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Welcome to The Kinky Conversations Podcast, where consent is king, pleasure is queen, and exploration of sexual expression is the name of the game! Join your host, Zachary Phillips, as he interviews real people to find out what is really happening behind closed doors. Nothing is off limits!

Zachary Phillips


    • Sep 1, 2023 LATEST EPISODE
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    • 33 EPISODES


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    Story Time With Kelly

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 1, 2023 108:07


    On a whim, Kelly decided to jump onto the podcast to chat about all things all things voyeurism, connection, ego and fun. She shares a couple of raunchy and hilarious stories and we both had a great time chatting.You can follow her on instagram: @kelley_marie_smith/Links mentionedUnleash Your Inner Poet - 6 Week WorkshopSupport The Kinky Conversations Podcast via Patreon, or grab a copy of Kink, Volume 1 and Kink, Volume 2, or purchase from Honey Play Box: Get 20% off storewide at honeyplaybox.com with coupon code ‘kinky'Want to be a guest or a sponsor? Email me: zac@zachary-phillips.com or on Instagram kink_sex_positive_2 & nsfw_sexy_memes

    New Kink Unlocked With Jay

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 2, 2023 108:07


    Jay returns to the podcast to report back on the homework set for her on her previous appearance on the podcast:1: Try electro shock play in different areas2: Try speeding up the breath whilst staying in sync3: Recording the sound of impact play and playing it back4: Experimenting with all kinds of unknowns/anticipationWe get into all that and more - including a new kink becoming unlocked!Links mentionedFor Science! With Jay - first appearance on the podcastFreezer GirlYou can find Jay on Medium and on her websiteTake the course, ‘An Introduction to Kink, BDSM, Polyamory, and Other Fun Things'Support The Kinky Conversations Podcast via Patreon, or grab a copy of Kink, Volume 1Honey Play Box: Get 20% off storewide at honeyplaybox.com with coupon code ‘kinky'Want to be a guest or a sponsor? Email me: zac@zachary-phillips.com or on Instagram kink_sex_positive_2 & nsfw_sexy_memes

    Blue Berry Inflation Kink With Ziva Fey

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 1, 2023 92:07


    Ziva Fey is a 29 year old model from the United States who is into Pokémon, rollerblading, video games, Taekwondo, and cooking.We dive deep into the niche area of custom kinks, primarily the blue berry inflation scene from the original Willy Wonka movie. Ziva is on her way to claim the record for the most number of these scenes ever shot!We also talk about the principles of modelling, how to stay safe finding work, and the adult industry in general.Links:You can find Ziva Fey at https://linktr.ee/zivafeyInternet Slut - poem-Take the course, ‘An Introduction to Kink, BDSM, Polyamory, and Other Fun Things'Support The Kinky Conversations Podcast via Patreon, or grab a copy of Kink, Volume 1Honey Play Box: Get 20% off storewide at honeyplaybox.com with coupon code ‘kinky'Want to be a guest or a sponsor? Email me: zac@zachary-phillips.com or on Instagram kink_sex_positive_2 & nsfw_sexy_memes

    Digital Domination With Mistress Jasmine

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 2, 2023 103:07


    Mistress Jasmine Corvina is a professional dominatrix and sex & relationship coach from the United States, who is into running, reading, MMA, dancing and charity.We dive deep into professional domination, discussing the ins and outs, the agreements, and the way she plays with her clients.We talk about chastity, degradation, financial domination, torture, objectification and digital domination; as well as the ethics of such play.We also touch upon what it would take for me to submit, which provided deep insights into my inner world.Links:You can find Mistress Jasmine at mistressjasminecorvina.com or @jasminecorvinaDomination - poem-Take the course, ‘An Introduction to Kink, BDSM, Polyamory, and Other Fun Things'Support The Kinky Conversations Podcast via Patreon, or grab a copy of Kink, Volume 1Honey Play Box: Get 20% off storewide at honeyplaybox.com with coupon code ‘kinky'Want to be a guest or a sponsor? Email me: zac@zachary-phillips.com or on Instagram kink_sex_positive_2 & nsfw_sexy_memes

