Uncommon Motherhood

Equilibrar a maternidade já não é fácil agora imagine adicionar ministério pastoral na mistura? Hoje nós trazemos a vocês esta entrevista super doce e incrível com esta mãe linda, que na maioria de sua vida trabalhava no ministério na igreja. Conversamos sobre como ela equilibra a vida da maternidade e da igreja. Esperamos que você goste deste episódio e não se esqueça de se inscrever e compartilhar! Até a próxima Debby e Lilly Siga-nos nas redes sociais @uncommonmotherhood @debbyoliveira @lilianfesteves

Have you ever wondered what it means parenting from a father's perspective? As a mom we see more resources for us Mom's but not alot from dads? Why? And how can we change that? In today's interview we spoke to an awesome dad that shared with us all about Fatherhood. How his experience was from the pregnancy of his wife to raising his beautiful kids and to tips for us moms on how to unify with the dads in our lives. We hope you guys enjoy the podcast as much as we enjoyed recording this episode. As always don't forget to like, share and comment but also leave us a review. Till next time Debby and Lilly Follow us on social media @uncommonmotherhood @debbyoliveira @lilianfesteves

Você é uma mãe empreendedora? Você tem seu próprio negócio e é mãe chefe? Este episódio de hoje é para você. Tivemos o prazer de entrevistar essa mamãe a @pattyfranczak que não apenas ensina em casa, mas também tem seu negócio de muito sucesso. Aprofundamos em como mãe e esposa, podemos ter algo pelo qual somos apaixonadas por ao mesmo tempo sendo uma mãe que ensina em casa. Este podcast é precioso com muitos momentos especiais que temos certeza que serão incríveis para você. Esperamos que você goste deste episódio e não se esqueça de se inscrever e compartilhar! Até a próxima Debby e Lilly Siga-nos nas redes sociais @uncommonmotherhood @debbyoliveira @lilianfesteves

Ever wondered what it was like being pregnant during a pandemic or you were pregnant during the pandemic? Did you feel alone and worried of what was going to happen next as you brought your sweet joy into the world? Well you are not alone, on today's Podcast we have the pleasure of interviewing our great friend Emeline mostly known as Emmy. In this amazing interview Emmy shared her experience on pregnancy during these crazy times, the struggles, the fear and also the many joys of bringing a new baby into the family. We hope you guys enjoy the podcast as much as we enjoyed recording this episode. As always don't forget to like, share and comment but also leave us a review. Till next time Debby and Lilly Follow us on social media @uncommonmotherhood @debbyoliveira @lilianfesteves

Sejamos honestos, esses tempos que vivemos não têm sido fácil para ninguém. Agora, como país, nosso objetivo é manter nossos filhos informados sobre o que é necessário, mas principalmente para aproveitar a vida e estar em paz. Hoje compartilhamos nossas visões sobre este tema quente. Você não está sozinho e entendemos que manter sua posição nem sempre é fácil. Vamos ficar juntos com amor e respeito um pelo outro. Esperamos que você goste deste episódio e não se esqueça de se inscrever e compartilhar! Até a próxima Debby e Lilly Siga-nos nas redes sociais @uncommonmotherhood @debbyoliveira @lilianfesteves

Let's be honest these times we are currently living have not been easy on anyone. Now as a parent our goal is to keep our little ones informed with what's needed but mainly to enjoy their life and be at peace. Today we share our views on this hot topic with respect to each person's opinion but also sharing our values. You are not alone and we understand that standing your ground is not always easy. Let's stand together with love and respect for one another. We hope you enjoy this episode and don't forget to subscribe and share! Till next time Debbi and Lilly Follow us on social media @uncommonmotherhood @debbyoliveira @lilianfesteves

É essa época do ano novamente. O verão acabou e as aulas estão prestes a começar. Enquanto Debby e Lilly estão se preparando para este novo ano letivo, elas compartilham o que farão de maneira diferente e como estão se preparando para este novo ano. Confie em nós, nada permanece igual e algumas coisas precisam ser eliminadas e outras precisam ser melhoradas. Venha e junte-se a nós neste ano letivo, enquanto fazemos aulas em casa juntos. Esperamos que você goste deste episódio e não se esqueça de se inscrever e compartilhar! Até a próxima Debby e Lilly Siga-nos nas redes sociais @uncommonmotherhood @debbyoliveira @lilianfesteves

It's that time of the year again...Summer is over and school is about to start. As Debbie and Lilly are preparing for this new school year they share what they are going to do differently and how they are preparing themself for this new year. Trust us nothing stays the same and some things need to go and others to be improved upon. Come and join this school year with us as we do homeschool together. GatherRound Homeschool is the Curriculum we use and for Math we will be trying out this year Teaching Texbooks We hope you enjoy this episode and don't forget to subscribe and share! Till next time Debbi and Lilly Follow us on social media @uncommonmotherhood @debbyoliveira @lilianfesteves

