Podcasts about church hurt

Bel joins us from Australia to share her story of growing up in a church in the Sydney Anglican Diocese. When she was six, she nearly died in an accident at church. Soon after, her family moved to a new church led by a man we call Rev T. He called himself a counselor and claimed he could help people no doctor could. Bel describes a community shaped by control, fear, and the constant feeling of being watched. She shares how Rev T's counsel tore her family apart, how her sister was sent away from home and put through an exorcism, and how a private meeting in his office crossed lines no pastor should ever cross. Today, Bel is a wife, a mom, and a survivor. She shares her story in the hope of making the church a safer place.Support the show

Why do we gather together in worship?In today's episode, Gaby Alessi Calatayud guides us through the heart of communal worship and invites us to rediscover its purpose. We'll explore together why meeting at church matters, not just for our relationship with God, but for our relationships with each other. We'll consider the power of worshiping side by side, raising our voices as a family, and shifting our focus from ourselves to the One who truly deserves our praise.Join our community as we pause, pray, and devote ourselves to making worship about God, inviting Him to draw us closer both to Him and to each other.Tap HERE to send us a text! BECOME A FOUNDING "MY MORNING DEVOTIONAL" MEMBERIf you enjoy your 5 minute daily dose of heaven, we would appreciate your support, and we have a fun way for you to partner with the MMD community! We've launched our "Buy Me a Coffee" membership where you can buy us a latte, OR become a founding member and get monthly bonus video episodes! To donate, go to mymorningdevo.co/join! Support the showNEW VIDEO EPISODES! You can watch our new video episodes on YouTube! Watch Our Video DevotionalsNEW TO MY MORNING DEVOTIONAL? We're so glad you're here! We're the Alessis, a ministry family working together in a church in Miami, FL, and we're so blessed to partner with the My Morning Devotional community and continue the great work done by the show's creator and our friend, Alison Delamota.We pray our personal reflections and devotions will empower you to grow your faith in God, and that you'll join us every morning in prayer! JOIN THE MMD COMMUNITYSubscribe to the show on this appShare with a friendJoin our newsletter Follow Us on ⁠Instagram⁠ and ⁠Facebook⁠⁠Leave a reviewMORE PODCASTS YOU'LL ENJOYEnjoy more podcasts from Metro Life Studios, including:The Family Business with The AlessisMen's Morning DevotionalThe Mary and Martha Show Available on our Metro Life Studios app!Get The Metro Life Studios app 

Audrey, formerly an "Atheistic Satanist," is now a Christian. Her transformative encounter took place in the mountains following the tragic loss of her husband at the age of 19. During this encounter, she met the real Jesus, who shattered her preconceived notions of him as a fictional character or a tool for manipulation. This profound experience led her to embark on a beautiful supernatural journey of seeing signs, wonders and miracles but most importantly she has been able to discover the true nature of Jesus. Over the past 16 years, Audrey has been enraptured with studying scriptures, early church history, and theology. Her previous atheistic perspective allows her to fearlessly explore challenging questions about religion, Christianity, the character of God, Jesus and Holy Spirit. And because of this she has endured religious trauma, church hurt, rejection and false accusations about her character. Audrey now guides others in breaking free from religious mindsets, grow in their own relationship with God and helps bring healing to their traumas, and coaches them in renewing their mind which empowers them to embrace their identity in Christ, ultimately living joyfully within the divine Family of God.In our conversation, Audrey and I talk about her spiritual transformation from an atheistic satanist to a Christian mystic. We discuss Audrey's upbringing, her initial attraction to atheistic satanism, and her profound encounter with Jesus during her hike in Colorado. Audrey shares her struggles with a radical church, her rejection of traditional religious beliefs, and her embrace of a more loving and mystical understanding of Christianity. She also touches on her views on heaven, hell, and universal reconciliation. Where to find Audrey: https://www.eatmedrinkmepodcast.net/https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCDP1-KnvUy4gr-njc6HvvuwLove the show? Your support helps keep these conversations going. You can treat me to a coffee here:https://buymeacoffee.com/shiftingdimensionsSubscribe to our YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCr0p1zDPaPLmnmI3AIWhDFQFollow us:TikTok -  @shiftingdimensions444 Instagram -  @shiftingdimensions_podDisclaimer:The views, thoughts, and opinions expressed are the guest's own and do not represent the views, thoughts, and opinions of Shifting Dimensions. The material and information presented here is for general information and entertainment purposes only. Send us Fan MailSupport the showLove the show? Your support helps keep these conversations going. You can treat me to a coffee here:https://buymeacoffee.com/shiftingdimensionsSubscribe to our YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCr0p1zDPaPLmnmI3AIWhDFQFollow us: TikTok -  @shiftingdimensions444  Instagram -  @shiftingdimensions_podDisclaimer: The views, thoughts, and opinions expressed are the guest's own and do not represent the views, thoughts, and opinions of Shifting Dimensions. The material and information presented here is for general information and entertainment purposes only. 

Have you ever felt like you have to clean up your life before you could come to church? Or maybe someone made you feel like you didn't belong because of your past, your appearance, or your mistakes.Jesus tells a very different story.In this message from Matthew 22:1-14, Pastor Nicole Barnett explores the Parable of the Wedding Banquet and of its most misunderstood moments: the guest without wedding clothes. Rather than teaching Christians to stand at the door deciding who belongs, Jesus reminds His followers that our calling is to carry the invitation while trusting God to transform the people He welcomes.If you've experienced church hurt, struggled with feelings of unworthiness, or wondered whether God's invitation is really for you, this sermon offers both hope and challenges. It also calls believers to exchange gatekeeping for grace, remembering that the King never asked us to inspect His guests--only to invite them.The invitation is open.Will you trust the King enough to accept it... and extend it to someone else?Send us Fan MailLinkoln shares his story on why he started coming to Ravenna Church of the Nazarene and shares why you should consider doing the same.Ravenna Church of the Nazarene530 Main Street, Ravenna, KY 40472Support the showThe Dirt Path Sermon Podcast is a place for real sermons that speak to real life. Subscribe and walk the path with us every week.Consider visiting Ravenna Church of the Nazarene where Pastor Jason is the Senior Pastor.   Have a prayer need? Want to share something with Pastor Jason? Email dirtpathpastor@gmail.com

