Podcast appearances and mentions of preston ni

THE SIRENS COLLECTIVE ist zurück und bekommt diese Folge die volle Bandbreite Narzissmus. Natürlich nur aufbereitet und mit Fakten, Zahlen und Details vermittelt von Lisa. Wir sind Kim Hoss und Lise van Wersch und besprechen in der neuen Folge, wie Narzissmus die Welt seit Jahrtausenden übernommen hat mit Lisa Jureczko vom Projekt Echo. Opfer suchen sich doch ihre narzisstischen Täter*innen doch echt oft auch aus oder? Und welche Narzissmus Typen gibt es eigentlich? Wie erkenne ich Narzissmus und was ist eigentlich noch normal und was nicht mehr. On/Off Beziehungen sind ja auch “heutzutage” so ein Ding oder nicht?!  Das Archiv der sexualisierten Übergriffe: https://www.thesirenscollective.com Lisa ist Abuse Awareness Coach: www.abuse-awareness.coach Instagram: @abuse.awareness.coach  https://www.instagram.com/abuse.awareness.coach/ Tiktok: @abuseawarenesscoach Projekt ECHO www.projekt-echo.de Instagram: @projekt.echo https://www.instagram.com/projekt.echo/ Daten & Fakten zum Thema Narzissmus & narzisstischer Missbrauch:  https://projekt-echo.de/daten-fakten/ ECHO - Der Podcast über Narzissmus & Psychische Gewalt https://open.spotify.com/show/37OXR9JOqQR2UZ3S5Kn1AS?si=d665f6fe61e94b7b Artikel von Preston Ni zum Thema Psychopathie: https://www.psychologytoday.com/intl/blog/communication-success/201810/7-characteristics-of-the-modern-psychopath  Youtube Channel von Dr. Ramani Durvasula zum Thema Narzissmus & narzisstischer Missbrauch:  https://www.youtube.com/c/DoctorRamani Buchempfehlungen: Dr. Ramani Durvasula: "Don't You Know Who I Am?" "Should I Stay or Should I Go?" Judith Herman: "Narben der Gewalt. Traumatische Erfahrungen verstehen und überwinden" Hilfetelefon sexueller Missbrauch: 116 016 Paypal Support: https://paypal.me/thesirenscollective?country.x=DE&locale.x=de_DE Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the_sirens_collective  https://www.instagram.com/kim_____hoss/  https://www.instagram.com/lisevanwersch/