    Community, Connection & Consent With Avery

    Play Episode Listen Later May 2, 2023 39:07


    Avery is a self-employed18 year old from the US, who is into art, poetry and cooking.We discuss her early entry into the BDSM scene and how she uses it to heal from past trauma; reclaiming her body and the ability to say ‘no' both in the bedroom and in everyday life. She discusses her drive to be as welcoming and accepting of all members of the community as possible; kinky and the more vanilla alike. She also espouses the need to obtain consent and to the effective communication of limits and boundaries.Links Mentioned:Submissive, by Zachary Phillips - PoemYou can find Avery on Instagram: @_avery_jefferson_Take the course, ‘An Introduction to Kink, BDSM, Polyamory, and Other Fun Things'Support The Kinky Conversations Podcast via Patreon, or grab a copy of Kink, Volume 1Honey Play Box: Get 20% off storewide at honeyplaybox.com with coupon code ‘kinky'Want to be a guest or a sponsor? Email me: zac@zachary-phillips.com or on Instagram kink_sex_positive_2 & nsfw_sexy_memes

    Updates On The Podcast & New Instagram Handles To Follow

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 23, 2023 6:50


    Just a quick update about the state of the podcast and to let you know that I have two new Instagram handles to follow (as the old one got pulled down): kink_sex_positive_2 & nsfw_sexy_memesBasically, I have had some personal issues relating to work that will result in me having less time available to record, edit and upload the podcast. This sucks, but is unavoidable.There are some more pre-recorded ones coming, and I will still be interviewing people, but on a less regular basis, until I have the capacity and time to commit to more.If you want to support the podcast (and give me the capacity to release more episodes), please consider signing up to the Patreon.

    Unlicensed Therapy At The Ready With Seven

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 1, 2023 110:07


    Seven is a 20 year old model and graphic designer from the US, who is into skateboarding, surfing, music, and swing dancing.We discuss her journey from a conservative home-schooled family, into success on OnlyFans. She shares her approach of projecting her open, honest, vulnerably and real truth. We also get into some fun discussions auto-sexuality and finding therapy through sex work, sex toy safety, tentacle monster hentai, giraffe porn, cuddle puddles, short stories, and the concept of a submissive suffering for another person.Links Mentioned:The Egg, by Andy Weir - Short StoryOther People, by Neil Gaiman - Short StoryOfficial DFWPhotoShe Sold Love, by Zachary Phillips - PoemVoyeur, by Zachary Phillips - Short StoryYou can find Seven on Instagram: @mynamesnot7Take the course, ‘An Introduction to Kink, BDSM, Polyamory, and Other Fun Things'Support The Kinky Conversations Podcast via Patreon, or grab a copy of Kink, Volume 1Honey Play Box: Get 20% off storewide at honeyplaybox.com with coupon code ‘kinky'Want to be a guest or a sponsor? Email me: zac@zachary-phillips.com or on Instagram kink_sex_positive_2 & nsfw_sexy_memes

    Going Beyond The Bedroom With BDSM With M

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 6, 2023 108:54


    M is a 30 year old marketing executive from Germany, who is into reading, writing and making music.We discuss the importance of open, honest, vulnerable connection, the interplay between kink and body image, as well as the unrealistic standards granted by society and religious upbringings.M dives into how she successfully started a relationship online, how to process conflict appropriately, the freedom of submission and the importance of asking for what you want and need, both sexually and non sexually. We finish with a discussion of collaring, degradation kinks, using words to establish arousal, and how true BDSM goes far beyond the bedroom.Erotic bedtime storiesSmutty poetryReading - short storyYou can find M on Instagram: @written_from.the.heartHoney Play Box: Get 20% off storewide at honeyplaybox.com with coupon code ‘KINKY'Want to be a guest or a sponsor? Email me: zac@zachary-phillips.com or on Instagram kink_sex_positive_2 & nsfw_sexy_memesSupport The Kinky Conversations Podcast via Patreon, or grab a copy of Kink, Volume 1

