that healing is possible.Resources Mentioned:The Lord Is My Courage by K.J. RamseyGentle and Lowly by Dane OrtlundWhen the Church Harms God's People by Diane LangbergLearn more at Care to Change.

Have you ever been in a church situation where something felt off, raised it, and had it go nowhere — and now you're trying to understand why?You can't have an honest conversation about church hurt without looking at leadership. The structure around leaders and the humanity inside them shapes everything. In this episode Jill starts with something that sounds obvious but rarely gets said honestly — pastors are human. Fully, vulnerably human. And when that reality doesn't have the right support around it, things drift. Slowly. In ways nobody sees coming.Jill walks through what church structure was actually designed to look like, what Scripture says about accountability in leadership, and what the story of Saul teaches us about how good people with real callings end up somewhere nobody intended.In This Episode•Why leadership is lonely in ways most congregations never see•What the New Testament actually says about church structure and accountability•How gradual drift happens — and why it's harder to catch than outright failure•Why the contrast between Saul and David is the most important part of the story•What “if you don't choose humility you will be humbled” looks like in real lifeKey Takeaways•The structure around a leader exists to protect them — not limit them•Drift looks like a series of small reasonable decisions until suddenly it doesn't•Scripture cares more about what happens after failure than whether failure happened•Anointed doesn't mean infallibleSeries NotePart 2 of the Church Hurt series.Keywordschurch hurt, pastor leadership, church accountability, spiritual drift, toxic church, Christian leadership CLICK HERE to learn more and join me for Wholehearted live virtual workshop June 27, 10-1 pm CT.  Come by yourself or register with the women in your world. Discover ways to work with me at www.thehappiestlives.com or www.myhappyvault.comQuestions? Email Jill directly at Jill@thehappiestlives.com

This week, Jess is joined by Kate Willsey, spiritual trauma therapist and coach, for a conversation about church hurt, religious trauma, and spiritual manipulation. We explore why spiritual wounds can run so deep, how people can begin healing after painful church experiences, and what churches can do to become healthier places of grace, safety, and restoration. Whether you've experienced church hurt yourself or want to better understand those who have, this conversation offers practical wisdom and hope.DISCLAIMER: The views and opinions expressed in this podcast are those of the cast members and guests. They do not necessarily reflect the official position of Christ Community Church.

In this episode, Brant Hansen argues that holding onto offense is killing us - spiritually, physically, and relationally. He had to decide whether the offense he experienced as a young person should be held on to or if he should release it. It led him to a simple, uncomfortable conclusion: righteous human anger doesn't exist in scripture, and the anger we carry, however justified it feels, is not what faithful people are called to hold. We talk about forgiveness, hypocrisy in the church, and what Jesus actually intended when he told us to love our enemies.Brant is an author of several bestselling books, including Unoffendable, and a syndicated radio host on more than 200 stations. His podcast, “The Brant and Sherri Oddcast” has more than 20 million downloads. He's been featured many times on outlets like Focus on the Family, Family Life Today, and Good Morning America.Brant and wife Carolyn live in South Florida. His latest book, Living Unoffended releases June 9.Brant's Book:Living UnoffendedBrant's Recommendation:The Matter With ThingsConnect with Joshua: jjohnson@shiftingculturepodcast.comGo to www.shiftingculturepodcast.com to interact and donate. Every donation helps to produce more podcasts for you to enjoy.Follow on Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, Threads, Bluesky or YouTubeSupport the podcast and the ministry that my wife and I do around the world. Just click on the support the show link below Support the show