Buenas noches investigadores! Vuelven Los Archivos de Arkham otra semana a torturaros y vuelven dos sacos que estaban desaparecidos en combate a grabar un episodio. Delicatessen. Empezamos con las noticias de FFG, que son pocas y cobardes, pero fijaos con lo que nos conformamos ya. Aún así hay cositas muy muy interesantes y parece que vamos viendo la luz al final del ayuno intermitente en el que sea convertido el nuevo modelo de publicación de Arkham Horror LCG (como lo hilo, madre mía). Y rompemos la baraja del podcast al volver a invitar al programa a un investigador que ya se había pasado por aquí anteriormente en el T2Ep30. Pero es que con motivo de la salida de la revisión de El Círculo Roto, habéis elegido que volvamos a analizar a Preston Fairmont, un investigador que intimida bastante y no sólo por su pasta. Aún así os vamos a enseñar 4 posibles formas de llevar a Preston al éxito en las empresas más complicadas. A disfrutar. Abrasacos. Arkham Advertiser: 00:51:38 Pensión de Ma: 01:59:50 Mazo de David (Reliquias): https://arkhamdb.com/deck/view/3026204 Mazo de Alfred (Hermético pero no): https://arkhamdb.com/deck/view/1637795 Mazo de Egoitz (Reducir dificultad): https://arkhamdb.com/deck/view/2588827 Cartas mencionadas en el episodio: https://arkhamdb.com/deck/view/3048749 Muchas gracias a nuestros patronos Supremos y Mayores: Cervezitas – Ch3sh1r3 – cymbaline – Daniel Pino Gallardo – Darkcloud – Kike Vera – Kirbygladiador – Marcos Ginel Calderón – Marta Pirla - Negoinc – Nicolás (pdafoto) – Rafa Cerrato – Raul Amarilla – Vidania –Víctor Vinuesa Óscar Tabernero - Adrián Sandoval - Agentechus - alba galindo - Alfonso GMR - AMeizoso - Arbitroki - Arturo - Bartolome Mayol - Carlose23 - Clinisbud - Conejito Sospechoso - Dani Oromí ­ Daniel - Davaro79 - David Torres - De Zer0 - Earendir - El Polillo - Enrique - Enrique (bretto_acre82) - Francisco Franco Eslava - Francisco Jesus Carrillo Contreras - gadio - Galcur - Galle (JCL) - Gceternal - Gemerlos - greyhector - Gwemegil - jack burace - Jaime B. (JotaBe) - Javier Delgado - Javier Villacampa González - Javihara - Joan Algarate - Joanmi - Joja - Jon Sengar - Jopeco77 - Jordi Campano - Jordi Meep - JordiC - José Ramón Rodrigo Roldán - Jose Luis Pareja - Juan Veloso - Juanjo Sogues - Julio R - Lotsel - Luis Felipe - Luiseten - Magnus Scav - Manuel Jesús - Markus_tein - Maulcat87 - Mike de Rivia - Mikel De La Mata - Minikisto - Moonyel - MrPlayforlive - Nacho Vigalondo - nagirrom - Neko.trejo - Orkatz Fernandez - Ovaldevil - Paspawn - Perichip - Piett - Raúl Sánchez - Rafa Barranco - Raikov (Alfonso Ginel) -Ramon Reig - Rascolnicov Anteb - Riigalaxy - ruso - Sandra García - Satyr - Seregrog - Sergi Perucho - Silaen - SirYago - Stryper_rol - Takun - thorkien - Víctor Romero - Van Basten - vseva - Yandras Recuerda que puedes sugerirnos, preguntarnos, quejarte o insultarnos en: https://archivosarkham.com @archivosarkham https://www.facebook.com/archivosarkham http://www.twitch.com/archivosarkham También puedes ayudarnos a seguir con esto y crear cada dia más y mejor contenido, a través de: https://www.patreon.com/archivosarkham

Whether or not you believe that dreams have meaning (and almost half of Americans think that’s true…), you probably have had many types of dreams. Today, in another episode sponsored by BetterHelp, we're going to talk about the diverse categories of dreams  – and then the proposed “meaning” of those very dreams. We'll look into what can bring nightmares on as well as the most recent research on what's termed "lucid dreaming." Early psychiatrists certainly believed and espoused that dreams had unconscious meanings – that they are created by the part of our mind that lives in the background of our consciousness but influences and guides us. So today we’ll talk about nine categories of dreams and then travel into the land of what dreams may mean.. maybe for fun or maybe, for those of you who have a strong relationship with your dreams, to employ them for healing. Our listener email today is from a young woman who’s suffered multiple traumas in her life… sexual abuse and her mother’s dying right in front of her.. Terrible things. And she wonders how to heal.. and if she can have hope.. Importants Links: We have a lot of them today! BetterHelp, the #1 online therapy provider, has a special offer for you now! A Psychology Today article on dreaming Book by Preston Ni.. and referenced article  Quote from Dr. Kelly Bulkeley Information about the cause of nightmares on WebMD YouTube video on dreaming What dreams may mean  article in VeryWell Mind Very recent research at MIT on lucid dreaming C-PTSD information on VeryWell Mind You can hear more about mental health and many other topics by listening to my podcast, SelfWork with Dr. Margaret Rutherford. Subscribe to my website and receive one weekly newsletter including my weekly blog post and podcast! If you’d like to join my FaceBook closed group, then click here and answer the membership questions! Welcome! My new book entitled Perfectly Hidden Depression has arrived and you can order here! Its message is specifically for those with a struggle with strong perfectionism which acts to mask underlying emotional pain. But the many self-help techniques described can be used by everyone who chooses to begin to address emotions long hidden away that are clouding and sabotaging your current life. And there’s a new way to send me a message! You can record by clicking below and ask your question or make a comment. You’ll have 90 seconds to do so and that time goes quickly. By recording, you’re giving SelfWork (and me) permission to use your voice on the podcast. I’ll look forward to hearing from you!        

