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For Mature Audiences Only. Season 1 Black women and the intricacies of their relationships. Whether it be relationships with your significant other, your job, your kids or yourself. We are speaking candidly and quite hilariously on what Black women go thr

The Milk Chocolate Mess Podcast


    • Apr 12, 2025 LATEST EPISODE
    • monthly NEW EPISODES
    • 31m AVG DURATION
    • 55 EPISODES


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    Latest episodes from The Milk Chocolate Mess

    the beauty bag

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 12, 2025 29:45


    This episode covers skin from the top of your head to the bottom of your feet. What are you doing that makes your glow? What's your secret? And how can we maximize our beauty? Tune in!

    the spiritual bag

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 31, 2025 33:13


    RIP Angie Stone

    Black OUT!

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 4, 2025 18:11


    This episode of TMCMESS were covering upcoming boycotts across the nation! Are you ready to stand up for the cause? A troubled letter has Hosts confused as to what this lady in on

    Bag Lady

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 17, 2025 35:25


    Hey yall! We are back! Did you miss us!? This season we are unpacking all the unnecessary bags we've been carrying. Starting with being open to healing and recieve help. Sometimes we need some help to lighten the load! Check out our Instagram @tmcmess Need some advice? Email us TMCMess@gmail.com

    S5E8 Season finale!

    Play Episode Listen Later May 1, 2024 19:12


    We weigh in on Derrick Jaxson's thoughts about single women.... this guy

    S5:E7 Hypersensitive men

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 10, 2024 21:10


    Trouble for our Truffle

    POP UP SHOW ! Dreamville 2024

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 9, 2024 29:27


    Tia and Jaxx enjoyed their weekend in Raleigh, NC, at the Dreamville Festival! We have tips and tricks, pros and cons to attending the festival. Was it lit, meh. Could it have been better, yeh. But it was definitely an experience. Listen to the show we'll let you know what happened! --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/tmcmess/support

    S5:E6 Body Counts.

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 27, 2024 20:09


    Shondra has a problem keeping her new boo. How do yall feel about body counts? Dealbreaker? Let's talk about it ! --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/tmcmess/support

    S5:E5 Sneaky links and Moving on

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 13, 2024 27:29


    In love with your sneaky link? MOVE TF ON. Your person doesn't want to commit? MOVE TF ON. Don't be in a relationship by yourself, girl

    S5:E4 TT follow up

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 28, 2024 28:04


    Our trouble truffle anonymous lady has answered our questions, and we have something to say.. Also alabama what the fuck are you doing? It's our body it's our choice let's talk about it. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/tmcmess/support

    S5:E3 Pop up #whotfdidimarry

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 24, 2024 27:23


    This episode briefly recaps the 51 part TikTok of who the f*** did Marry in a 20-minute summary

    S5:E2 Troubled Truffle Letter

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 21, 2024 26:05


    An anonymous listener asks for advice on a sticky situation

    S5:E1 Moving on

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 14, 2024 33:06


    HAPPY VALENTINE DAY

    LAST EPISODE...LONG TIME COMING

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 3, 2023 11:46


    Update on where we have been, and new updates about the next season ! We love yall! Follow us @tmcmess on Instagram and follow our personal pages @wildflower_jaxx & @treat_yourself_travel --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/tmcmess/support

    S4:E4

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 18, 2023 26:43


    BIG BOOTY HOES

    S4:E3 Drunken Nights with your hosts

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 9, 2023 25:40


    Will Tia ever be broken from the SHACKLES of the Chris brown bandwagon?

    S4: E2 Online Dating Continued

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 19, 2023 28:55


    MORE about black women and dating online, we've got some stories about this app yall

    Season 4 Episode 1 HAPPY NEW YEAR ! ONLINE DATING 1ST TAKE.

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 6, 2023 39:55


    This season will deep dive online dating on the a popular POC app, the ins the outs and a few in-betweens that we'll get more into as the season develops. #BLK #Chrissean #Blueface #NYE #onlinedating #blacksingles #storytime --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/tmcmess/support

    S3E10 Free Pussy???

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 31, 2022 33:53


    ITS THE FINALE!!!

    S3E9 The Coochie Crook

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 9, 2022 28:34


    Who tf hurt Jaxx feelings? Jaxx opens up about her new dating life. And who out here stealing coochies

    S3:E8 I'm fucking her husband & the reasons women get side dudes.

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 26, 2022 29:31


    Trouble in paradise, our troubled Truffle has marital issues with someone else husband

    S3E7 Nasty TroubledTruffle and opposite sex friendships

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 5, 2022 35:52


    This episode we get a trifling ass letter from a nasty chick. Jaxx and Tia disagree on opposite sex friendships

    S3:E6 TMC Yearbook Superlatives

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 29, 2022 26:40


    S3E5 Drunken Talks with Tia & Jaxx

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 14, 2022 35:51


    The hosts decided to pregame before opening the TroubleTruffle™️ Letters, Jaxx opens up about her feelings on Tia's new haircut

    S3E4 In Love with Multiple People

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 1, 2022 31:46


    Peaches and cream update!

    S3E2: Voodoo Coochie & F*** The 90 Day Rule

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 19, 2022 30:37


    S3:E1 Transparency & D*ck Riding

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 5, 2022 30:30


    S2E12 Spiritual Guide Mo Betta on TMCMESS!

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 29, 2021 23:23


    Mo Betta Motives LLC shares with us, her journey into the healing of herself and helping others ascend to a more spiritually healthier lifestyle. Tia shares her experience with Mo! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/tmcmess/support

    S2E11 mishandled women

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 21, 2021 31:32


    Tmcmess talks on Ciara's "happy booty" and weighs in on Michael Baisden's argument that men have to QUIT mishandling black women. It gets REAL funny

    S2E10 Responding to a male listener.

