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So many of us unintentionally engage in passive-aggressive behaviors, and it's hurting our relationships. Today we are going to talk about 18 different ways that these behaviors show up. When we create greater awareness around our own passive aggressive behaviors, we can start to clean them up and start healing our relationships.
Join me in Episode 21 as I wrestle with this question: Are Latter-day Saints more passive-aggressive than other people? I've been thinking about this recently as I've been in many conversations where this has come up—particularly how Utah has such a passive-aggressive culture. Some research even says that women could use slightly more passive-aggression than men. I wanted to explore this in more depth, so I'll let you know what I founded out.
Welcome to Season Three! Jake, Mike, Ali, and Eric wrap up the holidays, lament about working on rust bucket vehicles, we get an update on Eric's Transit van's including a Block Tease, we learn how amazing Ford warranty is, have a few "ever since ya..." stories, talk Mazda buy back, discuss how customers are not technicians, we hear about an unfortunate series of events, and of course many tangents, some of which are educational. Check us out on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Google Cast, IHeartRadio, YouTube and many other streaming platforms! Twitter and Instagram @Customer_States, Email us at CustomerStatesPodcast@gmail.com to send us a voice memo, Listener Mail, topic idea or picture, or to get your very own #SellTheBell and our Customer States… Stickers! Check out our website at www.CustomerStatesPodcast.com! Find us on Facebook at Facebook.com/CustomerStatesPodcast, YouTube by searching Customer States… Podcast, and help support us at Anchor.fm/customerstates Big thanks to Bruce Vayn for the amazing original music! Check him out: FB @Bruce Vayn, @brucevayn on IG, @bruce_vayn on Twitter, and email him for all your musical needs at firstname.lastname@example.org --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/customerstates/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/customerstates/support
Passive aggression is a way of expressing negative feelings, such as anger or annoyance, indirectly instead of directly. Passive-aggressive behaviors are often difficult to identify and can sabotage relationships at home and at work. Instead of getting visibly angry, some people express their hostility in passive-aggressive ways designed to hurt and confuse their target. Most people will have to deal with passive aggression from others in their personal and professional lives at one time or another: a roommate who leaves a sweet-yet-scolding note about the one cup that was left unwashed, for example, or the report a colleague keeps forgetting to finish. Nagging or getting angry only puts the passive-aggressive person on the defensive—often resulting in them making excuses or denying any responsibility. Recent research shows that there are healthier ways to confront passive aggression and handle relationship conflict. Tune in and learn all about passive aggression and hoot deal with it!
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This episode is packed with more goodies than your holiday vacation suitcase! Listen in as Hanna and Mick discuss one of the worst emails ever sent by a manager, before tackling the topic of employers utilizing passive aggressive tactics hoping employers will quit in lieu of termination. Needless to say, our dynamic duo has plenty of choice words for these employers. Buckle up kids: this is HR After Hours! Do you have a great story, question for our hosts, or best practice to share? If so, we would love to hear from you. Contact Us: Email: email@example.com Twitter: @hr_hours Instagram: hrafterhours Facebook: @HRafterhours Tumblr: hrafterhours.tumblr.com ARTICLES CITED IN THIS EPISODE: “Are You Getting Pushed Out?” by Taylor Borden https://www.linkedin.com/news/story/are-you-getting-pushed-out-6084498/ Shepherd Express News of the Weird “Harsh” https://shepherdexpress.com/puzzles/news-of-the-weird/news-of-the-weird-week-of-december-15-2022/