Witness the dramatic and untold story of Malchus, the temple servant, as he encounters Jesus in the Garden of Gethsemane and experiences an unexpected miracle.Explore Malchus' journey from skepticism to faith, as he grapples with the power of Jesus' compassion and the profound impact it has on his life amidst the chaos of betrayal and violence.Today's Bible verse is Mattew 26:52 from the King James Version.Download the Pray.com app for more Christian content including, Daily Prayers, Inspirational Testimonies, and Bedtime Bible Stories.Pray.com is the digital destination for faith. With over 5,000 daily prayers, meditations, bedtime stories, and cinematic stories inspired by the Bible, the Pray.com app has everything you need to keep your focus on the Lord. Make Prayer a priority and download the #1 App for Prayer and Sleep today in the Apple app store or Google Play store. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Why is church hurt so hard to sort through—even when you're trying to approach it thoughtfully?In this episode, Jill begins a new series exploring the complexity of disappointment and tension within church communities. Not every situation is clear-cut. Sometimes something feels off, but there isn't full agreement on what's right or wrong—and that's where it becomes difficult to process.Rather than rushing to conclusions, this episode slows things down and looks at what may be happening underneath the experience. Jill walks through why these situations feel heavier than other types of conflict, why it's hard to talk about concerns without feeling like you're causing division, and how quickly our interpretations can start to shape what we believe is true.This episode isn't about assigning blame or figuring out who's right. It's about understanding the layers—so you can respond with more clarity, humility, and steadiness.In This Episode:Why church experiences often carry more emotional and spiritual weightThe tension between wanting to be careful and needing to process something that doesn't sit rightHow internal processing can shift into certainty without realizing itWhy these situations are rarely as simple as they first appearThe layers involved: leadership, culture, interpretation, and your own internal responseKey Takeaways:Church hurt often feels heavier because it involves trust, belonging, and shared faithNot every situation is clear—many involve differing perspectives rather than obvious right and wrongIt's possible to move too quickly toward silence or certainty without fully understanding what's happeningSlowing down your thinking creates space for clarity and wisdomYou don't have to resolve everything immediately to begin moving forward thoughtfullySeries Note:This episode is part of a four-part series on church hurt. In the coming weeks, we'll look more closely at leadership, hear from women who have walked through these experiences, and explore how to process what's happening in your own heart.Keywords:church hurt, Christian relationships, church conflict, spiritual discernment, emotional processing, Christian growth, navigating disappointment, faith and relationships, church leadership, Christian mindset CLICK HERE to learn more and join me for Wholehearted live virtual workshop June 27, 10-1 pm CT.  Come by yourself or register with the women in your world. Discover ways to work with me at www.thehappiestlives.com or www.myhappyvault.comQuestions? Email Jill directly at Jill@thehappiestlives.com

Send us Fan MailYes, you heard that right — the podcast has a new name.After six years of conversations about faith, church, doubt, deconstruction, theology, scandals, strange ideas, and all the questions people are often afraid to ask out loud, we're stepping into a new season as Discount Disciples.In this short intro episode, Evan, Jesse, and Jen talk about why the name changed, what is staying the same, and who this podcast is for. The conversations will still be honest, raw, thoughtful, funny, and occasionally uncomfortable — but the focus is expanding beyond deconstruction into what it might look like to reconstruct faith in a healthier, humbler way.We're not experts. We're not shiny. We're not new. But we're still here — scuffs, dents, questions, and all.If you're in church, out of church, church-adjacent, doubting, deconstructing, reconstructing, or just trying to figure out what you believe now, this podcast is probably for you.We're glad you're here!Support the show––––––––If this podcast has been helpful to you, share it with someone who is asking hard questions about faith, church, doubt, or what comes next.BUY US A DRINKhttps://www.paypal.com/paypalme/ChristianAFPodcastBE A MONTHLY SUPPORTERhttps://www.buzzsprout.com/1019536/supportLINKS AND SOCIAL MEDIAFacebook  •  InstagramEmail: discountdisciplespod@gmail.com

If you have ever felt forced to hide your face while crying at church, or wondered if your deep grief means you lack spiritual maturity, please know you are not alone. Today, author Brittany Lee Allen opens up her heart about surviving three miscarriages in a single year, only to face heavy spiritual judgment and manipulation in the midst of her profound sorrow.We often internalize the painful lie that a strong Christian must never look downcast or broken. But true joy isn't about wearing a fake smile; it is a gift of the Holy Spirit that can coexist with your deepest lament. Jesus Himself was a man of sorrows who wept openly, and He cares about every single piece of your broken heart. Lean in and find permission to pour out your raw soul before a Father who stores your precious tears in His bottle.Scripture: “You keep track of all my sorrows. You have collected all my tears in your bottle. You have recorded each one in your book.” — Psalm 56:8 For more information about this ministry go to the website: www.thecallwithnancysabato.com