Hola hola, ¡qué gusto estar de nuevo en otro episodio de daFelicitas! En este episodio hablo sobre las Personas Altamente Sensibles. En el podcast te menciono sobre una liga para realizar el test y descubrir si eres una  PAS. Aquí te dejo el test: https://pasespana.com/test-personas-altamente-sensibles/ También te menciono unos libros: The Highly Sensitive Person (en español, El don de la sensibilidad), de Elaine N. Aron y"¿Eres altamente sensible? Cómo lograr inmunidad, paz y auto control." y "Cómo comunicarse efectivamente con gente altamente sensible de Preston Ni.También te dejo, como siempre, mis redes sociales:Web: www.dafelicitas.com y www.verovillalobos.comInstagram: http://instagram.com/dafelicitas y http://instagram.com/verovillaloboshcGracias como siempre por estar aquí, ¡hasta la próxima! This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit verovillalobos.substack.com

In episode ERP 171, I read a listener’s question and I shared some examples of different types of manipulative behavior. I also offered the first 2 tips on how to deal with manipulative behavior in relationship. If you missed it, I encourage you to check it out. To recap, the first two tips of How To Deal With Manipulative Behavior: 1. Identify The Manipulative Behavior 2. Focus On Your Power, Strength, And Goodness (Please listen to the podcast episode or read the transcript to hear explanations, stories and examples.) HOW TO DEAL WITH MANIPULATIVE BEHAVIOR (4 OF 6): 3. Work on Differentiating: “The ability to balance our needs for autonomy and attachment is called differentiation. Differentiation is a scientific process that occurs in all species. For humans, it is about becoming more of a unique individual and a solid person through relationships with others.” by Dr. David Schnarch Dr. David Schnarch’s 4 Points of Balance: Solid flexible self Quiet mind and calm heart Grounded responding Meaningful Endurance Use visualization techniques to help yourself. “I can’t tell you how many clients have said, when they’re in their 20s or 30s: ‘You know, when I looked at my dad, I realized I’m a foot taller than him.’ And it was a revelation because they still felt so much littler. So being able to reverse that and recognize, ‘Oh, I’m starting to feel small now, but wait a minute — I’m not,’ can be helpful.” Because, he says, “that’s the point of it. That’s how people manipulate. They make you feel small because that gives them more power.” by Dr. Dan Neuharth 4. Set Limits and Boundaries: Know your options. For example, “If this happens, then I will do xyz.” Use time as a resource. Don’t feel pressured to respond to any on-the-spot request. Learn to say “no” diplomatically but firmly. Speaking the truth with tact. Have an honest and open conversation, with support if needed. Create some distance, if the person is unwilling to work with you. 5. Deal with Grief and Loss: Accepting that the person may not change. Deal with the limitations of the relationship. Grieve not having the relationship you hoped for, imagined, or longed for. 6. Hold a Mirror: In the article, “How to Recognize and Handle Manipulative Relationship,” by Preston Ni, he described this concept of “holding a mirror” up to someone who may be making an unreasonable request. Put the focus back on them using probing questions. Reflect back the request and look at it together. Hopefully, the person will see the inequity of their request and reconsider.   MENTIONED:   ERP 171: HOW TO DEAL WITH MANIPULATION IN RELATIONSHIP (podcast) How to Recognize and Handle Manipulative Relationship, by Preston Ni (article) The Crucible 4 Points of Balance, by Dr. David Schnarch (article) ERP 135: HOW TO HANDLE GRIEF AND LOSS IN RELATIONSHIP – PART ONE (podcast) ERP 136: HOW TO HANDLE GRIEF AND LOSS IN RELATIONSHIP – PART TWO (podcast) ERP 169: WHAT TO DO WHEN DEPRESSION TAKES HOLD IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP – DR. SUSAN HEITLER (podcast) ERP 110: HOW TO MANAGE TWO MAJORLY CONFLICTING NEEDS IN RELATIONSHIP (podcast) Intimacy & Desire (book) Passionate Marriage (book) Photo by Sebastian Pichler on Unsplash   TRANSCRIPT: Click on this link to access the transcript for this episode: If you have a topic you would like me to discuss, please reach out to me. Here is my contact information. Thank you so much for your interest in improving your relationship. I would really appreciate your honest rating and review. Please leave a review by clicking here. Thank you! ❤ If you are interested in developing new skills to overcome relationship challenges, please consider taking the Connected Couple Program or engaging in relationship coaching work with me.  