This is such a hard topic, one we talk about often in session. We thought it would be a good idea to remind you how to tackle these friendships head on. We all know someone who doesn't say what they mean, and mean what they say. It's hard to understand how to relate to them, and how to be their friend. Join us as Executive Director of Care to Change, April Bordeau, and therapist at Care to Change, Jean Crane, as they discuss practical solutions for positive change in connection and friendships. Resources Referenced: Boundaries – Cloud and TownsendText us your thoughts or questions at our Care Line: 317-979-7133For more information about Care to Change visit www.caretochange.orgFollow Care to Change on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/CaretoChange.org/
Meet Cormack Jackson, he's the Chief Of Staff to Shazam Cofounder Dhiraj Mukherjee & Independent Consultant in the UK.What did we talk about:1. Networking or coffee date2. The World Cup3. Business Hack! Walking with coffee and creating chapters (mental mind stamps) with landmarks. Big Ben and the economy. Canary Wharf and the recession.4. TikTok coffee date, viral IG post and Dating Intelligence5. Influence and Building your Superpower6. Losing $35 million gambling in Vegas and influence7. White chocolate is not chocolate8. What kind of coffee does Santa drink? Espresso and Bezos stepping down because he cannot keep up with Santa.9. Showing up late to the coffee date10. Chatting in queue, securing two more dates and the one you're in the line with.11. Ambushing your future boss with an interview on a podcast.12. London School of Economics and a Sociology degree.13. Recording team Zooms for content for trailers for social media on Linkedin. capturing the essence of his boss' ideas and thoughts. Ambushing your boss or guest!14. Nicaragua celebrity and #1 business podcast or number #1 in Business on Apple15. Coffee from Nicaragua16. Is Santa real? Tooth Fairy?17. Hand extensions for T-Rex for Christmas. Jurassic Park episode 3 with David Attleboro.18. Apache of Marketing on Linkedin.Buy Me a CoffeeHolly Shannon's WebsiteZero To Podcast on AmazonHolly Shannon's new Youtube Channel, Subscribe here!Interview with Johnny Giangregorio on YTHolly Shannon, InstagramHolly Shannon, LinkedinHolly Shannon, TwitterCormack Jackson on Linkedin#Coffee #barista #pumpkinspicedlatte #Starbucks #DunkinDonuts #blackcoffee #darkroast #lightroast #latte #macchiato #cappuccino #espresso#centralperk #Bulletproof #howtomakecoffee #coffeebeans #coffeedate #virtualcoffee #coffeebreak #coldbrew #coffeemachine #coffeegrinder #connection #community #frenchpress #coffeehousemusic #cafe #arabica #espresso #cuppajoe #decaffeinated #caffeine #coffeeaddiction #cappuccino
In any ongoing relationship, tensions and frustrations can arise, creating emotions of anger or perplexion. Passive-aggressive narcissists have decided that openly addressing those tensions can create more problems that it solves, so they become stealth. Dr. Les Carter discusses the rationale used by these individuals and offers ways to respond, even when that person stays stuck inside their dysfunction. Thank you to Aura for sponsoring this episode. Secure your online presence and get 40% off of all plans using my link: https://aura.com/DrCarter Sign up for Dr. Carter's NEW course: Ready, Set, Connect https://courses.survivingnarcissism.tv/courses/ready-set-connect Get 30% off when you use the coupon code: SNCommunity30 Dr. Les Carter is a best selling author and therapist who has semi-retired to Waco, TX. In the past 40+ years he has conducted more than 65,000 counseling sessions and many workshops and seminars. He specializes in anger management and narcissistic personality disorder. Join the Team Healthy community HERE: https://survivingnarcissism.tv/subscribe/ Check out videos, articles, quizzes, and more at our website: https://survivingnarcissism.tv You can follow Surviving Narcissism on: Twitter: @SNarcissism101 Instagram: @survivingnarcissism101 Facebook: @survivingnarcissism101 Dr. Carter has two other courses that you may find to be useful: Free to Be: Reclaim & rediscover your uniqueness https://survivingnarcissism.tv/free-to-be-course/ This Is Me: Setting boundaries with the controllers in your life https://survivingnarcissism.tv/this-is-me Dr. Carter's personal website: http://drlescarter.com/ Dr. Carter's other YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/c/drlescarter Bookstore: https://survivingnarcissism.tv/books-on-narcissism-surviving-narcissism/ If you are interested in online therapy, Dr. Carter has a sponsor who can assist. As the need is there, please seek the help you deserve: https://betterhelp.com/survivingnarcissismpodcast We receive commissions on referrals to BetterHelp. We only recommend services that we trust.