    Switching It Up With Stacia

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 22, 2023 107:16


    Stacia is a 53-year-old communications director for the United States, who's hobby embracing the ADHD tendency to chase the dopamine hit of finding new hobbies.We talk about destigmatising kink, BDSM, & HSV through open and honest discussions, healing anxious attachment through sex, connection, and internal self-work, sadomasochism, breath play, and how Stacia loves to ‘switch' between top and bottom.We dive deep into how to be a good dom, sub, & switch, including the implementation of new & unique forms of punishment to distinctly dominate, she also discusses how she is ‘self-collared' a mindset we could all benefit from adopting.The Sirens Call - PoemThe Ethical SlutThe New Topping BookThe New Bottoming BookSex At DawnYou can find Stacia on Instagram: @switchy_magicHoney Play Box: Get 20% off storewide at honeyplaybox.com with coupon code ‘KINKY'Want to be a guest or a sponsor? Email me: zac@zachary-phillips.com or on Instagram kink_sex_positive_2 & nsfw_sexy_memesSupport The Kinky Conversations Podcast via Patreon, or grab a copy of Kink, Volume 1

    Want Me To Arouse You?

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 13, 2023 2:00


    From Feb 22nd, I'll be releasing a poem one every day, for 69 days (pun intended).Patreon and Buymeacoffee members will get to read and hear the entirety of my next book KINK, volume 2, months before the general public.Not only that but your support will go along way to both satisfying my coffee addiction, but also to me knowing that my art is appreciated!This offer will be exclusive to my Patreon & buymeacoffee members, on the $5 per month tier - members will also get early access to new episodes of the podcast, as well as a bunch more exclusive benefits.So basically, if you think I am worth a cup of coffee or two a month, this is the best way to gift it!Sign up here:buymeacoffee.com/zacpphillips orpatreon.com/KinkyConversations

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    Becoming A Fantasy With Nikki

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 6, 2023 100:54


    Nikki is a 32 year old content creator from the United States, who is into fitness.We discuss modelling and photography, both the professional and personal sides, as well as the confidence needed for success. Nikki highlights how models can stay safe when finding potential photographers. These lessons can easily be applied to all aspects of vetting in the kink/BDSM fields.We also talk about finding success with Only Fans, the importance of communication, connection and emotional intelligence, daddy domination and the psychology of BDSM, and appropriate gym etiquette around flirting and approaching while lifting! I Want To See You - PoemThirst Trap - PoemYou can find Nikki on Instagram: @nikki_a_xoHoney Play Box: Get 20% off storewide at honeyplaybox.com with coupon code ‘KINKY'Want to be a guest or a sponsor? Email me: zac@zachary-phillips.com or on Instagram kink_sex_positive_2 & nsfw_sexy_memesSupport The Kinky Conversations Podcast via Patreon, or grab a copy of Kink, Volume 1

    All Tied Up With Jyn

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 24, 2023 120:00


    Jyn is a trauma from therapist form USA who enjoys books, hikes, dancing, deep conversations, tarrot, astrology and ‘spooky shit'.We dive into the world of rope play/shibari, talking about its benefits and appeal, both sexually and non-sexually. We focus on its ability to heal past trauma's and of course how fun that process can be.Jyn shares her experiences moving away from 30 years of a religious, monogamous, vanilla lifestyle, into the world of rope and kink. She highlights the lasting impact of shame and how we can move beyond it to embracing our totality.You can find Jyn at instagram.com/galaxy_ropeThe Art of Yoga - bookThe Myth of Normal - bookGetting Tied Up - bookIt's Not You It's Me - Short Story-Honey Play Box: Get 20% off storewide at honeyplaybox.com with coupon code ‘kinky'Want to be a guest or a sponsor? Email me: zac@zachary-phillips.com or on Instagram @kink_sex_positiveSupport The Kinky Conversations Podcast via Patreon, or grab a copy of Kink, Volume 1

