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Learn to meet women in genuinely confident and high-quality ways, both in person and online. The presenter is the author of the book Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (available on Amazon.com). Episodes will have a mix of extra, or special case, flirting ideas and material that didn’t fit in the book, as well as topical content and illustrative examples that further illustrate key principles from the book.Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this podcast and the associated Youtube channel is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards.

Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting


    • Apr 26, 2022 LATEST EPISODE
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    093 - Wasting People's Time

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 26, 2022 14:36


    Wasting people's time.  We are all on this planet for a finite amount of time.  You don't want to get to the end of your time here with regrets.   You also don't want to waste the limited time you have, nor allow others to waste it for you.  In this week's episode, I want to talk about making effective use of time, and in some cases, being protective of your time.     Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (available on Amazon at https://www.amazon.com/dp/1736798405) and anywhere else you find your favorite books.   Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast. Join the conversation at these links, or comment below! Twitter: https://twitter.com/guidetoflirting  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguidetoflirting  Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/  Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/2VrArM2UpWX3Kr7jyHI6NB   

    092 - Hero Instinct

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 19, 2022 11:26


    The Hero Instinct.  What is it?  Where did the idea come from?  And it is something useful for you? Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (available on Amazon at https://www.amazon.com/dp/1736798405) and anywhere else you find your favorite books.   Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast. Join the conversation at these links, or comment below! Twitter: https://twitter.com/guidetoflirting  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguidetoflirting  Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/  Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/2VrArM2UpWX3Kr7jyHI6NB   

    091 - Integrity

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 12, 2022 11:02


    Integrity.  We all have an intuitive sense of what the word integrity means, but we might not agree on precisely what it is.  I think it will be illuminating to do so, so today we will dig into the topic of integrity. Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (available on Amazon at https://www.amazon.com/dp/1736798405) and anywhere else you find your favorite books.   Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast. Join the conversation at these links, or comment below! Twitter: https://twitter.com/guidetoflirting  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguidetoflirting  Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/  Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/2VrArM2UpWX3Kr7jyHI6NB   

    090 - Friendship 101

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 5, 2022 20:05


    Friendship 101.  Are you a good friend?  Are you good friend material?  Do you have the number of friends you want, or no friends at all, or too many friends   If you want to be a better friend, then this is the episode for you. Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (available on Amazon at https://www.amazon.com/dp/1736798405) and anywhere else you find your favorite books.   Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast. Join the conversation at these links, or comment below! Twitter: https://twitter.com/guidetoflirting  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguidetoflirting  Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/  Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/2VrArM2UpWX3Kr7jyHI6NB   

    089 - Knowing Where to Look

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 29, 2022 11:44


    Today I want to talk about knowing where to look.  Knowing where to look.  And I don't mean physically where do you find women in general, that's mostly everywhere in the planet.  I mean where do you look at a person to see the real them.   Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (available on Amazon at https://www.amazon.com/dp/1736798405) and anywhere else you find your favorite books.   Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast. Join the conversation at these links, or comment below! Twitter: https://twitter.com/guidetoflirting  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguidetoflirting  Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/  Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/2VrArM2UpWX3Kr7jyHI6NB   

    088 - Working the System

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 22, 2022 24:31


    Working the system. One of the lessons I have thoroughly learned in life is about the benefits of what I call "working the system".  The world is a tough, competitive place, and you need to give yourself as much advantage and leverage as you can sometimes.  We'll take a look at what I mean by working the system in this week's episode. Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (available on Amazon at https://www.amazon.com/dp/1736798405) and anywhere else you find your favorite books.   Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast. Join the conversation at these links, or comment below! Twitter: https://twitter.com/guidetoflirting  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguidetoflirting Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/  Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/2VrArM2UpWX3Kr7jyHI6NB   