Joshua Noel engages in a profound dialogue with Christian Ashley, delving into the intricate and often painful subject of Church Hurt. The conversation unfolds with Christian recounting his personal experiences of disillusionment within the church, yet emphasizes his unwavering commitment to a more conservative Christian tradition. This episode serves as a poignant exploration of how individuals can grapple with their faith amidst adversity, illustrating that the journey through hurt can lead to a more resilient belief system. We further examine the complexities of maintaining faith in a community that may harbor imperfections, asserting that personal convictions can remain steadfast even when faced with challenges. Ultimately, this discourse invites listeners to reflect on their own journeys and encourages a thoughtful engagement with the nuances of faith and community. The dialogue between Joshua Noel and Christian Ashley unfolds with a profound exploration of Church Hurt, delving into Christian's personal experiences and steadfast adherence to a conservative Christian tradition despite the adversities faced. The conversation encompasses an examination of the complexities inherent in the interactions within church communities, particularly those that cause emotional and spiritual distress. Christian articulately describes the dynamics of his involvement with various churches, emphasizing the pivotal role of leadership in shaping congregational experiences. He recounts his formative years in the Southern Baptist Church, where early spiritual awakening was marred by challenges in church leadership, particularly under figures who exhibited a lack of nurturing and understanding. Through his reflections, he elucidates the notion that true leadership within the church should foster growth and healing, rather than perpetuate feelings of inadequacy and bitterness. As the discussion progresses, the conversation navigates through broader themes of church culture and the importance of addressing church hurt with grace and humility. Both speakers engage in a critical analysis of the current state of the church, addressing how institutional failures can lead to disillusionment among congregants. Christian emphasizes the necessity for churches to prioritize genuine community and support, advocating for an approach that embraces vulnerability and authenticity. In advocating for a return to foundational Christian teachings, he posits that the essence of faith lies not in the perfection of its adherents, but in the unwavering grace of Christ that calls for reconciliation amidst human fallibility. This episode serves as a clarion call for greater empathy and understanding within church contexts, challenging listeners to reflect on their roles in fostering unity and healing within their communities.Takeaways:Christian Ashley articulates how his experiences with Church Hurt have shaped his faith journey and commitment to a conservative Christian tradition.The podcast discusses the importance of acknowledging church hurt while still striving for personal healing and community involvement.Listeners are encouraged to seek supportive church communities that prioritize love and understanding in the face of adversity.Joshua Noel and Christian Ashley emphasize that church hurt is often a complex interplay of personal experiences rather than a singular traumatic event.The conversation highlights the necessity of forgiveness in the Christian faith, even in the wake of painful experiences within the church.Both speakers reflect on the significance of questioning and reconstructing faith as a healthy part of spiritual growth..You can leave a donation, buy podcast merchandise, check out previous series that we've done, or become an official member of The Whole Church Podcast on our website:https://the-whole-church-podcast-shop.fourthwall.com/.Check out all of the other shows in the Anazao Podcast Network and find merch to support some of your favorite podcasts on the network's website:https://anazao-podcasts-shop.fourthwall.com/.Listen to Christian Ashley on Let Nothing Move You:https://let-nothing-move-you.captivate.fm/listen.Check out Christian's book, "Lost Time":https://www.starvingwritersguild.com/product/lost-time-paperback-/42?cp=true&sa=true&sbp=false&q=false.Read Andy Walsh's book, "Faith across the Multiverse: Parables from Modern Science":https://a.co/d/0byzgeQV.Hear more from Joshua on Be Living Water:https://be-living-water.captivate.fm/listen

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What if refuge was something you practiced?In this conversation, John Ortberg talks with therapist and trauma specialist Lisa Cuss about anxiety, church hurt, attachment theory, the nervous system, and Psalm 31.Lisa shares how reading the Psalms through the lens of the nervous system helped her understand David's prayers in a completely new way. His cries of fear, confusion, and desperation suddenly felt deeply human and surprisingly familiar.This episode explores:- Trauma and attachment theory- Church hurt and emotional healing- Psalm 31 and the image of refuge- Why God is called a fortress- Right-sizing reality through prayer- Making refuge an active spiritual practiceFeaturing reflections on:- David's prayers- The nervous system- Martin Luther- A Mighty Fortress Is Our God#Psalm31 #JohnOrtberg #LisaCuss #Prayer #Trauma #AttachmentTheory #SpiritualFormation #ChristianFaith #Anxiety #Psalms