Who Gets to Define the Next Generation? Gen Z Finds Its Voice—and Its Anchor—in Christ Is Gen Z lost in the noise of culture, media, and politics—or are they quietly forging a radical new path of faith? In this powerful episode, Catherine sits down with high school senior and gifted poet Charis Shoemaker to explore how today’s young Christians are wrestling with identity, truth, and calling in an ever-fractured world. If you wonder what the next generation truly believes, and how Christian parents can encourage their kids to pursue God in the midst of cultural chaos, this is an episode you cannot afford to miss. About Our Guest:Charis Shoemaker is no ordinary teenager. A state award-winning actress, an eloquent poet, and—most importantly—a passionate follower of Christ, she represents a new wave of young believers speaking up for authentic faith. Charis’ original poem, “They Say,” recently brought a packed house to their feet at her homeschool graduation, voicing the hopes and struggles of a generation determined to follow Christ—no matter the cost. What You’ll Discover in This Episode: Gen Z Under the MicroscopeListen as Charis shares firsthand what it’s like to grow up constantly defined—often unfairly—by societal labels, politics, and the relentless barrage of social media. In an era of fractured opinions, what do young people really hear about who or what they’re supposed to be? The Power of Godly InfluenceCharis opens up about her own journey, including profound family challenges and the steady faith of her mother, a night-shift nurse who made time for Scripture and prayer no matter how hard life got. Her story testifies to the quiet resilience that shapes faith behind the scenes. A Poetic Anthem for Gen ZHear Charis' captivating poem, “They Say,” in full. Her words challenge generational stereotypes and culture’s attempts to define identity—while serving as an anthem for those who choose to be defined not by people, but by the voice of God. “If my life is to revolve around opinions, I would much rather they come from a God who is preeminent than a people who are insignificant... I would much rather they be words spoken by the Word who became flesh for me.” – Charis Shoemaker, 19:15 Dealing with Church Hurt and PainCharis recounts personal battles—including abuse and disappointment with the Church—and how those wounds could have derailed her faith. Yet, she found hope, healing, and her truest identity in Jesus. Parents will find wisdom here for helping kids process pain with grace rather than anger or withdrawal. Who Gets to Define Us?The conversation zeroes in on the theme of authority, urging listeners to ask tough questions: Is our identity determined by culture, by the Church, by ourselves—or solely by God, the Creator who names us and calls us His own? Hope Rising in Gen ZContrary to stereotypes, Charis reveals that a growing number of her peers are returning to church and hungry for real, unfiltered truth. She challenges parents not to underestimate Gen Z's capacity—and desire—for deep faith, and encourages both generations to risk bold, loving conversations about what matters most. “There’s a generation coming up after you that wants truth…Be there for us. Give us that thing to hold on to.” – Charis Shoemaker, 53:38 Why This Matters:In a season when so much is said about the failures and fears of the next generation, this episode highlights a surprising undercurrent: Gen Z isn’t just walking away—they’re wrestling, seeking, and often returning to the God who defines them. Catherine and Charis Shoemaker’s honest exchange offers hope to every parent praying for their child’s faith journey. Memorable Moments: The story of Charis Shoemaker's friend whose final words were simply, “Trust Jesus”—a moving reminder of the enduring legacy of authentic faith (35:33). An inspiring encounter with a peer who worships “mother earth” and how open conversation sows seeds of truth and friendship (52:53). The recognition that every generation faces labels, but the only voice that matters is God’s. Modern Application:Christian parents, take heart! The next generation is listening, watching, and longing for truth—especially from you. Your example, prayers, and honest conversations matter more than ever. As you foster their search for identity, remember: God alone must anchor our children in a world desperate to define them. Call to Action:How are you helping your children—or the young people in your life—listen to God’s voice above all others? This week, try having an open conversation about identity and faith at home. Share your own story, and invite them to share theirs—uncut, unfiltered, and real. Resources Mentioned: “Gay Girl, Good God” by Jackie Hill Perry The Narrow Road (song by Reagan James Boone) Let us know: How are you equipping your family to anchor their identity in Christ, not in what “they say”? Share your thoughts and experiences with us on social media, or email your parenting questions for future episodes! Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

begin with pain.In this conversation, Pedro Garcia shares how church hurt led him away from Christ and into atheism before Jesus lovingly brought him home. Together we talk about emotional wounds, surrender, doubt, healing, and why Jesus is not the same as those who misrepresent Him.If you've ever wondered whether your faith can survive disappointment, this episode is for you.Please follow this podcast - It really helps!Scripture"The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit."Psalm 34:18#ChurchHurt #ChristianPodcast #FaithJourney #Healing #Jesuswww.thecallwithnancysabato.comAmazon Author Page: https://www.amazon.com/author/nancysabato

What exactly is "Church Hurt," and how do you heal when the very place meant to provide spiritual safety becomes the source of your deepest pain?In this heavy but incredibly necessary episode, we are joined by creative leader Stephen Brewster. After kicking things off by discussing his journey in helping local churches write and produce their own original music, the conversation shifts to the painful reality of serving in ministry. Stephen opens up about his own personal experiences with church hurt and explains why we might need to reframe the conversation from "the church hurt me" to "broken people hurt me."In this episode you'll hear: 0:00 Intro Antics5:30 Stephen Brewster: Helping Churches Release Original Music13:30 Defining "Church Hurt" in Modern Ministry25:00 Stephen's Personal Story of Church Hurt33:00 Reframing the Pain: "Church Hurt" vs. "People Hurt Me"41:00 Why You Still Need to Go Back to Church54:00 How to Be a Solution to Toxic Church Culture57:00 Thinking of Quitting Ministry? Start Here.Get expert help and care on your next integration project with our friends at HouseRight here.  Get more money back in your budget and more space in your closet by selling us your used gear here. Resources for your Church Tech MinistrySell Us Gear: Does your church have used gear that you need to convert into new ministry dollars? We can make you an offer here. Buy Our Gear: Do you need some production gear but lack the budget to buy new gear? You can shop our gear store here.  Connect with us: Sales Bulletin: Get better deals than the public and get them earlier too here!Early Service: Get our best gear before it goes live on our site here. Instagram: Hangout with us on the gram here! Reviews: Leaving us a review on the podcast player you're listening to us on really helps the show. If you enjoyed this episode, you can say thank you with a review! 