    087 - Travel, Culture, and Learning

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 15, 2022 26:29


    No one has a monopoly on good ideas.  Oftentimes you can find better ways of doing things or solving problems by being more exposed to others, other countries, other regions, maybe other places in your own country or region, other ways of thinking.  Why not let the best ideas bubble up to the top to benefit yourself, your community, or your country.  This week, we will explore this idea from a personal level. Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (available on Amazon at https://www.amazon.com/dp/1736798405) and anywhere else you find your favorite books.   Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast. Join the conversation at these links, or comment below! Twitter: https://twitter.com/guidetoflirting  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguidetoflirting Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/  Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/2VrArM2UpWX3Kr7jyHI6NB   

    086 - Gather Ye Rosebuds

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 8, 2022 18:50


    Youth is wasted on the young.  You may have heard that expression.  If you are a young person, you might think that is what old people say.  If you are an old person, maybe you say that with a sense of regret - thinking of missed opportunities or mistakes from your past.  Today, I want to talk about this concept, and if there is any knowledge that needs to be transferred to the young folks among us, let's talk about that. Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (available on Amazon at https://www.amazon.com/dp/1736798405) and anywhere else you find your favorite books.   Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast. Join the conversation at these links, or comment below! Twitter: https://twitter.com/guidetoflirting  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguidetoflirting Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/  Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/2VrArM2UpWX3Kr7jyHI6NB   

    085 - An Idle Mind

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 1, 2022 13:46


    You may have heard the expression “An idle mind is the Devil's workshop”.  Okay if an idle mind is the Devil's workshop, what exactly are you supposed to occupy your mind with?  Busywork?  What are we supposed to fill our heads with?  Is the answer the same for everybody, or does it depend?  That is the subject of today's podcast.   Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (available on Amazon at https://www.amazon.com/dp/1736798405) and anywhere else you find your favorite books.   Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast. Join the conversation at these links, or comment below! Twitter: https://twitter.com/guidetoflirting  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguidetoflirting  Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/  Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/2VrArM2UpWX3Kr7jyHI6NB   

    084 - 100 More

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 22, 2022 21:24


    100 more.  If you have listened to the podcast for a while, I understand that I might have come off as rather dismissive or uncaring about people who aren't at what I call  Level 3: meaning family wife, partner, children, and your closest friends.  But that isn't the case.  Today I want to share how I think about my relationships with people who are not all that close to me: neighbors, my community, and the public at large. Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (available on Amazon at https://www.amazon.com/dp/1736798405) and anywhere else you find your favorite books.   Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast. Join the conversation at these links, or comment below! Twitter: https://twitter.com/guidetoflirting  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguidetoflirting  Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/  Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/2VrArM2UpWX3Kr7jyHI6NB   

    083 - Gold Diggers

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 15, 2022 12:22


    After watching The Tinder Swindler documentary on Netflix and seeing how the ladies victimized got called gold diggers by some when their story broke, I got thinking about real gold diggers and how you  - yes you - might have to deal with such a situation in your own life.  If you haven't seen that documentary, you can Google “Tinder Swindler” and read the articles that pop up to get the gist of what happened.  Why do I say gold digging might be something you have to deal with in your own life?  Once people will see how well you're doing, you might have ladies interested in you just for the money, and for the security and lifestyle that you offer.  Today I want to talk about how to manage, or better yet, avoid, such situations. Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (available on Amazon at https://www.amazon.com/dp/1736798405) and anywhere else you find your favorite books.   Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast. Join the conversation at these links, or comment below! Twitter: https://twitter.com/guidetoflirting  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguidetoflirting  Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/  Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/2VrArM2UpWX3Kr7jyHI6NB   

    082 - Lessons Learned - Joe Rogan 2022

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 8, 2022 21:36


    I very intentionally don't normally discuss topical or news items in this podcast, but in rare cases when I feel I have insights from a particular event that might be useful for you, I'll speak up.  Today is one of those days.  As of when I am recording this, February 5th, 2022, popular podcaster and celebrity Joe Rogan got into a great deal of trouble, rightfully, over comments that he made in the past.  I have a few thoughts I want to share about this, not to pile on Joe Rogan, but to learn from his mistakes. Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (available on Amazon at https://www.amazon.com/dp/1736798405) and anywhere else you find your favorite books.   Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast. Join the conversation at these links, or comment below! Twitter: https://twitter.com/guidetoflirting  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguidetoflirting  Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/  Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/2VrArM2UpWX3Kr7jyHI6NB   