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Coming to you from the JRE Tobacco Aladino Mobile Studios, the guys are smoking cigars graciously sent to them from Kenn at Ash & Ale Lounge in Palm Coast, Florida. Nick lights up the K by Karen Berger Maduro while Gator has the Connecticut version. From there the wheels go off and Gator wants to discuss chemtrails and government programs to reflect sunlight back from the earth. We also listen to a call in this week's Ask the Boys, discuss Three Cigars We've Smoked and Enjoyed This Week, figure out what to do in a travel emergency in the United Cigars One Must Go segment, and more. Check out the Cigar Pulpit on Instagram at @TheCigarPulpit and @NekkidGator and sign up for the free newsletter HERE. Follow Broccoli Rob on Instagram at @FinalThirdCigar Sign up for the Robusto box at My Monthly Cigars and smoke along with the guys at MyMonthlyCigars.com Follow JRE Tobacco at @JRETobacco on Instagram or check out their website, JRETobacco.com for a store near you that carries their cigars And check out Rivermen Cigar Company on Instagram at @TheRivermenCigarCompany online at RivermenCigars.com or give him a call for mail order service at (314) 843-3355 Follow United Cigars at @UnitedCigars on Instagram or check out their website, UnitedCigarGroup.com for a store near you that carries their cigars
Effective communication is SOOO important in relationships. Some communication styles are ineffective, and we are going there in this series. Let's unpack the Passive-Aggressive Communication Style in this episode. As always feel free to DM me your thoughts on IG @unpackinglove. Thanks for listening! Music - 'Ndiwe' by Masa Caroleen
It's almost here: that Thursday in November where we gather together, give thanks, and dodge invasive questions about our love life and rude insinuations about our political beliefs. To help cope, Kathleen has some comebacks you can have in your back pocket when Aunt Helen has tee many martoonies. Then, Bethany is fascinated by people predicting the end of the world, and there's something kind of comforting about knowing it's been going on since the year 66. She runs down some of the best doomsday predictions. Plus, Kathleen has sort of already committed a Thanksgiving faux-pas and her mom is probably going to be mad…. —— What We Talked About: 10:16 - Am I The Asshole Thanksgiving Role Pay 38:35 - Funny Old Apocalypse Predictions ——— PATREON Dates in October + November: Nov. 21 - Special Thanksgiving Foodie Book Book Club @ 7:30 PM ET Nov. 29 - Live Show @ 7:30 PM ET Dec. 7 - Study Buds @ 1 PM ET Dec. 6 - Live Show @ 7:30 PM ET Dec. 13 - Lives Show @ 7:30 PM ET Dec. 17 - Book Club @ 7:30 PM ET Sign up at www.patreon.com/acquiredtaste ——— Check out our merch!: https://store.dftba.com/collections/an-acquired-taste-podcast ——— Please support the companies that support us! Vegamour - Don't let damage of the past hold your hair back. Go to vegamour.com/taste and use the code “taste” to save 20% on your first order! ——— BETHANY'S SOURCES: https://www.chicagotribune.com/news/ct-xpm-2012-05-02-ct-talk-end-of-the-world-poll-0502-20120502-story.html https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sabbatai_Zevi https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Harold_Camping https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_dates_predicted_for_apocalyptic_events#cite_note-9 https://www.britannica.com/list/10-failed-doomsday-predictions https://www.amazon.com/Predict-1985-Who-Will-Survive/dp/0937580376 https://popcrush.com/top-40-pop-songs-october-2011/ https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Herbert_W._Armstrong KATHLEEN'S SOURCES: https://thoughtcatalog.com/melanie-berliet/2018/01/30-passive-aggressive-comments-that-are-definitely-worse-than-outright-insults/ https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/yqa78w/aita_for_pointing_out_i_didnt_invite_someone_to/ https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/s095c8/wibta_for_buying_a_self_cleaning_litter_box/ https://www.yourtango.com/2014235609/passive-aggressive-friendship-quotes-we-all-say-out-of-love https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/reys5d/wibta_if_i_added_a_credits_slide_to_my_group/
Ok lets try this again! Not gon lie- we was in here barely able to keep our eyes open lol but we soldiered on just for yall! So dont mind the yawning or scattered thoughts, we still giving yall the real lol This week Tay works hard to beat the shallow allegations,Lex proclaims her detest for Charleston White, we discuss the importance of keeping up your looks up for your husband/wife and men being insecure when there partners decide to get surgery or starts attracting new attention, our own passive aggressive tendencies, and obviously we had to discuss Her Loss and the drama surrounding the percieved shot (no pun intended i swear) at Meg. Also - LOVE IS BLIND spoilers are sprinkled throughout so be safe. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app
All men fall into one of three categories -- Out of shape, Okay shape, & Fantastic shape. Which one are you right now? Today's guest Erin Alejandrino is a men's health and fitness coach and he helps men get shredded. And he helps them ditch their self-limiting passive-aggressive behaviors. Listen to this awesome episode today! IG @thefitbeard https://BeTheManMasterclass.com --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/be-the-man/support