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In this episode, our storyteller Jane shares her years inside Chi Alpha, the college campus ministry of the Assemblies of God (AG). What began as a warm, welcoming community slowly turned into something else. Jane describes the pressure to lead, the strict rules over her time, friendships, money, and even her food and health, and the spiritual control that kept her silent for years.She walks us through her path from new student to leader, intern, and full staff missionary. She talks about the leadership "class" she paid to take, a retreat that changed her, the support raising system that left her broke, and the moment she finally found the strength to leave. Jane also speaks to the wider abuse that has come to light in Chi Alpha and the Assemblies of God, and why she chose to break her silence now.Her story is a powerful look at high control religion, the savior complex on the mission field, and the long road to healing. Jane closes with a message of hope for current members, for survivors, and for the leaders she hopes will repent.Chi Alpha Survivor Website http://xalionsden.com/Support the show

How do I stop letting church hurt define me?You've probably spent a lot of time thinking about what happened. Who was wrong. What should have been done differently. And honestly, you're probably right about most of it. But here's the question that doesn't get asked enough: what is the experience forming in you? Not just what happened — but who are you becoming while you're processing it?In this final episode of the church hurt series, Jill walks through the story of Absalom from 2 Samuel 13 — a man who witnessed a serious injustice, watched it go unaddressed, and carried it in silence for two years. What happened next is one of the most sobering pictures in Scripture of what unprocessed pain can do in a person's life. Not because he was wrong about what happened. But because being right didn't protect him.This episode isn't about minimizing what was done to you or rushing to forgiveness before you're ready. It's about keeping your eyes on Jesus in the middle of it — doing what's yours to do, releasing what isn't, and trusting God with the rest.In This Episode•Why being right about what happened doesn't automatically protect you from what carrying it does to you over time•The story of Absalom, Tamar, and David from 2 Samuel 13 — and what it shows us about unprocessed pain•The difference between processing your hurt and just circulating it•Why stuffing it down doesn't work — and what to do instead•How to identify what's actually yours to do and how to surrender the rest to the Lord•Practical steps for moving forward without losing Jesus in the processKey Takeaways•Seeing something clearly doesn't make you free of it — freedom requires bringing it to the Lord•Silence is not neutral. What you carry without addressing will eventually move in a direction you didn't choose•There's a difference between processing pain and recycling it — and one leads somewhere, the other doesn't•You can do what's yours to do and trust God with the outcome, even when the outcome isn't what you wanted•The goal isn't to minimize what happened — it's to make sure your heart doesn't become the bigger problemSeries Note:This is episode 4 of a 4-part series on church hurt. You can start here or go back to the beginning — each episode stands on its own.Keywords:church hurt healing, Christian women faith, how to forgive church hurt, processing spiritual pain, church trauma recovery, emotional health faithIf you want to take this work and apply it, visit myhappyvault.com. That's where I share free resources and ways to stay connected.Discover ways to work with me at www.thehappiestlives.com or www.myhappyvault.comQuestions? Email Jill directly at Jill@thehappiestlives.com

Taylor is a wife, a mom, a friend and a daughter. She has a passion and a love for Jesus who she credits to getting her through each and every challenge of her life. She grew up in an abusive and toxic household. She shares some crazy dreams, goals for the futures and thoughts on subjects such as public education, mega churches and parenting.Use my code: EYESAC for 15% off your entire order @www.mountaineerbrand.comUse same code: EYESAC for 10% off your order @ www.scentsbyyaya.comThank you so much for listening!Leave a review and let me know what you think. Are their topics you want to hear covered? A guest you would like to hear back on for another episode? Make sure to follow and share this episode.Love ya!

Scripture is powerful.  It has the power to comfort, guide, convict, and restore. But when it's taken out of context or used to control, it can also leave deep wounds. In this conversation, Dr. Alison sits down with theologian and Mending the Soul co-founder Dr. Steven Tracy to explore how Scripture can be used as medicine—or as poison—for those who have experienced abuse. Together, they unpack some of the most commonly misused passages around submission, forgiveness, honoring parents, and divorce, while offering a more faithful way of reading Scripture: one that reflects God's heart for the vulnerable, the oppressed, and the wounded. Here's what you'll cover * Why spiritually abusive people often weaponize Scripture* How to recognize the difference between biblical truth and spiritual manipulation* What God reveals about His heart for those experiencing abuse* Why humility matters when we interpret Scripture* How healthy boundaries honor both God and human dignity* How survivors can begin rebuilding trust in both God and His Word Whether you've experienced spiritual abuse yourself, love someone who has, or simply want to handle Scripture with greater wisdom and compassion, this conversation offers both clarity and hope. Because God's Word was never meant to keep you trapped in harm. It was always meant to lead you toward healing. More Resources: You can now preorder Dr. Alison's newest book, The Secure Soul, and immediately receive the first 3 chapters as well as early access to the companion guide! Read Dr. Steven Tracy's book: To Heal or Harm Connect further with @dralisoncook on Instagram Curious what Family Role may have shaped you? Take the Family Role Quiz to learn how you may be showing up in your relationships with others. Want to hear more like this? Start here: Episode 163: Healing Spiritual Wounds – Understanding Abuse in Faith Spaces Episode 17: What is Church Hurt and How Do I Heal?

In this revisited episode of the Finding God Podcast, we're having an honest, compassionate conversation about something many believers struggle with but rarely feel safe talking about — how to discuss church hurt with family members who may not understand, may minimize your experience, or may still be connected to the very spaces that wounded you.Whether you've experienced spiritual abuse, manipulation, fear‑based teaching, or emotional harm in religious spaces, navigating these conversations can feel overwhelming. This episode gives you language, clarity, and emotional safety as you learn how to honor your story without losing yourself.

What if the things you thought were flaws, failures, or weaknesses were actually wounds that needed healing?In this episode of Soul Sense, Mark sits down with Danielle Bernock, trauma-informed coach, author, and founder of 4F Media, to talk about her journey from surviving deep childhood trauma to discovering healing, identity, and connection.Danielle shares how she spent years carrying trauma without having language for it, how discovering the concept of trauma changed everything, and how God met her in the places of shame, self-contempt, and spiritual wounds.Danielle's story is a powerful reminder that healing is possible, shame does not get the final word, and we were created to live connected — with God, ourselves, and others.