This week on the Connect Podcast, Pastor Cole continues the conversation from our Holy ER message on Healing from Church Hurt by looking at Acts 15 and the Jerusalem Council. Church conflict is not new, but Acts 15 shows us how God's people can handle hard conversations without losing sight of the gospel. In this episode, Pastor Cole talks about legalism, unnecessary barriers, healthy confrontation, unity, and how churches can protect people from deeper wounds by dealing with problems in a biblical way.This episode explores how churches can handle conflict biblically to prevent and heal church hurt. It emphasizes the importance of unity, truth, grace, and addressing issues directly to foster a healthy church environment.Keywordschurch conflict, church hurt, biblical conflict resolution, unity in church, gospel, Acts 15, church leadership, grace and truth, church community, healing in churchKey topicsChurch conflict managementBiblical conflict resolution in Acts 15The importance of unity and truth in churchHow legalism and traditions hinder the gospelAddressing church problems before they growChapters00:00 Introduction to Church Hurt and Community Engagement02:18 Understanding Church Conflict and Its Necessity05:13 The Simplicity of the Gospel and Legalism08:25 Removing Barriers to Faith11:19 The Balance of Grace and Truth14:13 Addressing Conflict in the Church17:04 The Importance of Healthy Confrontation20:20 Unity in Diversity and Moving Forward23:12 Conclusion: Healing and Focus on the Mission

This week on the Connect Podcast, Pastor Cole continues the conversation from our Holy ER message on Healing from Church Hurt by looking at Acts 15 and the Jerusalem Council. Church conflict is not new, but Acts 15 shows us how God's people can handle hard conversations without losing sight of the gospel. In this episode, Pastor Cole talks about legalism, unnecessary barriers, healthy confrontation, unity, and how churches can protect people from deeper wounds by dealing with problems in a biblical way.This episode explores how churches can handle conflict biblically to prevent and heal church hurt. It emphasizes the importance of unity, truth, grace, and addressing issues directly to foster a healthy church environment. Keywordschurch conflict, church hurt, biblical conflict resolution, unity in church, gospel, Acts 15, church leadership, grace and truth, church community, healing in church Key TopicsChurch conflict managementBiblical conflict resolution in Acts 15The importance of unity and truth in churchHow legalism and traditions hinder the gospelAddressing church problems before they grow Chapters00:00 Introduction to Church Hurt and Community Engagement02:18 Understanding Church Conflict and Its Necessity05:13 The Simplicity of the Gospel and Legalism08:25 Removing Barriers to Faith11:19 The Balance of Grace and Truth14:13 Addressing Conflict in the Church17:04 The Importance of Healthy Confrontation20:20 Unity in Diversity and Moving Forward23:12 Conclusion: Healing and Focus on the Mission

Church hurt is a phrase we hear often, but what does it actually mean? For many people, the pain goes far beyond a difficult church experience. It can involve betrayal, spiritual manipulation, rejection, abuse of authority, or wounds that impact someone's relationship with faith, community, and even God.In this episode, Mac Zambrano and April Bordeau explore what church hurt really looks like, why spiritual wounds can cut so deeply, and how people can begin healing without minimizing their experiences. Whether you've personally experienced church hurt or want to better understand someone who has, this conversation offers insight, validation, and hope.Key TakeawaysChurch hurt is real, and its impact can extend far beyond a specific congregation or leader. Healing often begins by honestly naming the wound, seeking safe support, and allowing space to process the pain without shame or pressure. While harmful experiences can distort a person's view of faith and community, healing and restoration remain possible.ResourcesIf you are struggling with the effects of church hurt, spiritual abuse, or faith-related trauma, reaching out to a licensed mental health professional can be an important step toward healing.Learn more about Care to Change and connect with a counselor at:www.caretochange.orgConnect With UsIf this episode encouraged you, please subscribe, leave a review, and share it with someone who may benefit from the conversation.Because healing begins when we know we're not alone.