Have you ever considered how you come across to others? Is it possible that the way you communicate might be creating some unintended issues between you and other's? On today's episode I'm going to walk you through the 4 communication styles that exist in every team so you can have more win-win situations. Hey, Team welcome back to Lead Thru Values. If you're new, I'm glad you're here. You should know that the purpose of this podcast is to help be a better leader and give you practical tips to ensure that every person on your team has the skills, knowledge and confidence to do their job exceptionally well. If you're a returning listener, I want to thank you for giving me a few minutes of your day. I'm grateful for you. Communication can be a real struggle in business as evidenced by these stats: 86% of employees and executives cite the lack of effective communication and collaboration as the main cause of workplace failures. 97% of employees believe that communication impacts their performance on a daily basis. 28% of employees cite poor communication as the reason for not delivering their work on time. A Harvard Business Review report cites that 72% of employees feel their performance would improve if their managers gave them feedback on their work. Another report by Trade Press Services shows that as many as 85% of employees claim they are most motivated when regularly updated about company news and information. There's a direct connection between communication and employee engagement. According to Gallup, team members with higher levels of engagement: Produce substantially better results Treat customers better and also attract new customers Are more likely to remain with their company Are overall healthier and less likely to experience burnout. However, there are 4 prominent types of behavior that impact the effectiveness of communication in any company. The first one is Passive Communication. People who communicate in passive ways tend to give in. They want to keep the peace and they believe the best way to keep the peace is to remain quiet. As a result, this damages their own self-esteem as the wrestle internally with speaking up or just staying quiet. In other words, the Passive communicator views the situation as “You're Ok, but I'm not.” The second type of behavior style is Aggressive Communication. People who communicate in an aggressive way look for ways to take advantage of a situation and/or another person. They tend to talk people down in an effort to damage the other person's self-esteem. They use forceful tones, strong language and body language to attempt to intimidate their counterpart. They see it as adversarial or even combative. In short, the outcome they want is that, “I'm OK and you're not. And I don't care.” The third type of behavior style that impacts communication in the workplace is being Passive-Aggressive. This one is the most toxic because what's not being said is what's actually being said. The passive-aggressive individual pretends to go along with the group. A decision. A course of action. A strategy. But, they use tactics like gossip and back biting to tear others down. They also use non verbal communication such as sighs and eye rolls that don't match their words. “I suppose that's best…” [punctuated with a sigh as they walk away] is an example of passive aggressiveness. It's incredibly damaging to a team's culture as it's damaging both to the passive aggressive person as well as others. The mindset of the passive-aggressive individual is, “I'm not OK, and you're not OK.” And that takes us to the fourth behavior style that impacts communication, but in a positive and powerful way, Assertive communication. Team, this is where we want to be! Assertive communication is rooted in compromise. You've said your peace. I've said mine. And, now we can move forward to find a solution where we both win instead of one...
What is at the core of passive aggressive behavior? Today Bill is joined by Todd Mulliken for a deep-dive into the tactics and the reasons of passive aggressive behavior and inviting Jesus into wounded places through prayer.
“I'm not mad!” she shouts as she throws her backpack and slams the door while leaving you shaking your head. Passive aggressive behavior… when words and non-verbal communication don't match. Sadly, we're all probably fairly competent when it comes to this sort of communication. How does passive-aggressive behavior interfere with the weight loss process? To begin with, there's a lot of emotional eating associated with saying things we don't really mean and then acting them out in a way that displays how we really feel. We also damage relationships with passive-aggressive behavior and risk destroying receiving much-needed support in our health journey. Listen in and learn more!Be sure to go to www.bariaftercare.com and sign up so you can hear the second part of BariAftercare's Communication Styles and Your Weight. Now, let's get started!Resources:7 tell-tale signs of passive-aggressive behavior, plus how to respond and address it in yourselfPassive-Aggressive Behavior9 Phrases That Make You Sound Like a Passive Aggressive JerkThe worst passive-aggressive phrases, according to Americans17 EXAMPLES OF PASSIVE AGGRESSIVE BEHAVIOR4 Strategies for Dealing with Passive-Aggressive PeoplePlease subscribe to the show and rate it on Apple Podcasts, download free information at www.conniestapletonphd.com, and follow me on Twitter (@cstapletonphd), Instagram (@cstapletonphd), YouTube, LinkedIn, and on Facebook.
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