    Changing Lives, One Spank At A Time - On Disability & Kink With Joshua And Mary

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 10, 2023 110:59


    Joshua is a 41 year old professional dominant, who is into photography, martial arts and philosophy. Mary is 31 year old process manager, who enjoys singing, disability advocacy and all things Halloween.We talk about the intersection between kink/BDSM with disability, the ways play can be adapted and tweaked to best suit different abilities and needs, the issues around stigma and fetishizing disability, green and redflags.We also dive deep into professional domination, how to ensure consent, the importance of friendships before play, integrity, and vulnerability.The total consent acronym discussed:M: MarksI: Injuries and illnessesT: Triggers, turnoffs, tone, timeP: ProximityI: Interaction and intensityS: SafewordsA: Anything elseLinks mentioned‘Twas The Day Of Harvest End-You can find Joshua here: masterjoshua.com, kinkcollective.net, and Mary here: @kinkabilities. Want to be a guest or a sponsor? Email me: zac@zachary-phillips.com or on Instagram @kink_sex_positiveSupport The Kinky Conversations Podcast via Patreon, or grab a copy of Kink, Volume 1

    Connecting To The Devine Through Intimacy With Opal

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 27, 2022 100:44


    Opal is a 25 year old death care worker/end of life doula and medical assistant who enjoys flower therapy, entrepreneurship, sustainable living and qigong.She discusses tantra, the intersection between spirituality and sexuality, attaining multiple and no-touch orgasms, and conscious celibacy.We dive into the relationship between the feminine and masculine divine energies, the importance of learning how to turn yourself on, the potential to self-sabotage our sex lives, and the re-imagining of sex and life as art.We also discuss gender roles, sexual healing, the impact of cults, and the importance of self love in all respects.Links:Existential Kink: Unmask Your Shadow and Embrace Your Power - bookExistential Kink - websiteMaya Night - pleasure meditationThe Agreement - short story-You can find Opal on Instagram: @the.heart.crackerWant to be a guest or a sponsor? Email me: zac@zachary-phillips.com or on Instagram @kink_sex_positiveSupport The Kinky Conversations Podcast via Patreon, or grab a copy of Kink, Volume 1

    Elegant Smut by the Ethical Slut with Quinn

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 13, 2022 111:07


    Quinn is a 36 year old pilaties instructor who enjoys music, art, food and travel.We dive into ethical non-monogamy/polyamory, discussing how to effectively, ethically, and consensually open up a relationship, as well as how to deal with jealousy, fear, and other emotions that arise.We also discuss Quinn's adventures with an acupuncturist, sexuality as a spectrum, sex as art and therapy and its relationship to life, as well as look at the concept of compersion; both in and out of the bedroom.Links Mentioned:Quinnnspiration (website & podcast)Cant quite express (book)Ethical Slut (book)Husband Swap (short story)You can find Quinn on Instagram: @quinnnspiration-Take the course, ‘An Introduction to Kink, BDSM, Polyamory, and Other Fun Things'Support The Kinky Conversations Podcast via Patreon, or grab a copy of Kink, Volume 1Honey Play Box: Get 20% off storewide at honeyplaybox.com with coupon code ‘kinky'Want to be a guest or a sponsor? Email me: zac@zachary-phillips.com or on Instagram @kink_sex_positive

    She Sold Love - Sultry Soundbite

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 2, 2022 6:50


    A reading and discussion of the poem,She Sold LoveShe sold loveBut people called it sexAn intimate embraceBeyond mere friction of the fleshA listening earA compassionate hugA shoulder to cry onShe sold loveShe sold safetyShe sold an understandingOf the interplay between primal passionAnd the crippling confusion of lifeBy undressing herselfShe undressed their mindsBy allowing them access to herShe allowed them access to themselvesHer body became a mirror to their soulHer movements become a spell of releaseFar beyond the physicalFar beyond the nowFar beyond anything her detractors can giveShe sold love-Sultry Soundbites are 2-10 minute snippets where I talk sex, sensuality, and seduction.They are exclusive to Patreon supporters on the $5p/m tier.