In part two with Nikki G., she discusses more of the high-control groups she joined, the political project of the Seven Mountain Mandate that she was part of, the connection between biblical concepts of obedience and white supremacy, and how everyone joins cults, even if white people are the biggest group talking about it. Plus, the difference between “church hurt” and religious trauma. SOURCES Surviving the Black Church Podcast Black Religious Trauma Recovery Network Nikki G. SpeaksSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Church hurt is real — and it's one of the most common reasons people walk away from the church, and sometimes the faith altogether. In this episode, Nathan sits down with Nicholas Hines for an honest, compassionate, and biblically grounded conversation about what church hurt actually is, why this happens, and what to do when it happens to you.Nathan and Nicholas break down two distinct types of church hurt — the everyday relational conflict that comes from doing life with imperfect people, and the larger, more public moral failures that can shake entire congregations. They talk honestly about unrealistic expectations, the danger of putting leaders on pedestals, and why running from conflict might be costing you more than you realize.This episode doesn't dismiss anyone's pain — it takes it seriously. But it also issues a loving challenge: don't let someone else's failure become a reason to turn your back on Jesus.Topics covered:The two types of church hurt and why they require different responsesWhy setting proper expectations changes everythingHow Jesus himself navigated relational conflict and betrayalThe danger of social media algorithms feeding a distorted view of the churchWhy your faith can't be built on a pastor or leader — only on JesusPractical steps to pursue reconciliation instead of runningWhat the Bible (Matthew 18, Proverbs, Hebrews 12) says about conflict and forgivenessWhy isolation makes church hurt worse, not better

Send us Fan Mail“What if God is not waiting at the end of our deconstruction with a test, but with a lantern?”In this honest and hopeful message, Dan Minor speaks directly to the complicated journey of faith deconstruction, church hurt, and what it means to find something worth keeping in the ruins.Rather than framing deconstruction as destruction or abandonment, Dan invites us to consider a deeper possibility: redemption. Through the stories of Adam and Eve, Jacob, and Jesus cleansing the temple, this message explores how our theology, spirituality, and sacred community can be reimagined through a healthier lens.Not everything from our past needs to be rebuilt. Not everything needs to be thrown away. Some things need to be redeemed.Listen in for a message about shame, pursuit, spiritual searching, religious harm, and the God who meets us in the ruins with light.#HarvestSarasota #HarvestSarasotaPodcast #DanMinor #FaithDeconstruction #Deconstruction #FaithAfterDeconstruction #ChurchHurt #ReligiousTrauma #SpiritualHealing #ProgressiveChristianity #InclusiveChurch #FaithJourney #Redemption #Theology #Spirituality #SacredCommunity #ChurchRenewal #JesusAndJustice #HealingAndHope #GodInTheRuins Support the showHarvest is a fully affirming, inclusive (including the LGBTQ+ community) progressive Christian church located in Sarasota, Florida.Follow us on Social Media:Instagram - Instagram.com/harvestsarasotaFacebook - Facebook.com/harvestsarasotaTikTok CLICK HEREDONATE to support our podcast HERERecorded live at Harvest Church in Sarasota by Michael Thomas Regina and Stephen Lehman of Boardtown Creative

Episode 116 featuring Isaac Caree... What started with laughs, jokes, and sibling-like banter between B. Simone and Isaac Carree quickly turned into one of the most honest conversations we've had on LTTA. Isaac opens up about the pain of church hurt, betrayal, disappointment, and the difficult reality of being wounded by people who claimed to love God. Together, him and B.Simone unpack what it looks like to heal when trust has been broken, why every relationship isn't meant to be restored, and how to discern when God is calling you to release what you've been desperately trying to hold onto. If you've ever sat in a church pew beside someone who smiled in your face but hurt you behind your back, this conversation will hit home. This episode is for anyone carrying the weight of betrayal, struggling to let go, or wondering if forgiveness always means reconciliation. Sometimes healing begins when you stop trying to revive what God already told you to release.

This week Dr. Gregg Mays helps us answer the question of why people leave the faith and turn their back on God. Many people find themselves in a faith crisis. They wonder if what they believe is true. Religious doubt does not catch God by surprise.Learning to better handle faith challenges is how we grow into a right relationship with God. Foundation Scripture: John 3:36How can Agape Leaders serve you?  Please find us at:         Website:  http://www.agapeleaders.org/    LinkedIn:  https://www.linkedin.com/in/gregg-mays/      Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/agapeleaders.org     Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/agapeleaders10/    Bible Break With Agape Leaders: http://www.agapeleaders.org/daily-devotionTik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@greggmaysYouTube: https://youtube.com/channel/UCmM7ETR652mLtDSKSjda-pwGet Your Copy of the A Word Wednesday Devotion: https://www.amazon.com/s?k=A+Word+Wednesday+Devotion&ref=nav_bb_sbRead Dr. Mays' book Practical Leadership: https://www.amazon.com/s?k=practical+leadership+lessons+from+an+average+leader&crid=259U5RNS5J5W5&sprefix=Practical+Leadership%2Caps%2C102&ref=nb_sb_ss_ts-doa-p_4_20Give to ALCFM: http://www.agapeleaders.org/store/p15/Agape_Leaders_Christian_Fellowship_Ministry_Support.html

Most people who grew up in church have never actually met the real Jesus — not the real one.They've met Therapist Jesus. Political Jesus. Mascot Jesus. In this episode, we set those substitutes aside and go back to the Gospels to meet the real Jesus — the one who emptied rooms with his words, claimed to be God to his own people's faces, and ate dinner with everyone the religious establishment had written off.This is the final episode in our 3-part series:Pride Month → Hell & Judgment → The Real Jesus.In this video:

Have you ever left a church situation feeling like you couldn't quite shake it — even after time passed?In this episode, Jill sits down with a panel of three women who have all experienced some form of church hurt. But this conversation isn't about who was right or wrong. It's about what was happening inside them — the grief, the rejection, the slow shift from hurt to resentment — and what it actually took to process it without becoming someone they didn't want to be.These women are honest. One stayed at her church. One left. One was in leadership when everything fell apart. Their stories are different, but the inner work they each had to do looks more similar than you'd expect. If you've ever sat in a church pew watching someone through narrowed eyes, replaying a conversation you can't let go of, or felt like you left a church but carried it with you anyway — this episode is for you.In This Episode • What it looks like when hurt quietly shifts into seeing someone as an adversary • How three women processed church hurt in very different circumstances • Why staying and leaving can both leave things unresolved • What it means to reconcile your own heart when the other party won't • The role of community, counseling, and intentional inner work in healing • How church hurt can shape the way you trust, lead, and show up — without you realizing itKey Takeaways • You can leave a church without leaving the experience — healing requires intentional work either way • Forgiveness is a choice that doesn't require an apology to begin • The question isn't just what happened to you, but who you're becoming as a result • Processing hurt in community — not alone — makes a real difference • The pain doesn't have to write your story; God can redeem it if you let himSeries Note: This is part 3 of the Church Hurt series. Next week, the series closes with a look at the story of David and Absalom — and what it reveals about what happens when pain goes unprocessed.Keywords: church hurt healing, Christian women podcast, processing church trauma, forgiveness in the church, emotional health faith, leaving a church, church conflict recovery CLICK HERE to learn more and join me for Wholehearted live virtual workshop June 27, 10-1 pm CT.  Come by yourself or register with the women in your world. Discover ways to work with me at www.thehappiestlives.com or www.myhappyvault.comQuestions? Email Jill directly at Jill@thehappiestlives.com