You've been hit—perhaps by criticism, loss, church hurt—and part of you wants to shut down or fight back. But what if you're missing what God's doing in it? Dave Harvey pushes past easy answers, showing how weakness, enemies, and even unfair blows can expose what's in you ... and build something steadier than image, control, or approval. To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/84/29?v=20251111

What does a healthy church look like? What does healthy leadership look like? In this episode, Amber is joined by Stan Givens (a senior pastor with over 40 years of experience) and his son and ministry partner, Josh Givens (of 6:14 Ministries). Join the conversation for practical advice that will help you disciple and remain in ministry for the long haul. Learn more about 6:14 Ministries: https://614ministries.org/Listen to their podcast, The Shepherds Circle: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-shepherds-circle/id1796331013

Check us out: https://www.determinetruth.com What happens when the place that was supposed to feel spiritually safe becomes the source of deep pain? In this episode of the Determined Truth Podcast, we continue our conversation on religious trauma, spiritual abuse, PTSD, and moral injury with licensed trauma clinician Eric Winton. Together, we explore: The difference between church hurt, religious trauma, and moral injury Why some people struggle to even walk into a church building How trauma impacts the brain, emotions, relationships, and faith The danger of minimizing deep wounds with clichés like “just forgive and move on” Why healing often requires both safe community and trained professional help What pastors and church leaders need to understand about trauma-informed care How churches can become places of compassion instead of additional harm Why there is still real hope and healing after spiritual abuse This is an honest, nuanced, and compassionate conversation for: Pastors and church leaders Survivors of spiritual abuse or religious trauma Christians wrestling with deconstruction Anyone trying to understand PTSD, trauma, shame, and healing within faith communities If this conversation resonates with you, know this: you are not weak, crazy, or alone. Healing is possible.

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A sermon by Phil Shimer based on 2 Corinthians 7:2-11 preached on May 24th as part of our sermon series called "Glorious Weakness: Discovering Our Transformed Life In Christ."

Today's Scripture: Hebrews 10:24–25 **Today's devotional is in response to listener requests.** If you've ever heard “do not give up meeting together” and felt guilt rise in your body, this episode is for you. In today's reflection on Hebrews 10:24–25, Dr. Alison offers a compassionate look at church hurt, spiritual community, and why this passage was never meant to be used as a weapon. We explore: *How church hurt and religious trauma can shape your nervous system *Signs of an unhealthy community *How to discern a healthy spiritual community *How to take slow, wise steps toward connection after religious harm Go Deeper: Episode 17: What is Church Hurt and How do I Heal? Episode 163: Healing Spiritual Wounds – Understanding Abuse in Faith Spaces with Rachael Clinton Chen Episode 153: Embodied Healing, Spiritual Trauma, and the Journey Home to Your Body with Dr. Hillary McBride Connect with Dr. Alison on Instagram: @dralisoncook Join 80,000+ Soul Menders in Dr. Alison's free email community for ongoing reflection and support. While Dr. Cook is a counselor, the content of this podcast and any of the products provided by Dr. Cook are not specific counseling advice nor are they a substitute for individual counseling. The content and products provided on this podcast are for informational purposes only.‍ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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 In this powerful episode, we explore one of the most important truths in the Christian faith: the failure of Christians is not the failure of Christ. From church scandals and spiritual abuse to hypocrisy and disappointment, many people walk away from faith because they confuse Jesus with the imperfect people who claim to follow Him. But what if the answer to distorted Christianity is not less Jesus… but the true Jesus? This episode dives deep into what the Bible says about hypocrisy, why Jesus Himself confronted religious corruption, and how believers can separate Christ from the brokenness of human institutions. We also examine insights from respected Bible scholars, modern church history, and the teachings of Jesus to uncover why authentic Christianity still matters today. If you've been hurt by the church, wrestling with doubt, or searching for the real Jesus behind religion, this conversation is for you. Like, subscribe, and share this episode with someone wrestling with faith. Many people reject Jesus because of bad experiences with Christians. But here's the question: should Jesus be judged by people who fail to live like Him? In this episode, we unpack the powerful truth that the failure of Christians is not the failure of Christ. We talk about church hurt, hypocrisy, scandals, doubt, and why the real Jesus still stands apart from human weakness and religious corruption. If you've ever been disappointed by the church or questioned your faith because of Christians who didn't reflect Christ, this episode will challenge and encourage you. Watch now and rediscover the difference between Jesus and religion. Connect with us: YouTube: YouTube.com/@soul02-oxygen Facebook: @LP.Oxygen https://www.facebook.com/LP.Oxygen Instagram: LP.Oxygen Twitter: @Soul025 Buzzsprout: Soul02-Buzzsprout Spotify: Soul02 - Spotify Apple: Soul02-Itunes Stitcher: Soul02-Stitcher 

