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Welcome to 50’s AF, the podcast on life, love, and the shit show called dating in our 50’s. I’m your host Nicole Chaness, and I've been through it all - single in my 30s, widowed in my 50s, and now thrust back into the dating world. This show will dig deep and go hard on all the hopes, dreams, heartaches, and crazy shenanigans that go down in this unique decade of dating. Join me each week for passionate conversations, special guests, revealing insight, sexual revelations, and of course, a whole lot of dating disasters. So come along for the ride...and let's get 50sAF. Follow us now on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you enjoy your shows.

Nicole Chaness


    • Sep 17, 2024 LATEST EPISODE
    • weekly NEW EPISODES
    • 43m AVG DURATION
    • 25 EPISODES


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    Latest episodes from 50s AF

    Ep. 25 - Dating & Your New Bible: Knowing Your Attachment Style Leads To Successful Relationships

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 17, 2024 49:41


    Dating in your 50's is this amazing chapter in your life. It doesn't have to be a daunting scary time. Dating in your 50's allows you to actually look for a significant other that best fits you NOW! In this episode on 50's AF Podcast, we are discussing attachment styles, and how understanding these styles. This new bible will absolutely better equip you to navigating your journey in dating. Is it an erotic read? No! But it will is a game changing book to allow you to date with a bullet proof vest! Absolutely.

    Ep. 24 - Getting Jiggy with Eggplants & Peaches

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 10, 2024 41:21


    Dating in your 50's as a woman can be an intimidating process to start. As women in our 50's, we are faced with many obstacles from emotional luggage, toxic relationships, menopausal issues, and possibly lack of intimacy in our life. This episode's guest is Dr Staats, a therapist and coach that helps couples and women find different techniques to re connect with your s$xuality, coach couples to explore different ways to connect, and for women dating in their 50's reconnect and enhance their desire and pleasure.

    Ep. 23 - Part 1: A journey of Parkinson's

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 3, 2024 41:20


    Nicole Chaness, host of 50's AF Podcast, opens up the discussion of Parkinson's with Dr. George Ackerman, author of A Son's Journey from Parkinson's Disease Caregiver to Advocate, founder of TogetherForSharon® , In memory of his mother Sharon, to voice awareness & hope for a PD cure. In this episode we peel back the layers of life forever changed once introduced to the diagnosis of Parkinson's from the start of the diagnosis through part of our personal journeys. Raising Parkinson's awareness is critical, as well as sharing our stories to support others.

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    Ep. 22 - Dating in our 50's and 3 critical markers..

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 20, 2024 32:41


    We're dating in our 50's, and individually have been living fiercely independent lives. So how do you navigate the 3 stages of dating? At what point is it ok for the man to pee with the door open? At what point should women be frustrated that another women's toiletries are still in our man's bathroom? Holidays, parties, introductions to friends, family, colleagues, and toss in a vacation, at what stage in dating?

    Ep. 21 - Bartender's are the eyes and ears of the dating scene for singles in their 50's.

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 13, 2024 40:28


    As a single Gen X dating in our 50's, bartenders definitely have the tea on what goes on in the bar scene. You'd be surprised by the reversed perspective they have. In addition, having a guest that's a bartender and single, we discuss the emotional hurdles women with traumas need to overcome to find their future person.

    Ep. 20 - Two Giggling Widows on TikTok

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 6, 2024 39:08


    Widows can have humor about dating in our 50's. As two widows dating at 55, we laugh together as we talk about our experiences and stories. Our hot take on people's predicable reactions to hearing we're a widow, to how lucky we're not in a 30+ monogamous relationship, to seeing the funny and many upsides to dating as widows in our 50's. No subject is off limits as we dive into sexual needs as well.

    Ep. 19 - Olympics training is like landing the perfect dismount in dating in your 50's.

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 30, 2024 32:03


    So what does a host of a podcast do when her guest has Covid? You sit down and authentically answer people's questions that they want to know about you! From politics, French fries diet, confidence, to personal intimacy, I lay it all out there. Watching the Olympics, reminds us of how much work athletes put into that final moment. Dating in your 50's, you go on hundreds of dates to try to land the perfect dismount. You're overcoming the many obstacles to achieve that yellow brick road to the perfect relationship meant for you.

    Ep. 18 - Men are broken dating in their 50's too: My Gen X single ladies you'll be surprised how.

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 23, 2024 45:22


    Society speaks publicly on mental and physical health for women dating in their 50's. You'll never guess how men go from prince to kings and everything in between, yet struggle successfully dating over 50 and why?

    Ep. 17 - Combining banter, chemistry, and friends is dating in your 50's success?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 16, 2024 45:15


    What men dating in their 50's may look for in women. How much influence do friends have on your dating life? Do you look for peace in a relationship and how do you define that?