Michael interviews Tim St. John about his “Freedom in Christ” session, “Building Churches that Honor and Protect,” concluding a hidden abuse track focused on identifying abuse in churches and then rebuilding healthy culture. Using a termite-damage metaphor, St. John explains that removing abuse isn't enough; churches must reinstall “beams” like sound theology of suffering and identity in Christ to promote healing and exalt Christ. He defines church hurt as unrepentant sin normalized or protected by leadership and describes three waves of pain: the direct wound, failure to address it, and loss of community. Discussing his book After Church Hurt, he addresses both sheep hurt and shepherd hurt, urges looking to Christ as the Good Shepherd, and offers practical steps including diagnosing what happened, seeking legal counsel when crimes are involved, finding experienced counseling, easing back into church, planning conversations, and evaluating church accountability and culture.00:00 Conference Intro00:41 Meet Tim St John01:24 Workshop Overview03:11 Church Hurt Defined06:11 Three Waves of Pain08:16 After Church Hurt Book08:34 Sheep and Shepherd Hurt11:30 Hope in the Good Shepherd14:53 Practical Steps Forward18:11 Closing and ResourcesEpisode ResourcesAfter Church Hurt - Tim St. John 

In this episode, the fellas discuss what is and what isn't church hurt.

Church hurt can leave lasting wounds, but what if we focused not only on healing, but also on prevention?In this episode of the Care to Change Podcast, host Mac Zambrano sits down with therapist Kyle Hopkins to discuss how pastors, ministry leaders, and church staff can cultivate healthier, safer church environments. Together, they explore common leadership blind spots, the role of accountability, and practical ways leaders can respond when harm has already occurred.Rather than approaching church hurt through blame or fear, this conversation focuses on stewardship, humility, and intentional leadership that reflects the heart of Christ.In This Episode we discuss...Common leadership blind spots that can contribute to church hurtWhy communication and transparency matter more than leaders often realizeWhat emotionally safe church cultures look likeHow leaders can respond when harm has already happenedThe difference between intent and impactHealthy accountability practices for church leadersTrauma-informed approaches to ministryPractical steps leaders can take to create safer environmentsResources for continued growth and learningResources Mentioned

Church hurt is real. And for many people, it becomes a barrier to faith, community, and healing. Whether you've experienced disappointment, betrayal, or conflict in the church, this message offers Biblical hope, practical wisdom, and an invitation to move toward restoration and deeper trust in Christ.

The New York Knicks just ended a 53-year championship drought. And Norense was in a Brooklyn bar watching strangers from every culture, background, and walk of life — hugging, crying, screaming, and celebrating together.And God used an orange basketball to teach him something about isolation, community, and why the enemy's greatest weapon isn't your past. It's getting you alone.This episode is a raw, unscripted download from Brooklyn — part testimony, part teaching, part real talk — about what happens when you stop hiding behind the pressure to have it all figured out and start actually doing life with people.From church hurt after losing his sister, to being moved to tears by a stranger who saw him clearly, to watching Jalen Brunson silence every doubter — Norense weaves it all together into one central truth: you were never meant to do this alone.In this episode:Why the enemy's greatest strategy is isolation — and how shame, hurt, and "I'm good" keep you locked in itWhat the Knicks' championship run teaches about being counted out, staying the course, and proving doubters wrong without making it about themThe danger of pseudo-vulnerability — saying how you feel without the facts to face your fightWhy "feeling, feeling, feeling" without healing is just a cycle — and how to actually break itWhat church hurt looks like, why it's real, and how to not let it become a reason to isolate from community entirelyWhy being annoyingly curious about other people is one of the most powerful spiritual practices you haveA live testimony of being prayed over by a stranger who saw him — and breaking down in tears because God used her to say I see youKey Truth: "The enemy fights in isolation. There's no condemnation in Christ Jesus — so step in, show up, and stop letting shame keep you small."Key Verse: Hebrews 10:25 — Not forsaking the assembling of ourselves together, as the manner of some is, but exhorting one another.If this episode hit you:Rate and review the Mind Bully Podcast — it helps more homes and hearts find this message.

Carl Tinnion is an Anglican minister and former YWAM leader with a heart for creativity, imagination, and genuine community in the Church. In this episode, he opens up about his passion for those who've been hurt or disillusioned — and what it looks like to find true belonging in the Body of Christ.For more content from Carl:The Creative Word Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/6DhgmTY4nlkEyuxu5fUbhz?si=ef4b365948a74c90 YouTube Channel - Heavenly Nosh:youtube.com/@heavenlynosh44Find out more about YWAM Furnace below

In John 10, Jesus speaks of thieves, robbers and hirelings that harass his sheep. But he promises us as the Good Shepherd that he will never quit fighting for his flock! If you've ever been wounded by others (especially people inside the church), today's message from pastor Dan will bring you hope and healing! -- GIVE: Visit www.connectcalgary.ca/give to help share #LifeOverflowing across Canada.

What happens when the very place meant to bring healing becomes the source of pain? In this final message of The Tough Stuff series, we explore one of the most uncomfortable topics in the church: church hurt. Drawing from Ezekiel 34 and the Gospel of John, Vicar Alex unpacks the image of the shepherd and what it reveals about leadership, accountability, and the danger of entitlement in the pews. The sobering truth is that church hurt doesn't only come from the top, it can come from any one of us. Whether you've been wounded by the church or wonder if you've ever been the one doing the wounding, this message invites honest reflection. And for those carrying that pain, there is a word of hope: the church at its best is a place where the wounded are are welcomed. Jesus is the Good Shepherd, and he is still in charge.

Church hurt can leave deep wounds that impact trust, relationships, and faith. In this episode, counselor and previous pastor, Mac Zambrano and Sherry Follett, Life Coach and prior church staff member, share practical insight on the healing process, including the role of grief, common misconceptions about recovery, and how to begin rebuilding trust with God and others.You'll learn why healing takes time, the difference between forgiveness and trust, how spiritual bypassing can cause additional harm, and three practical steps to begin moving forward. If you've experienced spiritual wounds, this conversation offers hope, encouragement, and a reminder that healing is possible.Resources Mentioned:The Lord Is My Courage by K.J. RamseyGentle and Lowly by Dane OrtlundWhen the Church Harms God's People by Diane LangbergLearn more at Care to Change.