    081 - Career Advice, Gentlemen's Guides Style

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 1, 2022 18:01


    Career advice.  When I talk to young men graduating college, or men of any age who are trying to change jobs or apply for employment, I am hearing too much entitlement.  I am hearing too little confidence and not enough of a grasp of reality when it comes to what it takes to make someone want to hire you, to see your value.  “Give me a job" is what I am hearing, especially from younger guys out there.  You shouldn't be thinking “I hope someone will give me a job”.  You should approach a job search with the mindset that you need to earn the job.  In figuring out your career, or applying for a job, or competing in business, you need show your value.  I am going to talk about how to do all of that today.  I want to talk about career advice, Gentlemen's Guides style.  Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (available on Amazon at https://www.amazon.com/dp/1736798405) and anywhere else you find your favorite books.   Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast. Join the conversation at these links, or comment below! Twitter: https://twitter.com/guidetoflirting  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguidetoflirting  Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/  Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/2VrArM2UpWX3Kr7jyHI6NB   

    080 - MORALE BOOST #5

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 25, 2022 18:33


    We are two years in to the COVID-19 pandemic, and it's time for another morale boost.   In my own life, I continue to see people cracking under this continued stress and pressure.  Cracking under pressure, that isn't us.   Yielding or compromising on our standards and principles, that isn't us.  We find a way to thrive in all conditions.  But, again, it doesn't hurt for us to huddle up from time to time to remind ourselves of that. Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (available on Amazon at https://www.amazon.com/dp/1736798405) and anywhere else you find your favorite books.   Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast. Join the conversation at these links, or comment below! Twitter: https://twitter.com/guidetoflirting  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguidetoflirting  Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/  Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/2VrArM2UpWX3Kr7jyHI6NB   

    079 - Where to Meet Women

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 18, 2022 22:26


    This week I share a closely held secret.  Many souls have been lost in the quest.   It is time that this sacred knowledge be revealed.  This week I tell you where you can meet available women. Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (available on Amazon at https://www.amazon.com/dp/1736798405) and anywhere else you find your favorite books.   Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast. Join the conversation at these links, or comment below! Twitter: https://twitter.com/gentsguides  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguides Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/  Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/2VrArM2UpWX3Kr7jyHI6NB   

    078 - Strong Women

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 11, 2022 14:05


    Strong women.  How would you feel about your lady being a strong woman?  What if she is more successful than you?  What if she makes more money?  What if she is more charismatic and well-liked?  Are you okay with that?  How would you feel if your partner outdid you in traditional male breadwinner or success roles? Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (available on Amazon at https://www.amazon.com/dp/1736798405) and anywhere else you find your favorite books.   Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast. Join the conversation at these links, or comment below! Twitter: https://twitter.com/gentsguides  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguides Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/  Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/2VrArM2UpWX3Kr7jyHI6NB 

    077 - Dealing with Mean Women

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 4, 2022 11:54


    You may encounter what can be called mean women in your life.   I am using the term “mean” to refer to women, or anyone, who generally rejects or is hostile toward men or all people for no apparent reason and without provocation.  I want you to have the tools to effectively deal with that situation should it arise. Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (available on Amazon at https://www.amazon.com/dp/1736798405) and anywhere else you find your favorite books.   Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast. Join the conversation at these links, or comment below! Twitter: https://twitter.com/gentsguides  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguides Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/  Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/2VrArM2UpWX3Kr7jyHI6NB   

    076 - Daddy Issues

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 28, 2021 16:55


    Daddy issues.  This week I am going to tell you why I think YOU should be broadly spreading and propagating daddy issues to women of all ages.  That's what I do!  I am very much in favor of the concept of daddy issues, using my definition of the term. Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (available on Amazon at https://www.amazon.com/dp/1736798405) and anywhere else you find your favorite books.   Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast. Join the conversation at these links, or comment below! Twitter: https://twitter.com/gentsguides  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguides Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/  Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/2VrArM2UpWX3Kr7jyHI6NB   