Você já esteve em uma loja e seu filho quer um daqueles chocolates/doces e ele ainda não comeu nada, e como uma boa mãe, você diz não a eles e então eles começam com a birra ... Agora você tem uma criança chorando e gritando no chão do supermercado e você pensa AGORA O QUE ?? TODOS nós ja tivemos que lidar com isso pelo menos uma vez ... No episódio de hoje, compartilhamos algumas dicas de como lidamos com isso, e com o crescimento deles o que estamos aprendendo mais sobre esses comportamentos e o que ajuda! Esperamos que você goste deste episódio e não se esqueça de se inscrever e compartilhar! Até a próxima Debby e Lilly Siga-nos nas redes sociais @uncommonmotherhood @debbyoliveira @lilianfesteves

Have you ever been in a store and your child wants one of those chocolate/candy and they haven't had any food yet, and as a good mother you tell them no and then all hell breaks loose… Now you have a child crying and screaming on the floor of the supermarket and you think NOW WHAT?? We ALL have had to deal with that at least once… On today's episode we share some tips on how we dealt with that and how as they grow we have learned more about those behaviors and what helps. We hope you enjoy this episode and don't forget to subscribe and share! Till next time Debby and Lilly Follow us on social media @uncommonmotherhood @debbyoliveira @lilianfesteves

Você é uma dona de casa que também trabalha em casa? Então este podcast é para você. Debbie e Lilly compartilham um pouco de sua experiência como empresárias que também estão ficando em casa em tempo integral com seus filhos. Trabalhar em casa já pode ser um desafio e você adiciona crianças à mistura…. Essa é uma receita que pode ser um desastre. Agora, não desanime, este podcast vai lhe dar algumas dicas sobre como "equilibrar" a vida da mãe e trabalho. Esperamos que gostem deste episódio. Não se esqueça de se inscrever e compartilhar!

When it is too much screen time for our kids Our Kids are born into the world of technology. Having a screen is all they know, they are born knowing to use a smartphone. Today's podcast we talk about how we handle our kids screen time access and how we have been using to help them ( and let's be honest us mommies too). We hope you enjoy this episode and don't forget to subscribe and share! Till next time Debby and Lilly Follow us on social media @uncommonmotherhood @debbyoliveira @lilianfesteves

Todos nós sabemos que a saúde física é muito importante, mas como isso afeta a forma como somos pais e nossa vida como mães!? Hoje nós compartilhamos como nossa saúde física afetou a forma como somos pais e como mudou nossa visão da maternidade, desta forma incomum sobre como amamos e aprendemos como a saúde física nos ajuda a ser uma pessoa melhor, não apenas para nós mesmos, mas para aquelas pessoas estão ao nosso redor. Livro mencionado: The Joy of Movement de Kelly McGonigal Siga-nos nas redes sociais @debbyoliveira @lilianfesteves

Are you a stay at home mom that also work from home? Then this podcast is for you. Debbie and Lilly share a little bit of their experience as business woman that are also are staying at home full time with their kids. Working from home can already be challenging and you add children to the mix…. Now that's a recipe that could be a disaster. Now don't feel discourage this podcast will give you some tips on how to “balance” work mom life. We hope you guys enjoy this episode. Don't forget to subscribe and share! Debbie and Lilly Uncommon Motherhood Follow us on social media @uncommonmotherhood @debbyoliveira @lilianfesteves

Se você é mãe ou está grávida, temos certeza de que você já encontrou uma pessoa que tentou te envergonhar. Acreditamos que, especialmente porque nossa vida está muito nas redes sociais, recebemos muito mais críticas. Desde quando você está grávida até o tamanho da sua barriga, sua escolha do jeito que vai ser seu parto e como você vai educar seu filho. Todas nós já passamos por isso. Hoje, Lilly e Debby compartilham algumas das histórias sobre como foram julgadas pelas suas escolhas de mãe e como lidaram com isso. Esperamos que você goste deste episódio e não se esqueça de se inscrever e compartilhar! The OliVes Framily Siga-nos nas redes sociais @uncommonmotherhood @debbyoliveira @lilianfesteves

Should kids share a room together? Should a boy and a girl share a room together? Well in today's podcast we are going to be talking about our decision of separating our kids room, how the transition was and why we choose to do it now. Follow our Social Media @uncommonmotherhood @debbyoliveira @lilianfesteves

Não existe criança que se comporte mal. Na verdade, há uma criança que está tentando comunicar seus sentimentos e querendo a atenção dos pais. No episódio de hoje Debbie e eu compartilhamos como reconhecemos quando eles estão precisando de nossa atenção, também o que está se comportando mal e como o vencemos. Não se esqueça de se inscrever e compartilhar! The OliVes Framily Siga-nos nas redes sociais @uncommonmotherhood @debbyoliveira @lilianfesteves