Have you ever been in a church situation where something felt off, raised it, and had it go nowhere — and now you're trying to understand why?You can't have an honest conversation about church hurt without looking at leadership. The structure around leaders and the humanity inside them shapes everything. In this episode Jill starts with something that sounds obvious but rarely gets said honestly — pastors are human. Fully, vulnerably human. And when that reality doesn't have the right support around it, things drift. Slowly. In ways nobody sees coming.Jill walks through what church structure was actually designed to look like, what Scripture says about accountability in leadership, and what the story of Saul teaches us about how good people with real callings end up somewhere nobody intended.In This Episode•Why leadership is lonely in ways most congregations never see•What the New Testament actually says about church structure and accountability•How gradual drift happens — and why it's harder to catch than outright failure•Why the contrast between Saul and David is the most important part of the story•What “if you don't choose humility you will be humbled” looks like in real lifeKey Takeaways•The structure around a leader exists to protect them — not limit them•Drift looks like a series of small reasonable decisions until suddenly it doesn't•Scripture cares more about what happens after failure than whether failure happened•Anointed doesn't mean infallibleSeries NotePart 2 of the Church Hurt series.Keywordschurch hurt, pastor leadership, church accountability, spiritual drift, toxic church, Christian leadership CLICK HERE to learn more and join me for Wholehearted live virtual workshop June 27, 10-1 pm CT.  Come by yourself or register with the women in your world. Discover ways to work with me at www.thehappiestlives.com or www.myhappyvault.comQuestions? Email Jill directly at Jill@thehappiestlives.com

This week, Jess is joined by Kate Willsey, spiritual trauma therapist and coach, for a conversation about church hurt, religious trauma, and spiritual manipulation. We explore why spiritual wounds can run so deep, how people can begin healing after painful church experiences, and what churches can do to become healthier places of grace, safety, and restoration. Whether you've experienced church hurt yourself or want to better understand those who have, this conversation offers practical wisdom and hope.DISCLAIMER: The views and opinions expressed in this podcast are those of the cast members and guests. They do not necessarily reflect the official position of Christ Community Church.

In this episode, Brant Hansen argues that holding onto offense is killing us - spiritually, physically, and relationally. He had to decide whether the offense he experienced as a young person should be held on to or if he should release it. It led him to a simple, uncomfortable conclusion: righteous human anger doesn't exist in scripture, and the anger we carry, however justified it feels, is not what faithful people are called to hold. We talk about forgiveness, hypocrisy in the church, and what Jesus actually intended when he told us to love our enemies.Brant is an author of several bestselling books, including Unoffendable, and a syndicated radio host on more than 200 stations. His podcast, “The Brant and Sherri Oddcast” has more than 20 million downloads. He's been featured many times on outlets like Focus on the Family, Family Life Today, and Good Morning America.Brant and wife Carolyn live in South Florida. His latest book, Living Unoffended releases June 9.Brant's Book:Living UnoffendedBrant's Recommendation:The Matter With ThingsConnect with Joshua: jjohnson@shiftingculturepodcast.comGo to www.shiftingculturepodcast.com to interact and donate. Every donation helps to produce more podcasts for you to enjoy.Follow on Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, Threads, Bluesky or YouTubeSupport the podcast and the ministry that my wife and I do around the world. Just click on the support the show link below Support the show

Witness the dramatic and untold story of Malchus, the temple servant, as he encounters Jesus in the Garden of Gethsemane and experiences an unexpected miracle.Explore Malchus' journey from skepticism to faith, as he grapples with the power of Jesus' compassion and the profound impact it has on his life amidst the chaos of betrayal and violence.Today's Bible verse is Mattew 26:52 from the King James Version.Download the Pray.com app for more Christian content including, Daily Prayers, Inspirational Testimonies, and Bedtime Bible Stories.Pray.com is the digital destination for faith. With over 5,000 daily prayers, meditations, bedtime stories, and cinematic stories inspired by the Bible, the Pray.com app has everything you need to keep your focus on the Lord. Make Prayer a priority and download the #1 App for Prayer and Sleep today in the Apple app store or Google Play store. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Why is church hurt so hard to sort through—even when you're trying to approach it thoughtfully?In this episode, Jill begins a new series exploring the complexity of disappointment and tension within church communities. Not every situation is clear-cut. Sometimes something feels off, but there isn't full agreement on what's right or wrong—and that's where it becomes difficult to process.Rather than rushing to conclusions, this episode slows things down and looks at what may be happening underneath the experience. Jill walks through why these situations feel heavier than other types of conflict, why it's hard to talk about concerns without feeling like you're causing division, and how quickly our interpretations can start to shape what we believe is true.This episode isn't about assigning blame or figuring out who's right. It's about understanding the layers—so you can respond with more clarity, humility, and steadiness.In This Episode:Why church experiences often carry more emotional and spiritual weightThe tension between wanting to be careful and needing to process something that doesn't sit rightHow internal processing can shift into certainty without realizing itWhy these situations are rarely as simple as they first appearThe layers involved: leadership, culture, interpretation, and your own internal responseKey Takeaways:Church hurt often feels heavier because it involves trust, belonging, and shared faithNot every situation is clear—many involve differing perspectives rather than obvious right and wrongIt's possible to move too quickly toward silence or certainty without fully understanding what's happeningSlowing down your thinking creates space for clarity and wisdomYou don't have to resolve everything immediately to begin moving forward thoughtfullySeries Note:This episode is part of a four-part series on church hurt. In the coming weeks, we'll look more closely at leadership, hear from women who have walked through these experiences, and explore how to process what's happening in your own heart.Keywords:church hurt, Christian relationships, church conflict, spiritual discernment, emotional processing, Christian growth, navigating disappointment, faith and relationships, church leadership, Christian mindset CLICK HERE to learn more and join me for Wholehearted live virtual workshop June 27, 10-1 pm CT.  Come by yourself or register with the women in your world. Discover ways to work with me at www.thehappiestlives.com or www.myhappyvault.comQuestions? Email Jill directly at Jill@thehappiestlives.com

Send us Fan MailYes, you heard that right — the podcast has a new name.After six years of conversations about faith, church, doubt, deconstruction, theology, scandals, strange ideas, and all the questions people are often afraid to ask out loud, we're stepping into a new season as Discount Disciples.In this short intro episode, Evan, Jesse, and Jen talk about why the name changed, what is staying the same, and who this podcast is for. The conversations will still be honest, raw, thoughtful, funny, and occasionally uncomfortable — but the focus is expanding beyond deconstruction into what it might look like to reconstruct faith in a healthier, humbler way.We're not experts. We're not shiny. We're not new. But we're still here — scuffs, dents, questions, and all.If you're in church, out of church, church-adjacent, doubting, deconstructing, reconstructing, or just trying to figure out what you believe now, this podcast is probably for you.We're glad you're here!Support the show––––––––If this podcast has been helpful to you, share it with someone who is asking hard questions about faith, church, doubt, or what comes next.BUY US A DRINKhttps://www.paypal.com/paypalme/ChristianAFPodcastBE A MONTHLY SUPPORTERhttps://www.buzzsprout.com/1019536/supportLINKS AND SOCIAL MEDIAFacebook  •  InstagramEmail: discountdisciplespod@gmail.com