    Satanic Engineering With Jenna

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 29, 2022 100:44


    Jenna is a artist and writer who enjoys scuba diving, rock climbing, martial arts, adventure and anything to do with introspection.She discusses her ‘three times a charm' approach to discovering hard limits, her love of abduction play, the realities of a 24/7 dom-sub relationship, and the difference between ‘hard' and ‘soft' doms.We dive into her kinky engineering skills, ‘fringe' kinks, green versus red flags to watch for, and her new found identification as a sadomasochist.She also shares her proclivity for writing a poem about each lover, soon to be collated into a book ‘Anthology of a Slut' stay tuned for its release!Links:My Secret Garden, Nancy FridayHow It's Going - Short Story-You can find Jenna on Instagram: @damnitjennaWant to be a guest or a sponsor? Email me: zac@zachary-phillips.com or on Instagram @kink_sex_positiveSupport The Kinky Conversations Podcast via Patreon, or grab a copy of Kink, Volume 1Honey Play Box: Get 20% off storewide at honeyplaybox.com with coupon code ‘kinky'

    The Goop Splat With Casey

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 15, 2022 115:54


    Casey returns to discuss innovations in the DM game, the potential of Mongolian Throat Metal as a form of pleasure enhancement, ways to gamify bedroom play, using talk as foreplay, and the potential to create NFT's out of unsolicited pictures.We also talk about the potential for porn to lead to false understanding of real sex, disingenuous online content curators, gay and bi acceptance, and bondage on a budget.Listen to Casey's first episode: How To Slide Into The DM'sLinks:Amon Amarth - Great Heathen ArmyBloodhound Gang - Bad Touch (explicit)Rules of the InternetHow It Started - Short Story-You can find Casey on Instagram: @88caseyjonesHoney Play Box: Get 20% off storewide at honeyplaybox.com with coupon code ‘kinky'Want to be a guest or a sponsor? Email me: zac@zachary-phillips.com or on Instagram @kink_sex_positiveSupport The Kinky Conversations Podcast via Patreon, or grab a copy of Kink, Volume 1

    Untamed Authentic Sexual Expression

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 1, 2022 103:59


    Molly is a 30 year old from Canada who is into travel, hiking, meditation, 420, dog walks, and music.She shares her experiences working in an adult store, her recent foray into OnlyFans - sharing her unique approach to content creation, as well as her use of Reddit forums to attempt to get a third to play with.We discuss the value of communication, consent and the power of asking for what you want, both in the bedroom and beyond. Molly also highlights the importance of embracing our true authentic selves - in whatever form that takes. -Links & SponsorsYou can find Molly here: linktr.ee/untamedduoRead: Jamal's Confession - Short StoryHoney Play Box: Get 20% off storewide at honeyplaybox.com with coupon code ‘kinky'Want to be a guest or a sponsor? Email me: zac@zachary-phillips.com or on Instagram @kink_sex_positiveSupport The Kinky Conversations Podcast via Patreon, or grab a copy of Kink, Volume 1

    Adventures of the Crumbed Sausage Lady With Kiki

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 18, 2022 117:49


    Kiki is an executive assistant and mindset coach who is into travel, cuisine, wine, wonder, and living an unapologetic life.She shares her experiences of making love in a cave in off the Greek islands, on the beach, as well as in a crowded bus, tips for successful outdoor play, the pros & cons of long term lovers versus one night stands, bespoke picture play, nude beaches, as well as the exciting impact of a shared sexy secret.We also discuss mindset, meditation, the benefits of self-awareness and introspection, and gratitude practices; both in the bedroom as well as for life in general.Links mentionedStimul-DoseYou can find Kiki on Instagram @themysticaladventuress_xxWant to be a guest or a sponsor? Email me: zac@zachary-phillips.com or on Instagram @kink_sex_positiveSupport The Kinky Conversations Podcast via Patreon, or grab a copy of Kink, Volume 1

