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Savannah and Hillary are a couple gals navigating what it means to date in a city as a 30-something.

Hope He's Not Listening


    • May 29, 2025 LATEST EPISODE
    • weekly NEW EPISODES
    • 58m AVG DURATION
    • 53 EPISODES


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    Latest episodes from Hope He's Not Listening

    Another One Bites the Dust

    Play Episode Listen Later May 29, 2025 48:40


    Sav shares how "Melanoma May" has been treating her and reminds everyone to do regular skin checks. Llary shares her experience going to the Cowboy Carter concert. (And obsesses a little over Blue Ivy.) Sav talks about her trip to Texas to visit Hot Dad, and Llary talks about some of the recent disappointments in her dating life.

    That Don't Impress Me Much

    Play Episode Listen Later May 22, 2025 64:13


    Kylie joins the pod this week!! Llary catches up with her and they fill each other in on some of their recent dating escapades. They cover age gaps, meeting irl versus on apps, how and when to ego check a guy, and how to communicate preferences.

    From Superfine to Situationships

    Play Episode Listen Later May 9, 2025 61:23


    Sav and Llary discuss some of their favorite looks from the Met Gala. They share some content from the week. Sav shares what it's been like for Hot Dad to discover one of her favorite movie franchises. Llary gives some updates about why she has cut things off with some of the guys she's been seeing.

    To Catch (Feelings) or Not to Catch

    Play Episode Listen Later May 1, 2025 49:56


    Llary and Sav share their weekend experiences, including some chaotic moments. They discuss some of the content they've been enjoying lately. Sav discusses her relationship and Llary gives some details on a recent date. They explore communication dynamics within dating.

    Dating Dynamics

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 24, 2025 55:54


    This week Llary and Sav are catching up on what's been happening in their lives. Sav shares some of her reactions to the most recent episode of The Last of Us, while Llary shares some takeaways from the newest Titanic documentary. Sav shares a sweet, unexpected interaction. Llary gives some updates on the guys she's been seeing and all the dynamics she's trying to dissect there.

    Something About a Slow Burn With Corbin

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 17, 2025 65:12


    Sav and Llary are joined by Corbin again! The three discuss the magic of a slow burn while sharing some dating updates. Then Corbin and Llary tell Sav about a recent blind dating event they attended in New York.

    Birthday Trips & Dating Rosters

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 11, 2025 48:17


    This week Sav shares how her recent birthday trip went being able to visit Hot Dad, including an unexpected birthday text she received. Llary breaks down some of her feelings about the guys she's dating right now.

    Dating Debrief With Jillian

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 3, 2025 60:44


    This week Llary talks to her sister Jillian about her recent dating life.

    March Madness

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 31, 2025 51:50


    Forget basketball, we're here to talk about our version of March Madness - which includes a lot of dates for Llary. Sav and Llary talk about the end of Sav's trip in New York, the dates Llary has gone on recently, and how Sav is feeling about communication with Hot Dad.

    (Dating) Luck of the Irish

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 20, 2025 48:16


    This week Llary recaps her birthday and the girls talk about Sav's trip to NYC over the weekend. They debrief some of Llary's recent dates and how she's feeling about dating in general.

    Meet the Manel!!

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 14, 2025 70:08


    This week Sav and Llary are joined by some friends. DeeJay, Lorenzo, and Jose join the pod to give some guys' perspectives on dating topics and questions. They give Llary input on her situationship with Trivia Guy. Then they discuss questions like how to recognize what a guy is looking for, whether they agree with the phrase "If he wanted to he would", and how to make the first move as a woman.

    Sizzling Scandals

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 27, 2025 65:22


    Llary and Sav commiserate over a challenging week. Then they get into some dating scandals, both from real life and fiction. Sav does a review of the layered scandals happening throughout the plot of Something Borrowed, while Llary shares the plot and timeline of the relationship between Stevie Nicks and Lindsey Buckingham.

    These Are a Few of Our Favorite Things

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 21, 2025 68:34


    Sav and Llary discuss how they spent their Valentines Day. They reflect on the Super Bowl halftime show and other content they've been enjoying. Llary shares some details about an upcoming date. Then they dive into some of their favorite products, including hair care, skin care, and makeup.

    For the Girls

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 13, 2025 59:35


    Happy Galentines Day! Llary and Sav talk about their pre-Super Bowl thoughts and share who they're rooting for. Llary recaps seeing Romeo & Juliet on Broadway. Sav shares a very fun update from seeing Hot Dad in Utah. Llary shares one of the more unhinged openers she used on Bumble this week. They speak about Cowboy Carter winning album of the year. Then they jump into all things Galentines-coded. They discuss some of their favorite chick flicks, pop songs, and female friendships.