If you have ever felt forced to hide your face while crying at church, or wondered if your deep grief means you lack spiritual maturity, please know you are not alone. Today, author Brittany Lee Allen opens up her heart about surviving three miscarriages in a single year, only to face heavy spiritual judgment and manipulation in the midst of her profound sorrow.We often internalize the painful lie that a strong Christian must never look downcast or broken. But true joy isn't about wearing a fake smile; it is a gift of the Holy Spirit that can coexist with your deepest lament. Jesus Himself was a man of sorrows who wept openly, and He cares about every single piece of your broken heart. Lean in and find permission to pour out your raw soul before a Father who stores your precious tears in His bottle.Scripture: “You keep track of all my sorrows. You have collected all my tears in your bottle. You have recorded each one in your book.” — Psalm 56:8 For more information about this ministry go to the website: www.thecallwithnancysabato.com

Joshua Noel engages in a profound dialogue with Christian Ashley, delving into the intricate and often painful subject of Church Hurt. The conversation unfolds with Christian recounting his personal experiences of disillusionment within the church, yet emphasizes his unwavering commitment to a more conservative Christian tradition. This episode serves as a poignant exploration of how individuals can grapple with their faith amidst adversity, illustrating that the journey through hurt can lead to a more resilient belief system. We further examine the complexities of maintaining faith in a community that may harbor imperfections, asserting that personal convictions can remain steadfast even when faced with challenges. Ultimately, this discourse invites listeners to reflect on their own journeys and encourages a thoughtful engagement with the nuances of faith and community. The dialogue between Joshua Noel and Christian Ashley unfolds with a profound exploration of Church Hurt, delving into Christian's personal experiences and steadfast adherence to a conservative Christian tradition despite the adversities faced. The conversation encompasses an examination of the complexities inherent in the interactions within church communities, particularly those that cause emotional and spiritual distress. Christian articulately describes the dynamics of his involvement with various churches, emphasizing the pivotal role of leadership in shaping congregational experiences. He recounts his formative years in the Southern Baptist Church, where early spiritual awakening was marred by challenges in church leadership, particularly under figures who exhibited a lack of nurturing and understanding. Through his reflections, he elucidates the notion that true leadership within the church should foster growth and healing, rather than perpetuate feelings of inadequacy and bitterness. As the discussion progresses, the conversation navigates through broader themes of church culture and the importance of addressing church hurt with grace and humility. Both speakers engage in a critical analysis of the current state of the church, addressing how institutional failures can lead to disillusionment among congregants. Christian emphasizes the necessity for churches to prioritize genuine community and support, advocating for an approach that embraces vulnerability and authenticity. In advocating for a return to foundational Christian teachings, he posits that the essence of faith lies not in the perfection of its adherents, but in the unwavering grace of Christ that calls for reconciliation amidst human fallibility. This episode serves as a clarion call for greater empathy and understanding within church contexts, challenging listeners to reflect on their roles in fostering unity and healing within their communities.Takeaways:Christian Ashley articulates how his experiences with Church Hurt have shaped his faith journey and commitment to a conservative Christian tradition.The podcast discusses the importance of acknowledging church hurt while still striving for personal healing and community involvement.Listeners are encouraged to seek supportive church communities that prioritize love and understanding in the face of adversity.Joshua Noel and Christian Ashley emphasize that church hurt is often a complex interplay of personal experiences rather than a singular traumatic event.The conversation highlights the necessity of forgiveness in the Christian faith, even in the wake of painful experiences within the church.Both speakers reflect on the significance of questioning and reconstructing faith as a healthy part of spiritual growth..You can leave a donation, buy podcast merchandise, check out previous series that we've done, or become an official member of The Whole Church Podcast on our website:https://the-whole-church-podcast-shop.fourthwall.com/.Check out all of the other shows in the Anazao Podcast Network and find merch to support some of your favorite podcasts on the network's website:https://anazao-podcasts-shop.fourthwall.com/.Listen to Christian Ashley on Let Nothing Move You:https://let-nothing-move-you.captivate.fm/listen.Check out Christian's book, "Lost Time":https://www.starvingwritersguild.com/product/lost-time-paperback-/42?cp=true&sa=true&sbp=false&q=false.Read Andy Walsh's book, "Faith across the Multiverse: Parables from Modern Science":https://a.co/d/0byzgeQV.Hear more from Joshua on Be Living Water:https://be-living-water.captivate.fm/listen

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What if refuge was something you practiced?In this conversation, John Ortberg talks with therapist and trauma specialist Lisa Cuss about anxiety, church hurt, attachment theory, the nervous system, and Psalm 31.Lisa shares how reading the Psalms through the lens of the nervous system helped her understand David's prayers in a completely new way. His cries of fear, confusion, and desperation suddenly felt deeply human and surprisingly familiar.This episode explores:- Trauma and attachment theory- Church hurt and emotional healing- Psalm 31 and the image of refuge- Why God is called a fortress- Right-sizing reality through prayer- Making refuge an active spiritual practiceFeaturing reflections on:- David's prayers- The nervous system- Martin Luther- A Mighty Fortress Is Our God#Psalm31 #JohnOrtberg #LisaCuss #Prayer #Trauma #AttachmentTheory #SpiritualFormation #ChristianFaith #Anxiety #Psalms

This week on the Connect Podcast, Pastor Cole continues the conversation from our Holy ER message on Healing from Church Hurt by looking at Acts 15 and the Jerusalem Council. Church conflict is not new, but Acts 15 shows us how God's people can handle hard conversations without losing sight of the gospel. In this episode, Pastor Cole talks about legalism, unnecessary barriers, healthy confrontation, unity, and how churches can protect people from deeper wounds by dealing with problems in a biblical way.This episode explores how churches can handle conflict biblically to prevent and heal church hurt. It emphasizes the importance of unity, truth, grace, and addressing issues directly to foster a healthy church environment.Keywordschurch conflict, church hurt, biblical conflict resolution, unity in church, gospel, Acts 15, church leadership, grace and truth, church community, healing in churchKey topicsChurch conflict managementBiblical conflict resolution in Acts 15The importance of unity and truth in churchHow legalism and traditions hinder the gospelAddressing church problems before they growChapters00:00 Introduction to Church Hurt and Community Engagement02:18 Understanding Church Conflict and Its Necessity05:13 The Simplicity of the Gospel and Legalism08:25 Removing Barriers to Faith11:19 The Balance of Grace and Truth14:13 Addressing Conflict in the Church17:04 The Importance of Healthy Confrontation20:20 Unity in Diversity and Moving Forward23:12 Conclusion: Healing and Focus on the Mission