    075 - Making Hard Decisions

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 21, 2021 20:25


    Making Hard Decisions.  Life isn't always easy.  It isn't always a walk in the park.  Sometimes it is necessary to make difficult, painful, expensive decisions that you would rather not deal with,  Sometimes the way forward isn't clear - there is no option that is clearly superior to the rest and pain free.  Is there a way to make the process of making hard decisions easier, or less painful? Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (available on Amazon at https://www.amazon.com/dp/1736798405) and anywhere else you find your favorite books.   Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast. Join the conversation at these links, or comment below! Twitter: https://twitter.com/gentsguides  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguides Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/  Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/2VrArM2UpWX3Kr7jyHI6NB   

    074 - Self Talk

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 14, 2021 17:43


    Self talk.  What is running through your head every day as you progress through your day?  Is your self talk helping you or hurting you?  Today I share the top 10 things that run through my head in the course of a normal day to help get me past problems, and motivate myself to do what I have to do and handle what I have to handle. Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (available on Amazon at https://www.amazon.com/dp/1736798405) and anywhere else you find your favorite books.   Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast. Join the conversation at these links, or comment below! Twitter: https://twitter.com/gentsguides  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguides Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/  Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/2VrArM2UpWX3Kr7jyHI6NB   

    073 - Bad Boys

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 7, 2021 13:51


    Bad boys.  Do women really prefer so-called bad boys?  What is a bad boy exactly, and is there anything truly good about being considered one, or being one? Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (available on Amazon at https://www.amazon.com/dp/1736798405) and anywhere else you find your favorite books.   Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast. Join the conversation at these links, or comment below! Twitter: https://twitter.com/gentsguides  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguides Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/  Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/2VrArM2UpWX3Kr7jyHI6NB   

    072 - Fake Confidence

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 30, 2021 8:16


    Confidence.  Be confident. That's what many people will advise you to do you without telling you HOW.  That, and women will simply flock to you if you are confident.  That sort of advice is everywhere, in every self-help book and from every dating and matchmaking guru.  But if you aren't naturally confident person, how do you get on a path to being so? Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (available on Amazon at https://www.amazon.com/dp/1736798405) and anywhere else you find your favorite books.   Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast. Join the conversation at these links, or comment below! Twitter: https://twitter.com/gentsguides  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguides Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/  Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/2VrArM2UpWX3Kr7jyHI6NB   

    071 - Your Best Life?

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 23, 2021 20:07


    What does it mean exactly when someone says they are “living their best life”?  Best life?  If that is such a thing, how do you go from where you are today to this best life? Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (available on Amazon at https://www.amazon.com/dp/1736798405) and anywhere else you find your favorite books.   Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast. Join the conversation at these links, or comment below! Twitter: https://twitter.com/gentsguides  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguides Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/  Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/2VrArM2UpWX3Kr7jyHI6NB   

    070 - Nice Guys Finish Last

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 16, 2021 9:32


    This week I want to talk about the notion of nice guys finishing last.  Nice guys finish last?  Is that really true?  If it is, or isn't, what guys get to win? Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (available on Amazon at https://www.amazon.com/dp/1736798405) and anywhere else you find your favorite books.   Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast. Join the conversation at these links, or comment below! Twitter: https://twitter.com/gentsguides  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguides Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/  Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/2VrArM2UpWX3Kr7jyHI6NB 

    069 - Matchmaking

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 9, 2021 10:24


    Matchmaking.  This week I want to talk about what matchmaking services are, should you use such services, and what would be their value to you given you have the Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting book.  For those considering a career in matchmaking or relationship coaching, should you provide such services once you have mastered the book or adapted some of its techniques into your own process. Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (available on Amazon at https://www.amazon.com/dp/1736798405) and anywhere else you find your favorite books.   Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast. Join the conversation at these links, or comment below! Twitter: https://twitter.com/gentsguides  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguides Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/  Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/2VrArM2UpWX3Kr7jyHI6NB   