LISTENER’S QUESTION: “First of all, thank you so much for doing the podcast. I have been learning so much about relationships and how to better improve my own. My question is about family and parents. Some background on my situation. I have told my very religious parents that I am moving out of the house. My boyfriend and I have found a place together and decided that our next step in our very committed relationship is to live together. I am 30 years old. My parents (mostly my mother) had a fit. She went on and on about how I am not “doing things the right way” and that she and everyone in her family disapproves. I told her that I was confident in my decision and I understand that she will not approve, but it is my decision. I also told her I never meant to hurt her. She has been crying and posting a lot of religious content on her social media. She’s also been posting sad photos of her looking upset. I see that this is emotional manipulation and this is something I have had to deal with my whole life, hence the final push to move and get some space from my family. So my question is, what is the best way to deal with emotional manipulative parents? “ (Please listen to the podcast episode or read the transcript to hear explanations, stories and examples.) MANIPULATION: WHAT ARE WE TALKING ABOUT? Manipulation is the act of trying to get someone to do something consciously or subconsciously. At what point do we call behavior persuasive/influential or manipulative? There is a range from having a healthy influence to toxic manipulation, and it is a matter of degrees. For example: Someone arguing their perspective and trying to get their partner to see their side. Or a teenager who wants to go out on a school night and is trying to convince his parents into letting him go out. Or an attorney who is attempting to persuade the jury in a particular direction. The line is usually crossed when a person is using guilt, force, or power to control someone else. Unfortunately, people often resort to control tactics when they are scared and afraid. They don’t trust that someone will engage with them in a safe way, so they get aggressive, pushy, and critical. Or even worse, they use mental distortion and emotional exploitation to gain power and control. When people grow up in particularly unhealthy and painful environments, they often learn to cope in dysfunctional ways. When these patterns take hold in more extreme cases, people can develop personality disorders and mental health issues.   TYPES OF MANIPULATION: In the article, 12 Failures of Highly Manipulative People,  by Preston Ni, he offers several types of manipulation. Here are a few (please read the article for more information): “Negative Manipulation. Designed to gain superiority by causing the victim to feel inferior, inadequate, insecure, and/or self-doubting. Positive Manipulation. Designed to bribe the victim emotionally to win favors, concessions, sacrifices, and/or commitments. Deception and Intrigue. Designed to distort the perception of the victim for easier control. Strategic Helplessness. Designed to exploit the victim’s good will, guilty conscience, sense of duty and obligation, or protective and nurturing instinct. Hostility and Abuse. Designed to dominate and control the victim through overt aggression.” by Preston Ni HOW TO DEAL WITH MANIPULATIVE BEHAVIOR (2 OF 6): 1. Identify The Manipulative Behavior: If something feels annoying, icky, or uncomfortable during an interaction, there is probably a good reason. If you reacting, feeling guilty, defensive, etc. you are caught in the manipulation. Write out the interaction. This will help you identify the manipulation. Then, you can get more perspective and look at the dynamic more objectively. Naming it to tame it. With more clarity, you will be better able to deal with the manipulative behavior differently in the future. 2. Focus On Your Power, Strength, And Goodness Identify your intention. Recognize your rights, (to be treated with respect, to have your own thoughts, feelings, and preference, a right to make choices, a right to say ‘no” without feeling guilt). Know your needs. Work on your self-esteem. Improve your self-image. Recognize your worth, goodness, and strengths. Stay tuned for the next episode for the next four tips. MENTIONED: 12 Failures of Highly Manipulative People, by Preston Ni (article) ERP 015: DO YOU HAVE A “UNITY” OR “JOURNEY” MINDSET IN RELATIONSHIP? (podcast) ERP 162: HOW TO KNOW IF YOU ARE WITH A NARCISSIST AND WHAT TO DO ABOUT IT – DR. LISA FIRESTONE (podcast) ERP 121: HOW TO GET AN UNSUPPORTIVE PARENT ONBOARD (podcast) Photo by Nadine Shaabana on Unsplash (photo credit) TRANSCRIPT: Click on this link to access the transcript for this episode:   If you have a topic you would like me to discuss, please reach out to me. Here is my contact information. Thank you so much for your interest in improving your relationship. I would really appreciate your honest rating and review. Please leave a review by clicking here. Thank you! ❤ If you are interested in developing new skills to overcome relationship challenges, please consider taking the Connected Couple Program or engaging in relationship coaching work with me.

