Elevate Marriages with The Lees

Many find their best friend to be someone other than their spouse. Can you find your best friend in your marriage? We think so and will give our perspective on why we think this is important to a solid marriage relationship.

This topic is one that is grossly misunderstood. Unfortunately, the misunderstanding many times falls with husbands BUT the wives are not exempt. We discuss our opinions on this notable and somewhat controversial topic that so many deal with in marriage.

Maybe that is what the offender would like to say, but we ALL know that this isn't the case. You cheat, it's all on you. The Lees uncover some of the reasons a cheater may use to try to, albeit ridiculous, justify their actions.

MONEY MONEY MONEY MONEY!!! It can be an issue, IF you allow it. He who makes the money makes the rules right? Do you share a bank account? The Lees discuss this critical topic and give their insight on how this should look in your marriage. New Video TONIGHT 7PM! Subscribe on YOUTUBE and turn on notifications

When a husband and wife know and respect each other's needs, choices, and freedom they can be vulnerable with each other know that TRUST is in place. Boundaries in Marriage give couples guidelines to keep things in order and that TRUST in line, which will lead to a better relationship. What are your thoughts? Do you have boundaries set in your marriage?

Are You Fighting Fair in Your Marriage Well, do you? Or do you just say whatever will hurt the most at the time? Do you feel guilty about it the next day? Listen to how to navigate this hurdle that will come in EVERY MARRIAGE.

Can you rebuild TRUST after it's lost? The Lees discuss somewhat hard but necessary path of Forgiveness to Trust and share some tips on how to handle this, should it appears in your relationship.

It's a death sentence. No matter how your dissect it, it's not healthy for a productive marriage. The effects may seem minuscule but the long term damage that it causes can be detrimental beyond repair. The Lees discuss their personal experience with this "killer" of marriage and give a Christian perspective on how to navigate through it. #marriage​ #couples​ #dating​ #marriage​ talk #love​ #relationships​ #rebuilding​ #pornography

What is the true meaning behind this holiday that seems to be extremely one sided? Is it true love? Is it a money grab? What are your plans for the day? The Lees give their varying opinions on Valentines Day and also some tips for couples to use throughout the year to keep the dating muscles strong in your marriage. #marriage​ #couples​ #dating​ #marriage​ talk #love​ #relationships​ #rebuilding​ #valentinesday​ #scam

The Lees talk in depth about the inevitable area that EVERY couple will enter. The DISAGREEMENT ZONE. How do you handle conflict? Do you yell? Do you walk away or leave? Neither are great solutions. They share some tips on how to navigate this area quickly so that you can get back to elevating your marriage! #marriage​ #couples​ #dating​ #marriage​ talk #love​ #relationships​ #rebuilding​

Do you feel like you're living with a roommate? The Lees talk about the pitfall of complacency and how it can affect true growth in your marriage. Do you feel like you are connecting? Does something feel amiss? You may very well be on a plateau in your marriage and we want to help you to overcome that "GOING THROUGH THE MOTIONS" feeling. Let us know your thoughts! #marriage​ #couples​ #dating​ #marriage​ talk #love​ #relationships​ #rebuilding

The Lees talk about how you can help or sometimes even hurt the relationship with your spouse. Are you sharing too much with your folks? How can that affect your marriage or do you think it has any affect at all? Tell us in the comments. #elevatemarriages​ #marriagetips​ #marriagematters​ #couples​ #proposal​ #happy​ #cute​ #picoftheday​ #nature​ #marriagebootcamp​ #XO​ #becomeone​ #marriage​ #love​ #smile​ #marriagecounseling​ #happiness​ #marriage101​ #newlyweds​ #marriagetalk​ #selflesslove​ #God​ #success

The Lees talk about husbands who may or may not 'feel' they need to be a part of "the Church" for whatever reason and the importance of them truly taking the lead for the family. What are your thoughts, do you think it's important for a husband to be a spiritual leader in his home? #love​ #marriage​ #couples​ #leader​ #church

The Lees discuss the oh so ever troublesome issue of recurring "discussions" about the SAME THING. It happens to all of us but who truly is the grudge holder, Husbands or Wives? "Are we still talking about this, I thought you forgave me??" Who do you thinks is the biggest offender of this? Tell us in the comments.