    Leaving My Husband & Coming Out As Gay With Esther

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 4, 2022 115:00


    Esther is a 30 year old music teacher from Australia who enjoys psychology, sociology, self-sufficiency and neuroscience.We discuss her experiences growing up gay within a religious community, diving into the shame, self doubt, confusion, and feelings of loneliness that comes when you are fundamentally different from those around you. She shares her journey of coming out of the closet, and into a happy lesbian relationship, one that enables her to live her truth.We also discuss the connections between the pill and arousal, the impact of adults modelling appropriate behaviours, heartbeat fetishes, feeder kinks, and thinking yourself into orgasm.Links Mentioned:Gary VaynerchuckEye Dilation Study3M Littmann Classic III Monitoring StethoscopeGreg's ConfessionYou can find Esther on her website: fromnarcissismtonirvana.com-Want to be a guest or a sponsor? Email me: zac@zachary-phillips.com or on Instagram @kink_sex_positiveSupport The Kinky Conversations Podcast via Patreon, or grab a copy of Kink, Volume 1

    Embracing The Serenity That Pain Can Bring With Eli

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 18, 2022 105:07


    Eli is a 32 year old math tutor from USA who enjoys reading, baking, anime, and star gazing.We discuss the appeal novelty in BDSM, one night stands versus relationships, the need for respect online and real life, submission in an out of the bedroom & the pre-work needed to be successful, degradation kinks, the dance of domination & submission, signs of consent, and safe words.We also discuss the concept of sub-spaces, with the revelation that it may be a goal in and of itself (non-sexual). We also discuss the interplay between society, family, religion and culture with kink.Trigger warning - parts of this podcast may be confronting for some listeners.-Links Mentioned:Models - Mark MansonVampire Hunter - Laurall K. HamiltonRachel's Confession-You can find Eli on Instagram: @preyplaysgamesWant to be a guest or a sponsor? Email me: zac@zachary-phillips.com or on Instagram @kink_sex_positiveSupport The Kinky Conversations Podcast via Patreon, or grab a copy of Kink, Volume 1

    Playing The 'Harm-Monica' With Anita

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 5, 2022 120:07


    Anita returns to the podcast to discuss her experiences ‘playing the harmonica'. That's right, she did it, she fulfilled the meme!We also discuss edge play, dom voice, size and voice kinks, thirsting over pop culture references, sub and little space, primal and pet play.We also cover feminism in modern America in the context of recent political events as well as how to communicate and recover after a limit is accidently breached.She has resolved to add more instruments to her play and report back on the full ‘orchestra experiences'!Listen to her first episode: Puns, Pay-Pigs & Painful Pleasure with Anita!-Links MentionedHannah's Confession - short story-Want to be a guest or a sponsor? Email me: zac@zachary-phillips.com or on Instagram @kink_sex_positiveSupport The Kinky Conversations Podcast via Patreon, or grab a copy of Kink, Volume 1

    Hypno-Kink & 24/7 Dom Sub Relationships With Miss Caprea Nox

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 15, 2022 117:59


    Miss Caprea Nox is a licensed hypnotist who is into cinema, art, and LARP.She discusses her experiences as a Fem Dom in a 24/7 Dom-Sub relationship, the goal of total power exchange, the Dom persona, private versus public play, and conflict resolution within their dynamic.We dive deep into her use of hypnosis within the context of BDSM - covering how, why, ethics, and after care. We also touch upon amnesia play, no touch orgasms, sub space, and RACK.Links mentionedMind Play: A Guide To Erotic Hypnosis - Mark WisemanThe Mind Play Study Guide - Mark WisemanFemale Dominance: MidoriReading My Mind - Short Story-You can find Miss Caprea Nox Instagram: @caprea.nox and at caprea-hypnosis.comWant to be a guest or a sponsor? Email me: zac@zachary-phillips.com or on Instagram @kink_sex_positiveSupport The Kinky Conversations Podcast via Patreon, or grab a copy of Kink, Volume 1