    068 - Your Temper

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 2, 2021 17:35


    Your temper.  This week I want to talk about the very practical subject of how to deal with getting angry, or losing your temper. Unfortunately, daily life is filled with opportunities for this to happen, and I want to share how I think about this topic and deal with it myself. Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (available on Amazon at https://www.amazon.com/dp/1736798405) and anywhere else you find your favorite books.   Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast. Join the conversation at these links, or comment below! Twitter: https://twitter.com/gentsguides  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguides Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/  Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/2VrArM2UpWX3Kr7jyHI6NB   

    067 - Reactions to Your Positivity

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 26, 2021 9:13


    Positivity.  Today I want to talk about how not everyone is going to react well to your positivity.  Not everyone will be supportive of you.  Some people might hate or resent your continuous improvement,  either openly to your face or secretly - behind your back .  They might hate or resent your attempts to better yourself.   They might hate or resent your success. Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (available on Amazon at https://www.amazon.com/dp/1736798405) and anywhere else you find your favorite books.   Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast. Join the conversation at these links, or comment below! Twitter: https://twitter.com/gentsguides  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguides Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/  Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/2VrArM2UpWX3Kr7jyHI6NB   

    066 - Be Best

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 19, 2021 15:24


    In this week's episode, we talk about something that happened recently that might have been a missed opportunity, something that had great potential for millions of young people, and people of all ages around the world, but it just didn't get any traction. Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (available on Amazon at https://www.amazon.com/dp/1736798405) and anywhere else you find your favorite books.   Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast. Join the conversation at these links, or comment below! Twitter: https://twitter.com/gentsguides  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguides Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/  Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/2VrArM2UpWX3Kr7jyHI6NB   

    065 - TikTok

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 12, 2021 29:11


    In this week's episode, we talk about the social media platform TikTok.  I am testing TikTok to see if there are any free marketing opportunities there for me that might help me move my stuff for sale, and I while I was checking out everything I started to wonder if TikTok might be useful for you guys.  So today I want to take you through what I found out about TikTok, and run through what I feel are some of its good and bad points, relevant to our topic of flirting and meeting with and connecting with great ladies out there. Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (available on Amazon at https://www.amazon.com/dp/1736798405) and anywhere else you find your favorite books.   Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast. Join the conversation at these links, or comment below! Twitter: https://twitter.com/gentsguides  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguides  Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/  Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/2VrArM2UpWX3Kr7jyHI6NB   

    064 - Real vs Digital Life

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 5, 2021 22:45


    This week I want to talk about something very current - a very modern problem - and that is striking some sort of productive and healthy balance between your online or digital activities and real life.  The draw and appeal of things like Facebook, Youtube, Twitter, Instagram, and online gaming can be so powerful to many folks that it might affect the quality of their their overall lives. Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (available on Amazon at https://www.amazon.com/dp/1736798405) and anywhere else you find your favorite books.   Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast. Join the conversation at these links, or comment below! Twitter: https://twitter.com/gentsguides  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguides  Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/  Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/2VrArM2UpWX3Kr7jyHI6NB   

    063 - 7-Year Itch

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 28, 2021 21:11


    The 7-year itch.  What does that mean, and is it real?  Is your relationship or marriage really doomed after 7 years?  Will it start into some sort of decline? Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (available on Amazon at https://www.amazon.com/dp/1736798405) and anywhere else you find your favorite books.   Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast. Join the conversation at these links, or comment below! Twitter: https://twitter.com/gentsguides  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguides  Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/  Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/2VrArM2UpWX3Kr7jyHI6NB   

    062 - MORALE BOOST #4 - Staying Strong and Thriving

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 21, 2021 18:21


    It's time for another morale boost.   I wish it wasn't the case, but it is needed.  I am, like I am sure all of you are, disappointed that the COVID-19 pandemic is still dragging on and affecting so many people and the economy.   In my own life, I am seeing too many people cracking under this continued stress and pressure.  That isn't what we do, is it? We find a way to thrive in all conditions.  But it doesn't hurt for us to huddle up from time to time to remind ourselves of that. Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (available on Amazon at https://www.amazon.com/dp/1736798405) and anywhere else you find your favorite books.   Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast. Join the conversation at these links, or comment below! Twitter: https://twitter.com/gentsguides  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguides  Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/  Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/2VrArM2UpWX3Kr7jyHI6NB   

    061 - Who is the Better Man?