In this episode we're going to talk about the definition of adult bullying. This is an introduction to the topic. Because some of you might not considered the possibility of your anxiety coming from this type of experience. This episode will be dealing with adult bullying but there are resources that span generations. If you need support contact the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 1-800-273-8255, the Trevor Project at 1-866-488-7386 or text “START” to 741-741. Resources Mentioned:    Many resources are targeted to parents, children and sometimes teens but some of the information is applicable (in my opinion) to adults as well. Stop Bullying.gov is from the U.S. government. It contains information about what is bullying and what is not. Childhood bullying can have a lasting effect on a person's mental health article via Live Science.com Psychology Today 2017 article about adult bullying by Preston Ni, 5 Ways that Adults Bully Each Other. Mr. Ni has e-book publications that address bullying and other topics. Disclaimer:  Links to other sites are provided for information purposes only and do not constitute endorsements.  Always seek the advice of a qualified health provider with questions you may have regarding a medical or mental health disorder. This blog and podcast is intended for informational and educational purposes only. Nothing in this program is intended to be a substitute for professional psychological, psychiatric or medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment.

You’ve likely encountered a narcissist or two in your life. Perhaps a former lover could never put your needs first. Or maybe you’ve worked with someone who just couldn't stop promoting his accomplishments long enough to do any work. Whether your encounters are professional or personal, there are telltale signs that you’re dealing with a narcissistic person. And when you are, establish healthy boundaries and keep an emotional distance. Join us as we talk about narcissism with Professor of Communication Studies, PRESTON NI, author of ‘How to Successfully Handle Narcissists’ Preston Ni Sound Health Options

You’ve likely encountered a narcissist or two in your life. Perhaps a former lover could never put your needs first. Or maybe you’ve worked with someone who just couldn't stop promoting his accomplishments long enough to do any work. Whether your encounters are professional or personal, there are telltale signs that you’re dealing with a narcissistic person. And when you are, establish healthy boundaries and keep an emotional distance. Join us as we talk about narcissism with Professor of Communication Studies, PRESTON NI, author of ‘How to Successfully Handle Narcissists’ Preston Ni Sound Health Options