    Dangerously Attractive Red Flags (Sultry Soundbite)

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 11, 2022 4:03


    Sultry soundbites are 2-10 minute snippets where I talk sex, sensuality, and seduction.They are exclusive to Patreon supporters on the $5p/m tier.-Want to be a guest or a sponsor? Email me: zac@zachary-phillips.com or on Instagram @kink_sex_positiveSupport The Kinky Conversations Podcast via Patreon, or grab a copy of Kink, Volume 1

    For Science! With Jay

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 1, 2022 112:49


    Jay is a yogi from Kenya who enjoys poetry, true crime, and hot chillies!She shares her experiences with outdoor play, syncing with with social events, the love/hate relationship with risk and the discovery of impact play.We talk about self expression and exploration through sexuality, discuss the nature of kinks and how we are all kinky in our own way.She leads me through a slow breathing exercise designed to get you and your partner into sync, and we set her some experiments to try and report back on for her next appearance on the podcast:1: Try electro shock play in different areas2: Try speeding up the breath whilst staying in sync3: Recording the sound of impact play and playing it back4: Experimenting with all kinds of unknowns/anticipationLinks mentionedMy Secret Garden - Nancy FridayBig Magic - Elizabeth GilbertFleeting (poem)-You can find Jay on Medium and on her websiteWant to be a guest or a sponsor? Email me: zac@zachary-phillips.com or on Instagram @kink_sex_positiveSupport The Kinky Conversations Podcast via Patreon, or grab a copy of Kink, Volume 1

    How To Slide Into The DM's With Casey

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 19, 2022 98:54


    Casey is a hair and make up artist from the United States who enjoys photography, baking, and travel.She shares the pitfalls most people fall into when entering the DM's and provides guidance on how to take better ‘produce pictures'.We dissect her experience with an epic house party, digging into the practicalities of FFF threesomes, impact play, and wild outdoor group gatherings. We also discuss the LGBT+ rainbow mafia, the realities of bisexuality, switching, as well as how to pick up in the lesbian community.We end the talk with a handy take home list for people wanting to play:1: Angle and style matter for photographs2: When entering the pile, take a friend3: Bribe the neighbours before a party4: Clean with lemon scented Lysol5: Choose the music to match the mood and don't change it half way through6: Live away from home if you want to have fun7: ‘Up cup' the butt8: When picking up, lean into your nerdy side-You can find Casey on Instagram: @88caseyjonesWant to be a guest or a sponsor? Email me: zac@zachary-phillips.com or on Instagram @kink_sex_positiveSupport The Kinky Conversations Podcast via Patreon, or grab a copy of Kink, Volume 1

    Exploring The 'What If's' With Loni

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 4, 2022 129:00


    Loni joins us for a discussion on sapiosexuality, sex as art and embracing curiosity.We discuss the problem of becoming defined by labels, the ethics of consent, kinks all being a spectrum - rather than a binary category, being attracted to the process of the mind, and the relationship between sexual and mental health.She leads me through the Yoga Nidra practice of ‘Sankalpa', with the goal of channelling the generated sensual energy into all aspects of life. We talk about age play, re-watching movies as adults and deriving new meanings, the positives and negatives of the interplay between the internet and kink, Netflix and chill, and how sapiosexuals have sex.I end the podcast with a reading of the poem ‘Sapiosexual'.-You can find Loni on Instagram: @lonip89Want to be a guest or a sponsor? Email me: zac@zachary-phillips.com or on Instagram @kink_sex_positiveSupport The Kinky Conversations Podcast via Patreon, or grab a copy of Kink, Volume 1

    Listen To Episodes Early & Access The Exclusive Discord Channel!