    Searching for a Sneaky Link

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 31, 2025 53:11


    Sav and Hillary are joined again by Callie, who walks them through some of her recent attempts to find a sneaky link.

    What Not to Say to Single People

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 24, 2025 62:42


    In this episode Llary and Sav catch up on some content they've been consuming, then dive into the worst advice or feedback single people receive. They draw from their own experiences, as well as crowd sourcing and reviewing some of those answers.

    Welcome Back!!

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 10, 2025 54:44


    Lllary and Sav catch up on what they've each been up to for the holidays and some of their hopes for the new year.

    Our Year In Music

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 23, 2024 53:24


    After sharing some dating updates, Llary and Sav dive into their Spotify Wrapped and Apple Music Replay and look back at their favorite music of 2024.

    Holding Space for Wicked

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 11, 2024 70:36


    Llary and Sav discuss the recent Wicked movie and some of their thoughts and impressions after both having seen it twice.

    Cute Chaos

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 28, 2024 33:55


    Sav and Llary have a quick, cozy chat before bed and update each other one their dating lives.

    Things Are Going Well

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 21, 2024 49:28


    Sav and Llary catch up on each other's dating lives and give each other input.

    HHNL Goes to Therapy

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 13, 2024 69:39


    This week we're joined by Lauren Larkin, a licensed mental health therapist in New York City. Lauren gives Llary and Sav some input on their current dating lives and answers some of their questions about dating and relationships. Follow Lauren on TikTok and Instagram using @leltherapy for therapy-related topics!

    Exploring Our Enneagrams

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 6, 2024 49:50


    This week Sav and Llary each give some dating updates and then take the enneagram quiz together. They discuss their results, including what they agree and disagree with, and how their results could apply to their dating lives.

    A Cute Little Update

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 30, 2024 38:44


    This week Sav and Llary catch up on some of the things on their mind lately and each give a bit of an extended dating update.

    Music and Lyrics (Part Two)

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 23, 2024 51:38


    Sav and Llary give each other some dating updates and then take a trip down memory lane by sharing specific songs and the things those songs remind them of.

    Mormon Myths With Meg

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 16, 2024 56:36


    Sav and Llary chat with Llary's friend, Meg. (Partly while staying with Meg at her house in Ireland and partly after returning home.) Meg brings the gals some of the myths she's heard about Mormons, and Sav and Llary set the record straight with a mix of giggles and gasps.

    Teenage Twilight Dreams

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 11, 2024 59:36


    Llary and Sav both give each other some long-awaited dating updates. After catching up, they revisit their teenage obsession with Twilight. They laugh about swooning over sparkly vampires and reflect on the saga's cultural impact. From swooning over Edward to realizing that stalking isn't romantic, they explore how their ideas about love have evolved.

    Speed Dating With Ching

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 2, 2024 67:24


    This week Sav and Llary chat with their friend Ching. Hillary and Ching tell Sav about a speed dating event they attended in New York City!

    Fictional Boyfriends

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 25, 2024 59:36


    This week Hillary and Sav discuss some of their favorite boyfriends from fictional media including books, TV, and movies. They grade many well-known boyfriends from popular rom-coms.

    Mormon MomTok Minute

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 18, 2024 64:11


    Sav and Hillary break down some of their thoughts about the new reality TV show, The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives.

    Letters to Our Younger Selves

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 13, 2024 61:53


    In this episode Sav and Hillary consider the advice they might include in letters to their younger selves. They cover various areas including friends, family, career, religion, and more.

    Hinge Live

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 4, 2024 56:34


    This week Hillary & Sav trade dating app profiles to try to help each other find some success. They laugh at some of the classic, cliche profiles they come across and tailor their matches and conversation starters to what they think the other would like. Listen in as they comment from the trenches of what is the modern dating world and attempt to make something monotonous a little more fun. *Identity theft is not a joke* (But what if it is)

    But Daddy I Love Him!

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 28, 2024 64:39


    This week Sav and Llary are joined by Hillary's cousin, Kat, and you might wanna buckle up because they're about to share some takes that are… interesting. The trio discusses their “hear me out” crushes. Listen as they try to defend some of their preferences which probably aren't shared by the masses. Whether it's psychotic tendencies, quirky physical features, or problematic beliefs and actions, apparently it doesn't make a difference when it comes to attraction.