Sitting at the table to have at least one meal together as a family is super important. It isn't just about food, but most importantly about bonding as a family, giving your kids a sense of stability, learning more about communication and an opportunity to inforce what we have learned throughout our day. Today's episode we share how it has been important and life changing to have at least one meal where we sit together at the table. We hope you guys enjoy this episode. Don't forget to subscribe and share! The OliVes Framily Follow us on social media @uncommonmotherhood @debbyoliveira @lilianfesteves

Woman who has impacted our lives. Mother is a special kind of human. You are constantly giving, learning, teaching, growing, changing, being a rock, being a doctor, being a therapist and being the secure port for someone. Mothers are amazing and have the capability to transform a room and a home. On this special podcast we wanted to take some time to honor the amazing mothers who have inspired us.

You know the saying Mums know best? In today's episode Debbie and Lilian talk about those saying that our moms would say but are not technically true. We hope you guys enjoy this episode. Don't forget to subscribe and share! The OliVes Framily Follow us on social media @uncommonmotherhood @debbyoliveira @lilianfesteves

Today's Podcast is a super fun and loud one! We wanted to introduce to you guys our husbands. We wanted to share how special they are and in an interview show a little bit of their personality and their awesomeness. We had the absolute blast recording it and we hope you do as well. Don't forget to subscribe and share! The OliVes Framily Follow us on social media @uncommonmotherhood @debbyoliveira @lilianfesteves

When I became a mom I will be able to do all the things I used to do!!! I will travel, I'll take care of myself and I will accomplish everything!!! Even though these statements are true and they would be lovely to accomplish they go out the door when your baby is in your arms. There's never enough preparation, books read or even a list will prepare you for what it actually is. Today's episode is funny as we recall the things we thought we knew before becoming a mother. We hope you guys enjoy this episode. Don't forget to subscribe and share! The OliVes Framily Follow us on social media @uncommonmotherhood @debbyoliveira @lilianfesteves

Love at first sight? When did we know they were the one? Proposal? Today's episode we shared funny memories of how we met them. It was a special episode to remember how we met and we even talked about how we knew they were the one and our proposal story. We hope you guys enjoy this episode as much as we did recording it. Don't forget to subscribe and share! The OliVes Framily Follow us on social media @uncommonmotherhood @debbyoliveira @lilianfesteves

If you are mom or even pregnant we are pretty sure you have encountered mom shaming. We believe that especially since our life being so much on social media we receive a lot more criticism. From how you are as a pregnant woman to the size of your belly, to your birth choice to how you parent your child. We have all been through it. Today Lilly and Debby share some of the stories about mom shaming and how they reacted to that and how they dealt with it. We hope you enjoy this episode and don't forget to subscribe and share! The OliVes Framily Follow us on social media @uncommonmotherhood @debbyoliveira @lilianfesteves

Você está louca? Só gente maluca trabalha na sua saúde mental !!!! Essa afirmação não pode estar mais longe da verdade. Nesse episódio de hoje, Lilly e Debbie, compartilharam em profundidade sobre suas jornadas em torno da saúde mental e também como na maternidade elas se beneficiaram muito em começar esse processo. Trabalhar na sua saúde mental não só beneficia você, mas também atinge todos os membros da sua família. Saúde mental e maternidade é algo que não se fala muito em conjunto e queríamos conscientizá-lo de que você não está sozinho e que não precisa chegar a um lugar escuro para começar a ser o melhor de si mesmo. Vamos trabalhar juntos em nossa saúde mental. Você não está sozinho e podemos melhorar juntas. We hope you enjoy this episode and don't forget to subscribe and share! The OliVes Framily Follow us on social media @uncommonmotherhood @debbyoliveira @lilianfesteves

In order to be a good parent we need to find tools to help us stay sane, especially during winter times here in our state. Not only we are with our kids 24/7 it is also winter time and in today's episode we shared activities and ideas we use to help us stay sane and keep the little ones busy. We hope you enjoy this episode and don't forget to subscribe and share! The OliVes Framily Follow us on social media @uncommonmotherhood @debbyoliveira @lilianfesteves

Have you ever heard the quote that says ‘You are what you feed yourself”? That doesn't only go for food you feed your body that also goes with what you feed your mind. Books are so important in our personal growth, it's important to learn from people's past experience, their wisdom and also their expertise. It's by using someone's expertise you become better at what you are trying to achieve. Today we share books that have been life changing. Books that have shifted our views and open our mind to even more growth. What is a book that has been life changing? We hope you enjoy this episode and don't forget to subscribe and share! The OliVes Framily Follow us on social media @uncommonmotherhood @debbyoliveira @lilianfesteves