    Ep. 16 - What's Love Got To Do With It?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 9, 2024 40:20


    463 podcasts on dating! We're getting the scoop from Brian Howie, host of The Great Love Debate. Buckle up, as he shares his personal perspective on the sh*t show on dating in your 50's.

    Ep. 15 - Dating in your 50's from failed marriages, relationships, bedroom stories, and through navigating how to turn sh*t into your golden chapter of success.

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 25, 2024 51:27


    The perfect recipe for navigating the dating sh*t show in your 50's: Yellow flags, insecurities with menopause and dating, body positivity, who comes first in a relationship, failed dating stories, identifying past behavior triggers, to realizing intimacy is great in your 50's!

    Ep. 14 - Widow to Widow: Candid discussions of our journey in our marriage, while a caregiver, through grieving to dating, and starting the next chapter in life.

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 18, 2024 51:20


    Two widows in our 50's, speaking candidly to other single women dating in their 50's who are navigating and balancing grief, while creating your next chapter in life. Including advice that every longterm relationship should consider listening to our recommendations to avoid the unnecessary added stress we endured.

    Ep. 13 - Is being lonely better than actually dating in your 50's? Dating in your 50's with Kids, an added layer of navigating successfully in your 50's.

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 11, 2024 44:46


    Ep. 12 - Non emotional luggage women need when sleeping over their man's place for the weekend.

    Play Episode Listen Later May 14, 2024 39:59


    Ep. 11 - Bachelor vs Bachelorette part 2. Alex is back!

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 9, 2024 50:21


    Ep. 10 - Oh matchmaker make me a match! Well to all those ladies dating in your 50's, and even men dating in your 50's or 60's, learn to look through different lenses to be more successful in dating.

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 2, 2024 49:52


    Dating in your 50's doesn't have to be as challenging as some may think. This podcast will open your eyes to a perspective you may have never thought about, that could yield to finding a forever person. Having an international matchmaker sharing her tips and secrets, is a unique opportunity to hear her advice. This podcast is absolutely one for men and women. You'll see dating perhaps with different lenses. Be open, be vulnerable, and hear what her advice has to offer you!

    Ep. 9 - Three brunettes - a Ménage à trois of Story Time dating in your 50's

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 26, 2024 50:32


    Ep. 8 - Running TO or FROM one relationship to another dating at 55

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 19, 2024 49:59


    When the drinks are flowing out comes the truth. On this Podcast, my guest and I own our sh*t and put it out there in a raw session of "yup this was my sh*t story, you're not alone".

    Ep. 7 - Awaken Your Inner Strength: Gain the clarity you seek and uncover your deepest desires, igniting the fire within you to pursue your dreams fearlessly.

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 12, 2024 49:17


    Ep. 6 - "Your task is not to seek for love, but merely to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it" . Quote by Rumi

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 5, 2024 48:27


    Getting to the route of the negative hamster wheel of dating. In this podcast my guest a licensed coach, Heidi Rain, and I discuss what's really hiding deep under your bedroom sheets! Do you find yourself in repeated unhealthy dating and relationship patterns that yields in failure! You can have the best body, questionable confidence, A game, and outlook on dating but … you're stuck in the sh*t show of negative relationship results. Listen— WATCH, and truly open up to yourself and look within. This is an episode that truly anyone should tune in for! Is it you?

    Ep. 4 - Your saucy and naughty host of 50's AF podcast, finally talks about herself being dumped, and my dumpee, is my guest!

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 20, 2024 45:33


    Ep. 3 - Dating in your 50's repeat after me: "Screw Valentine's Day it's "Single Awareness Day"

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 14, 2024 45:13


    Ep. 2 - 150 1st dates in one year- Holy meat market women and men!

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 6, 2024 40:26


    This juicy episode takes a journey of talking about everything you might encounter as a woman dating in your 50's on a first date. And you thought your first dates were bad? Come laugh and realize holy crap, I'm not alone walking away with these hysterical, but relatable 1st date stories. Men, you too! Hear from 2 ladies keeping it real about how to make your 1st and thereafter dates outcomes a success!

    Ep. 1 - Finding Your Badass “Kitty” Mojo!

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 29, 2024 50:26


    In this episode, through saucy and real candid discussions, we explore embracing and learning how to RESET your existing hamster wheel of everything about dating in your 50's. We address different angles of resetting the vernacular of your dating life through different lenses. Topics include, ways to fall back in love with yourself, RE navigating your sex drive, finding your “everything” mojo back, and how pre dating can result in a more successful dating life while in your 50's. Lastly, we flip the switch of how men need to level up to us, not the other way around.

    Welcome to 50sAF!

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 6, 2024 1:04


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