In part two of the "Super Spiritual" series, we pull back the curtain on the "anointing" culture that often masks toxic human ego. Why is it that some of the most "spiritual" environments can become the most controlling? From personal stories of leadership abuse to a deep dive into the historical crisis of the Artemis cult in Ephesus, we explore how Scripture is frequently weaponized to create hierarchies that Jesus came to destroy.We unpack the "flag poles" of cultic behavior and identify the primary purpose of biblical leadership: to build up and equip, not to dominate. Discover how the Holy Spirit acts as the "Great Equalizer," breaking down social and spiritual barriers to provide every believer—regardless of their background or status—a leveling ground of grace. Whether you have experienced "church hurt" or are looking for a healthier way to lead and be led, this message offers a roadmap for moving from religious performance to authentic presence.—To connect, learn more or donate, visit gravetopchurch.com  Follow us on Instagram, Facebook or TikTok by searching @gravetopchurch

Chantal Morales McKinney's new book, "Following Jesus Beyond Church Walls: A Catalyst for Your Spiritual Growth," serves as a profound exploration of the intersection between personal trauma and spiritual resilience. Within this engaging dialogue, I converse with Chantal about her experiences and insights as a mystic Christian and visionary, emphasizing the importance of spiritual growth outside traditional church structures. We delve into the impact of church-related harm and the necessity for transparency and accountability within faith communities. Chantal elucidates how individuals can maintain their faith in Christ, even when disillusioned by institutional failures. Ultimately, this episode advocates for a renewed understanding of what it means to follow Jesus, encouraging listeners to engage with their faith beyond the confines of church walls. Chantal Morales McKinney's discourse on spiritual growth transcends traditional church confines, as elucidated in her book, "Following Jesus Beyond Church Walls: A Catalyst for Your Spiritual Growth". The conversation pivots around the intrinsic value of community, particularly in the face of adversity and trauma within church environments. Chantal articulates her profound journey, which includes experiences of harassment and the systemic issues that often plague religious institutions. She emphasizes the importance of accountability, compassion, and authentic connection among believers, urging listeners to engage in meaningful dialogue, confess their struggles, and foster an inclusive spiritual community that uplifts rather than marginalizes. The episode serves as a clarion call, encouraging individuals to find pathways of faith that resonate beyond the established norms of church life, thereby expanding one's understanding of God and spirituality. As she shares her insights, Chantal invites listeners to reflect on their own experiences and consider how they can contribute to a future church that embodies love, respect, and genuine support for all its members.Takeaways:Chantal McKinney emphasizes that her book serves as a beacon of hope for those whose faith has been shattered by church harm, inviting them to explore spiritual growth beyond traditional church boundaries.In the podcast, McKinney articulates the profound impact of church trauma on individuals, advocating for a systemic change that prioritizes the voices and experiences of those harmed.The conversation highlights the necessity of accountability within church leadership, addressing the alarming tendency to protect institutions over individuals who have suffered abuse.McKinney's work with the Water and Light movement seeks to create supportive communities for those affected by church harm, fostering healing and solidarity among survivors.The discussion underscores the significance of redefining the church as a community of believers, rather than merely an institution, to better align with the teachings of Jesus.Ultimately, McKinney encourages listeners to engage with their faith in personal and communal ways that transcend traditional church walls, reaffirming the presence of Christ in all spaces..You can leave a donation, buy podcast merchandise, check out previous series that we've done, or become an official member of The Whole Church Podcast on our website:https://the-whole-church-podcast-shop.fourthwall.com/.Check out all of the other shows in the Anazao Podcast Network and find merch to support some of your favorite podcasts on the network's website:https://anazao-podcasts-shop.fourthwall.com/.Check out Chantal's Book on Amazon:https://a.co/d/08MdYAh2.Hear more from Joshua on Be Living Water:https://be-living-water.captivate.fm/listen