Ensino em casa é para hippies! Eu não sou capaz de ensinar ninguém! Não tenho paciência para educar meu filho em casa! Eu não sou professora! Essas são perguntas e afirmações que nós mesmo já dissemos. Mas aqui estamos para compartilhar com vocês como chegamos ao ponto de tomar essa decisão e como tem sido para nós. O ensino em casa pode ser uma jornada muito solitária, então vamos seguir esse caminho juntas? Mesmo que você não dê ensino em casa, esperamos que este episódio possa lhe dar uma ideia de como é e também para que possamos ter um sistema de apoio para ajudarmos umas as outras. Acredito também que mesmo que você só esteja fazendo aprendizagem remota esse episódio pode lhe trazer uma luz e paz de como ajudar nossa crianças nesta fase de mudança

Interviewing our 4 year old was the most fun episode to record, they are just honest and truthful with their feelings and views. Lilly and Debby are on this journey of bettering themselves and have learned to learn from our little ones. There is so much we can learn from them such as, never losing our inner child, to be adventurous, to have fun, take risk, enjoy life but also to love and pursue our dreams. What are we learning from them? Are you learning from them? We hope you enjoy this episode as much as we did recording it. The OliVes Framily Follow us on social media @debbyoliveira @lilianfesteves

What a blessing it is to see purity in the world through kids eyes. We thought it would be so much to see life through our 6 years old kids. We set down to interview our kids and get their perspective in life and also so you guys could get to know Isaac and Jacob a little more. We hope you enjoy this episode and made you laugh a little, and don't forget to subscribe and share! The OliVes Framily Follow us on social media @debbyoliveira @lilianfesteves

As we start the new year it's always important for us to look back, take time to reflect on lessons we have learned, the blessings that have occurred, the challenges we have overcome. Debbie and Lilly share how they have grown, changed, accomplished and learned from this crazy year 2020. They also share what are their goals for 2021 and what they are looking forward to accomplishing in this new year. A new year always creates new opportunities and also challenges! We hope you enjoy this episode and don't forget to share with us on our social media what are some of the blessings you have received in 2020!

Today's episode starts out with a rant from Debbie and Lilly while on their family getaway. While planning a family vacation can be stressful enough on its own, imagine going away with another family of 4. That can be hectic!!!!! Debbie and Lilly's family all combined is a total of 8 people, all different, different likes and wishes, well if you ever plan on going away with another family don't worry we got you covered, with today's episode with tips and tricks we have used to make the best family vacation ever!!!! Ready to learn tips and tricks to having the best time ever? Listen up!!! The OliVes Framily Follow us on social media @debbyoliveira @lilianfesteves

Are you crazy? Only crazy people work on their mental health!!!! That statement can not be further than the truth. Today's episode Lily and Debbie shared in depth about their journey around Mental health, how in their motherhood journey it has benefited them in great length. Working on your mental health does not only benefits you,but it trickles down to every family member of your household. Mental health and motherhood is something that is not very talked about. Together and we wanted to bring awareness that you are not alone and that you don't need to get to a dark place to start being your best self. Sick and Tired of being sick and tired? Let's work on our mental health together. You are not alone and we can get better together.

We all know Physical health is very important, but how does it affect the way we parent and our life as mothers!? Today we share how our physical health has affected the way we parent and how has changed our views in motherhood, in this uncommon way on how we came about loving and learning how physical health help us be better person, not only for ourselves but those people are around us. Book Mentioned: The Joy of Movement by Kelly McGonigal Follow us on Social Media @debbyoliveira @lilianfesteves

On todays episode it is Debby's turn to share her birth story, and how much her view of unconditional love has expanded. Through her experience in both pregnancies she explains how much she has grown as a person and her view in life. She has encountered so much joy in this journey of motherhood through the ups and downs of learning all things new. Follow us @debbyoliveira @lilianfesteves

Today's episode Lilly shares her birth story and the journey of pregnancy. She shares how the experience of becoming a mom changed her outlook on life, the strength within her and how becoming a mom was a life changing experience. She shares how both births was very different and when she felt ready to have another child. We hope this experience can encourage, empower and give you a view on her birth! Follow us on social media @debbyoliveira @Lilianfesteves

Homeschooling is for hippies! I can't ever homeschool? I don't Have the patience to homeschool my child? I'm not a teacher! Those are questions and statements that we both have said and wondered. But here we are two months into homeschooling and sharing with you guys how we got to the point of making this decision and how it has been for us. Homeschooling can be a very lonely journey, so let's go on this path together. Even if you don't homeschool we hope this episode can give you an insight on how it is and also so we can be each other's support system! Follow us on social media @debbyoliveira @lilianfesteves

Today's episode is an intro about Debbie and Lilly and how we got here starting our first podcast. We shared on today's episode how we became friends, how long we've been friends and a little intro about our journey into motherhood. Follow us on Social Media @Lilianfesteves @Debbyoliveira