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 9, 2021 28:22


    Jaxx and Tia catch the sickness over the holidays, and our response to a male listener with something on his chest.

    S2E9 Monetizing The Cat Pt 1... The Why..

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 29, 2021 38:14


    HAPPY HOLIDAYS! Tia has has pretty rough holidays weekend and Jaxx has a great one ! Things get pretty heated when Jaxx opens up about trauma and why she feels like putting tax on the cat. Tia Co signs and gives her 2 cents on how to go about getting your change ladies! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/tmcmess/support

    S2E8 Monetizing The Cat

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 24, 2021 29:06


    Da Baby and Danileigh have some drama that we all know too well. We do not aspire to be baby mothers, nor do we aspire to be left with nothing simply for falling in love. Ladies it's time to snatch the cat back.

    S2E7 -- Girl on Girl action plus a troubled Truffle and her crazy marriage

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 15, 2021 38:56


    Our TroubledTruffle™️ is having some major issues with her husband, they've explored an open marriage & living separately. Should they let it go?? We weigh in. There's some curiosity going on between Jaxx coworkers (peaches & cream ). Tia and Jaxx share their experiences with dating females. It gets hot

    S2E6 Loving who you are; Low self esteem.

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 26, 2021 31:36


    What is Megan the Stallion even doing?! Jaxx doesn't like the hot girl's Halloween costumes. Our main topic focuses on low self esteem and the battle to become a healthier, happier you.

    S2E5 Action

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 19, 2021 26:03


    This episode sheds light on the actions to take during and after your healing process to establish and reinforce positive mental habits. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/tmcmess/support

    S2E4 Acceptance: Insight

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 12, 2021 36:19


    This episode briefly discusses the mishap between Mr. Latruth, Mrs. The truth and DaBaby. Listeners find out that Jaxx knows Mr. Latruth from back in the day. Our main discussion is about insight and seek to understand your situation! Let's Go! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/tmcmess/support

    EP. 3 Levels of acceptance/Interview with @Passion_Froot

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 5, 2021 32:15


    The levels of acceptance saga continues with a woman's brutal tale of scorned love, and the healing process goes through to become a better version of herself. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/tmcmess/support

    S2 E2 Levels of Acceptance

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 28, 2021 30:02


    This episode discusses the many emotions we go through when beginning the process of acceptance after a negative news. We review a crazy troubled truffle letter and tell her how we would handle this scandalous situation

    S2E1 Scratching the surface of acceptance.

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 21, 2021 32:17


    This episode focuses on healing, particularly acceptance of the things you cannot change. Let's level up, accept and move on to bigger and better situations

    Episode 15 : Season closer Troubled Truffle Letters

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 1, 2021 43:49


    What are they teaching our babies in school? Manhattan teacher under fire for "masturbation" KIDS video... we have a few words for her. We are closing out this season with our TroubledTruffle™️ letters. Thank you for listening to The Milk Chocolate Mess Podcast and we will see you again soon for SEASON 2! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/tmcmess/support

    Episode 14 Rekindle Your Romance

    Play Episode Listen Later May 26, 2021 40:59


    Karmic vs Twin Flame relationships

    Play Episode Listen Later May 18, 2021 33:54


    Posha Williams catches hell for new engagement

    F@!# Boys vs Grown men. Identifying toxic behaviors with you partner.

    Play Episode Listen Later May 11, 2021 40:19


    WE'RE RUNNING OUT OF GAS!!! Pipeline cyber attack!! Plus our Fondue

    Episode 11 Being His Peace Shouldn't cost you yours.

    Play Episode Listen Later May 4, 2021 42:57


    Hot topic alrert! New Show VH1 couples retreat. Our Let's Fondue

    Episode 10 Part 2 for the 8 areas of wellness. Individual edition.

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 27, 2021 39:26


    George Floyd has gotten his justice! We made some fun intros to segment topics! This weeks Fondue

    Episode 9 sexual addiction in relationships

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 20, 2021 39:12


    Episode 8 normalizing leaving relationships that do not serve you in the all dimensions of wellness.

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 13, 2021 48:20


    Rip DMX we love you. You were a pillar of our community and a friend in our hearts. The episode talks briefly on toxic traits and characteristics that compromise your 8 dimensions of wellness when dating. Part 2 coming soon! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/tmcmess/support

    Hyper Independent Woman

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 6, 2021 35:02


    This episode briefly speaks on lil nas x and his new "satan" shoes and the meat of it, hyper independent females and the trauma that caused her to become who she is today. Tia gets personal. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/tmcmess/support

    Emotional Accountability & Love Languages

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 30, 2021 38:49


    This episode is about taking responsibility for your actions and emotions in the relationship. We also touch on Derrick Jaxon's infidelity and our thoughts/views on the topic. Thanks for listening! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/tmcmess/support

    Non-monogamous relationship thoughts, views, storytime!

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 23, 2021 33:24


    This episode we speak candidly on poly relationships in the black community, share some intimate views of our own its hilarious! Also we speak on our hot topic; Saweetie vs Quavo and the repo man. Tune in every Tuesday for a new episode. Thanks for listening

    Men & Women staying in relationships they do not want to be in.

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 16, 2021 47:33


    Let it go baby. Whatever the issue if you are not happy in the relationship, and can't resolve the issues making you unhappy, keep it moving. We also touched on Kirk Franklin's ungodly hour, and the Switzerland ban on Muslim women's face and body coverings. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/tmcmess/support

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