The Lees talk about the ENTANGLEMENT of the the Smiths/Alcina fiasco and their thoughts on the entire situation. What do you think about the entanglement? #willandjada​ #augustalsina​ #entanglement​ #marriage​ #couples

Suited Up! Are you putting for your best effort to look good at home?? Are you getting "dressed up" for the world and leaving your spouse with the "hand-me-downs"? The Lees tackle the need for couples to keep things interesting when it comes to "suiting up" for each other. #suitedandbooted #love #couples #marriages #marriage_talk

Are You Married or Single? ONLINE EDITION You are happily married at home and even at work, but online, your profile and news feed tell another story. The Lees discuss how to avoid giving the appearance that you're 'available while out in these internet streets. Let us know your thoughts in the comments! #marriage #marraige_matters #love #couples #marriage_talk #online

Do you think too much weight is put on the wedding ring? Do you wear yours at all time? What's a good reason not to wear it? The Lees give their perspective on how the ring can be a HUGE issue in some marriages. Tell us your thoughts in the comments! #weddingrings #marriage #love #couples #marriagetalk

"Corona-Proof" Your Marriage! Do you know how to “Corona-Proof” your marriage? Do you even know why you’re sick? The Lees discuss your necessary treatment plan for avoiding a bad 'infection' in your marriage relationship. #covid19 #corona #marriage #couples #love

Are you living your married life with a little "baggage"? Sometimes the ones we hang around can become an attachment in our marriage without us even realizing. Choose wisely when it comes to who you allow to be a part of your life as their actions may not always match your intent. The Lees discuss this hot topic and give perspective on choosing the "right" ones to be in your circle. #marriage #marriage_talk #pre-marriage_talk #love #couples

Words that no one wants to hear in their marriage. So what do you do next? Do you leave? Do you stay? Scream? Yell? Cry? The Lees discuss this weapon of the enemy that is formed to destroy marriages and what steps you can take to get your life back on track. #love #marriage #cheating #couples #marriage_talk

Who is the breadwinner in your household? What do you think, should he or she with the most funds make all the rules? That makes them the boss over all things in the relationship right? NOT QUITE! Listen as the Lees discuss why the bringing in the most money at home matters not to your position in the marriage relationship. #money #marriage #love #couples #breadwinner

The Lees discuss the tragic sudden loss of NBA Legend Kobe Bryant and how his life and death parallels the marriage relationship. Are you living your life with purpose? #marriage #couples #love #kobebryant

The Lees discuss this space that we can all find ourselves in at times and how they handle climbing out of these "valleys". Do you ever feel like you just don't "click" with your spouse? What do you do to overcome this in your relationship? #marriage #couples #love #success #elevate_marriages

The Lees dive deeper into the true oneness that is required in marriage and some of the challenges that many couples experience when embracing the true covenant of the marriage relationship. Has your marriage killed 'you' yet? #marriage #couples #becoming_one #love #relationship

The Lees pray covering and peace for you and your family during this holiday season. They also give to you some of their favorite video topics from 2019. May God continue to bless you all! #2019 #newyear #marriage #love #couples

The Lees discuss the oneness concept that should be prevalent in every marriage and how they have handled it over the years in their union. This can be done without losing self identity. Do you think you are 'ONE' with your spouse? If so, how? if not, why not? Please share. #oneness #love #marriage #respect #marriagetalk

You marry, you break up. You get back together, you separate. What's really going on? The Lees discuss the push and pull, back and forth struggle that can come in marriage and how they feel it should be handled. #marriage #love #separate #marriagetalk #couples

Top 10 Marriage Myths The Lees discuss the most common marriage myths and how they have handled it in their own marriage. Is marriage what you thought it would be? Listen up for some great tips!