This week on the Connect Podcast, Pastor Cole continues the conversation from our Holy ER message on Healing from Church Hurt by looking at Acts 15 and the Jerusalem Council. Church conflict is not new, but Acts 15 shows us how God's people can handle hard conversations without losing sight of the gospel. In this episode, Pastor Cole talks about legalism, unnecessary barriers, healthy confrontation, unity, and how churches can protect people from deeper wounds by dealing with problems in a biblical way.This episode explores how churches can handle conflict biblically to prevent and heal church hurt. It emphasizes the importance of unity, truth, grace, and addressing issues directly to foster a healthy church environment. Keywordschurch conflict, church hurt, biblical conflict resolution, unity in church, gospel, Acts 15, church leadership, grace and truth, church community, healing in church Key TopicsChurch conflict managementBiblical conflict resolution in Acts 15The importance of unity and truth in churchHow legalism and traditions hinder the gospelAddressing church problems before they grow Chapters00:00 Introduction to Church Hurt and Community Engagement02:18 Understanding Church Conflict and Its Necessity05:13 The Simplicity of the Gospel and Legalism08:25 Removing Barriers to Faith11:19 The Balance of Grace and Truth14:13 Addressing Conflict in the Church17:04 The Importance of Healthy Confrontation20:20 Unity in Diversity and Moving Forward23:12 Conclusion: Healing and Focus on the Mission

Church hurt is a phrase we hear often, but what does it actually mean? For many people, the pain goes far beyond a difficult church experience. It can involve betrayal, spiritual manipulation, rejection, abuse of authority, or wounds that impact someone's relationship with faith, community, and even God.In this episode, Mac Zambrano and April Bordeau explore what church hurt really looks like, why spiritual wounds can cut so deeply, and how people can begin healing without minimizing their experiences. Whether you've personally experienced church hurt or want to better understand someone who has, this conversation offers insight, validation, and hope.Key TakeawaysChurch hurt is real, and its impact can extend far beyond a specific congregation or leader. Healing often begins by honestly naming the wound, seeking safe support, and allowing space to process the pain without shame or pressure. While harmful experiences can distort a person's view of faith and community, healing and restoration remain possible.ResourcesIf you are struggling with the effects of church hurt, spiritual abuse, or faith-related trauma, reaching out to a licensed mental health professional can be an important step toward healing.Learn more about Care to Change and connect with a counselor at:www.caretochange.orgConnect With UsIf this episode encouraged you, please subscribe, leave a review, and share it with someone who may benefit from the conversation.Because healing begins when we know we're not alone.

Check us out: https://www.determinetruth.com What happens when the place that was supposed to feel spiritually safe becomes the source of deep pain? In this episode of the Determined Truth Podcast, we continue our conversation on religious trauma, spiritual abuse, PTSD, and moral injury with licensed trauma clinician Eric Winton. Together, we explore: The difference between church hurt, religious trauma, and moral injury Why some people struggle to even walk into a church building How trauma impacts the brain, emotions, relationships, and faith The danger of minimizing deep wounds with clichés like “just forgive and move on” Why healing often requires both safe community and trained professional help What pastors and church leaders need to understand about trauma-informed care How churches can become places of compassion instead of additional harm Why there is still real hope and healing after spiritual abuse This is an honest, nuanced, and compassionate conversation for: Pastors and church leaders Survivors of spiritual abuse or religious trauma Christians wrestling with deconstruction Anyone trying to understand PTSD, trauma, shame, and healing within faith communities If this conversation resonates with you, know this: you are not weak, crazy, or alone. Healing is possible.

Today's Scripture: Hebrews 10:24–25 **Today's devotional is in response to listener requests.** If you've ever heard “do not give up meeting together” and felt guilt rise in your body, this episode is for you. In today's reflection on Hebrews 10:24–25, Dr. Alison offers a compassionate look at church hurt, spiritual community, and why this passage was never meant to be used as a weapon. We explore: *How church hurt and religious trauma can shape your nervous system *Signs of an unhealthy community *How to discern a healthy spiritual community *How to take slow, wise steps toward connection after religious harm Go Deeper: Episode 17: What is Church Hurt and How do I Heal? Episode 163: Healing Spiritual Wounds – Understanding Abuse in Faith Spaces with Rachael Clinton Chen Episode 153: Embodied Healing, Spiritual Trauma, and the Journey Home to Your Body with Dr. Hillary McBride Connect with Dr. Alison on Instagram: @dralisoncook Join 80,000+ Soul Menders in Dr. Alison's free email community for ongoing reflection and support. While Dr. Cook is a counselor, the content of this podcast and any of the products provided by Dr. Cook are not specific counseling advice nor are they a substitute for individual counseling. The content and products provided on this podcast are for informational purposes only.‍ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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Jinger and Jeremy Vuolo join Dr. Will Cole for a conversation that goes far deeper than anyone planned - in the best possible way. They share how they met through a sister's scheme and a missions trip to Honduras, what it was like to navigate the Duggar family's courtship process as an outsider, and how listening to 60-plus hours of Bill Gothard's teachings together cracked open everything Jinger had been raised to believe. They talk about church hurt, the difference between false teachers and God himself, what Jinger's book Becoming Free Indeed cost her to write, and how living under rule-based faith can quietly masquerade as real belief. Plus: feeding 19 kids, the industrial kitchen, the strangers who stayed at their house, and the guest who stole Jinger's diary. For all links mentioned in this episode, visit www.drwillcole.com/podcast.Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode.Sponsors:For a limited time, Prolon is offering listeners 15% off site wide plus a $40 bonus gift when you subscribe to their 5-Day Program! Just visit ProlonLife.com/WILLCOLE!Get a free 8-count Sample Pack of LMNT's most popular drink mix flavors with any purchase at drinklmnt.com/artofbeingwell.Get up to 40% off your order at betterwild.com/willcole.Head to MANUKORA.com/WILLCOLE to save up to 31% plus $25 worth of free gift swith the Starter Kit, which comes with an MGO 850+ Manuka Honey jar, 5 honey travel sticks, a wooden spoon, and a guidebook. Use code WILLCOLE at puori.com/WILLCOLE to get 32% off Puori Grass-fed Whey Protein when you start a subscription. In addition, you get a free shaker worth $25!Produced by Dear Media.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.