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 14, 2021 15:08


    Who is the better man?  That is our question for today.  What's the right way to measure?  Can you tell by just looking at someone.  Can you tell by the contents of their wallet or bank accounts?  We dig into this question in this week's episode. Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (available on Amazon at https://www.amazon.com/dp/1736798405) and anywhere else you find your favorite books.   Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast. Join the conversation at these links, or comment below! Twitter: https://twitter.com/gentsguides  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguides  Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/  Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/2VrArM2UpWX3Kr7jyHI6NB 

    060 - Did She Make the Right Choice?

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 7, 2021 8:33


    I spend a lot of time talking about if a prospective lady, or the one you are already involved with, is good enough for you.  Today I want to look at that from a different angle: Did she make the right choice choosing to be with you.  Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (available on Amazon at https://www.amazon.com/dp/1736798405) and anywhere else you find your favorite books.   Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast. Join the conversation at these links, or comment below! Twitter: https://twitter.com/gentsguides  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguides  Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/  Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/2VrArM2UpWX3Kr7jyHI6NB   

    059 - Negativity

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 31, 2021 18:49


    Negativity.  There's an abundance of it out in the world right now and it is hard to avoid.    You can't just ignore negativity, or wish it away.  So, what are you supposed to do to contain its impacts on your life.    Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (available on Amazon at https://www.amazon.com/dp/1736798405) and anywhere else you find your favorite books.   Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast. Join the conversation at these links, or comment below! Twitter: https://twitter.com/gentsguides  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguides  Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/  Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/2VrArM2UpWX3Kr7jyHI6NB   

    058 - Finding Your Passion

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 24, 2021 15:38


    Are any of these questions keeping you up at night:  What am I supposed to do with my life? What should my life's meaning and purpose be?  What am I passionate about?  How can I be more happy and satisfied with how my life is going regarding work, family, and my personal life?  In this week's episode, we look at the topic of finding your passion, and attempt to set everyone on a path in that direction regardless of how good or challenging your life's circumstances are right now. Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (available on Amazon at https://www.amazon.com/dp/1736798405) and anywhere else you find your favorite books.   Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast. Join the conversation at these links, or comment below! Twitter: https://twitter.com/gentsguides  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguides  Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/  Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/2VrArM2UpWX3Kr7jyHI6NB   

    057 - Tonality

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 17, 2021 17:14


    Tonality.  How you say things is at least as important as what you say in many cases.  In this week's episode, we'll go into what tonality is, talk about several general-purpose best practices, and then examine how they might apply to meeting new women, dating, and relationships. Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (available on Amazon at https://www.amazon.com/dp/1736798405) and anywhere else you find your favorite books.   Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast. Join the conversation at these links, or comment below! Twitter: https://twitter.com/gentsguides  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguides  Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/  Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/2VrArM2UpWX3Kr7jyHI6NB 

    056 - Credibility

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 10, 2021 10:17


    Credibility.  Your credibility is your stock in trade in many ways in life: at work, in business, and with your family and friends.  In some arenas, if you have lost credibility, you are done.  In this episode, we take a thorough look at the subject of a person's credibility - what it is and how to manage and protect it. Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (available on Amazon at https://www.amazon.com/dp/1736798405) and anywhere else you find your favorite books.   Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast. Join the conversation at these links, or comment below! Twitter: https://twitter.com/gentsguides  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguides  Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/  Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/2VrArM2UpWX3Kr7jyHI6NB   

    055: Stacking Wins

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 3, 2021 15:19


    I am working with a young man right now who is stuck.  He is stuck in more than one way.  He is fresh out of college, and like many, struggling to find work.  He is putting off moving forward with his girlfriend of 5 years due to his self-perception of a lack of progress toward things like having a substantial and stable income and owning a home.  I think what I am advising him to do might help a lot more people out there, so that is what we will work on in this week's episode. Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (available on Amazon at https://www.amazon.com/dp/1736798405) and anywhere else you find your favorite books.   Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast. Join the conversation at these links, or comment below! Twitter: https://twitter.com/gentsguides  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguides  Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/  Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/2VrArM2UpWX3Kr7jyHI6NB   