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 24, 2022 12:40


    Thank you to everyone who is tuning in, the response has been out of this world! So many messages, comments, reviews and DM's!In this episode I talk about the process of becoming a guest as well as some of the benefits you will get by becoming a Patreon supporter!Check it out: Patreon supporters on the $5p/m tier will receive:- Early access to all episodes the moment they are edited (public release schedule is 2/month)- Exclusive access to behind the scenes content & outtakes.- Access to the 'Kinky Community Discord Channel' - connect with other listeners, talk about the episodes, and explore your KINKS!- Chance to interview me on the podcast (every so often I will raffle the chance to do a 'reverse podcast' where you ask me the questions!)- Shout outs at the end of the episode!- Creative input: I will ask for input on who to interview and what to ask, as well as what extra benefits and bonuses to provide here and on the discord channel!-Want to be a guest or a sponsor? Email me: zac@zachary-phillips.com or on Instagram @kink_sex_positiveSupport The Kinky Conversations Podcast via Patreon, or grab a copy of Kink, Volume 1

    Friends With Benefits with Missy

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 19, 2022 85:54


    Missy is a psychology student from the United States who's planning to focus on sex therapy. She talks about her experiences with outdoor play, the link between sexual and mental health (trigger warning), the issues around online sexual expression, ‘non pain' Masochism/degradation play, sub/dom drops, vulnerability, interrupting the mainstream narratives, the logistics of group play, and how to have a successful friends with benefits relationship.On this theme, I share my short story ‘friends with benefits'.-You can find Missy on Instagram: @miss_missy_347Want to be a guest or a sponsor? Email me: zac@zachary-phillips.com or on Instagram @kink_sex_positiveSupport The Kinky Conversations Podcast via Patreon, or grab a copy of Kink, Volume 1

    Horror Movies & Chill with Lynn!

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 11, 2022 85:54


    Lynn is a play space monitor for Edge House, a kink/edge play and education based fetish group. She talks about her experiences with group sex, risk aware play, the importance of prepping and vetting, as well as polyamory and open relationships. She shares some great advice for 1st timers and those wanting to go deeper into the scene.We also discuss the connection between mental health and sexual expression, including the use of BDSM as a way to channel extreme self destructive and risk taking behaviours into something far more positive (self harm is briefly discussed).This podcast ends with an amazing take away that applies to both sexuality, mental health and life in general, “you are not alone”.-You can find Lynn on Instagram: @lynniebunnie36Want to be a guest or a sponsor? Email me: zac@zachary-phillips.com or on Instagram @kink_sex_positiveSupport The Kinky Conversations Podcast via Patreon, or grab a copy of Kink, Volume 1

    Puns, Pay-Pigs & Painful Pleasure with Anita!

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 6, 2022 97:53


    Anita talks about her experiences with submission, Shibari, first times, pay-pigs, different types of littles, red flags, hide'n'seek play, the dom voice, and funishment. She leaves us with a promise to substitute a harmonica for a ball gag and come back to tell all …-You can find Anita on Instagram: @neonnoodlepdWant to be a guest or a sponsor? Email me: zac@zachary-phillips.com or on Instagram @kink_sex_positiveSupport The Kinky Conversations Podcast via Patreon, or grab a copy of Kink, Volume 1

    Welcome To The Kinky Conversations Podcast

    Play Episode Listen Later May 30, 2022 5:35


    Welcome to The Kinky Conversations Podcast, where consent is king, pleasure is queen, and exploration of sexual expression is the name of the game!Join your host, Zachary Phillips, as he interviews real people to find out what is really happening behind closed doors.Nothing is off limits!-Want to be a guest or a sponsor? Email me: zac@zachary-phillips.com or on Instagram @kink_sex_positiveSupport The Kinky Conversations Podcast via Patreon

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