Jinger and Jeremy Vuolo join Dr. Will Cole for a conversation that goes far deeper than anyone planned - in the best possible way. They share how they met through a sister's scheme and a missions trip to Honduras, what it was like to navigate the Duggar family's courtship process as an outsider, and how listening to 60-plus hours of Bill Gothard's teachings together cracked open everything Jinger had been raised to believe. They talk about church hurt, the difference between false teachers and God himself, what Jinger's book Becoming Free Indeed cost her to write, and how living under rule-based faith can quietly masquerade as real belief. Plus: feeding 19 kids, the industrial kitchen, the strangers who stayed at their house, and the guest who stole Jinger's diary. For all links mentioned in this episode, visit www.drwillcole.com/podcast.Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode.Sponsors:For a limited time, Prolon is offering listeners 15% off site wide plus a $40 bonus gift when you subscribe to their 5-Day Program! Just visit ProlonLife.com/WILLCOLE!Get a free 8-count Sample Pack of LMNT's most popular drink mix flavors with any purchase at drinklmnt.com/artofbeingwell.Get up to 40% off your order at betterwild.com/willcole.Head to MANUKORA.com/WILLCOLE to save up to 31% plus $25 worth of free gift swith the Starter Kit, which comes with an MGO 850+ Manuka Honey jar, 5 honey travel sticks, a wooden spoon, and a guidebook. Use code WILLCOLE at puori.com/WILLCOLE to get 32% off Puori Grass-fed Whey Protein when you start a subscription. In addition, you get a free shaker worth $25!Produced by Dear Media.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Ask the Pastors S8 E12: Special Guest Marc Castro-“Pastoring in the Wake of Church Hurt” by West Hills Church

What if the very thing pushing you away from God isn't actually Him—but something (or someone) He warned you about? Before you walk away completely, you might want to rethink what's really going on behind the scenes. Matthew 7:15-16John 8:31-32#ChurchHurt#FaithOverFeelings#RealTalkFaith#DontQuitGod#SpiritualGrowth

Ben and Jason discuss how church hurt can affect us, and how we can overcome it.

Today's Scripture is: 1 Thessalonians 5:9–11 In a culture that prizes independence, this episode offers a countercultural truth: healing happens in connection. Drawing on both Scripture and research on community and mental health, Dr. Alison explores how small, consistent relationships can restore your sense of belonging. In this episode: *Why community is essential for emotional health *Research on connection, resilience, and well-being *The power of micro-connections (small, daily interactions) *How to rebuild trust after relational hurt or church hurt *What mutual, healthy connection really looks like Go Deeper: Episode 17: What is Church Hurt and How do I Heal It? Episode 181: The Healing Power of Safe People (Not Just Safe Spaces) Connect with Dr. Alison on Instagram: @dralisoncook Join 80,000+ Soul Menders in Dr. Alison's free email community for ongoing reflection and support. While Dr. Cook is a counselor, the content of this podcast and any of the products provided by Dr. Cook are not specific counseling advice nor are they a substitute for individual counseling. The content and products provided on this podcast are for informational purposes only.‍ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

The local church is meant to be a place of healing and hope. But what happens when that place of grace and care damages the people who were supposed to be helped? Counselor Timothy St. John addresses what has become a common experience for many Christians. If you’ve been through some kind of church hurt, or you know someone who is reeling from that, don’t miss Tuesday’s Chris Fabry Live. Featured Resources:After Church Hurt by Timothy St. John April thank you gift:Not Old, Not Young, Not Done: Following Jesus in Your 50s and 60s by Christopher Ash Chris Fabry Live is listener-supported. To support the program, click here.Become a Back Fence Partner: https://moodyradio.org/donateto/chrisfabrylive/partnersSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