    054 - 1-30 Rating Scale Redux

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 27, 2021 25:15


    Today we are going to look back at a women's beauty rating scale invented by comedian Patrice O'Neal.  Patrice introduced this concept in response to a listener's question on his Black Philip radio show several years ago.  We'll knock the ugly, misogynistic parts off of Patrice's rating scale and see if it still has any value in today's modern world. Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (available on Amazon at https://www.amazon.com/dp/1736798405) and anywhere else you find your favorite books.   Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast. Join the conversation at these links, or comment below! Twitter: https://twitter.com/guidetoflirting  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguidetoflirting  Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/  Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/2VrArM2UpWX3Kr7jyHI6NB   

    053 -Conducting Yourself to Best Advantage

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 20, 2021 12:41


    This week I want to share several pearls of wisdom and best practices around communications and conducting yourself to your best advantage out there in the world.  Too many people go through life not realizing how vital effective communications and healthy relationships are.  Don't let that be you.  This advice will work for you for cultivating and sustaining healthy relationships at work, in business, and with your family and friends. Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (available on Amazon at https://www.amazon.com/dp/1736798405) and anywhere else you find your favorite books.   Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast. Join the conversation at these links, or comment below! Twitter: https://twitter.com/guidetoflirting  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguidetoflirting  Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/  Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/2VrArM2UpWX3Kr7jyHI6NB   

    052 - Bold Yet Respectful

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 13, 2021 16:30


    How can you meet a great lady without being creepy or inappropriate in the modern MeToo world?   Opportunities in life to connect with that great lady might pass you by if you are too afraid to act or let the world know you are there, or even exist.  Being afraid to speak up will likely get you nowhere.  Is there a balance that can be struck for well-intentioned guys, for guys with unrivaled integrity?  I say yes, and that is central to our approach in the Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting book.  The book shows you how to be bold yet respectful.  It shows you how to be playful yet impeccably well-behaved throughout the process. Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (available on Amazon at https://www.amazon.com/dp/1736798405) and anywhere else you find your favorite books.   Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast. Join the conversation at these links, or comment below! Twitter: https://twitter.com/guidetoflirting  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguidetoflirting  Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/  Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/2VrArM2UpWX3Kr7jyHI6NB 

    051 - Cheating and Jealousy

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 6, 2021 24:39


    Today I share my views on the general topic of jealousy as it relates to dating and relationships.  I'll start with a true story involving someone I used to know that is an example of the worst possible way events can unfold for someone consumed with jealousy.   Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (available on Amazon at https://www.amazon.com/dp/1736798405) and anywhere else you find your favorite books.   Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast. Join the conversation at these links, or comment below! Twitter: https://twitter.com/guidetoflirting  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguidetoflirting  Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/  Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/2VrArM2UpWX3Kr7jyHI6NB   

    050 - Time

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 29, 2021 14:33


    Time.  We are all on this planet for a finite amount of time.  You don't want to get to the end of your time here with regrets.   You also don't want to waste the limited time you have, nor allow others to waste it for you.  In this week's episode, I want to talk about making effective use of time, and in some cases, being protective of your time.     Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (available on Amazon at https://www.amazon.com/dp/1736798405) and anywhere else you find your favorite books.   Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast. Join the conversation at these links, or comment below! Twitter: https://twitter.com/guidetoflirting  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguidetoflirting  Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/  Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/2VrArM2UpWX3Kr7jyHI6NB   

    049 - Our Survey Results

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 22, 2021 19:02


    I have conducted the greatest survey of all time on the subject of flirting with and approaching women.  Never before in world history has such an impactful and history survey been done.  Today, I share the results with you.    Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (available on Amazon at https://www.amazon.com/dp/1736798405) and anywhere else you find your favorite books.   Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast. Join the conversation at these links, or comment below! Twitter: https://twitter.com/guidetoflirting  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguidetoflirting  Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/  Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/2VrArM2UpWX3Kr7jyHI6NB   