    Music and Lyrics

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 22, 2024 67:10


    This week Sav and Llary share some of the songs they associate with significant moments and relationships in their lives. They dissect some of the lyrics which resonate with them the most. Join them on this musical analysis of the soundtracks of their lives!

    Heartbreak Hotel

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 14, 2024 80:25


    This week Sav and Llary get deep with a special guest. They dive into their own experiences with heartbreak, discuss whether closure is real and how to reach it, and share some lessons learned from past romances.

    To All the Boys *We've* Loved Before

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 7, 2024 57:12


    Llary and Sav discuss their experiences with first loves, both in their personal lives and on the screen.

    Wedding Talk

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 31, 2024 62:00


    This week Sav and Llary break down some of their thoughts about weddings, including the kinds of weddings they've wanted in the past, how their views have changed, and some of their favorite weddings.

    A Chat With Our Sisters (Part Two)

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 24, 2024 64:08


    Sav and Llary are joined by Sav's sisters, Summer & Sarah, as well as her sister-in-law, Keelee. The sisters share some perspective on dating and relationships!

    A Chat With Our Sisters (Part One)

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 17, 2024 55:39


    Llary and Sav are joined by Llary's sister, Jillian. She gives her perspective on dating as someone who's been married for 15 years. Stay tuned for a conversation with Sav's sisters next week!

    Emily Henry's Literary Wonderland

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 10, 2024 58:01


    This week Sav and Llary take a deep dive into the baes and babes of Emily Henry novels. The girls rank their favorite love stories, discuss who they would fan cast for on-screen representations of each of the stories, and discuss why Emily Henry has put the literary world in such a tizzy!

    Hi, Barbie!!

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 3, 2024 69:17


    "It is literally impossible to be a woman." -Gloria Sav and Llary are joined by their friend Anna to discuss the iconic film, Barbie. Yes, that movie came out last year and yes, we are going to still talk about it. The girls share their initial reactions to the film and dissect many of the finer details of the movie, including how it has impacted their approach to dating and life now.

    M.A.S.H.

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 26, 2024 59:02


    "According to the game of M.A.S.H. I played in 5th grade, this is definitely not the life I'm supposed to have."

    So Much for My Happy Ending

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 19, 2024 58:54


    "Celebrity marriages. They never last, do they?" -Donkey

    We Are More Than Okay!!

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 12, 2024 63:38


    "Sometimes I'll start a sentence and I don't know where it's going. I just hope to find it somewhere along the way." -Michael Scott

    Is Astrology Real? I Don't Know, Stay Tuned...

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 5, 2024 90:41


    This week Llary and Sav talk to Hillary's childhood best friends, Callie and Gracie. They teach Llary and Sav about many facets of astrology and give insight into some of their personality traits and preferences. The girls discuss what kind of partners would be good for them.

    Dating Isn't Dead

    Play Episode Listen Later May 29, 2024 59:15


    This week Sav and Llary share some updates happening in their own dating lives. They discuss their types, recent dates they both had, ongoing conversations, and a couple missed opportunities.

    Our Terrible, Horrible, No Good, Very Bad Dates

    Play Episode Listen Later May 22, 2024 60:01


    Bad dates? We've all had em. And if you're lucky enough to be single like us

    Cringe on Hinge

    Play Episode Listen Later May 15, 2024 58:23


    This week Sav and Llary share some of the best (worst) openers they've received from guys on Hinge. They discuss a whole range of tactics they've seen guys use and why they can sometimes be... less than ideal. Sav talks about being on her fabulous trip to London, and as always, they give updates on their current dating attempts and previous challenges.

    Is He Cute or Am I Just Hungry?

    Play Episode Listen Later May 8, 2024 58:09


    Llary and Sav are joined by their friend Corbin. They reminisce on Sav's first tattoo and the way that bonded them. (Look up @er.ink.a if you are in London and want an amazing tattoo.) Corbin shares a recent celebrity encounter. The three talk about weird turn ons - things that may not be attractive to the general public, but which they each individually really appreciate.

    Real World Meet Cutes With Kylie

    Play Episode Listen Later May 1, 2024 63:09


    This week Sav and Llary are joined by their friend Kylie! Sav and Kylie talk about a Hinge encounter that turned out to be a mutual connection. The three girls discuss the irresistible allure of meet cutes in real life.

    Flaws? Who, Us? No We're Perfect

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 24, 2024 62:45


    Sav and Hillary break down a couple of their own character flaws when it comes to their history with past relationships. They consider some of their favorite fictional couples and some of the flaws that may be present in those relationships.

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