Stress is a part of life and when two lives come together it can double the amount of stress, right? Well it doesn't have to if you have a game plan on how to handle it. The Lees discuss tips on how they handle stressful situations on marriage. How do you handle yours? #marriage #stress #marriage_talk #couples #love #relationship_goals

Many times in our relationships we "expect" certain things because of how we've seen it done in our childhood homes. If a conversation is never had about these expectations, how will your spouse know that it is what you need?? The Lees discuss how this can become a 'silent killer' in the marriage relationship.

The Lees discuss this topic and give their view on why your spouse is the NUMBER ONE candidate for this position. What do you think?

The Lees discuss this new phenomenon that's been making it's way through the marriage streets. What are your thoughts? Is taking a break a good idea or a red flag in the marriage relationship. #marriagetips #couples #marriagebootcamp #love #marriage#marriagetalk #success #success #happiness #elevatemarriges

ARE YOU FIGHTING RIGHT? Disagreements will come in every relationship, but are you doing it right? The key is to maintain respect and honor even when things get heated. We discuss some ways to make this a reality if it already isn't in your marriage or relationship. #marriage #marriage_talk #love #respect #honor #fight #couples#relationships

Ask The Lees - Elevate Marriages Q&A We answer questions that inquiring minds want to know from our perspective. It's not the Gospel, but it has allowed our marriage to succeed. "You want to hear it? Here it go!" #love #marriage #marriagetalk #elevatemarriages #success

Can You Overcome Failure in Your Marriage?? The road can be one with some bumps in the marriage relationship. How do you handle those bumps? Are you able to forgive and get back on track quickly? #marriagetalk #marriage #love #failure#success

We discuss the pros and cons of leaning on family and friends when dealing with issues in your marriage. What are your thoughts on this subject?

We talk about those things in our marriage that we at times have too much of. What steps do you take to help you stay on track?

We discuss how to avoid the subtle "drift" that can arise in every relationship. Be intentional about spending time together and look for opportunities to connect daily. You won't regret it!

We talk about the importance of keep your marriage at the forefront of whatever you do and be sure to never let "work" separate the oneness of your love. We highlight the Tobe Nwigwe S.W.A.T. Tour and our observation of love through it all. Join us on all social media platforms for more marriage discussion. #love #focus #marriagetalk#relationship #swat #tobenwigwe #marriage #love #marriagetalk #motivation #tobe_nwigwe #swat_tour

HUGE TOPIC that many avoid discussing. Listen to why The Lees feel this important piece of a marriage is a MUST HAVE conversation for every couple.

The Lees discuss that unexpected trench in the relationship and how it can be avoided or how you can can recover from it if it does happen to you. 

The Lees discuss the "unique" arrangement surrounding B Smith and her husband Dan Gasby. What do you think about how he's handling his marriage vows?

The Lees visit the 2019 XO Marriage Conference and give some details on their amazing time there. #xo2019 #xomarriage #love #marriage

Can social media and marriage coexist? The Lees discuss how this can be a blessing and a curse at times if we aren't careful in our marriage or relationship.

The Lees discuss communicating properly even during heated discussions. How are you talking to your spouse??

 The Lees tackle this topic head on and discuss the misconceptions that come with defining husband and wife roles in a marriage relationship. What are your thoughts? 

Do you ever feel like you're in rut? Doing the same thing all the time or maybe not feeling like you've had any time to do something different? Listen to our perspective on why you should continue the pursuit of each other and remember the importance of dating your spouse.

The Lees talk about why they are thankful and encourage you to recognize the same.

LOVE - THE MOST IMPORTANT ingredient in the CAKE Marriage. The Lees talk about Love and how Important it is to have LOVE. It covers all things and is the icing on the “Cake”.

As The Lees continue the journey through The CAKE Marriage they uncover one of Gods great gifts to married couples.