    048 - What She Hopes You Are

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 15, 2021 10:31


    This week's episode is a gift from me to all of humanity.  For this week's work, people are going to erect statues of me in town squares worldwide.  They are going to name schools after me.  I might get a Nobel Prize for this breakthrough in human culture and understanding.  Why might I receive those accolades? I am going to help you read her mind.  Yes, I am going to help you read the minds of the women you want to date, are dating, or perhaps are already with.  Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (available on Amazon at https://www.amazon.com/dp/1736798405) and anywhere else you find your favorite books.   Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast. Join the conversation at these links, or comment below! Twitter: https://twitter.com/guidetoflirting  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguidetoflirting  Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/ 

    047 - Introverted Women

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 8, 2021 10:57


    While I recommend men act in predictably consistent and high-quality ways in all ways and at all times based on the principles and standards from the book, you'll do better in the dating process if you tailor your approach to each lady based on her likes and personality. That is a wide-ranging topic, but today I want to dig into one specific area you will certainly encounter, dealing with and taking care of more introverted women. Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (available on Amazon at https://www.amazon.com/dp/1736798405) and anywhere else you find your favorite books.   Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast. Join the conversation at these links, or comment below! Twitter: https://twitter.com/guidetoflirting  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguidetoflirting  Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/  Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/2VrArM2UpWX3Kr7jyHI6NB   

    046 - Audacity

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 1, 2021 12:08


    How do you work up the nerve to meet someone new? Being a gentlemen doesn't mean you have to be one of those last place-finishing nice guys.  You can be bold.  You can be cocky.  You can be audacious even.  In this week's episode, we looking finding the balance between being bold, and being respectful and honest in meeting new, interesting women. Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (available on Amazon at https://www.amazon.com/dp/1736798405) and anywhere else you find your favorite books.   Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast. Join the conversation at these links, or comment below! Twitter: https://twitter.com/guidetoflirting  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguidetoflirting  Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/   Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/2VrArM2UpWX3Kr7jyHI6NB    

    045 - Dealing with Jealousy and Haters

    Play Episode Listen Later May 25, 2021 22:05


    The world can be a strange place.  People can behave oddly and in ways not aligned with our principles and beliefs from the book.  Not everyone will be happy with your success.  Not everyone wants to see you stack wins every day. Not everyone wants to see your continuous improvement, and your steady progress toward achieving your goals.  Not everyone wants to see how at ease you are with women, and how much fun they have with you and how women generally like your whole approach and vibe.  In this episode, we dig into the subject of high-quality ways to deal with the jealousy and haters that might arise as you progress in life.  My goal in taking you through that is maybe how I think about handling these various situations might save you trouble and aggravation in your own lives. Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (available on Amazon at https://www.amazon.com/dp/1736798405) and anywhere else you find your favorite books.   Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast. Join the conversation at these links, or comment below! Twitter: https://twitter.com/guidetoflirting Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguidetoflirting Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/   

    044 - Paying for Sex

    Play Episode Listen Later May 18, 2021 40:33


    This week’s episode is a bit more raw and edgy than normal.   We are going to take an honest and candid look at the awkward subject of paying for sex.   If you are sensitive or squeamish, you might want to skip this one. Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (available on Amazon at https://www.amazon.com/dp/1736798405) and anywhere else you find your favorite books.   Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast. Join the conversation at these links, or comment below! Twitter: https://twitter.com/guidetoflirting Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguidetoflirting Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/   

    043 - Flirting Ethics #3

    Play Episode Listen Later May 11, 2021 20:40


    Today is the last installment of our three-part series on the ethics of flirting, meeting great women, and dating.  We are going to look at a few more common problem areas that you are likely to encounter as you progress through your journey through the wonderful, fun and rewarding world of flirting, dating, and relationships. And you are going to get useful and realistic advice on how to handle each type of issue that might arise. Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (available on Amazon at https://www.amazon.com/dp/1736798405) and anywhere else you find your favorite books.   Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast. Join the conversation at these links, or comment below! Twitter: https://twitter.com/guidetoflirting Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguidetoflirting Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/   

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