The local church is meant to be a place of healing and hope. But what happens when that place of grace and care damages the people who were supposed to be helped? Counselor Timothy St. John addresses what has become a common experience for many Christians. If you’ve been through some kind of church hurt, or you know someone who is reeling from that, don’t miss Tuesday’s Chris Fabry Live. Featured Resources:After Church Hurt by Timothy St. John April thank you gift:Not Old, Not Young, Not Done: Following Jesus in Your 50s and 60s by Christopher Ash Chris Fabry Live is listener-supported. To support the program, click here.Become a Back Fence Partner: https://moodyradio.org/donateto/chrisfabrylive/partnersSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Allie sits down with Rachelle Starr, founder of Scarlet Hope, a ministry that shares the hope and love of Jesus with women in the sex industry and victims of trafficking. Rachelle recounts how God called her from praying outside strip clubs to walking inside with home‑cooked meals, building trust with women who have been exploited. She shares powerful testimonies of rescue, redemption, and generational change. Rachelle and Allie also discuss the devastating impact of fatherlessness, the new documentary “He Calls Me Daughter,” and what parents need to know about how traffickers groom kids through social media, games, and modeling scams — along with how Christians can respond with truth, courage, and Christlike compassion. Check out Scarlet Hope here: https://scarlethope.org/relatable Check out the film "He Calls Me Daughter" here: https://hecallsmedaughter.org Share the Arrows 2026 is on October 10 in Dallas, Texas! Tickets are on sale now at: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://sharethearrows.com⁠⁠ Buy Allie's book "Toxic Empathy: How Progressives Exploit Christian Compassion": ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.toxicempathy.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ — Timecodes: (00:00) Intro (11:28) The Name "Scarlet Hope" (21:04) Sharing Testimonies (32:11) Father Wounds & Church Hurt (41:20) The Perils of Pornography (48:05) "He Calls Me Daughter" (53:39) Parents Protecting Kids — Today's Sponsors: Good Ranchers | Visit ⁠GoodRanchers.com⁠ today. When you start your plan, you'll get to pick a free meat that will be included in every order for life, and you'll get $25 off your first order using my exclusive code, ALLIE. Legacy Box | Trust the experts to bring those moments back to life. Go to ⁠Legacybox.com/ALLIE⁠ right now to take advantage of the 50% discount they are offering my listeners. Patriot Mobile | Take a stand today. Go to PatriotMobile.com/ALLIE or call 972-PATRIOT and use promo code ALLIE for a  free month of service. A'del | Visit AdelNaturalCosmetics.com and enter promo code ALLIE for 25% off your first-time purchase. Pre-Born | To donate, dial #250 and say the keyword BABY. Or visit Preborn.com/ALLIE. NetSuite | If your revenues are at least in the seven figures, get our free business guide, Demystifying AI, at NetSuite.com/Allie. — Related Episodes: Ep 299 | The Fight Against Sex Trafficking | Guest: Jaco Booyens https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/ep-299-the-fight-against-sex-trafficking-guest-jaco-booyens/id1359249098?i=1000490902387 Ep 932 | The Shocking Truth About Pornhub | Guest: Arden Young https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/ep-932-the-shocking-truth-about-pornhub-guest-arden-young/id1359249098?i=1000641346030 Ep 888 | How Pornography & Human Trafficking are Linked | Guest: Benji Nolot (Part One) https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/ep-888-how-porn-drives-trafficking-guest-benji-nolot/id1359249098?i=1000631002134 Ep 889 | Why 'Ethical Porn' Doesn't Exist | Guest: Benji Nolot (Part Two) https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/ep-889-why-ethical-porn-doesnt-exist-guest-benji-nolot/id1359249098?i=1000631124019 — Buy Allie's book "You're Not Enough (and That's Okay): Escaping the Toxic Culture of Self-Love": ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.alliebethstuckey.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Relatable merchandise: Use promo code ALLIE10 for a discount: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://shop.blazemedia.com/collections/allie-stuckey⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